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->''"Sing, Goddess, sing of the rage of Achilles, son of Peleus, that murderous anger which condemned Achaeans to countless agonies and threw many warrior souls deep into Hades…"''
-->-- '''Opening lines''', ''Literature/TheIliad'' ([[TropeNamers Trope Namer]])

->''Lord of Phthia, [[TropeNamer Achilles]]! Why, oh, why, when thou hearest the man-slaying (Ah woe!) buffetings of war, dost thou not draw nigh to our rescue?''
-->--'''Envoys''', in a surviving fragment of ''[[Creator/{{Aeschylus}} The Myrmidons]]''.

A member of a team (often TheLancer) gets into a fight with everybody else and quits, vowing to never, ever return to the people whom they now hate ''so'' much. A threat then comes that is precisely suited to the missing member's talents. The other team members beg the quitter to come back, but with no success. The team head out without their ex-member, and are about to all be killed horribly.

Then the ex-member, seeing them about to die, [[ChangedMyMindKid realizes that he still cares about them after all]]. [[BigDamnHeroes He leaps in]] with a FoeTossingCharge, [[JustInTime just in time]] to save everybody, and all are reconciled. AnAesop about [[ThePowerOfFriendship friendship and teamwork]] ensues.

Sometimes, the quitter is a character who doesn't seem necessary or even desirable. The episode is thus about giving them some character development and showing both the audience and the characters why this person was on the team. Common with WhatKindOfLamePowerIsHeartAnyway characters, but has the danger of falling into a PlotTailoredToTheParty.

This goes all the way back to [[Myth/ClassicalMythology Achilles sulking]] [[UsefulNotes/TheTrojanWar in his tent]] in Creator/{{Homer}}'s ''[[Literature/TheIliad Iliad]]'' (hence the trope name), making it OlderThanFeudalism. Although notably, he wouldn't come out until his best friend/[[KissingCousins cousin]]/boyfriend was actually [[ItsPersonal killed]] trying to [[ElCidPloy take his place]].

Contrast TenMinuteRetirement, WeWantOurJerkBack. Often followed by a HesBack moment.

Compare with JustFineWithoutYou and HoldingOutForAHero. See also ChangedMyMindKid. Heavily related to WeUsedToBeFriends. Not to be confused with ScrewThisImOuttaHere, which is when someone quits an activity out of fear or laziness rather than out of a feeling of having been wronged.

See also DeusExitMachina. A loose GoodCounterpart is DragonTheirFeet. If the villain refuses to come out, it's OrcusOnHisThrone.


