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->''"... I leave it to be settled by whomsoever it may concern, whether the tendency of this work be altogether to recommend parental tyranny, or reward filial disobedience."''
-->-- '''Creator/JaneAusten''', ''Literature/NorthangerAbbey'' (final line)

Everyone knows the StockAesops: BeYourself; appreciate what you have; people are more important than things; follow your dreams. Sometimes, these morals contradict each other, but nobody is surprised to see any of them in a story. However, sometimes a story aims to teach a lesson well outside the pale of accepted wisdom. For example, "NoGoodDeedGoesUnpunished", "It's okay to BeAWhoreToGetYourMan," or "Sometimes ViolenceReallyIsTheAnswer".

"Family-Unfriendly" does not necessarily mean "wrong": the lesson may be both true and well-supported in context, but it frequently jars the audience since they weren't expecting it. After all, most shows, especially ones aimed at children, teach viewers that they should help the less fortunate, be modest, and solve their problems without coming to blows.

When your work promotes a lesson that is seldom taught and/or contradicts general morality, you have a Family-Unfriendly Aesop. Your audience may not be able to argue that you're "wrong", but they'll still walk away feeling a bit uncomfortable.

Note that being "jarring" is not necessarily the same as being pessimistic. Some more optimistic Family-Unfriendly Aesops might be, for instance, "{{peer pressure|MakesYouEvil}} [[InvertedTrope is good for you]] because it convinces you to try new things" (or, conversely, "Rejecting the wisdom of the crowd could end badly,") or, "[[YouNeedToGetLaid Having sex reduces stress and makes you happier]], so go have some." Note also that how the Aesop is conveyed may be what makes it family-unfriendly: for instance, GoodPeopleHaveGoodSex almost always gets a far friendlier reception from MoralGuardians than YouNeedToGetLaid, though both promote sex as a good thing.

A Family-Unfriendly Aesop is not the same as a CluelessAesop, which is a moral (usually a family-friendly one) presented so ineffectively that the audience either misses the point or doesn't find it at all persuasive. When delivered straight and effectively, the Family-Unfriendly Aesop jolts the audience entirely ''because'' the message they figure out is exactly the one the writers wanted them to catch. Nor is it the same as BrokenAesop, wherein a show contradicts or otherwise undermines its own (again, usually family-friendly) moral.

Due to ValuesDissonance, a moral that is family-unfriendly in one culture may be very family-friendly in another, especially morals about social mores or civil rights. This list is for morals that were family-unfriendly even for the culture for which they were written. A prime target for [[{{Anvilicious}} dropping anvils]].

'''Note:''' A work may depict a character behaving in a certain way without promoting that behavior as good (let alone telling the audience that they should do the same). Before adding an example to this list, think about whether the example is actually preaching a moral, or if it is simply telling a story to entertain (i.e. a DownerEnding does not mean it is trying to teach a lesson that life is pointless). If it's not the point of a story, it's not AnAesop. An unusual moral also doesn't count if it's played for laughs (SpoofAesop). If it started out as a good moral, but was broken, that falls under BrokenAesop. If most people would've considered it a good moral when the work was made, but SocietyMarchesOn, it's ValuesDissonance or FairForItsDay. If you are [[WhatDoYouMeanItsNotDidactic drawing absurd conclusions from a story which doesn't have a moral]], take it to DarthWiki/WarpThatAesop on DarthWiki. All in all, try to keep presumptuousness to a minimum in interpreting what the story's message is.

Compare CluelessAesop and some cases of UnfortunateImplications. See also TheComplainerIsAlwaysWrong.

'''''Note: Understand that not everything needs or has an Aesop. A depiction is not an endorsement.'''''
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!!Works with their own pages:
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* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop/LiveActionTV
* FamilyUnfriendlyAesop/WesternAnimation
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!!Examples

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[[folder:Advertising]]
* The Truth anti-tobacco initiatives
** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ivgb4hUKzS4 "Left Swipe Dat"]] music video tries to get its anti-tobacco message across by having [[WereStillRelevantDammit popular YouTubers and Vine-makers]] sing a song about instantly rejecting people on Tinder if they smoke cigarettes in their profile pics. It's basically two Family-Unfriendly Aesops at once: "If you enjoy a frowned-upon vice, make sure you don't advertise it to potential romantic partners!" and "Don't even consider speaking to someone -- or even learning anything else about them -- if they have a personal habit that you don't approve of!"
** [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_182kIOPRvo This ad]] mentions that smokers earn less money than non-smokers. Ignoring the accuracy or lack thereof, the ad doesn't portray this as a case of wage discrimination, but instead uses this fact to encourage smokers to quit, as if they deserve lower wages because of their habit.
* Two [=PSAs=] for the Montana Meth Project has a voice over of two teenagers wishing that something had stopped them from going to their respective parties, trying meth for the first time and ruining their lives by becoming users, which, in theory, would have been great. The only problem there is that they wish that they had ''suffered horrific injuries'' instead (implied to become a paraplegic/quadriplegic and having a serious brain injury.) While obviously being addicted to drugs is not a desirable lifestyle for anyone, wishing to be injured shouldn't be considered a more acceptable (or as hinted at in the commercial, glamourized) fate, particularly if they could have just said no or at least have a less tragic fate happen instead. Furthermore, you must wonder how anyone who ''is'' suffering from such terrible injuries would react upon coming across these commercials...
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[[folder:Anime & Manga]]
* A recurring theme in the ''Manga/Area88'' manga and OVA is that engaging in combat will transform you into a traumatized basketcase who can never integrate into normal society ever again.
* ''Manga/BlackClover'': When Juno and Asta ask the Sorcerer Emperor about what they must do to achieve his rank, he gives the answer that nothing is more important than producing results, and he came to be the current Sorcerer Emperor due to producing more and better results than any other of the captains. While the manga makes clear that effort and kindness are important, this is also a very pragmatic way to see the world.
* ''Manga/{{Bokurano}}'' has a few, which is unsurprising given the nature of the show.
** Kirie, having learned that [[spoiler:every time you win, another universe is destroyed]], has a talk with Tanaka, believing he cannot fight in light of that information. Tanaka essentially gives him two lessons. 1) People's lives are not equal, and when people are forced into a situation where they must choose one person's life or another's, they will choose the one they value more. 2) People exist because of sacrifice, from the plants and animals they eat every day to continue living, to the ones who died to ensure their standard of life, and even Jesus and the Buddha are no exception.
** The ending of [[spoiler:Chizu]]'s arc has [[spoiler:her]] family understandably appalled at [[spoiler:her]] killing innocent people in [[spoiler:her]] quest for vengeance against [[spoiler:Hatagai]]. In response, they decide not to press charges against [[spoiler:Hatagai]], sending the message that it's better to let the guilty escape than cause innocents to suffer through revenge.
* ''Anime/CowboyBebop'': You can ignore it for a little while, but you can never truly escape from your past. Any mistakes you made or regrets you have, will haunt you until the day you die.
* ''Anime/DaisukiBuBuChaCha'': Prolonged exposure may result in creepiness when your preschooler somehow ends up believing that one of his toys is the reincarnation of or is possessed by the spirit of the recently deceased family pet.
* At the end of ''Anime/EdenOfTheEast'', Akira (the hero) makes a comment to the effect that Japanese have great potential but need someone to rule them to unlock that potential. In the end, though, it actually subverts this Aesop by more or less stating that while it might achieve great results, it would be wrong to do so. Similarly, Akira/the series seems to take the viewpoint that since national tragedies/catastrophes bring a country together, causing one is a great idea so long as you can figure out a way of doing it without killing anyone.
* ''Anime/DigimonAdventure02'' had an episode in which the digidestined are trapped in an underwater rig that is slowly running out of air, with only one escape pod: despite knowing that he's afraid of water, the kids coerce Cody into going, creating the AccidentalAesop of "it's okay to force your friends to have contact with their phobias - it'll help them!" Though, it is possible they just wanted him to go into the pod so he wouldn't have to stay trapped and underwater with them and, thus, be able to avoid his fear. (Note that this is dub-induced; the phobia is nonexistent in the original Japanese version.) Upon reaching the surface, he finds out that to get Joe's help, he would have to lie, something Cody is deeply uncomfortable with, to the point that he later feels that he doesn't deserve the digi-egg of Reliability. This leads to the episode's Aesop: ''that lying is sometimes perfectly okay, if you have a good reason for doing it.'' While this isn't necessarily a damaging message (as depending on the context, white lies can be beneficial), it is incredibly odd considering that most children's shows would advocate for honesty.
* ''LightNovel/FateZero'' has [[AntiHero Kiritsigu Emiya]] always killing [[TheNeedsOfTheMany the few to save the many]] but realizing that even by killing people he deems evil, he'll never create a world free of evil, cruelty, suffering and conflict. So he consults a wish granting device, the Holy Grail, after a long bloody war to get the miracle of world peace. [[spoiler:The Holy Grail decides the only way for the world to have peace is for all beings capable of conflict to be dead, so there will be an absence of conflict.]] Needless to say, Kiritsugu was bothered by the implications that humanity is not capable of ever lasting peace. It should be noted, however, that [[spoiler:the Grail had been corrupted such that it would twist any wish it could into a wish for worldwide destruction]].
* ''VisualNovel/HigurashiWhenTheyCry'':
** The moral of the Tsumihoroboshi-hen arc appears to be "friends help friends hide the bodies." But in a more directly stated example, it's okay to hide things from your friends if they don't need to know about it. Even though they're your friends, it doesn't require complete disclosure. While Higurashi certainly emphasizes the importance of trusting your friends, at this point it acknowledges that there are some things people just can't tell others and shouldn't have to.
** Saikoroshi-hen [[spoiler:(whether you accept it as AllJustADream or not)]] seems to advocate a rather ruthless approach to pursuing one's own happiness at the expense of others.
* The moral of ''Anime/IrresponsibleCaptainTylor'' as a ''series'' can be taken 2 ways: 1) Being an individual in a conformist society will lead to extreme success, or 2) Rigid military discipline is actively bad for winning wars, and treating it like a joke will make everything better. The former is one for the Japanese, and the latter is one for Americans.
* One of the themes at the end of ''Anime/MobileSuitZetaGundam'' seems to be "Peace is a nice ideal, but you have to be willing to fight because the world is full of bad people who delight in tormenting others". Indeed, the GrandFinale basically has Kamille getting over his earlier "Why do we have to keep fighting?!" attitude and killing the BigBad.
