->'''Tywin Lannister:''' I will let myself be consumed by maggots before mocking the family name and making you heir to Casterly Rock.\\
'''Tyrion Lannister:''' ''Why?''\\
'''Tywin Lannister:''' Why? You ask that? You, who killed your mother to come into the world?
-->-- ''Series/GameOfThrones''

Sometimes, when a woman [[DeathByChildbirth dies in childbirth]], the child is seen as the mother's last gift to her surviving family. But then there's ''these'' cases, in which the child is blamed for the mother's death.

Typically, this involves [[AbusiveParents being hated or otherwise ill-treated by their father]], their ResentfulGuardian. Other relatives are free to join in, though. Who's actually to blame for the death is completely irrelevant -- there's too many historical cases of DeathByChildbirth caused by doctor screw-ups (and ''Streptococcus pneumoniae''), but if this trope is in play the kid's still getting full blame. Keep in mind, this trope also applies for when only the child blames themself for "killing" their mother.

Needless to say, this child will commonly grow up to be TheUnfavorite. Bonus points if someone mentioned that [[YouShouldHaveDiedInstead the child should've died instead.]]

For actual cases of children killing their mother, see {{Matricide}}.

This is a subtrope of YouShouldHaveDiedInstead. Compare ReplacementGoldfish, when the (often female) child is seen as a preservation of her mother.
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[[folder: Anime and Manga ]]

* In ''Anime/{{Clannad}}'', this is the main reason behind why Tomoya's father has a rough time getting along with him. [[spoiler:In a twist of fate, Tomoya's wife also dies at childbirth and he chose to neglect their newborn daughter for about five years. It wasn't until his grandmother calls him on it that he realizes he's being like his old man.]]
* ''Anime/EurekaSeven'': This is part of the reason Dewey Novak, the series' antagonist, despises his younger brother Holland. Because of the event, the title of Sacrificial King is passed on to Holland. Of course, [[UnreliableNarrator Dewey's account may]] be all in his head.
* ''Manga/KodomoNoOmocha'': Akito's issues turn out to be largely caused by his sister Natsumi blaming him for their mother's DeathByChildbirth. He assumed this was the case with his father as well, but it turned out Dad was just distant because he's a {{Workaholic}}, and working out his grief in his own way.
* While it's not made a topic in the ''Anime/MarginalPrince'' anime, the website for the game it's based on all but states that this is what happened to Henri. His father is anything but fond of him and as a direct result, he said to [[IJustWantToBeLoved crave for love]].
* In the backstory for ''Anime/LegendOfGalacticHeroes'', Oskar von Reuenthal's mother committed suicide when he was born because his [[DualityMotif distinctive two-tone eyes]] were living proof of her infidelity. Reuenthal spent his entire childhood being told by his father that life would have been better had he never been born, which very much warped his sense of self-worth.

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[[folder: Comic Books ]]

* In ''ComicBook/ArchieComicsSonicTheHedgehog'', Snivley's father Colin tried to avoid this trope, but Snivley growing up with several traits he despised caused him to resent his son. This resulted in the demeaning nickname, and him going to work for Dr. Robotnik.
* In ''ComicBook/AtariForce'', Christopher Champion was believed to be blamed by his father Martin for his mother Lydia's death at birth. It was only years later that Dr. Lucas Orion, the physician present at the birth, realized that Martin blamed the Dark Destroyer for Lydia's death.
* PlayedWith in ''SpiderMan''--[[WellDoneSonGuy Harry Osborn]]'s mother, Emily, died within the first year or so of her son's life; it wasn't DeathByChildbirth, but ComicBook/NormanOsborn still muses that losing her and gaining Harry was a sort of trade--and, since Emily seems to be one of the few people he sincerely cared about, he feels like he got the short end of the stick.
* A dying ComicBook/RedSkull weaved this trope into his UnreliableNarrator account of his FreudianExcuse life to ComicBook/CaptainAmerica, saying that his father blamed him so much for his mother's death in childbirth he attempted to drown the baby ''right there and then''.

