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->'''Wendy:''' But why you? Why are you willing to go up against Roark for someone you barely know?\\
'''Marv:''' She was nice to me.\\
'''Wendy:''' She was desperate. She needed protection and knew how to keep you around. It didn't work out. You don't owe her anything.\\
'''Marv:''' She was nice to me. She gave me something I didn't know existed. I wasn't ever even able to buy a woman, the way I look.
-->-- ''ComicBook/SinCity: The Hard Goodbye''.

A character, sometimes the ButtMonkey of a given work, is treated for the [[UnexpectedKindness first time in their lives with genuine kindness]] and friendship. It may extend to the character's life being saved, and as such, they now may feel IOweYouMyLife. As such, they will be [[UndyingLoyalty exceptionally loyal to their benefactor]], even if the benefactor admits that [[WasItAllALie it was all a lie]].

If the benefactor is a villain, this character could either be their MoralityPet or someone they cared about before the benefactor turned evil.

The nature of this character type is such that their loyalty to their benefactor will extend to generally [[HonorBeforeReason absurd lengths]]. Not even the benefactor will be able to persuade them that they had cruel ulterior motives -- this can be problematic if the ButtMonkey in question ends up turning AxCrazy. Can be part of a HeelFaceTurn. Normally one of the defining aspects of the HaremGenre, as with so many girls all vying after one boy, usually the most amount of time the series can devote to explaining why they all like him is that he simply treats them as human beings. Though this trope is often portrayed sympathetically, it is also what often creates the StalkerWithACrush and the {{Yandere}}.

A character who follows this may be one that DesperatelyCravesAffection as well.

Will be immune to TwistingTheWords. Often is also TheWoobie. Related to ItMeantSomethingToMe. See also DisproportionateReward. Compare CharacterWitness and its animal version, AndroclesLion. Contrast with its polar opposite, MistreatmentInducedBetrayal, and with UngratefulBastard and TheFarmerAndTheViper. May lead to DefusingTheTykeBomb. Possible overlap with ReformationAcknowledgement and EvilDesiresInnocence. A complete inverse of this trope would likely be ButForMeItWasTuesday.

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!!Example Subpages:
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* BecauseYouWereNiceToMe/AnimeAndManga
* BecauseYouWereNiceToMe/FanWorks
* BecauseYouWereNiceToMe/{{Literature}}
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!!Other Examples:

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[[folder:Advertising]]
* In [[https://youtu.be/dApN-dweOpk?t=565 this]] Asian investment ad, a dog becomes a loyal helper for the protagonist after the latter [[TastesLikeFriendship gave him something to eat]].
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[[folder:Asian Animation]]
* ''Animation/PleasantGoatAndBigBigWolf'': In Angelalily's debut episode (episode 27 of ''Happy, Happy, Bang! Bang!''), after a game of seeing who can catch Paddi first, Wilie apologizes to Angelalily for ruining her scarf and gives her a scarf of his own to replace it. Angelalily, in return, gives Wilie one of her toys, and the two become friends.
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[[folder:Comedy]]
* Creator/DaneCook has a routine [[ExploitedTrope exploiting this trope]]. The idea is that every workplace has one person in it who is creepy or awkward in some way, and thus shunned by all of their coworkers. Dane states his approach is to ''always'' befriend such persons, with spontaneous gifts of candy bars and a willingness to talk about the awkward person's strange hobby -- because [[GoingPostal when that person inevitably snaps and starts killing everyone]] in the office, [[YouWillBeSpared you'll be the one spared their wrath]], with a comment of ''"...Thanks for the candy..."'' instead of a shotgun shell to the face as everyone else got:
-->"Uh-huh, yeah; ''[[ProperlyParanoid you're gonna talk to that guy]]'', now."
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[[folder:Comic Books]]
* ''ComicBook/FiftyTwo'': When Doc Magnus single-handedly takes down the MadScientist think tank, he lets T.O. Morrow escape. When Morrow asks why, Magnus says that it's because Morrow was one of the only people who actually took his theories seriously when he was first starting out.
* ''ComicBook/BirdsOfPrey'': Huntress' devotion to the Black Canary definitely has shades of this.
* ''ComicBook/{{BPRD}}'': In ''BPRD: 1947'', agent Jacob Stegner gives a coin to a homeless beggar woman. The woman later appears to him to tell him that [[spoiler:one of his missing comrades is still alive]]. Before she mysteriously disappears, she says, "I tell you this... because you were kind."
* ''ComicBook/TheIncredibleHulk:'' The Green / Savage Hulk usually has the mentality of a small child, so this means if someone's nice to him, or even just acts nice to him, they've got his undying friendship.
-->'''Joe Fixit:''' It's like with ma -- you were nice to Salad Brain once, and he'll never forget it.
* ''ComicBook/SecretWars2015'': [[Characters/MarvelComicsMilesMorales Miles Morales]] [[ItMakesSenseInContext gives Molecule Man a hamburger.]] Even in context, it's pretty weird (as Miles had it in his pocket forgotten for ''[[{{Squick}} three weeks]]''), but it's also the first act of kindness that anybody has shown Molecule Man in eight years, as [[spoiler:he's been tucked away to be used as a LivingBattery.]] At the end of the storyline, [[spoiler:Owen repays the debt by [[CosmicRetcon cosmically retconning]] Miles and his loved ones to the [[RealityWarper new Marvel Universe, and while he's at it]], bringing Miles' mother BackFromTheDead.]]
* ''ComicBook/SinCity'': Quoted above: Marv's attitude toward Goldie in the first issue. He's not an idiot -- he realizes that Goldie almost certainly got close to him because she needed protection from whoever it was that killed her in the opening pages. But as he explains to Goldie's AngstySurvivingTwin Wendy, be that as it may -- she's the only stranger who's ever shown Marv any genuine kindness, and it's also implied that she's the only woman who wasn't too terrified of his appearance to sleep with him. So he searches relentlessly to find her killer.
* ''ComicBook/SpiderMan'': During ''[[ComicBook/BrandNewDay The Gauntlet]]'' storyline, the ComicBook/{{Juggernaut|MarvelComics}} helped Spider-Man after the wall-crawler tried to help the villain when he was attacked by the latest Captain Universe.
* ''Franchise/{{Tintin}}'': Tintin gets several allies this way: in ''Prisoners of the Sun'', for instance, he defends a boy from some bullies, and the boy later offers to guide him to a secret Inca temple, even though he could be killed for doing so.
* ''ComicBook/Transformers2019'': After Arcee and Greenlight restore Gauge's lost memories, Gauge is left questioning whether she should aid them or continue following Heretech like she was taught. She ultimately decides to help Arcee and Greenlight because they asked for her help but never ordered her, and she respected that they were willing to let her make her own choices while Heretech ordered everyone to do what he said and took away their choices.
* ''ComicBook/XMen'':
** In ''ComicBook/NewXMenAcademyX'', ComicBook/{{X 23}} goes to considerable lengths to protect Dust from the Purifiers when they attack the academy because Dust was one of the only people at the academy who was nice to her when she arrived. On the other end, Dust was nice to Laura because she was a refreshing change from her old roommate Surge, who didn't agree with her beliefs.
** In ''ComicBook/UncannyXMen'', former supervillain ComicBook/{{Rogue}} was made to feel distinctly unwelcome when she first joined the X-Men. In UXM #172 she accompanies her new teammates to Tokyo to attend Wolverine's wedding. On seeing her, Wolverine comments that if it were up to him, he'd cut out her heart, but his fiancee, the aristocratic Mariko Yashida, says that Rogue [[SacredHospitality as a guest is entitled to all due courtesy and respect]] and welcomes her. Effectively Mariko was merely acting in accordance with the ethical and social rules of her class, but it still was the first time Rogue was unreservedly welcomed by anyone since she left the Brotherhood of Evil Mutants, and so in the following issue Rogue shows no hesitation to lay down her life to prevent her death ("Lady Mariko was kind t'me -- she accepted me, right off -- ah won't let her come to any harm!"). The fire from Viper's blaster actually hurts her badly, but Rogue accepts her likely death philosophically. However, Logan now feels indebted to her for saving the woman he loves and makes Rogue absorb his healing factor.
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[[folder:Comic Strips]]
* In ''ComicStrip/DickTracy'', this was the reason for the Mole's HeelFaceTurn. After he was thrown in jail, Tracy gave the Mole a Christmas present, a care package with some simple gifts. The Mole had lived such a lonely, miserable life that the simple gesture meant the world to him. He went straight and these days is a good friend of Tracy and his family.
* In a 1925 ''ComicStrip/LittleOrphanAnnie'' comic, Annie rescues a puppy being abused by a group of boys. She shelters the pup and gives him away to a good home. A few months later, when Annie is kidnapped, the fully grown dog, which she had named Sandy, ends up coming to her rescue. [[CanineCompanion He has been her longstanding companion ever since.]]
* A story arc in ''ComicStrip/ForBetterOrForWorse'' revolved around April dealing with a bully in school named Jeremy Jones. Things come to a head when while chasing her on his bike, he ends up getting hit by a car. April stuck with the driver and called for help. She later came to visit him in the hospital, convinced by Elly. It's revealed she was the only kid who did, not even his so-called friends showed up. Afterwards, he eases up on her, and later that Halloween when some kids vandalized her dad's model train set, he tipped April off to the culprits. They never become friends but he mostly leaves her alone afterwards.
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[[folder:Fairy Tales]]
* There is an old fairy tale where a young man who wants to woo a princess heads off to do so. On his way there, he meets an old man with whom he shares his meal. When the young man makes it to the castle, the girl's overprotective father sets an impossible condition for him to do so; he must produce a man who can eat a mountain of bread. When the young man is wandering through a forest bemoaning this task, he meets an old man who says he is incredibly hungry; the young man tells him of the mountain of bread and the old man then offers to help and eats the entire thing. The king then declares that the boy must produce a man who can drink an entire warehouse full of ale; he goes back to the forest and meets the man again, who this time claims to be incredibly thirsty and drinks all the ale. As a final task, the king demands that the boy produce a ship that can sail on both water and land, and when the distraught young man returns to the forest one final time, his mystical friend invokes this trope.
-->'''Old man''': I have eaten for you, and I have drunk for you, and I will also give you the ship; and all because you were kind to me at the first.
* [[Literature/AesopsFables Aesop's story]] "The Lion and the Mouse" has this trope at its core: One day a lion was sleeping and a mouse, by complete accident, woke him up. The Lion, annoyed at the mouse, threatened to eat it. The Mouse begged for forgiveness, and claimed that, due to its size, it would make a poor meal. The Lion agreed, and let the mouse go free. Sometime later, a group of hunters set a trap for the Lion, wrapping him in nets. The Lion roared in anger and fear. His cries were heard by the Mouse. Out of gratefulness for sparing him, the Mouse chews through the ropes and frees the Lion.
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[[folder:Films — Animation]]
* Iago in ''WesternAnimation/AladdinTheReturnOfJafar'' regrets helping Jafar after Aladdin sticks up for him and Aladdin and his friends treat Iago better than Jafar ever did. This causes his HeelFaceTurn and he ultimately helps them defeat Jafar.
* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyTheMovie2017'' pretty much runs on this. Every new friend the protagonists make comes about because one of them was willing to befriend them:
** Capper was planning to sell them before they escaped. Because Rarity had given him a selfless gift and expected nothing in return, he does his best to mislead Tempest as to where they're going.
** Captain Celaeno and her pirates are persuaded to abandon the Storm King's forces after Rainbow Dash sings them a rousing song, encouraging them to live their lives to the full.
** Princess Skystar joins them in the final battle against the Storm King's forces [[spoiler:even after Twilight tried to rob her]] because Pinkie Pie sincerely entertained her with the "One Small Thing" number.
** And of course [[spoiler:Tempest Shadow reforms and pulls a HeelFaceTurn because Twilight chose to save her life]].
* A proxy example in ''WesternAnimation/{{Pocahontas}}''. The titular heroine doesn't demonise John Smith and the settlers like the rest of her tribe because her first impression of him is putting his knife away when he sees Meeko -- and playing with him, showing that he is a decent person. She then becomes dedicated to protecting him and advocating peace.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Ratatouille}}'': Colette starts off rather harsh towards Linguini but softens up to him over time because he actually takes her advice seriously.
* ''WesternAnimation/WreckItRalph'': Ralph's instant friendship with Vanellope stems from her being the first (non-villain) video game character to look beyond his "bad guy" role.
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[[folder:Films — Live-Action]]
* ''Film/TwoDaysInTheValley:'' Becky tries to talk Webb and Helga out of killing the homicide detectives searching her house, saying the two treated her nicely while questioning her.
* ''Film/TheABCsOfDeath'': In the "R" segment, the patient lets the nurse live when he escapes from the facility because she was the only one of the staff who was kind to him.
* In the classic Creator/AbbottAndCostello film ''Film/AfricaScreams,'' after Costello rescues a gorilla from a trapper's pit, the gorilla follows him around, repeatedly saving him from other animals and cannibal natives and recovering a bag of diamonds Abbot had stolen from the natives. Later, after Costello makes it back to America (presumably with the Gorilla's help) he uses the diamonds to become head of the department store where he worked and appoints the Gorilla as his vice-president while Abbot (who used and abused Costello throughout the entire film before abandoning him after losing the diamonds) is reduced to working beneath them as an elevator operator.
* [[spoiler: Karathan]] in ''Film/Aquaman2018'' is implied to have been friends with [[spoiler: King Atlan]] because the former won the latter's friendship by talking with them rather than fighting. [[spoiler:Thousands of years later, Arthur does the same.]]