[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
* ''Anime/MazingerZ'': Kouji Kabuto did this -[[{{Hotblooded}} out]] [[TheDeterminator of]] [[TheHero all people!]]- in episode 7. After mobs of people expressed their displeasure in having their hometown leveled by Humongous Mecha battles by harassing him, and after a quarrel with Sayaka, Kouji decided that since nobody wanted him fighting, he would stay in home. [[ChangedMyMindKid Of course, it did not last long]].
** Tetsuya also did it in the last episode of ''Anime/GreatMazinger''. He was so jealous of Kouji he refused to sortie in Great Mazinger to help him when he was struggling.
* ''Anime/SamuraiPizzaCats'' had an episode like this (No Talent Guido). Speedy and Polly get contracts for a singing career, leaving Guido feeling left out. The MonsterOfTheWeek attacks Little Tokyo while Speedy and Polly are recording a song. Guido refuses to fight, saying that maybe he had better things to do, too. Francine sends the rescue team to fight the monster. They do well until [[ThePsychoRangers the Rude Noise engage them.]] Guido finally snaps out of it, when he sees the rescue team get blown away. Just as Speedy gets his ass kicked and Polly is reduced to DamselInDistress Guido makes his grand entrance, dispatches the ninja crows in a cooly excecuted FoeTossingCharge and finishes off the monster. This also served to give Guido some actual CharacterDevelopment, showing him grow from simply a HandsomeLech to a JerkWithAHeartOfGold.
* This happened between Agumon and Masaru/Marcus in ''Anime/DigimonSavers''. After they fell out, Masaru tried to fight alone. He managed to beat up some ''[[JerkJock jerk ass baseball hooligans]]'', but when the MonsterOfTheWeek shows up (a ''[[PaletteSwap BlackGarurumon]]'') that's when he runs into trouble. Kutamon even lampshades this by saying how [=GeoGreymon=] would have been perfect to battle him.
* ''Anime/NeonGenesisEvangelion'': Shinji quits piloting after [[spoiler:his Eva is forced to try to kill one of his best friends]].
* Ken (also known as Mark) of ''Anime/ScienceNinjaTeamGatchaman'' / ''Anime/{{Battle of the Planets}}'' fame made a positive habit of quitting in a snit or going AWOL for his own reasons at the worst possible times.
* An inversion of this trope happens in a sports shounen manga, ''FightNoAkatsuki'' (Akatsuki's Fight), in that the leave-taking is actually an ''admirable and sensible'' thing. Two best friends, Akatsuki and Kiyo, are on opposite teams. The coach of the OpposingSportsTeam orders his players to injure Akatsuki so bad that he can't play anymore. Kiyo hurls a basketball at the jerk's head, says nuts to that, and sits the game out rather than be a part of that. After they fail to stop Akatsuki, Kiyo returns to the game to play against his best friend fairly.
* [[ArrogantKungFuGuy Chang Wufei]] spends an entire episode of ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamWing'' doing this after failing to kill Treize; it takes words of encouragement from future TeamMom Sally Po, and the deaths of her mercenary friends, to snap him out of his funk.
** This happened as early as the original ''Anime/MobileSuitGundam'' - Amuro heard Bright and Mirai talking about how dependent they are on Amuro being Gundam's pilot and, tired of being treated like he was, takes the Gundam and runs off. He does come back an episode or two later and they toss him in the brig for it.
** It also happens in ''Anime/MobileSuitGundam0083StardustMemory''. After wrecking the GP-01 before it could be modified for space combat, a distraught Kou Uraki disappears after one of his co-pilots drunkenly reads him the riot act. He disappears for awhile, befriending a Zeon pilot in the process before returning to duty.
** In ''Anime/GundamBuildDivers'', Koichi Nanase was one of the top Gunpla builders and players of the game preceeding Gunpla Battle Nexus Online, Gunpla Duel. However, when his friends abandoned him and the game in favor of GBN, Koichi is so devastated by it that he ends up retiring from everything and becomes a {{hikkiomori}} for four years until Riku and his friends come to him for help.
* ''Manga/OnePiece'' had a downplayed version of this trope play out over an entire ''two-year long story arc.'' Usopp protests when the crew decide to junk their broken-down old ship in favor of a shiny new one, as the ship had been given to them by his [[MyGirlBackHome girl back home]], and was practically one of the TrueCompanions. Told to get over it by Luffy (in a rare scene where he actually issues an order as captain) Usopp chooses to leave the crew instead. Later, our heroes find themselves in huge trouble, so Usopp returns to help out, but, unwilling to face his former comrades, he shows up in an [[PaperThinDisguise incredibly obvious disguise]] (which still manages to fool two of the more gullible crewmembers.) Despite helping save the day, he is still not asked back on the crew, (even though everyone really wanted him back) since he went against a direct order from his captain. Only when he apologizes without provocation (and, as it happened, does so very loudly) do our heroes welcome him back.
** This example even adds the second part of this trope, where the character's specific talents become needed. The story was a RescueArc, with Robin, the crewmember they were trying to rescue, being carried away by the NonActionBigBad. By the time anyone is in a position to stop him, he's too far away for anyone to do so, with the BigBad having a significant head start over even the guy closest to him. Fortunately, being a [[FriendlySniper sniper]], Usopp was able to slow him down from a distance, buying the previously mentioned closest guy time to catch up and administer a more direct rescue.
* In ''Anime/{{Pokemon}}'', Ash tried to get Pikachu to battle Misty at the Cerulean Gym, though at this early point in the series, Pikachu was uncomfortable battling a friend so Ash had to use his other Pokémon instead. If Pikachu had battled, Ash would have curbstomped Misty, something that Misty and even her sisters know.
