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[[caption-width-right:350:Hot gay hugging action.]]

->''...and even though their relationship is super new and they are super attracted to one another, they do not make out at all.''
->''(Do not drink. That is not gay. That is TV gay.)''
-->--''[[http://www.afterellen.com/ After Ellen]]''

Okay, let's say you're done [[HideYourLesbians hiding your lesbians]] and you don't want to [[BuryYourGays bury any gays.]] You want to feature a gay character on your show or, hell, make him or her the starring character! But what if they get a LoveInterest? Will they flirt? Hold hands? Or even get it on? Gay characters enjoy increased visibility in media and numerous positive portrayals. However, there is a bit of a DoubleStandard regarding gay love portrayals and love scenes and the like.

Rather, the ''lack'' thereof.

Homosexuality is still a taboo in much of the world, and while some audiences may tolerate a gay character, they may be completely {{squick}}ed out by shows of affection and sex scenes with gay and lesbian characters, no matter how tame they may be. So television shows and other media don't push the envelope too much on gay affection. There may be a hug, or a meaningful handhold, but never a kiss [[SweepsWeekLesbianKiss unless it's heavily promoted and advertised]] (and even then, [[NeverTrustATrailer don't get your hopes up that it will happen as advertised]]). So basically, you can have gay people and gay couples but they can't be shown actually behaving like a couple.

This is sometimes a case of RealityEnsues, as many gay couples in real life avoid being affectionate in public for fear of unwanted attention (as was the retroactive justification for the page picture). But if we see straight couples' private behavior while the gays continue to act like overly-sentimental roommates, it comes right back to being this trope. In many cases, you're more likely to see female couples kissing and having sex than two men. This is due to a combination of MaleGaze and GirlOnGirlIsHot, which has led to lesbianism being turned into a [[SweepsWeekLesbianKiss promotional strategy]] that is expected to ''attract'' viewers rather than repel them.

Of course, this is a common source of UnfortunateImplications. ValuesDissonance plays heavily into this trope regarding acceptance of homosexuality, though, and it varies from country to country, from decade to decade, even within countries and communities. It is all too easy to look at the prevalence of this trope and come to the conclusion that homosexual couples are fine if they're on TV... as long as they don't show any sexuality. As the tolerance toward homosexuality grows, this trope is fading little by little, though old habits can die hard. This Trope may also occur due to heterosexual actors feeling uncomfortable going too far with someone of their own gender. In historical shows set in time periods where it would have been unsafe for gay and bi characters to be out, this trope is probably due to DeliberateValuesDissonance and is arguably [[JustifiedTrope justified]].

Before you add an example, please think about [[SquarePegRoundTrope if it even fits the trope.]] If you aren't able to really describe an example, it's best not to put it here. Try comparing examples to whether or not the straight characters show their love more, or describing particularly jarring occurrences.

Subtrope of SelectiveSquick. See also GetBackInTheCloset for media ''with'' gay love content, but it is just rated higher than media with heterosexual love scenes and the like. There is some overlap with HideYourLesbians. For bisexual characters, see ButNotTooBi. See HaveIMentionedIAmGay when a show with supposedly gay characters doesn't ever reach even ''this'' level of physical affection between gay characters.
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!!Examples:

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''MagicalGirlLyricalNanoha'' has LesYay '''overflowing''' in [[ShipTease teasing]] and subtext, up and including two women sharing a bed and [[HasTwoMommies raising a daughter together]], and plenty of mentioned groping in the visual novels. But good luck seeing an actual kiss or explicit flirting in the actual show by anyone, same sex or not.
* The anime adaptation of ''VisualNovel/TogainuNoChi'', originally a BoysLove {{Eroge}}, desexes hero Akira and his childhood friend Keisuke's relationship to subtext, hand-holding, and a couple of hugs. No love confessions allowed. Considering that [[spoiler:Keisuke raping Akira]] is a large part of this route of the game, it's actually detrimental to the plot.