* In ''Film/BabePigInTheCity'', Babe gets chased by a vicious bull terrier until it ends up in a position where it's about to drown, and Babe goes back to rescue it. The Bull Terrier thanks Babe because he didn't believe anyone would've gone back to save him and offers him his collar as a sign of friendship.
* ''Film/EdWood'': Bela and Ed Wood's friendship started with Bela being flattered by Ed's enthusiasm and admiration for him as an actor. What cemented it was despite how bad Ed's films are, he was willing to do it to at least help Bela get work.
* In ''Film/{{Elizabeth}}'', when Elizabeth is taken to the Tower of London one of her inquisitors gives her his cloak because it is cold. Elizabeth replies "I will not forget this kindness". Years later when the man is one of many who has plotted against her, she has an audience with him and says "All your many kindnesses are remembered".
* Averted in ''Film/{{Exam}}''. [[spoiler: White]] tells [[spoiler: Blonde]] that helping him was a mistake when he has her at gunpoint, not showing any care about her help.
* In ''Film/FullMetalJacket'', Joker is the one person who actually is nice to "Gomer Pyle", encourages him, and actually refers to him by his real name of "Leonard." It's implied this is the reason Pyle [[spoiler: doesn't kill Joker after killing [[DrillSergeantNasty Gunnery Sergeant Hartman]] -- he definitely considers it and even takes aim at Joker, but instead just sits down and shoots himself.]]
* In ''Film/GhostDogTheWayOfTheSamurai'', the title character lends his services as an assassin to Louie, a mobster who [[IOweYouMyLife saved his life from a gang beating when he was younger]]. As Ghost Dog considers himself a modern {{Samurai}}, he considers himself [[MyMasterRightOrWrong Louie's loyal retainer]]. Louie's loyalty to Ghost Dog is nowhere near as strong ([[ButForMeItWasTuesday he barely even remembers the incident back when he chased off some disrespectful punks who happened to be beating up some black kid]]).
* In both the novel and film of ''Film/GoneWithTheWind'', [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold Belle]] helps out Ashley Wilkes because Ashley's wife, Melanie, was nice to her early on, accepting her wartime donation instead of treating her like dirt, as most of the rest of the town does.
* In the film adaptation of ''Film/JamesAndTheGiantPeach'', James finds a spider in his room and helps it escape the house when his aunts try to kill it. Later on, Miss Spider in the peach convinces the others to let James stay and looks after him during the journey. She reveals that ''she'' was the spider in question and is thankful for James's help.
* Near the end of ''Film/Joker2019'', Arthur spares [[spoiler: Gary]] for being the only person who had been nothing but nice to him the entire movie, when everyone else has either done nothing but act like a jerk to him, or treat him nicely at first but then throw him under the bus when convenient.
* In ''Film/KingdomOfHeaven'', Balian is forced to kill a Saracen knight in a fight over a horse, but he spares the life of the man's servant, sets him free once they reach Jerusalem, and even gives him the horse that had been the subject of the fight. Some time later, it's revealed that the "servant" is actually Saracen leader Saladin's right-hand man (presumably traveling incognito to avoid becoming a target), and he repays Balian's mercy several times over the course of the movie.
* In ''Film/AKnightsTale'', William twice jousts against a Sir Thomas Colville. The first time Colville is injured on the second lance, and William agrees to have them both tilt and then not strike each other to maintain Colville's honor. The second time, William learns right before the bout that Colville is really [[KingIncognito Prince Edward incognito]], and before the others can withdraw for him William tilts at him. Edward is both impressed by William's willingness to face him as a WorthyOpponent, as well as grateful for the earlier honorable draw; and repays the kindness after William is revealed as a commoner by knighting him. Moreover, he declares that William is descended from an ImpoverishedPatrician and warns anyone that [[ScrewTheRulesIMakeThem to question him is treason]].
* ''Film/TheLastJedi'': Because she showed him sympathy in spite of his crimes in ''Film/TheForceAwakens'', Kylo Ren has developed feelings for Rey, to the point where he isn't annoyed that she uses his real name. However, he's still unwilling to reform, instead offering her to [[WeCanRuleTogether rule the galaxy at his side]]. Despite his warnings that he will have to kill her, he appears extremely reluctant to fulfill this promise.
* In ''Film/MadMaxFuryRoad'', Immortan treated Furiosa like his property. The rest of the Citadel probably had to be cowed into respecting her as she climbed the ranks, and they obviously dislike her. Max is the first guy who showed her proper respect and didn't try to kill her at the first sign of weakness. As a result, he and Furiosa become as close to a BattleCouple as possible without actually being a couple.
** Nux's MookFaceTurn comes when Capable, one of the Wives, shows him actual compassion for the first time since his induction into the War Boys death cult.
* In ''Film/ManOnFire'', Creasy is aloof and embittered until Lupita, the young girl he's assigned to protect, brings him out of his shell by being nice to him. This is why, when she's kidnapped, he goes on a RoaringRampageOfRevenge.
-->'''Rayburn''': She showed him it was okay to live again.
* Mark from ''Film/MassacreAtCentralHigh'' won't call the police on David, even though he knows he's the killer, because David helped him out at his last school and he feels like he owes him one.
* ''Film/{{Nightbooks}}'': The cat, Lenore, starts the film as TheMole for Natacha, spying on the kids and reporting to her. After Alex saves him from Natacha's wrath and heals wounds he sustained courtesy of a Shredder, he grows much kinder to Alex and Yazmin, [[spoiler: eventually betraying Natacha by mixing the sleeping potion into the mist she sprays on herself]].
* ''Film/Piggy2022'': A group of mean girls bully Sara at the pool and steal her clothes, forcing the overweight teen to walk home wearing nothing but a bikini. On her way, Sara encounters a white van. She sees a stranger abduct the mean girls' ringleader and another one of the group call for help from inside the vehicle. The stranger makes eye contact with Sara and silently drops her clothes on the ground. With this kind gesture coming after being bullied, she just waves at him, as if saying thanks, letting him drive away.
* In ''Film/PokemonDetectivePikachu'', this is implied to be [[spoiler: Mewtwo]]'s motivation to helping Detective Pikachu and [[spoiler:Harry and later on, Tim as well]]. Despite being the cause that led to [[spoiler: Mewtwo's capture]], [[spoiler: Harry and Pikachu]] risked their lives to rescue [[spoiler: Mewtwo]] and did so, at the cost of [[spoiler: Harry being critically injured]].
* A relatively low-stakes example occurs at the final ball in ''Film/ThePrincessDiaries'', when Mia, newly crowned as princess, chooses Michael to be her partner for her first dance. When he asks why she picked him, she tells him, "Because you saw me when I was invisible," referring to the fact that Michael was one of the few people who cared about Mia even when she was just a normal teenager -- and a social outcast at that -- rather than only taking an interest in her life after she was revealed to be a princess.
* ''Film/ProblemChild'': Junior is shown to actually like Ben as a father since Ben was the first person to adopt him to actually treat him better.
* ''Film/TheProfessional'': Léon is the only person to treat Mathilda with kindness besides her deceased little brother. In fact, this is what led to him allowing her to live at his apartment after her family was killed by Stansfield and his crew.
* At the end of ''Film/{{Slaxx}}'', this is why [[spoiler: the ghost of Keerat lets Libby and Shruti live, and even saves Libby from [[CorruptCorporateExecutive Craig]] after he kills Shruti and tries to kill her. They were the only people who cared about Keerat's plight and how she died, and vowed to tell her story to the world.]]
* ''Film/SleepawayCamp'': This is the reason [[spoiler:Angela]] spares [[spoiler:Ricky, Ronnie, and Susie]].
* In ''Film/StarTrekNemesis'', young Shinzon was thrown into a Romulan slave mine on Remus, where one of the Reman laborers took pity on him and helped him survive. This would drive him to lead the fight to end Reman slavery.
* In ''Film/TellNoOne'', Bruno, a gangster, has a hemophiliac son [[PapaWolf he would do anything for]]. When Bruno first brought his son to the hospital, the doctors and then police thought he abused his son, but Alexandre, a doctor turned pediatrician, figured out the truth and convinced everyone of it. Therefore, when Alexandre is [[ClearMyName falsely accused of murder]], Bruno gladly steps in to help.
* ''Film/{{Valentine}}'': Kate is the only one of the girls in the opening scene who lets Jeremy Melton down nicely (Shelley, Lily, and Paige harshly reject him) and doesn't corroborate Dorothy when she framed him for sexual assault. This is why [[spoiler: Adam/Jeremy leaves her alive at the end of the film.]]
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[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
* In ''Series/ThirteenReasonsWhy'', Hannah feels this way about Clay and Tyler feels this way about Alex. Justin also feels this way about Bryce as Bryce provides an escape from his terrible home life but this trope is deconstructed as [[spoiler: Justin allows Bryce to rape his girlfriend because Bryce thinks: “What’s mine is yours (Justin)”]]
* In ''Series/BeingHumanUK'', [[spoiler:the only reason Herrick has any compunctions about killing Nina is that she was the only one who was kind to him and protected him when he lost his memory. He still stabs her.]]
* On ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'', Raj becomes infatuated with Bernadette because, since she is nice to him, he thinks maybe she likes him. He goes so far as to write silly, suggestive poems about her. After his "Did they/Didn't they night" with Penny, Leonard calls him out about it. When she finds out, she is not happy about it (but still nice to him.)
-->'''Raj''': You were always so nice to me, I thought, maybe you liked me.\\
'''Bernadette''': I'M NICE TO EVERYONE.\\
'''Raj''': Do you think I have a shot with Penny?\\
'''Bernadette''': OF COURSE YOU DO; YOU'RE A CUTIE-PIE. ANY GIRL WOULD BE LUCKY TO HAVE YOU.
** Similarly, Howard's endless one-way flirtations with Penny stemmed from her being nice to him, which he took as a sign of attraction. After one too many crass come-ons, she delivers an epic TheReasonYouSuck speech that puts him in a HeroicBSOD. When they finally talk it out, he admits that justifiably not many women are nice to him, which is why he was so infatuated with her. She apologizes for her actions and their friendship looks repaired... until he again thinks it's a sign of attraction and tries to kiss her; she punches him square in the face.
* In one episode of ''Series/{{Bones}}'', a female suspect who had previously stalked the victim-of-the-week becomes smitten with Booth after he briefly comforts her. She later tries to [[{{Yandere}} kill Brennan]], whom she [[MurderTheHypotenuse saw as competition]]. Bonus points for Sweets recognizing what was happening a moment too late to stop Booth.
* [[Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer Buffy]][[Series/{{Angel}} verse]]:
** Happens repeatedly with Faith. First, it happens with her and the Mayor; he gave her a place to stay and [[ParentalSubstitute treated her like she was his own daughter]], giving her a profound loyalty to him. Then it happens again with her and Angel. She was willing to die to save him, all because he helped her come back from being evil while everyone else hated her (mainly because he understood her, seeing as he was in the same situation about 100 years previously). In season 4 of ''Series/{{Angel}}'', this is the reason why she refused to even try to kill Angelus and in ''Angel and Faith'' she is still very loyal to him. Faith also does this with Gwendolyn Post. (Faith loves this trope.) Also, another reason why she helps Angel in Season 9, is because she really wants Giles back, since he was nice to her, too.
** Also seen with Spike who likes Buffy's mother and sister for this reason, and shows his best side when Buffy treats him with respect; his demonic aspect comes out when she forgets this trope.
** A particularly heartbreaking example: Lorne's speech about Fred in "A Hole in the World".
--->'''Lorne''': And here's one more thing. Winifred Burkle once told me, after a sinful amount of Chinese food and in lieu of absolutely nothing, "I think a lot of people would choose to be green, your shade, if they had the choice."
* ''Series/DoctorWho'': In [[Recap/DoctorWhoS30E8SilenceInTheLibrary "Silence in the Library"]]/[[Recap/DoctorWhoS30E9ForestOfTheDead "Forest of the Dead"]], Donna ends up [[spoiler:trapped in a virtual reality]]. She finds herself assisted by [[spoiler:the virtual avatar of Miss Evangelista, the BrainlessBeauty who died in the previous episode and became a genius upon being uploaded. Evangelista wants to repay Donna for being kind to her when she was alive.]]
* ''Series/GameOfThrones'':
** Brienne of Tarth is in love with King Renly Baratheon because he's the only man who recognizes her worth as a human being and a warrior, and does not judge her based on her appearance or gender. He himself understands how painful it is to be frequently mocked for not adhering to rigid gender roles (his older brothers Robert and Stannis have bullied him for his lack of combat experience, not to mention his homosexuality), so his empathy towards Brienne's situation allows him to be accepting of her masculinity.
--->'''Brienne''': He didn't love me, he didn't want me. He danced with me because he didn't want to see me hurt. He saved me from being a joke.
** Jon and Ygritte's relationship kicks off when he spares her life. Also because Ygritte, as a Wildling, treats being defeated and spared as interest in her.
** Sandor Clegane turns up in Season 6, having been saved and brought back to health by Septon Ray and his people. Though Clegane is gruff and grouchy as ever, it's clear that he cares about them. He is truly horrified later when he finds them butchered by Lem Lemoncloak and the other rogue Brotherhood men. When Sandor retrieves his axe, it's clear that Lem and his buddies done fucked up.
** Ask Tyrion to name his favorite family member, and he will without a moment’s hesitation say “Jaime”, his older brother. Several characters throughout the show comment that Jaime always looked out for Tyrion, sticking up for him and protecting him from other people, even fellow Lannisters. Cersei: "You’ve ALWAYS pitied him. Our POOR little brother.”