** This actually comes up again in Ash and Misty's best two out of three battle to determine who keeps Totodile. Ash picks Pikachu as his first Pokémon, and Misty, knowing she wouldn't stand a chance with a regular Pokémon, actually pulls a pretty underhanded tactic and sends in Togepi, knowing Pikachu will refuse to hurt it.
* In ''Anime/CodeGeass'', Lelouch has a few moments like this after his various {{Trauma Conga Line}}s. The most unfortunately timed one is in R2 episode 19, where [[spoiler:because he's in his chambers and not responding to calls after his most recent and crushing one, Schneizel is able to almost completely demolish Lelouch's already-tenuous credibility as Zero and reveal his secret identity and mind control power]].
* A couple of cases in ''Manga/SailorMoon'':
** Sailor Mercury is prone to the more benevolent versions of the standard plot; she starts as the only Senshi without offensive abilities and is ''too nice'' to storm off. Instead, she's offered a chance to study abroad and further her goals of becoming a doctor, which will remove her from the Senshi. She's about to take it, but changed her mind at the last moment so returns in time to get her mid-season power upgrade (which finally makes her more action-geared) and rescue the rest of the team from a monster only weak to ice, and she returns to the fold. Later in the season, she's attacked by a monster that causes paranoia and self doubt, and she [[LotusEaterMachine hallucinates that everything everyone says to her is derisive and mean]]. Eventually, her faith that her friends would never say such horrible things allows her to break the spell and come back to everyone.
** Sailor Venus also has an episode where she decides to leave the Sailor Senshi -- not because she's upset, but because she wants time off from saving the world so she can rejoin the volleyball league she was forced to quit as well as get a boyfriend. Who should show up but a MonsterOfTheWeek with volleyball-related powers attacking Venus's love interest. After defeating the enemy, she then decides to go back to being a Sailor Senshi, possibly after learning that said love interest already has a girlfriend.
** Sailor Mars pulls this (and it's implied that she bullied Mercury into doing it as well) in the episode titled ''Restore Naru's Smile: Usagi's Friendship'' (''The Power of Friendship'' in the English dub). During a discussion, [[TheStarscream Mars states that she'd make a better leader than Sailor Moon]] and gets upset when the others point out that Usagi/Serena is getting better. Naru/Molly is missing Nephrite, she seeks the advice of a priest at a graveyard, Zoicite attacks. Usagi/Serena is luckily there and a message is sent to the other scounts for backup. It cuts to Makoto/Lita running through the streets complaining about how Rei/Ray and Ami/Amy refused to come along "Sailor Scouts can't go on strike!"
* In ''Manga/YuYuHakusho'''s Chapter Black Saga, Hiei, whose helping the heroes had until this point been reluctant, refuses to help them after hearing about the plan to open a portal to the Demon World, which would enable him, a B+ class demon to return there. He returns to [[BigDamnHeroes help Yusuke]] against Kaname "Sniper" Hagiri, and is persuaded to help after being offered the [[TitleDrop Chapter Black]] [[MacGuffin tape]].
* Brad/Ballad in ''{{Franchise/Zoids}}'' does this in one of the beginning episodes, refusing to fight the Backdraft Group because he won't get paid for it. Of course, he comes in at the last minute and saves everyone... because Dr. Toros offered him [[ButtMonkey Bit]]'s next few paychecks.
* ''Manga/{{Saiyuki}}'' has one of these for every one of the Sanzo party apart from Goku (although Hakkai's is anime-only), which results in the rest of them going "fine see if we care" and "we can manage just fine without...."
** When Gojyo stays behind to go after Kami-sama the others eventually go back, the reason they give is he's caused so much trouble they have to go beat him up. Which they do once they get there ([[BigDamnHeroes arriving at just the right time]]) however Gojyo realises he needs them; in a slight subversion, however, it is him who manages to save all of them when the building starts falling down.
** In the anime Hakkai ignores all of the others for a while because he's waiting for them to apologize for not tidying up as they promised to (reload filler is odd sometimes) they say "we're not apologizing, we can manage without him" and try to (Hakkai does all the cooking and cleaning and has taken the credit card so...). He breaks when Goku can't stand it any more and comes and tells him how horrible it is and basically makes the other two apologize.
** Sanzo's one lasts considerably longer than any other separation (they manage without him for longer, and he's more stubborn); he's gone off on his own private agenda for a bit.
** The only time they admit they can't manage without a member is when Jeep goes missing (Hakkai says that it's worse than when Gojyo left, causing the latter to object that he shouldn't place below a car).
* ''Anime/SoundOfTheSky''. Because of ParentalAbandonment [[HeroicBastard issues]], [[spoiler:Rio Kazumiya]] spends most of the series refusing her father requests to agree to an ArrangedMarriage that could stop an ongoing war. She eventually yields to prevent further bloodshed.
* A rare villainous version in ''Anime/FreshPrettyCure'': when one of the QuirkyMinibossSquad pulls a HeelFaceTurn and defects to the heroes, one of the remaining members tries to invoke this trope to bring her back. [[SubvertedTrope She turns him down every time]], but he keeps trying right up until the end of the series because of the friendship they used to share.
* Occurs in ''Anime/GalaxyAngel'' when Ranpha has quit the group to get married and settle down. Meanwhile, the Angels are tasked to pilot a giant combining mecha to fight galaxy monsters. Every one of their attempts to make the mecha combine ends in an explosion. Milfeuille remarks that "It seems we're no good without Ranpha." Being ''Galaxy Angel'', the trope is subverted when Ranpha arrives to save the day and the mecha still explodes.
* In ''Anime/DragonBallZ'', Goku tried to do this in the Buu saga, figuring that the world couldn't always rely on him to protect it and that others should take up his mantle. However, he was eventually forced to return and deal the final blow to the villain.