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* Literature/{{Tattercoats}}'s mother died in childbirth. Her grandfather hates her as a consequence.
-->'' He hated her bitterly, because at her birth his favourite daughter died; and when the old nurse brought him the baby, he swore, that it might live or die as it liked, but he would never look on its face as long as it lived.''

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* The original ''FalloutEquestria'' has Deadshot Calamity be the victim of this. Not only was it how he got his name, but his father hated him because of it.

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* In ''Literature/BestServedCold'', the BarbarianHero Shivers justifies his participation in helping to carry out a RoaringRampageOfRevenge, because Shivers wants to avenge the death of his beloved brother, who everyone considered TheAce. Later on, Shivers POV reveals this is a lie. In reality, Shivers hated his brother. Shivers' mother died giving birth to him, and because of that, [[BeneathTheMask his brother would cruelly abuse him when others weren't watching]].
* Present in some adaptations of ''Literature/AChristmasCarol'', which explain why young Ebenezer was left at school over the holidays with this trope. [[note]]The existence of Ebenezer's younger sister argues against it, but his father might have remarried.[[/note]] It may also explain why he's so cold towards his nephew, Fred, whose mother (Ebenezer's sister) is said to have died giving birth to him.
* ''Literature/TheElricSaga'': Elric's father, Emperor Sadric, is said to not have cared much for his son because of this trope. Interestingly enough, he still chose the sickly Elric to succeed him to the throne over his ambitious cousin, [[EvilPrince Yyrkoon]]. In the novels, Sadric is a PosthumousCharacter but in the [[{{Prequel}} prequel]] comic, ''Elric: Making of a Sorcerer'', we get to actually see him interacting with his son. In the comic, Sadric seems to be occasionally genuinely worried about his son's wellbeing and it is hypothesized by Cymoril that at least a part of him loves Elric even though he claims to spurn him.
* In ''Literature/TheEyesOfTheDragon'', when the universally beloved Queen Sasha dies giving birth to the rather useless Prince Thomas. Thomas imagines that not only his father, but pretty much everyone in the kingdom is thinking, "We lost your mother, and we got you instead?"
* ''Literature/TheKiteRunner'': Baba blames his son Amir for the death of his wife.
* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'':
** Tywin Lannister loathes his son Tyrion, because Tywin's wife, Joanna (who was pretty much Tywin's MoralityChain) died giving birth to Tyrion. The fact that Tyrion was born with dwarfism and other deformities doesn't help. Tywin only acknowledges Tyrion as his son to the extent necessary under social norms, and openly tells Tyrion that if it wasn't for the love Tywin bore his mother, Tywin would have left him to die at birth. His older sister Cersei also treats him this way.
** This is a part of Daenerys's backstory, whose mother also died giving birth to her while her mother and brother were on the run from assassins. For that, her narration states, her older brother [[FallenPrincess Viserys]] had never forgiven her, although he continued to care for her until his StartOfDarkness.
* In the prologue to ''[[Literature/ElementalMasters Unnatural Issue]]'', Richard Whitestone's wife dies giving birth to Suzanne. Richard immediately blames Suzanne:
--> No, it was this interloper that had murdered his beloved.
* The ''Literature/GreatAltaSaga'' starts off with the heroine's mother dying in childbirth and the father handing the new baby over to the midwife to be fostered, because he can't love the child who killed his wife.
* Shadarii suffers from this in A Whisper Of Wings by Paul Kidd, although it's more a case of her mother dying in egg-laying (the anthroporphic butterfly-winged fox race lay eggs) and suffering mostly hate from her older sister and indifference from her father.
* Averted in Creator/GregEgan's ''Literature/{{Orthogonal}}'' trilogy. For most of the first two books, it is universally accepted that a mother is incapable of surviving childbirth (which involves fission) -- so DeathByChildbirth ''always'' applies. This is almost universally accepted as a fact of life.
* In the ''Literature/ChroniclesOfTheKencyrath'', Ganth's birth weakened his mother, and his sister Tieri's killed her. Their father, Gerraint Highlord, blamed both of them for her death, and showed extreme ParentalFavoritism to his eldest son Greshan.
* In the Disney ''Disney/SnowWhiteAndTheSevenDwarfs'' prequel ''Fairest of All: A Tale of the Wicked Queen'', this is part of the Queen's backstory. Her father, the finest mirror maker in the kingdom, resented her as she grew up [[spoiler: and continued that abuse after his death in the form of the Spirit of the Magic Mirror]].
* Discussed in ''Discworld/CarpeJugulum'', when Granny Weatherwax assists at a difficult birth and realizes that the mother and child aren't both going to survive. She focusses her efforts on saving the mother because she judges that this would be the result if the mother died and the child survived.
* In A Whisper Of Wings by Paul Kidd Shadarii (a member of a butterfly-winged anthropomorphic fox species) is hated by her older sister and generally ignored by her father because her mother died laying her egg (that and complications from that have left her mute).

