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[[caption-width-right:343:[[Music/WhitneyHouston "Oh, I wanna dance with somebody...\\
with somebody who loves me."]]]]

->''"But something happens when we slow dance."''
-->-- '''Keri Hilson''', "Slow Dance"

So Alice and Bob, who either don't know each other very well, or are JustFriends, are attending some fancy party. For some reason, they wind up dancing to some slow romantic song that requires waltzing or some other dance typified by close body contact. Hey, that's ok, nothing special -- except she's starting to blush, and he's getting all nervous. Could it be? Are they in love?

This often pops up during high school dances and fancy parties, the kind with hooped skirts and masks. For some reason, waltzing with a friend, or friend-of-a-friend, always winds up with one or both participants acquiring (or realizing) feelings of love towards the other, as though it were some kind of movement-driven truth/love spell. Often prefaced by an observation that SheCleansUpNicely, and frequently occurs during a HighSchoolDance, though it is by no means exclusive to teenagers.

A subtrope of DancesAndBalls, obviously.

When adding examples, keep in mind that this trope is about the dance being the ''first'' indication of romance between the dancers, not just a romantic dance between two people who are in love ([[SheIsNotMyGirlfriend or in denial]]).

Chances are a LoveTheme will be playing.

Compare MatingDance, ConvenientSlowDance, FlightOfRomance.
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!!Examples:

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[[folder:Anime & Manga]]
* ''LightNovel/TheFamiliarOfZero'': After catching Fouguet, the academy holds a ball where Louise asks Saito for a dance. In the novels, at least, Saito declares that that was the time when he fell in love with Louise.
* ''[[RevolutionaryGirlUtena The Adolescence of Utena]]'': Utena and Anthy, a clear starlit sky, a rose garden covered in water creating a mirror-like floor, and of course, the song as they reach to each other and dance, "[[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=72e0s4pxDG0 Toki ni, Ai wa (At times, Love is)]]".
* ''YamiNoMatsuei'': This trope ''is'' Hisoka and Tsubaki. The start of their [[spoiler: doomed]] interaction consists pretty much of her bumping into him and then getting him to dance with her. Cue slow, romantic music, and GaussianGirl effects as they stare into each other's eyes.
* The Magic World Ball chapters of ''MahouSenseiNegima'' had two sets of these going, one straight, and one with several subversions. The straight one is Kotaro/Natsumi, and the oddball one being Negi/Asuna, because [[spoiler: it isn't really Asuna, but her doppleganger Shiori.]] However, it's sliiiiightly played straight, since [[spoiler:by that point Shiori ''was'' already developing feelings for Negi]].
* Subverted in ''HonooNoAlpenRose'', where Jeudi gets dolled up in a [[LadyInRed red gown]] to dance a waltz ''with the RomanticFalseLead'' instead of [[VictoriousChildhoodFriend the guy she has loves from childhood]]. Further subverted when [[spoiler: said dance turns out to be plot-relevant, as it triggers the return on one of Jeudi's lost memories: dancing with a man who seems to be her father... ''before'' the plane crash that left her orphaned and amnesiac.]]
** Played a little straighter in the OP of the series, where she's seen dancing with both the False Lead ''and'' the VictoriousChildhoodFriend.
* While Casca insisted that [[ICantDance she couldn't dance]] with her crush Griffith in the manga and TV adaptation of ''{{Berserk}}'', the second movie adaptation takes it in a completely different direction with she and Guts dancing together, both parties [[EveryoneCanSeeIt very clearly enjoying their interaction.]] But they were JustFriends at this point ([[TheyDo for now]]).
* In CandyCandy, one of the most ShipTease-ladden moments for Candy and Anthony was their dance in the Andree BigFancyHouse. Even more so because they were ''this'' close to miss it thanks to [[SpoiledBrat Eliza and Neil's]] machinations. The sight of Candy dancing with Tony in a PimpedOutDress that belonged to his MissingMom [[VillainousBreakdown sent Eliza into a sobbing fit.]]
