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->''"Girls will be boys, and boys will be girls,\\
It's a mixed-up, muddled-up, shook-up world"''
-->-- '''Music/TheKinks''', "Lola"

Basically, a couple consisting of a very feminine-looking/acting boy and a very masculine-acting/looking girl. Often comes from pairing the ActionGirl with the NonActionGuy and with doses of {{Crossdresser}}, {{Bifauxnen}}, AmbiguousGender, AttractiveBentGender, UnsettlingGenderReveal, ViewerGenderConfusion, DudeLooksLikeALady, EvenTheGuysWantHim and EvenTheGirlsWantHer. Common in GenderBender and FreakyFridayFlip series. Occasionally, {{House Husband}}s and their wives will fall under this trope.

Compare to SavvyGuyEnergeticGirl, PitbullDatesPuppy, and ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend. SensitiveGuyAndManlyMan and TomboyAndGirlyGirl work on a similar principle, but with two characters of the same gender. The UselessBoyfriend trope can be the result of this, but not always. Most likely are {{Cultural Rebel}}s. Subtrope of StereotypeFlip.

'''Important Note''': While this is usually a straightforward trope, examples can still get subjective in regards to whether or not the woman is masculine enough or if the guy is feminine enough. Keep a few points in mind when editing:
# It's not about their actual physical fitness and combat abilities relative to each other so much as their relative ''enthusiasm'' for these things.
# If the guy and girl possess personality traits that either a masculine woman or a feminine boy have, they fit.
# The masculine girl does not have to be a tomboy to fit this, and the feminine boy does not have to be AmbiguouslyGay to fit this either.


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!!Examples

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[[folder:Advertising]]
* It is quite possible to spot this when the guy has a pink product, while the girl has the same one in blue.
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[[folder:Anime, Manga, and Manhwa]]
* Akira and Mizuki from MayuShinjo's ''Manga/AiOreLoveMe'' [[PlayingWithATrope play around this.]] Akira is feminine-looking and the "princess" of his all-boys school, while Mizuki is androgynous and the "prince" at her all-girls school. However, personality-wise Akira is quite dominant and masculine and Mizuki isn't really all that boyish -- though in the counted times she ''does'' show a more assertive side, Akira isn't that displeased either.
** Predated and played straighter ([[IncrediblyLamePun so to say]]) by Kazuto "Towa" Sakuma and Miya from ''Manga/SensualPhrase''. He's a very girly-looking rock musician who dresses as a female even off-stage, she is the {{Bifauxnen}} beautician who both dates him and created his androgynous looks.
* Deunan and Briareos from ''Manga/{{Appleseed}}'' could possibly count, except that Briareos is a hulking cyborg four times the size of Deunan. But their relationship follows the trope pretty straight.
* ''Manga/AxisPowersHetalia'':
** Roderich/Austria and Elisaveta/Hungary, though in their case he's less girly and more of PrincelyYoungMan. She's also more feminine than most blue girls, being an adoring TeamMom. Doesn't stop her from [[CurbStompBattle kicking your ass]] [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend if you dare to harm him]] though.
** A more appearance-based, non-romantic variant in [[PlatonicLifePartners Hungary and Poland]]. She's a tomboy TeamMom, he's a WholesomeCrossdresser [[ValleyGirl Valley Boy]].
* ''LightNovel/{{Baccano}}'' has three examples:
** [[ShrinkingViolet Timid]], [[FragileFlower chronically anxious]] AllLovingHero Jacuzzi Splot and his {{Pyromaniac}} ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend Nice Hollystone.
** [[LeeroyJenkins Impulsive]] BloodKnight [[{{McNinja}} Mexicano Samurai]] Maria Barcelito and the passive, soft-spoken ([[DissonantSerenity though plenty disturbing]]) TortureTechnician Tick Jefferson
** Seven-foot-tall, ripped {{Ladette}} Aging and reserved, reluctant [[TheWomanWearingTheQueenlyMask Man Wearing the Kingly Mask]] Luchino B. Campanella.
* ''LightNovel/BakaToTestToShoukanjuu'' with the identical twins Yuuko (masculine girl) and Hideyoshi (feminine boy) Kinoshita. While Yuuko is typically feminine in traits (such as being good at cooking), her personality fit this trope because of her aggressive, prideful, arrogant, quick-to-anger, and competitive behavior. Hideyoshi on the other hand is calm, helpful, and supportive. Ironically, he is also much more popular than Yuuko, much to her dismay, because of [[AttractiveBentGender his]] [[DudeLooksLikeALady looks]].
* Although there are signs of it in the book and movie, Sakura Ogawa and Kazuhiko Yamamoto's relationship is shown to be like this in the manga of ''Manga/BattleRoyale''.
* Ranmaru and Tsuwabuki from ''Manga/BinboGamiGa'' aren't a couple (although Ranmaru wishes they were) but their dynamic fits this trope well. Tsawabuki is the dutiful PromotedToParent big brother to his four younger siblings, he is skilled at domestic chores and is pretty even-tempered. Ranmaru is the ridiculously HotBlooded BornInTheWrongCentury HeirToTheDojo girl. Its not that Tsuwabuki is not manly but that Ranmaru is significantly MORE manly. Case in point, number of girls in their class in love with Tsuwabuki? 3. With Ranmaru? Pretty much all the rest!
* ''Manga/BlackLagoon'': Revy swears like a sailor, chugs rum, collects guns, and has no problem jumping onto a moving boat and killing every hostile on it, by herself, like an ActionHero. In the first arc, she was about to put Rock in a dress and hairbow because he seemed so feminine in contrast; the sensitive one who wants to talk things out without anyone getting hurt.
* Koume and Yaegashi from ''Manga/BlueSeed''.
* ''TheBreaker'' has Ji-Nie as the red-headed, hot-blooded, leather wearing tomboy bodyguard to the kinder, gentler ShiWoon.
* ''Manga/ChottoEdoMade'' pairs a {{Bifauxnen}} swordswoman with a feminine LongHairedPrettyBoy.
* [[OfficialCouple Chrono and Rosette]] in ''Manga/ChronoCrusade'' have elements of this. Chrono is implied in both versions to be better with housework (in the manga he's shown ''in an apron'' at one point, and in the anime the Elder says he does the cooking and cleaning for him), and is much more meek and gentle (although has an extreme BerserkButton, often putting him into an UnstoppableRage), while Rosette is loud, brash, swears constantly and was a LethalChef as a child. They both have their moments where they act more stereotypically like their genders (Chrono is very protective of Rosette, and Rosette is very fond of pretty dresses), but they still don't fit neatly into gender roles.
* Played up early on in {{Claymore}} between Clare and Raki, where Clare is the badass lone wolf from a mercenary organization sent to hunt demons, while Raki was the "damsel in distress" whom she rescued, and who then needed her companionship so traveled with her and made himself useful by cooking for her. This slides off later on as Raki [[TookALevelInBadass starts learning the ways of combat]], though does not disappear entirely.
* Lelouch with Kallen and C.C. of ''Anime/CodeGeass'' [[ShipTease a non-romantic example (Maybe).]] Lelouch is BadAss, but [[TheChessmaster his forte]] [[SquishyWizard is strategy]]; Kallen (the AcePilot ActionGirl) and C.C. (the immortal witch) protect him.
** There's also Kaguya, a 14 year old girl who is the president of half the world and very serious about being the third maiden protecting Lelouch.
* ''Manga/DeathNote'':
** Misa and Light. While Misa looks very feminine (IdolSinger, GenkiGirl, enjoys cooking, and ''really'' wants to be Light/Kira’s wife) her personality actually fits this trope: she deliberately seeks out dangerous situations and is definitely more of a risk-taker, while [[NonActionGuy Light is more cautious]] and of the two of them she is definitely more [[StalkingIsFunnyIfItsFemaleAfterMale sexually aggressive]]. Misa [[DeclarationOfProtection will go to any lengths to protect Light]], even withstanding ColdBloodedTorture, and [[LoveMartyr she would gladly die for him]].
** [[ActionGirl Halle]] (secret service agent and karate champion) and Mello (BadAss effeminate mafia lord).
** In the prequel novel ''LightNovel/AnotherNote'', [[ActionGirl Naomi Misora]] acts as [[VoiceWithAnInternetConnection L's]] "shield" and teaches him [[UsefulNotes/{{Capoeira}} how to fight.]]
* In ''Anime/DragonBallZ'', we have TheStoic ActionGirl {{tsundere}} Android 18 and the soft, CowardlyLion NiceGuy Krillin.
* ''LightNovel/{{Durarara}}'' has [[HeadlessHorseman Celty]] and [[BackAlleyDoctor Shinra]]. Celty works a courier, rides a motor cycle, has super strength, [[BreadEggsMilkSquick and doesn't have a head]]. Shinra works as a BackAlleyDoctor, is a HouseHusband when off the job, is a {{Bishonen}} and barely has the strength to knock Celty's helmet off of her neck.
* ''Manga/ElfenLied'' has Lucy the AxeCrazy {{mutant|s}} who will [[IncrediblyLamePun single-handedly]] [[PersonOfMassDestruction fight and kill armies in order to protect]] Kouta the NonActionGuy. Like, ''Manga/BlackLagoon'''s example (Revy and Rock), Kouta isn't exactly archetypically girly, but he ''is'' much more quiet and less-action geared than Lucy.
