{{Tykebomb}}s are generally raised with people who tell them they're nothing but a weapon and usually [[BullyingADragon treat them like crap]]. Then along comes someone who's different. When they look at the Tykebomb, they don't see a weapon, they see a [[TheWoobie messed-up little kid]]. Naturally, they try to rescue the poor Tykebomb, [[IKnowYouAreInThereSomewhereFight talking or fighting their way towards them]]. The HugTropes is likely to be their arsenal and expect ThePowerOfFriendship to be used. The one doing the defusing is also likely to be a WarriorTherapist and/or an AllLovingHero.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't; what matters for trope purposes is the intent.
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!!Examples:

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[[folder: Anime & Manga ]]

* This pretty much is ''Manga/{{Monster}}'' summarized in four words.
* The whole comedic point of ''Manga/{{Beelzebub}}''. Poor [[IdiotHero Oga]] has his work (and life) cut out for him [[AntiAntiChrist to prevent his adopted demon spawn]] from ''erasing humans off the face of the earth''.
* Manga/{{Naruto}} doesn't understand how [[BattleButler Haku]] can stand to work for a man like Zabuza, who frequently makes it clear that Haku's usefulness "as a weapon" in battle is why he's kept around ([[spoiler:though this [[SubordinateExcuse turns out to be a front...]]]]). Naruto sees Haku as a person, and tries to make Haku see that he's a person, too.
** [[EnsembleDarkhorse Iruka]] does this for Naruto himself, as he was pretty much the first adult to treat Naruto like a person - other adults were either distant or hostile, and the kids more or less followed suit. ''Many'' of Naruto's enemies are versions of him who didn't even get that level of support (or only got it from a twisted source).
** Gaara is a blatant example of this trope. Turned into an unstable, murdering psychopath by his father, and empowered by Shukaku, after a beatdown and lecture from Naruto he became the highly admired and respected Fifth Kazekage.
** And [[WoobieDestroyerOfWorlds Pain]] gives us a lesson in how not to do this. You do not leave the Tykebomb on his own until you are sure it is defused. You do not wait for somebody else to teach him the intricacies of his powers.
*** Pain implies that he did not fully trust Jiraiya when he was watching over him and his friends, making this something of a case of the bomb only seemingly being defused.
*** Well, on the one hand, he ''wasn't'' a {{Tykebomb}}, he was a scared little kid with some powerful buried powers. Jiraiya trained him into a {{tykebomb}} in hopes that being a ninja would keep him alive--wasn't particularly worried about who ''Nagato'' might hurt, 'cause he was a good kid who loved his friends. And it was all fine, and Akatsuki was spreading peace and order and possibly even sunshine, though it was Rain country so probably not...and then Danzou and Hanzou got together and offed his leader slash MoralityPet slash best friend slash RestrainingBolt in the most traumatic way possible. Nice job there.
* Sven toward Eve in ''Manga/BlackCat''.
* In the second season of ''CodeGeass'', [[spoiler: Lelouch tries to do this for his companion Rolo, but hardly with the best intentions, by using their memories from the past year to appeal to his "brotherhood".]] It works, and he gets a loyal pawn, but eventually this goes horrifically wrong [[spoiler: when said pawn becomes a murderously jealous {{Yandere}}...]]
** He didn't try to get rid of the murderous tendencies at all. He just tried to [[spoiler: turn him into [[TheDragon a personal Tykebomb for him instead of V.V]], with full intent of [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness offing him when he no longer needed him]].]] Unfortunately all this did was show that an unstable TykeBomb is not someone you want on your side if you actually have people other than yourself that you care about.
* Mireille from ''Anime/{{Noir}}'' assumes this role toward Kirika, particularly toward the end of the series.
* ''RurouniKenshin'': Kenshin Himura does this to [[spoiler: Soujiro]].
* Nanoha does this to Fate in the first season of ''MagicalGirlLyricalNanoha''. Of course, this being Nanoha, she defused the bomb [[DefeatMeansFriendship with a bigger explosion]].
** And then Erio and Caro do this to Lutecia in season 3.
** Fate previously reached out to Erio, who believed he was worth nothing after finding out [[spoiler:that he, like Fate, was a clone of a dead child]], and lashed out at her and the people looking after him. Interestingly enough, she used essentially the same argument that Caro eventually used against Lutecia- that people who are sad should not hurt others while seeking happiness.
* Domon Kasshu does this to Allenby Beardsly in ''GGundam''. [[spoiler: When she's kidnapped and then BrainwashedAndCrazy by Prime Minister Wong, his partner Rain Mikamura finishes Domon's work.]]
