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->"Karen, ''all straight people age.''"
--> -- '''Jack [=McFarland=]''', ''[[Series/WillAndGrace Will & Grace]]''

LGBT characters are becoming more common on TV. However, they are still generally pretty young. This may be tied to the fact that characters over 50, whether gay, bisexual, straight, or asexual, rarely discuss (much less ''have'') sex at all on television, as well as such people having grown up in a time very hostile to openly LGBT people.

Obviously not at all TruthInTelevision, but slightly justified in that most people from older generations grew up in a time where the expectation to being straight was so unquestionable, that many gay people lived their lives pretending to be straight and/or suppressing any homosexual urges, and are just now beginning to come out of the closet. In this past of such strict taboo, NobodyIsGay was the more straightforward assumption. So now, Nobody '''Over 50''' Is Gay. Even {{Heteronormative Crusader}}s generally acknowledge that gay people of diverse age exist, but that they should GetBackInTheCloset -- only those more strictly isolated from this information (such as older generations in the past, or media-restrictive religious communities) may actually fail to fathom the existence of gay people in their midst.

This trope even applies in gay media, due to a heavy focus on youth and conventional beauty. If older gays appear at all, it's mostly to mentor the younger heroes or lecherously chase after them. This trope doesn't really apply in the UnitedKingdom, however, thanks to a lot of publicity from celebrities such as StephenFry and EltonJohn. In the US, this trope is slowly fading as openly gay celebs get older.

See also NoBisexuals. Combine the two, and can anyone name a single bisexual over 50 in fiction? (Besides [[Series/{{Torchwood}} Captain Jack Harkness]], who is well over 2000 and is an ExtremeOmnisexual played by a forty-year-old.) Someone who intends to enforce that no one must be gay (or that [[GetBackInTheCloset gay people must be invisible]]) is a HeteronormativeCrusader. When gay people ''are'' well understood to exist but are routinely swept away from mention in mixed company, it is GetBackInTheCloset.

Since this trope is prominent, please only add [[PlayingWithATrope notable exceptions]].
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!!Exceptions

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[[folder:Advertising]]
* Averted in a TV ad for Website/{{Google}} Chrome featuring LGBT people reassuring a character coming out over the Internet. Among them is a man who looks to be in his seventies who says, "It just gets better with age."
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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* In ''LightNovel/FullMetalPanic'', [[BigBad Gauron]] looks to be around 50, and is [[StalkerWithACrush very gay for Sousuke]]. Apparently, even at that age, he has no problems talking about his sexual fantasies to Sousuke (who reacts like any normal teenager would, {{Squick}}ing at TooMuchInformation). Of course, it's even more disturbing for him, since Gauron's fantasies involve him -- or, more accurately, [[ILoveTheDead his corpse]].
* An elderly lesbian couple show up in the GirlsLove {{manga}} ''{{Ame-iro Kouchakan Kandan}}'' and comment about the tea shop owner's growing attraction to her employee. [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming The elderly couple admit that they've been together for 50 years.]]
* The old merchant Yamatoya in ''PeacemakerKurogane''. He rapes Suzu after picking him up off the streets, as well as two twin kitty boys.
* Old Lord Trancy from episode 8 in ''[[Manga/BlackButler Black Butler II]]'' who rapes Alois and possibly other young boys as well.
** [[ShotaCon Baron Kelvin]] in the manga. Though he might be more of a case of SingleTargetSexuality for Ciel.
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* Steve Traynor, the police captain in ''TopTen'', is around 50-60 years old, and is gay (albeit largely closeted). His boyfriend, Wulf, is about five-to-ten years older. They were WWII super-heroes, and started seeing each other when Steve, a.k.a. Jetlad, was 16.
* Ray Monde in ''ComicBook/{{Hellblazer}}'' is an elderly gay man who is friends with the protagonist, John Constantine.
** For that matter, Constantine himself is [[BiTheWay bisexual]] and has ([[WebcomicTime sort of]]) aged in real time, he was calculated to have turned 56 on May 10, 2009.
* Alex Burgess and Paul [=McGuire=] in ''ComicBook/TheSandman'', though they're young on their first appearance and age over the course of the story.
* [[UltimateMarvel Ultimate]] Edwin Jarvis, Tony Stark's butler.
* Played with with the guy who turns out to be [[spoiler:the murderer]] in ''ComicBook/GreenArrow: Quiver.'' [[spoiler: He wasn't actually gay, just faking to earn the sympathy of the title character.]]
* In ''ComicBook/{{Circles}}'', Paulie is well over 50 and gay. He also has AIDS.