* While the manga and anime itself has a Family-Friendly Aesop that teaches {{Forgiveness}} and uses AWorldHalfFull, the [[FictionalDocument creepy children's books]] in ''Manga/{{Monster}}'' were made like this purposefully by one of the characters to instill nihilism in children. They feature such lovely morals as "It doesn't matter whether you make a deal with the devil or not, because you're screwed either way."
* ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'': It's later revealed that [[spoiler:Black Zetsu]] somehow manipulated the Uchiha into evil and they are later forgiven despite their atrocities. The moral here: Because the devil made you do it, your crimes should be ignored.
** The Aesop here is in fact even worse than that, as characters like Naruto, Hashirama, and Minato are endlessly forgiving of the Uchiha clan ''long'' before this plot twist is revealed or even hinted at and have always viewed them as fallen friends, and in truth, this twist seemed to have been tacked on just to retroactively excuse their misdeeds. It actually ends up being "If you consider someone your friend, you should forgive anything wrong they do based solely on that."
** Another big one in ''Naruto'' is Naruto's willingness to stick his neck out for Sasuke, advocating that he's really a nice guy deep down in a way reminiscent of a platonic version of ICanChangeMyBeloved, and asking world leaders (including one who believes Sasuke killed his brother, and Naruto has no reason or evidence to believe he hasn't) to put off their plans to kill him, all while Sasuke is merrily skipping around committing every crime he can. Again, [[ProtagonistCenteredMorality this is based solely on the fact that Naruto considers Sasuke his friend]], giving a message that reads like "You should place your friendship with someone above the greater good, even if your friend is the one directly threatening the greater good."
** At the end, [[spoiler:Sasuke has a child with Sakura, the same girl he [[MindRape mind raped]] and tried to kill at least once]]. And according to the WordOfGod, giving up on him would somehow make her a bad person. More specifically, WordOfGod stated that it would make her a horrible person if she gave up on him ''and'' "suddenly" just "switched over" to [[spoiler:Naruto]]. More plainly put: giving up your feelings for someone, despite being hurt by them both physically and emotionally, makes you a bad person.
* ''Anime/{{Pokemon}}'': The debut episode of Duplica and her Ditto featured one. Her Ditto was unable to change its face when transforming, a shortcoming it couldn't get rid of, no matter how hard Ditto and its caring trainer worked on overcoming it. Then the Team Rocket trio kidnapped Ditto and finally got it to overcome its problem ''by threatening it''. So apparently encouraging someone and helping them work on overcoming their shortcomings isn't enough; you have to ''intimidate and force them to do it''. The moral here: The ends justify the means. It also counts as a BrokenAesop, as it's a rather odd moral to have in a franchise that highlights the close and friendly bond trainers can develop with their Pokémon.
* ''Anime/PuellaMagiMadokaMagica'' has two of them, which co-exists in universe despite being contradictory: 1. There's no such thing as selflessness; 2. If you somehow become capable of selflessness, [[EsotericHappyEnding you will cease to have a self]].
* ''Manga/{{Shiki}}'' basically has the moral that if things get bad enough, anyone can and will turn into a murderous monster regardless of his or her original personality because most people just care about themselves and their own more than anything else, and that it doesn't matter if you ''do'' decide to be selfless and nonviolent because you're screwed either way.
* In-universe example: in ''Manga/UruseiYatsura'', Ataru tells a class of kindergartners a story about the legendary Kintaro, who through ceaseless effort, finally became the assistant to a great man.
--> '''Ataru:''' The moral of the story is, "Even if you work like a dog... you can only rise so far in this lousy world!"
* ''Anime/YuGiOh'' had, in its filler DOMA arc, an Aesop that Valon/Varon teaches Mai: ThePowerOfFriendship won't win her battles for her, and she can't rely on her friends to help her.
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* Creator/ECComics story "Beauty and the Beach!" (''Shock [=SuspenStories=]'' #7): Attractive young wives should stay home and look after their children. Those who instead prefer to pursue lucrative careers ("I'm making more money now than you'll ever make") and win public admiration deserve {{Karmic Death}}s at their husbands' hands. Even for the 1950s, this seems rather mean-spirited.
* The moral of ''Comicbook/BirdsOfPrey: The Battle Within'', the arc from issues 76 to 85, appears to be the fairly stock Aesop of "You should accept your friends for who they are and not try to change them," except that what Oracle was trying to change about ComicBook/{{Huntress}} is her tendency to kill people. In the end, Oracle apologizes to Huntress, and, in the ''Dead of Winter'' story arc (issues 104-108), actually tells Huntress to use deadly force against the ComicBook/SecretSix if she thinks it appropriate, making the moral that sometimes killing people is a good idea.
* The ''ComicBook/{{Chick Tract|s}}'' "Lisa" was heavily freighted with UnfortunateImplications and several rather disturbing {{Accidental Aesop}}s, which is probably why Jack Chick [[OldShame ceased publishing it long ago]]. Its ''intended'' Aesop by itself, however, remains as edgy and controversial as ever to this day: that while child molesters are indeed terrible sinners, they're just as human and need forgiveness and salvation just as much as any other kind of terrible sinners (e.g. rape merchants, mass murderers, terrorists, and despots). Also, as the doctor who saves the child molester in the comic points out, the VillainProtagonist was already headed to Hell for his "lesser" sins long before he took up raping his little daughter; by implication, we readers shouldn't think ourselves safe from damnation just because we haven't committed any sins as terrible as this guy. (Also, that means [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil rape is]] ''[[AvertedTrope not]]'' [[RapeIsASpecialKindOfEvil such a special kind of evil]] after all.)
* One of the ''Franchise/MassEffect: Foundation'' comics, had Kaidan's father offer the advice that even the right decision has terrible consequences.
* Invoked in-universe in the ''ComicBook/XMen'' graphic novel "ComicBook/GodLovesManKills." A policeman incapacitates Rev. Stryker at a rally as Stryker [[WouldHurtAChild was prepared to shoot and kill Kitty Pryde]]. When questioned about it, he said "If that's the word of God, then it's sure changed since Sunday School."
* A straighter X-Men example would be when Rogue sought to have her powers removed, a storyline that occasionally comes up in the comics, [[WesternAnimation/XMen the cartoons]], and [[Film/XMenTheLastStand the movies]]. The moral is always "Be proud of the things that make you different." It's often stated or implied that a mutant having their powers removed would be akin to a black person lightening their skin. However, the issues here are more than skin-deep: 1. Rogue's involuntary PowerCopying creates a burden in her life by not allowing her physical contact without harming the other person, and since she often struggles with the absorbed psyches in her head, her powers are a danger to herself as well as others. 2. ''It's '''her''' body.'' As an adult woman, she shouldn't have to justify her medical decisions.
* ''ComicBook/BeautifulDarkness'': By the end of the story, Aurora learns that [[HumansAreBastards Fairies Are Bastards]], you can't trust anyone, and the only way to survive is to kill them before they can kill you.
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[[folder:Comic Strips]]
* The trope picture comes from ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'', and the mom ends up grudgingly giving him the pie. Calvin is clearly portrayed as a brat, though.
* In ''ComicStrip/LittleOrphanAnnie'', one World War II strip has Annie seeing a man physically attack an obnoxious war-profiteer for declaring that he hopes the war will continue for another twenty years. When a policeman tries to intervene, Annie stops him because "it's better some times to let folks settle some questions by what you might call democratic processes."
* Parodied with Rat's children's stories in ''ComicStrip/PearlsBeforeSwine''.
-->'''Goat:''' [[WhatDoYouMeanItsForKids You are not putting this in a children's book.]]\\
'''Rat:''' "So remember, kids, luck and timing are more important than personal effort."
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[[folder:Fairy Tales]]
* In many old fairy tales and folk tales (especially the ones featuring a young or powerless protagonist), the moral is "Lie, cheat, and steal to save yourself or your family. If you do it well enough, you could become royalty." Modern versions often {{Bowdlerise}} this, eliminating the original moral.
* Russian fairy tales tend to be [[SlidingScaleOfIdealismVersusCynicism rather cynical]]. One story in a collection by 19th century folklorist Creator/AlexanderAfanasyev has the moral "Old favors are soon forgotten."
* While we're at it, "Literature/{{Cinderella}}" itself. Creator/CharlesPerrault announced at the end that the moral was: Good looks and all sort of other wonderful traits are useless without ''connections''.
* The standard fairy tale plot of a hero overcoming impossible quests to marry a princess gets subverted in Friedrich Schiller's ballad ''The Diver''. A King throws a golden cup into some rough water and declares that whoever can retrieve it can keep it. After the hero manages this the king ups the ante by throwing a ring into the water and telling the hero that he will get the princess if he can do it again. The hero tries and drowns. The new moral here might be "she is probably not worth it" or simply "quit while you are ahead."
* Schiller also subverts the "Idiotic challenges will win you the heart of a woman" plot in ''The Glove'' in which a lady throws her glove into an arena full of lions and tigers and challenges (mockingly) her suitor to get it. He retrieves the glove, the lady immediately falls for him -- and he throws the glove in her face, saying "Den Dank, Dame, begeher ich nicht" ("Such Gratitude, madame, is not desired by me") -- the Aesop is probably "Women, don't mock your suitor if you want to keep him" or "Men, sometimes a woman is more trouble than she's worth."
* ''Theatre/IntoTheWoods'' added "It's probably not a good idea to marry someone you just met" Aesops to the ''Literature/{{Cinderella}}'' and ''Literature/{{Rapunzel}}'' stories. Cinderella's prince is a philanderer (probably ''both'' of them are, it's just that Cinderella's is the only one who explicitly does it on or rather just off stage), whereas Rapunzel is somewhat crazy. The only original story Aesop it leaves intact is ''Literature/LittleRedRidingHood'''s Aesop of "Don't talk to strangers," who became a good deal creepier (as a bonus, traditionally the wolf is played by the same actor who plays Cinderella's prince). Near the end, we get an Aesop of "Listen to people who know what they're talking about, even if they're witches." And the overarching moral is "don't tell your children stories that feature a Family Unfriendly Aesop, because it ''will'' mess them up." "Nice is different than good". And, even more damningly, [[GrayingMorality neither "nice" nor "good" are necessarily the same as]] ''[[GrayingMorality "right"]]''.
* "Literature/PussInBoots" (a.k.a. "The Master Cat") is an outstanding example. The story's message may be more prudential than moral; specifically, "if you would be successful in life, learn the way of the cat: how to evade your predators, how to catch your prey, and how to curry favor with the powerful."
* [[TheFarmerAndTheViper The Scorpion and the Frog]] fable:
** Taken by itself with no metaphor, the lesson is that a predatory animal (the scorpion) with enough sapience to communicate with a creature it naturally preys on (the frog) should [[CarnivoreConfusion not attempt to fight its natural instincts and pursue cooperative ventures]] ; Mother Nature made the scorpion to kill prey and trying to be something other than that to the frog will only result in one's predatory instincts rising to the surface at the worst possible time, dooming both to a watery grave. It is better to [[StatusQuoIsGod stick with the natural order of things]] than to try to evolve past one's Darwinian trappings.