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* ''Series/{{Angel}}'' has possibly the only case where this is justified: season 4's BigBad, [[UtopiaJustifiesTheMeans Jasmine]], is one of the PowersThatBe who possesses Angel's LoveInterest, [[GoodIsNotNice Cordelia]], uses her to [[AliensMadeThemDoIt have sex with]] [[LoveFatherLoveSon Angel's son Connor]], and then gives birth to ''herself'' as a {{Physical God}}dess. After giving birth, Cordelia is in a coma, and Angel is naturally pissed. (At least, once he shakes off Jasmine's MindControl.)
* One episode of ''Series/{{Dollhouse}}'' has a client hire the Dollhouse to program a mother for his newborn whose actual mother died in childbirth. He blamed the baby and could not give him the love he needed. In a rare subversion, the client knew it was irrational and still wanted the child to be loved which was why he had them program Echo to think she was his mother. By the end of the episode, he's gotten over his issues and takes care of his son on his own.
* ''Series/GameOfThrones'': Like the books, Tywin Lannister makes no effort to hide the fact that he blames his dwarf son for his wife's DeathByChildbirth. Cersei also blames Tyrion for their mother's death, and after Tyrion makes a joke about her [[BrotherSisterIncest hidden relationship with Jaime]] she makes an even crueler taunt that Joanna died for his sake, which should be Tyrion's greatest joke. Jaime is in fact Tyrion's only immediate relative who loves him unconditionally.
* A good portion of Ben Linus' FreudianExcuse on ''Series/{{Lost}}'' was the ill-feeling his father Roger Linus seemed to have for him due to his mother's death in childbirth.
* Could be the case on ''Series/GossipGirl''. Chuck Bass spends the first two seasons believing his father hates him because Mama Bass died giving birth to him. Then season three features a woman who claims to be Chuck's mother and that Bart simply told him she was dead because she ran out on them when Chuck was a baby. Said woman then proceeds to con him out of his hotel and leave town and the show never bothers to make it clear whether or not she was his mother or a con artist who knew the Basses back when Chuck was little. To make matters more confusing, in season two Bart talks to Chuck about his mother and claims he doesn't blame him for her death but has a hard time connecting to his son because he looks so much like the wife Bart lost. Then in season six Bart is pretty much plain evil and hates Chuck for no apparent reason.

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[[folder: Music ]]

* The subject of the song, "You Gave Me A Mountain" written by Marty Robbins, made famous by Music/ElvisPresley.

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* OlderThanFeudalism: In Myth/JapaneseMythology, the god Izanagi ends up killing his son Kagutsuchi because his wife Izanami died giving birth to him.
* {{Subverted}} in Literature/TheBible: Jacob's favorite wife, Rachel, dies in childbirth with her second child, Benjamin. He and Rachel's other son, Joseph, are Jacob's favorite children, and Jacob becomes especially protective of Benjamin after Joseph's "[[DeathFakedForYou death]]." Rachel named him Ben-Oni, which means "[[UnfortunateNames son of my pain]]." Jacob opted for Benjamin, "son (born in) the wilderness."