** Also, [[spoiler: Shinn Asuka]] tries this on [[spoiler: Stellar Louissier]] in GundamSEEDDestiny. [[spoiler: It ''nearly'' works... until the Freedom reappears, Stellar flashbacks to Neo's 'death', goes nuts again and the Freedom is forced to put her out of her misery.]]
** [[Anime/MobileSuitZetaGundam Kamille Bidan]] attempts this with both Four Murasame and Rosamia Badam, even playing along with the latter's delusion that he's her elder brother in an attempt to help her. [[spoiler:Tragically, both of them get killed in battle before he's successful, one by Kamille himself, no less.]]
** [[Anime/MobileSuitGundamZZ Judau Ashta]] is more successful: Elpeo Ple settles into a fairly stable brother-sister relationship with him, and even Ple-Two seems headed in this direction by the end. [[spoiler:Both of them still die... both times, in protecting him from danger.]]
** [[Anime/MobileSuitGundamUnicorn Banagher Links]] tries to talk [[spoiler:Loni out of levelling Torrington with her mobile armour. He ''nearly'' succeeds, coaxing Loni out of her cockpit, only for her to witness her last family member dying at the hands of the Federation, and driving her back into her rampage in despair.]] There's also an example in the backstory - [[spoiler:Banagher is a defused TykeBomb himself]].
* Some characters of ''KenichiTheMightiestDisciple'' (Kenichi himself, Miu, Niijima) are gradually doing this with CreepyChild Chikage Kushinada as an alternative to letting her fight Kenichi. Some want to help her, others are concerned because Kenichi WouldntHitAGirl, let alone a ''little'' girl. As a result of all these attempts (especially Kenichi's), she becomes {{Tsundere}}ish towards Kenichi.
* In ''{{Kekkaishi}}'', Yoshimori is trying to do this to Hiura.
** And yet [[spoiler: he fails]].
*** [[spoiler: I don't think so, in last chapters Hiura has betrayed his companions and is helping Yoshimori]]
*** [[spoiler: He hasn't betrayed his orders yet. It's just that his orders happen to go against theirs. At the same time, he also does listen to, and remember, Yoshimori's words. His mind is waaaay too screwed up to be certain what's going on inside without a convenient extrapolation.]]
* A strange case of this appears in ''Anime/PokemonTheFirstMovie''. Mewtwo rejects the objectification of his creators on his own twice (even stating in the novelization that they treat him like an object), and is already waging war on humanity when our heroes come along. Ash and his friends, fairly quickly, realize that [[spoiler: Mewtwo's clone soldiers are [[TykeBomb tykebombs]] and Ash sacrifices himself to save them and the regular Pokemon from Mewtwo and Mew's feud. This selfless act makes Mewtwo realize that not all HumansAreBastards and defuses him partly.]] This process is essentially completed in the direct-to-video sequel, ''Anime/PokemonMewtwoReturns''.
* Rowan does this to Mitsumi prior to the beginning of ''Manga/PokemonDiamondAndPearlAdventure''.
* In ''{{ROD The TV}}'', tykebomb Junior finds Michelle utterly disarming. Anita puts a few chinks in his armour as well.
* Maka towards Crona in ''SoulEater''. [[spoiler:It sticks in the anime. In the manga... Not so much.]]
** Black Star had another attempt [[spoiler: using about as close to Maka's force plus understanding tactic as he's going to get. It didn't work. If anything, Crona's even ''worse'' this time, claiming Medusa is the only one they can 'rely' on.]]
*** Later reversed when [[spoiler: Medusa pretends affection in order to TRIGGER the TykeBomb.]].
* In ''Manga/BlackLagoon'', Rock tries to do this with Gretel (who might really be [[AxeCrazy Hansel]]), but is unsuccessful. And then [[spoiler:(s)he [[DownerEnding gets shot]].]]
--> '''Benny''': [[spoiler:"Stories like these don't have happy endings."]]
* Dominic helps bring this about for Anemone in ''EurekaSeven''.
* An absolute textbook example of this trope occurs toward the end of ''RuneSoldierLouie'' when priestess Melissa walks directly toward an enraged, lightning-bolt-flinging ChildMage named Lilly, who has been raised by the evil Lord Dardanel to be a vicious enemy of the reigning royal family. Melissa proceeds to talk her into a teary-eyed HeelFaceTurn.
* ''Anime/NeonGenesisEvangelion'' had several characters make the attempt, hindered by [[DysfunctionJunction their own state of massive emotional trauma.]] Ironically, the most dangerous of the Tykebombs turns out not to be the HalfHumanHybrid, [[spoiler: Rei]], but one of the humans. [[spoiler: Shinji, the main character, whom Rei herself tries to defuse. The effects are...[[GainaxEnding mixed]].]] In ''RebuildOfEvangelion'', however, it looks as if the three lead Tykebombs are gradually beginning to defuse each other, though the latter half of 2.0 sure didn't help.
** In fact, Shinji and Rei appear to have defused each other while Asuka defused herself with help from others, Shinji and Rei in particular.
* ''{{Dragonball}}'': Goku, of all people, is a defused tykebomb. This came from him falling on his head, resulting in LaserGuidedAmnesia, as well as the love and care of his Grandpa Gohan.
* Done in ''Manga/DNA2'', towards [[spoiler:Rurara Kawasaki.]]
* Mai does this unintentionally to Mikoto in ''Anime/{{Mai-HiME}}'', without even knowing what Mikoto's role in the unfolding events really is. Likewise, Miyu wins Alyssa from the Searrs Foundation by being the only person... well, robot... who ever actually cared about her. [[spoiler:It doesn't quite stick, though, with Alyssa being killed shortly afterwards... until the end. anyway.]]
* ''Manga/AttackOnTitan'' sees Jean and Connie attempt this on [[spoiler: Reiner and Bertolt]], in the midst of a desperate chase through Titan-infested lands. Both appeal to their years of friendship and comradery, asking WasItAllALie and attempting to coax them into talking to them. While their attempts are successful in not only defusing Mikasa's UnstoppableRage, but triggering [[spoiler: Bertolt]]'s VillainousBSOD.....it seems these {{Tyke Bomb}}s are TrappedInVillainy and can't be talked down. Any further efforts are prevented by Erwin leading in a ZergRush and throwing gasoline on the proverbial fire. Quite a few people are killed in the ensuing chaos.