* Re-L Mayer and Vincent Law from ''Anime/ErgoProxy''; Vincent is easily more emotional while Real is usually expressionless, impatient, or angry.
* Sora and Yukari from ''Manga/FamilyCompo'' are a married {{transsexual}} couple. [[http://www.batoto.net/read/_/17810/family-compo_v1_ch4_by_omanga/10 Here]] is what they look like the one time they dress accordingly to their birth gender. [[http://www.batoto.net/read/_/17810/family-compo_v1_ch4_by_omanga/25 Here]] is what they look like dressed to their own liking.
* ''Manga/HayateTheCombatButler'' has the title's [[BattleButler Hayate Ayasaki]] being extremely polite, humble, and skilled at domestic tasks. Mirroring him is pink-haired swordswoman [[StudentCouncilPresident Hinagiku Katsura]] (one of his LoveInterests) who is brave, assertive, highly-athletic, and projects an aura of leadership. Simply put, he can make women around him feel their femininity is being challenged and she is cooler than any of the boys at school resulting in most of the guys ''and'' [[EvenTheGirlsWantHer girls crushing on her]].
** Each of them is a mix of traits however, and CharacterDevelopment has resulted in them evening out somewhat. Hinagiku becomes less "tomboy" and more "girly", by showing that she is just as good a cook as [[SupremeChef master-chef]] Hayate and adores cute things, as well as focusing on her romantic side. Hayate gets to show off his determination and combat ability in addition to his dedication to duty and fulfilling his promises. Notably, he seems to like her "boyish" traits and {{Imagine Spot}}s from her show that she kinda likes his "girlish" side as well.
* ''Manga/HaikaraSanGaTooru'' has TheLadette Benio in ''two'' of these. A non-romantic version with her best male friend Ranmaru (a very feminine-looking boy who's a member of a ''kabuki'' troupe -- who as much is put in the UnluckyChildhoodFriend role), and a more romantic one with her [[PerfectlyArrangedMarriage arranged boyfriend]] Shinobu Iijyuin (who, like the below-mentioned Andre Grandier from ''RoseOfVersailles'', isn't that girly but is still more patient and sensitive than she is.)
* Haruka and Kotake from ''Himitsu Kichi'' one-shot ''My Own Secret''. She's a boyish {{Bifauxnen}} who practices judo and he's a feminine guy who likes cooking and sewing.
* ''LightNovel/InfiniteStratos'' has the biggest {{Badass}} AcePilot Chifuyu Orimura living with her little brother and main protagonist Ichika Orimura for the majority of their lives. He is the series HouseHusband who takes care of all the housework while she earns the money for both of them.
* A non-romantic example ([[spoiler:not counting Aoi's one-sided crush on her]]) is Misaki and Aoi from ''Manga/KaichouWaMaidSama''.
* ''Manga/KamichamaKarin'' has Karin the {{tomboy}}ish CuteBruiser and Kazune the [[DudeLooksLikeALady girly-faced]] {{tsundere}}.
* Sumire and Momo from ''Manga/KimiWaPetto''. Sumire is an efficient, successful journalist who watches pro wrestling and {{Sentai}} anime in her spare time and is a martial arts master on the side, while Momo is a modern dancer who is fairly emotional and doesn't mind taking on the role of Sumire's pet.
* Chips (masculine-looking female) and Nachos (feminine male) from ''Manga/MagicalNyanNyanTaruto''. They fit this more in their appearances (especially Nachos), although Nachos is definitely the more sensitive and kinder of the two.
* Akira Okuzaki and Mai's little brother Takumi Tokiha from ''Anime/{{Mai-HiME}}''.
* Ayako and Mamoru from ''Anime/MamoruKunNiMegamiNiShukufukuO'' Ayako's the violent, tsundere PersonofMassDestruction who gives off HugeSchoolgirl vibes in her attempts to act more feminine (Not at all helped by the AbsurdlyPowerfulStudentCouncil constantly teasing the two about their relationship), and Mamoru's a cute boy who takes all the craziness around him with a gentle smile.
* Mako-chan and Touma from ''Manga/MinamiKe''. Makoto isn't girly per se, but most of his scenes alongside the tomboy Touma feature him masquerading as a girl. In one episode, he also describes masculine and feminine traits inherited from his mother and father, respectively.
* ''Anime/MobileSuitGundam0083StardustMemory'' has Mora Bascht and Chuck Keith. Although Chuck isn't all that girly, he's a fairly unassuming guy, and Mora is pretty Amazon (and head and shoulders taller than him), so this vibe is definitely present.
* Little My (Masculine Girl) and Sniff (Feminine Boy) from ''TheMoomins'' are a non-romantic example of this.
* Asuka and Shinji from ''Anime/NeonGenesisEvangelion''. Shinji is obviously a HouseHusband in training, cooking and doing most of the chores around the house he occupies with Asuka and Misato, and has a shy and kind personality most of the time ([[BewareTheNiceOnes unless he's seriously provoked]] [[DespairEventHorizon or completely snaps]]). By contrast, Asuka is a FieryRedhead ActionGirl who revels in combat and remains the better pilot for most of the series.
* Kiri and Tohya from ''Manga/NeverGiveUp''.
* In the manga ''Manga/OtomeNoIroha'', the main siblings' grandmother comes back from the dead and forcibly [[GenderBender Gender Bends]] them because of this. Her feeling was that the odds of a Pink Boy and a Blue Girl successfully marrying, [[IWantGrandkids let alone providing great-grandchildren]], were so minute she had to take matters into her own hands.
* Asuka and Ryo from ''Manga/{{Otomen}}'', who embody the feminine/masculine hobbies side of this trope.
* Tamaki Suoh and Haruhi Fujioka from ''Manga/OuranHighSchoolHostClub''.
* The Pokémon adaptations enjoy making at least one pairing like this. The ''Anime/{{Pokemon}}'' anime has the aggressive FieryRedhead Jessie and the CampStraight James of Team Rocket, while ''Manga/PokemonSpecial'' has the CampStraight Ruby and the aggressive {{Tomboy}} Sapphire.
** Iris and Cilan in the anime. Cilan cooks, has a more passive and nurturing role, while Iris is more battle-oriented and wild.
* ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica'': Junko and Tomohisa Kaname. Junko isn't a super tomboy (more of a mother), but she ''is'' the most straightforward of the two as well as a HardDrinkingPartyGirl when off-work, whereas Tomohisa is a levelheaded and kind HouseHusband.
* The calm and serene So Touma and hyperactive tomboy Kana Mizuhara from ''Manga/{{QED}}''.
* Ukyo Kuonji of ''Manga/RanmaOneHalf'' is a {{Bifauxnen}} who manages to attract two different WholesomeCrossdresser suitors.
** The second of these, Konatsu, is so feminine thanks to years of brutal treatment that he can almost be argued as {{transsexual}}, to the point that his reaction when surprised in a bath is to squeal like a girl and cover his non-existent breasts.
** Ranma Saotome and Akane Tendo can be seen as a zigzagging example of this. Akane is a [[{{Tsundere}} notoriously short tempered and violence-prone]] {{tomboy}}, infamous for her total [[LethalChef lack of cooking skill]], horrible at anything arts and craftsy (such as making cookie shapes, sewing, painting, etc), and not terribly good at housework. Ranma, in contrast, is capable of acting much more feminine, is very good at cooking and sewing, [[NeatFreak hates mess]] to the point he once forgot about [[ItMakesSenseInContext burglaring a flat to clean up the mess inside instead]], can actually [[GenderBender turn into a girl more or less at will]], and, according to one post-series book, actually has developed a secret enjoyment of crossdressing by the time the series ends, thanks to all the times he dressed up as a girl for whatever ZanyScheme he was pulling. On the other hand, Akane ''desperately'' wants to be more feminine and tries her hardest to achieve that, as well as having stereotypically "girly" fears (such as loathing ghost stories) ''and'' a rather idealised view of femininity (due to her beloved mother's early death ''and'' [[PromotiontoParent having been partially raised]] by her YamatoNadeshiko older sister Kasumi), while Ranma is a macho jock-type who'll even go around near-naked in female form because he's that masculine.
* Andre Grandier and Oscar Francois de Jerjays from ''Manga/RoseOfVersailles''. Perhaps not a textbook example, since Andre is not tremendously effeminate. But Andre is the more sensitive and people-oriented one, while Oscar is very direct and more goal oriented. Oscar is referred to as the "light," and Andre as the "shadow."
* Genjou Sanzo & his new best friend Sharak Sanzo from ''Manga/{{Saiyuki}}'' are two peas in a pod. They're a mirror reflection of eachother, except for appearance. Sanzo is short, was mistaken for a girl a lot as a kid, is teasingly referred to as "princess," wears a long flowing garment, & is the weakest guy in his party. Sharak has barely noticeable breasts, wears men's monk robes, is very buff, is covered in scars, & talks & carries herself in a masculine manner, plus she does not like being thought of or looked at at as a woman.
* HalfIdenticalTwins Kou (feminine boy) and Tsukiko (masculine girl) in ''Manga/SamuraiHighSchool''.
* From ''Anime/SandsOfDestruction'', we have [[NonActionGuy mild mannered]] [[MessianicArchetype Kyrie]] and [[{{Jerkass}} arrogant]] [[LadyofWar Morte]]. Because the two are so different, Kyrie [[spoiler: has the power to convince Morte to stop destroying the world.]]