* In ''Series/{{Glee}}'', the event that sparks Kurt's [[IncompatibleOrientation crush on Finn]] is when Finn once berated one of his friends for slamming Kurt into a locker. Even though Finn's seen taking part in this sort of bullying in the first episode, this one instance of kindness made Kurt like him. And once Finn joins the Glee club and they become friends, he starts to like Finn [[StalkerWithACrush almost]] ''[[LoveMakesYouCrazy too]]'' [[DepravedHomosexual much...]]
** And later this happens again between Kurt and Blaine, and [[spoiler:Blaine and Jeremiah]].
* ''Series/GoodOmens2019'':
** It is [[HomoeroticSubtext heavily implied]] ([[spoiler:confirmed in season 2]]) that [[OurDemonsAreDifferent Crowley]] fell in love with [[OurAngelsAreDifferent Aziraphale]] because of his kindness. In their first ([[spoiler:not the first]]) [[MeetCute meeting]] at [[GardenOfEden the Garden of Eden]] Aziraphale sheltered Crowley [[WingShield under his wing]] when it started [[RomanticRain raining]]. Also, Crowley was [[SamaritanRelationshipStarter impressed]] that Aziraphale had given away his [[FlamingSword flaming sword]] to save the humans.
** Could be the same for Aziraphale, because in their [[spoiler:actual]] first meeting [[spoiler:angel]] Crowley [[spoiler:sheltered Aziraphale under his wing when the stars started falling]].
** In series 2, Crowley and Aziraphale play [[TheMatchmaker matchmakers]] for two mortals, and Crowley's idea of falling in love is to be sheltered during [[RomanticRain the rain]], he's very insistent on it, brings it up multiple times, and later in the season actually tries it out on the mortals Nina and Maggie to bring them together. He is so fixed on this idea precisely because that was how he fell in love with Aziraphale.
--->'''Crowley''': You mean like a sudden rainstorm forces them together beneath the canopy. They look into each other’s eyes, and realise they were made for each other.
--->'''Aziraphale''': Sounds a bit unlikely.
--->'''Crowley''': No, get humans wet and staring into each other's eyes, Va-voom! Sorted.
* On ''Series/TheInsideMan'', everyone at the office that Mark Shepherd is sent to infiltrate is so nice to him that he begins to have qualms about his job of trying to steal the company's secrets. He eventually performs a HeelFaceTurn, undergoing a "transformation from undercover hacker to company defender."
* ''Series/TheJeffersons'': When George was just starting his dry-cleaning business, one of his first customers was a rich woman who mistook his dry cleaners for another. She decided to take a chance on him anyway and recommended him to her friends after he did a good job. Years later, the roles are reversed: the woman's down on her luck after the death of her husband, while George is a successful businessman. When she comes in to pick up her cleaning, he tells her she can pay him whenever she's able, then tears up her invoice after she leaves. It's implied this isn't the first time he's done this for her, either.
* ''Series/KamenRiderExAid'': [[DoctorJerk Taiga Hanaya's]] answer to why he tolerated [[TheThingThatWouldNotLeave Nico Saiba]] despite her presence seriously [[RefugeInAudacity grating]] on his nerves? She called [[BackalleyDoctor him]] her doctor and that [[JerkassWoobie made him happy]]. He is so devoted to protecting her that he would rather die than fail, has very little consideration for his own life anyway and Nico really cares about him even though it's a chore sometimes (probably more often than that).
* In ''Series/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit'', LabRat Stuckey is happy to kill his boss and Elliot to cover up his own crimes but is genuinely upset when Olivia walks in on the scene because she was generally decent to him and he doesn't want to have to hurt her. Olivia is able to use this against him in order to save Elliot.
* During an episode of ''Series/MalcolmInTheMiddle'', Malcolm and his brothers are babysat by a hot blonde babysitter. It turns out she has a crush on Francis due to him once sort of complimenting her when she was younger (and fat). Francis, being away at military school, has no idea she's changed so much, and narrowly misses a chance to date a girl who would have been genuinely devoted to him. You want to punch him the whole time.
-->'''Francis''': Leave her alone, guys, she's not that fat.\\
''*Girl falls in love*''
* A villainous example: In the 1998 miniseries ''Series/{{Merlin|1998}}'', Morgan le Fay becomes an ally of [[BigBad Queen Mab]] because "the Old Ways have been good to me."
* ''Series/MonarchLegacyOfMonsters'': [[Characters/MonsterVerseSkullIslandExpedition Bill]] reveals in "[[Recap/MonarchLegacyOfMonstersS1E8Birthright Birthright]]" that he never forgot how Keiko risked herself saving his life when the Ion Dragon threatened them in 1952, and he implies that it was a major factor in his [[RescueRomance falling in love with her]].
* In ''Series/{{Preacher|2016}}'', apparently, striking up a friendly conversation in a jail cell is all the resident [[OurVampiresAreDifferent vampire]] Cassidy needs to be your pal. Once Jesse says that he enjoys having him around, Cassidy becomes fiercely loyal and slaughters Fiore and [=DeBlanc=] for [[spoiler:attempting to kill]] his only friend.
* In ''Series/PersonOfInterest'', Lionel Fusco manipulated crime scenes for Stills and Azarello because Stills was a friend to him when his wife left him and took custody of his kid.
** Later in the series, Reese admits that he was once on the verge of committing suicide (''Film/LethalWeapon'' style -- he had a special bullet and everything) until the events of the pilot when Carter showed him kindness and empathy.
* ''Series/RaisingHope'': In one [[ChristmasEpisode Christmas Special]], Jimmy gets to see what his [[ItsAWonderfulPlot life would be like if he never had his baby Hope]]. After seeing how awful things are, Jimmy set things right by recreating the night where he conceived Hope. He asks his love interest Sabrina for help, who has now become a prostitute and extremely jaded in this timeline, and tells her he knows she's still a good person underneath her bitter exterior. She claims that was the nicest thing anyone has ever told her and agrees to help him.
* In ''Series/{{Sherlock}}'', much of the reason why Sherlock allows John into his life and befriends him comes from John praising his deductive skills as "incredible" and "fantastic" while everyone else just calls him "freak." As the show progresses, it's clear that [[spoiler:they would both die for one another]].
* In ''Series/StarTrekDiscovery'' episode "[[Recap/StarTrekDiscoveryS1E11TheWolfInside The Wolf Inside]]", Burnham treats [[MirrorUniverse Mirror]]!Saru kindly, presumably unlike her EvilDoppelganger, even giving him a name instead of just calling him "Slave". So, when [[spoiler:Tyler/Voq]] assaults her, Mirror!Saru saves her and informs security about it.
* In the third season of ''Series/Tyrant2014'', Bassam wins over Ahmed by [[spoiler:giving Nusrat a proper burial, which Leila had denied for political reasons.]]
* In the third season finale of ''Series/UnbreakableKimmySchmidt'', she bumped into a fellow student who had just dropped out of school, and was panicking about the decision. Even though she didn't know him, she gently talked him through his worries and gave him encouragement. At the end of the episode, after [[DarkestHour everything else had gone wrong for her]], he gave her a call to tell her that his [[TechnoWizard tech startup had been funded]], and he wanted to hire her.
%%* This has a lot to do with Merle's loyalty to the Governor in ''Series/TheWalkingDead''.
* On ''Series/TheWatch2021'', Cheery is kind to a goblin named Spike who is part of the group working for Carcer and Wonse, that have been treated as a FantasticUnderclass. As a result, Spike flips to the Watch's side and later takes an arrow in the back for them.
* In the season 1 finale of ''Series/YoungDracula'', [[spoiler:Ingrid saves the Branaughs from a pack of hungry vampires because Mrs. B gave her a present]].
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[[folder:Manhwa]]
* In ''Manhwa/DorothyOfOz'', Abee is so devoted to Mara because she was the only person to treat him like a human being and not beat the crap out of him for being unable to answer a question. He even states this in the second volume when they first meet.
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[[folder:Music]]
* Georges Brassen's [[http://lyricstranslate.com/es/chanson-pour-lauvergnat-song-auvergnat.html "Chanson pour l'Auvergnat"]] tells the story of a man who has been thoroughly hated and condemned by society but fondly recalls three persons: the titular "Auvergnat" (a person from the Auvergne region) who gave him firewood in winter, a hostess who fed him bread when he was starving, and a traveler who kindly smiled at him when he was about to be taken to jail. Each memory finishes with the narrator hoping that they will go to Heaven for their kindness.
* The song ''People Are Crazy'' is about a guy (the singer) hanging out with a lonely old man, he didn't even know and having a generally good time, before the mysterious old man left, never to see the singer again. [[spoiler:Turns out the old man was a millionaire and left his fortune to the man he barely knew, that showed him a genuinely good time, before his death.]]
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[[folder:Puppet Shows]]
* For most of Film/TheTaleOfTheBunnyPicnic, the dog is an antagonist. That changes as soon as Bean helps him hide from his abusive owner, and then leads the rest of the bunnies in driving him off. The dog decides to befriend the bunnies instead of chasing them after that.
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[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
* [[Wrestling/VonErichFamily Fritz Von Erich]] gave Wrestling/BruiserBrody a job in WCCW after being blacklisted from every US promotion after falling out with Vince [=McMahon=] Sr. Because of this, he became close to the Von Erich family, even looking out for David during a tour in Japan.
* Wrestling/KenShamrock promised to instruct the kickboxer Maurice Smith in grappling, which was fulfilled by proxy of his brother Frank, who he in turn instructed in striking and put together an "[[BadassCrew Alliance]]" for (with Wrestling/TsuyoshiKohsaka) in UsefulNotes/UltimateFightingChampionship.
* Mountain Fiji was responsible for getting Little Egypt a job in Wrestling/{{GLOW}}. Even though it did not end well, Egypt being forced out with an ACL break, she still organized GLOW reunion shows for the purpose of helping Fiji pay for her own injuries and diabetes treatment.
* The formation of [[Wrestling/LondonAndKendrick Paul London's tag team with Brian Kendrick]] came about when the latter tried to save Paul from a Wrestling/BrockLesnar mauling. Kendrick was, of course, no help at all, Lesnar still being in his "{{squash|match}} everything, [[InvincibleVillain lose nothing]]" phase, but Paul was forever grateful regardless.
* The unlikely "friendship" between [[Wrestling/LisaMarieVaron Tara]] and long-standing nemesis Wrestling/MickieJames came about in Wrestling/{{TNA}} when Tara [[EvenEvilHasStandards wasn't]] actually for Wrestling/MadisonRayne running over James with Tara's motorcycle. Despite not being able to stop the heinous act, James not only beat Rayne for the Knockout's Title belt but wagered it on the grounds Tara would be free from contract Rayne was dangling over her head should Rayne lose her rematch. While Tara still fought James on the independent circuit, she was never quite as hostile to Mickie as before, taking Mickie's side against Amber Rodriguez and Wrestling/{{Melina}} and the MCW ''[[GirlsNightOutEpisode Ladies Night]]'' and joining her and [[Wrestling/CarleneMoore Jazz]] for Wrestling/{{Chikara}}'s ''King Of Trios''.
* Wrestling/LivMorgan stopped Billie Kay from getting a dirty win over Wrestling/{{Aliyah}} simply because she was sick of being bullied by Billie and Peyton Royce. When the Iconic Duo double-teamed Liv, Aliyah made a HeelFaceTurn to help her and return the favour. They became fast friends and teamed together many times.
* Wrestling/{{TARU}} became the lifelong manager of Crazy MAX, a bunch of punks he barely knew because they spared him from a beatdown they gave to TARU's partner and opponents during a match.
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[[folder:Tabletop Games]]
* ''TabletopGame/GeniusTheTransgression'': Neid-type Geniuses tend to have... ''[[BerserkButton issues]]'' with the whole "TheyCalledMeMad" thing, and are extremely resentful over being misunderstood, and even mocked, by their formerly fellow scientists, and by {{Muggles}} in general. Naturally, if they find someone who actually does believe them, or at the very least understand them, someone who manages to gain their trust, then that someone just found themselves a powerful ally.
* During the Siege On Tolkeen in ''TabletopGame/{{Rifts}}'', the forces of Tolkeen liberated the Daemonix, a race of sub-demons, from enslavement in another dimension. They then asked the Daemonix to help them fight the Coalition. they instantly agreed, because Tolkeen ''asked'' them. As far back as the despised Daemonix could remember, no one has ever asked them anything. No previous master had ever given them a choice or the freedom to say no. Overwhelmed with gratitude, the Daemonix fought side by side with Tolkeen.
* This becoms doubly touching in ''TabletopGame/DeviantTheRenegades''; Show a Deviant, especially a Renegade, enough Kindness & you've not only gained a quite possibly highly powerful, (potentially) rouge Cyborg, Psychic, Mutant, Hybrid, or Energy Manipulator as an ally, but you've also just quite possibly helped them become (hopefully) better able to control their powers, or even find peace if their Loyalty & Conviction were at equal levels.
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[[folder:Theatre]]
* ''Theatre/{{Turandot}}'' has Liu, who follows Calaf like a dog, looks after his elderly father, suffers torture, and kills herself so that ''he'' can marry the unattainable title character... because he smiled at her once.
