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->''"Please, I know you're in there\\
People are asking where you've been\\
They say, "have courage" and I'm trying to\\
I'm right out here for you\\
Just let me in\\
We only have each other\\
It's just you and me\\
What are we gonna do?"''
-->-- '''Anna''', ''WesternAnimation/{{Frozen|2013}}''

In fiction, one great way to up either the [[RuleOfDrama drama]] or [[RuleOfFunny comedy]] of a conversation is to have it occur through a door. One party shuts the other out in an attempt to avoid the confrontation while the other desperately tries to communicate in spite of the obstructive barrier.

This setup is useful in providing physical distance between characters to mirror psychological separation, and for its flexibility in resolution. This distance may just as easily be broken down by the opening of the door as suspended indefinitely by the character choosing not to emerge. Usually, the character behind the door is the more emotionally closeted of the pair while the character on the outside is more honest and straightforward, having to persuade the other that opening the door is not a bad thing.

Most commonly portrayed with romantic relationships and between parents and children who don't see eye-to-eye. Occasionally accompanied by the stock phrase "let me in," providing a deliberate ambiguity between "let me into the room" and "take me into your confidence."

SisterTrope to SeparatedByTheWall. If it's a washroom door that the characters are speaking through, see LockedInTheBathroom.

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''VisualNovel/EfAFairyTaleOfTheTwo'' has Hiro and Kei separated by a door as they work out her unlucky childhood friend status.
* In ''Manga/JunjouRomantica'' when Nowaki confronts Hiroki about their breakup at Hiroki's workplace, Hiroki runs back to his office and locks Nowaki out causing a bit of a scene. He is not persuaded to open the door.
* In ''Manga/KimiNiTodoke'' Sawako and Kazehaya finally clear things up during the School Festival with a conversation behind the classroom's door.
* Episode 22 of ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamTheWitchFromMercury'' has Suletta and Miorine reunite and reconcile with Miorine's bedroom door between them.
* Episode 3 of ''Anime/SuitePrettyCure'' used this for one of the show's most emotional scenes (so far). The [[JustifiedTrope lock broke]] just before Kanade came to confront Hibiki face-to-face and would have done so otherwise.
%%Administrivia/ZeroContextExample* In ''Manga/RequiemOfTheRoseKing'', Henry and Richard have several of these.
%%* Nori and Jun played this trope straight in ''Manga/RozenMaiden''.
* In ''Manga/TsubasaReservoirChronicle'', this happens when Sakura hides in her room leaving Shaoran outside in the chess world.
* In ''Manga/TheWeathermanIsMyLover'' Koganei goes to Amasawa's apartment when he skips out from work and they have a heart-to-heart on opposite sides of the door, culminating with Koganei's request, "Won't you let me in? Let me into your heart, Amasawa." Amasawa decides to take his chance.
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* ''{{ComicBook/Crossed}}'': "The Shrink" has a pair of estranged brothers talk to each other through a locked door, the one behind the door deliberately infecting himself with the Crossed virus so the older (the titular shrink) can do a therapy session with him as the disease takes hold (and as Crossed surround the house). At the end of the arc, it's been revealed that [[spoiler:the older brother molested the younger one as children]], the door is unlocked [[spoiler:and the older brother joins him in the room to await being killed by the Crossed.]]
* ''ComicBook/TheTransformersMoreThanMeetsTheEye:'' After Rewind is badly injured in a fight, Chromedome slumps against the door of their quarters, when an unknown speaker comes to talk to him, saying that if Chromedome doesn't want anyone to end up like Rewind, then they've got a job for him... Chromedome's response isn't shown, but later issues confirm he definitely took the offer up.
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[[folder:Fan Works]]
* In ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8447100/9/Lily-s-Secret Lily's Secret]]'' Harry freaks out and hides in a closet after forgetting to keep his glamor spell active and Draco Malfoy tries to coax him out.
* In ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/10715176/1/A-Muggle-Gap-Year A Muggle Gap Year]]'', Bill Weasley spends an hour trying to comfort George through a closed door after their brother Fred's funeral.
