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->''"Nooooooooo! Impossible! I can't be beaten by a little girl! I'm a warrior!"''
-->-- '''Vikke''' (upon being killed by Juliet Starling), ''VideoGame/LollipopChainsaw''

The instituted rules of masculinity say that a man cannot be beaten by a woman. Of course, any such man who is beaten by a woman is pretty unhappy.

Rationale for NoGuyWantsAnAmazon. WaifFu may be in evidence. Related to SamusIsAGirl, if the man wasn't aware his opponent was female before losing. May be the punishment of the StrawMisogynist, whose sole purpose is to be beaten by the woman. Also expect this to be said by a HeManWomanHater before AnAesop about [[YouGoGirl girls being as good as boys]].

This trope doesn't cover all situations where the girl wins the fight -- the guy has to feel a particular injury to his pride because of the situation, especially if it bothers him above and beyond simply [[MuggingTheMonster getting his ass kicked by a supposedly weaker foe]]. Sometimes may be {{invoked|Trope}} by an [[ArrogantKungFuGuy Arrogant Kung-Fu Girl]] who ''really'' wants to twist that knife (i.e. "How strong are you really if ''I'' could beat you?").

TruthInTelevision: there are some men that really feel this, especially considering the tendency for men to be physically stronger than women.

!!As this is a [[VictoryAndDefeat Defeat Trope]], [[Administrivia/SpoilersOff unmarked spoilers abound]]. [[Administrivia/YouHaveBeenWarned Beware]].
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!!Examples:
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* IWasBeatenByAGirl/AnimeAndManga
* IWasBeatenByAGirl/FanWorks
* IWasBeatenByAGirl/{{Literature}}
* IWasBeatenByAGirl/LiveActionTV
* IWasBeatenByAGirl/VideoGames
* IWasBeatenByAGirl/WesternAnimation
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* ''ComicBook/TheFlash'': In ''ComicBook/{{Terminal Velocity|DC Comics}}'', the super villain Kobra manages to (temporarily) kill Wally West, resulting in Wally's girlfriend Linda going on a RoaringRampageOfRevenge that very nearly takes down Kobra himself, though he manages to gain the upper hand and is only defeated when Wally returns from the dead. When Kobra returned years later during Wally and Linda's honeymoon, he revealed that he was seeking revenge on ''Linda'', not Wally, because he can't bear that he was nearly thwarted by a woman.
* ''ComicBook/LilIPut'': Miksja beat the crap out of Ivan and his band of dwarves with her magic during their first clash, which led Ivan to several revenge attempts trying to kill Miksja… But to be fair Ivan's pride wasn't hurt as much due to Miksja's gender and more the fact [[ElvesVersusDwarves she's an elf]].
* One ''ComicBook/LuckyLuke'' story has all the bankers refusing to report that they have been attacked by Ma Dalton, because if a {{Miniature Senior Citizen|s}} can rob you you're not a really good bank. It's only when it becomes a clear case of NeverMessWithGranny people are more open about her crime spree.
* During a storyline, [[Characters/MarvelComicsFrankCastle The Punisher]] went after the ''{{ComicBook/Runaways}}'' after [[Characters/MarvelComicsTheKingpin The Kingpin]] hired them to steal a hyperdrive device. This ended up as one of the most humiliating moments in Castle's life, as Molly "Princess Powerful" Hayes defeated him with a single punch.
* In one ''ComicBook/SpiderMan'' comic, the Chameleon seemed to be on cloud nine; he had broken out of Ravencroft Asylum, discovered Spider-Man's identity, and on top of it all, learned that he was his old partner Kraven the Hunter's half-brother, not just some lowly servant that Kraven had been bullying. (Sure, that made him a ''younger brother'' that Kraven had been bullying, but still...) He was so full of himself that he decided to [[BedTrick pay a visit to Mary Jane disguised as Peter]]... Only for her to see through his disguise quickly [[DamselOutOfDistress and beat him senseless on her own]], with a baseball bat. His lofty rush of confidence fell pretty quickly and only went downhill from there.