* Steve "ComicBook/CaptainAmerica" Rogers' childhood best friend, Arnie Roth, was revealed to be gay when the two met up again for the first time since UsefulNotes/WorldWarII. As Steve was born in 1917, and the meeting occurs in 1982, Arnie was probably around 65 at the time.
* It was eventually revealed that two of Creator/MarvelComics's WWII heroes, the Destroyer and Union Jack, were lovers before the war and kept up the relationship while fighting the Nazis.
* As most of the cast are lesbians who, unlike some comic strip characters, age, this is naturally averted in Alison Bechdel's ''ComicStrip/DykesToWatchOutFor''. Most of the regular characters are now pushing middle age, and Sydney had an ongoing affair with her former literature professor Madeleine who is probably in her 60s.
* [[AlbanyAndSturgess Francis Albany and Olivia Sturgess]].
* [[Comicbook/XMen Destiny and Mystique]] are bisexual, though the latter doesn't naturally age, so it's easy to forget she's almost 100.
* In ''SmallFavors'', Sage is interested in meeting a cute girl for sex and romance, somehow not noticing that she's in an ImprobablyFemaleCast '''and''' that some of those she passes by are checking her out with obvious attraction. And then she sits on a park bench and we see that the fifty-plus woman at one end of the bench is picturing Sage naked.
* Brian from ''ComicBook/LockeAndKey''.
* In the ''Magazine/DoctorWhoMagazine'' story "The Woman Who Sold the World", it's all but outright stated that the two elderly women the plot focuses on are partners. The collected edition confirms it and notes that the story was written before Gridlock gave us the Cassinis.
* Wolverine, of all people, is this in the ''X-Treme X-Men'' alternate universe, where he's the same age as his mainstream universe counterpart (making him over 100 years old) and in a relationship with Hercules.
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[[folder:Fan Fiction]]
* [[http://cartoon.adultfanfiction.net/story.php?no=600092598&chapter=17 This]] WesternAnimation/{{Gargoyles}} fanfic briefly features a gay gargoyle named Kashi. He is 120 years old. (That's 60 in "gargoyle years")
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[[folder:Films]]
* The hero's quasi-mentor figure in French comedy ''The Closet'' is gay and quite old.
* [[GettingCrapPastTheRadar Never explicitly stated]], but in ''[[Film/HowTheGrinchStoleChristmas The Grinch]]'', it's implied that the Grinch was adopted by two older lesbians.
* In ''Film/VictorVictoria'', Carroll "Toddy" Todd is clearly over 50. His age isn't mentioned exactly, but there were a few "old queer" comments he made about himself and the actor playing him was 63 when it was filmed.
--> "There's nothing more inconvenient than an old queen with a head cold."
* ''Film/TheBirdcage,'' or ''La Cage aux Folles,'' the French movie that it was a remake of; both movies very prominently featured middle aged gay couples. The major plot point of the movie being of course that these older gay men understand very well the "expectation to be straight" of their son's prospective parents-in-law (even though they have been 'out' all their lives) and attempt to 'play it straight' for them.
** [[StraightGay Armand]] deserves an additional mention for being a [[BiTheWay bi-curious]] 50+ homosexual.[[note]]He identifies as gay, but has had sex with his ex-girlfriend, and nearly sleeps with her again in the French original.[[/note]]
* The 2007 remake of ''Film/{{Poseidon}}'' had a number of middle-aged gay men on board the ship, having attended as a group.
* ''The Broken Hearts Club: A Romantic Comedy'' has John Mahoney and his partner.
* [[spoiler: Eddie Argo]] in ''WΔZ''.
* ''FoolsGold'' (2008) featured a couple of middle-aged gay chefs who'd been together for years.
* Though the character lacks screen time on account of it being his funeral, the family patriarch in ''DeathAtAFuneral'' had been secretly seeing a man (played by Peter Dinklage) for some time before his death.
* In the British comedy ''FourWeddingsAndAFuneral'', a boisterous charismatic party lion played by Simon Callow in his mid-forties [[BuryYourGays drops dead from heart failure]] during the third wedding, which leads to the titular funeral and the very moving eulogy given by his male partner.
* In ''Film/{{Shortbus}}'': Ceth speaks with a man named Tobias while at the club. He says he used to be the mayor of New York, is quite old, and talks about what it was like to hold that office while gay and closeted during the AIDS epidemic, among other things.
* A particularly brutal example of this trope in ''Film/{{Milk}}'', about [[TruthInTelevision real-life]] [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Milk Harvey Milk]]. He was murdered before he turned 49, along with the pro-gay rights mayor, George Moscone.
** The trope is slightly [[LampshadeHanging lampshaded]] early in the film with "Harvey, you are too old to be a hippie!"
* In ''Film/BoatTrip'' by, of all people, Roger Moore. He plays a gay man in his late 60s.