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[[folder: Theatre ]]

* In the musical of ''Theatre/{{Wicked}}'', Elphaba is blamed for her mother's death, even though she died after giving birth to her ''younger'' sister, Nessarose. Their father wanted to make sure there were no more green kids in the family, so he made the mother chew milkweed pods. The result was a fair skinned but crippled daughter and the mother died soon afterwards.

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[[folder: Video Games ]]

* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyVI'': After Gau's mother died giving birth to him, his father was driven to insanity, thought he was a demon and threw him out into the wild.
* ''VideoGame/MetalGearSolid'' has Psycho Mantis. His father held a great deal of resentment towards him for his whole life, and then tried to kill him when his psychic powers emerged.
* This is part of the backstory of Roger Samms, the protagonist of ''VideoGame/BadMojo''.
* Heihachi Mishima, the BigBad of ''Videogame/{{Tekken}}'', was a very nice man who loved his wife. Then she died while giving birth to his son, so he threw said son off a cliff and set about building an army to conquer the world.

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[[folder: Web Animation ]]

* In ''WebVideo/UltraFastPony,'' Apple Bloom's parents committed suicide for unknown reasons, and Granny Smith blames her for it. It's unclear if Granny actually believes it, or if she's deliberately invoking this trope to screw with Apple Bloom's mind.

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[[folder: Webcomics ]]

* It's implied in ''Webcomic/GunnerkriggCourt'' that Anthony Carver may have some feeling of this towards his daughter Antimony, given the way he disappeared on her and her mother's statement in flashback "he ''still'' loves you very much" (emphasis added), but given his total lack of contact it's hard to say for sure. [[spoiler:The reason is that Surma was part fire-elemental and passed that on to Annie, which means Annie ''literally'' took her mother's life force as she grew older. And when Anthony does turn up as a teacher, his behavior towards Annie is rather heartless. When she is given an opportunity to spy on him during a vulnerable moment, it's revealed that Anthony really blames ''himself'' for not being able to find a way to save Surma. His cold behavior towards Annie was an unhealthy reaction to her startling resemblance to Surma (which is why he insisted on her removing her makeup), and he expresses great shame about it later in private.]]

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[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* While it's left ambiguous, Tygra of the ''{{WesternAnimation/ThunderCats 2011}}'' series may blame Lion-O for the death of his [[HappilyAdopted adoptive mother]], the queen. Of course, her being a delicate waif at the time of Lion-O's birth has probably never occurred to him. To complicate matters further, the king treated Tygra like a son up until then, but their relationship changed with the birth of [[InadequateInheritor Lion-O]], who was pretty much guaranteed to inherit the throne by virtue of being a [[TheWrongfulHeirToTheThrone biological heir]], no matter what the older [[TheUnchosenOne Tygra]] may have done to be [[TheDutifulSon more deserving of the throne]].
* The second season of ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverse'' reveals that Steven worries that the Crystal Gems may secretly blame him regarding the death of their leader, his mother Rose Quartz. He likely developed the notion after season one's "Rose's Scabbard", in which Pearl yells at him for even suggesting that he could understand his mother's actions, [[OOCIsSeriousBusiness doesn't come to his aid]] when he nearly dies trying to chase after her following said outburst, and openly wonders how much of her was left behind in him. Though in Pearl's case, her extreme reactions are somewhat {{Justified}} because Rose was her ''LoveInterest'' and said death was [[LoveTriangle just salt on the wound of losing her to Greg]], who she openly treats with disdain until the third season.

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[[folder: Real Life ]]

* In her Autobiography, Adeline Yen Mah states that her birth mother died shortly after her birth, causing her siblings to resent her.
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