* ''ComicBook/{{Superman}}'':
** In the ''ComicBook/TheLegionOfSuperHeroes'' story, which introduced the [[ComicBook/LegionOfSuperHeroes homonymous super-team]], Superboy's first task in order to join the team is to compete against Saturn Girl (part of the main PowerTrio of the Legion) in retrieving a sunken statue from the ocean. However, Superboy is just barely on his way when he gets sidetracked by a crisis involving the local school's robot Superboy. By the time he resolves it, Saturn Girl has completed the task. When both returned to the clubhouse, Cosmic Boy takes the opportunity to rub it in (although this was part of a SecretTestOfCharacter to see how Superboy would react to losing):
--->'''Cosmic Boy:''' You lost out on your first task... and to a '''[[BoldInflation girl]]'''! Is this the great '''Superboy''' we learned about in school? What's your excuse?
** In ''ComicBook/Superboy1949'' #80, Characters/{{Supergirl|TheCharacter}} time-travels to the past to meet her teen cousin. Superboy is happy to have someone to play with, but when his cousin wins their first game he's surprised that "a mere girl" can best him. Kara states he'll have to get used to the idea that a girl can be a match for him.
--->'''ComicBook/{{Superboy}}:''' How did you, a mere girl, ever get here ahead of me?\\
'''Supergirl:''' You'll just have to get used to the idea that a '''Supergirl''' can be just as super-duper as a '''Superboy'''!
** ''ComicBook/TheDeathOfLuthor'': Luthor's ego does not take well the fact that he has been both beaten and saved by a girl. He picks a machine-gun and ([[ShootingSuperman uselessly]]) fires at Characters/{{Supergirl|TheCharacter}}, yelling she has turned him into the underworld's laughingstock.
* ''ComicBook/AstroCity'': When Steeljack was being pummeled by Goldenglove's teen daughter, his only fear was if Samaritan was using his super-senses to see him get beaten up by a 15-year-old girl.
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[[folder:Comic Strips]]
* ''ComicStrip/FoxTrot'':
** Jason, being a HeManWomanHater, had this reaction when Eileen scored higher than him on a math test, and has been trying to show her up ever since, always [[EpicFail failing miserably.]]
** Of course, Jason maintains his pride better than Phoebe's InsufferableGenius and SmugSnake of a brother Eugene, who once scored ''slightly'' lower than Phoebe on an IQ test. He would [[OnceDoneNeverForgotten never hear the end of it]].
* ''ComicStrip/{{Garfield}}'': [[https://www.gocomics.com/garfield/2017/01/03 Jon while arm-wrestling.]]
-->'''Jon:''' My arm is killing me!\\
'''Garfield:''' What happened?\\
'''Jon:''' I arm-wrestled my old gym teacher and lost badly!\\
'''Garfield:''' Hey, it's not like it's the end of the world.\\
'''Jon:''' And I had Miss Bryant right to there!\\
'''Garfield:''' Okay, it's the end of the world.
* ''ComicStrip/WallaceTheBrave'': This trope was [[SubvertedTrope subverted]] when Wallace lost a bet to a female classmate. While he was upset he lost, he made it clear to Amelia it was not because of this trope.
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[[folder:Films — Animated]]
* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Hoodwinked}}'', the Wolf relates [[RashomonStyle his side]] of the humiliating story of getting beaten up by Red Puckett. Altough in this case, the humiliation mostly comes from the fact that Red is younger than Wolf, rather than her being a girl.