* An episode of ''Anime/CodeGeass'' has president Milly announce a contest (catching a cat), with the prize being a kiss from someone on the student council. While a group of girls fawn over the thought of smooching [[ChickMagnet Lelouch]], one of their number expresses a preference for Milly. Here's where it gets quirky: In the American broadcast, the girl is asked why she's "so weird". In Japanese, she's told not to come out there and then.
* The ''Anime/SailorMoon'' anime is interesting in that it is, even in the Japanese version, very coy about Haruka and Michiru. While the main, straight couple of the series still only kisses infrequently, Haruka and Michiru ''never'' kiss. On the flip side, while Usagi and Mamoru never indicate that they actually have a sex life (their daughter was born hundreds of years in the future), Haruka and Michiru are just about the only couple on the show that we ''know'' have been intimate.
** The [[Manga/SailorMoon manga]] does not have this problem. Though Haruka and Michiru still never kiss, Haruka ''does'' kiss Usagi on several occasions (used to illustrate her personality consisting of both genders).
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* In ''YoungAvengers'', gay couple Hulkling and Wiccan are seen doing little more than holding hands and sleeping together...clothed, while straight characters in love (also teenagers) have been shown kissing and sleeping naked, implying some off-panel nookie. Thankfully, [[spoiler: the last issue of Children's Crusade [[BigDamnKiss averts this]]. (Though every other instance in the series plays it straight.)]]
* Similar to the Young Avengers example above, the ''ComicBook/{{Runaways}}'' featured almost no physical contact between Karolina and Xavin, even though they were supposed to be betrothed. This was probably for the best, since Vaughn and Alphona stubbornly insisted upon having Xavin take the form of a man despite him having promised to take a female form since Karolina's gay. But even after subsequent writing teams made Xavin female, there was still a noticeable lack of affectionate displays between them.
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[[folder:Fanfiction]]
* There's an in-universe example from [[http://www.baseportal.de/cgi-bin/baseportal.pl?htx=/honeycakehorse/Circles_of_Power Circles of Power]]. After they have graduated from Hogwarts, Harry, Ron, Hermione, Ginny, Dean, Seamus, and Neville all share a house. Harry and Ron also happen to be a couple, and there's a house rule that they are not to show affection towards each other when there's other people around. In the beginning no one really seems to think it's strange, but toward the end it becomes an issue. At one point, Ron gets scolded for putting his arm around Harry's shoulders, at the same time as Seamus is getting it on with his latest girlfriend on the living room sofa without anyone saying anything about it. It ultimately leads to a fight between Ron and Seamus who, as it turns out, is the only one who really has anything against Harry and Ron showing affection.
* Skewered in ''FanFic/HuntingTheUnicorn'' both humorously and seriously; the Warblers lampshade Kurt and Blaine's relationship by complaining about how chaste and [[TastesLikeDiabetes tooth-rotting]] it is, but then comes the eleventh chapter where we find out that Blaine has a ''really'' good reason for being [[ParalyzingFearOfSexuality terrified of sex]]. [[spoiler: He tried to invoke SexEqualsLove, ended up strung along for weeks, and Blaine's big brother effectively had to break things off ''for'' him. By [[BewareTheNiceOnes threatening to burn the guy alive]].]] His discomfort only gets ''worse'' after he and Kurt get together [[DramaticIrony because he doesn't want Kurt to end up like he did]], and he tends to [[ElephantInTheLivingRoom avoid any and all discussion]] of the inherent problems this will cause.
* Nicely averted in [[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/8514012/1/Keena-the-Defendants-of-Constan-Magic-Academy Keena & The Defendants Of Constan Academy]] with Lily and Michie. While it was a rather TakeOurWordForIt kind of moment, chapter 12 has them admitting that they indeed have had sexual intercourse.
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[[folder:Film]]
* ''Film/{{Philadelphia}}'': Andy and Miguel behaved more like a pair of roommates than a couple. As Tom Hanks explains in ''TheCelluloidCloset'', quite a few scenes were filmed that showed them more intimately, but [[ExecutiveMeddling the studio forced them to take them out]] before release and the film might never have seen the light of day if they hadn't relented, which they eventually did since it was the lesser of two evils.