* Ryuji and Taiga from ''LightNovel/{{Toradora}}'' have aspects of this in personality, but it contrasts with their appearance. Taiga is [[{{Shorttank}} small]] ("looks like a doll") but has a brash, loud and angry personality. Ryuji has the FaceOfAThug but is generally quiet and enjoys housework (especially cleaning but also cooking).
* Ryunosuke from ''Manga/UruseiYatsura'' was unwillingly raised to be the ultimate manly man by her father, and later discovers she's in an ArrangedMarriage with Nagisa, the ghost of a guy raised to be ultra womanly. Though after coming back to life, he turns out to also be insanely strong, despite mostly hiding it behind over the top girly behavior.
* Jung Suk Ha and Park Bong Bin from ''Utopia Of Homosexuality'' are respectively a ButchLesbian and a CampGay [[spoiler: who eventually end up together. Yes, a very misleading title.]]
* Ito and Makoto from ''Manga/WJuliet''. So much that it's even implied that [[spoiler:they'll get married in drag!]]
* Shuichi Nitori and Yoshino Takatsuki, the adolescent protagonists in ''Manga/WanderingSon'', each prefer things associated with the opposite gender. If you think of them as their desired sexes, then this is inverted as PinkGirlBlueBoy ... then slightly inverted again when you notice Takatsuki has pink hoodies. The anime really likes to throw around pink and blue, especially for the Nitori siblings.
* Childhood friends Tsuyomaru and Hazumi from ''Woman in the Man'', a short story by MasakazuKatsura. Mixed with FreakyFridayFlip as they switch bodies.
* ''Manga/YourAndMySecret'' features a soft-spoken boy, Akira Urehara and loud-mouthed girl Nanako Momoi being [[FreakyFridayFlip Body Switched]] into one another's bodies. Just about everyone notices how much more masculine Akira and how feminine Nanako has become, and approve.
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[[folder:Comics]]
* Creator/JohnByrne [[AuthorAppeal loves this trope]], always matching a super-heroine with a waifish guy who serves her. Even managed to stick this trope in during his run of WonderWoman.
* ArchieComics:
** Betty and Archie, from the main series, DependingOnTheWriter. When Archie's car breaks down, Betty fixes it. And there is even one comic where they try to enter a team surfing competition, but since Archie is too weak to carry Betty, Betty carries Archie.
** Samantha and Bingo from ''That Wilkin Boy'' are [[{{Expy}} Expies]] of Betty and Archie who fit even better. Samantha is physically very strong, while Bingo is a weak musician. This trope may explain why her father never succeeded in breaking them up or getting her to date a manlier man.
** The Cabot twins from ''JosieAndThePussycats'': Alexander is a rich fashion plate (or a coward in the AnimatedAdaptation), while Alexandra is mean and aggressive.
** This gets played with sometimes with Moose and Midge. While Moose normally exhibits [[CrazyJealousGuy standard jealous male behavior]] in regards to his girl, it is often suggested that Midge wears the pants in their relationship.
* Possibly Redlance and Nightfall from ''ComicBook/ElfQuest'', although the elves don't quite go for the same kind of gender stereotyping that humans do. More to the point, the siblings Suntop and Ember. When trying to get a studio to do an animated version of the comic, ExecutiveMeddling said that you can't have a calm guy and a tomboyish girl, and this is one of the reasons the author quickly abandoned that studio.
* The ComicBook/NewGods Mister Miracle (escape artist and acrobat from New Genesis) and Big Barda (renegade Apokaliptian gladiator) are in many ways a HappilyMarried version of this.
* ''SinCity'' has a non-romantic variation of this in Dwight and Miho. Dwight is a laid-back everyman while Miho is much more violent and dangerous (which is definitely saying something when you take Dwight's own penchant for violent protectiveness into consideration). In fact, Dwight has expressed fear of Miho in the past and worked to ensure that he didn't piss her off.
* [[spoiler:Dale]] and Andrea from ''ComicBook/TheWalkingDead''. [[spoiler: Dale]]'s not feminine, but physically he isn't strong. Andrea is the sharpshooter, more energetic and take-charge personality.
* Yorick and his love interest finally get together near the end of ''ComicBook/YTheLastMan''. He compares them to the main couple of ''{{Moonlighting}}'' (a UST-filled detective series starring BruceWillis and Cybill Sheperd), but takes great care with specifying SHE is the BruceWillis equivalent.
* In the comic strip ''USAcres'', Orson the pig was the feminine boy, and Lanolin the sheep was the masculine girl.
* ''{{Princeless}}'': Adrienne and her brother Devin.
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* ''FanFic/GravityFallsRule63'': The genderbent Pines twins, Dana and Marcus, are a nonromantic example. Dana is ''very'' tomboyish and likes listening to rock groups, while Marcus wears pink and likes ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic''. [[http://25.media.tumblr.com/38a63f4ec1e990aa85e6e98a41e3378c/tumblr_mjgmooU1nn1s24pd9o1_r1_500.png Their personalities even are shown on their sleepwear.]]
* Lampshaded in this [[http://askweisswolf.tumblr.com/post/84458268962/arkos-jaune-is-a-cheerleader-at-pyrrhas-basketball untitled]] ''WebAnimation/{{RWBY}}'' fic, where Jaune is a cheerleader and Pyrrha is a jock.
-->'''Author:''' Feminine Jaune/Masculine Pyrrha [[AuthorAppeal feeds my soul]].
* The ''{{Manga/Bleach}}'' fanfic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8222340/1/Chasing-the-Moon Chasing the Moon]]'' gives us a platonic version (that potentially overlaps with VitriolicBestBuds). Karin and Yumichika are fourth and fifth seat of the Eleventh Division respectively, and Yumichika constantly bemoans the fact that she won't even ''try'' to be ''beautiful'', while Karin just wants him to stop messing with her clothes. [[spoiler: She's actually dating Toshiro, and they're not an example of this trope.]]
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[[folder:Film - Animated]]
* Creator/DreamWorks ''loves'' this trope:
** Astrid and Hiccup from ''WesternAnimation/HowToTrainYourDragon''.
** Tigress and Po from ''WesternAnimation/KungFuPanda''. Tigress is a tough-as-nails warrior who lacks TertiarySexualCharacteristics, while Po (who is also a skilled fighter, mind you) has a more cheerful and spirited personality and is an excellent cook. OneSceneWonder ActionGirl Mei Ling and Crane count as well.
** Gloria and Melman from ''WesternAnimation/{{Madagascar}}''.
** Roxanne Ritchi and ''WesternAnimation/{{Megamind}}''. Career-oriented, no-nonsense IntrepidReporter and a CampStraight alien.
** The teenage couple who appeared in ''WesternAnimation/MonstersVsAliens''.
* Creator/{{Pixar}} likes this trope too:
** Ellie and Carl from ''WesternAnimation/{{Up}}'' in their younger years.
** Believe it or not, ''WesternAnimation/ToyStory3'' pulls this off brilliantly with ''{{Franchise/Barbie}} and Ken.'' Ken is the poster boy for CampStraight. Barbie is capable of kicking his ass and is [[HiddenDepths savvy in political science]].
--> '''Barbie:''' Authority should derive from the consent of the governed, not from the threat of force!
** EVE and WesternAnimation/WallE.
* Creator/{{Disney}} is not so fond of this trope:
** ''Disney/WreckItRalph'' gives us TheSquadette Sergeant Calhoun and BadassAdorable Fix-It Felix Jr.
* WesternAnimation/{{Coraline}} and Wybie. While [[TheWoobie Wybie's]] not girly per se, [[KidHero Coraline]] is definitely the more aggressive of the two.
* PJ and Beret Girl in ''WesternAnimation/AnExtremelyGoofyMovie'' have a lot of things in common, but they also have a few major differences in that Beret Girl is bold, aggressive, and flirtatious, while PJ is a timid, passive InsecureLoveInterest. The couple [[InvertedTrope inverts]] NoGuyWantsToBeChased, as Beret Girl takes the lead at every step in their relationship and PJ enjoys this, but when ''Beret Girl'' was chased by [[HopelessSuitor Bobby]] moments before, she was disgusted. Beret Girl also has a significantly deeper voice than PJ, and is not much shorter, as well as going out of her way to protect him early on.
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[[folder:Film - Live-Action]]
* In ''Film/TheAdventuresOfPriscillaQueenOfTheDesert'', Tick [[spoiler:wears a wedding dress and his wife wears a tuxedo to their wedding]].
* The Chinese movie ''Boxing Gloves, Rag Dolls''.
* In ''Film/{{Fargo}}'' Marge Gunderson trails a couple of sociopathic kidnappers [[PregnantBadass in her third trimester]]. Her melancholy husband keeps house and paints ducks for a hoped-for Post Office commission.
* In ''Film/{{Impromptu}}'', [[TomboyishName George Sand]] is, by 19th century standards, a {{Ladette}}, and she [[{{Seme}} takes the lead in her relationship with Chopin.]] Frederic Chopin is a [[IllBoy frail]], sensitive, {{Bishonen}} musician.
* There was a short film featured on {{Logo}} that showed a GenderFlip of a heterosexual wedding. The bride wore a black pantsuit; the groom wore a white tuxedo and veiled top hat, and held the bouquet as his mother walked him down the aisle. He was also kind of short. Even among the wedding-goers, all the men wore different suits while the women were dressed more low-key.
* In the movie ''Lover Come Back'', Jerry Webster is emotional and intuitive, while Carol Templeton is logical and reserved. This is taken UpToEleven when Webster pretends to be a chemist to trick her.