[[folder: Audio Play]]
* Michael from ''AudioPlay/WereAlive'' spent part of season 2 sulking in his room after [[spoiler:Burt]] took over as leader of The Tower. He comes out of it by volunteering to find medical help for [[spoiler: Saul]] and by the time he gets back he's ready to take back command.

[[folder:Comic Books]]
* The ComicBook/FantasticFour was notorious for this happening, particularly with the Thing.
* Again in Marvel, [[ComicBook/SubMariner Namor]] was rejected by the Atlanteans and later he rejected them. It took the god Neptune giving Namor his trident to change Namor's mind.
* Subverted in ''ComicBook/JusticeLeagueElite'' by Major Disaster who suffers a breakdown after his alcoholism gets a teammate killed. When the call comes for him to return, he refuses in an attempt to stay away from the things that drove him to drink in the first place. Vera Black decides to respect this rather than risk pushing him into a relapse. [[spoiler:He ''does'' answer the call during ''ComicBook/InfiniteCrisis'', where [[CListFodder he gets killed]].]]
* ComicBook/TheSentry from Marvel Comics tends to do this a lot. The main reason for this, of course, is that he is described as the world's most powerful hero and in all probability could solve any problems of other heroes nigh-instantly. In his first appearance in ''New Avengers'', he effortlessly flies Carnage into space and rips him in half. When his evil counterpart the Void emerges, it takes the entire New Avengers, the X-Men and the Fantastic Four just to hold it off long enough for the Sentry to beat it in a battle in the center of the mind.
* In ''ComicBook/JudgeDredd'', during the First Robot War, Dredd leaves the Justice Department when Goodman refuses to have all the robots in Mega-City One decommissioned. Sure enough, the [[TurnedAgainstTheirMasters robots rebel]], but Dredd comes back by the end of his retirement strip.
* In ''ComicBook/BatmanNoMansLand'', Batman himself pulls this after he fails to stop Congress from condemning Gotham City. An encounter with Talia al Ghul gets him to shape up and return to Gotham three months later.
* Omega Supreme has lived in seclusion since the Golden Age of Cybertron, only nominally allying with Autobots and generally believing that the Cybertronian race may be beyond salvation. However, after being attacked during the events of ''ComicBook/TheTransformersAllHailMegatron'' he returns to save the Autobots on Cybertron and begins to work more closely with the main Autobot army, even holding out hope that change is possible.
* Zig-zag: ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls'' story "Sounding Off" (Cartoon Network Block Party #33, DC run) has Blossom taking a vow of silence as a means to make Bubbles and Buttercup settle their arguments on their own instead of pestering her with them. This vow of silence continues even during a battle with a monster towards the final act, but after the monster knocks away Bubbles and Buttercup, Blossom tries to gain an upperhand but is captured and cannot call for help because now she has lost her voice. Bubbles and Buttercup team up to save her.

[[folder:Fan Works]]
* In ''FanFic/TheFifthAct'' Cloud gets Vincent to leave him by telling him where he can find Lucretia's cave so he could speak to her. Vincent leaves so he can get some closure and Cloud no longer has him as obstacle to his plans. He comes back when the Soldiers answer Cloud's PHS in their search for Cloud and helps to remind of Sephiroth of his humanity.
* In ''ComicBook/{{Supergirl}}'' fanfic ''Fanfic/HellsisterTrilogy'', Kara Zor-El of all people does this. In the course of a few weeks she has fought several inter-dimensional wars and been nearly killed by the Anti-Monitor, her own evil clone and Darkseid. This, on top of fourteen years fighting crooks and super-villains week after week has led to a burn-out and a strong desire to retiring. So, when the ComicBook/{{Legion Of Super-Heroes}} turns up to ask her help again, she turns them down. She reluctantly joins them, though, when they explain Darkseid has the son of two of her worst enemies.

[[folder:Films -- Animated]]
* Yet another non-combat version: In ''Disney/TheJungleBook'' Bagheera throws up his paws in desperation at Mowgli's continued rebellion, only to return when he gets in trouble again. He returns no less than three times: upon Mowgli's initial encounter with Baloo (which turns out to be a false alarm), when Mowgli gets kidnapped by monkeys, and when Mowgli runs away from Baloo.
* ''Disney/AladdinTheReturnOfJafar'' has Iago try to fly off after [[HeelFaceTurn breaking the good guys out of prison]] but before the final confrontation with Jafar.... only to fly back in later and save the day, with a resounding cry of, "HEY, JAFAR! '''SHUT UP!!!'''"