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[[folder: Comic Books ]]

* Barbara Gordon (the first ComicBook/{{Batgirl}}) acts this way toward Cassandra Cain (the second [[ComicBook/{{Batgirl 2000}} Batgirl]]). Franchise/{{Batman}}, DependingOnTheWriter, is either a total JerkAss or so badly damaged that he really cannot help much.
** The same could be said of Dick Grayson, then Franchise/{{Batman}}, towards the current Robin, Damian Wayne, who was raised and trained by the League of Assassins.
* {{Wolverine}} acts like this towards his latest [[KidSidekick young female sidekick]], ComicBook/{{X 23}}.
* While the Female of ''ComicBook/TheBoys'' is not a standard tykebomb, it is how [[VillainProtagonist Butcher]] wants to treat her when they first capture her. However, [[CrazyAwesome the Frenchman]] takes it upon him to train her, and this trope is his approach to her. The defusing is... not quite completely successful.
* The [[WeirdnessMagnet titular character]] of ''Comicbook/{{Squee}}'' manages to do this ''unintentionally'' to [[TheAntichrist Pepito]], who, despite being literally ''raised by {{Satan}}'' to teethe on the toasty souls of the damned, seems to be genuinely moved by his friendship with Squee. Of course, Squee being [[CosmicPlaything who]] [[HilariouslyAbusiveChildhood he]] [[BornUnlucky is]], it happens [[RuleOfFunny mostly because]] Squee thinks Pepito [[CreepyChild is terrifying]].