* In the movie ''TheKidsAreAllRight'' Annette Bening, who was 51, played one member of a lesbian couple. Her partner was played by JulianneMoore, who was 49.
* In ''Film/GodsAndMonsters'', the gay actor Creator/IanMcKellen plays the real-life gay film director James Whale (most famous for directing the [[Film/{{Frankenstein1931}} 1931 movie adaptation]] of ''Literature/{{Frankenstein}}''), who develops feelings for his young gardener (played by Creator/BrendanFraser). [=McKellen=] was 59 when the movie was released, and Whale in the movie is even older.
* Christopher Plummer's character in the Ewan [=McGregor=] film ''Beginners'' is a septuagenarian who came out after his wife died and embraces the gay lifestyle, even taking in a younger man as a lover.
* The documentary "Valentino: the Last Emperor", which focuses on Italian designer Valentino and his business partner/life partner, with whom the designer has been in a relationship with for nearly 50 years.
* ''Avant que j'oublie'' (''Before I Forget''), which is all about aging as a gay man.
* In a deleted scene from ''LoveActually'', Bernard's headmistress going home to her sick partner to tell her all about her day.
* ''101 Reykjavík''. Two middle-aged women fall in love and have a kid.
* In ''{{Bent}}'', Max has a conversation in the park with his Uncle Freddie, who is a closeted gay man. Ofcourse this takes place in 1930's NaziGermany so it's a tad understandable.
* ''Film/JEdgar'' depicts John Edgar Hoover and his deputy Clyde Tolson as two men in love with each other well into their old age. Whether or not this was true of their real-life counterparts is still a matter of debate.
* In ''TheAdventuresOfPriscillaQueenOfTheDesert'' Terrence Stamp plays a transsexual character called Bernadette.
* Julia's friend Cesar in ''Uncovered''.
* Averted in ''Film/BadEducation''. [[PedophilePriest Father Manolo]] is played by Lluís Homar, who was 47 at the time the film was released.
* The Hongkong action comedy ''Pantyhose Hero'' has SammoHung as one of two cops with the task of infiltrating a gay community. They bring in a female therapist to 'train' them, and she mentions how older gay men do exist, usually having to do everything on the sly to protect their reputation. What follows is a couple of ''Whose Line''style improvised re-enactions as Sammo and his partner get into their roles, one age level at a time.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* According to WordOfGay, the kindly, [[EccentricMentor eccentric]] [[TheObiWan mentor]] [[BigGood figure]] Dumbledore from ''Literature/HarryPotter'', who was over 100 years old. As his heart was broken early on, turning him into something of a CelibateHero, this could be a DoubleSubversion.
* The uncle in Lauren Weisberger's ''EveryoneWorthKnowing'' is an old, gay, politically conservative newspaper columnist.
* Jennifer Crusie's ''Crazy for You'' involves the heroine's (late fifties) mother coming out about her relationship with her best friend.
* 83-year-old Mabel Schneider in ''Survivor'' by J.F. Gonzalez. Granted, she also happens to be a sadomasochistic, cannibalistic PsychoForHire, but she still fits here.
* In Julian Clary's novel ''Murder Most Fab'', the only two characters who are really out of the closet in the whole novel are in their seventies.
* Sourmelina, the main character's grandmother's cousin, in ''Literature/{{Middlesex}}''. In fact, she didn't technically come out until ''after'' she was already over 50.
* In Reginald Hill's Dalziel and Pascoe series, DS Edgar Wield is now about fifty and his partner, Edwin Digweed, is sixty or thereabouts.
* ''Sweet Tea: Black Gay Men of the South'' makes a point of including gay men of all ages, including a very old man who recounts the gay scene of the 1920's.
* Creator/AgathaChristie's ''AMurderIsAnnounced'' features two old (probably over 60) ladies (Hinchcliffe and Murgatroyd) living together. [[HideYourLesbians Although of course never explicitly stated to be lesbians]], their behaviour strongly hints at this. (It's also ''possible'' that Blacklock and Bunner are another such couple, although it's not nearly as clear-cut in this case.)
** A similar arrangement occurs in the backstory of the LordPeterWimsey story ''Unnatural Death'' -- the victim's wealth was inherited from the lady she lived with. Her niece, in turn, plans on settling down on a farm with a female "friend" who clearly worships the ground where she walks.
** One character in ''TheMousetrap'' is a "flamboyant" elderly man (who also, according to his description in the script, bears a superficial -- [[MindScrew and deliberately misleading]] -- resemblance to HerculePoirot).
* In John Morgan Wilson's Benjamin Justice mysteries, Justice's landlords, Fred and Maurice, are in their eighties. They've been together since shortly after WWII. [[spoiler: Or they were, until Fred died in ''Spider Season''.]]
