[[quoteright:330:[[TabletopGame/{{Warhammer40000}} http://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/commissar_hug_4117.png]]]]
[[caption-width-right:330:Not all commissars lead through fear...]]

->''"Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys; look on them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death."''
-->-- '''Sun Tzu''', ''Literature/TheArtOfWar''

%% One quote is sufficient. Please place additional entries on the quotes tab.

This commander cares deeply about his men and [[TheMenFirst exhibits it constantly]]. A [[MentorArchetype mentor]] to the officers under him, he takes a deep personal interest in their welfare and tries to keep them out of harm's way. He would never say, "WeHaveReserves" (unless it would save more lives in the long run--but [[NotSoStoic expect him to be torn up about it]], though he may hide it [[BadDreams almost perfectly]]--and certainly never [[GloryHound to make him look better]]). Staff officers, engineers, and the CampCook will be treated with respect and made to feel as valued as the troops on the front line, though he'll not put up with [[ObstructiveBureaucrat bureaucratic nonsense]]. He will never lay claim to work actually performed by his subordinates, and [[ThinkNothingOfIt will try to pass the credit to where it's due if it is misattributed to him]]. He will [[ItsAllMyFault accept responsibility for any mistakes]], even if it was not entirely his fault, especially if the failure would result in severe punishment for a subordinate. He often follows up by treating his subordinate's mistakes as {{Career Building Blunder}}s. And when his subordinates actually die, he will make sure to [[TheDeadHaveNames remember all of their names and faces]].

Usually a military mastermind who disdains [[ZergRush wave attack carnages]] and instead will plan so that his faction will have the least casualties possible.

[[StrategyVersusTactics Strategic, operational, or tactical]] blunders are usually the fault of [[GeneralFailure those above him]] or [[TheNeidermeyer below him]]. His career is often handicapped or cut tragically short by the [[ModernMajorGeneral incompetent]] [[ArmchairMilitary High Command]], his true worth appreciated only by the men he commanded. Or at least, that's the impression he projects to the troops.

This character generally cultivates [[TeamDad a father-figure atmosphere]]. He is a source of morale, discipline and stability. Usually this is through a gentle reasoning tone, but sometimes he's a more strict (read harsh) father figure. In this instance expect a [[NewMeat new soldier]] transferred to the unit to hate him, and for one of the older veterans to take him aside and tell a nice PetTheDog story about the commanding officer. Sometimes all his soldiers are new; this will result in hatred until the soldiers either survive something that could have killed them, or accomplish a difficult objective, and realize that they would have died or failed without his strict training.

He is often utilized more as a device ''after'' he has left the scene, as an idealized counterbalance to the [[TheNeidermeyer incompetent]] who succeeds him. This is probably because he's far more effective as a saint, and it'd be hard to maintain such an image when he's actually coordinating operations, especially cursed with HollywoodTactics like he is. Indeed, an officer who learns YouAreInCommandNow may find his troops are LosingTheTeamSpirit over this commander's death--though he can issue a RousingSpeech reminding them that the dead commander would be SoProudOfYou if they soldier on.

Sometimes he's used to make the troops unhappy with their new commander, even if he is a good one--similar to the "You're Not My Mother" response given even to kind substitute authority figures.

Other times he's a character who gets called in to deliver an Aesop after the soldiers mess up. Or he might be a mostly off screen character who gives the main characters [[SoProudOfYou a reason to try and do better]], and to be embarrassed when they make a stupid mistake.

When an enemy, he is often the WorthyOpponent or FriendlyEnemy. If he's a subordinate, the BigBad's [[ItsAllAboutMe lack of concern]] for his men may be a source of MistreatmentInducedBetrayal.

Despite the title and the use of a male pronoun, this trope is sometimes {{Gender Flip}}ped.

Most of the movie and TV examples in TheCaptain are of this type.

SisterTrope to OfficerAndAGentleman, and they may overlap. If he is a BlueBlood, he will not care that his soldiers are commoners. This often surprises other BlueBlood officers.

Related to TheLastDJ, BenevolentBoss. Compare PapaWolf and the aforementioned TeamDad. See also ThePatriarch and ReasonableAuthorityFigure.