** As a metaphor for evil, it suggests [[AlwaysChaoticEvil evil is an overriding character trait]] that outweighs self-interest and survival and [[ReformedButRejected one should not trust in an evil person]] trying to pull a HeelFaceTurn.
** It's also saying that some people are just plain rotten, and shouldn't be trusted, because of who and what they are.
** The moral is "Talk does not change the nature of things", i.e. you can discuss something, debate it, argue about it, deconstruct it, reconstruct it, and agree on it. None of that will change its nature.
** A more down to earth moral is that you should not trust wild animals because they can not be reasoned with, and they can and will attack you when you get too close to them.
* One story involves a cat and a mouse living together and deciding to store a pot of cream for winter. They hide it in a church until they really need it. Over some time however, the cat is gradually tempted three times into drinking the cream, until it's all gone. When the mouse finds out, she starts yelling at the cat for eating their food supply for the winter. The cat responds by eating the mouse, and the story concludes with the lesson that, well, that's just how the world works (that cats and mice just can't co-exist).
** It also can be interpreted as a [[HowWeGotHere just-so story]], i.e. "...and that's ''why'' cats and mice are such bitter enemies to this day." From this we can also draw the rather jarring conclusion that some acts are truly unforgivable, such that the conflicts arising from them can never be peacefully settled.
* The oldest version of ''Literature/SleepingBeauty'' (''Literature/SunMoonAndTalia'') features the titular heroine getting raped by the king, which results in a pregnancy that ultimately results in her being awoken. When the king returns and finds her awake, he proceeds to sneak Talia and their twin children into his castle so that his current ''wife'' won't find out; but she does, and [[DisproportionateRetribution tries to kill all three]] but is foiled and executed for the attempted murders, leaving the king free to marry Talia. [[EsotericHappyEnding This is allegedly a happy ending.]]\\
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To summarize what we learn from this tale: cheating on your wife to rape somebody is fine so long as your victim [[DudeShesLikeInAComa isn't conscious to experience any of it]] and [[ShotgunWedding you marry her to legitimize her children]]; if someone who raped and impregnated you while you were in a coma is rich and powerful, his offer to marry you is a good deal and you should accept it; and if you go seeking revenge on your husband for cheating on you, [[HeWhoFightsMonsters your jealousy will turn you into]] an AxCrazy shrew who'll let RevengeBeforeReason overtake her.
** To make matters worse, the original moral is stated to be: "Lucky people, so ítis said, Are blessed by Fortune whilst in bed." In other words, getting raped is allegedly ''fortunate'' as long as [[DudeShesLikeInAComa you're not conscious to experience your virginity being taken]] and your rapist is a rich and powerful ruler willing to remove any social stigmas his subjects might place on you and raise your public standing in his kingdom by marrying you. ValuesDissonance much?
* In the original version of "Literature/TheFrogPrince," the princess doesn't change the frog back into a prince by learning how to be courteous to him and kissing him; she does it by getting so fed up with his requests that she ''throws him against a wall'' so hard that his frog skin splits open. Remember, kids: if you want to land a handsome prince, refuse to honor your promises, be as bratty as possible, ''and'' feel free to inflict violence upon someone who helped you when he didn't have to!
** Turning things around, one odd aspect of this original story is that it mentions getting thrown against the wall like that was the only way to break the spell. In other words, the solution to his problems was to find a princess spoiled and petulant enough that he could ''provoke her into abusing him''. Then, unlike the sanitized later versions in which he promptly gets married to her first, the original just has him hopping into the sack with her that night and ''then'' promptly marrying her the next day "so that the christening might not follow the wedding too closely." Early advocacy for [[CasualKink masochism]] and {{Shotgun Wedding}}s, anyone?
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[[folder:Fan Works]]
* ''WebVideo/AvatarTheAbridgedSeries'':
-->'''Aang:''' Aw, but Sokka, we could have learned a valuable life lesson!\\
'''Sokka:''' Here's a life lesson for you, Aang. You can't buy things with life lessons.
* ''Fanfic/ThePrayerWarriors'' seems to go out of its way to make its lessons as family-unfriendly as possible. For starters, anyone who has sex is immediately a whore and must be killed. Yes, this includes ''rape victims''.
** Another frequently used one is how women should StayInTheKitchen. Thankfully, this is also a BrokenAesop, since the women turn out to be critical to the Prayer Warriors' efforts, possibly more so than the author realizes.
* This occurs in-story in ''Fanfic/{{Solitude}}'' where as a child [[Manga/DeathNote Light]] [[AdultsAreUseless takes away one from his therapy session]] -- [[StartOfDarkness that people don't really want others to be happy]]. [[StepfordSmiler They want everyone to appear "normal" at all costs]].
* ''FanFic/SonicXDarkChaos'' claims that Muslims are all psychopathic pedophile fundamentalists who enjoy rape and torture [[ArtisticLicenseReligion because Islam says they should]]. Both Christianity and Judaism - and their followers - are depicted as stupid and naive at best or complete ReligionOfEvil at worst. [[LampshadeHanging Lampshaded]] in Episode 68:
-->'''Eric:''' Remember kids, Islam is bad and if you're a Muslim, you should feel bad!\\
'''Sonya:''' That's an... odd lesson.
* ''Fanfic/TheStalkingZukoSeries'' portrays [[Series/AvatarTheLastAirbender Aang's]] decision not to kill Ozai as a [[ItsAllAboutMe selfish]] act that is primarily motivated by his desire to keep with [[ThouShaltNotKill Air Nomad teachings]]. His actions result in him getting [[WhatTheHellHero called out on it]] by most of the protagonists, [[YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame except for Arnook, who's happy that Aang destabilized the Fire Nation]], and Aang comes to regret what he did. The lesson is supposed to be that essentially, "You must listen to what others have to say and compromise your ideals [[TheNeedsOfTheMany for the greater good]]," but it can also be read as "[[MurderIsTheBestSolution It's sometimes easier to kill your enemies than to leave them alive and have them face justice for their crimes]]."
* ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8233288/34/Faery-Heroes Faery Heroes]]'' includes a minor lesson against both TurnTheOtherCheek and ComesGreatResponsibility. Harry is only willing to tutor a few students in Defense Against the Dark Arts and quickly shuts down the idea that because he's such a great teacher he should tutor everyone. First, he's not getting paid to do so and is using his own free time to help them. Second, most of the people in the school have turned against him at some point which leaves him rather opposed to the idea of helping them with their schoolwork.
* When he finally gets around to telling his history in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11157943/13/I-Still-Haven-t-Found-What-I-m-Looking-For I Still Haven't Found What I'm Looking For]]'', Harry Potter admits that [[ComesGreatResponsibility always saving the world because he could]] was actually a rather poor choice. Fifteen hundred years of every dark wizard being stopped by him meant the world became overly reliant upon him. When an accident with a time turner flings Harry two hundred years into the future, the world's been ravaged for decades by a war between two dark wizards. And when Harry kills them, the people of the world blame him for not stopping them sooner.
* ''FanFic/ShatteredReflection'': This ''VideoGames/FireEmblemAwakening'' story has a pretty interesting lesson taught to the two main protagonists through experience with the ''other'' protagonists. [[BeingGoodSucks No matter how hard you try to do right by others and support the people you love, there will still be individuals who treat you like shit for completely arbitrary reasons. You should try to do the right thing anyway.]]
* ''WebVideo/MyLittlePonyTotallyLegitRecap'': Sometimes children ''shouldn't'' blindly listen to their elders, because they may be selfish jerks that are full crap.
* ''WebVideo/UltraFastPony'' has a few of these, as a satirical sendup of the unintentional messages that could be read into [[WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic the source material]].
** In "Fillin' Dem Plot Holes, Bro!":
--->'''Twilight:''' They rely on friendship, but they only work with magic.\\
'''Applejack:''' [[LampshadeHanging Well, that's a terrible lesson for the children.]] What are we supposed to tell them, "No matter how big your problem is, you can only solve it with magic"?\\
'''Twilight:''' That is exactly right!
** In "Everybody Hates Gilda":
--->'''Celestia:''' What is this? Invisible ink? Is this what we're teaching our children these days? Yes, no, I see why they say this has great morals for all the children, oh, that's really great! I mean, what kind of idiotic writer tells children that it's okay to be continuously playing pranks on everyone? We're raising a generation of assholes, that's what we're doing.
** In "The Longest Episode:"
--->'''Twilight:''' We taught children all over the world that it's okay to crash parties, then run away.
* The short ''VideoGame/{{Fallout}}'' fan video "WebAnimation/{{Friendship}}!" parodies this, by teaching the viewers an important lesson about friendship is the wasteland: It doesn't exist, and those who naively believe in it make excellent {{Human Shield}}s, that have plenty of free money on them.
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[[folder:Films -- Animation]]
* ''WesternAnimation/TheAngryBirdsMovie''
** The explorer pigs come to the island, and most of the birds accept them, with the exception of the protagonist Red. It turns out that the pigs just want to steal the bird's eggs. This can easily be interpreted as, if someone who doesn't look like you comes to your country, chances are, they want to take advantage of you.
** The film's Aesop has also been interpreted as "embrace your anger and use it to get revenge".
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Beowulf 2007}}'' diverges from the moral of [[Literature/{{Beowulf}} its source material]], essentially making the point that heroic stories are often lies told to cover up questionable or outright shitty behavior, and by the time you realize you shouldn't have told the story in the first place, you'll be too old and full of regret for it to make any difference.
* ''WesternAnimation/HowToTrainYourDragon2'': Hiccup learns the surprisingly dark Aesop that some people simply cannot be reasoned with and can only be brought down by violence. This drives his entire conflict with his father, as Hiccup believes he can talk sense into the BigBad while TheGoodKing Stoick knows better than to even try.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheIncredibles'' teaches against TallPoppySyndrome and false accomplishments - pretending that everyone is equally special is wrong, because some people really are better at certain things than others, and trying to bring them down to the level of everyone else will ultimately only make everyone worse off. While "be who you are, not who others want you to be" sounds like a fairly family-friendly Aesop, the rather cynical implication is that people in general will always tend to envy you for being better than they are unless your superiority is immediately beneficial to them. It also gets [[CluelessAesop a bit muddy]] when the same ArcWords ("When everyone is special, no one is") are used by both the protagonists to complain about artificial praise devaluing praise for the genuinely extraordinary, and the antagonist to describe his plan to democratize superpowers through technology, implicitly equating the two (and framing the latter as villainous).