* ''Film/BrokebackMountain'' is a lot better in this aspect, but it still received a lot of accusations of using this trope.
* ''Parting Glances'' subverted. There is a gay sex scene a few moments in.
* In ''The Family Stone'', Thad and Patrick never kiss.
* ''Film/INowPronounceYouChuckAndLarry'': The two characters that are (pretending) to be gay never kiss each other even during their own wedding ceremony -- they hit each other instead. Why? Because the MPAA threatened to give them an 'R' rating and Creator/AdamSandler wussed out.
* In ''Film/ValentinesDay'', Sean and [[spoiler:Holden]] are the only couple that doesn't kiss at some point.
* The 1995 film ''HigherLearning'': Two college-age girls (one gay, the other bisexual) share a ''very'' chaste kiss where their lips barely touch and that lasts for only slightly more than a second. They are both in the privacy of the gay girl's bedroom and are not showing much skin. Then there's another love scene between a boy and a girl (both straight); they are making out more or less in public, and are in their skimpy track-and-field clothes, with the girl [[BareYourMidriff baring her midriff]]. The boy is ''right on top of the girl'', and the camera lingers on them a lot longer than on the two kissing girls. When this movie is shown on American television, it gets even worse: the girl-on-girl scene is cut ''entirely''! (We do see the girls briefly holding hands in both the theatrical and edited-for-TV versions, however.) At the very least, it's good to see that, unlike most other media depictions, [[GirlOnGirlIsHot the girls aren't treated more sympathetically for not being]] ''[[GirlOnGirlIsHot male]]'' [[GirlOnGirlIsHot homosexuals]].
* In the film version of MammaMia, all of the adults of the older generations ended up in a romance that got development (or at least a musical number) Except for [[spoiler: Harry]]. He comes to the island seemingly single, and then shows up with a boyfriend in the last two scenes without ever explaining it further. And the pair's screen time can be comfortably counted in seconds.
* ''TheKidsAreAllRight'', a movie marketed on its portrayal of a lesbian couple, has one lesbian sex scene -- in which the two women have unsatisfactory (and interrupted) sex, all of the action is under the covers, and both women keep their shirts on. On the other hand, the movie has numerous ''straight'' sex scenes, all of which are fairly explicit and very pleasurable for all involved.
* Played with in ''Film/TellNoOne''; Anne and Helene aren't shown being as affectionate with each other as Alexandre and Margot, but they act like a married couple in other ways (Helene even refers to Anne as "my wife" at one point), and even argue like one when Helene finds out what Anne knows concerning the plot.
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[[folder: Literature]]
* TheBlackMagicianTrilogy: When it comes to the gay couple, characters claim that EveryoneCanSeeIt, but what it is that they see is a mystery. Unlike the straight romances in the trilogy, there is no sex, no kissing, no cuddling, no touching that isn't triggered by a life or death situation (and even then it amounts to two hugs and two cases of grabbing each others' shoulders), no meaningful looks and no reference to any physical affection or attraction whatsoever after they get together. Mind you, this includes scenes where the reader get to see them alone togther and thinking about each other.
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[[folder:Live-Action Television]]
* ''Series/GameOfThrones'':
** Played straight with Lord Renly Baratheon and Ser Loras Tyrell. Their physically intimate moments together are not nearly as sexually explicit as the heterosexual pairings on the show.
** Ditto for the "Kissed by Fire" sex scene between Loras and [[spoiler:Olyvar, a spy and prostitute in the employ of Littlefinger. Although Olyvar is [[MaleFrontalNudity completely nude]]]], the Knight of Flowers is nearly fully clothed, save for his bare chest and feet. We never see the two men do more than lie in bed and kiss. If you contrast this scene with Theon Greyjoy having intercourse with Ros in Season 1, there's a ''definite'' discrepancy between how gay sex is portrayed on the series in comparison to its heterosexual counterpart.
* Series/BadEducation Played straight with the teachers, averted with the students.
** In Season 2, Rosie starts dating a woman, but although it's often talked about, we only see the couple together for a few minutes, holding hands. Made all the more obvious because Rosie kisses Alfie twice.