* ''Theatre/{{Wicked}}'': Not so much "because you were nice to ''me''" as "because you were nice to my sister", but when Galinda tells Boq to ask out the InspirationallyDisabled Nessarose, Elphaba goes to Madame Morrible and insists on bringing Galinda into her magic class or else Elphaba's leaving. Rather than let her star pupil leave, Morrible reluctantly takes on Galinda as a student. It then ends up becoming this in the opposite direction, where Elphaba's genuine kindness in response to Galinda's self-serving actions (she only did it to get Boq out of her hair) lead Galinda to befriend Elphaba for real.
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[[folder:Urban Legends]]
* One dark version of the trope has a high school student stand up to some bullies on behalf of an outcast kid. The kid responds by telling them to not come to school on a particular day, the reveal being the kid was going to [[AxesAtSchool shoot it up]] that day.
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[[folder:Video Games]]
* ''VideoGame/BrambleTheMountainKing'' has Lemus the stone giant who main protagonist Olle comes across being bullied by sentient pinecones. After Olle puts an end to the pinecones' harassment by kicking them off of Lemus, the latter assists the former in reaching higher places and helps the young boy get to safety when he is being pursued by Bramble in a village infested with it later on. [[spoiler:Lemus also proves instrumental in rescuing Olle and his older sister, Lillemoor from the CollapsingLair of the titular Mountain King's castle at the end]].
* ''VideoGame/Case02ParanormalEvil'': Marty bonds with Sally because she constantly brought lucky clovers to his comatose body, despite them being complete strangers to each other. Due to this, he's willing to fight a zombie and cultist army in order to prevent her from being used as Gla'aki's vessel.
* In the M.M.O. ''VideoGame/CityOfHeroes'', we have a rarer villainous example of this as signature MadScientist Doctor Aeon is working for BigBad Lord Recluse and turns down numerous attempts from several rival villains to bribe/poach him because back when he was a no-name mad theorist with next to no money or prestige to his name and [[TheyCalledMeMad everyone else called him “mad”]], Lord Recluse believed in him and his experiments, gave him a paycheck, a company and his own city to rule. Dr. Aeon refuses to ever betray his beloved evil overlord.
* Several characters in ''VideoGame/DarkSouls'' have this. Lady of the Darkling is fervently loyal to Gwyndolin because he accepted her as a follower despite her hideous appearance, providing her purpose in life. Eingyi is similarly devoted to Quelaag's sister because she sucked the deadly Blightpuss from his body, saving his life but becoming deathly sick in the process. Also, it's possible for Maiden Rhea to become friendly towards the player should the player [[spoiler:save her from the Tomb of the Giants after her escorts all either hollowed or abandoned her.]]
* In Chapter Two of ''VideoGame/{{Deltarune}}'', we discover that even when she was a BarbaricBully, Susie never went after Noelle. This is because Noelle offered her a pencil on the first day of school, and, considering her to be genuinely nice, she decided to spare her. Ironically, Noelle's crush on her stems from [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys liking how wild and dangerous she is]], and mistakenly thought that Susie was ignoring her because she didn't notice or care that she was alive.
* This is part of the reason Princess Sapphire Rhodonite falls for Almaz in ''VideoGame/Disgaea3AbsenceOfJustice'': [[spoiler:Sapphire faced a lot of derision as a heartless sociopath because she [[UnableToCry didn't cry at the Queen's funeral]]. Almaz was the only one to realize she ''was'' mourning her mother's death and stand up for her.]]
* ''VideoGame/DMCDevilMayCry'': Kat is loyal to Vergil to the point of near-worship because he once saved her from abuse and gave her a purpose. [[spoiler:The loyalty lasts until the revelation that he was using her and wants to rule over the humans, at which point she chooses Dante, who has by then also earned her loyalty and regards her as an equal]].
* In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'', the Warden can be played as demonstrating genuine kindness toward everyone he/she meets, including the members of the party. Since many of the party members have a history of being friendless, the Warden's consideration toward them can inspire them to UndyingLoyalty. This trope is pronounced to Morrigan (who actively avoids any sentiments and attachments), Oghren (who suffers from ridicule by his own people), and Zevran (who is desensitized by his job as a Crow).
* In the ''VideoGame/TheElderScrollsVSkyrim'' expansion ''Dawnguard,'' you can have this sort of relationship with Serana. She (being a vampire) will walk into a vampire-hunter stronghold to give you useful information because you helped free her and escorted her home. This is also the reason she gives for trusting you to find her mother.
* ''VideoGame/{{Fallout}}''
** In ''VideoGame/{{Fallout 3}}'', Gob will give the player a discount if they treat him nicely since everyone else in the town (especially his boss Colin Moriarty) treat him like crap for being a ghoul.
** This is also most likely the ''only'' reason that, when you're in Raven Rock and have the option to free a Deathclaw from its cage, it doesn't attack you on sight. Granted, the base was going to go up in flames soon and it either wanted out or wanted its revenge, but it could have attacked you at that moment but didn't.
** ''VideoGame/FalloutNewVegas'' has a super mutant called [[NamesToRunAwayFrom Mean-son-of-a bitch]] who used to be a slave who was brutally abused by the people watching him, until a man from Westside took pity on him and bought his freedom. Afterwards, Mean followed him back to Westside, where he repaid his debt by becoming the town's principal defender; apparently, once he even drove off {{the dreaded}} Fiends ''[[OneManArmy by himself.]]''
** Another example in ''New Vegas'' has to do with the first town you visit, that is Goodsprings where local Doc Mitchell helps get you back into walking shape after the ambush that ended with you getting shot in the head, and Sunny Smiles helps teach you some key tactics to living in the wasteland. You have the chance to repay their actions when the villainous Powder Gangers come to the town and you can rally the townsfolk to fight them off. There's no story-relevant reason to ever return to Goodsprings after you leave, but doing so is well worth the comeback.
** In the ''Old World Blues'' DLC of ''VideoGame/FalloutNewVegas'', if you manage to befriend or help out at least three of the Think Tanks, [[spoiler:they'll stand up to Dr. Klein when he tries to [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness do away with you]], meaning you won't have to kill them]].
* ''VideoGame/FateGrandOrder''
** Abused in life and feared in death, anyone who treats Beni-Enma kindly will win her eternal loyalty, like the protagonist and the old man who helped her in the past.
-->"I am a torture demon of hell. I am an oni that should be feared, but I've received only a kind reception from others. Whether it be you or the old man, Beni's blessed to have met such nice people, chirp. I will never forget your kindness, and I will repay you until the day I die...no, even AFTER I die!"
** While he acknowledges that Jason can be a {{Jerkass}} sometimes, a major reason why Heracles puts up with him and genuinely likes him is that he's one of the few people during his life to treat him as an actual person.
** This is what [[spoiler:ultimately convinces Ereshkigal to sway to the heroes' side in Babylonia. The protagonist's kind-hearted personality despite everything Ishtar, and by extension herself, had done to the people of Uruk and them made her switch to fighting for their cause. This is noticeable in your first interactions with her, where after freeing her from being tied up, she's willing to help let you escape minions from the Underworld, specifically because you were nice to her. With her backstory and how lonely she was, she was not expecting a human of all people to be as nice to her as you were.]]
** ''Teach Us FGO! The Greats and Legends of Grand Order'' reveals that Anne Bonny and Mary Read love the protagonist because they treated the two of them kindly despite being pirates, whereas they were hated in life for being criminals.
** Oryou remembers planning on all kinds of deceptions to trick Ryouma into releasing her from a cursed spear and then killing him. She was surprised when Ryouma just removed the spear, commented on how that must have sucked, and left. She fell in love with him and followed.
** Caster Altria's UndyingLoyalty to the protagonist lies in this trope since they're the first person to treat her as a normal person instead of TheChosenOne.
** Hans Christian Andersen's opinion of the protagonist changes as they bring him refreshments and give him time to rest in between assignments- it helps that the protagonist is respectable overall. These factors sharply contrast his relationship with Sesshouin Kiara, who more or less just needed him to ascend her to the level of a True Demon.
--->"Hmm. You know, I get everything I want the moment I want them. You must really be good at your work, Master."
** As seen with her relationship with her Masters in ''VisualNovel/FateStayNight'', Medea can be a treacherous Servant if treated poorly, living up to her title as the "Witch of Betrayal". However, treat her well, as Kuzuki and the protagonist do, and she becomes an incredibly loyal and loving Servant who would gladly lay down her life for her Master.
** According to supplementary materials, the only way to ensure the loyalty of Mephistopheles is to keep treating him well while surviving his inevitable betrayals. He will then follow orders willingly, mostly out of amusement at his Master's stubbornness.
--->[If] a situation appears in that the Master deepens their bond with Mephistopheles while accepting all that is childish and wicked, it seems he will fight while gambling his life for the sake of his Master with pleasure and while laughing.
** Miss Crane is endlessly grateful for any favors or kindness she receives (no matter how small), intending to repay every last one in time. She sees the clothes she makes as the highest form of repayment she can bestow, perfecting her craft to the point that it would seem as though the gods made them.
** The Assassin of Paraíso's UndyingLoyalty to the protagonist stems from them being the first person to treat her like a person instead of just a tool.
** Grey exhibits a weird variation. She holds high respect for Lord El-Melloi II because he was one of the few people who ''didn't'' [[ItMakesSenseInContext like her face,]] since that means he doesn't care about her lineage as so many others did. This applies to the protagonist as well, as she is happy, they look at her like any other person and not as a Saberface.
** In "GUDAGUDA Final Honnoji", Li Shuwen chooses to help Oda Kippoushi fight Chaldea ([[HonorBeforeReason despite being from Chaldea himself]]) because Kippoushi took him when he first arrived to the Singularity, giving him food and shelter. As far as he's concerned, he has a debt to pay.
** Asterios' loyalty to his Master and Euryale is because they call him by his name instead of "Minotaur," giving him freedom, and simply being his friends. By being treated as a man instead of a monster, Asterios reclaims pieces of his faded humanity.
** This is the reason why Paul Bunyan teams up with Chaldea against the Nameless Master.
** Fran's fondness for Babbage stems from the fact that he was the only known person in her life to show her kindness.
** It's revealed in Benienma's Interlude that Shuten was the one to convince Ibaraki-Douji to leave her mother's household and to enjoy things as an oni boss instead of suffering. This explains Ibaraki-Douji's loyalty to Shuten.
** In the ''Turas Realta'' manga, Kiyohime falls for Ritsuka when she realizes he is telling the truth that he finds her ability to change into a fire dragon cool and not disgusting.
** Kingprotea loves the protagonist for caring about her for ''her,'' rather than just her power.
** Meltryllis falls in love with the protagonist for treating her kindly and never seeing her as a monster, rescuing her from the despair and loneliness she felt ever since she was created.
--> "I felt nothing but fear and despair back then. I cried every night knowing that my abilities might ultimately not be enough to protect that person. Wondering when that crucial time will come. But... that person only smiled. And so, my weak self did everything in its power to follow."
** Surtr fell in love with Ophelia [[spoiler:when they became connected during their respective first deaths,]] as she sympathized with and reassured him on failing his task of bringing Ragnarök. However, he's pretty bad at actually getting this affection across.
* ''Franchise/FinalFantasy'':
** In ''Episode Zero: Promise'', the prologue novel to ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII'', Vanille bumps into Nora and Hope Estheim when lining up to get Purged from Bodhum. Nora's kindness towards Vanille compels the latter to join her and Hope on the Purge train, reasoning that she wants to be with kind people if they should get treated like criminals.
** ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII2'': This trope is why Mog swore fealty to Lightning. Ever since Mog fell into Valhalla, he's been going with the "[[SocialDarwinist weak obey the strong]]" rule there, but he's been rejected and abandoned multiple times by many powerful opponents who didn't want such a weak creature. When he ran into Lightning and lost [[RockPaperScissors his game]], he expected to be abandoned again... but she told him to come with her. Lightning was the first person to accept him as he was and not just ditch him.
** An interesting version of this occurs in the ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIV'' mission "Every Little Thing She Does is Magitek". After repairing a captured Garlean Empire Magitek Armor, Biggs, Wedge, and Cid realize that a repaired part still isn't working right, and Wedge suggests being nice to it to show it appreciation. However, after you and Cid defend it from a group of Imperial Soldiers, it snaps to life and fixes the problem, accepting them. Cid, however, says that he hopes they don't have to do that with the ''Enterprise''.
* ''Franchise/FireEmblem'':
** Leads to two {{Heel Face Turn}}s in ''VideoGame/FireEmblemTheBlazingBlade''. [[TheStoic Jaffar]] encountered Nino while too wounded to move. Instead of killing him, as per [[MurderInc Black Fang]] custom, she bandages him up. [[spoiler:Later, he saves her from being sacrificed as a scapegoat, and, if the player is willing, kills her tormentor]].
** Soren in ''VideoGame/FireEmblemPathOfRadiance'' and ''VideoGame/FireEmblemRadiantDawn'' feels this toward Ike. When Soren had been abused, abandoned, and left for dead, Ike found him and gave him food and respect. Soren was so incredibly touched by this simple random act of kindness that he literally devoted the entire rest of his life to him, even after they were separated for years and Ike didn't remember meeting him. However, Ike does continue to show Soren kindness repeatedly throughout the games, which he appreciates. Their [[RelationshipValues paired ending]] even describes Ike as the only person Soren ever trusted.
** In ''VideoGame/FireEmblemAwakening'', Maribelle reveals this as her reason for being [[LesYay completely devoted to Lissa]]; due to her being so difficult the other children instantly hated her and mocked her, leaving her without any friends until Lissa reached out to her.