* ''WesternAnimation/InsideOut'' teaches that living a life of happiness, wonder and simple pleasures is simply unrealistic beyond early childhood, and that everyone will have some bad experiences that shape them for better or worse. It also teaches that sadness is a necessary part of life and that growing up means losing some parts of childhood and dealing with complex emotions, which will make you a [[MiseryBuildsCharacter stronger and more rounded person]]. Even more family-unfriendly: it also teaches you that trying to always live up to your family's expectations of you can drive you crazy, or at any rate destroy your sense of yourself.
* ''WesternAnimation/MonstersUniversity'':
** Well, current-societal-attitudes unfriendly, at least. You can be successful without a university education if you work hard and make your way up through the ranks over time. Not really a negative one at all, since it's not as though it's telling people to slack off; [[spoiler:Mike and Sulley]]'s path is ''harder'' than that of the graduates, though they make it eventually.
** The film also has a more brutally honest message: [[spoiler:No matter how hard you try or how much you love and know about the material, there are just things in life you ''can't'' do, at least not in the traditional sense, much like the message of ''Disney/WreckItRalph''. Accept it, and find where your real talents lie at]]. This is notably balanced out in that it clarifies that you can still work for the thing you love, but with a different task as [[spoiler:Mike never becomes an on-field Scarer, but an assistant and is treated like an equal to Scarers]].
** A rather broken message in that the Oozma Kappa monsters ''do'' ultimately become successful scarers through a combination of hard work and sheer creativity. Mike is the only member never to do this, sticking with the standard "jump out and say 'rawr' method" and giving up when it fails him miserably. A more accurate, albeit unintentional Aesop might go something like "be prepared to revise your approach multiple times."
** The film often shows that, yes, cruel people have a point. Jerks like ROR are ''correct'' in pointing out Oozma Kappa lack traditional Scaring build (but are clearly wrong for belittling them). In a sense, [[InspirationalInsult this notion drives Oozma Kappa]] to look further to prove that traditional build is not all there is to it.
* Considering how ''Disney/{{Zootopia}}'' is a commentary on modern-day prejudices using mammals in place of humans, it was kind of inevitable. The movie demonstrates that intentionally [[InnocentlyInsensitive or not]], ''anybody'' is capable of being a carrier of prejudice (up to and including the main characters ''themselves''), even those who are open-minded and/or suffer the most from it. While it's harsh, and not really a thing anybody wants to admit, it's pretty much how prejudice works in the real world. Fortunately, the blow is softened in a couple of senses; 1), it shows that anybody ''can'' overcome their biases if one acknowledges and actively works on moving past them. 2) Some bigoted characters ''are'' able to become more open-minded and accepting of other groups when given the time and encouragement, such as Judy's parents and [[DaChief Chief Bogo]].
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[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* This was a problem with the 2001 Creator/JenniferLopez film ''Angel Eyes''. A female cop meets and falls for a man with a MysteriousPast, and upon his real name being unintentionally revealed, she uses her connections ''without his knowledge or consent'' to look into his past, which reveals a tragedy; the year ago, he lost his wife and son in a car accident. While the guy was clearly running away from his feelings and needed to deal with his pain, her way of doing it was rather wrong, where instead of bringing it up to him gently, she more or less bluntly asks him about it and after he tries to avoid her due to her manner or doing so, she then has the nerve to bring him to the cemetery where they're buried. Even though he couldn't go on like that and he eventually learns to cope with the loss, the fact that a relative stranger was basically forcing him to grieve on ''her'' timetable was a huge turnoff to fans (and in-universe as well, as the poor guy had a freak out over her actions.)
* Early on in ''Film/BatmanVSupermanDawnOfJustice'', Martha Kent gives Superman a rousing speech about being a hero, and a symbol, and then abruptly ends it by saying, "Or be none of it. You don't owe this world a thing. You never did." Although it's obvious from the context that what she's saying is "having super powers does not mean you are obligated to be a hero, especially to [[UngratefulBastard those who won't appreciate it]]" and "be a hero because that's what ''you'' feel is the right thing to do, not because people demand that you should"; people have had ComesGreatResponsibility beaten into their head by superhero media for decades, so it elicits a very strong reaction.
* ''Film/Case39''. Sometimes, parents are totally justified in abusing their child. (The astonishing number of children in RealLife who suffer physical and mental abuse because their parents think they're possessed by demons may have a bone to pick with this movie. The ones who survive the abuse, anyway.) Some types of exorcisms kill people, and glorifying those ones for the sake of cheap scares isn't exactly socially responsible.
* ''Crossing Delancey'' -- some people might see either of the following:
** From Izzy's perspective: if you try to be an independent-minded modern woman who can make her own decisions on life and love, maybe you shouldn't--your meddling elders are right after all and you really should be with the nice Jewish guy they pick out, even if he's a lowly, seemingly boring pickle-seller. Kind of like ''Theatre/FiddlerOnTheRoof'', but in reverse.
** Or, from Sam's (the pickle seller) perspective: if you're a really nice guy who's genuinely interested in the woman you've been introduced to, be prepared to be dragged though the dirt and feel like a complete schmuck before you can finally end up with her. (Amongst the things Izzy does to him: [[spoiler: invites him out on a date ''just'' to pawn him off on her best friend; when she finally invites him back to her apartment for some time together, letting in the married neighbour who keeps coming round when he falls out with his wife, and with whom Izzy is heavily implied to be sleeping; third, standing him up on a date because the author guy she's been after tries to woo her]].)
* ''Film/TheDarkKnight'': Sometimes it's better to have people believe in a lie if it serves a greater good and prevents widespread despair. When your society's greatest hero turns evil and then dies, lying to everyone that he met a heroic death can be the lesser evil; in this case, giving Gotham hope and keeping dozens of guilty criminals off the streets. The sequel subverts it, however.
* While the original ''Film/DeathWish'' makes it clear that the main character, Paul Kersey, has become unbalanced due to his trials and vigilante actions, the sequels increasingly support vigilantism as a necessary means to clean up the streets. Well, ''some'' people think Paul Kersey is unbalanced, apparently on the theory that it's impossible for a sane person to believe that "Sometimes ViolenceReallyIsTheAnswer." Others see Kersey as having woken up to reality.
* ''Film/TheDevilsAdvocate'' argues that lawyers should not competently defend guilty clients; that's literally ''the Devil's work''. Lawyers should only defend the innocent.
* ''Film/TheDevilWearsPrada'' begins by suggesting the ''very'' audacious Aesop that if you take a job you don't especially care for, occasionally prioritize it over events in your personal life, ignore your friends when they passive-aggressively criticize you about your job, start to sympathize with your coworkers whom you'd previously viewed with scorn, and, ''horrors'', enjoy some of the perks associated with it, life might turn out okay. It even suggests that ThePowerOfLove might not conquer all in the case of a casual relationship! However, it ends up reverting to the BrokenAesop that if you do any of those things, you are a bad bad person who is selling out on her deepest ideals.
* In ''Film/FerrisBuellersDayOff'', it's okay to lie, cheat and steal if you're living life to its fullest.
* ''Film/{{Grease}}'': So the guy you like turns out to be a stupid jerk, who refuses to be with you in front of his "cool" friends? That totally means that ''you'' have to [[BeAWhoreToGetYourMan start smoking and change your whole appearance, so you can become a "cool girl" and be good enough for him]]! The message is supposed to be that Sandy needed to stop being so uptight, and that Danny did things for her as well. But seriously!
* In the third ''{{Film/Halloweentown}}'' movie, [[HollywoodGeek Dylan]] (a [[HalfHumanHybrid half-human]] [[WitchSpecies warlock]] who DoesNotLikeMagic) [[PairTheSmartOnes bonds with a girl named Natalie]], only to have a minor freak-out when he discovers that her real form is a [[AllTrollsAreDifferent furry pink-skinned troll]]. Naturally she's offended and points out that from her perspective, [[HumansAreUgly he's pretty weird-looking himself]]. They eventually make up and are going to kiss at the end of the movie...only to agree that they're BetterAsFriends, because they each find the other too gross. Despite the general theme against FantasticRacism in these movies, the point seems to be that physical attraction ''is'' an important component in a romantic relationship.
* ''Film/MaidInManhattan'': In a movie geared toward the very impressionable preteen/young teen set (many of whom idolized star Creator/JenniferLopez at the time the movie came out), the titular character and her paramour sleep together despite barely knowing each other and believing (at the time) that they're never going to see each other again.
* During the conclusion of ''Film/OneHundredAndTwoDalmatians'', a major character explicitly states, as an Aesop, "For people like Cruella, there ''are'' no second chances." Okay, sure she's obsessed with making a fur coat [[KickTheDog out of the pelts of adorable puppies]], and she's nowhere near the first Disney villain to be irredeemably evil. But hearing it put so bluntly...
* ''Film/{{Paparazzi}}'': The {{paparazzi}} are all [[AcceptableProfessionalTargets puppy-kicking monsters]] who get their jollies out of destroying lives, so what's wrong with a little paparazzi murder spree?
* ''Film/RamboIV'': Sometimes ViolenceReallyIsTheAnswer.
* ''Film/RocketScience'' viciously deconstructs the popular "try your hardest and you can overcome anything" moral. Some obstacles just can't be surmounted no matter how hard you try. And sometimes you just [[DidNotGetTheGirl Don't Get The Girl]]. Oh, and life isn't fair. All in all, it's fairly {{Anvilicious}} about the whole thing, but SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped.
* The moral of ''Film/TheScreamingSkull'', according to the folks of ''[[Series/MysteryScienceTheater3000 MST3K]]'', is "Don't trust anyone. ''Ever''."
* In the ''Franchise/StarWars'' films there are a number of these, mostly involving relationships:
** Owen Lars in the role of FantasyForbiddingFather to Luke in ''A New Hope''. He really just wanted to keep Luke out of the galaxy-spanning conflict because GoodParents don't like sending their kids into danger, especially since Luke's father became the BigBad Darth Vader. Their deaths are actually treated as having ''[[ConvenientlyAnOrphan liberated]]'' Luke to pursue his destiny, and after a ''very'' brief period of sorrow he displays an AngstWhatAngst attitude, never mentioning Owen and Beru again, but deeply mourning Obi-Wan when he dies.
** Use of motivational stories told [[MetaphoricallyTrue from a certain point of view]] left a seriously blurry line between trying to spare somebody's feelings and being a ManipulativeBastard when it advanced your goals.