Compare ''and'' contrast SergeantRock who is also competent and cares for his men, but has a tougher, harder leadership style. Contrast TheNeidermeyer who is nasty and incompetent and DrillSergeantNasty who is either competent or incompetent as the plot directs. A WeHaveReserves commander works in the opposite way.
* AFatherToHisMen/AnimeAndManga
* AFatherToHisMen/{{Literature}}
* AFatherToHisMen/LiveActionTV
* AFatherToHisMen/VideoGames
* AFatherToHisMen/RealLife


* Jackie Estacado, head of a New York mob family, and host of a being called ''ComicBook/TheDarkness'', may not be the most saintly person in the world, but he will show you no mercy if you dare go after his men. Jackie is LawfulNeutral, choosing to follow a set of old-school honor and codes, one of which is "look after your people." The mobsters, in return, have UndyingLoyalty to their boss.
* If you're a SuperVillain, it is a very, ''very'', '''''very''''' bad idea to hurt a member of the Franchise/JusticeLeagueOfAmerica when Franchise/{{Superman}}'s around. There's a reason he's the default leader of the team.
* Just about every leader, or just high-ranking member, of the ComicBook/XMen is this.
** Xavier, the founder, was a surrogate father to both Scott and Jean, as well as everyone else in the original five, he cares deeply about them and their safety, with one issue showing, in detail, every person Xavier let die and show how it affected him emotionally.
** ComicBook/{{Cyclops}}, while this is often ignored or not noticed, has a tendency to be protective over new members, and often acts as TeamDad when around younger members. He may generally suck at social interaction and he failed his actual son (though, in fairness to him, he didn't intend to abandon him the first time, and eventually he had to give him up to save his life), but when it comes to his team, he'll bromance with the older ones and do his best to keep the younger ones safe and prepared. Special mention should go to his treatment of the early-mid 2000s class (especially Pixie, Rockslide, Nori, and Anole, and to a lesser extent X-23), with it being him who noted they should reach out and try to take better care of them. [[RunningTheAsylum Though, this depends on the writer and how they want to treat Cyclops.]]
** ComicBook/EmmaFrost is a MOTHER to her men, having been devastated to the point of a HeelFaceTurn when her Hellions all died; she expresses this by her care for her young students, such as Gen. X, New X-Men, the New Hellions, etc. Special note is her care for Jullian Keller (Whose codename, Hellion, was picked for her original team) and Noriko/Surge. [[MamaBear She once used]] MindRape on a villain who threatened her students by removing the only positive figure from their memory, effectively causing them nothing but emotional pain for the rest of their cold existence.
** [[ComicBook/{{Wolverine}} Logan]], while not a leader, is almost always a father figure to young, especially female, X-Men. When placed in charge of X-Force, he takes special care over the other members. (This is probably because two of the members are only in their late teens/early twenties, while the fourth is his own child/clone who is no older than 17.) There's a reason he has one sidekick per generation.
* The love Doctor Doom feels for the people of Latveria is the '''one''' thing that is stronger than his hate for Reed Richards; he would gladly lay down his life or even (temporarily) ally with the Comicbook/FantasticFour to protect them.
* ComicBook/CaptainAmerica. Any team he gets put in charge he treats like his family, possibly because of his late Sidekick Bucky.