-->'''Nicky Flippers:''' So! You really took a beating, from a little girl? [''Cuts to Red standing next to a picture of herself as the "Forest Regional Karate Champion"'']
* In ''WesternAnimation/TheLionKing1994'', Simba gets pinned by his friend-turned-eventual-girlfriend Nala on three separate occasions. The first two times were when they were just cubs, arguing over who deserves credit for their plan on losing Zazu. Simba pounces on Nala to make her admit he deserves the credit, only for her to easily flip and pin him, and playfully tease him. Simba pushes her off him and glares at her, clearly annoyed at being beaten so easily, and pounces on her from behind while she's distracted. Unfortunately, he accidentally sends them both tumbling down a hill, and Nala once again flips and pins him, now ''smugly'' rubbing her win in his face, with him only able to silently glare at her in defeat as she holds him down. The third time is when they are now adults, having not seen each other in years, with Simba attacking Nala when she tries hunting his friends. Though Simba does much better this time, he is still beaten by the same move Nala used on him in their first two fights, but he also recognizes her thanks to this. [[spoiler:Though in his case he eventually [[BrokenWinLossStreak returns the favor]], but on much more playful and [[LiterallyFallingInLove romantic]] terms.]]
* Averted in ''WesternAnimation/{{Mulan}}''. Though [[BigBad Shan-Yu]] is understandably furious with Mulan for destroying his army, he doesn't seem to care that she is a woman. In fact, he's one of the few male characters in the whole film who never outright says anything sexist towards Mulan. This is either FridgeBrilliance or AccidentallyCorrectWriting, as many nomadic tribes (including both the actual Huns and the Xiongnu, who were the ones that actually attacked China but whose name wasn't used, probably because it doesn't rhyme with "sons") ''did'' have warrior women. So even though we don't see any in Shan-Yu's army, he may have been familiar with them.
* In ''WesternAnimation/MonstersVsAliens'', Doctor Cockroach mocks the Missing Link for being "out-monstered by a girl."
* ''WesternAnimation/WonderWoman2009'': Diana invokes in this in the final battle with Ares.
-->How do you expect to defeat Zeus when you can't even beat a girl?
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[[folder:Films — Live-Action]]
* Uttered (in almost exactly the same words, no less) by one of the heroes of Polish cult sci-fi film ''Film/SexMission'', after, well... It (like many other quotes from this film) has since entered MemeticMutation.
* When the [[TheDragon Dragon]]/[[TheBrute Brute]] from ''{{Film/Dragonheart}}'' is mortally wounded by an ActionGirl, his response is to incredulously repeat "A ''girl?!''" several times before dying.
* Implied and barely subverted in ''Film/DeepRed'', the protagonist scoffs when his female counterpart claims that a woman can be just as strong as a man. She challenges him to an arm wrestling contest in which he begins to lose. He stops and claims she is cheating somehow and gives it another time before almost losing again and stopping to make similar complaints. It's obvious he did not want to invoke this trope or expect this to become [[spoiler: Foreshadowing for a future encounter where it wouldn't just be his ego that would be at peril]].
* In ''[[Series/{{Firefly}} Serenity]]'': "Start with the part where Jayne gets knocked out by a 90 pound girl, cause I don't think that's ever gettin' old."
* Ryan Dunn knows this is going to happen to him in the ''Series/{{Jackass}}: The Movie'' segment "Ass Kicked by Girl." He gives it the old college try, but still gets the stuffing knocked out of him by female kickboxer Naoko Kumagai.
--> "Seriously, my jaw is, like, two inches to the left."
* An InvokedTrope in ''Film/StrangeDays''. Lenny is beaten up by Gant's thugs, one of whom is a muscular woman who does the hitting while the men hold Lenny and taunt him over this trope. This turns out to be TemptingFate when ActionGirl Mace appears and beats up the thugs.
* ''Film/TrueGrit'' (1969). Chaney's fellow gang members mock him mercilessly after he's wounded by 14 year-old Mattie.
* ''Film/CoolRunnings''. During the montage showing the team trying to raise money to go to the Olympics, the strongest and most muscular of the four is shown participating in arm-wrestling contests. He beats every opponent with ease--until he's finally shown struggling and being completely overwhelmed by a large woman who isn't phased in the slightest.