** On the other hand, there's the students Stephen and Grayson. Several straight students mention having boyfriends/girlfriends or are seen flirting, but only Stephen and Grayson are seen kissing.
* ''Series/ModernFamily'' was criticized by many when gay couple Mitchell and Cameron (pictured above) hugged each other after a reunion at an airport, in stark contrast to straight couple Phil and Claire. Of course, some noted that none of the couples seem overly affectionate with each other but this was a big sticking point. In the second season, it's revealed that Mitchell is adverse to being affectionate in public. They finally do kiss, but it's a small peck discreetly played on the background, and they kiss again in the next episode in a way more visible and casual scene.
* ''AsTheWorldTurns'''s gay couple Noah and Luke actually had a fan instituted ''countdown'' in between their kisses. They went 211 days in between two kisses and it took them 514 days from their first meeting to get their first love scene. This is unusual, particularly in the SoapOpera media where romance and love scenes happen frequently.
** Luke and his second boyfriend Reid never got to have sex before [[BuryYourGays Reid was killed off]].
* Averted on ''TheNewNormal''. The main couple, Bryan and David, kiss in nearly every episode (sometimes multiple times) and show a normal amount of affection for a committed couple.
* This trope is a common criticism of ''Series/WillAndGrace'' regarding Will's flaccid love life. It wasn't until the two very last seasons that he could actually kiss someone (the early kiss with Jack doesn't count, seeing as that was an eyes-open smack on the lips) -- the last season was the only time he could have a proper, ''goddamn finally'' make out with a SpecialGuest.
** Ironically, the show actually parodied and ''called out'' this tendency at times; one episode has Will and Jack conspire to kiss live on ''The Today Show'' as retaliation for a major primetime drama cutting away from a gay kiss to a fireplace at the last minute, as was a common occurrence in shows like ''Melrose Place''.
* ''Series/SouthOfNowhere'' dipped in and out of this trope. TeenNick apparently had no problems with cute pecks and hugging with the two lesbian characters Spencer and Ashley, but this was in contrast to the straight couples fully making out and displaying more affection for each other. And most of the time, they didn't even touch other.
* In ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'', Willow and Tara were a couple for about eighteen episodes before they so much as kissed on-screen, probably partly for this and partly to avoid claims of sensationalism. This was Creator/TheWB's doing. Creator/JossWhedon made sure to put their first on-screen kiss in "The Body" because it was a good character moment and it would keep the kiss from being the focus of the promos. When The WB initially refused to show the kiss, he threatened to quit (to the point of starting to pack up his office) and they relented. When the show moved to UPN, the lack of a standards & practices department allowed him to do what he wanted, leading to the first lesbian sex scene (at least one not played for {{fanservice}}) on network TV.
* ''Series/TheWire'' featured fairly regular straight scenes and one lesbian scene, but the fairly prominent gay character of Omar never gets a sex scene, and over three boyfriends and five seasons, only has two on-screen kisses (three if you count kissing Brandon's forehead in an early episode): he barely even touches the third boyfriend, Renaldo, even in a non-sexual way (possibly as a result of some controversy about the fairly steamy make-out scene with his previous boyfriend, Dante).
* EllenDeGeneres's first sitcom was criticized for focusing too much on gay issues and lesbian relationships after [[RealLifeWritesThePlot she (and the character) came out]]. When she got a second sitcom with Creator/{{CBS}}, the character remained a lesbian, but it wasn't much of a focus. Likewise, Ellen herself is criticized for downplaying her sexuality in order to appeal to mainstream America with her talk show, but she has mentioned her wife Portia de Rossi and marriage several times, and even before she became a national star, Ellen's comedy routines never put much focus on sexuality, either gay or straight.
* ''MelrosePlace'' had far more explicit scenes for the heterosexual characters versus the scenes for the token gay character Matt Fielding who wasn't allowed to kiss on screen.
* ''Series/DesperateHousewives''
** The one lesbian couple that only stayed for a couple episodes had two on-screen kisses -- which was basically the same as what you'd get for a straight couple. Bob and Lee, however, have never kissed once and usually don't touch although they've been on the show for at least two seasons.