** In the prequels, it is revealed that Jedi are not supposed to form long-term relationships, and especially not marry, as such emotional ties could lead to TheDarkSide by way of LoveMakesYouEvil. When this caused a ''lot'' of upset in fans (and EU writers) with visions of the Jedi Knights as romantic heroes, George Lucas pulled a FlipFlopOfGod to clarify that the Jedi didn't have to actually be CelibateHero types -- they could have casual sexual affairs. But obviously that one was an even harder Aesop to explain to the kids.
** The revelation that the Republic era Jedi Order recruited Force Sensitive children at very young ages and required them to have no further contact with or knowledge of their families (because that would be an emotional attachment), made some fans view them as brainwashed ChildSoldiers. This policy was unfortunately validated by the fact that Anakin, allowed into the Order as a special case, ''did'' actually go bad because of his emotional ties. Likewise, Kylo Ren, [[spoiler: Han and Leia's son]], turned to the Dark Side at least partly because of conflict with his parents and their subsequent decision to pawn him off on Luke Skywalker in the hopes of corrective discipline.
* ''Film/SoulFood'': Ironically, it plays out more like Family-''Friendly''. Career-focused oldest sister Teri is on her second marriage, which is itself in serious trouble and she's such a bitch that when her husband cheats on her, our sympathies are clearly supposed to be with ''him''. Meanwhile, second sister Maxine is a HappilyMarried housewife and mother of three kids. It's not hard to assume the writers are implying that career women are bad while stay-at-home moms are good.
** Also, youngest sister Bird's (admittedly underhanded) efforts to help husband Lem find a job by asking her ex-boyfriend to give him one. Lem is furious when he finds out and the whole situation blows up. . .and everyone makes ''Bird'' out to be in the wrong and chews her for not letting Lem "be a man" and find his own job. The idea of a woman helping a man is made out to be something utterly abhorrent.
* ''Film/TronLegacy'': Creating an open and free system that is accessible to everyone isn't always a good thing, because all entities are not created equal, and some entities, when given infinite rights and access, will use them to force their will upon others, and remove their infinite rights and access. Sometimes proprietary is the way to go.
* ''Film/YouMeAndDupree'': It doesn't matter if you work your ass off to please everyone around you. Since you're a responsible adult and not fun anymore, your efforts will never be truly appreciated.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* ''Many'' of the original Literature/AesopsFables have this trope - in fact, family friendly modern selections of Aesop's Fables have to tactically omit many of the original ones. Some examples include:
** ''The Fox and The Stork'': it's fine and dandy to take payback on someone who pulled a fast one on you, because "One bad turn deserves another."
** ''The Bat and the Weasels'': it's sometimes wise to change or lie about your affiliation in order to save your own skin.
** ''The Fox and the Goat'': don't trust anyone who's in trouble, because they're likely to be using you to get out of it.
** ''The Lion and the Dolphin'': no matter how friendly someone is, don't bother allying with them if they're useless.
** ''The Hawk and the Pigeons'': any people who have elected or nominated a ruler have only themselves to blame if the ruler turns out to be a tyrant.
** ''The Farmer and the Nightingale'': never believe a captive's promise and never give up what you have.
** ''The Ass and the Lap Dog'' (and ''The Eagle and the Crow''): just because someone else achieves something good doesn't mean that you can.
** ''The Eagle and the Fox'' has the well known moral "do unto others as you would have them do unto you", but the actual story (in which a fox threatens to burn down an eagle's tree in revenge for the eagle taking one of its cubs) gives the implication that this moral is read as a justification for revenge, not a moral code for oneself.
** ''The Porcupine and the Snakes'': be careful who you take as a guest, because they might be an asshole.
** ''The Fox without a Tail'': avoid miserable people because they'll try to make you miserable too.
** ''The Lark and her Young Ones'': if something is worth doing, the only one you can trust to do it is yourself.
** ''The Wolf and the Lamb'': arguing rationally with the powerful is useless, they'll just overwhelm you.
** ''The Wolf and the Crane'': the higher your hopes, the more likely you are to be disappointed.
** ''The Two Pots'': don't hang around powerful people, if there's any mutual trouble you'll get the worst of it.
** ''The Man and the Lion'': never believe what anyone says in their own defense.
** ''The Lion's Share'' or ''The Lion and Other Beasts Go Hunting'': just because someone wants you to co-operate with them in work does not mean they will give you a share of the reward.
** ''The Farmer and the Snake'': some people are just plain evil and no amount of building trust will change that.
** ''The Ass and his Driver'': if someone is determined to destroy themselves, step back and let them, or they'll destroy you too.
* The final book of ''Literature/ASeriesOfUnfortunateEvents'' had the widely-disliked Aesop of "some mysteries will never be solved."
* Objectivist novels such as Creator/AynRand's ''Literature/AtlasShrugged'' teach that altruism is evil. People need to learn to stand on their own two feet, so helping them up will only make them weaker and more dependent on you. It also teaches that the successful elite will be attacked by the untalented masses out of jealousy. Also, that nature is ugly and billboards improve it.
* In ''Literature/TheBerenstainBears'':
** ''The Bully'': Getting targeted by a bully at school? Don't bother to contact adults - AdultsAreUseless. Instead, ''fight back''! ''ONLY'' the bully will get in trouble... even though in real life, most schools have a "Zero tolerance" policy that would result in Sister being in just as much trouble as Tuffy. Oh, and all bullies have bad home lives, too. Some will argue that sometimes Adults ''are'' Useless, and physically self-defense can be necessary against a bully, but keep in mind that no other options were explored for dealing with said antagonist, and ViolenceIsTheOnlyOption seems ''very'' out of place in a book aimed at preschoolers.
*** And similarly in ''Too Much Teasing'' how to deal with teasing? Easy - get a kid to humiliate them in public.
** ''Bad Habit'': Develop a bad habit and your parents will bribe you to break it.
** ''Messy Room'': Clean your room or your parents will throw ''all'' your toys away!
* In book 2 of ''Beyond Literature/TheSpiderwickChronicles'', Laurie explains that she lies because "lying works," and nothing in the story contradicts this claim. This, from a book aimed at 6-12 year olds.
* One of the StockAesops is that cowardice doesn't pay. In extreme cases, the brave survives where the coward dies (sometimes DrivenToSuicide), or alternatively they both survive/die, but the coward is marked forever. So it comes as a tragic surprise that in ''Literature/BridgeToTerabithia'', [[spoiler:Leslie, who had no fear from the creek, drowns, whereas Jess, who feared the water (and couldn't swim) survives--and while he does suffer, it's not because of cowardice]]. Although one could interpret [[spoiler: Leslie's behavior not as courage but as recklessness. In the book, there is some indication of weather which is affecting the creek, making conditions more unfavorable for crossing. Moreover, Leslie attempted to swing across the creek despite being alone. Thus, she acted without proper awareness of or respect for her environment and circumstances. The real Aesop could be about having courage but tempering it with caution, as Jesse does by resuming the game, building a sturdy bridge so he can safely cross the creek]].
* ''Literature/TheChroniclesOfNarnia'' contain the lesson that the real world is a harsh and violent place that sometimes takes a fair amount of violence to survive in. Creator/CSLewis was even quoted once as saying that pretending otherwise would do a great disservice to children. Once again, an example of a very true and important Aesop, but one that many parents would rather their children didn't know.
* In the famous science fiction short story "Literature/TheColdEquations," the moral is "life is fundamentally unfair." This serves as a {{deconstruction}} of stories where the day is always saved somehow, all too often by {{Contrived Coincidence}}s or AppliedPhlebotinum. However, [[http://web.archive.org/web/20060701043227/http://home.tiac.net/~cri_d/cri/1999/coldeq.html some people]] were not impressed, feeling that the writer created a [[IdiotPlot very contrived situation]] riddled with [[Headscratchers/TheColdEquations logic holes]] to justify the Aesop. {{Enforced|Trope}} in that John Campbell [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Cold_Equations#Reactions sent the story back]] to Tom Godwin ''three'' times because Godwin kept saving the girl without resorting to either plot device.
* ''Literature/CourtshipRite'' borders on SpoofAesop territory. On a LostColony where cycles of famine have made cannibalism common and acceptable, he has a preacher teaching that cannibalism is wrong. At first, the reader may expect that cannibalism is being used as a metaphor, and that we're going to learn an ordinary Aesop about violence being wrong, but in the end, the preacher is forced to learn a valuable lesson: [[ImAHumanitarian cannibalism]] [[JustifiedTrope isn't so bad]], really.
* Creator/RoaldDahl's ''Literature/EsioTrot'' teaches children that it's perfectly acceptable to deceive the people you love in order to get your way. [[UtopiaJustifiesTheMeans The End Justifies the Means]], [[SarcasmMode after all]].
* Although Creator/FriedrichNietzsche is not explicitly Social Darwinist, his revolt against conventional morality elaborated upon with ''Beyond Good and Evil'', ''The Antichrist'' and others engender a rejection of egalitarian altruism and antipathy for the socially disadvantaged.
* In ''Literature/HarrietTheSpy'', young writer Harriet learns that sometimes you have to lie to people to help them feel better about themselves so they won't hate you.
* ''How It Was When The Past Went Away'' begins with a fellow giving EasyAmnesia to a city through a drug in the water supply. A religion forms around the mantra "drink and forget," and life becomes Utopian as people can erase their memories of all the bad deeds they've done.
* ''Literature/JackieAndCraig'': Yep kids, life is vicious, miserable and totally indifferent to your suffering, so be sure to cling to those precious few bright spots for the brief time that they last!
* ''Perelandra'', the second book of the ''Literature/TheSpaceTrilogy'' by Creator/CSLewis. The plot of the book is that the planet Venus is in the "Adam and Eve" phase and the devil has sent his agent-a man named Professor Weston-to corrupt "Eve." The angels send a man named Elwin Ransom to make sure that Tinidril chooses wisely. In the end, good triumphs over evil, but in an unexpected way: [[spoiler:Ransom kills Weston and drops his body into a volcano.]] This is actually {{lampshade|Hanging}}d by the protagonist, [[spoiler:who assumed that the fight would be purely intellectual, that he would win by the sheer force of his argument, and was initially horrified at the idea that he'd have to make the fight a physical one]]. It was very much a TakeThat at the pacifists who opposed Great Britain's military opposition to the evils of Nazi Germany and promoted Neville Chamberlain's appeasement policy, and against the anti-confrontational passivity that was popular in much of the liberal Christian community.
* ''Literature/ThePrincessBride'' has one in-universe: the narrator notes how horrified as a kid he was, because some events of the story just didn't work out as as they did in traditional fairy tales and adventure stories, and found relief only when he realized that the Aesop was "life is not fair".