[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
* ''Film/{{Troy}}''. [-"We stay until Agamemnon ''groans'' to have Achilles back!"-]
* Parodied somewhat in ''Film/TeamAmericaWorldPolice'', where Gary is accused of this despite the fact that his abilities would have been obviously useless--[[spoiler: though, of course, they eventually do need an actor for the final mission]].
* [[TheLancer Lancelot]] becomes a partially insane vagrant in the movie ''Film/{{Excalibur}}'' who blames the king for bringing a pestilence upon the land. At the climatic battle, he returns to fight by the king's side.
* ''Film/XMenFilmSeries'':
** ''Film/TheWolverine'': Logan has quit the X-Men for at least a year, and isolates himself within the Yukon wilderness because he is unable to cope with his guilt for being forced to kill Jean Grey.
** ''Film/XMenDaysOfFuturePast'': 1973 Charles Xavier gives up on his powers and his role as the leader of mutants, and refuses to cooperate with Wolverine; without his aid, the entire venture is impossible. He's got more [[JustifiedTrope justified reasons]] than in most examples of the trope.
* A non-combat variant of this occurs in ''Film/ThisIsSpinalTap''. Due to an increasing series of setbacks and personality conflicts, Nigel Tufnel stomps off in the middle of a show (which is going very badly), effectively quitting the band. The band's fortunes continue to get worse, as their venues and audiences get smaller, and they're forced to cut all of Nigel's songs (eliminating the bulk of their set). Finally, in the last ever performance of what's left of Spinal Tap, Nigel returns with an offer to reunite for a Japanese tour supporting their latest album. Rejected at first, he's invited back, as an expression of the ThePowerOfRock[=/=]ThePowerOfFriendship.
* Another non-combat version: Hardy Kruger's character in ''Film/TheFlightOfThePhoenix1965''.
* Lola and the Milan fashion show in ''Film/KinkyBoots''.
* In ''Film/TallTale'', Paul Bunyan has become a recluse after the logging industry was modernized.

* Named for the famous incident in Creator/{{Homer}}'s ''[[Literature/TheIliad Iliad]]'', which fits the formula almost perfectly, with an added touch. Agamemnon tries to coax Achilles back by meeting the demands he originally made before the new threat, but Achilles [[OffTheTable now refuses them]]. Also, in stark contrast to modern TV examples, Achilles does not learn AnAesop about teamwork or friendship. He re-enters battle out of pure blood rage, after his best friend and cousin Patroclus kicks the bucket, and winds up forming an OddFriendship with the enemy king instead of with Agamemnon.
* The Achilles situation is exactly mirrored in the final book of the ''Literature/{{Percy Jackson and the Olympians}}'' series: Clarisse, daughter of Ares, refuses to let any of her siblings join the fight because they won a prize in battle that got taken away. Even after they get it back, she won't fight in the war. [[spoiler: Eventually Clarisse's new best friend, Silena, daughter of Aphrodite, steals her armor, leads the rest of Ares's children into battle, and gets killed in the fight.]] Clarisse then rejoins the war, just like Achilles.
** Well, given that the entire series is a big ShoutOut to Myth/ClassicalMythology, and just about every event is some modernized version of an ancient Greek myth, you knew this one had to turn up sooner or later. [[spoiler: Percy even gets the same powers as Achilles in said book by bathing in the river Styx. And Achilles' shade makes an appearance to try to talk him out of it.]]
** In the same book, Hades refuses to help his fellow Olympians against Kronos.
* In ''Literature/HarryPotterAndTheDeathlyHallows'', Ron temporarily storms out of the plot and returns just in time to save Harry from almost certain death.
* The Franchise/StarWarsLegends featured Garm Bel Iblis, a founder of the Rebellion who left when he felt it was risking becoming a dictatorship, feeling that replacing the Emperor with an Empress wouldn't be an improvement. After realizing his folly, he returns but refuses to take command of the fleet, even while they're being attacked, by an enemy commander that only he is skilled enough to match. He finally gives in after speaking with Mon Mothma.
* [[PlayingWithATrope Played with]] in Creator/TadWilliams' ''Literature/{{Otherland}}'' series. In a memorable sequence, the protagonists find themselves in a [[MetaVerse computer simulated version]] of the actual Trojan War, filling the shoes of many of that story's heroes. Orlando is Achilles, but in a subversion, the reason he can't come out to fight is because he's [[YouCanBarelyStand genuinely too ill]]. The {{NPC}}s still treat him according to the story line, though, forcing [[{{Sidekick}} Sam]] (as Patroclus) to don Achilles' armor and confront Hector. In trying to rescue her, the protagonists inadvertently trigger Hector's death and the subsequent sacking of Troy.
* The entire premise of ''Literature/AtlasShrugged'' is that the people really important to civilization decide that it's no longer their job to let their skills benefit if they themselves cannot also enjoy the fruits of their labor. Of course, here it's portrayed as the right thing to do.
* An interesting [[InvertedTrope inversion]] occurs in ''Literature/{{Aztec}}'', where the protagonist, Mixtli, tends to leave the city and go wandering about whenever he suffers a HeroicBSOD, rather than stay at home. It has the same effect on his friends and companions, though.
* In ''Literature/SeptimusHeap'', Septimus runs off from the Quarantine laid around the Palace in a fit of anger after having been excluded from the Quarantine Spell.
* In Creator/MichaelFlynn's ''[[Literature/SpiralArm Up Jim River]]'', the Pedant does this. More than once.
* In ''Literature/AGameOfThrones'' Ned Stark recalls how he and Robert had a bitter argument about the murder of Elia Targaryen and her children, and he left King's Landing horrified. The two of them managed to patch things up only after Lyanna's death.
* ''Literature/DonQuixote'': Being present in a lot of ChivalricRomance books (Amadis of Gaul, Beltenebros and Orlando did it), this trope is parodied by Don Quixote: When he is at the Sierra Morena forest, he invokes this trope by sending Sancho with a letter to Dulcinea (his imaginary love interest) explaining her that he will be in the forest until she forgives him… Even when don Quixote has not made anything against her. This madness will force [[ThoseTwoGuys the Curate and the Barber]] to ask Dorotea to pretend to be a princess and ask Don Quixote a favour to get him out of the forest.
-->'' "It seems to me," said Sancho, "[[FridgeLogic that the knights who behaved in this way had provocation and cause for those follies and penances; but what cause has your worship for going mad? What lady has rejected you, or what evidence have you found to prove that the lady Dulcinea del Toboso has been trifling with Moor or Christian?"]]''
-->'' "There is the point," replied Don Quixote, "[[InsaneTrollLogic and that is the beauty of this business of mine; no thanks to a knight-errant for going mad when he has cause; the thing is to turn crazy without any provocation, and let my lady know, if I do this in the dry, what I would do in the moist;]] ''
* In ''Literature/{{Animorphs}}'', team leader Jake pulls this towards the end of the series. Though it's more justified than most examples, seeing as how he was grieving over his failure to keep his parents from getting infested.
* Name-checked in Creator/CSLewis' ''Literature/TheGreatDivorce'', where Creator/GeorgeMacDonald, the narrator's guide through the afterlife, explains why some souls voluntarily choose damnation over salvation:
--> "Ye see it easily enough in a spoiled child that would sooner miss its play and its supper than say it was sorry and be friends. Ye call it the Sulks. But in adult life it has a hundred fine names --Achilles' wrath and Coriolanus' grandeur, Revenge and Injured Merit and Self-Respect and Tragic Greatness and Proper Pride."
* [[SatanIsGood Sammael]] spends centuries alone in a tower because he gets fed up with the eloim and their ideas of how to live on Earth in ''Literature/BuryingTheShadow''. Gimel finally manages to bring him back in their hour of need after things nearly go to hell, but it's not as epic as everyone expects.
* In [[''Literature/WingsOfFire'' ''Winter Turning'']], Winter leaves the group to be with his brother and tribe, saying that he hates them all anyway, but ends up returning when [[spoiler:he realizes leaving the Ice kingdom is his only choice besides dying or killing his aforementioned brother, plus having an epiphany about how his friends are more important than their home.]]
* In ''Literature/TheDinosaurLords'', after Karyl comes to conclusion that he's a DoomMagnet and his BadDreams are becoming not only a nightly occurence, but also more intense, he completely withdraws from leading his own army. He does come back eventually when Rob finally manages to break it to him that he's the only man for the job.
* In the penultimate book of ''Literature/TheSpiritThief'', following [[spoiler:Karon's apparent death]], Eli locks himself up in Osera's tallest tower and tries to hide from the entire war taking place outside, as while he could save everyone, [[spoiler:it would mean giving himself up to Benehime]]. He leaves once he hits the DespairEventHorizon.