* In ''Fanfic/ARobustSolution'', at first Fluttershy won't let Rarity into her cottage after Fluttershy's FreakOut, and Rarity has to talk to her through a closed, locked, and ''barred'' door.
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[[folder:Films -- Animated]]
* In ''WesternAnimation/BeautyAndTheBeast'', Belle and the Beast have an angry discussion through her door when she refuses to come to dinner.
* "Do You Want To Build a Snowman?" from ''WesternAnimation/{{Frozen|2013}}''. [[GenkiGirl Anna]] repeatedly goes to her sister [[BrokenAce Elsa's]] door and asks her to play with her. In turn, Elsa, who is terrified of hurting Anna with [[AnIcePerson her powers]], repeatedly shuts her out. The song eventually culminates in [[FromBadToWorse the deaths of their parents]], and even then Elsa is too afraid to let Anna in.
* ''WesternAnimation/MickeysTwiceUponAChristmas'': In "Mickey's Dog-Gone Christmas", Pluto wrecks Mickey's holiday decorations and is sent to his doghouse. A little later, Mickey, feeling guilty for yelling at him, walks over to the doghouse and tries to clear the air between them. When he gets no response, Mickey looks inside to find that Pluto has discarded his collar and ran away from home.
* ''WesternAnimation/SpiderManIntoTheSpiderVerse'' has Miles's dad trying to reach out to his son through the closed door of his dorm room. What he doesn't know is that Miles is silent because [[spoiler:he's been BoundAndGagged [[AllWebbedUp with webbing]] from [[AllianceOfAlternates the other Spider People]], who decided to kick Miles off the team for his own safety]].
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[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* ''Film/AcrossTheUniverse2007'' had this for one of their musical numbers. Prudence, who had a crush on Sadie, locks herself in a closet after she realizes that Sadie and Jojo are now a couple. So the gang (minus Sadie and Jojo, incidentally, who have a thing they have to get to) sing "Dear Prudence" to convince her to [[VisualPun come out of the closet]], get out of her funk, and see the world for how wonderful it is.
* ''Film/TheAviator'' between Howard Hughes and Creator/KatharineHepburn. Hughes has locked himself in his room because of his fear of disease, and former LoveInterest Hepburn turns up to rally his spirits.
%%Needs to include a conversation through the door.* In the [[Film/BackToTheFuture1 first]] and [[Film/BackToTheFuturePartIII third]] ''Franchise/BackToTheFuture'' movies, Doc runs into another room in disbelief of Marty's statements that he's from the future.
* In ''Film/DeathAtAFuneral'', Simon locks himself in the bathroom after realizing he's accidentally ingested a powerful hallucinogen. His girlfriend Martha spends the next half-hour trying to get him to come out. When he does come out, it's not through the door. [[spoiler: It's through the window onto the roof. And he's naked.]]
%%* In ''Film/HalfBaked'', Thurgood and Mary Jane have a conversation in this fashion.
%%* ''Film/{{Hitch}}'' does this toward the end of the movie.
* In ''Film/LoveActually'' Liam Neeson's character often talks to his stepson through the door, as Sam hardly leaves his room after the death of his mother. Sam mainly responds by leaving notes on the door itself.
* In ''Film/TheMidnightMeatTrain'', after an intense sequence in which Leon barely escapes from Mahogany, he promptly locks himself in the bathroom to take a good look at his wounds when he returns to the apartment, resulting in a panicked Maya, already concerned about his growing obsession, attempting to reach him through the door.
* ''Film/TheNegotiator'' milks this for all it's worth -- both [[Creator/SamuelLJackson Danny Roman]] and Chris Sabian are introduced doing this. Roman is talking with a gunman. Sabian is talking with his wife.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* This was a common trope in ancient Roman lyric poetry, portrayed as the narrator waiting at his lover's gate.
* After ''Literature/BetsyTheVampireQueen'', possessed by the Book of the Dead, attacks Jessica and nearly kills her, Jessica locks herself in her room. Betsy (full of remorse) leaves her a baby monitor and communicates with her via it for most of the book. Jessica doesn't respond.
* ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'':
** In ''Literature/MenAtArms'', Angua, shocked her secret is out, has two in quick succession, one from the canine point of view with Gaspode The Wonder Dog, and a later one with Carrot, who puts the human argument about her werewolf status.
** ''Literature/LordsAndLadies'' sees Magrat Garlick having pre-wedding jitters and locking herself in her bedroom; Nanny Ogg has to talk her into getting married by being very persuasive through a locked door.
* Catarina briefly does this with her brother in ''Literature/MyNextLifeAsAVillainessAllRoutesLeadToDoom'' after he locks himself in his room out of fear of hurting her with his out-of-control magic. Since him growing up as a shut-in leads to one of the death flags that she's trying to avoid, she quickly decides to take a more... [[AxeBeforeEntering direct]] approach in getting him to open up to her.
* ''Literature/GracelingRealm'': Fire insists on only speaking with king Nash through a closed door after he couldn't stop himself and kissed her when they first met.
* The "parent-child" variety features at one point in ''[[Literature/VorkosiganSaga Komarr]]'', featuring a young boy who has just learned he has a (treatable) genetic disorder but lives in a society where "mutants" are reviled and shunned, and so refuses to go to school. [[GuileHero Miles Vorkosigan]] is able to first talk his way into the room, and then talk the young man into going to school.
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* Inverted in the ''Series/AgentsOfSHIELD'' episode "[[Recap/AgentsOfSHIELDS1E9Repairs Repairs]]". Hannah is haunted by a malicious entity, which she believes is God's punishment for her sins. The agents confine her in the Cage, which is shielded in such a way that the entity cannot reach her. Sitting against the door, Hannah begs them to let her out before the entity hurts someone, and Skye, on the outside, talks her out of it.
* ''Series/{{Cheers}}'':
** In the episode "[[Recap/CheersS5E20DinnerAtEightIsh Dinner at Eight-ish]]", Lilith, Frasier, and Diane each retreat into the bathroom after different arguments over their relationships. Discussions continue through the door for the rest of the episode, until Frasier finally gets fed up and just locks the door.
** A later episode has Woody and Kelly sort of have one of these... but since both Woody and Kelly are TheDitz, they miss the point, and Woody keeps opening the door every time he responds to Kelly, much to the bemusement of a watching Sam.
* ''Series/DoctorWho'':
** This happens between the Tenth Doctor and Jack Harkness, and it's lampshaded in a commentary that the two of them can only be open and honest with each other when one of them is trapped in a room full of deadly radiation and there is a giant closed door between them.
** A truly heart-breaking example in "The Girl Who Waited", when older Amy sits outside the TARDIS door, telling her younger self to have the life with Rory she could not have with him.
* The fourth season premiere of ''Series/OnceUponATime'' has a scene where Emma tries to reach out to Regina through a closed door. Regina is sitting slumped against the door, refusing to answer Emma's pleas as she blames her for robbing her of her happy ending with Robin Hood by bringing Marian back to life. Not coincidentally, this is the same episode that introduced [[Franchise/{{Frozen}} Elsa and Anna]] to the series.
%%* In the third season of ''Series/{{Skins}}'' Naomi and Emily have one of these, in what is probably the most emotionally resonant moment of the whole season.
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[[folder:Music]]
* The J-pop song "Laugh Maker" by Bump of Chicken is about the titular character trying to convince someone who's been crying alone to let him in so he can cheer them up. [[spoiler: The person eventually gives in, but discovers that the door is stuck and Laugh Maker has seemingly abandoned them. Just as they start to give in to despair, Laugh Maker breaks in through the window.]]
* The ''Franchise/TouhouProject''-based spinoff [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E14YgAy8FwM "Locked Girl"]] features Marisa repeatedly urging Patuli to open the library door and come with her. Patchy's a bit too reluctant to try, so Marisa eventually resorts to using the [[WaveMotionGun Master Spark]] to blow the door to pieces so she can finally get through.