* A particularly jaw-dropping one appears in a Creator/RayBradbury story. The narrator's sedate, tranquil, lazy (and [[UnfortunateImplications Irish]]) chauffeur picks him up one night and drives like a bat out of hell before revealing that every other enjoyable night, he was driving completely drunk. The narrator forces money on him and demands he get blotto before picking him up next, browbeating him into breaking Lent in the process.
* A character in ''Literature/SlaughterhouseFive'' suggests that Literature/TheBible's Aesop is that [[ComicallyMissingThePoint you should make sure someone doesn't have connections before you kill them]].
* ''Squeakers'', a leg-crossingly uncomfortable book about a little squirrel with [[http://www.amazon.com/Squeakers-Serendipity-Stephen-Cosgrove/dp/0843139250 alarmingly fluttery-lashed eyes]], teaches little boys the admittedly important lesson that they have to tell their parents about being molested. The (male) squirrel goes through days on end of hiding the shameful and hideous bald patches on his tail where a neighbor is tearing out fistfuls of his fur on the way home from school every day in exchange for, yes, nuts. Ahem.
* A lot of Creator/HansChristianAndersen stories. Probably the best is ''Literature/TheSteadfastTinSoldier'', the moral of which is essentially, "LifeIsntFair, and sometimes just when you've worked your hardest to get something right, [[DiabolusExMachina something will come out of nowhere and screw it up for no reason]]."
* In the later ''Literature/SwordOfTruth'' novels, the Aesops start to draw strongly on Objectivist themes. The anti-communist themes are pulled straight from Ayn Rand. People who try to give charity to others and "spread the wealth" ultimately turn poor people into lazy, greedy assholes and destroy the economy.
* ''[[Literature/MaloryTowers Third Year At Malory Towers]]'' has the subplot with Zerelda, a new student who is obsessed with acting and wants to become a famous actress. After getting the chance to play [[Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet Juliet]] in class and completely blowing it, the teacher flat-out tells her that she just doesn't have the skill to become one of the greats, and Zerelda learns that when a teacher tells you that your dream will never come true, the best thing to do is give it up for good, instead of improving your skills and continuing to try to achieve your dream.
* Another classical [[AnAesop moral]] is that having imagination is ''good''. So ''When The Windman Comes'' by Antonia Michaelis is a huge subversion, with the moral "imagination, when not strictly separated from reality, is potentially very dangerous--it can isolate you and make you live in fear of imaginary horrors--all the while making you more vulnerable to RealLife. Sometimes, being a skeptic is favorable, even for a child." This is particularly jarring since many other books by the same author actually promote imagination and/or openness to seemingly impossible things.
* On the surface, the motivational book ''Literature/WhoMovedMyCheese'' by Spencer Johnson encourages being adaptive to changing situations in both your job and everyday life. In the process, it also encourages employees to fall in line with changes in company policy that might not be in their own best interest. The success of this BusinessFable is partly due to managers distributing it on the eve of a large and unpopular decision by the top brass.
* ''{{Literature/Redwall}}'': The series has the repeated message that some people have no good in them. Anyone who thinks otherwise will only be harmed. It's most stark in ''Outcast of Redwall'', where it is feared an infant is born bad... and they turn out to be ''right''. To the point that it turns out they gave him a name which is an anagram for "evil" and "vile". Even after he dies saving someone, this attitude doesn't change. It's portrayed as the nature of certain species (with a few exceptions), an obvious case of severe {{unfortunate implications}}.
* ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheGobletOfFire'' shows Hermione creating a society to protest the servitude of the House Elves, as they are essentially slaves. However, the end result is that the elves *like* to work and most view payment as an insult. This could also be a more traditional aesop of "Don't project your own values and morality on cultures that operate quite differently."
* ''LightNovel/TheUnexploredSummonBloodSign'': The needs of the many take priority over the needs of the one, even if that 'one' is trying to free himself from enslavement by an EldritchAbomination.
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* In general, music, the lives of musicians, and the scene around music has a ''ton'' of these. A few of them are as follows, and unfortunately, almost all of them have ''multiple'' examples of where they've actually ''succeeded'' at least in some way.
** Some of the very best music is made [[ArtisticStimulation under the influence of various legal and illegal substances]] and [[OdeToIntoxication about their effects]], sometimes ''at the same time.'' Similarly, attaining a clean, sober, mentally healthy, and normal life has correlated with a drop in musical creativity and quality enough times that that is possibly its own trope.
** The amount of musicians who live a true lifestyle of sexual ethics (asexuality/celibacy, marriage or long term relationship to one partner with no affairs or divorce, negotiated and mutually agreed upon polyamory, or [[EthicalSlut promiscuity that is consensual, safe, sane, and with others who are accepting of it/aren't seeking more exclusive relationships]]) is fairly limited, and the amount of songs that promote safe, responsible sex are few and far between.
** The InsufferableGenius and CloudCuckoolander and BunnyEarsLawyer populate music to the point that it can be argued mental illness is sometimes a DisabilitySuperpower. In some corners, this exaltation of TheMadnessPlace and ThereAreNoTherapists producing something ''good'' reaches the point of people being ''proudly'' ill or untreated, or actively refusing therapy.
** As music is one of the few places in the world that one ''can'' succeed self-taught or by imitating others or on talent or luck (or some combination of all of the above), ''many'' professional musicians have not gone on to formal post-secondary and graduate education, and some are/were even high school dropouts. Meanwhile, musicians who ''are'' university educated usually won't have this hyped up as part of their image. This often conveys the idea that one can easily attain wealth or fame without a proper education and without a life specifically planned for a given career, and overlooks just how difficult it is for a failed musician who bypassed proper education and work experience in a specific field (and especially who has an altered appearance such as body modifications/altered behavior patterns such as the louder or damaged voice and body language of a once-vocalist, or who has a documented social media past) to ''ever'' be trusted with a job.
* The Music/CherLloyd song "Want U Back" teaches us that it's a-okay to dump a boy for petty reasons, then demand that he break up with his new girlfriend and start dating you again because you can't stand to see him being happy with somebody else. After all, you "had [him] first!"
* "Black Tie White Noise" by Music/DavidBowie has one of these Aesops, the result of it being written in the wake of the 1992 Rodney King riots in Los Angeles: Racial harmony is possible but don't imagine it's going to be easy to achieve, or that there won't be violence along the way ("There'll be some blood, no doubt about it"). Not a ''comfortable'' Aesop, but if history's taught us anything...
* The music video for Music/{{Drake}}'s [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xyv4Bjja8yc Find Your Love.]] The song is a positive message about putting everything on the line for love which Drake does in the video to a woman...who's also connected to a gang leader. He crosses the line and attempts to woo her...and he's eventually caught by the gang, beaten and (presumably) shot in the back of the head by the same girl he was putting his heart on the line for. The video ends in a BolivianArmyEnding (the girl could have shot the gang leader) but there is a clear message about how not even love is worth crossing a line over.
* Music/HarryChapin's song ''Mr. Tanner'' is about a man who runs a dry cleaner and loves to sing, and is an amateur performer in his spare time. His friends convince him to try to become a professional singer, so he throws all his money into a concert performance that... bombs. Critics are terse and dismissive with him, suggesting he'd be better off keeping his day job. Mr. Tanner returns to his home and his job and stops performing publicly. The moral here is "Sometimes chasing your dream fails". If you want to be more blunt, you could phrase it "Loving to do something doesn't make you ''good'' at it.
* Music/CarrieUnderwood
** The song "Church Bells" describes a girl marrying a physically abusive partner who repeatedly abused her. That is, until she reaches her breaking point and dishes out some, err, lethal justice. This self-enforced death sentence would prevent him from abusing any other woman and you could possibly call it self-defensive, yes, but she's legally a murderer, a lot worse then anything he did to her. The other message being taught here? Don't trust the police, if you want justice served then best do it yourself and in an unlawful fashion. Depending on the society which the listener is in, this could be quite possibly a painful reality, especially in difficult to prove cases including rape.
** "Before He Cheats", meanwhile, has a woman trashing her soon-to-be-ex-boyfriend's truck because he's "probably" cheating on her. Even assuming she's right, at no point does she provide evidence to support her claim, just could-bes and what-ifs. The message here is "If you think your man is cheating on you, don't try to work things out; Immediately destroy his property". Incidentally, there's also the ''other'' message of [[DoubleStandardAbuseFemaleOnMale "It's perfectly justified for a woman to commit violent acts against a man because he probably deserves it for some reason"]].
* Music/{{Rihanna}}'s "Man Down", or at least the music video, which has the same message as Church Bells, but with a different genre and artist.
* Indica's song "In Passing" is about a the dead singer telling her sister that her pain will go away and everything passes. Not quite unfriendly until the last few lines where she tells her sister that she also will pass. Extremely true and not something most children are equipped with or taught.
* The Music/KennyRogers song ''Coward of the County''. The song's message implies that for some things, the only course of action is violence, and being a pacifist will only get the ones you love murdered or hurt. The song also implies that filial piety is futile, and you cannot obey your parents' wishes all the time.
* Nelly's "Ride Wit Me" starts off with the classic rap Aesop "Materialism is good" (''"Oh why must I feel this good ... Hey, must be the money!"''). Luckily though it sorts itself out and ends up with the rather more palatable, if still questionable, message "Materialism is perfectly fine, as long as you worked for your money" (''"It feel strange now, makin' a livin' off my brain instead of 'caine now"'')
* The New Kingston Trio's "Jug Town" is surprisingly pro-alcohol: The moral amounts to "if you're a family man with a menial low-paying job, alcohol will provide a release from your miserable life".
* "Rudolf the Red-Nosed Reindeer" [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ThKV_G4VxI seems to be saying]] that freaks will only be accepted if someone in authority finds that their difference can be ''exploited'' to the authority's benefit. The song glosses over bullying, suggests that society is very shallow and opportunistic and that [[AdultsAreUseless perhaps even Santa is indifferent to your suffering.]]
* The punk rock band NOFX's song "Drug Free America" is actually promoting an America where drugs are free of cost. Their song "Don't drink and drive" warns about the danger of spilling your drink while driving, and argues that drunk people are better drivers (NOFX use a lot of satire and believe that it should be offensive).
* O.C. Smith's song "The Son of Hickory Holler's Tramp" has a [[SomeAnvilsNeedToBeDropped very, very clear message]] that being a prostitute doesn't make a woman evil or contemptible.
* Music/TheWho's "Won't Get Fooled Again" is the [[TropeNamers namer]] for [[MeetTheNewBoss a trope of this nature]] which translates to "revolution is futile because the person in charge is always going to make it tough for everyone else". Occasionally, Pete Townshend has put a more positive twist on this as "Don't listen to the boss in the first place. Think for yourself."