[[folder:Live Action TV]]
* ''Series/GameOfThrones'': Kevan Lannister refuses to kowtow to Cersei and retires to Casterly Rock, declaring that the ''king'' is free to call upon him at any time.
* A rare non-combat example: the 1980s children's puppet show ''Series/TheLetterPeople.'' In an early episode, Miss A gets into a fight with the other letters and quits. Since Miss A was the only vowel in the cast at this point, nobody can form a word without her and they have to beg her to come back. (Since she was also the only female letter introduced at this point, this may have been a sly way to teach feminism to the target audience.)
* In ''Series/{{Angel}}'', Wesley left, not entirely of his own volition (he was heavily injured), [[strike:after]] during Season 3 and his mistake with Connor, followed by about a season of intermittent contact with the team, during which they sometimes sorely missed his talent. He just sort of drifted back in about mid-season 4 with the whole Cordy crisis.
* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'':
** The premiere of the second season. In "When She Was Bad" Buffy comes back from her summer in L.A. still steaming with [[spoiler:issues from being killed for a minute in the Season One finale.]] When the Master's men [[spoiler:steal the Master's bones with the intent to resurrect him]], Buffy explodes at Giles and blows off the Scooby Gang's attempts at consoling her. This lasts until [[spoiler:Willow, Giles, Cordelia, and Miss Calender are captured by the vampires for the resurrection ritual]]. In this case, the prompt for her glorious return is less that she realizes that she's needed and more that it's brutally spelled out for her by Xander, who basically gives her an "[[WhatTheHellHero As a result of this mess I'm completely over indulging your self-pity; get over yourself and do what you should have done in the first place]]" speech.
** Buffy getting deposed by her own pupils in Season 7, who install Faith as their new leader. One episode and bomb explosion later, and everyone goes crawling back to blondie.
* Also happened in an episode of ''Series/ParkerLewisCantLose'', involving Larry Kubiac and the football team.
** Blink and you'll miss the O.J. Simpson cameo.
* In ''Series/StarTrekVoyager'', Janeway does this in the episode "Night". The ship has entered a void, no stars, no planets, no gases, absolutely nothing. They slowly go [[SpaceMadness stir crazy]] and She falls into despair and remains in her quarters, blaming herself for stranding them in the Delta Quadrant. [[NumberTwo Chakotay]] tries to get her out of it citing the crew needs their captain, but she ignores him. An alien attack however, brings her back to protect her crew.
* In ''Series/RobinHood'': Robin overpowers Guy and ties him to a tree after realizing that he is man behind the attempted assassination of King Richard. He gets so wound up that he nearly resorts to torture and refuses to listen to his men who feel that it's more important to stage a rescue mission to save a fellow team-mate that's been captured. After several failed attempts, during which Robin just sits under a tree, the outlaws return unvictorious and it takes Marian to snap Robin out of it and suggest a hostage trade.
* In season 5 of ''Series/BabylonFive'', [[spoiler:Garibaldi]] is assigned to monitor intelligence reports and coordinate the peacekeeping forces to prevent a war from flaring up. While he's busy [[DrowningMySorrows drowing his sorrows]], the war escalates and the peacekeeping forces are unable to regain control before [[spoiler:Centauri Prime]] is bombarded from orbit.
* In ''Series/BetweenTheLions'', Click (the computer mouse) is jealous of Lionel and Leona making a fanclub for the little brown mouse (in the Lion and the Mouse), due to them thinking of her (the mouse) as a hero, and decides to leave. But then she finds out that Cleo is in a trap in the book and needs to be rescued, and returns.
* Happens in ''Series/{{Glee}}'' in the episode Sectionals, when Finn abandons New Directions after learning that Quinn's baby isn't his and that the rest of the club had helped her to keep the secret. Naturally, he shows up to sectionals right after their two competitors finish performing (all of New Directions' intended songs) with new pieces prepared and ready to go.
* In the ''Series/{{MASH}}'' episode "The Late Captain Pierce", a clerical error leads to Hawkeye being declared LegallyDead. Tired of the war, and tired of attempting to get the mistake corrected by the Army bureaucracy (and to contact his father back home to let him know he's okay), he takes off with the ambulance that's there to collect his "corpse", just when new casualties arrive. After the ambulance leaves the camp, it stops, and Hawkeye walks back to the 4077.
* A very temporary incident happens in ''Series/PowerRangersInSpace''. Carlos loses confidence in himself and leaves the team after a MonsterOfTheWeek uses his teleportation to swap himself with one of the other Rangers he was grappling with, causing Carlos to harm them. Encountering [[Series/MightyMorphinPowerRangers Adam]] and a second chance at the incident gives Carlos the strength to fight on and return to the team.
* The 2012 ''Series/DoctorWho'' Christmas special sees the Doctor hiding out in Victorian London with the TARDIS parked on an artificial cloud, claiming to have given up saving the world after being separated from Amy and Rory.
** Later revealed that the Eighth Doctor was this to the Time War, only getting involved in the last minutes before his regeneration, and only when he passed the DespairEventHorizon about said war and realized it had to end ASAP.
* ''Series/{{Alias}}'': When Dixon learns the truth about SD-6, and that Sydney's been a double-agent for the CIA for a while, he feels incredibly betrayed. Although he's offered a good position with the CIA, he quits entirely and wants nothing more to do with Sydney ever, nor the intelligence world, nor the team he used to be a part of (who have all joined the CIA). A dangerous mission crops up that desperately needs Dixon's personal knowledge but he refuses to get involved, so Sydney takes his place. When she's captured because of information she lacked, Dixon rushes in to save her life, rebuilds his relationship with her and joins the CIA.
* In the ''Series/StarTrekTheNextGeneration'' episode "Peak Performance", Data loses a game of strategy that he expected to win. Because of it, he loses confidence in his abilities and stays in his quarters, trying to determine what is wrong with his programming. Several crewmembers try to get him out of it and back on the bridge; Dr. Pulaski at one point marches straight into his quarters and [[LampShadeHanging demands]], "How long are you going to be sulking like Achilles in his tent?" He's convinced that he's not unreliable and takes his place on the bridge in time to assist in a sudden crisis and formulate the plan to save the crew.
* ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'': The season five episode ''The Friendship Contraction''. After one bout too many of Sheldon's demanding behavior, Leonard finally decides that he's had enough of Sheldon's self serving roommate agreement, so signs the form to suspend it. [[EntitledBastard Assuming that the rest of the group would leap at the chance to do Leonard's usual services for a mention in Sheldon's memoirs]], Sheldon seeks volunteers and finds that nobody wants to be his personal chauffeur. The episode highlights how much trouble Sheldon has functioning on his own. He even resorts to cutting the entire building's power just to try and bride Leonard into reinstating the "[[BlatantLies Mutual]] [[ItsAllAboutMe benefits]]" of the roommate agreement.