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* In ''Film/BloodDiamond,'' one of the protagonists' son is captured early in the film. When they find him, he's been converted into a child soldier by the [[TheRevolutionWillNotBeCivilized RUF rebels in Sierra Leone]]. The tyke holds his father at gunpoint, but gets talked down. Unfortunately, at the end of the film it's mentioned that there are still 200,000 ChildSoldiers in Africa.
* ''DannyTheDog'' presents a particularly tough case: a man who was raised in a kennel and treated like an attack dog, intended to kill anyone who threatened his "Uncle Bart." Bart's ([[NoOneCouldSurviveThat apparent]]) death leads Danny to a blind piano tuner, who tries to teach him the rules humans live by.

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* Literature/{{Discworld}}'s ''Discworld/{{Sourcery}}'': Rincewind does this to Coin, and the Librarian keeps it good.
** Also in the Literature/{{Discworld}}, in ''Discworld/UnseenAcademicals'', when Mr. Nutt finds out he is [[spoiler:an orc]], he thinks he must be one of these due to his heritage. His friends and even random strangers in Ankh-Morpork disagree based on his behavior.
* LoisMcMasterBujold's Miles Vorkosigan starts this job with his clone-brother Mark in ''[[Literature/VorkosiganSaga Brothers in Arms]]''. His parents, especially his mother Cordelia, pick up the job in ''Mirror Dance''.
** Technically more of a ThickerThanWater, as in Betan society cloning is a perfectly valid form of reproduction, and as such Mark is a LongLostRelative.
--->“Except that—I keep hearing my mother’s voice, in my head. That’s where I picked up that perfect Betan accent, y’know, that I use for Admiral Naismith, I can hear her now.”
--->“And what does she say?” Galeni’s brows twitched in amusement.
--->“Miles—she says—what have you done with your baby brother?!”
*** The last line gets a CallBack from Elena in ''Mirror Dance'', explaining why she's helping someone she initially mistrusts.
** And Kareen Koudelka seems to have happily picked up where Cordelia leaves off, although Kareen and Mark do meet in ''Mirror Dance''. By ''A Civil Campaign'', the two have gone into business together.
* [[WarchildSeries Cairo Azarcon]] was captured as a child by BigBad Falcone, and raised as a {{Tykebomb}}. He's found and rescued in his late teens by a SpaceMarine. It takes a few years, but Azarcon eventually assimilates into [=EarthHub=] society...well, more or less.
* Prof. Marius, the TallDarkAndSnarky teacher of Edgewood Academy, from ''ThePrincess99'' manages to defuse the tykebomb in question here [[spoiler: Axel]] before they destroy the entire school.
* Used interestingly in ''Literature/GalaxyOfFear: Army of Terror''. [[spoiler: The heroes find the [[PokemonSpeak Eppon]], apparently a year old, and carry him off with Tash and Zak happily planning to [[Heartwarming/GalaxyOfFear adopt him]]. They recruit some Rebel soldiers to help carry him, and he eats them one by one when no one can see, [[PlotRelevantAgeUp growing larger and older-looking]] all the time but still being sweet and loving to Tash and Zak. When the BigBad arrives Eppon obeys his commands, but later [[PsychicChildren Tash]] appeals to him through the Force.]] It works, but the BigBad had implanted a bomb in his head [[YourHeadASplode and uses it]].

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* In ''Series/{{Angel}}'' the titular character tries to do this for Connor, with some success. However, Connor quickly develops other reasons for them not to get along, and in any case never fully gets over his prejudice against Angel.
** At least, not until the season 4 finale [[spoiler: when Angel retcons everyone's memories to give Connor a life with a normal, loving family.]] Even in season 5, [[spoiler: when his original memories are restored, the experience has given him a much greater sense of stability and grounding, so by the end of the series he's patched things up with his real father.]]
* ''[[Series/TwentyFour 24]]'' surprisingly let this work, rather than [[BlackAndGrayMorality forcing Jack to kill a child soldier.]]
* Odo attempts this with a newborn Jem'Hadar on ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine''. His attempts to raise the fast-growing child to be more empathetic and less violent fail because the Founders are just that good at manipulating them on the genetic level. The fact that ''everyone'' else treated him as a threat and/or potential lab specimen may have undermined Odo's efforts though.
** Technically, almost any attempt to talk down a Jem'Hadar throughout the series would count as this since most of them don't live past 12. They grow to their full adult size practically overnight once they are "born" and are ready to go into battle within days. The only times anyone even comes close to succeeding is if the Jem'Hadar consider them a WorthyOpponent. The only reason Odo was able to have any success at all is that he's a Founder himself, and thus the Jem'Hadar are genetically predisposed to see him as a god.
* The Doctor in ''Series/DoctorWho'' defuses [[spoiler:Melody Pond]] in ''Let's Go Kill Hitler''. Given that ''Doctor Who'' is a show with TimeTravel as its core premise, the Doctor already knows where [[spoiler:Melody's]] life ends up, while [[spoiler:Melody]] [[HaveWeMetYet hasn't yet met the Doctor face-to-face]].