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* Dan Savage of the sex advice column Savage Love has been known to suggest that in some circumstances (such as if one partner has unilaterally put an end to the sexual component of the relationship), cheating is an acceptable option to keep a marriage from ending in divorce.
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* ''Theatre/AvenueQ'' contains many such unconventional Aesops, though some are tongue-in-cheek. Examples include "TheInternetIsForPorn" and "Everyone's a Little Bit Racist." Another Aesop in the show is "there's nothing wrong with being gay," which on one occasion is humorously expanded to "it's perfectly fine if you're gay, unless you're a Republican." The biggest Aesop in the play can be summed up in Lucy the Slut's line: "Everyone only has one revelation in life: they find out they aren't special."
* The musical ''Carousel'' and the play ''Liliom'' on which it is based contains one of these, personified in the immortal line: [[LoveMartyr "It's possible for a man to hit you, hit you real hard, and have it feel like a kiss."]] Music/AmandaPalmer did a cover of the song "What's the Use of Wondrin" as a creepy domestic abuse ballad...and didn't have to change a word.
* Jack Bradley's drama ''Marital AIDS'': Judi works as an adviser on the cases of HIV infected employees dealing with prejudice. One case of hers turns out to be [[ManlyGay Brian]], long time friend of her husband Ryk. Hell breaks loose in their marriage when it turns out that [[BiTheWay Ryk]] had (and still has) a long-term romance with Brian, so Ryk himself and even Judi is threatened with HIV infection. Judi storms out of their home, but a while later we can see them back together, [[BookEnds feeding ducks in the park]]. Ryk never shows repentance for his cheating, and argues that Judi should embrace that as part of the personality she fell in love with, while explaining that he, as a bisexual, feels the need for a male friendship '''and''' her to be fulfilled, and Judi accepts all of these [[EsotericHappyEnding in the end]]. The play therefore has the Aesop that we should condone our partners cheating on us because it's part of [[IntolerableTolerance accepting our beloved as they are]], with an underlying message that bisexuals are polyamorous by their very nature and cannot stay in a committed monogamous relationship (not to mention that it's acceptable to expose your partners to potentially deadly infections, and in general, keeping the partner in the dark about aspects greatly concerning their life, and thus trapping them into a deal with terms they couldn't consent).
* ''Theatre/{{Rent}}'': "You can have a day job or be an artist. One or the other." Aside from Mimi, none of the characters have ostensibly paying jobs that they actually like (except for Benny and Joanne, and their jobs are more mainstream than the others'), and the play actively looks down on Mark for taking a paid job instead of working on his film without ever considering the option that he could do both at the same time.
** Off the back of that first moral: "It's fine to avoid paying rent, mooch off local cafes, and even ''steal from [=ATMs=]'', as long as you're an artist or bohemian."
** "Driving a dog to commit suicide for money is an acceptable activity that should be PlayedForLaughs".
* Parodied in Creator/TeamStarKid's ''[[Theatre/TwistedTheUntoldStoryOfARoyalVizier Twisted]]''. The opening number "Dream A Little Harder" pokes fun at the family unfriendly morals offered up by some Disney animated fairy-tales: "If you're [[BeautyEqualsGoodness good and you're attractive]], / No need to be proactive: / Good things will just [[{{Disney/Cinderella}} happen]] [[Disney/SleepingBeauty to]] [[Disney/SnowWhiteAndTheSevenDwarfs you]]!", and "If you're sure of your intention, / Some [[{{Disney/Cinderella}} magic]] [[{{Disney/Aladdin}} intervention]] / Will give you the edge that you need!"
* ''Theatre/{{Wicked}}'': The message of "Popular", Glinda's IAmSong, is that being liked by others will get your farther than merely being a good person. You may think this is only to show what a shallow and pretentious character Glinda starts out as... Except she's ultimately proven right. Elphaba's actions, no matter how heroic and selfless, all fail to change anything as Madame Morrible launches a smear campaign against her and makes everyone too afraid of her to listen to the problems she's trying to fix. In the end it's Glinda who gets the power to dispose of the villains and change Oz for the better, but does she do it by speaking out against their crimes or trying to help their victims? No, she does it by sucking up to them and endearing herself to the dim-witted people of Oz until she has enough power and influence of her own to launch a non-violent coup d'état.
* In ''The Wild Duck'', the entire cast turns out to be one giant DysfunctionJunction that is only keeping itself together by repressing every one of their hidden sins and weaknesses through willful delusion. When the resident WideEyedIdealist attempts to unravel some of these lies and bring about truth, the result is the suicide of the family's young daughter. As the man who attempted to keep all this under wraps at one point muses:
-->'''Doctor Relling:''' ''Deprive the average human being of his life-lie, and you rob him of his happiness.''
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* ''VideoGame/BeyondTwoSouls'' Has a similar one to the ''[[http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/576095 Loneliness]]'' example below where one of the antagonists whose primary motivation is to [[{{Necromantic}} just see his dead family again]] shoots himself... and instantly becomes a spirit [[TogetherInDeath reunited with his family]] who happily welcome him despite the years of unwitting torture. The extremely dark Aesop being ''off yourself and you'll immediately be reunited with your loved ones with no consequences.''
* Galloway's arc in ''VideoGame/{{Bully}}'' focuses on the issues between two teachers: Galloway is friendly and well-liked, but an alcoholic, and Hattrick is a JerkAss who abuses everyone around him and actively exploits students, but calls Galloway on drinking during school. The students, however, don't mind at all (and are shown not to follow his example), because Galloway is a decent guy whose belligerent co-worker makes his life [[INeedAFreakingDrink difficult]], and Jimmy ends up helping him get into recovery because he needs help, not because he needs to be punished. And all this is on top of the [[AdultsAreUseless actual authority figures doing nothing to solve the real problems]] because they think it builds character. Overall, the message is that some adults are too corrupt or too ignorant to understand what is and isn't HarmfulToMinors, and bullying isn't just a childhood problem.
* The freeware RPG ''VideoGame/TheCrookedMan'' follows the main character as he retraces the steps of the previous tenant of his apartment, which align creepily with his own. Each of the people he meets is facing the dilemma of struggling bravely forward, or giving up, on whatever conflict they're dealing with. Invariably, the answer is to accept one's own limitations. There are some things in life that, no matter how badly you want them and no matter how hard you try, you will never be able to achieve; if you don't fit a certain mold, there's no honor in ruining yourself to force it.
* ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' is full of those and sometimes {{lampshade|Hanging}}s them.
** At the mage starting quest you get several of them, the most prominent being that guile and trickery are sometimes preferable to trust and altruism.
** The overarching story in Orzammar delivers the message that a progressive-minded individual who is personally a manipulative, sleazy jerk sometimes makes a better leader than a kindly, democratic individual bound by stagnant social traditions.
** This even applies to Paragon Aeducan, one of the most venerated individuals in Dwarven history. His decision to ignore the Assembly and lead the Warrior Caste in the defense of the city, prevented the Darkspawn from breaching Orzammar and saved their race from being wiped out. In other words, democracy is all good an well, but when you're too busy arguing to see the enemy about to kill you, a military coup is the ''only'' solution.
* ''VideoGame/TheElderScrollsVSkyrim''. In order to join the Dark Brotherhood, you have to complete a quest from a little boy who wants you to kill the cruel headmistress at the orphanage he was being held in. If you do, [[FromTheMouthsOfBabes he'll proudly proclaim that he now wants to be an assassin when he grows up and decides that you can solve a lot of problems by offing the right person.]]
* ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 3}}''. There is a quest called Tenpenny Tower, about a luxurious hotel inhabited by prejudiced humans and a nearby gang of civilized ghouls (a form of monstrously mutated human) who want to live in it. There are three ways to solve this quest -- [[spoiler: Two of them involve killing either party and being rewarded by the other for it. The final option is, through a lot of tedious diplomacy, to convince the humans to let the ghouls live alongside them, and it ends with the two species coexisting peacefully and happy-happy. Except, a few days later, all the human inhabitants have been slaughtered by the ghouls]]. Sometimes the oppressed, when presented with the opportunity, can be just as inhuman as the oppressors.
** [[GuideDangIt The player may not realize]] that that would happen in the first place, so this could also function as an Aesop about how even noble acts can bring unforeseen and unpleasant consequences.
** On a more meta level, this could have been an attempt at cementing the setting's BlackAndGrayMorality (in this particular case, it's more like Black And Black Morality) and [[WrongGenreSavvy teaching the player not to assume that the seemingly peaceful option provides the best rewards.]] There's also a hefty serving of StrawmanHasAPoint with respect to the "prejudiced" tower inhabitants that don't want to let the ghouls in.
* ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 4}}'': The best outcome involves [[spoiler:obliterating your own son's legacy by inducing a full-scale war in the most isolated and peaceful community in Boston (albeit arrogant and ruthless), and forcing the surviving scientists to work for various extremist factions]]. Remember kids, isolationism is bad, because it leaves you oblivious to how your agents on the field torture and murder innocent people. But if you work for a group of extremists then they'll give you major funding for your wacky and dangerous science and hit you whenever you do something horribly wrong and everything will be okay!
* ''VideoGame/KingdomHeartsBirthBySleep'': {{Forgiveness}} can backfire (just ask Eraqus [[note]]Betrayed again, this time fatally, by the same guy.[[/note]] and [[spoiler:Ansem the Wise [[note]]Loses most of his memories due to ThePowerOfHate no longer reinforcing him against the Dark Realm's effects.[[/note]]]]), ThePowerOfFriendship can fail (the main trio get a BittersweetEnding[=/=]DownerEnding despite giving it their all), and ThePowerOfHate can be your best friend (it's what lets Terra create the [[AnimatedArmor Lingering]] [[TheJuggernaut Will]], the ultimate SpannerInTheWorks against BigBad Xehanort).
* ''VideoGame/LegendOfMana'': InUniverse, the prevailing opinion is BeYourself (even if said self is a JerkAss OmnicidalManiac) and that the ends justify the means (even if your ultimate goal is TheEndOfTheWorldAsWeKnowIt). RealityEnsues--the world is a mess as a result and ItsUpToYou to solve everyone's problems.
* ''VideoGame/LostInBlue'' is about two people shipwrecked on an island and having to work together to survive, which ends up being sort of a gender-role/marriage simulator. The thing is, the AI isn't all that bright, and your "spouse" is likely to die of stupidity no matter who you're playing. It's set up as being very much the traditional idea of what a married couple will be to each other, but the complications caused by the faulty AI generally turn this message into "Partnership and teamwork is necessary, but it ''sucks'' to be married to a useless moron."