* Ilya Muromets from [[Myth/RussianMythologyAndTales Russian mythology]]. In one legend, his break with Prince Vladimir seems to be forever, but actually only lasts until a new threat for their Motherland appears. Reluctant Ilya agrees to go fighting, "not for the Prince, but for the sake of common Russian people".
** Actually, a recurring trope in Russian mythology. A number of heroes acted in a similar way. A similar line is attributed to Alexander Nevsky.[[/folder]]

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* This trope pretty much defines Wrestling/{{Sting}}'s career in Wrestling/{{WCW}} through the entire year of 1997. Hell, if this was a pro wrestling site this page might be called "Sting In The Rafters", as the sight of him staring down in disdain at feuding parties has become shorthand for many a refusal of involvement or question of allegiance.

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%% * Falco from ''VideoGame/StarFox'' did this in ''[[VideoGame/StarFoxAdventures Adventures]]'', and in one of the endings in ''[[VideoGame/StarFoxCommand Command]]''.
* Susano, the FakeUltimateHero of ''VideoGame/{{Okami}}'', does this when he finally admits, to the villagers and himself, that the Orochi of legend was real and he has released it. It takes his girlfriend, Kushi, to shake him out of it, and even then she is nearly eaten by Orochi herself.

* In ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'', Roy decides not to help the rest of the team rescue Elan, because Elan is too useless to be worth the risk. He changes his mind the following night, after he realizes how much of an asshole he's being.
** More that he realizes he is being untrue to himself by abandoning Elan - his whole reason for becoming a fighter and an adventurer was to help others. [[spoiler:When Roy dies (he gets better), he learns that had he not gone back, he'd have ended up in a rather worse afterlife. Though it also helped that in a later adventure he acted more promptly to save Elan's life.]]
* Referenced in one ''Webcomic/PennyArcade'' comic in which Gabe asks his Guildmaster permission to try a different MMO. [[http://penny-arcade.com/comic/2009/06/29 The Guildmaster's]] response is to purposefully do something that requires Gabe's character.
--> '''Gabe:''' But...that is suicide!\\
'''Kiko:''' Is it, druid? I call it '''murder'''.
* In ''Webcomic/BobAndGeorge'', [[http://www.bobandgeorge.com/archives/000424c Dr. Light observes they can't manage without Megaman.]]
* In ''Webcomic/{{Erfworld}}'', despite his defense of Gobwin Knob being an overwhelming success, Parson distances himself from military strategy at the end of Book 1 after seeing the enormous death toll his command caused for both sides. He spends the inter-book updates and the first third of Book 2 managing the city, which in Erfworld terms means just walking around symbolic buildings to increase their efficiency. He believes this will not cause any moral consequences. Then suddenly Ansom, who replaced him as Chief Warlord, falls into a trap at the Siege of Spacerock, Parson is reappointed Chief Warlord against his will, and has to once again save his side from near-certain defeat. This time, however, he decides to join his subordinates at the battlefield and face possible death with them, instead of strategizing from the safety of the war room.
* In ''Webcomic/{{Nebula}}'', after a long period of tension, Sun loses his patience with the planets, [[HairTriggerTemper declaring the entire meeting with them over after a quasi-imagined slight]] (with [[HearingVoices Earth]] not helping their case) and leaving without being willing to do anything to help them about the HumanoidAbomination that's watching them.
** But then when it eventually ''does'' attack and the others are incapacitated by pain and begging for his help, he comes back to defend them and ends up saving their lives.
* Deconstructed in ''Webcomic/SleeplessDomain''. After having an argument with one of her teammates, the team's leader Tessa decides to sit out in the hunt that night to try and teach them a lesson. She ends up worrying and goes out looking for them. [[spoiler: She finds all but one of her team dead and the survivor quickly fading away.]]

