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[[caption-width-right:312:You should let her help. [[WhatCouldPossiblyGoWrong What could go wrong?]]]]
->'''Dex:''' Consider us your reinforcements.\\
'''Blade:''' What? You amateurs are supposed to be helping me? You? Look at you. You're kids. You're not ready to roll with this. I mean, look at the way you're dressed. What, that's supposed to be tactical? [about Hannibal's name tag]\\
'''Blade:''' What is this? What is that? "Fuck you." It's a joke, huh? What the fuck is wrong with y'all? You think this is a joke? You think this is a fucking sit-com?\\
'''Hannibal King:''' Okay, first off, that's just rude. Second, I'm pretty sure we saved your ass back there.
-->-- ''{{Blade}}: Trinity''

[[AddedAlliterativeAppeal Being a hero is hard, having no one to help with the harrowing work of heroing. However, Heaven has seen fit to bless the hero with helpers... that he won't hesitate to harass.]]

Perhaps these helpers hope to form a HeroSecretService or LaResistance, and actually manage to aid the hero in his fight. Be it by hindering TheDragon, freeing him from horrors, or healing his wounds. However the hero ''doesn't'' hail their effort with high praise, advice, or most strangely of all, gratitude... but becomes an UngratefulBastard and tells them to pack it up and go home.

Perhaps the hero [[IWorkAlone works alone]], prefers a populace HoldingOutForAHero, or has a bad case of SamaritanSyndrome and generalized case of ItsNotYouItsMyEnemies. Sometimes he's justified in his being hidebound by the helpers being [[RecklessSidekick hopelessly helpless and incompetent]]. Sometimes he's [[GoodIsNotNice just not a nice person]]. Whatever the case, he at least strongly urges the helpers to disband and might verbally abuse them, or even take steps to ensure they can't try to help him again.

This can end up one of three ways.
* The helpers persevere, and by saving the hero a second time get him to admit they ''are'' competent enough to hang with him and fight alongside each other from then on.
* They become [[MotiveDecay embittered]] and choose to turn to a life of crime. The latter can be justifiable if it's one of the cases of NeverBeAHero that has the helper be empowered by bad means, which in turn make them go bad because TheDarkSideWillMakeYouForget.
* The helpers can persevere while the hero complains about them eternally, because any {{Aesop}} he learns about them is obliterated by each episode's ResetButton and the [[StatusQuoIsGod status quo remains God.]]

Compare ComplainingAboutRescuesTheyDontLike and MinorInsultMeltdown, see also TheScrappy.