* Jimmy Stark's parents in ''Film/RebelWithoutACause''.
* ''Film/SomeKindOfWonderful'' has best friends Keith and [[TomboyishName Watts]], the former a shy and sensitive StarvingArtist, the latter a {{Ladette}} drummer going through a GreenEyedEpiphany.
* ''Franchise/StarWars'' give us a non-romantic [[spoiler:and sibling]] example with Luke Skywalker and Leia Organa. Luke is a naive, sensitive {{farmboy}} who more or less fell into his role as Champion of the Rebel Alliance, while Leia is a stern, no-nonsense military commander who took charge of her own rescue mission.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* ''Literature/{{Animorphs}}'':
** Suffering, poetic Tobias is paired off with BloodKnight Rachel.
** Sensitive and peaceful Dak Hamee, a reluctant guerilla fighter, falls in love with aggressive, compelling Aldrea.
* ''Literature/{{Discworld}}''
** At first sight, King Verence II and Queen Magrat from (among other novels) ''Discworld/LordsAndLadies'' are more Feminine Boy, Feminine Girl. But when push comes to shove Magrat has HiddenDepths and can [[BewareTheNiceOnes transform]] into an ActionGirl. Verence's "hidden depths" came when he was made King and actually took an interest in his subjects and how to improve their lives with the latest advances in agriculture.
** In ''Discworld/MonstrousRegiment'', TheSquad is led by the nervous, book-smart NonActionGuy Lieutenant Blouse, and Polly, the point of view character, is a {{Bifauxnen}} ActionGirl pulling a successful SweetPollyOliver. [[spoiler: The story actually contains several female characters who are more butch than Lieutenant Blouse.]]
* This is a central theme in the Annie M. G. Schmidt story ''Het Fornuis Moet Weg'' ("The Stove Has To Go"). It's about a girl who wants to become a carpenter, and a boy who wants to become a stay-at-home dad. They argue about it with grownups who are moving an old stove out of the house. Eventually, one of the grownups gets an idea: the stove can be seen as a symbol for the old times, when a lack of modern household appliances meant that work around the house took all day and gender roles stayed reinforced. Because of modern luxuries, women now actually have time to study and choose their own careers, so there shouldn't be a need anymore for gender roles to stay as they were. The story is considered a children's classic in The Netherlands.
* OlderThanSteam, even: in 1620 England, in response to a pamphlet entitled ''Hic Mulier, or The Man-Woman'', which discussed the evils of women who dress and act like men, another pamphlet was published, ''Haec Vir, or The Womanish Man'', stating that women would stop acting like men when men stopped acting like women.
* Katniss Everdeen and Peeta Mellark in ''Literature/TheHungerGames'' trilogy. [[ActionGirl Katniss is an independent survivalist]] and [[ImprobableAimingSkills her skill with a bow is second to none]]. The son of a baker, Peeta's main talents are baking, painting, camouflage, [[ConsummateLiar and being able to sway people with words at the drop of a hat]].
* Mikael Blomkvist and Lisbeth Salander in ''Literature/TheMillenniumTrilogy''.
* There are elements of this in the relationship between Vin (a blunt ActionGirl assassin) and Elend (a thoughtful, bookish nobleman) in ''Literature/{{Mistborn}}''. It's not ''completely'' straight -- Vin ''does'' have a girly side and Elend ''will'' [[LetsGetDangerous get dangerous]] if sufficiently motivated -- but the trope can definitely be seen here.
* ''Pinky and Rex'' about a boy whose nickname was Pinky (his favorite color was pink) and Rex, a girl who liked dinosaurs and soccer.
* In the ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer 40000}}'' {{Ravenor}} novels, Patience Kys and Carl Thonius are described this way. Hyper intelligent, scholarly dandy Thonius is frequently referred to as a pussy, frequently by Patience herself, a vicious battle telekine. This might be entirely fair, as the novel mentions that anything short of an [[SpaceMarine Astartes]] in full battle plate is a pussy compared to Patience Kys.
* Jaime Lannister and Brienne of Tarth in ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'', aesthetically, at least. Jaime is said to be so handsome it [[{{Bishounen}} spills over into "pretty" territory]], while Brienne is known for her ''un''attractiveness and her un-lady-like habits of wearing armor, wielding a sword, and beating the crap out people who piss her off. They form something of an uneasy BattleCouple in ''A Storm of Swords''.
** As people have observed, one of the fun things about them as a pairing is that they are very much a "beauty and the beast" couple... but which one is which changes depending on if you're talking about looks or about personality.
** An additional example is a sibling pairing rather than a romantic one--Jojen and Meera Reed. Jojen is a frail, sensitive, and psychic boy, and Meera a physically inclined girl who protects him.
** Another sibling dynamic, [[PrettyBoy Theon]] and [[TheLadette Asha]] also qualify.
* In a ''very'' unusual setup for a RomanceNovel, Creator/NoraRoberts' ''Tears Of The Moon'' has as its romantic leads Shawn, a sensitive songwriter and pub cook, and Brenna, a feisty, tomboyish handywoman.
* The main couple in Elinor Glyn's ''Three Weeks'' have shades of this, at least in terms of gender ''roles'' -- Paul is boyish but virginal, beautiful and compared to Sleeping Beauty, and the Lady is older, independent, mature, compelling and in charge.
* DependingOnTheWriter, [[Franchise/StarWarsExpandedUniverse Mara Jade and Luke Skywalker]]. When TimothyZahn writes them, Luke is the sweeter, gentler one who prefers to avoid violence when possible, is always giving second and third chances, and is very open emotionally. Mara is more hostile to the world, blunt and direct and not about to let herself be jerked around, much more fiercely independent, and untrusting.
* By our standards, this is the default in the world of ''Literature/ABrothersPrice''. Men being so [[GenderRarityValue rare]] they are kept protected and secluded, and internalize a set of gender roles that encourage softness, vulnerability, passivity, physical attractiveness, and affinity for the domestic sphere, while women run the world and are just about universally more assertive, daring, and calculating. A little girl in tears over a cut on her knee is even told that big girls don't cry. By his world's standards, Jerin is actually rather feminine, as he works to escape when [[DistressedDude captured]] and does know how to ride horses, pick locks, read, and use a gun - although he's quite [[BleedEmAndWeep stricken]] when he actually fires it.
* ''Literature/JeevesAndWooster'': Bertie Wooster and some of the women who [[ChickMagnet set their sights on him]]. Bertie is [[NiceGuy sweet-tempered]], [[ExtremeDoormat non-combative]], and a bit of a dandy. He has an unfortunate tendency to attract women with frighteningly assertive personalities.
* LightNovel/YumeGari implies that [[BattleCouple Tatsumi's dead parents]] were like this. The ActionMom mother was the active ''yumegari'' who [[DreamWeaver drove into people's dreams/subconscious]] and a LethalChef, the father watched over his wife's work as her ''yumemori'' and was a SupremeChef. (And Tatsumi pretty much describes her dad as a male YamatoNadeshiko.)
* Avasrala from TheExpanse series is a foul-mouthed, no-nonsense, tough alpha politician. Her husband is a gentle, philosophical academic.
* ''Literature/MortalEngines'': Tom and Hester fit this trope, especially in the first half or so of the first book of the series. Hester hides her emotions, doesn't talk much, is a BadAss ActionGirl, and is used to dealing with the rough world beyond the cities without complaints. Tom, on the other hand, is sensitive, emotional, naive, and is constantly shocked by the rough-and-tumble world around him. As the series goes on Tom becomes tougher, while Hester sometimes shows quite a bit of her emotional side, so this trope isn't always in effect -- though there are still parts in the later books where Tom very clearly fills the more traditionally "feminine" role in the story, with Hester acting "masculine." (For example, towards the end of ''Predator's Gold'' -- for much of the book Tom seems to fit the "masculine" mold more so than Hester, but towards the end Hester becomes very protective of Tom, keeps him out of harm's way, and plays the macho action-hero while Tom fills a more sensitive and support-oriented role).
* The two azi (roughly, clone servants) Florian and Catlin in ''Literature/{{Cyteen}}''. Florian is sensitive, social, and a FriendToAllLivingThings, while Catlin is cold and militaristic. While they're both bodyguards, Catlin specialises in battle, whereas Florian is better at setting and disarming traps.
* A non-romantic example in ''Literature/LittleWomen'' between Jo and Laurie -- she's a no-nonsense, unmannered writer who feels uncomfortable in the presence of females, talks about her gender in a manner incredibly reminiscent of transgender people today, and finds sentimentality utterly repellent. He's an artist and a musician, is stated many times to have an acute sense for the beautiful, is initially (before his best friend stirs up his mischief and college gives him a gutter mind) described as always sweet and gentle, a hopeless romantic to the point of total despair when his heart is broken, and unfailingly sentimental.
** Just to clarify: Yes, Jo is the girl and Laurie is the boy, and those are both nicknames of their own choosing.
* In ''Literature/TheMoomins'', Little My (a tough and plucky tomboy) and Sniff (sensitive, cowardly and delicate) is a non-romantic example.
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* Lee "Apollo" Adama and Kara "Starbuck" Thrace from the rebooted ''Series/{{Battlestar Galactica|Reimagined}}'' are an interesting example of how to flip a gender dynamic: it's not so much about the way they look and dress as how they behave with each other. Apollo tends to be the softer, more introspective of the two, while Starbuck is louder, brasher, and more of an alpha than he is. Despite this, no one in-universe sees them as less masculine or less feminine for it.