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* In Series 2 of ''Literature/{{Phaeton}}'' Sierra does this when she sees the petrified orphans.

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* One of the very first ''WesternAnimation/ThomasTheTankEngine'' episodes written featured Henry trying this in "[[Recap/ThomasTheTankEngineS1E3TheSadStoryOfHenry The Sad Story of Henry]]". In this case the episode ended with Henry being locked in the "tent" he sulks in for "Always and Always and Always." and it wasn't until the following episode that Henry got to make up for his wrong-doings and save the day.
** In "[[Recap/ThomasTheTankEngineS1E16TroubleInTheShed Trouble in the Shed]]" Henry tries it again, along with Gordon and James and once again, it backfires. The Fat Controller shuts them up and gets Thomas and Edward to run the line.
* ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'': Ron quits when he thinks Kim is jealous of his new success at Bueno Nacho. Kim thinks she can do without the goofy sidekick, but it turns out he's vital. Him or his naked mole rat?
* ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans'': Cyborg quits after a fight with Robin, then returns just in time to save Robin, and then they save everyone else.
* A couple of times in ''WesternAnimation/TheodoreTugboat''. In "Guysborough's Garbage" the eponymous Guysborough refuses to collect garbage, resulting in the Big Harbour becoming a big mess. A visiting ship, to whom cleanliness is SeriousBusiness insists on leaving the harbour.
** There was also one time when Hank, feeling that no one respected him because of his short name, changed his name to Henry. After a big mix up, a large barge goes out of control and speeds through the harbour. Hank is the only one fast enough to catch the barge but he ignores their pleas for help until Theodore addresses him as Henry.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{WITCH}}'': Cornelia quits when the team fails to protect her best friend, Elyon Brown, from the bad guys, blaming Will because it was her decision to keep Elyon LockedOutOfTheLoop that led to her being deceived by Phobos. Without the full team, everybody else's powers are weakened (which strangely didn't happen the last time the girls had to send a partial team), and new monsters attack who Cornelia's powers would have been perfect for. She inevitably snaps out of her funk in time to save everybody. This turned out to be a turning point, giving Cornelia real CharacterDevelopment for the first time.
* In an episode of ''WesternAnimation/{{Recess}}'', Gus refuses to take sides in a dodgeball fight, despite being a dodgeball virtuoso at one of his older schools. Upon seeing a younger student getting clobbered, however, he enters rage mode and proceeds to wipe out the opposing team single-handedly.
** Another episode had T.J. depressed after their plan to break in to the Ashleys' clubhouse failed and Gus sprained his ankle. The rest of the group tries another break-in and upon seeing that it's going wrong, T.J. steps in and salvages their plan. As it turns out, the heavy flaws were intentional by the group, in order to help T.J. get his confidence back.
** Recess really likes this one, as yet another episode features Vince giving up on kickball after he is shown up on the field by one of the Ashleys, only to come back and kick a ball all the way into outer space at the end.
* A variation of this is shown in ''WesternAnimation/BeastWars'', where Tigatron does this after he accidentally kills (a non-Transformer) [[strike:tiger friend]] ''his mate'' in a firefight, and only returns after he realizes the bad guys aren't going to stop destroying if he does nothing. Somewhat unique in the fact that the teammate that attempts to coerce him back into the fray is a battle-hungry warrior who attempts to strong-arm him under threat of death, which certainly didn't help matters any.
* ''WesternAnimation/{{Captain Planet|AndThePlaneteers}}'' had at least two episodes with [[WhatKindOfLamePowerIsHeartAnyway Ma-Ti]] angsting, trying to quit the team and having to come back to save the day. Hell, Kwame tried to quit once in the middle of an HeroicBSOD, and he was the de facto leader of the team. There was also a two-parter episode where Wheeler tries to change history so that he never became a Planeteer, only to travel forward in time and discover the world was destroyed by global warming because everyone was DOOMED without him.
* This happened to ''WesternAnimation/TheTick'' in "The Tick Vs. Arthur's Bank Account". Handy the Hand Puppet even points out the allusion.
-->'''Handy:''' Even now he sulks like Achilles in his tent! ''(beat)'' Achilles? The Iliad? It's Homer?! ''Read a book!''
* ''Franchise/TeenageMutantNinjaTurtles'' used this trope more than once, with more than one turtle.
** The entire ''WesternAnimation/{{TMNT}}'' movie could be a variation on this theme. Leonardo has stayed in South America for a year after his training was supposed to be over. While he's gone, Raphael develops some serious anger issues with his older brother, and sort of does the inverted Achilles in His Tent as the team falls apart: he goes out and fights crime solo as the Nightwatcher while his two younger brothers work menial jobs, watch television, and play video games. When Leo comes back, Raph is way too angry to reconcile with him, and keeps up his Nightwatcher act until Leo - literally - "unmasks" him. Leo and Raph duel, and Raph almost wins, but backs off when he realizes he's become angry enough to actually hurt (kill?) his own brother. As Raphael runs away, he hears Leo scream as the BigBad and his FiveBadBand capture him. He tries to go after Leo, but the bad guys get away. Raphael returns home, where Splinter gives him some EpiphanyTherapy, after which he leads the other turtles (with some help) to storm the bad guys' tower and rescue Leo.
** In the 2nd season of [[WesternAnimation/TeenageMutantNinjaTurtles2012 the 2012 series]], April tells the Turtles she never wants to see them again after their blunder earlier on causes the Kraang's shipment of mutagen to get scattered all over New York and one of the canisters mutates her father into a monster bat.
* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' had an episode where Marge buys an SUV, gets road rage, and has her license revoked. The next day, Homer's idiocy causes a breakout of rhinos at the zoo. Chief Wiggum immediately comes crawling back begging her to put her anger to good use, but Marge stubbornly refuses. That is until she looks at the TV and sees her family surrounded.
* ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'' lampooned this with exterminators in one episode. One of them, named Logan, is having an emotional breakdown because his family was carried off by fire ants. But he shows up just in time to save his fellow exterminators from a flea infestation. Please note that instead of being "exterminators" with insecticides, they're basically a bunch of soldiers with guns and body armor. Also please note that the "Rescue" was shooting one single flea that was approaching three heavily armored men.
* ''WesternAnimation/ThePowerpuffGirls'' does this in one episode. Bubbles gets humongous glasses and is teased by her sisters until she flies away, sobbing. Turns out that they need her help to fight a giant ant, and while Blossom and Buttercup's heat vision isn't strong enough, Bubbles' sure is when it's magnified 10 fold by her glasses, killing the monster and saving the day.
** Blossom goes through this in "Not So Awesome Blossom." Her confidence is shot after her strategy against Mojo Jojo's droid army causes collateral damage to the city. Blossom can't do anything right to the point where she runs away from home. Mojo uses this as a bargaining chip against her.
* In one episode of ''WesternAnimation/TotallySpies'', Alex quits WOOHP, and is replaced by Britney. The former returns to action when the latter and the other spies are captured.
* ''WesternAnimation/RegularShow'':
** In "Prankless", Muscle Man quits pranking after nearly killing Pops. They need him back when a rival park restarts a prank war that Muscle Man succeeded in winning in the past.
** In "Skips Strikes", Skips resigns from his bowling team when Death threatens to reveal Skips' secret to his team if they win. In the end, Skips decides to participate anyway when he learns his teammates will lose their souls if they lose, and before he makes a winning strike he tells Death:
--> '''Skips:''' My friends' souls are more important than my secret. You wanna tell them [[spoiler: my real name isn't Skips]], go ahead.
* This happens in ''WesternAnimation/ScoobyDooMysteryIncorporated'' with Fred Jones in the season 1 finale, after he discovers that [[spoiler: Mayor Fred Jones Sr. was never his real dad, and stole him from Brad Chiles and Judy Reeves so that the original Mystery Incorporated would never go back into Crystal Cove. Fred quits the gang so that he can search for his biological parents, and leaves with the WhamLine]].
-->'''Fred:''' [[spoiler: Mystery Incorporated is dead]].
* In the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' episode "[[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS4E24EquestriaGames Equestria Games]]", after Spike [[CringeComedy butchers the Cloudsdale anthem]], he spends the remainder of the Games sulking in his room pretending to pack for the train ride home. He completes this trope with his BigDamnHeroes moment of melting the cloud iceberg.
* This was in effect for most of Season 2 ''WesternAnimation/IronMan'', as Force Works effectively disbands after Tony fakes his death. That stunt was the straw that broke the camel's back for Hawkeye, Scarlet Witch, and Century, and they proceed to leave in disgust, leaving only the Julia Carpenter Spider-Woman and War Machine with Tony. They do come {{back for the|Finale}} GrandFinale, albeit with TeethClenchedTeamwork on both War Machine's and Hawkeye's parts as they are hostile to the other's side after what happened.
* ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'':
** In a season 1 episode, after Aang hides a map to where Katara and Sokka's father (the chieftain of their tribe) is located, he feels guilty and admits the truth. Sokka gets angry and Katara gets disappointed in him, and they leave him behind. But after they hear how Bato (their father's friend) ended up in the same position Aang was in, they decide to find Aang again and apologize. And Aang goes back to his friends after hearing that Zuko is trailing them with a bounty hunter.
** In a season 2 episode, Toph and Katara get into a fight (lack of sleep can do that to you), and Aang tries to settle things down between them. That is, until Toph insults Appa and says that the reason the Fire Nation is following them is because of Appa's shedding fur, and Aang loses his cool with her. Because of this, Toph leaves the group and meets up with Iroh, whose time she spent with convinces her to return to the team just in time when Azula fights Team Avatar.
** Same can be for Zuko, who briefly leaves his uncle Iroh behind at a hot spring in season 1. When he ends up getting captured by Earth Kingdom soldiers, he has to [[FriendOrIdolDecision choose between pursuing Aang or rescuing Iroh]], and he chooses the latter in a cool BigDamnHeroes moment.
* Larry-Boy often did this a few times in ''WesternAnimation/VeggieTalesInTheHouse'', either because no one appreciates his work (Ichabeezer) or someone takes his identity (Jimmy Gourd). This doesn't last though, as Bob does convinces him at the end of those episodes to come back.
* In an early episode of ''WesternAnimation/SpongebobSquarepants'', Spongebob quickly loses his confidence in his skills as a fry cook when an infamously picky customer claims he left out the pickles on his Krabby Patty. The Krusty Krab falls apart while everyone is trying to get Spongebob back in the game, who has lost his confidence in ''everything''. When Spongebob returns and confronts the customer again, the customer learns his little trick [[ItOnlyWorksOnce can only work once]] as Spongebob realizes what happened to the pickles, making the customer flee.

* Some people on message boards do this in an attempt to prove how indispensable they are. You've probably come by more than a few of those "''Leaving the fandom, back in five minutes!''" types. This is especially prominent in MMORPG message boards whenever a game takes a turn that a player does not like. Of course, many Free-2-Play games subvert this by usually saying "I quit" posts are not allowed and they are free to come back at any time.
** And then there are people who fake their deaths and return as (often badly disguised) sock puppets to grieve and pile on the "posthumous" praise.
* In the late days of People's Republic of Poland, after the introduction of martial law, many people in the media decided to quit their (well-paid jobs) as way of protest against the regime. Because of the scale it was an additional hit to the image of the government.