Contrast StopHelpingMe, which is when the helpers ''deserve'' to be harassed by the hero.
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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* Happens in an episode of ''GGundam''. Domon's rudeness to Rain, despite her aid AND putting up with his rude attitude for the past 11 months, inspires her to quit as God Gundam's mechanic. [[TheObiWan Schwarz]] offers her a job as his mechanic, primarily to teach Domon [[AnAesop a lesson]]. During the fight with Schwarz, Domon refuses to learn his lesson until God Gundam is crippled by a faulty repair job, and Rain tells him how to fix it himself, allowing him to win the match.
* L in ''Manga/DeathNote'' mostly treats the police force like this. [[SubvertedTrope Subverted:]] it's a weeding-out ploy to ensure that the people he's working with are the ones who will stick with him, come hell or high water, and give their lives if necessary, to bring Kira down.
* ''OnePiece'''s Ussop Pirate Gang (from when he joins the crew) could fit. When Ussop decides to fight, he tries to get the trio to think he isn't, and then in the battle, gives them an important job when they show up to try and help. He's even proud of them at the end, but ends up leaving them for the Straw Hats.
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* ''Franchise/{{Batman}}'s'' treatment of Stephanie Brown, full stop. Batman's treatment of most of his sidekicks in various adaptations.
* ''ComicBook/TheAvengers'' on almost anything. Most recently and prominently on the YoungAvengers who aren't much younger than themselves when they began. Instead of helping them fight crime, they talk down to them and do everything to disband them and even Captain America has to help them INCOGNITO. To be absolutely fair, the Avengers ''themselves'' had recently disbanded after an absolutely disastrous event involving an utter betrayal by a fellow Avenger they'd all trusted, which left a number of them dead and the rest devastated. After that, none of the former Avengers were exactly in the right frame of mind to allow a bunch of teenagers to follow them down the same road, especially when one of those kids was the daughter of an Avenger who was killed in action.
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[[folder:Film]]
* {{Blade}} did this when he gets saved by the Nightstalkers, calling them rookies playing at vampire slayer.
* In ''TheIncredibles'', a young fan is trying to become Mr. Incredible's sidekick. [[spoiler: He later becomes ''Syndrome'', and turns out to be the big bad (case 2).]] Later, he wants Elastigirl to stay back, [[spoiler: but she convinces him they need to fight as a team (case 1).]] In both cases, he's just trying to keep his would-be sidekicks from getting killed.
** He does seem to be pretty grumpy with his would-be sidekick's obsession with him rather than being afraid of his life being at risk, [[spoiler:but then again when Buddy gets involved it's clear that that was what Mr. Incredible was afraid of. Especially since Syndrome later seems to still not understand that being a hero is genuinely life-threatening rather than a glory trip.]]
*** It's also fairly clear that this is not the first time Mr. Incredible has had this conversation with Buddy, so we can add to the list, "For the love of Mike, how often do I have to tell you this?!"
* Batman again in ''Film/TheDarkKnight''. What's the difference between himself and his imitators? He's not wearing hockey pads.
* Throughout most of ''Film/LicenceToKill'', Film/JamesBond doesn't look highly upon CIA operative Pam Bouvier, that is, until the end.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* [[TheDeathOfTheVazirMukhtar Griboyedov]] is not very fond of Maltsev during the Persian mission, and therefore tends to indulge in this trope, albeit relatively subtly.
* This is [[Literature/TheDresdenFiles Harry Dresden]]'s initial reaction to the Alphas -- and in his defense, when they're introduced in ''Fool Moon'' they obviously ''are'' still quite green and new to this whole "werewolf" thing, plus they originally start out as some of his ''suspects'' --, but he does come around fairly quickly once they've proven themselves.
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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* In TheBigBangTheory episode "The White Asparagus Triangulation" Leonard is starting to date a doctor named Stephanie Barnett and surprisingly, Sheldon considers her tolerable and wants to make her the final member of his social group. To accomplish this he starts helping Leonard with every detail in the dates fearing that Leonard will screw up the relationship if he doesn't act. Leonard, annoyed by his interference, tries to get rid of him at every opportunity he gets without success. The funny thing is that Sheldon actually ends up succeeding in making Leonard and Stephanie a couple despite all of Leonard's complaints.
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[[folder:Toys]]
* In the early years of ''{{Bionicle}}'', Kopaka was like this with pretty much everyone who tried to assist him. He has improved in this regard over the years, but he is still considered a bit of a loner.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/JackieChanAdventures'' has... Jade. Every episode Jackie tells her to stay with Uncle, leave the fighting to him, and stay out of danger. She never, ''ever'' listens. To her credit, she at least helps as much (if not more) than she hinders, Jackie never accepts her as his sidekick.
* {{Buzz Lightyear of Star Command}} at the beginning of the cartoon, was bitter about his partner sacrificing his life. And so when several people came up to be his partner, he turned them all down. Eventually, he let them all join him and they become Team Lightyear.
* WesternAnimation/DarkwingDuck often treated Gosalyn like this, much like in the Jackie Chan example above. Being her legal guardian, Darkwing sincerely didn't want Gosalyn getting hurt.
* InspectorGadget has two, his niece "Penny" and the dog "Brain" which not only help but do everything entirely themselves.
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