* After his apparent death in ''Film/RevengeOfThePinkPanther'', Clouseau returns home and finds his manservant Cato has turned his apartment into a Chinese themed brothel. Under the assumption that Clouseau is a masochist, the brothel madam introduces him to... Lotus, the Fire Eater.
-->"And another Round-Eye bites the dust..."
* Cited in the movie ''[[https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pride_(2007_film) Pride]]'' when a ragtag swim team takes on that from an elite private school. The wealthy team's coach blasts one of his swimmers who loses a race--"You let a girl beat you!" (Undoubtedly adding insult to injury for this {{Jerkass}}, the girl in question was African-American).
* ''Film/TheArtOfSelfDefense'' (2019). Anna (Imogen Poots) [[NoHoldsBarredBeatdown viciously beats up]] Thomas (Steven Terada) out of rage at not being promoted to black belt.
* ''Film/{{Girlfight}}'': The men whom Diana beats at boxing (which includes her boyfriend) both are embarrassed by the fact they lost to a woman.
* A variation in ''Film/Daredevil2003''. When Kingpin unmasks Matt Murdock during their fight, he threatens to reveal Daredevil's SecretIdentity to the world. Matt just scoffs, pointing out that the all-powerful crime boss [[VillainCred could never afford to admit to his fellow criminals]] that he has been "beaten by a blind man".
* {{Discussed|Trope}} in ''Film/SWAT2003''. Female patrol officer Chris Sanchez has passed the SWATTeam qualifications three times but been rejected by the sexist Captain Fuller, with her number of [[PoliceBrutality excessive force complaints]] used as an excuse. When queried on this by Hondo, she blows the complaints off as male suspects who resisted arrest and then were embarrassed at being beaten by a girl.
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[[folder:Music]]
* [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU1KIKL9oY8 One song]] by Phil X and The Drills contains the choice lyric ''"I'm the air hockey champion of the world, of the world ... except for the time I got beat by a girl!"''
* Music/JoeJackson's "Real Men" contains the lines:
--> ''Time to admit''\\
''What you call defeat''\\
'' 'cause there's women running past you now,''\\
''And you just drag your feet''
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[[folder:Mythology and Religion]]
* In Literature/TheBible, we have the [[http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Judges+9&version=NIV story of Abimelech]], who was mortally wounded when a woman dropped a millstone on his head. He had one of his men kill him so that people wouldn't say that a woman killed him. This is referenced later on and unfortunately for him, they still say a woman killed him.
* In Myth/NorseMythology, Thor once lost a wrestling match to an elderly woman, and everybody makes fun of him. Learning that she was Elli, the AnthropomorphicPersonification of Old Age, who cannot be defeated because nothing is immune to aging, not even the Gods, doesn't cheer him up. (In some versions of the story it's made clear that some of the audience's amusement at Thor and his companions -- who have been shown up all evening in a variety of equally deceptive contests -- was all in his mind, and in fact his hosts were ''awed'' that he very nearly won that match. Still doesn't cheer him up.)
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[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
* El Profe went ballistic after losing to Monster Ripper at WWC's 18th Aniversario show. While it's true he was tripped up by her manager before getting pinned, his had tripped her up first to give Profe that advantage.
* This happened to MANY guys who faced [[Wrestling/{{Jacqueline}} Miss Texas (Jacqueline)]] in Memphis, as she got over by beating up both men AND women. At ''Wrestling/{{WCW}} Halloween Havoc 97'', she defeated [[Wrestling/GlennGilbertti Disco Inferno]] (who was [[http://www.wrestling-titles.com/wcw/wcw-tv.html WCW World Television Champion]] at the time) in a non-title match[[note]]Disco had actually quit WCW rather than allow Jacqueline a run-in and bodyslam on him, to get back into WCW he was forced to agree to lose a match to her[[/note]]. (because WCW wouldn't/couldn't sanction an intergender match for the title). She defeated Wrestling/HarveyWippleman for the [[http://www.wrestling-titles.com/wwe/wwf-wm.html WWE Women's Title.]][[note]]Harvey had disguised himself as "Harvina" and defeated [[Wrestling/StacyCarter the Kat]] for the title in a [[GimmickMatches "Lumberjill Snowbunny Match"]].[[/note]] Right before being pushed out the door in 2004, she defeated [[http://www.wrestling-titles.com/wwe/wwe-c.html WWE World Cruiserweight Champion]] Wrestling/ChavoGuerreroJr for the title, who was so incensed he tied one hand behind his back during their rematch to "prove" he could beat a woman.
