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->''Fumbling through a cut glass vase''
->''Passing lipstick, cotton spools''
->''Burning jealous pictures of marriages of friends''
-->-- '''Jellyfish''', ''"The Glutton of Sympathy"''

Breaking up is hard to do. Itís bad enough that your significant other is out of your life, but did they really have to leave all that stuff behind? Whether itís things they gave you or things that remind you of them, theyíve got to go. So grab some matches, itís time for a break up bonfire!

The breakup bonfire is usually ceremonial and perhaps even a little spiritual. As fire is a symbol of both destruction and rebirth, a break up bonfire typically represents a character breaking old bonds and starting anew. However, note the [[TheUnfairSex Unfair Sex]] nature of this trope. A woman doing this is usually celebrating her freedom from an oppressive male. A man doing this usually ''is'' the oppressive male, and a spiteful destructive bastard at that. As such, most examples below are from female characters burning her ex's things.

A variation both of DefenestrateAndBerate and BurnBabyBurn.

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!!Examples

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[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
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* Two examples from ''Popotan'', neither of which follow a romance gone sour, but they stay true to the general idea of the trope:
** [[spoiler:After she learns of Konami's death,]] Mai tries to burn the portrait she received from her in order to forget about her, but she is stopped by Mea.
** It's revealed that [[spoiler:Mea's previous]] household burned their house when they found that Shizuku was not able to give them a good explanation for their travels; she could not prevent this one.
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[[folder:Film]]
* In ''Film/{{Clueless}}'', Tai and Cher burn mementos from Tai's relationship with Elton.
* In ''Film/WaitingToExhale'', the woman dumps all her man's belongings in ThePreciousPreciousCar and sets it all on fire.
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[[folder:Literature]]
* In ''Literature/TheAeneid'', Dido and her sister set fire to Aeneas's things after he abandons Dido. Said bonfire also doubles as a funeral pyre, as the last thing Dido throws into the fire is [[SpurnedIntoSuicide herself]].
* ''Literature/{{Emma}}'' by Creator/JaneAusten: Harriet Smith throws her rather pathetic mementos of Mr Elton into a fire after having shown them to Emma, her friend she looks up to. They were not exactly a couple, but Harriet had been in love with him.
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[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* ''Series/{{Friends}}'':
** Monica, Phoebe, and Rachel burn mementos of their exes when they find themselves all single on Valentine's Day and decide to do something to "cleanse" their bad luck. The firemen who attend when it inevitably gets out of control tell them that Valentine's Day is one of their busiest nights of the year, for exactly that reason.
** In Season 4, Rachel's crush, Joshua, has to buy a lot of new clothes as his ex-wife set all his old clothes on fire. He later reveals he keeps on buying clothes since he likes Rachel.
* In ''Series/{{NCIS}}'' Season 5, Tony throws the letter of his LoveInterest into a bonfire after the relationship went way, way, way south due to him BecomingTheMask.
* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer:'' in the season 4 episode "The Initiative," Xander comes across Harmony as she's building a bonfire of Spike's stuff.
* Discussed in episode "Happily Ever After" of ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'' when Ted is dealing with the fact that he was left at the alter and is seemingly fine. Marshall tells him he should go crazy and let it out, perhaps even following his own advice from a time when Marshall and Lily were broken up. Marshall says he should have followed Ted's advice and should have set all Lily's stuff on fire.
* On reality show ''Cheaters'', there was an episode where the woman set her cheating partner's possessions on fire.
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[[folder:Music]]
* The Music/TaylorSwift song "Picture to Burn" is about burning up pictures of her ex.
* The Music/GreenDay song "Whatsername" is about the singer reminiscing about an old girlfriend whose name he can't remember. In one line, he mentions that he "made a point to burn all of the photographs."
* Implied in Music/MirandaLambert's "Kerosene".
* In the video for Music/FlorenceAndTheMachine song "Lover to Lover".
* "Breakin' Dishes" by Music/{{Rihanna}}.
-->''"I'm roasting marshmallows on a fire, and what I'm burning, boy, is your attire..."''
* Rapper "Left Eye" from 90's girl group TLC did this ''twice'' during her on-and-off relationship with pro football player Andre Rison. First, she burned their collection of teddy bears in the bathtub after a fight. The marble tub was burned so badly it had to be replaced. Later, after a night of drinking she came home to find several pairs of women's shoes that weren't her size, so she burned ''them'' in the tub too...except the new tub was made of fiberglass which quickly melted and [[FromBadToWorse the fire spread faster than she could contain]]. She ran away unhurt but the mansion burned to the ground. The resulting scandal ("Left Eye burned down her boyfriend's house!") [[NoSuchThingAsBadPublicity greatly pushed]] sales of their 1995 album ''[=CrazySexyCool=]''
* "Cry Me a River" by Music/JustinTimberlake contains this line: "Your pictures got burned, now it's your turn to cry..."
* A woman in Music/VanHalen's "Right Now" video.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* [[MirrorBoss Alice]] [[LonelyAtTheTop Twilight]], the Rank 2 assassin in ''VideoGame/NoMoreHeroes2'' is in the process of doing this when Travis turns up to fight her. [[http://img521.imageshack.us/img521/7360/p60zo.jpg Close examination]] of the pictures show them to be photos of a husband and child, as well [[FourIsDeath Margaret]] [[ElegantGothicLolita Moonlight]], the Rank 4 assassin. In this case, it probably hasn't got anything to do with romance, instead being symbolic of everything Alice has lost or left behind due to her profession.
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[[folder:Web Video]]
* In the first season finale of ''WebVideo/{{Idiotsitter}}'', "The Ex-Boyfriend", Billie has dinner with her ex, and Gene suggests using this trope-on his car. They come up with another plan, and when it falls flat-Gene sets fire to the guy's car anyway.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' episode where Milhouse's parents get divorced, Luann carefully boxes up all of Kirk's possessions, tapes it, labels it and then sets the box on fire. While humming.
* A variation in ''WesternAnimation/{{Jimmy Two-Shoes}}'', after Jimmy's ObliviousToLove nature leads him to dating a Heloise look-alike, Heloise angrily rips up her StalkerShrine of him and tosses the remains in a vat of acid.
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[[folder:Real Life]]
* After Lebron James left Cleveland for Miami, Cavaliers fans became disillusioned, and began to [[http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CWsjD-VSrmM burn his merchandise in public]].
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