** There's a subversion too: Candy also dances with Anthony's cousin Archie, but that one goes more into CrowningMomentOfFunny as she steps on his foot and he makes a really hilarious face. [[spoiler: (Later, he's briefly in UnrequitedLove with her... before [[BetaCouple getting together with her best friend Annie]].]]
** Also, one of the first hints about [[{{Megane}} Stear]] and [[{{Meganekko}} Patty]]'s growing feelings was their... very {{Adorkable}} dance in the SchoolFestival. Where they both proved to be BlindWithoutThem, [[CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming but still tried to go through it.]]
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[[folder: Film - Animated]]
* Pictured above: Nearly the whole of ''Disney/{{Cinderella}}'''s romance occurs as Prince Charming and the titular heroine dance to ''So This Is Love''.
* ''Disney/BeautyAndTheBeast'' is one of the most famous examples as they dance to ''Beauty and The Beast''.
* TheSwanPrincess at the end of the song ''This Is My Idea''
* Tiana and Naveen in ''Disney/ThePrincessAndTheFrog''; "If I can mince, you can dance." (Unique in that they are ''frogs'' when they dance, rather than humans.)
* ''{{Anastasia}}'': with Dimitri after her gives her a dress in the Waltz Reprise of ''Learn to do it'' "I never should have let them dance..."
* ''Disney/SleepingBeauty''. Though Prince Phillip is drawn to Aurora by the sound of her voice, her first introduction to him is when he sneaks up behind her and starts waltzing with her to ''Once Upon a Dream''.
* Subverted in ''Disney/{{Tangled}}'' where Rapunzel and Flynn were trying to reach each other during the ''Kingdom Dance'' but don't come together until the song has ended.
* ''{{Rio}}''. After dancing a samba duet, Blu and Jewel are [[AlmostKiss on the verge of kissing...]] until the bad guys turn up.
* This happens in ''WesternAnimation/ThePrincessAndThePea'' when Daria and Rollo dance to the movie's AwardBaitSong.
* ''The Scarecrow'': another example where the love interests dance to an AwardBaitSong.
* Ro and Prince Antonio are dancing in ''WesternAnimation/BarbieAsTheIslandPrincess'' when Antonio tells Ro he loves her.
* In ''Disney/{{Frozen}}'', Anna and Hans do this.
* In ''WesternAnimation/ChickenRun'' Rocky and Ginger start having romantic feelings after a ''fast'' swing dance scene.
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[[folder:Film - Live Action]]
* This is the way Robert and Giselle both realize that they were meant to be with each other in ''{{Enchanted}}''. It's also the only possible way they could justify [[PairTheSpares Edward and Nancy]], even though both of them were glaring at their respective partners the whole time.
* It looks like this is happening to Janis and Damien towards the end of ''Film/MeanGirls'', but thankfully the pair quickly think better of it.
** Played straight after Damien runs off. Kevin slips into Janis's still-open arms and starts dancing with her while asking about her ethnicity.
* In ''Film/IronMan1'', Tony Stark first seems to notice Pepper romantically when he gets her out onto the dance floor for a nice slow waltz. They have an awkward and comedic conversation about it afterwards.
* Crumb and the old guy do this in ''Film/TheCityOfLostChildren''.
* James Bond and Domino dancing a tango in ''Film/NeverSayNeverAgain''. Does not quite cross over into MatingDance territory, but one can see why Largo interrupts it at the first possible moment.
* Happens in ''MissPettigrewLivesForADay'':
-->'''Joe''': I am making you uncomfortable?
-->'''Miss Pettigrew''': This is the most comfortable I've been all day.
* Played straight at the beginning of ''MrAndMrsSmith'' when John and Jane dance in Colombia, and then subverted later on in the ballroom when they use the dancing to cover the fact they are removing each other's weapons.
* Arguably the entire plot of ''DirtyDancing''.
* In ''WhenHarryMetSally'' at the first New Year's party.