* Penny and Leonard of ''Series/TheBigBangTheory''.
* Darlene and David from ''Series/{{Roseanne}}'' spend the majority of their relationship with the gender roles filpped. When Darlene gets pregnant Roseanne even comments "I can't think of a better mother..than David."
* In ''Series/{{Carrusel}}'', Valeria is louder, more outspoken, and has a stronger personality than her boyfriend David.
* ''Series/{{Chuck}}'': Sarah and Chuck, even more so in the first two seasons before he TookALevelInBadass, but their personalities always fit. Chuck is the one who is in touch with his feelings, wants to talk things out, and can't stand to have fights unresolved. Meanwhile, Sarah is extremely guarded, tries to keep up a stoic front, hesitates to commit, and is always on the traditionally 'male' side of all their relationship-related arguments. [[spoiler: Right down to Chuck being the one who wanted a big wedding.]]
* ''Series/DoctorWho'':
** In a nutshell, this is the relationship between the Fifth Doctor and Tegan Jovanka.
** Newly married Amy Pond and Rory Williams seem to have this dynamic, as Amy is an ActionGirl, while Rory is a bit of a NonActionGuy and a nurse (and while male nurses are common these days, it's still a profession that's predominantly female where he comes from).
** The Doctor lampshades it by referring to them as 'the Ponds' after their marriage, instead of 'The Williamses.' Rory doesn't seem very bothered by it. According to the Doctor, it's just because Amy has an awesome surname, but he still refers to Rory as "Mr. Pond." The series for its part leaves the question of whether Amy actually takes Rory's surname open until "Asylum of the Daleks" when she is shown signing a document as "Amy Williams" and it is later indicated that she uses the name Amelia Williams when she becomes a writer.
** And although Rory [[TookALevelInBadass has taken NUMEROUS levels in BadAss]] to the point of becoming a [[MemeticBadass Memetic version]], he still remains by choice utterly under his wife's thumb. Hell, managing to spend two thousand years waiting and not going insane was [[UndyingLoyalty for her benefit]].
* Wash and Zoe from ''Series/{{Firefly}}''. He's not ''girly'', but less masculine by comparison.
* Monica and Chandler from {{Friends}}.
* Lynette and Tom from ''DesperateHousewives''.
* ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' does a lot of this: the men are sentimental, mild-mannered, reserved, romantic, blissfully domestic (Marshall) or kid-crazy (Ted), and are often made fun of for stereotypically feminine traits, while the women are tough, uncouth, uncultured, boisterous, insensitive, [[CommitmentIssues commitment-phobic]] (Robin, who was literally raised as her father's son, and allowed to join an all-boys hockey team), or sex-obsessed (Lily), and often engage in hypermasculine actions as comedy. However, Barney takes the aggressively-heterosexual male stereotype and drives it so far over the edge he overshadows everyone else.
** However, Barney also gets his nails done and obsesses over clothing, making him feminine. And Lily is a soft-hearted romantic kindergarten teacher/artist who cries at the drop of a hat, whereas Marshall is a high-powered lawyer. So it's really played all over the place.
** And then there is that one episode where they all realize that their partners are just like their parents, which has Marshall realize that Lily is just like his dad!
** Possibly averted with Barney and Robin, as they often seem to be on level ground, as far as masculinity goes.
* Freddie and Sam from ''Series/ICarly''.
* Moze and Ned from ''NedsDeclassifiedSchoolSurvivalGuide''.
* Oliver and Lilly from ''HannahMontana'', though Lilly was more feminine when they were actually dating.
* ''Franchise/KamenRider''
** ''Series/KamenRiderDenO'' has the two leads, Hana and Ryotaro.
** In ''Series/KamenRiderOOO'', Shintaro Gotou is shown to be more compassionate and gentle than his female sidekick/assistant Satonaka, who [[RealMenHateSugar hates sweets]], can wield a gun with the best of them, and fights evil only because she is paid to do so.
** ''Series/KamenRiderWizard'' has the main character's two sidekicks: tough, gun-wielding policewoman Rinko and compassionate, klutzy, {{Adorkable}} Shunpei.
** ''Series/KamenRiderGaim'' features tough, assertive Mai who has no problem facing down a gang of bullies or challenging others to Invase battles; and soft-spoken Mitsuzane who dislikes confrontation and wears [[RealMenWearPink pink pants]] with his dance uniform.
* Hal and Lois in ''Series/MalcolmInTheMiddle''.
* Steph and Toadie from ''{{Neighbours}}''.
* Nigel and Sydney of ''Series/RelicHunter'' were pretty much a straight inversion of classic adventure stereotypes. She was the action star, impulsive, fearless one and he was always in need of being rescued. Sort of uneven in that she also often got to be the smart one and the people person.
* Jane and Brad on ''Series/HappyEndings''-not as pronounced as some examples, Jane is fairly feminine, she's just take charge and aggressively helpful (read: controlling), Brad meanwhile is CampStraight, but is also a classic example of the male breadwinner. Also they both look exactly as masculine and feminine as normal, Brad is usually dressed in a suit and classicaly handsome, and Jane shows off her legs every chance she gets.
* ''Series/{{Scrubs}}''
** J.D. and Elliot. Elliot seems to have this in most of her relationships. Kelso once commented on her and Keith's relationship:
-->'''Kelso:''' No, no, continue. You were having an argument, but it was like he's the chick and you're the dude!
** And before that, she was dating a male nurse named Paul Flowers.
** A non-romantic example from the same show would be J.D. and Denise ('Jo'), copied nearly word-for-word:
-->'''Denise:''' It's like you're the chick and I'm the dude.
* A ''Square One TV'' sketch, Battle of the Bulge Caterers, featured the [[TheLadette Drill Sergeant]], and the mopy Private Matter.
** '''The Sergeant''': Private Matter?
** '''Private Matter''': Turkey and American, Sir.
* Nerdy InsufferableGenius Cody Martin and {{Tomboy}} CountryMouse Bailey Pickett on ''[[Series/TheSuiteLifeOfZackAndCody The Suite Life On Deck]]'' might count.
* Several SuperSentai shows have this kind of pair:
** Momo Ranger and Mido Ranger from ''Series/HimitsuSentaiGoranger''
** Change Phoenix and Change Pegasus from ''Series/DengekiSentaiChangeman''
** Blue Swallow and Yellow Owl from ''Series/ChoujinSentaiJetman''
** Ninja White and Ninja Blue from ''Series/NinjaSentaiKakuranger''
** Yellow Racer and Blue Racer from ''Series/GekisouSentaiCarranger''
** Time Pink and Time Green from ''Series/MiraiSentaiTimeranger''
** Go-On Yellow and Go-On Green from ''Series/EngineSentaiGoOnger''
** Gokai Yellow and Gokai Green from ''Series/KaizokuSentaiGokaiger''
** Kyoryu Pink and Kyoryu Gold from ''Series/ZyudenSentaiKyoryuger''
* ''Series/That70sShow''
** Eric and Donna.
** Friendship example: Fez and Donna. He and his girlfriend Big Rhonda subvert it, since she's bigger and stronger than he is but is also an awkward HugeSchoolgirl.
* On ''Series/WillAndGrace'' gay Jack and straight boozehound Karen go to a meeting of an organization that promises to "cure" gayness. There they meet a married couple with a stereotypical effeminate man and very masculine woman who praise the organization. After they walk away, tipsy Karen asks "Was that two men or two women?"
** Of course, ''Will and Grace'' in general subscribed to this so much that it might honestly be considered a GenderFlip of a traditional sitcom. Grace was a stereotypical sitcom man: a brash, lazy, slovenly, BigEater who found gay porn to be exciting the same way a lot of men feel about [[GirlOnGirlIsHot lesbians.]] Will, who started StraightGay but Flanderized into CampGay, was much more a traditional [[WomenAreWiser female sitcom character:]] much more calm and rational (initially,) who was the more uptight and decorated their entire apartment and did all the cooking and cleaning. In that sense, Jack and Karen could be Will and Grace UpToEleven (he was obsessed with fashion and jewelry, she was a violent drunk.)
* ''Series/TheXFiles'' was designed partly around this trope. Mulder is emotional and intuitive, cries a couple times a season, and tends to lose fistfights or drop his gun at important moments; Scully is logical, scientific, emotionally reserved, and has ImprobableAimingSkills.
* When Rosie O'Donnell hosted ''SNL'' in 1994 she did a sketch called "The Tomboy & the Sissy" with her as the 'tomboy' and David Spade as the 'sissy.' They are high school outcasts who become friends and help the other become more masculine and feminine.
* Niles and Daphne in ''Series/{{Frasier}}''.
* Exaggerated like ''hell'' in an episode of [[RuPaulsDragRace RuPaul's Drag Race]], when the {{drag queen}}s were tasked to give glamorous makeovers to a group of tomboyish female martial artists who have never worn makeup or high heels in their lives.
* ''Series/{{Castle}}'' has elements of this; we have tough-cops Beckett & Gates (who is even addressed as 'sir.') Castle, Ryan, and even Esposito have strong ''metrosexual'' tendencies (lampshaded in one episode when they were going on about a line of men's grooming products, and Beckett said that it was 'Like ''Series/{{Sex in the City}}'' with boys.'