** ''Desperate Housewives'' did have a few boy kisses between Andrew and his boyfriend in the first couple seasons, when Andrew was evil and trying to drive his homophobic mother insane, but none since he turned good.
** In Season 5, when he and his fiance moved into their own home on Wisteria Lane, they lean in for a kiss... and the front door closes before their lips actually meet.
** As of the latest season, Bob and Lee ''finally'' got a kiss when Gabby got them back together.
* The CampGay Marc on ''UglyBetty'' never got to kiss any of his love interests, and yet he did kiss both Betty and Amanda for comedic reasons. However, they were able to show a ground breaking kiss between the 15-year-old Justin and Austin, since the show had already been canceled by that point so there wasn't much risk.
* Sal, the only major gay character on ''Series/MadMen'' (a show where the straight characters are seen banging each other all the time and in various combinations), is deeply closeted [[DeliberateValuesDissonance due to the time and place the show is set]], so his gay love life mostly consists of resisting the advances of other men, and unrequited crushes on straight guys like Ken. There are two exceptions -- one (a hookup with a maintenance man in a hotel room) is cut short by a fire alarm before anything happens, and the other (in which he's about to try cruising in Central Park) gets a Fade To Black at the end of an episode. The character has since been written off the show, apparently for good.
* The now discontinued sitcom ''Series/TheClass'' has a very jarring scene where one half of a gay couple finds out that his partner [[ComedicSociopathy sabotaged a school application for a friend because they didn't want to spend more time with her]]. The punchline to this is his reaction to this: exclaiming "I've never loved you more!" and then ... give his partner a hug and a peck on the cheek. Shortly afterwards, he was PutOnABus, leaving his partner free to make plenty of comments about his sexuality and their love life without having to actually show anything.
* On ''Series/{{Friends}}'', Ross's gay ex-wife and her significant other never kissed on-screen, not even at their wedding.
* A recurring problem on ''Series/TrueBlood''. Straight characters either explicitly have sex or we see them laying in bed after having clearly done the deed. Meanwhile, the gay relationships are uncharacteristically chaste. It becomes disturbing when you think of how there have been at least three explicit rape scenes, and ''that'' is somehow more okay than a same-gender couple having consensual sex.
* Averted, on ''Series/SpartacusBloodAndSand'', by various gay characters, especially in ''War of the Damned'' with Agron and Nasir.
* ''PrettyLittleLiars'', in the series at least. While all of the other girls' got an average of two fairly steamy make out sessions a piece, Emily's share consisted of one kiss early on and one make out session in one of the last episodes, in between which she and her love interest barely talked due to a serious lack of communication about how open they should be. She got even less action in the second season.
* ''TheSecretLifeOfTheAmericanTeenager''. When Ashley's friend [[HaveIMentionedIAmGay Griffin]] did get a love interest (Peter), both of their screen times shot down to almost nothing. They've only appeared once since they got together, though they at least got a decent onscreen kiss in that appearance.
* This is both averted and played straight on ''BrothersAndSisters'': Kevin and Scotty make out as much as any married couple on the show, and before the marriage Kevin made out with plenty of hot guest stars. Saul, however, rarely has an onscreen kiss, which could be tied to NobodyOver50IsGay.
* In the UK, there was an example a few years ago that beautifully illustrates this trope. A newspaper started a campaign complaining about the increasing amount of "filth" shown on television, and its examples were gay kisses and straight sex. (That the newspaper in question was The Daily Star, owned by a pornographer and not above cross-promotion, just makes things even more [[HypocriticalHumor delicious]]).
* On ''Series/{{Glee}}'', it became a point of contention in the first three seasons that the same-sex couples are given less screentime and love scenes than the straights. This fortunately became less pronounced as time went on. The episode devoted entirely to characters losing their virginity gave equal screen time to Rachel, Blaine, and Kurt all having their first times.
** This is parodied in an episode where Brittany and Santana are about to kiss in the hallway only to get called in the principal's office due to complaints about their affection, and Santana invokes this trope with force.
