->'''Jack''': I guess I love you.\\
'''Anne''': Why, Jack! You ''hate'' women!\\
'''Jack:''' Yeah, I know. But you aren't women.
-->-- ''Film/KingKong1933''

On the surface, it's nice to hear someone say you're special. It's flattering to the ego to hear that you're better than the competition. That might be why this line is almost only found in young adult and teen stories. Writers may not expect teens to take subtext or larger social implications into consideration.

However it's meant, this line can be interpreted as a backhanded compliment. By saying that your intelligence, sense of humor, or independence make you "different from other guys/girls," it's implied that the rest of your gender sucks (compare YouAreACreditToYourRace).

A more tactful person may ease the blow to feminism by saying she's different from other girls ''he knows'' or the kind of girls he ''usually dates''. The inverse of this works as well.

This line is also commonly used with girls with superpowers or some other kind of secret for the irony factor.

Often said by the LadykillerInLove. Compare and contrast ICantBelieveAGuyLikeYouWouldNoticeMe. Related but distinct tropes include RealWomenNeverWearDresses, MadonnaWhoreComplex, MakeupIsEvil, BeautyIsBad, and SlutShaming. A FemaleMisogynist may describe ''herself'' this way.


[[folder: Film ]]

* ''Film/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'': At the high school dance, [[strike:James Dean]] Luke Perry's character delivers this line to Buffy, she denies it while clutching a wooden stake as they slow dance.
* ''Film/EllaEnchanted''
-->'''Prince Charmont:''' Ella of Frell, you're not like other girls.\\
'''Ella:''' You have no idea.
* In ''Film/OperationPetticoat'', the chief, who doesn't like the idea of women on boats, finally gets to see the good side of the Chief Nurse and says, "You're not like other women. You're an engineer."
* Naveen's [[DiggingYourselfDeeper bungled attempt]] to propose to Tiana in ''Disney/ThePrincessAndTheFrog'' has him attempting to show her [[LadykillerInLove how much she means to him]] by saying that, rather than being like the "thousands" of women that he's gone out with, Tiana's different because she's "one of the guys".
* ''Film/KingKong1933'' doesn't even try to hide the misogyny in the above-quoted exchange. To be fair, [[ValuesDissonance it was the 30s]].


[[folder: Literature ]]

* Peaceable in ''Literature/TheSherwoodRing'' proposes to Barbara (after she's tricked him into drinking sleeping drops) specifically because she's the only woman he's met who didn't act stupid in front of him. In Peaceable's defense, acting ditsy was the fashion among young women at the time. "I refuse to marry until I meet a woman as intelligent as I am--and not before." Point proven, Barbara.
* Subverted--in fact, run through with a sword, repeatedly and with prejudice--in all books of the ''Literature/TortallUniverse'' by Tamora Pierce. The books are FeministFantasy, but it's pointed out multiple times over the series that there are many kinds of girls in the world and that being one is ''nothing'' to be ashamed of, whether you're TheChick or an ActionGirl.
* Shay says this to Calla in the YA novel ''Wolfsbane''. Though he's a bit more specific than the norm in that he only says she's not like other girls he's dated.


[[folder: Live Action TV ]]

* ''Series/OctoberRoad'' episode "How to Kiss Hello":
-->'''Eddie Latekka:''' You know what? You're not like the other girls I usually date. You're smart and funny and beautiful inside and out.
* In the ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries'' pilot, "The Cage", Captain Pike says this about Number One.
-->'''Number One''': She's replacing your former yeoman, sir. \\
'''Pike''': She does a good job, all right. It's just that I can't get used to having a woman on the bridge. No offense, Lieutenant. You're different, of course.
* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'' - in the very early "Witch" episode, Buffy, all loopy under a spell, is acting affectionate toward Xander, to Willow's dismay. When she says "You're not like other boys at all." Xander smiles modestly; when she adds "You are like, completely, totally one of the ''girls!'' I'm ''that'' comfy with him!" his expression drops, and Willow smiles (he had said the same thing to her earlier).


[[folder: Manga and Anime ]]

* [[ImprobableWeaponUser Kodachi]] meets [[GenderBender Ranma]] for the first time in ''Manga/RanmaOneHalf'' and remarks, "You're no ordinary girl."


[[folder: Music ]]

* In the music video for "Music/{{Thriller}}", Music/MichaelJackson asks a girl to go steady with him. He then tells her the gender flip of this trope "I'm not like other boys." She responds "I know! That's why I love you!" [[AndThenJohnWasAZombie And then Michael was a werecat.]]


[[folder: Web Original ]]

* ''[[http://marysueproblems.tumblr.com Mary Sue Problems]]'' has [[http://marysueproblems.tumblr.com/tagged/not-like-other-girls a lot]] [[http://marysueproblems.tumblr.com/tagged/special-snowflake of jokes]] about Mary Sues saying they're this. She even did [[http://marysueproblems.tumblr.com/post/30472003888 one]] [[GenderInvertedTrope for]] {{Marty Stu}}s. The writer for the blog has discussed the [[FemaleMisogynist internalized misogyny]] behind it, [[IJustWantToBeSpecial the desire to be unique]], and other reasons behind this trope. [[http://marysueproblems.tumblr.com/post/38404910157/on-not-like-other-girls She also discussed why we shouldn't hold ourselves to this standard.]]
* The series "Stuff Your Mom Never Told You" (part of How Stuff Works) deconstructs this trope and discusses it's UnfortunateImplications. [[https://youtu.be/FeyQB2ENv8E Basically no girl is like other girls and other girls are not like one another]].


[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* Louise Belcher on ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'' cops this attitude, but often times it's hinted to be immaturity rather than superiority. She's only nine, and when she develops her first crush on a boy she seems legitimately terrified by her own feelings; she ends up being in awe of Tina's ability to crush on guys and not lose her shit.
** Her brother Gene is a gender-inverted version of this. He's seen hanging with guys and doesn't ''hate'' other boys his age, but he's made a lot of comments about preferring the friendship of women and even considering himself "one of the girls".