* In ''Series/OnceUponATimeInWonderland'' Alice comes across as the very proactive, no-nonsense, sword-swinging ActionGirl, whilst Cyrus is a lot more gentle and sweet. The drive of the narrative also revolves around Cyrus being a DistressedDude and Alice being on [[TheQuest a Quest]] to rescue him. ''Plus'' the flashback reveals that ''she'' was the one to first make a romantic move on ''him''.
* In ''Series/WarehouseThirteen'', Myka is a no-nonsense ActionGirl and Pete, while he's ex-military, is generally more open about his emotions, and has a [[SpiderSense minor superpower]] he calls "vibes" which if he were female would look a lot like "feminine intuition".
* Rackham and Anne Bonny of BlackSails are both pirates. But he prefers to use his mind over his brawn and wears flamboyant clothes that got his historical counterpart his nickname of "Calico" Jack. Anne is sexually aggressive, possessive of him, and does the killing in the relationship.
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[[folder:Music]]
* [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylcm0CC1Cmg "Those Masculine Women and Feminine Men,"]] written in 1925.
* In Wheatus song "BMX Bandits" invokes this trope with NicholeKidman.
* From Music/{{Vocaloid}}'s {{fanon}} there is Rin Kagamine as the [[{{Tomboy}} masculine girl]] and her brother Len as the [[{{Bishonen}} feminine boy]]. [[TheLadette Meiko]] and [[ButtMonkey Kaito]] tend to be portrayed with this dynamic too.
* ''Androgynous'', by Music/TheReplacements and also covered by CrashTestDummies, is a rather sweet song about a couple who like to dress as the opposite sex.
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[[folder:Myth and Legend]]
* ClassicalMythology:
** The twins Apollo and Artemis ''might'' be considered such, but only by modern standards. Apollo is sometimes thought of as a {{bishounen}} and He is the god of, among other things, music and art. He also spends a lot of time with the Muses. To classical Greeks, however, he was all man. Artemis, meanwhile, is a wild ActionGirl who spends most of her time hunting in the wilderness with her AmazonBrigade.
** Athena and Ares. Both Gods of war and victory, but the male Ares is something of a GlassCannon and a serious MilesGloriosus while Athena kicks his ass every time they fight, ''and'' is a GeniusBruiser to boot.
*** Ares is the personification of "manly men" fighting though. He's pretty much DumbMuscle, while Athena [[CombatPragmatist fights to win]]. One author puts it rather well: Ares is chest banging and glory-seeking, Athena is the goddess of [[TheDeadliestMushroom Nuclear War.]]
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[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
* Adrian Street and Miss Linda. Adrian was one of the most successful wrestlers to use the GorgeousGeorge gimmick, and Linda played a feminine inversion of the gimmick by being tough, aggressive and dressing in black leather.
* BethPhoenix and Santino Marella. Santino also got a bit of this when he started dating Tamina as well but that didn't really last long.
* Maxine and Derrick Bateman from [[[{{WWE NXT}} NXT Redemption.]]
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[[folder:Radio]]
* In ''Radio/APrairieHomeCompanion'': Lake Wobegon, where "all the women are strong, all the men are good-looking, and all the children are above average."
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[[folder:Theatre]]
* [[Creator/WilliamShakespeare Shakespearean]] examples:
** By the standards of the time, ''Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet'', based on the notion that Romeo was emotional (a traditionally feminine trait) while Juliet was practical (a traditionally masculine trait). In fact, Romeo's HotBlooded nature puts both of them into HUGE trouble [[spoiler: when he kills her cousin Tybalt to avenge the death of Mercutio]], and Juliet is the one who, with the help of a local priest, tries to brew a plan to get both of them out of it.
** This applies to some degree to many of the lead couples in Shakespeare's comedies; the woman is typically wittier and more practical, and the guy is emotional in different ways (HotBlooded, brooding, etc.)
** This idea is played with in ''Theatre/{{Macbeth}}'', with Lady Macbeth being the more aggressive and ambitious of the two. In fact as soon as she finds out about the witches prophecy she immediately begins formulating how to kill Duncan. While Macbeth is torn with internal guilt about his feelings, she's the one that goads him into doing it by questioning his manhood and saying he has no courage. Of course, after the murder they "switch back" with Macbeth turning into a kill-crazy tyrant and Lady Macbeth so wracked with guilt that she goes insane.
* Commander Up and Lieutenant Taz in Creator/TeamStarkid's musical ''Theatre/{{Starship}}''.
* A case can be made for Elphaba and Fiyero in the stage version of ''Theatre/{{Wicked}}''. He's a FunPersonified, [[TheDitz foppish]] [[NonActionGuy slacker]] who previously existed primarily to be Glinda's arm candy, and she's a [[RealityWarper practicing witch]], [[RebelliousSpirit rebel]], and [[WellIntentionedExtremist active civil rights activist.]]
* Franz Klinemann and Regina Koontz from RockOfAges (only in the original musical; both characters are cut from the film)
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* Khalid the sensitive guy with Jaheira as the more masculine one in ''VideoGame/BaldursGate''.
* [[CuteBruiser Butch bouncer]] Yuiran and [[StraightGay sensitive brother]] Yuiren from ''Daraku Tenshi: The Fallen Angels''.
* ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins''
** Tends to show up with [[{{Adorkable}} Alistair]] and a female player character; consider this (possible) exchange from [[VideoGame/DragonAgeII the sequel]]:
-->'''Alistair''': Well, I suppose I should get back to the old ball and chain.
-->'''Teagan''': You know, [she] hates it when you call her that.
-->'''Alistair''': No she doesn't. Just because she killed an Archdemon... she doesn't scare me.
-->'''Teagan''': You keep telling yourself that, [[spoiler:Your Majesty]].
** From the Witch Hunt DLC, we have Finn and Ariane. Finn is a rather foppish mage that despises the outdoors, while Ariane is an experienced Dalish hunter. Just listen to their dialogue [[http://youtu.be/iLNupQi8crQ]]
* Aveline and her husband Wesley in ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'', [[DeathByOriginStory in the beginning]]. Her later LoveInterest Donnic seems this way initially, but subverts it; though he's less ambitious and more impulsive than Aveline, he's as tough, competent, and eager to battle as her.
* ''Franchise/FireEmblem''
** ''[[VideoGame/FireEmblemJugdral Seisen no Keifu]]'' has Brigid, an assertive sniper raised by pirates and sensitive, submissive [[HorseArcher horseback archer]] Midayle as a predestined pair; to a smaller degree she has these dynamics with her other predestined lover, the archer Jamke, who is similar to Midayle but more reserved. Another one would be Tiltyu, the {{Tsundere}} BlackMagicianGirl, and her shy childhood friend and local BadassAdorable Azel.
** In ''[[VideoGame/FireEmblemElibe Rekka no Ken]]'', we have {{Ladette}} Vaida and gentle, honorable Heath. Kent and Farina are a borderline case; Kent isn't exactly feminine but he's somewhat shy and very reserved compared to the outgoing, tomboyish Farina. (Who says he, personaity wise, reminds her... of her older sister Fiora.)
** The [[NiceGuy kind and gentle]] [[HolyHandGrenade Monk]] Artur and the SugarAndIce BlackMagicianGirl Lute in ''VideoGame/FireEmblemTheSacredStones''. Their ending says that Artur managed the household while Lute was the main breadwinner.
** ''[[VideoGame/FireEmblemTellius Radiant Dawn]]'' includes Rafiel, prince of the heron laguz, a race too emotionally and physically fragile to attack enemies. The woman who saved his life, to whom he is now wholly devoted? Nailah, the wolf Laguz Royal (read: absurdly badass CrutchCharacter). ''One'' of them wears an elaborate robe, sings like an angel, and has ankle-length golden tresses. Guess which?
** Of the many possible pairings in ''VideoGame/FireEmblemAwakening'', there's Sully/Libra (foul-mouthed {{Ladette}} and feminine War Monk) from the first generation and Kjelle/Brady (strength-obsessed female knight and a priest who's ''very'' in touch with his feminine side) from the second. Hilariously, Kjelle is Sully's daughter... [[LikeFatherLikeson Like mother like daughter, huh?]]
*** Sully also has these dynamics with Stahl (her fighting partner and pretty much a HouseHusband in training) and Virion (the local AgentPeacock and ChivalrousPervert.)
* From ''VideoGame/TheIdolmaster's'' Dearly Stars version, we have the WholesomeCrossdresser Ryou Akizuki teamed up with {{Bifauxnen}} Makoto Kikuchi.
* ''VideoGame/LostOdyssey''. Possibly [[ActionGirl Seth]] and the husband who encouraged her to settle down and [[spoiler: have a child]]. Whether or not he was an 'Action Guy' himself, we don't find out.
* ''Franchise/MassEffect'':
** A Female [[PlayerCharacter Shepard]] and either Thane or Kaidan can come across like this, especially if Shepard is a hardass renegade. Shepard has to be the strongest human in existence, can drink anyone under the table, headbutts krogan like it's nothing, and generally is a stoic character. Thane and Kaidan meanwhile are sensitive and fairly soft-spoken, very moral, and the former waxes philosophical every so often. As a bonus, at the beginning of ''VideoGame/MassEffect2'', Shepard will be clad in black N7 armour, whilst Kaidan is in the pink and white Phoenix armour.
** Paragon!Shepard and Jack tends to look like this; while Shepard may be [[GoodIsNotSoft no slouch]] in the {{Badass}} department, he's still a calm, polite, and rule-abiding guy stacked up against the [[ClusterFBomb general]] [[AxCrazy insanity]] [[TheLadette that]] [[DoesNotKnowHowToSayThanks is]] [[DarkActionGirl Jack]].