* Wrestling/{{MsChif}} ''started'' her career in Missouri, particularly in Gateway Championship Wrestling, this way, going on an undefeated streak that saw her usually defeating men. And no man took it harder than Sean Vincent.
* Wrestling/{{Raven}} tried to get this reaction out of Wrestling/CMPunk by sending out Trinity with the mission to beat Punk down. Punk retaliated by having [[Wrestling/DaffneyUnger Lucy]] beat down Raven.
* While [[Wrestling/MickieJames Alexis Laree]] had pinned three members of Bolin Services, it was Mike Mondo who took it personally, to the point he tried [[LeaningOnTheFourthWall to force one of OVW's bookers]], Wrestling/MariaKanellis, into a match to prove he could beat a woman.
* [[Wrestling/JonMoxley Moxley Moxx]] didn't take to losing to girls too well. His most infamous instance wasn't even a loss when he gave a referee a stunner for awarding ''one fall'' out of three to Traci Brooks but his most high profile case was a definite loss to then rookie teen wrestler La Amazona in the IWA Puerto Rico Cruiserweight Title {{Tournament| Arc}}.
* Wrestling/SantinoMarella has lost to a lot of women. Maria Kanellis, Mickie James, Wrestling/BethPhoenix...and this had an odd affect on his psyche, as he would try to prove his manliness by beating divas at traditionally girly tasks. The divas are wearing bikinis? Behold, the mankini! Nothing says manly like a Battle Royal to determine Miss Wrestlemania!
* After Ken Oka lost the SGP title belt to Mio Shirai as Wrestling/DramaticDreamTeam was {{reviv|al}}ing Union Pro, primarily as a Joshi (read:women's) fed, he fought the DDT wrestlers for the right to join Union himself, defeating Masao Orihara but then failing to win the belt back from Shirai in the rematch. Mio herself went on to lose it to Cherry, meaning he was defeated by a girl indirectly too and proved it wasn't just about the belt as he continued to face and lose to Shirai, though by the anniversary show they [[FireForgedFriends had formed]] a TagTeam, one good enough to defeat the Evil Russians [=KGB48=] (Ivan Markov and Bonnie). He'd eventually manage to beat Shirai toward the end of the next year but then continued to lose to her.
* Mike Bennett clocked Kimber Lee after their match and tried to give her a package pile driver on the edge of the ring when he became the latest person to fail to stop her 2014 undefeated streak in Beyond Wrestling when she pinned him out of a piledriver attempt with an alligator clutch.
* In Wrestling/{{CHIKARA}}, this was a major element in Claudio Castagnoli's departure. He was leading the [[Wrestling/DieBruderschaftDesKreuzes BDK]], and was one half of the Tag Team Champions with Ares. His stablemate Wrestling/SaraDelRey, teaming with Wrestling/DaizeeHaze as Death Haze, won three points to challenge for the titles, and Claudio began to be intimidated by her rise up the card and refused to let Death Haze cash in their shot. Death Haze would lose a tag match and as such all their points and their contendership. This caused Del Rey to challenge Claudio, who responded by kicking Death Haze out of the BDK and injuring Daizee, which caused SDR to do what Claudio had been worried about all the time and ''kick his ass''. A subsequent loss to Icarus caused Claudio to ragequit Chikara and join Wrestling/{{WWE}} as Antonio Cesaro.