** Inverted in the fifth season, when [[TheCharacterDiedWithHim Finn's death]] bumped up the show's other long-term relationships. Kurt and Blaine became the OfficialCouple, followed by [[BetaCouple Brittany and Santana]], with Sam and Mercedes coming in third at best.
* ''{{Shameless}}'' has this problem when it comes to character Ian and his love interests. Although he sleeps with both his older married boss and a classic ArmouredClosetGay several times, all we ever see is shelves rocking and occasionally we hear moaning as the scene ends. {{Justified|Trope}} in that the actor portraying Ian was a minor until partway through filming the second series.
** Averted from the season 2 finale onwards; after Cameron Monaghan (who plays Ian) becomes of age, the character has a lot of hot scenes, most of them with the aformentioned ArmouredClosetGay. Particularly noticeable in season 4, half of which he spends giving lap dances on a night club - on screen!
* ''Series/{{Torchwood}}''
** In the first series, we had Gwen and Owen's affair getting constant references, [[spoiler: Owen's love affair with a time traveller]] getting two sex scenes and kicking off the final story line, and Tosh's affair getting its own episode. When it comes to Captain Jack though, he had one love affair that never amounted to more than a kiss, and apparently he also had a thing with Ianto, to which we get exactly four hints over course of the series. Resolved from Series 2 onwards, when Jack's same-sex activity is far clearer.
** Also notably averted in Season 4, where Jack gets a relatively explicit gay sex scene. This single scene results in a lot of trolling on Torchwood message boards, and the insistence that Torchwood is now officially a gay-niche show, in spite of the large number of straight sex scenes played out in the rest of the series.
* ''GossipGirl'' gives Eric and his relationships less time than others.
* ''Series/{{Skins}}'' received this criticism in its first generation with the relatively little screen time and focus given to gay character Maxxie and his love interests, compared to the various opposite-sex couples on the show (even then, it's a relatively downplayed example of this trope as he's seen kissing boys and about to get oral sex). However, they promptly subverted the trope in the second generation with lesbian couple Naomi and Emily, widely considered one of the best same-sex couples on TV ''ever'', and basically an Alpha Couple by Series 4. They opened the floodgates again, though, with the American remake, where the show even focused more on the "lesbian" character's confusion over and sex with a boy than they did on her relationships and sex ''with other girls.'' Some also see the change in Mini's portrayal between the fifth and sixth British series as this trope.
* Discussed in ''Series/TheGoldenGirls''. In one episode, Blanche spends some time trying to get used to the idea of her brother Clayton's sexuality. She accepts it and they move on. In a later episode, her brother introduced her to a man he planned to marry. This episode is ''again'' spent on Blanche accepting her brother's homosexuality, because she was okay with it as long as it was only a word and a thought, not an action.
* Justified in ''{{Soap}}'' because it was made in the seventies and Jodie was one of the first homosexual characters on television. All of the homosexual relationships are done purely by words, hugging, and a lot of suggestive phrases.
* Thomas of ''DowntonAbbey'' has a kiss in the first episode, and is rebuffed by a guest in the third. In the second season, he has a crush on a wounded soldier that never really goes anywhere [[spoiler: as the soldier dies, leaving Thomas devastated]]. Apart from that, his sexuality is rarely mentioned. Some [[JustifiedTrope excuse this]] with [[DeliberateValuesDissonance homosexuality being illegal]] at the time, but considering it's outright stated he had a full-blown affair with the Duke of Crowborough before the events of the series. (Some also mention that England had an underground queer culture in the 1910s even with the anti-gay laws, although since it was largely confined to wealthy people in cities it's hard to know how much Thomas knew of and had access to it.)
** In Season 3, he falls in love with a fellow servant named James, but it ends badly, with James rebuffing Thomas' advances and being so outraged and disgusted he alerts the authorities. Thomas only very narrowly avoided losing his job and getting arrested through the intervention of Lord Grantham. While this storyline didn't result in Thomas getting any action it ''did'' at least show the kind of prejudice and danger he faces, explaining why he can't be open about his sexuality and has to be cautious about embarking on relationships.