* ''Literature/{{Outlander}}'': Lord John is presumably in his forties, if his age is anywhere near that of Jamie's. Since the books don't seem to stop quite yet, he may very well live quite a bit longer.
* Joseph Hansen's detective Dave Brandstetter is closing in on seventy in the final novel of the series.
* Alan in ''OldMansWar'' is 75, and his "arousal test" was administered by a naked man. Of course, it's a couple centuries in the future.
* Dr. Aaron Rothman is in his thirties when he's rescued from a band of [[ImAHumanitarian Eaters]] in the first volume of the {{Emberverse}}, but is still around for the later series, two decades later. He's gay, stylish, and [[DeadpanSnarker thinks you look downright butch in those jeans and flannel shirt.]] Delia de Stafford's [[TheBeard husband]] Rigobert appears to be somewhere in his 50s, a handsome and dangerous ManlyGay.
* In ''[[TheQuestForKarla Smiley's People]]'', Connie Sachs, who is well over 60, has a younger girlfriend.
* In ''Literature/{{Chalion}}'', Saint Umegat was gay. [[BuryYourGays His first lover was dead before the story began,]] but it's heavily implied that he has a new one now: his mute assistant in the menagerie.
--> Umegat (on being a saint}: Lust, I'm glad to say, seems largely unaffected.
* Wally Lamb's novel ''She's Come Undone'' features minor characters Fabio and his partner, gay men who are implied to be early middle aged. Of course, both of them [[spoiler: [[BuryYourGays are dead of [=AIDS=] ]] by the end of the book]], so it's not the most cheerful of portrayals.
* In Miranda July's short story "The Sister," Victor Caesar-Sanchez is probably gay, while the main (male) protagonist is bisexual. They're both in their late sixties.
* Averted in ''Series/NeverWipeTearsWithoutGloves''.
* Averted in ''Literature/GloryInTheThunder'', where major character Rashk is an old {{Mad Oracle}} and openly gay.
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* ''Series/DoctorWho''
** In the episode "Gridlock", there is an elderly lesbian married couple. They are conspicuously treated as nothing to bat an eyelid about - except by the "old-fashioned" [[HalfHumanHybrid cat-man]] Thomas Kincaid Brannigan, who insists on referring to them as sisters. His embarrassment and prudishness is [[HypocriticalHumor played for ironic laughs]] - Brannigan himself is a giant anthropomorphic cat, married to a human woman. With a brood of [[HalfHumanHybrid half-human]] children 'played' by kittens. Talking kittens. Not to mention that they all live about 5 billion years in the future.
** Millington and Judson in "The Curse of Fenric" have WordOfGay from the writer of that serial.
*** It's also hinted at in the novelisation.
** "The End of Time" Part One sees the Doctor getting admired and hit on by a group of Wilf's elderly friends, including one of his male friends.
** There's also the above mentioned [[ExtremeOmnisexual Captain Jack Harkness]], the first male companion to kiss the Doctor. Creator/JohnBarrowman may be in his forties, but the [[CompleteImmortality character]] was 170 by the time he got [[Series/{{Torchwood}} his own TV series]] and is currently over 2000 years old.
* ''SlingsAndArrows'' has at least three older gay characters: ThoseTwoGuys, Frank and Cyril, who are an elderly gay couple, and Oliver, the ghost and former director.
* In ''Dream On'', the main character's father.
* [[CampGay Mr. Humphries]], of ''Series/AreYouBeingServed''.
* In an episode of ''LawAndOrder'', a man is found murdered outside a gay bar. One of the people questioned is the bartender, a grey-haired StraightGay who actually calls out this trope by talking about how the "[[ClubKid pretty boys]] keep to themselves." In another episode, Detectives are re-interviewing suspects in a 30 year old unsolved murder case, one of whom is a gay man who's now in his 60's.
* In the later seasons of ''Series/{{Scrubs}}'', thanks to fliers from the Janitor, JD's deck (no, he doesn't own a house, just a deck) becomes a hotspot for gay seniors.
* In a later episode of ''Series/{{Jackass}}'', Johnny Knoxville and Spike Jonze dressed up as a ''ninety-year-old'' gay couple to engage in a public display of affection.
* An episode of ''TheDrewCareyShow'' once featured Drew taking on an elderly gay couple as boarders. Even better, they were [[Series/{{Batman}} Adam West]] and [[BarneyMiller Max Gail]].
* In ''Series/LittleBritain'', but only for laughs: practically everyone in Llandewy Brefi has some inclination for homosexuality regardless of age, much to the annoyance of Daffyd Thomas, who claims to be the "only gay in the village".
* An SNL digital short features Jonah Hill confessing to Andy Samberg that he's been sleeping with his father -- complete with scene of Jonah Hill making out with a 53-year-old man.