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[[folder:Mythology and Religion]]
* in Christianity, this is invoked by UsefulNotes/{{Jesus}} in the Literature/BookOfRevelation: "Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with him, and he with me." (Rev 3:20, NIV). The line even inspired [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Light_of_the_World_(painting) fan art by Holman Hunt]].
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[[folder:Theatre]]
* PlayedForLaughs in ''Theatre/TheComedyOfErrors'', where the door is used to obscure the identity of SeparatedAtBirth twins from one another as they argue.
* In ''Theatre/{{Elisabeth}}'', Franz Joseph sings about how much he misses Sisi's company and wants to be comforted by her thanks to his stressful duties as the Emperor. She has none of it, confronts him on his (and his mother Sophie)'s treatment of Rudolf, and demands final say on how her children are raised.
* In ''Theatre/{{Heathers}}, the song "Meant to be Yours" is all JD singing to Veronica while she's barricaded herself in a closet to hide from him. In the song, he explains his plan to blow up the school with everyone inside and breaks down the door to find that Veronica has faked her suicide by hanging.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''VideoGame/EternalSenia1'': [[MultipleEndings Ending #3]] has [[spoiler:Magaleta, succumbing to Eternity]], push Senia out the door, telling her [[YouAreBetterThanYouThinkYouAre how strong she's grown and to keep on living for her]] as Senia pleads for her to open the door.
* Done in ''VideoGame/SilentHill2''[='s=] "Born from a Wish" scenario, where Maria only converses with the side story's sole NPC through a closed door. Given the game, it should be no surprise when the camera reveals that the room beyond is empty.
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[[folder:Visual Novels]]
* In ''VisualNovel/{{Melody}}'', the title character has a conversation with Arnold through her bedroom door in which she tells him that she’s sick. She’s really not feeling well, but Arnold decides to put going to work on time ahead of getting Melody some medicine to ease her pain. It is notable that he doesn't even come into the room to check on her.
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[[folder:Webcomics]]
* In ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'', this situation comes up twice during the "[=MV5=]" storyline, [[https://www.egscomics.com/egsnp/2015-12-28 first]] [[https://www.egscomics.com/egsnp/2015-12-30 with]] Grace and Ellen [[https://www.egscomics.com/egsnp/2016-02-17 then]] with Sarah and Ellen. Oddly enough, both times involve the basement door and one of the girls involved being topless.
* In ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}'', Rose Lalonde destroys the gates that lead to her land (Land of Light and Rain) so that people have extreme difficulty navigating the gates that lead to her. This ends up isolating Rose, bringing her closer to the dark influences of the Horrorterrors since the others can only communicate through Pesterchum.
* In ''Webcomic/TheMeek'', Phe locks her husband Luca out of their bedroom after a heated argument got out of hand and gives him an ultimatum; he can have his revenge, or her, but not both. It's not until Luca apologises does Phe open the door and drag him inside for make-up sex.
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[[folder: Web Original]]
* ''WebVideo/UnwantedHouseguest'': The music video for [[https://youtu.be/BI-GS9o63VI?si=jsso9vshGSCaHd81 "Locked Out"]] is this. The song, however, ends with him commenting that he hasn't even bothered to knock yet, so it's possible the person inside didn't hear any of it and wasn't aware that he was there.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In ''Lyle, Lyle, Crocodile'', the [[WesternAnimation/HBOStorybookMusicals HBO Storybook Musical version]] of ''The House on East 88th Street'', Lyle locks himself in the closet when his old owner arrives to take him away from his new family, and Joshua sings to him through the door.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': In "Ice Cream of Margie (with the Light Blue Hair)", Marge holes herself in her bedroom after Homer accidentally destroys her popsicle-stick statues, and he tries to apologize to her from out in the hall. He eventually resorts to taking pictures of his own sorry expression to get her to know how sorry he is.
* When ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants'' takes Pearl to her prom, she gets humiliated by his behavior, declaring the night ruined - and ''he'' breaks down crying and shutting himself in the girls' room. Pearl tries to console him through the door, and he replies in incoherent hysterical sobs.
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