* While ''VideoGame/RedDeadRedemption'' has a few over-arching Aesops, the side quests mostly promote a philosophy of "[[NoGoodDeedGoesUnpunished Be careful doing nice things for people, because it may not end well for all involved]]". While there are some examples of a good deed having a genuinely good outcome, most do not follow this line of reasoning. Give an inventive aviator the means to create his flying machine? [[spoiler:Congratulations, you just gave him the means to fly off of a cliff to his doom.]] Rescue a seemingly love-struck Chinese immigrant from cruel indentured servitude? [[spoiler:Good job, you find out later his "love" is an addiction to heroin.]] Decide to rescue a mountaineer from rampaging Sasquatch? [[spoiler:Nice work, you just single-handedly reduced a peaceful species to a single suicidal survivor.]] This even applies to minor side-activities, where stopping to help someone on the side of the road can get you either killed or left horseless. While mostly played for the sake of dark humor, the general message is the same; people ''will'' manipulate your sense of justice, honor or altruism to deceive you and sometimes the worst thing you can do for a person is giving them the help they seek.
* ''VideoGame/RememberMe'' tells us that painful memories, particularly painful, traumatic ones, are still valuable to us as people because they make us who we are. Memory remixes drastically change people's personalities and perceptions of their situation because of this. Of course, [[BrokenAesop the actual events of the game contradict it pretty thoroughly]], but that's the lesson it's trying to put forth anyway.
* Creator/ZapDramatic's anti-bullying game, ''Sir Basil Pike Public School'', has... problems... with the lessons it [[BrokenAesop tries to teach]]. One of the few that manages to stay more or less consistent (if you don't count the premise) is, "AdultsAreUseless. You can try to talk to them if you want, but they don't have the time or the patience to put up with your bullshit. Handle it yourself."
* In ''[[VideoGame/SonicStorybookSeries Sonic and the Black Knight]]'', Sonic stops [[spoiler:Merlina's]] plan because he doesn't like the idea of a world that won't end. It's this because of how unclear it is. Though he could actually mean he doesn't like the idea of a world unable to change, the dialog makes it murky.
* ''VideoGame/StarOceanTheLastHope'' ends with everyone agreeing -- and ''signing into law'' -- that everyone should just stick with their own kind instead of cooperating with other races.
** To be fair, there's a specifically designed clause that states one can simply become a member of another race by forsaking any technology that is an essential part of their culture, to prevent the CargoCult apocalypses that caused this law to become the [[AlienNonInterferenceClause Prime Directive]].
* One of the major Aesops in ''VideoGame/TalesOfSymphonia'' (besides the obvious [[CaptainObviousAesop "racism is bad"]] one) is about knowing when the quit, and that sticking to your beliefs isn't always a good thing. Lloyd and the BigBad act as basically a {{Deconstruction}} of the {{Determinator}} trope, with Lloyd eventually learning that he needs to change his outlook on the world and becoming a better person as a result, while the BigBad stubbornly refuses to change to the bitter end, even when [[spoiler: his own sister, who he was enacting his schemes for to begin with]] tells him that what he's doing is wrong and he needs to stop.
* Some people believe that ''VideoGame/TalesOfVesperia'' glorifies vigilantism and murder. Summary VigilanteExecution of powerful government officials by [[TheCowl Yuri Lowell]] is shown to save more lives in the here and now than the more methodical approach by [[TheCape Flynn Scifo]] who seeks to change the law from within the system. One of these government officials had been exposed as [[MoralEventHorizon feeding innocent children to his pet monsters]] but he was simply too [[ScrewTheRulesIHaveConnections powerful for the law to touch]]. Another was pretty much the [[ScrewTheRulesIMakeThem person in charge of law enforcement]] in the area and kept sending people off to die. The game seems to imply that MurderIsTheBestSolution for dealing with people like that.
* ''VideoGame/ValkyriaChronicles'': Being different is bad. [[TallPoppySyndrome It's better to completely cut yourself off from everything that makes you different or special than to stand out too much and risk attracting people's attention.]]
* Junpei's subplot in ''VisualNovel/ZeroTimeDilemma'' basically goes 'Trusting people might fatally backfire on you, but trusting nobody will ''definitely'' kill you'. Even when the group he's in starts to actually work together, they do so not out of trust (or even mutual respect) but because they'll die if they don't and nobody has the time to think up a better plan. Similarly, in [[VisualNovel/VirtuesLastReward the second game]], [[spoiler:Junpei raised [[MoralityPet the orphan Quark]] not because he wanted to be a father but because, post-apocalypse, all human lives are precious. This causes a lot of friction between the two]].
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* ''Webcomic/BoyMeetsBoy'' ends with the lesson that people change, friendships don't last, and you'll probably have to settle for second best, because the love of your life simply isn't interested.
* ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'' had one at the end of "Death Sentence": When confronted with a bad situation, one shouldn't simply decide that the worst outcome is inevitable and plan for that. People should, by all means, try to make better plans so that things might end peacefully and without anyone getting hurt. However, what they need to remember is that [[RealityEnsues sometimes that isn't going to work at all, and in fact their plan might be doomed from the beginning]], and so if their plan goes to hell, they should be prepared for the bad ending- but that doesn't mean that they should stop making plans where EverybodyLives. It's a pretty depressing message, though the rather idealistic character to whom it gets delivered does accept it (but not happily).
* ''Webcomic/{{Fans}}'' had this strip involving Rikk, Aly and Rumi eating pot-laced brownies. [[http://www.faans.com/index.php?p=1864 "Don't do drugs, kids, or they might impair your ability to enjoy drugs later in life!"]]
* And while on the subject of Sandra K. Fuhr, one of the possible endings to ''Webcomic/FriendlyHostility'' teaches us that [[spoiler: even with the best intentions, you can't force a relationship to last]].
* ''Webcomic/{{Jack|DavidHopkins}}'' has a few overarching themes in its stories, mostly centering on the nature of sin, punishment, repentance and redemption, understandable for a comic about Heaven and Hell. One of these is that almost no one is good enough to get into Heaven, and almost everyone who goes Hell will never get out... not because of anything they do or don't do personally, but because Hell itself can screw them out of their chance at redemption.
* ''Webcomic/{{Misfile}}'' tried to give AnAesop about accepting responsibility when the old road was being taken over, but Ash repeatedly points out that his title grants him no obligation to help anyone else and the other racers freely admit that they aren't friends, they just need someone to fight their battles for them. It becomes less about responsibility and more about giving in to peer pressure.
* ''Webcomic/SaturdayMorningBreakfastCereal'' loves these. For example, the hare put in far less effort than the tortoise, but still got second place, which is, you know [[http://www.smbc-comics.com/index.php?db=comics&id=2222#comic pretty freaking good]].
* ''Webcomic/SluggyFreelance'' ends the [[http://sluggy.com/comics/archives/daily/20070205 "Aylee"]] StoryArc with AnAesop that you should always stand by and trust your friends, [[http://sluggy.com/comics/archives/daily/20070918 even if there's a very real chance they might destroy all life on Earth]].
* ''Webcomic/PennyArcade'' has [[http://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2014/07/11/dobber one that combines]] an ImaginaryFriend with a PrecisionFStrike.
* ''Webcomic/{{Walkyverse}}'' has "Morals mean diddly squat without experiences to back them up... which is a license to screw around and do stupid things"
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* Taken to very dark extremes with the flash story ''[[http://www.newgrounds.com/portal/view/576095 Loneliness]]'', giving a message that if a loved one dies, ''you should kill yourself to be with that person in the afterlife''.
* ''[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WLoTakkd5nU Yes & No: A Dyseducational Road Movie]]''. The message is that obediently following rules of the road will screw you over (it's all [[RuleOfFunny comedically exaggerated]]).
* WebVideo/HonestTrailers [[DiscussedTrope discusses this trope]] whenever they make a video of a children's movie. Notably with ''Disney/TheLittleMermaid'', as mentioned above.
* The {{a|nAesop}}esop of "Why Lying is OK!" by WebVideo/MatthewSantoro is that some lies are necessary for society to function, and that [[BrutalHonesty always telling the truth]] is a bad thing.
* Discussed at length in WebVideo/TheNostalgiaCritic's "Top 11 ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' Episodes", where he names "[[Recap/TheSimpsonsS2E1BartGetsAnF Bart Gets an F]]" his favorite episode of the show, in large part, because it's the rare piece of pop culture that's brave enough to teach the Family-Unfriendly Aesop "Failure is an unavoidable part of life -- and we all fail sometimes, even when we try our very hardest." He argues that this is one of the most important lessons that anyone can learn, but admits that it's rarely used as AnAesop in pop culture because it's so much more uplifting to show a protagonist succeeding through hard work. In the same episode, Critic discusses this trope when naming "[[Recap/TheSimpsonsS8E23HomersEnemy Homer's Enemy]]" one of the 11 best episodes of the show. He sums up the episode's moral as "Sometimes bad things happen to good people for no reason, and sometimes dumb people are rewarded more than smart people", but argues that the episode is brilliant because it faces such a grim message so unapologetically, and [[BlackComedy manages to make it surprisingly funny]].
* In the live recordings of ''WebVideo/WhatTheFuckIsWrongWithYou'', whenever they cover a news story involving inept criminals, Tara has a habit of pointing out everything they did wrong and what they could've done better, to the point that Nash jokingly calls those segments "How To Be A Better Criminal."
* Website/{{Cracked}} gives us [[http://www.cracked.com/photoplasty_974_18-adult-lessons-you-missed-in-famous-kids-shows/?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=new+article&wa_ibsrc=fanpage 18 Adult Lessons You Missed in Famous Kids Shows.]]
* The cyber-legend of Marine Todd. Summary: a Marine comes back from "the war", enrolls in a college course, and sits through a lecture where an atheist professor invites God to knock him down from the speaking platform. Marine Todd gets up and punches the professor, saying that God had sent him to do the task on His behalf (often adding that "[God] was too busy protecting the troops who are dying to protect your right to say stupid shit"). Take your pick of horrible lessons that this implies - that believers are justified in committing the criminal act of assault to justify their beliefs to non-believers; that civilians are a fair target for trained military personnel; that freedom of speech is only for people who agree with you; that might makes right...
** Alternatively, flip perspectives for an equally unfriendly Aesop. Don't mock and belittle the beliefs of others or otherwise intentionally try to piss people off even if you don't care about them; societal expectation isn't always enough to prevent violent retaliation.
*** Another alternate Aesop that could be applied to this story is: if you fight or otherwise work for the freedom of others, you need to realize and accept that there will always be people who exercise that freedom in a way that you won't necessarily like or agree with, but to lash out at them in an abusive way would be the same as denying them their freedom, and that would be just as wrong.
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