*** Similarly, Panne joins Chrom's Shepherds in an attempt to repay the kindness given to her by Chrom and Lissa's older sister, Queen/Exalt Emmeryn, despite how she's a member of the [[FantasticRacism very persecuted]] Taguel race.
*** Henry's support with Ricken has a bittersweet double dose. Henry says Mustafa, the first noble Plegian commander the Avatar meets, treated him like family--and other Plegians (disparagingly) imply Henry felt genuine loyalty in return. He seems as cavalier about Mustafa's death as any other person he'd known before, but when Ricken asks what Henry would do if ''he'' were slain, Henry immediately swears he'd seek (literally) bloody vengeance. He's almost surprised to find that he truly considers the Shepherds his friends. Henry's emotions are always difficult to read, but he seems to have forgiven the Shepherds for Mustafa's death, knowing that true responsibility lay with Gangrel, whom they defeated.
** In ''VideoGame/FireEmblemFates'', the TeamPet Lilith says that she follows the Avatar because he/she nursed her back to health when younger, thinking she was an injured bird.
*** Jakob explains to Azura in their supports that [[spoiler:he was practically sold off by his AbusiveParents to the Nohrian royals, and since up until then he was [[ShelteredAristocrat a nobleman]], [[MenCantKeepHouse he had no idea of how to perform even the most menial chores]]. The young Avatar insisted on keeping Jakob around as his/her companion despite his initial blunders, so he became their loyal BattleButler to repay the favor.]]
** ''VideoGame/FireEmblemThreeHouses'' brings us Dedue, who is [[UndyingLoyalty unfalteringly loyal]] to Dimitri because the latter was the only person who treated him with respect and dignity after the Tragedy of Duscur.
* In ''VideoGame/Ghost10'', Jacker and Boogan are the first clients to treat Ghost like a person rather than an asset. They communicate with her throughout her mission, show concern for her well-being, and generally make her feel like part of their team. As such, when Ghost's boss Viktor kidnaps Jacker toward the end of the game, Ghost immediately enacts a plan to rescue him.
* Two examples in ''VideoGame/GreedFall'':
** At the end of the game [[spoiler:when gathering allies for the final battle neither the Bridge Alliance nor Thélème are convinced of De Sardet's story of the threat to the island's god. The Nauts and the Coin Guard are a bit more open-minded but don't think they're really affected by it]]. However, all four will come to help if De Sardet has reached "Friendly" status with them, as he/she helped them out enough times before.
** If you complete Kurt's first two companion quests before [[spoiler:the Coin Guard's attempted coup he turns on the traitor Guards and warns De Sardet and Constantin, giving them time to mount a successful defence of all three cities]].
* In ''VideoGame/{{Hakuouki}}'', Saito Hajime is wholly, almost obsessively loyal to the Shinsengumi in general and Hijikata in particular because Hijikata and Shinsengumi co-founder Kondou were the first people to understand and accept without question his left-handed sword-fighting stance and refusal to stop wearing his swords on his right side (nearly a taboo in samurai culture) instead of accusing him of cheating.
* ''VideoGame/TheHappyhillsHomicide'': [[spoiler: Madison Carpenter]] is the only victim the Clown shows remorse for, even calling her "the only kind one". [[spoiler: When he was still John Wade, Madison was the only one at Westpine High who would treat him with any decency, which lead to him developing a crush on her.]]
* ''VideoGame/HeroesOfTheSeasons'': Gobi sees the various leaders of the Christmas-hating coalition as mere pawns. He is only loyal to Lord Ciceri, [[spoiler:who took him in after Vyena's Holy Order slaughtered his family]].
* Downplayed in ''VideoGame/IMissTheSunrise'', where it only leads to one favor. If you attempt to rescue the Black One in Episode 3, he'll cite this as his motivation when he returns to help you later on.
* In ''Franchise/KingdomHearts'', Sora's party were the first only people ''ever'' to be nice to Naminé, even despite everything she'd done to them, which is why she spends the next year straight working on their behalf.
* Listening to [[AxCrazy Jack]] in ''VideoGame/MassEffect2'', only one other person besides Paragon!Shepard has ''ever'' been nice to her, and he [[spoiler:got killed saving her life,]] even after they'd both agreed not to do something like that. Afterwards, she found a message saying he wanted to settle down with her, the whole picket-fence fantasy. The whole thing fucked her head up even more -- what she took from the whole experience was that there were good people in the galaxy... and they're all doomed to die because only assholes survive. [[SurvivorGuilt Like she did]].
** Ironically, Miranda goes through the same thing. It's implied that part of the reason she turned from Cerberus ([[HeelRealization or at least started to see them for what they were]]) is because Paragon Shepard went out of his/her way to help her with no ulterior motives. It also explains why she joined Cerberus in the first place: [[spoiler:In exchange for Miranda's services, Cerberus offered to hide and protect her twin sister from their abusive, controlling father, a deal they had faithfully followed through on until Miranda quit]].
** This is one of the reasons Tali'Zorah has such UndyingLoyalty to Shepard. Quarians are normally treated with contempt and subject to a great deal of FantasticRacism by the rest of the galaxy. But Shepard treats her like an equal. When being tried for treason, her people stick "vas Normandy" to her name, thinking that being associated with a human ship and captain will not do her any favors. If Shepard gets her cleared, Tali decides to keep the name, thinking that Shepard has been a greater friend to her than any quarian.
** Shepard becomes the HopeBringer for the geth if Legion is accepted into the team in ''2''. Shepard's handshake with Legion was considered so significant that it was preserved in the geth consensus, as it was the first time that an organic had ever treated a geth as an equal, giving hope for a peaceful resolution with organics.
** If Shepard saves David Archer from Cerberus's clutches in the "Overlord" DLC questline, he'll repay the kindness during Cerberus's invasion of Grissom Academy by helping his fellow students place their trust in Shepard before leaving the security office's lock hacked so Shepard can take the weapons inside to rout Cerberus.
** Subverted if [[spoiler:Shepard sabotages the genophage cure when Wrex is leader of Clan Urdnot: Wrex claims he will honor their friendship by giving Shepard a quick death for his/her betrayal.]] Played completely straight, however, if [[spoiler:Shepard successfully cures the genophage. Wrex, Eve and the entire Krogan population become incredibly loyal to Shepard, providing the largest assets after Shepard's own crew and the Alliance, with Wrex basically declaring that he and Shepard are SwornBrothers.]]
** Long story short, a lot of the UndyingLoyalty that [[TheParagon Paragon]] [[IdealHero Shepard]] [[MagneticHero inspires]] comes down to this trope. Being an AllLovingHero for people and races that have never known kindness tends to have that effect.
* ''VideoGame/MetalGear'':
** [[AFatherToHisMen Big Boss]] uses this trope to play the benefactor role a LOT. This has essentially become his MO for converting enemies to his side and inspiring [[UndyingLoyalty unwavering loyalty]] in his men, and he has become frighteningly efficient at this. One prominent example of this is in ''VideoGame/MetalGearSolidVThePhantomPain'' with Quiet, an XOF assassin originally sent to kill Big Boss. After surviving their first encounter, they run into each other again in Afghanistan, where they engage in a SniperDuel. Big Boss not only defeats her but opts to spare her life, thus winning her loyalty and leading to her defecting from Cipher to the Diamond Dogs.
** This trope, combined with UsefulNotes/StockholmSyndrome, is why Otacon falls for Sniper Wolf during ''VideoGame/MetalGearSolid''.
* This occurs in the fourth installment of the ''VideoGame/MidnightScenes'' horror GenreAnthology, ''From The Woods'' where [[spoiler:the now-teenaged Oliver (main character of the previous game in the series, ''The Nanny'') eventually forms a romantic relationship with ''FTW'''s protagonist Elijah, an aspiring horror novelist and fellow patient at the mental health center the two boys are staying at. Because Elijah has been nothing but genuinely decent and understanding to[=/=]of Oliver from the second they met even before learning of the circumstances that brought the latter to Fernwood Creek and in the various conversations the former has with his friends, Grace and Eric; Oliver grows to care for and trust him to the extent he tells Elijah the truth behind his rescue several weeks prior when the paranormal incidents at the Center reach their peak with the gruesome discovery of the janitor's unnatural death. Given how Oliver was effectively ostracized by the other patients as a result of his quiet nature and supernatural events tending to happen around him, it's not hard to see how quickly he fell in love with Elijah]].
* In ''VideoGame/NeverwinterNights2'''s built-in campaign, Neeshka mentions this about the PC if RelationshipValues are stable before fighting the final boss, [[spoiler:allowing her to resist TheDragon's mind control]]. It's a big part of the reason why the "romance" path with her, even though mostly cut, comes off as better written than most of the ones seen in video games. Inversely, Neeshka won't even need to be mind-controlled into betraying the PC if their relationship values are low enough.
-->'''Neeshka''': I... I can't do it. I won't do it! By the hells, I'm not going to turn on the one person who showed me kindness! And if it costs me my life, so be it.
* ''VideoGame/OctopathTraveler'':
** Yusufa stands up for Primrose and distracts Helgenish for her because Prim was the only dancer there who was kind to her. This ends up being what gets her killed.
** This is also why Therion continues to assist House Ravus, even after the band on his arm is unlocked.
* In ''VideoGame/PaperMarioTheThousandYearDoor'', Vivian joins Mario's party because he treated her way better than her sisters ever did.
* In ''VideoGame/Persona5'', this is mutually done for both Joker and Ryuji. Ryuji had become a pariah at Shujin Academy due to Kamoshida's treatment towards him and his old track team hating him but he becomes fast friends with Joker after their trip to the Metaverse and Joker is the first person in a long time to treat Ryuji kindly. For Joker, Ryuji was the first one to befriend him despite the wrongful accusations and rumors that Joker has a criminal record. This is actually how Joker interacts with all the Confidantes- they're almost all social outcasts for one reason or another, whether it's Ann (whose looks make most people in the school think she's a slut), Tae Takemi (who's a disgraced doctor with a checkered past), Shinya Oda (who's a video game ace who has no friends due to his mom's obsessive behavior), or Munehisa Iwai (who's a former member of the yakuza). Joker listens to all of them and treats them with respect, and in return, they all develop serious loyalty to him.
* ''VideoGame/PuyoPuyo'': Due to the setting's rules on spacetime travel, Ecolo was never able to forge a genuine connection with anyone before the events of ''VideoGame/PuyoPuyo7'', as everyone he met would immediately forget about him at his next dimension jump. Because of this, Ringo's RippleEffectProofMemory and her surprisingly jovial treatment of him have caused him to develop a [[StalkerWithACrush downright unhealthy, but genuinely affectionate attachment]] to her.
* The ''Franchise/ResidentEvil'' series has a few:
** Ada Wong is this way towards Leon ever since he [[spoiler:took a bullet for her in ''VideoGame/ResidentEvil2'']]. Ada will sometimes go out of her way to give Leon some support when she can, even if it's against her orders.
** If Leon rescues a dog whose leg is caught in a bear trap in ''VideoGame/ResidentEvil4'', the dog will later come back to assist him against a BossBattle.
* ''VideoGame/SonicSuperstars'': Trip is one of Eggman's henchmen, except she's only working for them because Fang the Hunter strong-armed her into doing so, threatening to hurt her animal friends if she doesn't comply. Throughout the game, Fang keeps bossing and abusing her for basically everything, even doing nothing when she falls into her own trap in Lagoon City Zone. It is at that point that she meets Amy Rose, who treats her with compassion, helping her escape to safety in a mandatory act in said level. [[spoiler:This act of kindness contributes greatly to Trip [[HeelFactTurn defecting to Sonic's team]] and beating Fang for the time being.]]
* ''VideoGame/StarTrekOnline'': Gaius Selan, the security officer of the Romulan Republic flagship RRW ''Lleiset'', is a liberated Borg who used to be in the [[StateSec Tal Shiar]]. He fights for the Republic because they rescued him from the Collective (where the Tal Shiar didn't even try) and because they treat him like a person.
* ''VideoGame/{{Stellaris}}'':
** Coming to the aid of another Empire in war will boost your relations considerably, which can lead to trade and research agreements and possibly even an alliance. Even ''[[AxCrazy Fanatical Purifiers]]'' have the potential to be befriended this way if you save them from their own annihilation.
** An enslaved synthetic population has a chance of causing a RobotWar in the form of an endgame crisis. If you were kind to your own synths and gave them equal rights by signing the AI Accord, not only will they refuse to rebel, they will fight all the harder to protect their creators.
** If you save a pre-spaceflight civilization from an asteroid there is a chance that they will return the favor much later in the game. Destroying an asteroid approaching one of your own colonies in their own less advanced spaceship.
* ''VideoGame/TalesOfTheAbyss'' has ShelteredAristocrat [[TheHero Luke fon Fabre]], who has UndyingLoyalty towards his mentor and ParentalSubstitute straight up ''because'' of this trope. [[spoiler:Unfortunately said mentor is the BigBad and invoked this to use and then discard Luke]]. He also is like that to anyone nice to him; as {{Tsundere}} as he is before his [[TookALevelInKindness development]], he's there for [[HeterosexualLifePartners Guy]] and [[NiceGuy Ion]] just because they are nice to him. Even after, if anyone does anything that he considers "nice" to him, he develops UndyingLoyalty to them.
* ''VideoGame/TrailsOfColdSteel:'' In the third game, this is revealed to be why Sharon Krueger is so loyal to the Reinford family: [[spoiler:she was originally a child assassin working for a secret society. That society lost a secret war with the Ouroboros society, and the child started working for Ouroboros. She killed Irina Reinford's husband but was badly wounded. Irina took pity on her, took her in, and gave her a name instead of a code name. Sharon responded strongly to this act of kindness and mercy, and while she remains a member of Ouroboros, her first loyalty is to the Reinfords]].