* ComicBook/NickFury during his more sympathetic moments. Special Mention to the Siege event, where he makes special attention to make it very clear that the plan to stop Osborn was his idea, so that if all fails, only he will be arrested for Treason.
* The High Evolutionary tends to treat almost ''everyone'' in a rather paternal way, but he looks upon the Knights of Wundagore moreso than others. (And seeing as he created them, one could say that he ''is'' their father.)
* Headmaster Gentis in the comic book arc ''Franchise/StarWars: Darth Vader and the Ghost Prison'' deeply cared for his students. This, along with witnessing the Imperial cremation center's constantly churning dead Imperial bodies, [[WellIntentionedExtremist is what led him to decide to overthrow Palpatine in order to stop the constant warmongering]] via a MilitaryCoup.
* Papa Smurf is pretty much this to ''ComicBook/TheSmurfs''. In fact, in the English vocal track of [[Film/TheSmurfs the live-action movie]], Gargamel goes so far as to have Papa Smurf say he has 99 sons and one daughter. Papa Smurf himself says that they're his family. In the film sequel ''Film/TheSmurfs2'', Papa Smurf treats Smurfette like his daughter.
** And as he claims in [[WesternAnimation/TheSmurfs the cartoon]], Grandpa Smurf was exactly the same when Papa Smurf was a young Smurf.
* Reed Richards of the ''ComicBook/FantasticFour'' is the father of his team. Given that their entire thing is that they're a family of superheroes, this is basically his thing, besides being TheSmartGuy above all Smart Guys in the Marvel Universe.
* You'd expect a character with a name like [[NamesToRunAwayFromReallyFast Deathsaurus]] would be hell to work for... except he's not. In ''ComicBook/TheTransformersIDW'', a setting where almost all of the Decepticon leaders ([[GrayAndGreyMorality and a fair number of Autobots]]) are {{Bad Boss}}es of terrifying calibers, Deathsaurus actually broke from the main Decepticon ranks because none of them cared about the state of the common soldier, like the ones in his division. He goes on to fight [[TheDreaded Tarn]], leader of the Decepticon Justice Division, to try and preserve the lives of his soldiers when the DJD shows up on his ship. He even refuses a very generous offer on the part of Tarn to have his name removed from the DJD's target list unless all of his subordinates are also removed from that list. When Tarn offers to join forces with him, Deathsaurus instead puts Tarn through a SecretTestOfCharacter to see if Tarn is willing to sacrifice his subordinates--and upon finding that Tarn is unwilling to throw away the lives of his team, Deathsaurus commends him and readily agrees to the alliance.
* A villainous example occurs in ''ComicBook/ThePunisherMAX'' with Harry Ebbing, an energy tycoon who brought his struggling company to new heights by taking advantage of loopholes in financial regulations to inflate the stock price. The only thing he asks of his employees is that whenever there's a problem of ''any'' magnitude, [[SurroundedByIdiots they immediately tell him so he can handle it.]] In return, he frequently throws lavish, drug-fueled Wall Street parties for all his employees and makes use of his money and underworld connections to give them anything they could ever want. He's so well-loved that an erstwhile whistleblower who is beaten and left for dead for threatening to tell the FBI about one of his more dangerous schemes comes back and ''begs'' to be allowed to return to the lifestyle Harry offers.

