A character is offered an uncomfortable, non-negotiable choice that boils down to two options:

* Agree or conform with the other party's choice of action, or;
* Get tossed aside and abandoned while the other party continues their choice of action anyway.

Unlike TheEasyWayOrTheHardWay, there is no threat of coersion or violence; it may instead carry an implication that the person being offered this choice is expendable.

The favored CatchPhrase of the ControlFreak, but may also be used by an older character to teach discipline, such as from a parent to their child (i.e. "My House, My Rules") or from a drill sergeant to a fresh recruit.

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!!Examples:
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[[folder: Comic Books ]]

* In an ''[[ComicBook/TheAvengers Avengers]] Annual'', WonderMan, while shooting a film, actually ''can't remember'' this line, ruining a take.
--> "We can do this my way or... um... you can hit the road!"
--> "CUT!"

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[[folder: Film - Live Action ]]

* [[MST3K Crow T. Robot's]] "[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ZyJCV_dyug Let's have a Patrick Swayze Christmas]]" features the line, "It's my way or the highway this Christmas at my bar-har-haaaaar."
* A common accusation of Bruce Wayne's Batman by Dick Grayson of ''Film/BatmanAndRobin'': "It's your way or the highway!"
* Switch says this to Neo in ''Film/TheMatrix''. There is then a cutaway to the empty, rain soaked road outside the car.
* In ''ThePacifier'', VinDiesel's line was "We do things my way. No highway option".
* Used in ''Film/ReservoirDogs'' by [[TheDon Lawrence Tierny's character]]:
-->'''Joe''': Here are your names: Mr Brown, Mr White, Mr Blonde, Mr Blue, Mr Orange, and Mr Pink.\\
'''Mr Pink''': Why am I Mr Pink?\\
'''Joe''': 'Cause you're a faggot, alright!\\
('''Mr Pink and Joe argue about the name for a while''')\\
'''Joe''': Now listen up, Mr Pink. There's two ways you can go on this job: my way or the highway. Now what's it gonna be, Mr Pink?\\

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[[folder: Music ]]

* In the chorus for the LimpBizkit song "My Way," singer Fred Durst insists to do things his way--his way "or the highway."

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[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* A ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'' episode uses this as the title ([[TitleOnlyChorus and chorus]]) of a boy band's song.
** Drakken once tried the "my lair, my rules" variation on Shego. He backed down immediately when Shego lights up her plasma.
* Blossom and Buttercup use this on each other in ''ThePowerpuffGirls'' episode "Three Girls And A Monster," fighting over using brains or brawn to bring down a giant reptilian monster. Neither is effective...Bubbles uses polite asking to bring down her beast.
* [[DastardlyAndMuttleyInTheirFlyingMachines Dick Dastardly]] imposes this on Zilly when he tries to shirk out of a mission or on Muttley when he tries to [[HeroismIncentive weasel another medal]] for fetching Zilly.
-->'''Muttley:''' Rowr ruff wuff, urm, medal?
-->'''Dastardly:''' (''sternly'') No, you don't get a medal if you do!
-->'''Muttley:''' [[{{Angrish}} Sanafrassin rassafrazzin Rick Rastardly!]]
-->'''Dastardly:''' But you'll get thirty days in the guard house if you don't!

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[[folder: Real Life ]]

* Swedish expression "Management by Perkele" stems from this. It refers to Finnish management mentality ("either you do this or else"), which contrasts with Swedes' more discussion-oriented decision-making.
* The [[LegionOfLostSouls French Foreign Legion's]] unofficial motto is "march or die", do as you're told or get out.

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