* ''VideoGame/UntilDawn'': There's no indication that the wolf Mike meets in the sanitorium is abused by the Stranger, but if you don't kick it, or give it a bone to chew on if you did, it'll immediately warm up to Mike's affection and repay his kindness later by guiding him through the sanitorium on his second visit, [[EvilDetectingDog growling and barking if any wendigos are nearby]].
* In ''VideoGame/TheWalkingDeadTelltale'', pretty much the only brave thing ever done by [[TheLoad Ben]] is if he volunteers to come with Lee in Season 5 to [[spoiler:rescue Clementine]]. He outright says the only reason he does is that Clementine was the only one in the group who was nice to him and who was his only true friend, and that [[YouWouldDoTheSameForMe she'd have done the same for him]].
* In ''VideoGame/{{Warframe}}'' [[spoiler:the Tenno were the only ones to express empathy and compassion towards the titular warframes, who were driven mad with rage and anguish from having been turned into [[HumanWeapon human weapons]] by the Orokin, allowing them to finally feel at peace. The warframes repaid this kindness with their UndyingLoyalty.]]
* [[VideoGame/WildArms2 Antenora]] in ''VideoGame/WildArmsMillionMemories'' [[spoiler: has her conscience pricked when she takes the opportunity to abduct [[VideoGame/WildArms4 Yulie]] right after the latter has healed her. To ease her guilt. Antenora regular visits and checks on Yulie while she's imprisoned, but Yulie's kind nature and willingness to listen to her issues regarding Vinsfield and Slayheim leads her to secretly free her, hand her a map so she can escape, and then urges her to get to safety when the battles around them are about to get ''really'' messy.]]
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* ''Franchise/AceAttorney'':
** Basically the reason why Phoenix becomes a lawyer -- he remembers this one incident when he was nine years old, where [[spoiler:Edgeworth was in his class and stood up for him in a class trial after Edgeworth's pocket money was stolen, and it was thought Phoenix had been the culprit. It later turned out that Larry had been the culprit all along, but the event is ultimately no less important to Phoenix for that.]]
** Maya Fey first meets Phoenix when he defends her in court despite Maya A) being framed for the murder of Phoenix's beloved mentor, and, B) being caught at the scene of the crime in circumstances [[OrgyOfEvidence so suspicious]] that no attorney would willingly take her case. [[spoiler:Although Redd's blackmailing also influenced that]]. This act of kindness understandably seeds a pretty strong friendship, which Maya is later willing to get tasered and briefly jailed over.
* ''VisualNovel/CrimsonGray'': The reason for Lizzie's attachment to John is because he stood up for her when a couple of classmates were badmouthing her.
* In [[WhatIf side story]] ''VisualNovel/DanganronpaTriggerHappyHavoc'' IF, Junko accuses Mukuro this is the reason why she is so intent on saving Makoto. During the two years spent at Hope's Peak, Makoto was the first person to smile at her despite her title as the Ultimate Soldier. In fact, Mukuro is always looking at Makoto in some form in the class photos. According to WordOfGod, if she is looking straight at the camera, it means Makoto is the photographer.
* [[LoveableSexManiac Miu Iruma]] from ''VisualNovel/DanganronpaV3KillingHarmony'' is shown to be a [[TheFriendNobodyLikes general nuisance to her classmates]] because she curses up a storm and makes a lot of sex jokes, but underneath her loudmouthed and crass persona is a desperately lonely girl who clearly wants people to like her, but her lack of social skills and [[InnocentlyInsensitive inability to realise that her crass jokes get on her classmates' nerves]] prevent this. In fact, it appears that she will fall in love with anyone who shows her even one instance of care and affection. One of her Free Time Events shows Miu falling in love with Shuichi ''because he stopped her from disembowelling herself with a wrench'' and went to check on her afterwards, and her Love Suite Event is a ChildhoodFriendRomance in which she falls in love with Shuichi because he has been taking care of her ever since they were kids. She also quickly becomes fond of K1-B0 because he is one of the only students who has been consistently nice to her (to say nothing of her... [[{{Robosexual}} fascination with machines]]), and the two end up developing a very close friendship.
* Aoba[[spoiler:'s [[SuperpoweredEvilSide other-self, Desire or Sly Blue]]]] from ''VisualNovel/DramaticalMurder'' is this towards [[spoiler:Mizuki. Because Mizuki is the only one who has seen both personalities of Aoba, yet did not change his attitude towards either.]]
* ''VisualNovel/LamentoBeyondTheVoid'':
** [[SociallyAwkwardHero Asato]] is loyal and devoted to Konoe stems from the fact that Konoe is the first to treat him with any kindness, in contrast with the other Kiran[[note]]Asato's clan[[/note]] cats.
** [[spoiler:The reason behind [[BigBad Leaks]] eventual attachment to Shui is because of the latter's unconditional and selfless kindness towards him, [[{{Tsundere}} even if he isn't receptive or appreciative of it at first.]] In the past, he was a magician who lived in solitude and didn't like the other cats only because they all immediately hate him for no good reason, although he never did anything to harm them. Only Shui who didn't treat him like the other cats.]]
* In ''VisualNovel/LongLiveTheQueen'', Elodie's Aunt Lucille is a Lumen, but she's always hidden her powers out of fear of persecution. Elodie can invite her to the palace and make her her Lumen Minister. [[spoiler: Lucille was also trying to [[EvilUncle kill Elodie to allow her husband, and later her daughter, to inherit Nova]]. However, making her Lumen Minister causes her to [[HeelFaceTurn immediately stop attacking Elodie and become loyal to her]], unless Elodie murders her daughter. In this route, Elodie never even learns that Lucille was involved in the attempts on her life.]]
* ''VisualNovel/MinotaurHotel'':
** In the main route, Asterion will become close friends with you for this very reason, as you're the first master to ever treat him like a friend.
** Regardless of what actions you make, Storm will always become close with P for the sheer fact that he gave him a charm that makes him appear human. If P. is particularly kind to Storm they have a more obvious UnresolvedSexualTension.
* [[FaceOfAThug Kouhei Kitani]] from ''VisualNovel/SweetPool'' is this towards Okinaga's family. It began with Kunihito saving Kitani's life [[spoiler:when he found Kitani trying to kill himself. Kunihito picked him up and began strangling him to force his survival instinct to kick in, then invited him into the yakuza to at least throw his life away productively.]]
* ''VisualNovel/TogainuNoChi'' has [[spoiler:[[EmotionlessGuy Nano]]]] attached to Akira because he's the only one who showed any kindness towards him in the past when he was used for experiments.
* In ''VisualNovel/VA11HALLA'', Sei works as a Valkyrie (first responder and paramedic, essentially) for the White Knights, Glitch City's corrupt authorities. About halfway through the story, [[spoiler:a massive data breach exposes the true depths of their corruption, not only forcing them to disband but also inciting the city to lynch them en masse - but no one goes after Sei. She guesses that this is because everyone who recognized her did so through her having saved their life (or someone close to them) at some point and pretended not to notice her to save hers in return]].
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* ''WebAnimation/AyasakiSan'': A transfer student has a crush on Chiaki since he picked up her eraser she dropped, this causes her to [[StalkerWithACrush stalk him]].
* ''WebAnimation/DSBTInsaniT'': Eunice the elephant goes with Asia after she helped free him from captivity.
* ''WebAnimation/EtraChanSawIt'': In some stories where the antagonist character of the story isn't really as bad as they initially seem, an act of kindness on the protagonist's part is enough to make them have a HeelRealization and change their ways. Other times this trope is the reason why characters like Hiiragi and Yuzuriha end up stalking the protagonist.
* ''WebAnimation/RedVsBlue'': This treatment by the Reds and Blues blows [[spoiler:Washington]] out of the water, and [[PowerOfFriendship helps bring out]] [[HeelFaceTurn his good side]] [[HeelFaceRevolvingDoor again]]. Fitting, because the total lack of this trope got him to [[FaceHeelTurn go evil in the first place]].
* ''WebAnimation/{{RWBY}}'':
** How the relationship between Jaune and Pyrrha starts. Unaware of Pyrrha's [[FamedInStory formidable reputation]], Jaune innocently treats her just like he would any other person. Suffering from a bad case of LonelyAtTheTop, Pyrrha is immediately charmed by his unassuming nature and goes out of her way to keep an eye on him during the team's upcoming combat trials. Their friendship gave Pyrrha the chance to make even more friends, but it's with Jaune that she likes to spend time. They become best friends and partners in no time and Pyrrha finds herself in love with him.
** Villainous example: the ''only'' reason Emerald sides with the villains is because [[DarkActionGirl Cinder]] took her in off the streets to be her "apprentice", which earned her Emerald's UndyingLoyalty. The tragic part is this is almost certainly one-sided; Cinder only wanted her for her [[MasterOfIllusion Semblance]]. [[spoiler:Once she finally accepts that Cinder holds no real affection for her, and learns the full extent of Salem's plans, she's persuaded to make a HeelFaceTurn.]]
** The Maidens of the Seasons usually pass on their powers to whomever they're thinking of when they die (provided that the person in question is female and under 30), so [[ComfortTheDying a simple act of kindness in their final moments]] can be enough for someone to inherit the role, [[spoiler:which is exactly how Penny ends up becoming the new Winter Maiden after Fria dies]].
* ''WebAnimation/{{Shrapnel}}'', As a result of Reznya being the first and only person to accept the Commandah’s desperate request to help him save his bruddahs, she gains not only ''his'' UndyingLoyalty, but the UndyingLoyalty of ''all'' the Ugandan Knuckles working under him as well.
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* ''Webcomic/{{Bastard|2014}}'': Jin eventually reveals that the only reason he didn't give Kyun to his SerialKiller father at first was she was the only person to smile at him.
* ''Webcomic/BloodIsMine'': [[spoiler:[[ActionGirl Michelle]]]] was meant to betray the protagonist from the very beginning, but when the time came, she just couldn't make herself do it because of how genuinely nice she was treated. [[InteractiveComic Even the author was surprised at such a turn of events]].
-->[[spoiler:''[[http://bloodismine.com/comics/75/ "Thanks." She takes a big, deep puff, like it's the first time she's smoked in months. "You were just... I dunno. Too nice. You were so focused on tryin' to help me, I just... I couldn't bring myself to turn you over to whatever weirdos were lookin' for ya.]]'']]
* ''Webcomic/{{Digger}}'': At the end of the comic, it turns out the bandersnatch would not go overland because [[spoiler:"the Shadow"]] asked it not to. It didn't mind obeying, since it was asked nicely, and "hardly ''anyone'' asks us nicely."
* ''Webcomic/DreamingFreedom'': Jeongmin falls in love with Jayheok because he was one of the first people in her life to be kind and a good friend to her, [[spoiler: which Juhyeon notices.]]
** Siyun also falls in love with [[spoiler: Jeongmin because she promised to always stay by his side, even after hearing his backstory that revealed what he did to a few of his former peers.]]
* ''Webcomic/{{Drowtales}}'':
** [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=4352 Ariel buys a cheap gladiator to help deal with a school bully]]. However, after [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=4425 the gladiator saves her life]], [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=4442 Ariel grants her her freedom]], but she [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=4476 refuses to leave]]. However, [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=5390 Vaelia's reasons for loyalty are not purely because Ariel did something for her.]]
** Mel'arnach and Lulianne seem to have this even though they're a jailer and prisoner respectively. This becomes especially apparent [[http://www.drowtales.com/mainarchive.php?sid=5806 when Mel escapes]] and Lulianne follows.
* ''Webcomic/EerieCuties'': [[ThoseTwoGuys Cess & Laura]] are childhood friends, who began the series as [[IneffectualSympatheticVillain a pair of minor antagonists]] to Layla. But their friendship was briefly severed by [[EnfantTerrible Tia's]] [[JerkassGenie manipulations]], during which, Nina [[http://www.eeriecuties.com/strips-ec/numbers_do_not_lie befriended Laura to cheer her up.]] She and Cessily make up by the end of chapter 13 and Laura finally returned to normal. [[http://www.eeriecuties.com/strips-ec/still_gonna_be_grumpy Laura was touched by Nina's kindness towards her]], which caused her and Cessily to become friends with her... [[HeelFaceTurn for real this time.]]
* In ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'', part of why Liz is so protective of Ashley is because she helped her [[RecoveredAddict quit]] [[http://egscomics.com/comic/party-033 smoking]], despite having first met when Liz was [[http://egscomics.com/comic/party-034 cranky from withdrawal and snapped at Ashley when she bumped into her in the hallway]].
* In ''Webcomic/TheInexplicableAdventuresOfBob'' this is why Galatea is so devoted to Bob, Jean, and Molly. They taught her what kindness ''is.''
* ''Webcomic/TheLastHumanInACrowdedGalaxy'': Nearly every robot she meets loves [[CheerfulChild Sarya]] since she treats them no different from any other person. One that looks like a red [[WesternAnimation/WallE EVE]] starts following her around.
* ''Webcomic/MagickChicks'': It's no secret that Sandi is loyal to Faith and there's a reason for that: when she was younger, Sandi couldn't control [[{{Technopath}} her power]], which alienated the other kids around her. [[AFatherToHisMen Faith took Sandi under her wing]] and taught her how to properly channel her ability. Sandi further explained that, though it took time and effort on Faith's part, she never gave up on her. And for that, [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/she_looks_out_for_us she's eternally grateful to her.]]
* ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'':
** This is why the Monster In The Darkness helps O-Chul. On the other hand, since he's got a rather hazy view of "nice", it's also why he helps Xykon:
--->'''O-Chul''': Who do you know that treats you as a friend?\\
'''MITD''': Well ... Xykon, because he gives me toys to shut me up. And Redcloak, 'cause he feeds me to shut me up. And Right-Eye, although [[YouHaveOutlivedYourUsefulness I haven't seen him around lately]]. And you, because you're nice and listen to what I have to say.
** Much later, Lien is confused as to why trolls would save Serini's life, guessing it might be for the money she gave them in exchange for blood, to which Serini replies they'd have got more by looting her corpse. O-Chul, perhaps remembering his own relationship with the MITD, sees the real reason.
--->'''O-Chul''': While any of us might think of purchasing something as an unremarkable interaction, for them it was likely the nicest someone from one of our races had ever treated them. Most adventurers, if they needed troll blood, would have killed the troll. Therefore, there ''was'' a distinct cost to letting you die that could not be reimbursed by selling your magical items.\\
'''Serini''': A longwinded way of saying "We were friends," but you are correct.
* Larisa's relationship with [[GiveGeeksAChance Landon]] in ''Webcomic/SandraAndWoo'' was kicked off when he offered to help her study for a test. Given the fact that he's the only boy in the school aside from Cloud (who she could never have due to him already dating her best friend) who treats her like a human being instead of a hot babe, it's little wonder why she's so faithful to him.
* ''Webcomic/StalkerXStalker'': After Junko's dad went to prison when she was in elementary school for murdering the families of two boys who had been bullying her, nobody in her class wanted anything to do with her—except Yukio, who treated her warmly and didn't even flinch when she told him that her dad would kill anyone who was mean to her, and responded that, in that case, he would just have to keep being nice to her. They've been attached at the hip ever since.
* In ''WebComic/StrongFemaleProtagonist'', Patrick revealed to Alison [[JourneyToTheCenterOfTheMind within his mind]] that the time she believed him when he revealed what he had uncovered of TheConspiracy after she had already routed his plans as a supervillain, to be the time that he first thought of her as a friend rather than an enemy. [[spoiler:Subverted in that this made her a threat to the order he had painstakingly established within his psyche, and so he attacked her with intent to kill.]]
-->'''Patrick:''' In my greatest moment of doubt and weakness, when my plans had all been foiled and proven foolish, you gave me your trust. And that act of heroism, and of kindness, opened a door in the barrier which had previously been closed. [[spoiler:Which is why, I'm afraid, you have to die.]]
* The reason why the series [[Webcomic/{{Unhinged}} Unhinged]] ended: [[spoiler:After Boom was severely injured in the fight of the hotel [[TheHeart Paul]] begs Erika to call the police and an ambulance to safe his life. She reminds him that that would get them arrested but he insists anyways because throughout his life he [[FriendlessBackground never had anyone to lean on]], so it [[HeroicSacrifice doesn't matter if this gets him arrested]] as long as he's okay. Erika complied and calls the police before the final confrontation with Eric.]]
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* ''Literature/{{Twig}}'':
** The friendship and genuine emotion offered by the Lambsbridge Gang is enough to overcome LaserGuidedTykeBomb Mary's villainous loyalties and convince her to become the SixthRanger for their team, as all the affection she's ever received has been rote and her creator has never treated her as more than a tool.
** Subsequently, this is ''inverted'' with Sylvester's tendency to attack, humiliate, belittle, and otherwise drive away anyone outside the Lambsbridge Gang who shows signs of being nice to him or being sympathetic to [[HumanWeapon his]] [[ChildSoldiers situation.]] He explains this is a basic Pavlovian response; the doctors who raised him were always kind and soothing right before they injected his brain with neurotoxins to force it to rapidly generate new connections, an incredibly painful process.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* In one episode of ''WesternAnimation/AlvinAndTheChipmunks'' when Alvin was left behind by the others because he didn't do his chores, Alvin did them for once, only for a ContrivedCoincidence to occur when an alien being chased by an agent and a scientist begged Alvin to hide him. Despite Alvin's attempts to dissuade the hunters, they ransacked the house in search of the alien before offering to Alvin they'd fix it up ''and'' by the one next door for him (which had a cool dirt bike Alvin wanted) in exchange for him telling them where the alien was. Despite this, Alvin continued to feign ignorance, resulting in the agent and scientist leaving the house in its messed-up state with one minute before the others came home. Fortunately for Alvin, before departing, the grateful alien zapped the house with a ray that restored the house to the way it was before he arrived.
* In ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'', [[CoolOldGuy Iroh]] is imprisoned by the [[TheEmpire Fire Nation]]. He's treated very poorly by the guards, except for a woman who brings his meals. When [[spoiler:he planned to escape]], he told her to take the rest of the day off because she always treated him kindly, and [[OneManArmy he]] didn't want her around [[CurbStompBattle for what was about to happen]].
* ''WesternAnimation/CampLazlo'': One episode has the Acorn Flats Scout Mistress named Jane Doe showing kindness to the Camp Kidney campers named Chip and Skip. So much so that she takes them in as if they're orphans. It soon gets out of hand, however, when they take advantage of her kindness, followed by a few of their fellow campers joining in on the fun. To the point where they break one of her valuable gifts, [[RageBreakingPoint causing her to lose it and kick them out]]. They do apologize and make up for it at the end of the episode.
* ''[[WesternAnimation/Castlevania2017 Castlevania]]'': When Dracula finds out his wife, Lisa, was arrested on trumped-up charges of witchcraft and is already dead, he warns her elderly neighbor to take her family and run before he unleashes hell on Wallachia. He doesn't tell her this because she was nice to Dracula himself, but because she was the only person to pay respect to Lisa's memory.
** One of Dracula's human servants, Isaac, serves him because of this trope; Isaac was a former slave who was abused and treated like a waste of oxygen by everyone, and Dracula was the first person to show him any sort of respect and kindness.
* [[EnsembleDarkhorse Foxglove the bat]] from the ''WesternAnimation/ChipNDaleRescueRangers'' episode "Good Times, Bat Times" claims that she works for Winnifred because before she met the Rescue Rangers, Winnifred had been her only friend. Based on how we actually see Winnifred treat her, it's implied that Foxglove was lonely to a degree not accounted for by human language.
** It is also possible Winnifred was a nicer person once and grew more and more bitter as her pursuit of magic failed.
* The main base of Rayla and Callum's friendship and eventual romance in ''WesternAnimation/TheDragonPrince'' stems from Callum being continuously understanding and empathetic consideration for Rayla, both emotionally and mentally.
* ''WesternAnimation/DragonsTheNineRealms'': After D'Angelo helped his dragon, ExBigBad Buzzsaw tells the riders where the base of his former partner Sledkin is without being asked to.
* In ''WesternAnimation/DuckTales2017'', Launchpad helps the Rescue Rangers in getting their Ranger Plane to initially fly. They return by the end of the episode [[BigDamnHeroes and save Launchpad from Steelbeak]].
* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'': Deconstructed with Meg. Since everyone treats her like complete garbage most of the time, she will fall in love with any guy who shows her any amount of kindness, sometimes to an obsessive degree.
** In "Barely Legal", Brian goes with Meg to a school dance out of pity, defends her when bullies taunt her, and makes out with her while drunk. Despite Brian telling Meg numerous times that the kiss meant nothing, she continues to obsess over him to the point where she kidnaps him, tapes him to a chair, and nearly rapes him before being stopped.
** In "The Hand that Rocks the Wheelchair", Meg is asked to take care of Joe while Bonnie is out of town. Joe's kindness to Meg causes her to fall in love with him. She begins to act as though she were Joe's wife (going as far as attempting to breastfeed baby Susie). When she finds out that Bonnie will be returning early, Meg goes to the airport and places a gun in her bag, leading her to be arrested. And she did this just so she could have more time with Joe.
** In "Quagmire and Meg", Meg is saddened that nobody came to her 18th birthday. Nobody except Quagmire that is, who is clearly there just to make a pass at her now that she's a legal adult. While she never goes to the lengths that she went to with Brian and Joe, she's so desperate for love that she actually starts dating Quagmire, who is not only older than her father but is also a notorious sexual predator. She is even willing to have sex with him at his cabin before Peter and Lois put a stop to it.
* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}'', Kif to Leela in [[Recap/FuturamaS2E2BranniganBeginAgain "Brannigan, Begin Again"]].
* In ''WesternAnimation/GarfieldAndFriends'', in the U.S. Acres segments. This trope is the reason Lanolin's at times the nicest (or at least compared to how she treats the other characters, normally) [[PetTheDog to Orson]]. Then when Bo said that he and the others like her too, pleasantly surprised, Lanolin said she'll try to be nicer to them then.
* Xanatos' HeelFaceTurn in ''WesternAnimation/{{Gargoyles}}'' is because of this. At times when the normally always in control Xanatos is in serious trouble, it was his main enemy Goliath and his companions who helped him. The first time when [[spoiler:his fiance and future wife, Fox, is turned into a Werewolf after a gift Xanatos gave her causes a cursed effect. And later when the two are married and have a son, only for it to be revealed that he is a special baby and an Elemental God named Oberon wants that baby for himself. While Goliath makes clear both times they helped was mainly to save New York City, Xanatos is still grateful and comes to his aid when he is needed the most at the end of Season 2, making it clear to Eliza Maza afterwards that his beef with Goliath is over.]]
* ''WesternAnimation/TheGhostAndMollyMcGee'' showed Molly is the only human who treated the grumpy ghost Scratch with respect and kindness. In episode 1, she showed him the dollhouse to get along with him on her grandmother's advice. For that reason, he starts to like her in return even though she comes off as annoyingly cheerful to his easily irritated sensibilities.
** The character Andrea Davenport is extremely rude and bullies Molly in many of her earliest appearances, softening over time. However, it isn't until the episode "The Don't-Gooder" where Molly witnesses [[ParentalNeglect Andrea get snubbed on a hug by her parents because they want social media brownie points]] that Molly realizes Andrea's motivation is because of a lack of affection. Molly saves Andrea's image from a charity cheating scandal, and Andrea returns the favor by saving Molly's house using her extensive social media presence. She even proclaims herself to be Molly's best friend (which shocks everyone, Molly included). From then on, Andrea treats Molly like an actual friend (still pompous, but nice about it).
* Because Max on ''WesternAnimation/GoofTroop'' showed compassion for his mistreated and miserable neighbor, PJ, and went out of his way to provide him with opportunities he'd never had and friendship, including coming up with two separate elaborate plans to maintain it, he ended up with one of the sweetest, most loyal friends he could ever ask for, who stuck with him through middle school, high school, and college.
* In one episode of ''WesternAnimation/HeManAndTheMastersOfTheUniverse2002'', Adam and Teela stumble upon a creature trapped in a collapsed cave, with Adam taking pity on it and helping to free it. Later on, when He-Man and the Masters are tangling with a trio of dragons that Skeletor unleashed on them, a larger dragon appears, with it turning out to be the creature Adam had freed. Recognizing He-Man as him, it came to the Masters' aid by taming the smaller dragons (who turn out to be its children, its eggs having been stolen by Beast-Man) and leading them home. Man-At-Arms then had to run interference and prevent Teela from suspecting Adam was He-Man when she wondered why the dragon helped out He-Man.
* ''WesternAnimation/HeyArnold'': In "Helga On The Couch," it's shown that Helga fell for Arnold when she was in preschool because [[SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan he was the only person in her life who noticed her and treated her kindly]], by complimenting her, giving her his crackers at snack time, and providing her with an umbrella when it was storming outside.
-->'''Dr. Bliss''': [[TheUnfavourite So nobody's ever noticed you]].\\
'''Helga''': ...there was ''[[ICantBelieveAGuyLikeYouWouldNoticeMe someone]]''...
* In ''WesternAnimation/{{Hoops}}'', Matty has adamantly refused to join the basketball team. Ben spends most of "The Pilot" trying to convince him to do so, even going so far as to hire a hooker to try to get him laid. The plan doesn't work out and both Hopkins and the hooker get arrested before the hooker even makes it through Matty's door. At the end of the episode, however, when Ben is about to throw in the towel, he finds that Matty has joined the team. Matty says that he did so because what Ben did was the first time anyone had ever done anything like this for him.
* ''WesternAnimation/InvaderZim'': Although Zim was pretty mean to Keef for the most part because he called them "friends" and pretended to enjoy his company (for appearance's sake), Keef became obsessed with Zim even after Zim made it clear he wanted nothing to do with him.
* In ''WesternAnimation/JimmyTwoShoes'' Chuck, a bus driver, becomes an obsessed stalker of a friend to an unwilling Jimmy after Jimmy called him "pal" and apologized for accidentally wrecking his bus. Chuck is shown to try to become a persistent friend to anyone who's even remotely nice to him.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Kaeloo}}'':
** It's heavily implied that the main reason Stumpy loves Ursula more than anyone else is that she accepts him despite all his flaws, while his other friends constantly make fun of and bully him.
** It's also suggested that one of the main reasons Mr. Cat is relatively nicer to Kaeloo than anyone else and spares her from some of the more vicious things he does is that she shows him a lot of kindness.
* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'':
** In the episode "[[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS3E11KeepCalmAndFlutterOn Keep Calm And Flutter On]]", Discord is redeemed ([[ReformedButNotTamed mostly]]) when he realizes that Fluttershy actually is trying to be his friend, that Friendship really is Magic, and that if he continues his chaotic rampage he'll lose the only friend he's ever had. Fluttershy purposely invoked this trope, and Discord knew she was doing it... but it still worked.