* There's a cute one in the 1987 film adaptation of [[AnneofGreenGables Anne of Avonlea]] between Anne and Gilbert. It deeply affects Anne, who jerks away quickly after a few moments and makes an excuse to leave. Up until that point, she'd been oblivious to both Gilbert's feelings for her and her own feelings for him. She still remains oblivious to her feelings for him for a few more years.
* ''Cheek To Cheek'' from ''Film/TopHat''.
* At the end of Elizabeth's first dance with Mr Darcy in the KeiraKnightley version of ''PrideAndPrejudice'', Mr Darcy says that he hopes to afford Elizabeth more clarity of his character in the future. This must have been significant to Elizabeth because at that point everyone in the room disappears and Mr Darcy is the only one she notices.
* In ''TheArtist'', when George and Peppy film the dancing scene for [[ShowWithinAShow "A German Affair"]], they keep screwing up the takes because they can't stop staring at each other or making each other laugh. It culminates in a HeldGaze, after which a visibly unsettled George walks off the set. In the film's screenplay, this is actually pointed to as the precise moment where the two fall in love.
* Almasy and Katherine's dance in ''TheEnglishPatient'' film. It's romantic in that the mutual attraction between the two becomes apparent, but it is also extremely uncomfortable because of the sheer intensity of their connection coupled with the fact that Katherine is another man's wife. And he's sitting not far away.
* Sort of in ''{{Stardust}}'' when Tristan and Yvaine dance on the ship and [[spoiler: Yvain starts to glow as she begins realizing her feelings for him]].
* In ''Film/SweeneyToddTheDemonBarberOfFleetStreet'' Sweeney Todd and Mrs Lovett get one during the song Little Preist.
* In ''Film/TheDarkKnightRises'', Bruce Wayne gets to do one with [[DatingCatwoman Selina Kyle]] about 30 minutes into the movie.
* While Scott and Fran dance together several times during the course of ''Film/StrictlyBallroom'', their feelings for each other truly start to emerge when they dance to Doris Day's "Perhaps Perhaps Perhaps".
* In ''{{Film/Holiday}}'', Linda and John share a dance just before midnight on New Year's Eve. It's supposed to be an innocent future brother- and sister-in-law moment, but for Linda, at least, it turns into [[LoveEpiphany something more]].
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[[folder:Literature]]
* In ''Literature/{{Beastly}}'', a modern retelling of "Literature/BeautyAndTheBeast", Adrian teaches Lindy how to dance after he sees that SheCleansUpNicely. It could also be the point where Lindy started falling for Adrian too, considering that she begins LettingHerHairDown and wearing perfume around him after the dance.
* In Isabel Cooper's ''No Proper Lady'', the sexual tension between Simon and Joan is unsurprisingly kick-started when Simon begins teaching Joan how to waltz.
* Literature/{{Cinderella}}, and just about everything based off her.
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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* Doc and Seven in the ''Series/StarTrekVoyager'' episode "Someone to Watch Over Me".
* Odo and Kira in the ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'' episode "His Way." Granted, Odo had already been in love with Kira for years by this point, but their dance seemed to be the turning point that allowed Kira to [[LoveEpiphany realize her own feelings]].
* ''ICarly'': Carly and Freddie in ''iSpeed Date''.
* {{Series/Torchwood}} has the slow dance in 1942 between Jack and [[spoiler: the real Captain Jack Harkness]] after a full episode of romantic tension, culminating in one of the longest gay kisses ever shown on TV. Also a {{Tear Jerker}} since [[spoiler: Jack is forced to return to his own time immediately after the kiss, and the last image he sees is the other Jack saluting him]]
* Done twice in ''NipAndTuck'', first with Tuck and Thelma Possum at the harvest dance, then with Nip and Zelda Porcupine at the B-Movie cruise.
* ''{{Friends}}'' Monica and Chandler have an off-screen one when Chandler realized Monica was the woman he [[{{CrowningMomentOfHeartwarming}} "wanted to dance all his dances with."]]