[[folder: Fan Works]]
* ''Manga/{{Evangelion 303}}'': Captain Misato Katsuragi is the commanding officer of the "Evangelion" squadron. Although she gets angry and is not afraid of reprimanding her pilots when it is necessary, she cares greatly for all of them. She even suggested Shinji [[spoiler:moving with her as Asuka was in coma]].
* ''Fanfic/{{HERZ}}'': Misato is the Director of HERZ. She is very protective of her soldiers and cares about them. She raised two her pilots, Shinji and Asuka – although the latter moved out after the events of End of Evangelion-, and at least once she notes Shinji, Asuka and Rei are like the children she never had.
* In ''Fanfic/IronHearts'' Silver is this to the Iron Warriors under his command. Any others (especially ''[[WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic ponies]]'') well not so much.
* [[http://www.fanfiction.net/u/55667/Erico Erico's]] fanverse for Mega Man features Doctor James Cain of the Maverick Hunters, who the troops revere as a father. For some, such as X and Zero, he's the closest thing to a real father figure they have.
* Col. Edwards in ''FanFic/TheReturn'' combines this with ColonelBadass.
* Battle Commander Karrde in ''Fanfic/TiberiumWars'' is deeply concerned about the welfare of the troops under his command. At the same time, he also has [[TheChainsOfCommanding to grapple with the necessity]] of ordering men to their deaths and making battlefield decisions that result in victory at the cost of his troops' lives, which forms a major part of his character's personal conflict over the course of the series.
* In the ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'' fanfic [[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/6245901/1/Three_Years_At_Sea Three Years at Sea]], Shuang [[RedBaron the Traitor]] is this to his crew. When Zuko sinks his ship, he says he will surrender quietly if Zuko spares his crew rather than taking them to certain torture and execution by the Fire Nation. [[WhatASenselessWasteOfHumanLife Zuko being Zuko,]] he agrees.
* ''FanFic/TravelsThroughAzerothAndOutland'' has this in the form of Dallard Corwyn, a heroic human noble stationed in the Dragonblight.
* ''Fanfic/DragonAgeTheCrownOfThorns'' has the dwarven noble protagonist during his brief time as Commander, before his [[spoiler:deliberate ZeroApprovalGambit]]. In fact, [[spoiler:even though said gambit is executed flawlessly, his men, or at least one very high-ranking military figure, never believe in his guilt, to the point where said high-ranking warrior threatens the Assembly with leaving for the surface, along with his whole house, unless they give the prince a trial, which they do, much to Bhelen's chagrin.]] What makes this even more interesting is that [[spoiler:they were all proven right when Trian, who is still very much alive, revealed himself.]]
* It's not uncommon in ''Series/TheXFiles'' fics for Skinner to be cast in a substitute-father role to Mulder and/or Scully, and Scully's mother, while a civilian, frequently mothers Mulder as well.
* [[Manga/FullmetalAlchemist The Mustangs]] are a father and mother pair to the men of both their old unit and their current one, in the FanFic/ElementalChessTrilogy.
* [[TheCaptain Sulov Koskium]] of the Roleplay/{{BZPRPG}} is [[AFatherToHisMen a father to his squadron]].
* [[VideoGame/MetalGear Big Boss]] fills this role in ''FanFic/{{Stray}}'', for [=FOXHOUND=]. [[spoiler: Literally, since [=FOXHOUND=]'s membership includes two of his cloned offspring.]]
* In the [[WesternAnimation/BuzzLightyearOfStarCommand BLoSC]] FanVerse of ''Fanfic/ForGood'', [[EvilOverlord Evil Emperor Zurg]] is considered a twisted sort of father figure to his "freak show staff".
* Franchise/SherlockHolmes to his Baker Street Irregulars ([[HyperCompetentSidekick Wiggins]], especially) in the ''Fanfic/DeliverUsFromEvilSeries''...
-->Those street Arabs were almost ''too'' loyal to their... oh, sod it, to their father. Maybe they weren't too loyal, after all.
* In ''Fanfic/EmpathTheLuckiestSmurf'', Papa Smurf goes beyond this to {{Happily Adopt|ed}}ing his little Smurfs after ThePlague has removed their parents, [[spoiler:with Empath being his only begotten son]].