* ''The Sarah Silverman Show'' had a gay couple who were very much StraightGay. It so blatantly invoked this trope that, during the gay wedding, the minister directly says "no one wants to see [you two kiss]" and fistpump at the end of the ceremony.
* Parodied in ''KidsInTheHall'', with a sketch about three gay men going to see a Hollywood ComingOutStory. They get let down when the show is mostly [[ShowDontTell tedious dialogue scenes]], many of which [[MsFanservice feature a topless woman]], and two emotionally stilted male leads who never kiss on screen.
* Steve from ''Series/{{Warehouse 13}}'' is the only Warehouse agent in the show not to have had a partner or potential partner onscreen. His ex-boyfriend eventually does show up for one episode and they work through some of their issues, leading to a very touching...hug. And some canoodling implied only through dialogue.
* ''Series/NeverWipeTearsWithoutGloves'' averts this ''hard''. Gay couples are not just shown kissing and having sex, the main couple in the story (Rasmus and Benjamin) are very physically affectionate with one another. The actors portraying Rasmus and Benjamin made a deal before shooting that they could touch and kiss each other anywhere at any time and they definitely do.
* Jenny and Madame Vastra in ''Series/DoctorWho'', despite having appeared in quite a few episodes and being married, haven't been seen kissing yet. That may have something to do with Madame Vastra's green lizard makeup, but that's part of [[DiscountLesbians another trope]].
* In one episode of ''Series/{{Castle}}'', it turns out that the (male) victim was bisexual and had a boyfriend. After the initial reveal, the boyfriend is then referred to as the victim's "friend" for the rest of the episode.
* Danny on ''Series/TeenWolf'' is mostly a [[TokenMinority Token Gay]]. While his sexuality is [[HaveIMentionedIAmGay mentioned]] almost every time he appears onscreen, and he had a boyfriend during the first two seasons of the show, he is not a regular character and was never shown to even touch the boyfriend (possibly explaining why they later broke up).
** Though it should be mentioned that this trope was ''very'' averted during on episode the third season, when Danny was given a pretty steamy love scene with one of the alpha twins. He's still little more than an undeveloped side character, though.
* In ''Series/OnceUponATime'', Mulan is revealed to be a lesbian or a bisexual and in love with Aurora. Mulan tells Robin Hood that she wants to tell an unspecified person that she loves them. She then goes to see Aurora, who interrupts her to tell her that she is pregnant with Prince Phillip's baby. Mulan then [[AbortedDeclarationOfLove leaves]], crying. Whether Mulan is in love with Aurora or Phillip is open to interpretation if you don't listen to [[WordOfGay the creators]].
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[[folder:Music]]
* AdamLambert is this in spades. In real life, his sexuality has no shortage of mention. If you look at the few music videos he has, though, you'd get the impression that he is either CampStraight or a snake zoophile.
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[[folder: Web Original]]
* [[http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-2E8Er_XkF4 This]] episode of BlackBoxTV. The main character and his secret boyfriend are only referred to as "different" and are only shown hugging.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* Curtis, the protagonist of ''{{Phantasmagoria 2}}'', has three love interests -- two women and one guy. The women both get multiple sex scenes. The guy? Well, they ''almost'' kiss. Apparently, showing men actually kissing is much edgier than showing fairly explicit straight BDSM.
* ''JadeEmpire'' shows a big, long kiss between the Spirit Monk and a heterosexual love interest (Dawn Star or Silk Fox if the character is male, Sky if the character is female). With a homosexual pairing, however, the camera cuts away just before the two lock lips. There are a few mods that fix this on the PC, but Xbox players are out of luck.
* ''VideoGame/{{Bully}}'' offers you the chance to kiss both girls and boys, and receive health bonuses after doing so. Problem is, there exists only one kissing animation for boy/boy couples, as opposed to at least three for boy/girl couples. Also, boy kisses can never progress past the second stage of health upgrades. If you want to get the most bonuses (and even to progress the story), you ''have'' to kiss girls.

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