* Saul Holden from ''BrothersAndSisters''. He had a few [[TheBeard beards]] in his time and still has a beard of the hair variety. Born in 1939, he was in the closet for most of his life, but is now out and recently joined a dating site for "gay men of a certain age".
** One of his former lovers from the 80s is still alive, though he has AIDS so he is no longer as sexually active.
* In ''GraceUnderFire'' Grace's ex-husband's father (Emmett) was gay. Which Grace found out when she and her then boyfriend accidentally wandered into a gay bar. Emmett and his long term partner had been meeting secretly for decades, as Emmett didn't want to come out to his wife. The lover then shows up at Emmett's funeral a few episodes later.
* Frank Pickle on ''Series/TheVicarOfDibley'' came out partway through the series as a homosexual after forty years in the closet, and did so over the local radio show set up by the vicar. The only problem? Frank's normally so very, very dull that everyone in town turned off their radios as soon as he came on. He was thrilled with how accepting everyone was the next day.
* ''MidsomerMurders'', where it's not too uncommon for 60-80 year olds who are pretending to be sisters to turn out to be a lesbian couple, and an aged, retried, and flamboyantly gay actor decided to chop off people's heads with a guillotine.
* An early episode of ''Series/ColdCase'' which dealt with a 1964 gaybashing. Both an elderly drag queen and a StraightGay lawyer show up.
* ''DeadLikeMe'': In "The Bicycle Thief", Mason has to reap a middle aged gay couple.
* ''TheLWord'''s lesbians are generally young, but seasons 4 and 5 have featured Cybill Sheppard as a college dean who realizes she's gay and has to deal with the impact of her coming out on her children and husband of many years.
* The short-lived 2000 ''Normal, Ohio'' was about a midwestern StraightGay played by John Goodman.
* Middle-aged African American couple Steve & Edy from the X-Files episode "X-Cops", a StraightGay and a PerformanceArtist.
* On ''Cosby'', Hilton got onto a gay men's softball team because he didn't know what the team's name, "Older and Out", meant.
* ''Series/SixFeetUnder'' features an older gay couple in the episode "Nobody Sleeps"; Keith's boss Roger Pasquese is at least middle-aged and quite flaming; and in the finale, [[spoiler: Keith dies in his sixties while David survives into his eighties and is shown having met another man]].
* Bernard in the British ''QueerAsFolk'' is quite plainly over 50 and still apparently active.
* The U.S. version of ''QueerAsFolk''
** In the first season, after David asks Michael to move in with him, Mikey has mixed feelings about it, so David takes him to meet two seventy-something gay partners who met in World War II and have been together for over fifty years to show him that a long-term gay relationship can work.
** Michael's Uncle Vic is well into his fifties and he's openly gay.
** George Schickle, Emmett's love interest for season two, is over ''70-years-old''.
* In ''The Worst Week of My Life'', Mel's sixty-something Uncle Fraser angsts about coming out after decades of repression. In the second series he is involved with Gerard, a confident and unabashedly gay dance instructor. Gerard's ditched him for a younger model in the Christmas special, but while the relationship lasted it was refreshing to see an older couple on TV, complete with all the jealousies and affectionate moments usually reserved for their younger counterparts.
* ''{{Doctors}}'' did an episode in which Ronnie suspected that the 70-year-old Gwenyth's equally old girlfriend was after her money. He turned out to be wrong.
* In the Taiwanese film, ''{{Formula 17}}'', Bai and Tien encounter a sexagenarian who gives them dating advice and happens to be gay himself.
* In {{ER}} [[{{Frasier}} John Mahoney]] guest-starred as a gay man whose lover was dying. The episode ended with him doing a drag act in a gay club.
* In the SpikeTV original series ''TheKillPoint'', the elderly hostage Bernard is revealed to "have come out of the closet in 1953"
* ''Ed'' had an episode in which the title character discovered that elderly Charlie Hudson was gay, a secret Ed then had to keep from Charlie's family until the will was read. This lasted until Charlie's just-as-elderly boyfriend showed up to the funeral.
* In ''Series/{{Lost}}'', there's Tom, whose actor is 61.
* ''Series/{{Frasier}}'' had an episode where Marty pretended to be gay and date the uncle of one of Frasier's crushes.
** And there was the episode where Frasier himself ended up accidentally dating Creator/PatrickStewart.
* Although Reginald Hill averts the trope in the novels, the TV adaptations of ''DalzielAndPascoe'' embrace it wholeheartedly: Wield's partner Edwin Digweed, closing in on sixty in the novels, pops up as a man in his early thirties.
* Berlutti's mother on ThePractice came out in an early episode.