* In the ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'' and ''Manga/{{Naruto}}'' crossover [[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8038098/1/Bodyguard-of-Azula Bodyguard of Azula]], Naruto is this to a huge part of the Fire Nation Army, to the point that they [[spoiler:beg not to fight him when he is buying time for Azula and Zuko to escape the capital, and try to let him out of the prison when he surrenders. He plays this trope again by ordering them not to do it, since all of them would be killed if it failed]]
* In the ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries'' fanfic ''FanFic/{{Heroes}}'', Spock regrets that Surak will never see the side of Kirk that becomes upset whenever a crewman dies.
* According to Momo, Aizen is this in ''Fanfic/{{Downfall}}'' (this isn't as crazy as it sounds; it takes place in an AlternateUniverse where Aizen isn't the BigBad).
* ''Fanfic/{{Bait and Switch|STO}}'': Captain Kanril Eleya cares deeply about, and is [[MamaBear violently protective of]], the welfare of her crew. She is deeply regretful that she can't know all of their names and faces since they number over a thousand, and feels guilty when they then die carrying out her orders. In "Fanfic/LastRights", when one of her dead noncoms is resurrected as a Kobali, she threatens his adoptive mother that:
-->'''Eleya:''' I will personally blow ''any'' Kobali ship that pursues him clear back to the Celestial Temple if I have to; I don't give a flying ''[[PardonMyKlingon phekk]]'' what the treaty says. He stays here of his own accord or not at all.\\
'''Lyndsay Ballard:'''[[labelnote:*]]A former ensign from USS ''Voyager'', now the Kobali Armaments Minister[[/labelnote]] Captain--\\
'''Eleya:''' No, understand, after what your government pulled the word of a Kobali is worthless to me. I want your word as a ''sworn officer of the Federation Starfleet'' that you'll respect his wishes.
* Alistair proposes doing this once the Blight is over in the ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' story ''FanFic/ShadowAndRose''. He suggest that he and Elissa, being the last of Ferelden's Grey Wardens, rebuild the order from the ground up.
-->'''Alistair:''' You and I - we'll be mother and father, essentially, to a whole new generation of Fereldan Grey Wardens.
* Lelouch in ''Fanfic/{{Dauntless}}'' treats all of his men like family, such as reminding his villa guards that their duty is to protect ''everyone'' on the property. In return they show him UndyingLoyalty, his old squad going so far as to go [=AWOL=] when Lelouch is injured, not knowing that he'd requested them so they couldn't be court martialed for it.
* Cima Garahau in ''Fanfic/AFeddieStory'' to her battalion of Zeon Marines. Even before she's forced into command, she repeatedly expresses anger over the machinations of a regular military commander who's ordering the battalion into a risky maneuver; after his death and the death of her commander she adopts a stern attitude towards her troops' misdeeds, but at the same time she refuses to risk gutting her command or to spend their lives wastefully. Part of it is that her battalion was all recruited from the same colony, and she knows that she has to bring as many of them home as she can if ''she'' ever wants to go home.
* Captain Boomerang is seen as this by his fellow Boos in ''Fanfic/CanABooBeFriendsWithAHuman.'' [[DrillSergeantNasty Sergeant Kung Boo]] thinks to himself he wouldn't know what to do without him.
* ''Fanfic/NeonGenesisEvangelionGenocide'': Misato sincerely cares about her pilots. She's always trying to look after of Shinji and Asuka and help Rei, and she goes to great lengths to protect them.
* ''Fanfic/IceAndFire'' has Lelouch, in spades. He's willing to go the extra mile for his troops, even cooking for them and giving blood to the wounded. A good example of this is shown in Chapter 26, when he's talking to his men and chatting with them casually, in comparison to Zero’s dialogue with her subordinates at the same time being more professional and aloof.