** And in "Twilight's Kingdom", [[spoiler:he is reformed once and for all (though still remaining untamed) after Twilight saves him from Tirek even though Discord had earlier done a FaceHeelTurn and helped Tirek drain all the ponies' powers.]]
** In "School Raze", [[spoiler:the racist Chancellor Neighsay is truly touched when the non-pony students he'd locked up freed him in an EnemyMine scenario, and his gratitude helps him turn over a new leaf]].
* ''WesternAnimation/TheOwlHouse'':
** This is heavily implied to be the reason why [[spoiler:Amity Blight]] develops a crush on [[Characters/TheOwlHouseLuzNoceda Luz Noceda]]. In a world like [[DeathWorld The Boiling Isles]], which runs on SocialDarwinism and EverythingIsTryingToKillYou, along with [[spoiler:Amity]] having AbusiveParents and [[BigBrotherBully Big Sibling Bullies]], she is drawn to Luz's constant kindness, even in moments where she doesn't need to be.
** A more direct example from the episode "Labyrinth Runners". After Gus finds [[spoiler: [[Characters/TheOwlHouseTheGoldenGuard Hunter]]]] squatting in Hexside's auditorium, he realizes that [[spoiler:Hunter]] has been eating out of trash cans, and despite not trusting him, decides to give him his packed lunch. [[spoiler:Hunter]] pays him back for this by saving him from Graye and the Coven Scouts, and sticking by him for the rest of the episode to try to keep him safe, even though that means blowing his cover and putting himself in extreme danger.
--->'''Gus:''' When we first met, you were trying to trick me into joining a Coven. And now, you're helping me stay ''away'' from one. 'Cause of a ''sandwich?''\\
'''[[spoiler:Hunter]]:''' It was a good sandwich.\\
'''Gus:''' No sandwich is that good!
** King actually keeping his end of their deal and freeing [[Characters/TheOwlHouseTheCollector The Collector]] makes him one of the only people the almighty childlike being is willing to listen to; not only destroying Belos and saving his friends, but casually foiling the Day of Unity by pulling the moon away to undo the eclipse.
* ''WesternAnimation/ReadyJetGo'': Jet, Sean, Sydney, and Mindy (Jet and Mindy especially) showing kindness towards [[spoiler:Mitchell]] despite his imperfections is what gets him to open up to them and become a trustworthy ally of the team.
* In the ChristmasSpecial ''Santa Claus is Coming to Town'', Kris is able to win over stern schoolteacher Jessica and the demonic Winter Warlock simply by giving them gifts. (It's obvious nobody had ''ever'' been nice to ''either'' of them before.) It ''almost'' works on [[TheGrinch Burgomeister Meisterberger]] himself, the gift causing him to be happy for a few brief minutes, but he quickly composes himself and resumes his previous ways.
* ''WesternAnimation/RickAndMorty''
** In the episode "[[Recap/RickAndMortyS1E2LawnmowerDog Lawnmower Dog]]", Snuffles is turned into a super-intelligent dog with one of Rick's helmets. Having been mistreated by Summer and Jerry, he decides to create his own dog army and punish humans (with castration and conquest). Morty, who was the only one nice to him, is spared and allowed to live a life of luxury.
** The main reason [[Characters/RickAndMortyBethSmith Beth Smith]] would keep her verbally and mentally abusive, alcoholic, arrogant, lazy, manipulative, and irresponsible [[Characters/RickAndMortyRickSanchez father]] around her children, regardless of all the havoc he leaves behind, is because she thought he was a great father to her when she was a child. But this is ultimately subverted when she begins to realize that he was very neglectful of her, having him build dangerous toys to spend time with him, which led him to assume she was crazy, so he created Froopyland to keep her away from the neighbour and keep her occupied, instead of doing it himself.
*** Also the main reason for her relationship with [[Characters/RickAndMortyJerrySmith Jerry]]. Despite her supposed disgust or annoyance over his faults of being spineless and submissive, it turns out that she's ''drawn'' to those faults in a roundabout way because it gives Beth the advantage in her power dynamic with Jerry, allowing her to feel good and special about herself because of how devoted he is to her. Furthermore, Jerry has put with a lot of nonsense from Beth, ''especially'' when it comes to Rick and he has stayed by her side despite it all. [[spoiler:Despite their Season 3 separation, she chooses to get back together with him because she finds she is happier with him.]]
* ''WesternAnimation/SheRaAndThePrincessesOfPower'':
** Adora begins to rethink [[EvilEmpire the Horde's]] teachings when she's captured by two members of the Rebellion, and they not only choose to take her back to Bright Moon nonviolently, but make conversation with her and, in Bow's case, are downright friendly. She's genuinely taken aback when she sees that the "savage" rebels she's been raised to hate and fear are actually good people.
** Catra's love for Adora stems from the fact that Adora's the only person that ever gave a damn about her. When Adora defects to the Rebellion, Catra... [[ItsPersonal fails to get over this]]. Unfortunately, as Catra's SanitySlippage ensues, she averts the trope more and more, treating both Adora and [[IgnoredEnamouredUnderling Scorpia]] extremely badly.
** Hordak warms up to Entrapta because she's friendly and cheerful and isn't afraid of him. When he confesses to her that [[spoiler:he's a defective clone and has spent his whole life trying to prove he has worth in spite of that, she says she sort of knows how he feels -- [[AllOfTheOtherReindeer she's pretty weird, too, and is sometimes isolated because of it]]. She then surprises him by saying she's genuinely okay with that, because "defections" and uniqueness aren't just okay, but something to be cherished. Hordak is genuinely touched and assures Entrapta that, in his opinion, anyone who dismisses her for her weirdness is an idiot, anyway.]]
* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' did an episode where Homer and Marge entered a ''Series/WifeSwap''-style reality show. The HenpeckedHusband ends up falling for Marge, while his frigid, controlling wife falls for Patty.
-->"Marge, I love you! [[LampshadeHanging And I can tell from your basic level of courtesy that you love me too]]!"
** In "Colonel Homer", this is why Lurleen Lumpkin ends up falling for Homer. She even outright admits to him that he's the first person to ever treat her so kindly "without wanting something in return".
** While more a PuppyLove example, there's the infamous crush Ralph Wiggum developed on Lisa when she was the only one to give him a Valentine.
** One episode features a platonic, familial example. Bart wins a $500 cash settlement from Krusty after a jagged metal O [[FreePrizeAtTheBottom in his box of Krusty-O's]] gave him appendicitis. He plans to spend it on a comic book but instead buys an album made by Lisa's jazz mentor "Bleeding Gums" Murphy, who died earlier that episode. When Lisa asks why, Bart explains that it's because she was the only person who believed him when he said he was sick, rather than assuming he was making it up for attention.
* Subverted twice in the ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants'' episode "Naughty Nautical Neighbors", First, Patrick made friends with Squidward after performing CPR to get the fork out of his throat just until he fell asleep while Squidward was playing his clarinet in which he tries dragging him out of his house, throwing out his back on the process. This causes [=SpongeBob=] to ram his head on Squidward's back, putting him back to normal. The two are friends until [=SpongeBob=] breaks his double bass which prompts Squidward to literally kick him out of his house. Of course, this didn't stop [=SpongeBob=] and Patrick from fighting over Squidward.
* ''WesternAnimation/StarWarsRebels'': Zeb showing compassion to [[spoiler:his {{archenemy}} Agent Kallus when they were stranded on an icy, inhospitable moon together winds up triggering a HeelFaceTurn for Kallus, as Zeb is was able to be reasonable with him, and the Empire didn’t bother to go look for him. Since no one would at first believe he's changed, he'd use this trope as an excuse.]]
* ''WesternAnimation/StaticShock'': {{Deconstruction}}. Eddie Felson met Daisy Watkins at science summer camp. He developed a crush on her because she was the only person at the camp that was kind to him. However, his crush on her becomes an unhealthy obsession, with him stalking her and stealing luxury items to give to her. What made it worse was it was implied from Daisy's reaction to seeing him again and from the way she talked about him is that she did not like him even as a friend and whatever kindness she ever showed him was out of pity.
* ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverse'':
** Lapis Lazuli has this attitude towards Steven. He befriended her while she was still [[spoiler:trapped in a mirror for thousands of years before Steven set her free]]. Afterwards, she actually tried to kill him after she stole the Earth's ocean to try to get back to Homeworld, but their friendship was confirmed when [[spoiler:[[PetTheDog he healed her cracked gem]]]]. Ever since then, she's made several efforts to protect him or at least warn him of danger, and eventually, [[spoiler:[[SealedEvilInADuel she held Jasper]] [[FusionDance in a fusion]] [[PutOnABus at the bottom of the ocean]] [[HeroicSacrifice to prevent her from harming Steven.]]]] While she's still shown to be hostile, or at least ambivalent towards the other Crystal Gems, it's very clear that she wants to do whatever she can for Steven, the only being in thousands of years who was nice to her and treated her kindly. [[spoiler:It ultimately results in her deciding to officially join the [[MagicalGirlWarrior Crystal Gems]] when the Diamonds invade Earth in [[Recap/StevenUniverseS5E23Reunited "Reunited"]].]]
--->'''Lapis Lazuli:''' [[spoiler:I couldn't stay away. [[ThenLetMeBeEvil If they're gonna punish me like a Crystal Gem, then I might as well be one, right]]?]]
** Peridot also begins to develop these feelings due to Steven showing her compassion and trust and the rest of the Gems showing her varying degrees of compassion. [[spoiler:It ultimately results in [[BrokenPedestal her turning on]] [[BigBad Yellow Diamond]] and [[HeelFaceTurn becoming a]] [[MagicalGirlWarrior Crystal Gem]] [[HeelFaceTurn to help protect Earth]].]]
** The Pebbles who live in the walls of the Diamond Palace. They appear to be made entirely by accident, and their purpose seems to be "stay out of sight and perform various chores". Pink Diamond actively sought them out and thanked them for their work, which led many of them being her playmates. They befriend Steven for similar reasons.
* A platonic and ''villainous'' example occurs midway through the 2003 ''WesternAnimation/{{Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles|2003}}'' series. Karai has become the DragonAscendant and part of the package includes the service of the Foot Mystics. The Mystics grow to ''really'' hate Karai because she treats them like crap, and while they refer to the previous Shredder as an "[[spoiler:Utrom]] abomination", they appreciated that he had a lot of respect for them.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/WanderOverYonder'' episode "The Little Guy", Wander is kind and friendly to mistreated Watchdog Westley, [[spoiler:eventually inducing a HeelFaceTurn]]. It's implied Wander is intentionally invoking this trope, but ''also'' that he's not faking his friendship and kindness -- he's just naturally kind and friendly to virtually everyone, even his enemies.
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* UsefulNotes/StockholmSyndrome generally comes about due to the hostage-taker being nice to the hostages. This often includes an extremely broad definition of 'nice', like 'hasn't hit me for a while' or 'man, you seem to be at least slightly more interested in keeping us alive than the police who are supposed to be rescuing us'. Its opposite, LimaSyndrome, comes about in much the same way, only it's the hostage-taker who ends up being won over by the empathy and kindness given to them by the hostages.
* The 19th century Zulu leader UsefulNotes/{{Shaka|Zulu}} grew up in a village where he and his single mother both suffered continual bullying from the locals. As leader, Shaka returned to the village and had all the bullies put to death by [[ImpaledWithExtremePrejudice impalement]], as slowly and painfully as possible - with one particularly awful woman getting shut in a hut with starving dogs before the hut was put to the torch. Those who [[BystanderSyndrome had not actively bullied them, but had allowed it to happen]], were put to death more quickly and less painfully. Only one man was spared because Shaka remembered him being nice to his mother.
* John Tharpe owned a slave plantation in Jamaica. He was noted in both Europe and the island itself for his respectful and dignified treatment of the slaves he owned. When a slave rebellion broke out, many plantations were looted and burned, but his was completely untouched.
* Similarly, when the Haitian Revolution occurred, the rebels tended to spare the overseers that had treated them well, [[PayEvilUntoEvil while giving the cruel ones their just deserts]].
* Creator/JudyGarland mentored newcomer Creator/GeneKelly on the set of ''For Me and My Gal,'' his first movie; Kelly would later claim she taught him basically everything he knew about show business. Years later, when Garland came out of rehab and not many people would work with her, Gene requested her for ''Summer Stock.''
* Criminals like kidnappers or planned shooters are inspired to turn their lives around on occasion because their victim or would-be victim treated them with respect.
* The Roman Emperor Caligula exploited this trope; he would set some of his slaves free and give them important positions within his Empire. The reason he trusted them with these positions was that they owed him everything they had, even their own freedom.
* The Ottoman Sultans used a similar strategy, ordering European boys kidnapped and raised to become his chief administrators and generals. This ensured total loyalty since they were wholly dependent on his patronage for their positions, and prevented aristocratic rivals from building up their own power bases.
* During World War II, an Allied spy named Virginia Hall was arrested by Spanish police for being in the country with improper documentation (she'd crossed the Pyrenees in a hurry to escape infamous SS officer Klaus Barbie). While in jail, she nursed a young prostitute named Elena back to health. When Elena was released, she told the American consulate about Hall's predicament, and they got her out of jail.
* This is unfortunately a common form of manipulation that cults, hate groups, and sometimes even militant organizations use as a recruitment tactic. They prey on lonely wayward youths by showing them that “they care” and then warp them until their beliefs are their own.
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