* Dr. Cooper's mothers in ''Series/NurseJackie'', played by Swoosie Kurtz and Blythe Danner.
* Eddie, the vampire played by Stephen Root for a few episodes of ''Series/TrueBlood''.
* {{Roseanne}}'s very conservative sixty-something mother eventually let her attraction to women slip out during Thanksgiving dinner, shocking everyone (including the gay couple she had been yelling at moments before). Afterwards she comes out and starts dating a woman.
** Of course, this was in the last season, [[spoiler:which turned out to be actually just be a novel Roseanne was writing]]... [[spoiler:Technically, this never happened]]. But it still kind of counts.
* ''Series/GhostWhisperer'' when it was revealed that [[spoiler: Eli's mother had a very long-term affair with her husband's business partner's wife, which they once hid by pretending she was having an affair with the husband. This comes out after Eli's father dies (the mother had died several years earlier); cue ''both'' ghosts haunting the couple out of anger (the husband) and fear of exposing the affair (the wife, because she had died during one of their rendezvous).]]
* ''Series/TheAmazingRace'' had a middle-aged gay team in its first season--Joe and Bill, more commonly known as "Team Guido." When they returned for the All-Stars season, they even referred to themselves as "two gay grandpas."
** Also with Kate & Pat, the lesbian ministers on Season 12, and Mel on Season 14.
* ''DropTheDeadDonkey'' averts this in the form of Helen's mother revealing that an aunt wasn't really an aunt.
* Chelsea's father, Tom (Stacy Keach) on ''TwoAndAHalfMen'' comes out of the closet and leaves her mother for his old war buddy, Ed (John Amos).
* On ''DesperateHousewives'', Lynette reconnects with one of her mother's ex-husbands. He comes out of the closet much to Lynette's surprise, as Lynette had simply blamed her mother for driving the only loving father she had away. Her stepfather (played by RichardChamberlain, see below) also mentions having a lover who had been recently deceased but offers to be his ex-wife's caretaker out of friendship.
* In ''Ellen'', one of her father's old plumber friends turns out unexpectedly to be StraightGay.
* Lampshaded on ''WillAndGrace'', in the episode "Cop To It," when Jack (who was the host of a talk show on a gay-themed cable channel) received a letter from a closeted 16-year-old boy who lived in a small Ohio town, who wanted advice on how to come out. Jack went to Ohio to visit the boy in person, convinced that if he could get the boy to come out to his family on his show, he'd have all of the ingredients for a heartwarming VerySpecialEpisode. When he got there, he realized that the "boy" was actually a 60-year-old, who was embarrassed that at his age he still hadn't worked up the courage to come out. Jack abandoned the project without any hesitation, convinced that no one in the audience could possibly relate to an older person, until Karen convinced him that a 60-year-old was just as deserving of his attention. (In a CrowningMomentOfFunny, he convinced the man to take the first step out of the closet by coming out to a stranger at a bowling alley - unaware that the stranger he chose was the man's son.)
** In a straight example, MichaelDouglas guest-starred as a police detective who becomes attracted to Will while investigating the theft of his laptop. He takes Will to a gay nightclub, ostensibly as an undercover operation but really as a date because he finds it hard asking men out.
* ''GreysAnatomy'' has averted this at least twice. KeithDavid appeared in the first season as a patient with a failing liver who kept flirting with George, and an elderly lesbian couple was featured in "Almost Grown"(7x05).
** A more recent episode had an older gay married couple, one half was played by [[TheFreshPrinceOfBelAir James Avery.]]
** Another episode had an older gay couple who had recently become a couple, one of the men had been in the closet and married to a woman for years. They plan to spend the rest of their lives together, but the patient dies.
* The 80s sitcom ''LoveSidney'', in which a Tony Randall played a gay man in his 50s, who takes in a single mom and her daughter.
* Blanche's little brother in ''TheGoldenGirls''. It's never specified how old he actually is (Blanche never revealing her real age plus the show's [[NegativeContinuity generally loose time line]] doesn't help), but he's at least in his late 40's.
** Dorothy's friend Pat, who actually developed feelings for Rose.
* ''Series/RobsonArms'' has a mostly StraightGay couple; the drama in their relationship comes not from their being gay, but because it's a MayDecemberRomance. Another elderly resident of the eponymous apartment believes them to be father and son.
* In Series/{{Skins}} third generation, Frankie's older father is obviously over 50.
* In a short-lived 70's series, TheHotLBaltimore, the residents of the hotel included a middle aged gay couple, George and Gordon.
* In one episode of {{Casualty}}, Toby treats one half of an elderly gay couple (initially believing their cover story that they're "brothers-in-law"); there are hints of this trope at play though, as being told that they're actually a couple weirds him out enough that it puts the brakes on his romance with Ben and general ComingOutStory.