[[folder:Film -- Animation]]
* Boss Wolf from ''WesternAnimation/KungFuPanda2''.
* ''Anime/NausicaaOfTheValleyOfTheWind'': Princess Kushana is quite close to her Third Army and always has a little trouble coping with casualties.

[[folder:Film -- Live Action]]
* {{Film/ThreeHundred}}: Emperor Xerxes of the Persians gladly sends thousands of soldiers from his massive million-man army to death in ZergRush tactics, because WeHaveReserves. King Leonidas of the Spartans, in contrast, knows each of the 300 men under his command by name, cares about all of them - and in return, all 300 ''volunteered'' to stand by him in this suicidal last stand. Xerxes doesn't fight but commands from behind, while Leonidas fights on the front line alongside his men. Leonidas also flat out tells Xerxes that (while he is prepared for a suicidal last stand), his one half-hope for victory is that it's only a matter of time until Xerxes's slave-soldiers grow to fear Spartan spears more than Persian slave-whips, and they'll start mutinying against him. This exchange between the two exemplifies this trope:
-->'''Xerxes:''' It isn't wise to stand against me, Leonidas. Imagine what horrible fate awaits my enemies when I would gladly kill any of my own men for victory.
-->'''King Leonidas:''' And I would die for any one of mine.
* Used in ''Film/K19TheWidowmaker'': [[Creator/LiamNeeson Mikhail Polenin]], the first captain of the K-19. All his men love him, he takes an interest in them and is a great submarine captain... then five minutes in, he's demoted and replaced by [[Creator/HarrisonFord Alexei Vostrikov]], who is a drill-obsessed hardass. Not only do the men hate him because he overworks them, they feel that their "rightful" captain has been wronged. Almost called out by name when Vostrikov is incredulous that the sub's crew would bring their fears directly to his predecessor.
--> '''Polenin:''' A crew is like a family. The captain is the father.\\
'''Vostrikov:''' My own father ''inspired'' more fear than he indulged.
* General Waverly in ''Film/WhiteChristmas''.
-->'''Bob Wallace:''' We ate, and then he ate. We slept and then he slept.
* John Wayne's character in ''Film/SheWoreAYellowRibbon''
* Creator/RussellCrowe seems to play these characters well. The Roman general he played in ''Film/{{Gladiator}}'' cared deeply for his men, and in some ways even more for his fellow gladiators. Captain Jack Aubrey in ''Film/MasterAndCommander'' is this even moreso.
* In ''Film/ApocalypseNow'', Captain Willard (Martin Sheen) alludes to Lieutenant-Colonel "I love the smell of napalm in the morning" Kilgore (Robert Duvall) as falling into this trope. Arguably he comes across as more of a Cool Uncle or Older Brother.
* The Captain in ''Film/DasBoot'' is very much like this, although he is only thirty years old and the men are in their late teens.
* It's very understated, but Captain Nemo appears to have this relationship with his men in ''Film/TheLeagueOfExtraordinaryGentlemen''. This is a nod to his source material, as these men continued to follow him even after he was exiled from his homeland, where he had been a [[RoyalBlood prince in the ruling family]] before their massacre.
* ''Film/TheThinRedLine''
** Captain Staros' parting words to his men are: "You've been like my sons. You are my sons."
** InvokedTrope in Creator/GeorgeClooney's cameo as Captain Bosche. When giving a speech to the soldiers he describes [[CaptainSmoothAndSergeantRough himself as their father and Sgt Welsh as their mother]]. Welsh's private dialogue shows he's not impressed.
* General Robert E. Lee in ''Film/{{Gettysburg}}''. Exemplified in one scene shortly after the titular battle, where Lee apologizes to his men for their defeat at the hands of the Union army and takes all the blame for their failure. His men, on the other hand, refuse to blame Lee and plead with him to send them back into battle to redeem themselves.
* General Kuribayashi from ''Film/LettersFromIwoJima'' tries to be this, but the other officers in the army have the soldiers still be {{Red Shirt}}s, and the only one this has good effect on is Shimizu.
* Hunter, in ''Film/CrimsonTide'', leads from the bottom up, contrasting with TheCaptain's lead from the top style.
* In ''Film/StarTrek'', Captain Pike is practically young Jim Kirk's WellDoneSonGuy.
** In the [[Film/StarTrekIntoDarkness sequel]], BigBad John Harrison is this, as part of his motivation is to save his crew. He even calls them his family
---> '''Harrison''': My crew is my family, Kirk. Is there anything you would not do for your family?
* ''Film/TheGunsOfNavarone''. Miller snidely suggests that Mallory play this part when he's trying to convince Mallory to shoot TheMole.
* In ''Film/TheRock,'' the "being torn up about sacrifices" part leads Brigadier General Francis Hummel into the villainy. It's notable how everyone even remotely knowledgeable still talk all respect about him even after he initiates a hostage/terrorist plot. [[spoiler:Which he intended to be just a bluff.]]
* Kimberly states this in ''Film/MightyMorphinPowerRangersTheMovie'' when she tells Zordon that he has been "a father to us all" [[spoiler:as he is dying]].