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[[folder: Video Games ]]

* Snake sort of plays this role in ''VideoGame/MetalGearSolid2''.
* A child soldier has to be talked out of culling the nurse with a pair of scissors in ''TraumaCenter: Under the Knife 2''.
* VideoGame/KnightsOfTheOldRepublicII: The light-side path with Visas, along with many CrowningMomentsOfHeartwarming
* In ''VideoGame/BlazeUnion'', we learn that ''YggdraUnion'''s HeroAntagonist Gulcasa was technically ''born'' one of these--his mother attempted to defuse him by forcibly sealing his abilities and then [[ParentalAbandonment leaving him]] to go FindTheCure. His father, resenting him for the loss of his wife, started abusing him, and any good the seal did was undone posthaste. [[AllThereInTheManual According to]] WordOfGod, the young Gulcasa was a bitter and violent EmptyShell until Siskier and Jenon befriended him and helped him learn to be a normal little kid again.
* In ''[[FireEmblemAkaneia Fire Emblem: Shin Monsho no Nazo]]'', the [[HelloInsertNameHere avatar]] does this for [[spoiler:Eine aka Katarina]].
* A Paragon Commander Shepard has this effect on [[AxCrazy Jack]] in ''VideoGame/MassEffect2''. She has way too many issues for you to deal with all of them in the game's time-frame, but you can at least convince her there are ways of solving problems besides shooting people.
* In a particularly odd case, [[LadyOfBlackMagic Morrigan]] from ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' ends up defusing ''herself''. Once she realizes her mother's plan for her - [[spoiler: becoming a future host body]] - she starts plotting her death. In the first game's last [=DLC=] story, she heads for parts unknown with her own secret agenda, which may involve co-opting her mother's other big plan ([[spoiler: the Old God Baby]]).
* The player character of ''VideoGame/PokemonBlackAndWhite'' does this to [[spoiler: N Harmonia, ''before he is even known to be a TykeBomb'']].
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* Attempted in two routes of ''VisualNovel/FateStayNight'' with Ilya and, to an extent, Saber. [[spoiler:It doesn't work in the first until after she's been defeated, at which point she realizes Shirou really does care. In the second, they get along much better and the defusing is therefore much more successful.]]
** Shirou trying to convince Saber she can think of herself as a woman as well as [[spoiler:a king can come under this, if she weren't 30.]]
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* ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'' has a variant with the Monster in the Darkness and the paladin [[TheDeterminator O-Chul]]. While [=MitD=] may be a monster of unknown origin, it has the personality of a child and O-Chul forms an OddFriendship with it while he's imprisoned by the BigBad.

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[[folder: Western Animation ]]

* ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'' has Danny telling his OppositeSexClone that Vlad is merely using her as a tool instead of the daughter she thinks she is to him. She obviously doesn't believe this and spends most of the episode in deep denial, attacking him and the like to prove otherwise. Since Vlad is the series' BigBad, Danny is right. Danielle manages to have a change of heart as a result and worked alongside him.
* [[TransformersAnimated Ratchet]] combines [[CrowningMomentOfAwesome awesome]] and [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming heartwarming]] to do this to [[spoiler:Omega Supreme]] the moment he wakes up, rejecting the Elite Guard's role for him as master of a mindless PersonOfMassDestruction.
-->'''[[spoiler:Omega Supreme]]:''' I am [[spoiler:Omega Supreme]]. I am yours to command. I am your pupil. Your dependent. Your obedient servant.
-->'''Ratchet:''' I am Ratchet. I am... your friend.
* From ''WesternAnimation/YoungJustice'': Robin, Aqualad, and Kid Flash all take turns at trying to defuse Superboy. It works, but it takes him most of the season to fully recover.
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* As child soldiers exist, so does the job of trying to defuse them.

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