* In ''Series/TheWire'', the hard-ass Deputy Commissioner Rawls is spotted in the background of a gay bar with an uncharacteristic grin. He's in his fifties, and WordOfGod confirms that he is indeed gay.
* When Rachel Berry's [[HasTwoMommies two gay dads]] finally appear on-screen in Season 3 of ''{{Glee}}'', they're both grey-haired and well into their fifties, visibly older than the few parents of other teenage characters shown to date.
* Averted plenty of times on ''{{Series/Extras}}'' in which there are several CampGay and StraightGay characters, including George Michael and Creator/IanMcKellen as themselves.
* ''Series/PrivatePractice'' has Addison's mother come out and have a long-term relationship with a woman.
* In the Dutch documentary series Golden Oldies, in which older people form a choir that sings modern songs, two women, well into their seventies, got married on screen. Especially notable since both women had been married to a [[BiTheWay man]] before.
* The ITV sitcom ''Series/{{Vicious}}'' features Creator/IanMcKellen and Sir Creator/DerekJacobi as a couple.
-->"Did you finally tell [your mother] about us?"
-->"I'm waiting for the right time."
-->"It's been ''forty-eight years''!"
* In ''Series/{{Psych}}'', Lassiter's mother is married to a woman and they both walked him down the aisle at his wedding.
* In ''Series/ModernFamily'', Cam and Mitch go to a gay nightclub full of 20-somethings, but they hate it. They eventually spend New Year's at a gay bar where everyone is at least 60.
* On ''Series/2BrokeGirls'' Caroline and Max go to the funeral of Caroline's old nanny and discover that the woman was a lesbian and had been in a committed relationship with another woman for many decades. Since the woman never liked her own family very much, she simply chose not to come out to them. Since her family was never interested in her life, they did not find out that she was openly gay until her lover showed up at the funeral.
* Discussed in Series/{{Metrosexuality}}. Max is pushing 40 and, in addition to his own angst about getting older, explains a few times that queer culture is incredibly harsh towards old people and that growing old is basically a ticket to loneliness.
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* ''Possibly'' subverted by Mary Lillian "Moolah" Ellison and Mae Young, who lived together at Ellison's retreat in South Carolina for 16 years, the friendship ending only with Ellison's death in 2007. The only other person regularly at the house was a younger female wrestler whom the two older ones had trained. It can't be confirmed if Ellison and Young were in anything more than a platonic relationship, but given their hard-living, outspoken ways (both were [[{{Heel}} infamous "bad girl" characters]] for the majority of their careers) and the LesYay overtones that commonly swirl around the Wrestling/{{WWE}} Divas, it wouldn't be surprising. Both Ellison and Young were in their late sixties when Young came to live with Ellison.
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* Revolver Ocelot of the ''Franchise/MetalGear'' series, who's been carrying a torch for Big Boss since the 1960s. In ''Metal Gear Solid 4'' [[spoiler:he notably grabs and kisses Old Snake during a fight]]. Of course, [[MemeticSexGod everyone is gay for Big Boss]].
** For that matter, Big Boss himself is bisexual, according to WordOfGod.
* Morris and Armand in ''VideoGame/CuteKnightKingdom'' are definitely over 40 at least.
* From the ''PuyoPuyo'' series comes the CampGay Oshare Bones, stated in ''Puyo Puyo! 15th Anniversary'' to be at least 150 years old. However, he does happen to be undead.
* Shigure Tachibana from ''{{Morenatsu}}'' is 68. But not surprising in a QueerMedia VisualNovel where almost EveryoneIsGay.
* In ''AlphaProtocol'', the 60+ year old [[BadassGrandpa Conrad Marburg]] is implied, though not outright stated, to be homosexual.
* DepravedBisexual [[VideoGame/{{Fable}} Reaver]] (voiced by Stephen Fry) is well over 50 by VideoGame/FableIII.
* In VideoGame/Fallout3, [[BadassGay arms-dealing couple]] Flak and Shrapnel are both exactly 50, [[AllThereInTheManual according to the game's guide]]. Also, [[DiscountLesbians Carol and Greta]] are both well over 200 years old.
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[[folder:Web Originals]]
* [[ShockSite Lemon Party]]!
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[[folder:Webcomics]]
* ''FriendlyHostility'' features an adorable middle-aged gay couple (Hans and Mr. Cohen) who own the sandwich shop that Bootsie works at.
* ''Webcomic/QuestionableContent'' has Marten's father Henry, and his partner Maurice. Dora's immediate response to meeting Henry is the observation that Marten is going to be hot when he goes gray. Henry gloats over this indirect compliment to Maurice, who happily agrees.