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[[folder:Sport]]
* An example with race instead of sex: In a UsefulNotes/{{Cricket}} test between England and the West Indies in 1933, when West Indian-Chinese left-arm spin bowler Ellis Achong got English batsman Walter Robins out, Robins reportedly commented "Fancy being done by a bloody Chinaman!" as he headed off the ground, which popularised the term "Chinaman" for a left-arm spin bowler (although the term had reportedly been used previously in Yorkshire).
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[[folder:Tabletop Games]]
* In ''TabletopGame/{{Munchkin}}'', the Amazon's "Bad Stuff" says: "You have had your butt kicked by a woman. Your macho pride is lost." (They won't attack female players.)
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[[folder:Theatre]]
* In Puccini's ''{{Theatre/Tosca}}'', the female protagonist stabs Scarpia in the gut; "that was Tosca's kiss". Realizing the wound is fatal his reaction is: "Oh killed by a woman, what a disgrace."
* In ''Theatre/AVeryPotterMusical'', after Hermione uses the Jelly-Legs Jinx to get past him, Goyle laments "that was royal [[UnusualEuphemism hypogriff]]. Beaten by a girl... who's a nerd."
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[[folder:Toys]]
* In ''{{Toys/Bionicle}}'' Hakann gets beaten by Lariska (much to his surprise).
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[[folder:Webcomics]]
* In ''Webcomic/NoRestForTheWicked'', [[https://web.archive.org/web/20090320233529/http://www.forthewicked.net/archive/04i-04.html the Boy speculates that some girl beat up Prince Ricardo]], a.k.a. "Picky Dick", a PrinceCharmless who embodies MinorFlawMajorOverreaction.
* Jack in Webcomic/HeroByNight gets laughed at in TV for this, a result of his [[WouldntHitAGirl unwillingness to fight girl criminals]].
* Happens to Ken Mills of ''Webcomic/DorkTower'', as his girlfriend Sujata regularly trounces him at whatever games they play.
* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary''. Sergeant Schlock is called on this when he's [[GoodThingYouCanHeal dispersed into thirty pieces]] by a woman armed with a fire hose. Schlock objects, saying that ''human'' females are indeed small and weak, so it's humiliating to lose to one. His own female officer points out to Schlock that he's been relying too much on firepower and NighInvulnerability, and when a human female has a [[MoreDakka force multiplier]] it doesn't matter how weak she is.
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[[folder:Web Original]]
* In ''Literature/TheAntithesis'', the first episode of the story (I. The Encounter) recounts Alezair Czynri nearly getting killed by Leid Koseling in the battle of Jerusalem circa 1180. Alezair's ego is significantly damaged by this, and this initiates the entire story, making him want to pursue her and perhaps fight her again. Later in Decus, Qaira Eltruan gets his ass beat by Leid on numerous occasions after losing his temper (or after she makes him lose his temper), and often he becomes so impossible to deal with that she must smack some sense into him. This is also ego-damaging to Qaira, since he is what we would deem a "manly-man", also a chauvinist, and also a misogynist. Although the readers find Qaira's beat-downs rather funny, Qaira, in fact, does not.
* In the ''Literature/WhateleyUniverse'', huge Montana (who looks like a Sasquatch) gets challenged to a fight by petite [[SassyBlackWoman Sassy Black Girl]] Chaka, who proceeds to utterly pwn him. In front of a big portion of the school. This does eventually lower his jerk quotient.
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[[folder:Web Videos]]
* [[StrawMisogynist Omega Zell]] from ''Franchise/{{Noob}}'' gets a few interactions with this trope. The tournament from the comic has him fight against [[BoisterousBruiser Golgotha]] and he gets genuine fear of losing against her due to the fact that he has shown hints of [[OneOfTheBoys not entirely considering her a woman]] (he considers all his other female peers as unable to overpower him). In the webseries, he lets his loss of a CurbStompBattle with Saphir pass due to her being a much higher level player than he is, but doesn't take [[spoiler:loosing his first real duel against Gaea]] well at all.
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