* Meryl and [[spoiler:Johnny]] in ''VideoGame/{{Metal Gear Solid 4|Guns of the Patriots}}''. [[spoiler:When he proposed to her, she declines. Because she wanted to do that and proposes to him half a minute later.]]
** Meryl and her partner Dave in ''VisualNovel/{{Policenauts}}'' also qualify.
* Lucas and Kumatora in ''VideoGame/{{Mother 3}}''. They're not exactly a couple, but they ''are'' in the same party for half the game. Lucas has been described many times as a crybaby, and even when he seems to man up a bit later on, he still comes across as sensitive (especially with Love being his favorite thing). Kumatora is the tomboy of the group, and even has BoyishShortHair and hates wearing dresses. And then there's her tough attitude and willingness to fight.
* ''VideoGame/{{Persona 4}}'' has Kanji Tatsumi (master tailor) and [[spoiler:Naoto Shirogane]] ({{Bokukko}} and [[spoiler: SweetPollyOliver]]) The fact that the former has a crush on the latter both before and ''after'' the reveal makes his AmbiguouslyGay nature [[InternetBackdraft much worse, or better, or whatever.]]
* ''Franchise/SuperMarioBros'': Luigi, the [[SensitiveGuyAndManlyMan sensitive guy to Mario's manly man]] and Daisy, the [[TomboyAndGirlyGirl tomboy to Peach's girly girl]], whenever they're paired.
* Homer and Edy from ''VideoGame/ValkyriaChronicles'' qualify, with the former being a meek, [[{{Bishounen}} pretty]] little masochist and the latter a HotBlooded IdiotHero [[ArsonMurderAndJaywalking who]] [[CuteButCacophonic can't sing]]. Likewise Karl and Lynn. Although they have similar temperaments, Karl is an engineer supporting the troops while Lynn is in the front lines as a shock trooper.
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[[folder:Visual Novels]]
* ''VisualNovel/DanganRonpa'': Naegi and Kirigiri are a non-romantic (aside from a little ShipTease) example. It's based on personality rather than appearance; Kirigiri is aloof, proactive and willing to take risks, while Naegi is friendly and understanding, but more passive. Kirigiri is also taller than Naegi (granted, he is the second shortest in his class, along with [[PassionateSportsGirl Asahina]]). And she [[DistressedDude saved his ass]] a bunch of times during the game. There's a reason fans consider [[MemeticMutation Naegi the heroine and Kirigiri the true hero]], after all.
* In ''FateStayNight'', Saber has spent her entire life playing the role of king, has excellent swordsmanship skills, and is uncomfortable around her emotions, while Shirou has little combat ability but takes great pleasure in and excels at domestic tasks such as cooking. The fact that, despite this dynamic, Shirou still insists on taking up a StayInTheKitchen attitude (at least at first) generates a lot of the WhatAnIdiot sentiment among the fandom, which leads them to miss [[MartyrWithoutACause how Shirou's reasons behind that are... well, more complex]].
* ''VisualNovel/HatofulBoyfriend'' has best friends Hiyoko and Ryouta. Ryouta, the boy, is a gentle, very caring "vegetarian male" who loves cooking and frequently crossdresses in fetishistic maid or magical girl costumes for his various jobs. Hiyoko, the girl, is a tough, impulsive cavewoman who can't concentrate without red meat in her belly (mostly from animals she kills either bare handed or by smashing with weapons).
* ''VisualNovel/LittleBusters'' has Kurugaya and [[NiceGuy Riki]]. While Kurugaya is definitely feminine in appearance - [[BuxomIsBetter very, very feminine]] - she's a very competent, intelligent, intimidating ActionGirl who loves to dote on her cute classmates as a CoolBigSis. Riki, being a rather short, [[DudeLooksLikeALady feminine-looking]], shy guy, is very much included in her 'cute classmate' category. This causes him a bit of angst in her route as he feels like he should be acting cooler for her, but Kurugaya genuinely enjoys taking care of him, and by the end he's happy with seeing her occasional cuter side.
* From ''VisualNovel/PhoenixWrightAceAttorney'': [[http://img841.imageshack.us/img841/6123/desireeyrondelitebylawy.jpg Ron & Desireé DeLite]]. Ron's an effeminate, shy, lovestruck man who looks way younger than he is. Desireé's a fun-loving, motorbike-riding, [[SpiritedYoungLady adventurous woman]].
** Subverted when you learn that Desireé first fell for Ron when he protected her from a mugger. A DoubleSubversion occurs when you find out that he rescued her [[WimpFight through high-pitched shrieking and wildly flailing about]], and that it was Desireé that leapt into action first.
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[[folder:Webcomics]]
* The Joy (BadassNormal ActionGirl) and The Sorrow (sensitive [[ISeeDeadPeople spirit medium]]) in ''Webcomic/TheCobraDays'' are a mild version of this, although Sorrow became a bit manlier in later strips.
* In ''Webcomic/{{Digger}}'', due to the matriarchal nature of hyenas, gender roles are reversed and this arrangement is the norm rather than the exception. One character, a scrawny skin painter, has to compete with every other male in the tribe for the affection of their strongest warrior.
* Zombie children Bridget (CuteBruiser) and Alphonse (master of CowerPower) from ''Webcomic/FarOutThere'' are a non-romantic example.
* Parley and Andrew of ''Webcomic/GunnerkriggCourt''.
* ''Webcomic/LastRes0rt'' toys with this when it comes to Jigsaw and Slick -- Jigsaw's a bit of a tomboy (her main team color is light blue), while Slick's not above dressing in harem wear (and his team's main color is purple). Of course, they're not quite an OfficialCouple.
* ''Webcomic/MenageA3'' has a non-romantic example in Zii and Gary. Zii is a promiscuous punk rocker [[TheLadette with very masculine traits]], while Gary is an {{Adorkable}} virgin [[spoiler:at least until recently]] who has serious problems with being assertive.
* Borderline example in ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick''. While [[LoveableRogue Haley]] is not overly masculine, she is much more direct and goal-oriented than the ditzy and sensitive [[SpoonyBard Elan]]. Even after Elan TookALevelInBadass, she's still a better fighter.
-->'''Haley''': I really don't like where this is heading.
-->'''Elan''': Don't worry. You'll keep me safe.
* In ''Webcomic/TwoGuysAndGuy'', [[TomboyishName Guy]] and Wayne are this, [[http://www.twogag.com/archives/297 evidently]].
* ''{{Homestuck}}'': Tavros and Vriska. Tavros is a sweet, shy, kind boy with low self-esteem and a great love of animals and fairies. Vriska is an aggressive, dominating {{Munchkin}} and a JerkWithAHeartOfGold with emphasis on the 'jerk'.
* In ''Webcomic/GirlsWithSlingshots'', Zach is jokingly called the "girl" of his relationship with Hazel, because he's more sedate, mature, and wants to settle down and start a family, while Hazel is a rowdy, irresponsible boozehound. Their differences ultimately prove irreconcilable.
* Siblings Cucumber and Almond of ''CucumberQuest'': He's a sensitive mage and very much [[RefusalOfTheCall does not want to be a hero]] while she's an aggressive swords-woman and [[JumpedAtTheCall wants to be a hero so much]] that she [[spoiler: ''hands over the magic orb that will bring the BigBad into power '''because it sounded more fun''' than just keeping it hidden forever'' (it could also be shout-out to the kind of games the story is modeled after)]].
* The twins Yayne and Sparkes in [[http://www.thewretchedones.smackjeeves.com The Wretched Ones]].
* Zigzagged with BetaCouple Keith the Basitin and Natani the Keidran in ''Webcomic/TwoKinds''. Natani is bigger Keith, snores loudly, dresses in the most masculine fashion possible, and outright refers to herself as male due to being a [=FtM=] {{transsexual}}. Keith, meanwhile, is far more emotionally sensitive than Natani, and manages to be even shyer than her when it comes to romantic matters. It's zigzagged because both characters display feminine and masculine traits -- for example, Keith is emotional, but is also the superior fighter, while Natani has shown some feminine shyness and modesty in the past.
** The author likes to tease this interpretation, though, since there's a number of pictures of Keith in feminine positions and clothing, up to and including a piece titled "The daily life of the Kaisers" that depicts Keith and Natani as a 1950s-ish couple: in it, Keith is wearing the housewife outfit and Natani is wearing the masculine suit.
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[[folder:Web Original]]
* WebVideo/TheNostalgiaChick and WebVideo/TheNostalgiaCritic. She's a [[TheLadette Ladette]] sociopath who fights dirty and gets turned on by weakness. He's a girly, weepy psychopath who likes to be dominated.
** Also done in ''WebVideo/SuburbanKnights'' with ObscurusLupa[=/=]Critic when she's out of character. She pulls Critic around by his tie, will teach him how to be ladylike whether he likes it or not and eventually pulls out a gun against the enemies while he's learned his "bending like a girl" lesson.
** The WesternAnimation/HeavyMetal review gives us him and WebVideo/DiamandaHagan. She's a ButchLesbian, he goes for manicures and eyebrow waxing.
** The Nostalgia Critic's attraction to toppy women is so strong that there was one girl he dated [[EvenEvilHasStandards that made even his parents worry, and if you know about his parents, that says a lot]].