* In ''[[Series/BattlestarGalacticaReimagined Battlestar Galactica]]'', this happens in the episode "Colonial Day," for Lee and Kara (subverted in that there are already indications of mutual romantic feelings between them and [[spoiler: Kara sleeps with someone else that night while fantasizing about Lee]]) and Roslin and Adama.
* In ''TheVampireDiaries'' episode "Miss Mystic Falls" 150+ year old vampire Damon Salvatore steps in to dance with his brother's human girlfriend, Elena Gilbert when Stefan fails to show up. You can see it in his eyes that this is the moment he realizes he loves her, and she appears somewhat affected as well.
** Also in ''TheVampireDiaries'' Stefan's dance with Elena's doppelganger, Katherine Pierce, is this as well, both in the past and in the present.
* In the KoreanDrama ''Series/TheCityHall'', Mi Rae and Ju Gook dance the tango at the Miss Baendaengi contest, finally letting the sparks fly.
* Carter and Abby in ''{{ER}}''. In the seventh season episode "Thy Will Be Done," Carter and Abby share one when Abby accompanies Carter to his grandparents' charity ball. The two were established friends by that point, but if the dance wasn't the turning point for both of them, it noticeably was for Carter...
* In the first episode of ''Series/BombGirls'' Kate asks Betty to slow dance with her, very obviously setting up the beginning of their romance.
* Subverted in an episode from ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' when Robin, having just used her "truth voice" to Lily about wanting to get back with Barney, gets pulled into a dance with him to "show these people in Cleveland how it's done." When the ending has them so close they're almost kissing, they are interrupted by a phone call from Barney's ex, Nora, who he had tried calling. She feeds him lines to say that are really how ''she'' is feeling which, unfortunately, brings the Barney and Nora back together.
* Possibly in {{Frasier}} in the episode where Niles dances with Daphne. Subverted in that [[spoiler: he's already in love with her and she thinks they're just putting on a show to make the other guests stop pitying Niles]] but he does refer back to it as a significant moment for them in later episodes.
* Played with in a complicated way in ''Series/{{Sherlock}}''. At John's wedding, Sherlock makes friends with a very flirty bridesmaid who fancies him and, when he rejects her, starts abusing his SherlockScan abilities to make him act as her wingman. Eventually, he confesses to her that he secretly loves dancing, but [[GuiltyPleasure no-one must ever know]]. She asks to see him dance, so he performs a few graceful moves for her (rather than with her), which she adores. In the next episode, John finds out, to his horror, that despite Sherlock's {{Asexuality}} the bridesmaid is now his girlfriend, walking around his house with no underwear and even sneaking up on him when he's in the bath. Eventually we find out that Sherlock in fact deliberately manipulated the whole situation in order to bait her as a HoneyTrap, needing her to solve a case - and that he couldn't even bring himself to do anything more than kiss her. It seems the decision to have him dance ''for'' her rather than ''with'' her was {{Foreshadowing}} this eventual twist.
* Karma and Amy's dance at Farrah's wedding reception in the season one finale of FakingIt. While not the slow, romantic dance usually seen, the wild, carefree manner in which they dance to 'their song', as though they're the only ones in the room, makes it clear to everyone present that they have feelings for each other.
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[[folder:Music]]
* Keri Hilson's song "Slow Dance", which is the quoted at the top of this page, is about this.
* The song "I Saw Her Standing There" by Music/TheBeatles is this trope in distilled form, combining the related tropes HighSchoolDance, HoldingHands and LoveAtFirstSight.
* Toby Keith's "You Shouldn't Kiss Me like This" combines this, EveryoneCanSeeIt and FirstKiss. "Everybody swears we make the perfect pair, but dancing is as far as it goes. Girl, you've never moved me quite the way you moved me tonight." Clearly, the girl is giving a massive neon sign of a hint to her previously (possibly) ObliviousToLove partner, and everybody there thinks it's about time.
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[[folder:Theater]]
* ''Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet'' first meet at the Capulet's party, so some adaptations have them dance before they first speak to one another.