* In ''SomethingPositive'':
** Branwen's father. Granted, he [[http://somethingpositive.net/sp07192004.shtml died a few years shy of this trope]], but [[http://somethingpositive.net/sp07202004.shtml his still-living ex-boyfriend Leland]] probably counts.
** [[DepravedHomosexual Avogadro and the prison warden.]]
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* Wally and Gus from ''WesternAnimation/MissionHill''.
* Dale's father on ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill''.
* Possibly Leonardo Leonardo from ''WesternAnimation/ClerksTheAnimatedSeries.''
* An elderly man comes on to Grampa in an episode of ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons''.
* Woodhouse in ''WesternAnimation/{{Archer}}'' is likely the oldest man alive, and still mourning the death of Reggie from UsefulNotes/TheGreatWar. It's implied most of his unit was gay.
* Dr. Z (a pastiche of WesternAnimation/JonnyQuest's Dr. Zin) on ''WesternAnimation/TheVentureBrothers'' is revealed thus in a blink-and-you'll-miss-it comment from his wife, both of whom were quite elderly, as she reminds him that she was supposed to be TheBeard.
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[[folder:Real Life]]
* [[CaptainObvious Obviously]], every single real life gay person who lives to see his or her fiftieth birthday defies this trope.
* Israeli singer Korin Allal came out at 46, rocker [[ManlyGay Yehuda Poliker]] came out at the age of 60, Israeli singer Yehudit Ravitz came out when she was 53, and director and former actor Tsedi Tsarfati came out at the age of 70.
* James Randi came out at the age of 81, and married his long-time partner Deyvi Pena at 84.
* Sir Creator/IanMcKellen.
* Creator/EllenDeGeneres
* Sir Creator/DerekJacobi. Oddly, he and [=McKellen=] had had secret crushes on each other when they were at Cambridge (they were in the same year), but for various reasons they didn't realise this for over fifty years.
* Sir EltonJohn, bonus points for now raising his sons with his husband in his sixties.
* StephenFry.
* LilyTomlin, who married her partner of 40 years, Jane Wagner, in 2013.
* GeorgeTakei
* Rudolf Brazda, the last gay concentration camp inmate, who died at the ripe old age of ninety-eight.
* [[http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2011/09/gay-ww-ii-veteran-finally-sees-discharge-changed-from-undesirable-to-honorable/ Melvin Dwork]], a gay WWII veteran who got his discharge from the military changed from dishonorable to honorable.
* PyotrIlyichTchaikovsky (1840-1893)
* [[ProjectRunway Tim Gunn]] (born in 1953).
** Worth noting that he is a Homoromantic Asexual, not that it changes much.
* The Swedish diplomat Sverker Åström, who came out publicly at the age of 87. When asked why it took him so long to come out, he pointingly reminded the journalist that for the majority of his Life was, under Swedish law, a criminal and mentaly ill.
* David Ogden Stiers came out in 2009 at the age of 66.
* [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bertrand_Delano%C3%AB Bertrand Delanoë]], the current mayor of Paris, came out in 1998 at 48.
* FaithNoMore keyboardist Roddy Bottum, come July 2013.
* Actor [[MillersCrossing Jon Polito]].
* [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Klaus_Wowereit Klaus Wowereit]] (since 2001 the Governing Mayor of the federal state of Berlin, and very famously out) and [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Guido_Westerwelle Guido Westerwelle]] (current German Foreign Minister and leader of the neoliberal party before that) were born in 1953 and 1961. Their respective husbands are over or close to 50, too.
* Actor Richard Chamberlain, known for playing TV heartthrobs such as [[TheThornBirds Father Ralph de Bricassart]] and Dr. Kildare was outed in 1989 at the age of 55, but officially came out in 2009.
* Fred Schneider of The B-52's, who is 61. He is a notable example because he's become more CampGay than he ever used to be.
* [[TheAndyGriffithShow Jim]] [[GomerPyleUSMC Nabors]], who is 82, recently married his partner of thirty-eight years.
* Artists Gilbert Proesch and George Passmore got married in their late 60s.
* Many older couples were among the first to get married when gay marriage became legal in their states, since they'd been together sometimes for ''decades'' before being able to tie the knot.
* Director Creator/JohnWaters
* Actor and Broadway performer B.D. Wong.
* Edith Windsor was just over ninety when she got DOMA overturned.
* French stand-up comedian Muriel Robin is 58, talk-show host Laurent Ruquier is 51; the TV & radio host and specialist of royals Stéphane Bern is 50. Didier Lestrade, journalist and co-founder of French gay magazine Têtu, is 56. All except Lestrade (obviously) came out publicly quite late in life.
* Pierre Bergé, French businessman, philanthropist, and long-time partner (and business partner) of fashion designer Yves Saint-Laurent, is now 84.
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