* Rebecca Stoné and Tacoma Narrows in ''WebVideo/DemoReel'', as she's a LadyDrunk {{berserker}} who'll genuinely try to kill you if you hurt anyone she cares about, while he's the OnlySaneMan who likes the fact that he looks good in a dress and finds it better to talk things over. She and Donnie also fit the dynamic.
* Parodied in [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vQFsAUvHL1s this]] (NSFW) Website/YouTube video, where the girl dresses up increasingly like a guy.
* [[VideoGame/{{Metroid}} Samus]] x [[VideoGame/KidIcarus Pit]] shipping. The former is an ActionGirl of the BountyHunter variety, who usually wears full body armor. The latter is a cute boy with [[OurAngelsAreDifferent angel wings]]. ''[[VideoGame/SuperSmashBros Super Smash Bros. Brawl]]'' put them in the same game, and several varieties of shippers have had a field day [[OppositesAttract putting them together]] since.
** Should we mention that they were created by the same guy, Gunpei Yokoi, and that some [[{{Squick}} consider them to be siblings]][[note]]In either a literal or spiritual sense[[/note]]?
* ''Franchise/MonsterHigh'' Clawd and Clawdeen, this is well played as Clawd is more Sensitive guy then Manly man. Heck, he's even afraid of his own fierce acting, little sister!
** It should be noted that this is only by comparison as while sensitive, Clawd is the captain of the Casketball (basketball) team and is largely seen as TheBigGuy / BigManOnCampus alongside Deuce. Clawdeen in turn isn't as masculine as she is sharp witted and fiercely protective of her friends, as this comes up when he begins to start dating her best friend [[VegetarianVampire Draculaura]]. In the past and on usual terms neither are seen this way.
* O'Brady Shaw and Brooke Alvarez of ''TheOnion'', as shown in [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NfVScr30e2I this video]].
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* There was a subtle example in an episode of ''WesternAnimation/{{Animaniacs}}''. Charlton Woodchuck's parents meet traditional gender stereotypes at first. His father appears to be a farmer, and his mother is crying because her son is leaving home. However, when Charlton returns home his parents are sat in rocking chairs by a fireside and, in a reverse of traditional gender stereotypes, his mother is reading the evening paper and his father is knitting using a pink ball of wool.
* ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender''
** ''Avatar'' gives us Aang, an easygoing, energetic, and non-confrontational MartialPacifist. It also gives us Toph, a [[TheLadette bullheaded and casually violent brawler]] and former [[ProfessionalWrestling Professional Earthbender]] who is about his (physical) age.
*** The episode where they watch a play based on the series lampshades this by having Aang portrayed by a GenkiGirl woman and Toph by a huge BoisterousBruiser bodybuilder man (and she actually ''liked'' the idea).
** Speaking of which, Sokka and Suki. Granted, it's not as extreme, but these two are respectively sensitive and tomboyish enough to qualify, though to an understandably lesser degree.
** In follow-up series ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'', we have Avatar Korra herself (an AmazonianBeauty version of TheLadette whose first impulse to a fight is to bust heads until she's the only one standing and responds to a guy she's eating out with belching by starting and ''winning'' a BurpingContest) and Mako (much more thoughtful, controlled and level-headed), arguably. More closely fitting, in season two we have Eska (a domineering, fearless, take-charge girl) and Bolin (emotional, sensitive, kind of wimpy boy).
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Daria}}''
** Helen and Jake have a lot of this--she's a workaholic career women, while he works a lot less and seems to enjoy cooking.
** [[StrawFeminist Mrs. Barch]] and [[HippieTeacher Mr. O'Neill]] also probably count, though this crosses over with PitbullDatesPuppy.
* Sarah and Jimmy on ''WesternAnimation/EdEddNEddy'', though not a proper "couple" unless you go into ToyShip.
** A more traditional, [[DoubleStandardRapeFemaleOnMale and less consensual,]] example is Marie Kanker and Edd.
* Another platonic example would be Lor and Tino from ''WesternAnimation/TheWeekenders''
* In ''TheLandBeforeTime'', Littlefoot is soft spoken and polite. Cera is snarky and brash.
* Leela and Fry in ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'' have numerous gags invoking this trope, similar to the ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'' example below.
** Kif and Amy also have a relationship with frequently reversed gender roles for the sake of humor, including one episode where [[MisterSeahorse Kif got pregnant]] and Amy abandoned him, afraid of being tied down, [[ChangedMyMindKid only to return just in time to save the day]].
* Mr. and Mrs. Test in ''WesternAnimation/JohnnyTest''.
* June and Henry on ''WesternAnimation/KaBlam'', though they're PlatonicLifePartners according to WordOfGod.
* WesternAnimation/KimPossible and her {{sidekick}} Ron; she's a relentless overachiever who knows "sixteen forms of kung fu," set herself up as an international TeenSuperspy, and kicks {{supervillain}} butt. He rarely fails to back her up and has his badass moments but is an easygoing type widely thought of as a loser, content to chill. Slightly mixed up in that she still fulfils gender roles such as cheerleading, while he eventually becomes a football player, but then again we see their old Halloween costumes - Kim as a cowboy, Ron as a ballerina. Nuff said.
** On the villainous side of the fence, tough-as-nails [[TheDragon Shego]] and sensitive and sometimes downright pouty [[MadScientist Dr. Drakken]].
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Rugrats}}''
** Phil and Lil's parents (Betty and Howard).
** Kimi and her stepbrother Chuckie. Lil plays this with Chuckie, especially with her implied crush on him later on, but in the latter show she's grown up and changed (though she's still tomboyish).
* ''WesternAnimation/{{South Park}}'' has Wendy Testaburger (Outspoken, strong-willed, and passionate) and Stan Marsh (Sensitive and compassionate animal lover).
* SpongebobSquarepants and Sandy Cheeks.
* Ahsoka and Lux Bonteri from ''WesternAnimation/StarWarsTheCloneWars''.
* To some extent Raven and Beast Boy in ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans.'' The former is a goth half-demon with a SuperpoweredEvilSide while the latter is an {{Adorkable}} [[CuteMonsterGirl Cute Monster Boy]]. However he has his fair share of LetsGetDangerous moments.
* ''WesternAnimation/WonderPets'' has the hug-loving and soft-spoken Tuck the turtle compared to his teammates, especially Ming-Ming the duckling who is [[LargeHam hammy]] and [[FailureIsTheOnlyOption tries to solve problems solo]].
* ''{{Superjail}}'' has Alice as the masculine woman and the Warden as the feminine boy. One episode in season 3 "Specialneeds" has Alice having to rescue Warden (who is in a full-body cast) from inmates who wanted to kill him.
* ''{{Archer}}'' has Lana and Cyril. Lana is a powerful secret agent who is a crack shot with all manners of guns and rifles and has a hot temper to match while Cyril is a meek introverted accountant who loves to cook.
* ''WesternAnimation/WanderOverYonder'' has Wander and Sylvia. She's an ActionGirl who unlike Wander, dislikes cutesy or lovey-dovey stuff and has had to rescue him on several occasions. Wander is a bit more of a LoveFreak and has cross-dressed on a few occasions.
* ''WesternAnimation/GrojBand'' has Carrie Beff and Larry Nepp. Despite having very little screentime, their [[http://37.media.tumblr.com/dcbdaeee7bc904cf518fc4e1453b9656/tumblr_n3fcc3f4fZ1rwbfv1o2_1280.jpg body]] [[http://37.media.tumblr.com/6f8573d83e501f0ccce55114a91c45de/tumblr_n3fcc3f4fZ1rwbfv1o5_1280.jpg language]] portrays Carrie as the strong one and Larry as the softspoken one.
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[[folder:Real Life]]
* Polish pianist, composer and IllBoy Frederic Chopin was paired up with George Sand (the ''nom de plume'' of Amantine Dupin), a TomBoy writer overlapped with TheLadette.
* This is how many saw Music/MichaelJackson and Lisa Marie Presley.
* Another sensitive male musician with a harder-edged lady: Music/KurtCobain and Music/CourtneyLove.
* There are several animals that exist where the females are dominant over the males, such as hyenas and spiders.
** Mosquitoes are an interesting case. Both genders eat nectar and fruit juices but the females are the only ones who feed on blood.
** Another interesting case is [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phalarope the Phalarope.]] The females are brightly colored and go courting, while the males are dull colored and brood the eggs.
* Harper Lee and Truman Capote.
* [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Philippe_I,_Duke_of_Orl%C3%A9ans Philippe d'Orleans]] and his wife [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Elizabeth_Charlotte,_Princess_Palatine Elizabeth Charlotte de Baviere]].
* Their enemies tended to portray Marc Antony and Cleopatra as this, to insult him and make the Romans fear her.
* Deliberately invoked in [[http://www.ellahoy.es/famosos/articulo/andrej-pejic-y-su-novia-erika-linder-intercambian-roles-en-una-campana-fotos/64323/ this ad campaign]] featuring the couple of [[DudeLooksLikeALady Andrej Pejic]] and [[{{Bifauxnen}} Erika Linder]].
* Japan now calls this the [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men "Herbivore Man, Carnivorous Woman"]] phenomenon. In short, more men are identifying themselves as meek, passive, and indifferent to the opposite sex while women are becoming more assertive, aggressive and eager to date. Thus, it's not uncommon for women to walk up to man they're interested in and ask for his phone number, a date, or even sex. Whether this is a good or bad thing depends on whom you ask.
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