* ''Theatre/WestSideStory'' during the dance at the gym. Tony and Maria see each other for the first time and dance. It's a cha-cha, not a waltz, but it fits.
* ''Theatre/SweeneyToddTheDemonBarberOfFleetStreet'' has an interesting variation. Mrs. Lovett is [[MadLove interested]] in Sweeney for the entire first half, but he's totally oblivious. Then come "A Little Priest", he notices her in a different light and they waltz. The catch? This sudden romantic interest is due to her...[[ImAHumanitarian unsual]] [[MadeFromRealGirlScouts idea]] of how to dispose of the body of the man he just killed.
* ''MissSaigon'' is another atypical variation; Kim and Chris dance together, which seems to be the usual practice in the club before going off with a client, but there's only a hint of affection; they don't fall deeply in love until afterwards, and the scene that ''looks'' like a typical Dance of Romance is the reprise of the song they danced to when they first met.
* Sort of happens in ''Theatre/TheSoundOfMusic'': Maria and Captain Von Trapp, when the kids ask to be shown the 'Laendler'. Whilst the audience (and the Baroness) can see this coming long before that, it's the first time either of the eventual couple give any inkling of noticing they love each other.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyVIII''. The scene where Rinoa persuades Squall to dance with her is where you first know that they're the OfficialCouple. (Well, y'know, besides [[CoverDrop the image on the cover]].)
* ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyVI'', the FallingInLoveMontage between Maduin and Madonna depicts them dancing and floating all over the screen.
* Elaine does this with Guybrush in ''TalesOfMonkeyIsland Chapter 4: The Trial and Execution of Guybrush Threepwood'', [[spoiler:although it is parodied as a "Freaky Waltz of Attempted Rape"]].
* In ''VideoGame/{{MOTHER 1}}[=/=][=EarthBound=] Zero'', Ninten and Ana dance together when they're alone in a healing house, after which Ana asks Ninten if he loves her. The dance is a primitive 8-bit one that only uses their walking sprites, but it's heartwarming nonetheless.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* The dance party scene in ''WesternAnimation/ChickenRun'' includes one for the two leads (especially significant for the heroine.) Unlike most examples, it uses a fast-tempo song.
* Happens to Kick and Kendall in the episode "Dancing With the Enemy" on ''KickButtowski'' when they both share their first mutual hint of being attracted to one another (Kendall being the only one that sort of have hinted at it for a second or two previously)... however, the moment is broken thanks to an off-screen classmate who is apparently an on board shipper for this couple.
--> '''Kick:''' "You're so elegant..."
--> '''Kendall:''' "And you're so awesome..."
--> '''Off-Screen Kid:''' "KISS HER!"
--> *needle scratch*
* It's pretty clear that this trope was in full effect at the end of ''WesternAnimation/KimPossibleMovieSoTheDrama'' when Kim and Ron returned to the prom and danced to the song "Could It Be" which incidentally fit the mood perfectly, culminating in their FirstKiss.
* ''{{Sym-Bionic Titan}}'': After Ilana misses the dance she worked so hard on (to set up the theme, as it reminded her of her home planet). Lance decides to cheer her up by putting on a hat and sharing a dance with her. Jason and Maribel's dance from earlier (after said couple abandoned them earlier) could be seen as this, although not the dance between Kimmy and her ex-boyfriend Brandon.
* While [[WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender Aang's feelings for Katara]] had been somewhere on the spectrum between PrecociousCrush and UnrequitedLove for quite a while, their dance scene in "The Headband" was the first time it looked like his attraction might be reciprocated. (A certain [[CanonDiscontinuity trip through a cave]] notwithstanding.)
* Scarecrow and The Queen Of Night have one of these in ''WesternAnimation/TheMagicAdventuresOfMumfie'' episode "Scarecrowella".
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[[folder:Real Life]]
* Can be TruthInTelevision. Waltz songs are often romantic or ballad type songs, and having someone listen to that while having to concentrate on a dance partner can plant the idea that leads to romance.
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