** In an early script, Dulcea said Zordon was an inspiration. If he dies, a part of those he inspired dies with him, and the universe will suffer an "imparable blow".
*** ...which was [[HilariousInHindsight odd]], given the ending of ''Series/PowerRangersInSpace''.
* Wolfstan in ''Film/BlackDeath''.
* Major West in ''Film/TwentyEightDaysLater'' is a dark version of this.
* Col. Keith Davenport, ''Film/TwelveOClockHigh''. So much a father to his men that it is undermining his combat effectiveness, as he can't make the hard decisions to send men to their deaths. So beloved by his men that after he is relieved of command and Gen. Savage replaces him, EVERY pilot in the group requests a transfer out of the 918th.
* In ''Film/AfterEarth'' General Cypher Raige is respected and looked up to by his fellow rangers, including one who was apparently saved by him from an Ursa.
* In ''Film/StarshipTroopers'' LT Raschyk demands the best, and gives the best (it's implied the "beer and entertainment" isn't something most platoons receive).
* ''Film/TheFugitive'': Deputy Marshal Samuel Gerard, mother hen extraordinaire. Tells Poole to get new boots and wear two coats, keeps Newman with him whenever possible, makes sure he's okay after a traumatic experience. Whenever he praises someone, they ''visibly light up''. He also explicitly refers to his team as his kids - speaking of which: Do. Not. Threaten. His. Kids.
-->'''Gerard''': "What can I say, sir? [[spoiler:Mr Copeland]] was a bad man, he was gonna kill one of my kids. ... Well, sir, you can blame me; I'm the one that shot him."
* In ''Film/TheHuntForRedOctober'' Captain Ramius stationed many of his former officers on the Red October and they are willing to risk their lives to help him carry out his plan [[spoiler: to defect with the submarine to the USA.]] One of his officers even [[spoiler: takes a bullet]] for Ramius.
* ''Film/XMenFilmSeries'': The vast majority of the X-Men view [[Characters/XMenFilmSeriesProfessorCharlesXavier Professor Charles Xavier]] as a father figure, and he in return treats them like his own children. His tendency to act as a ParentalSubstitute and BadassTeacher has reinforced UndyingLoyalty amongst his students, starting with the boys in ''Film/XMenFirstClass'' and extending all the way to the BadFuture of 2023 in ''Film/XMenDaysOfFuturePast''. Old habits die hard, and ''Film/{{Logan}}'' has him being an attentive grandfather to Laura.
* The titular ''Film/MajorPayne'', while definitely a DrillSergeantNasty and (in the words of Emily) an "an insecure, overbearing, psychopathic, edictorial, ego maniacal, frigid lunatic asshole", but in his own warped way he definitely cares about his men. Be it by breaking a comrade's finger to take his mind off the pain of being shot, shooting the closet to "terminate the Boogeyman with extreme prejudice" so the young Tiger can go to sleep, or [[SugarWiki/HeartwarmingMoments defending one of his students from their abusive and drunken step-father]]. [[spoiler:In fact, he becomes a ''literal'' example of this to one of his men in the end of the film where he marries Emily and adopts Tiger.]]
* In ''Film/OHomemDaCapaPreta'', almost literally, as in real life, many of Tenório´s bodyguards and supporters were in fact close family relations or acquaintances from his state in the Brazilian Northeast and around Caxias favelas.
* ''Film/StopLoss'' plays this for drama. The protagonist, Sgt Brandon King, is respected and loved by his squad. His term is almost up - until he's informed that he's about to be sent back out there. As he flees this sentence, the rest of his men quickly fall apart without his influence. [[spoiler: This partly plays into his decision to serve the extra time in Iraq rather than go AWOL]].
* ''Film/SmallSoldiers'': Major Chip Hazard is one of the few villainous examples, but he shows genuine concern for his subordinates and sheds several ManlyTears at Nick Nitro's death.

[[folder:Manhua and Manhwa]]
* The majority of the generals in ''Manhua/RavagesOfTime'' but subverted with Lu Bu who, while extremely talented, thinks of his soldiers as nothing more than disposable pawns.
* Ha Jinsung from ''Webcomic/TowerOfGod'' is a villainous version, as he dotes on his student and subordinate Viole like an overly embarrassing father.

* The eponymous character of Music/{{Dispatch}}'s "The General".
* Music/{{Sabaton}} quotes ''Literature/TheArtOfWar'' in the intro to [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y-DAbDUoVF8 "Union (Slopes of St. Benedict)"]].
-->''"Regard your soldiers as your children, and they will follow you into the deepest valleys. Look on them as your own beloved sons, and they will stand by you even unto death."''

[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
* TrainingFromHell aside, Wrestling/KarlGotch was said to be good to his students, one of which, Masami Soranaka, was his actual son in law. Ironically, the students he liked the least, Wrestling/AkiraMaeda, Wrestling/AntonioInoki and Wrestling/NobuhikoTakada, were among the most successful.
* On the first [=BattlARTS=] show, Wrestling/YoshiakiFujiwara referred to the promotion's founders as his sons. These were the same men who had left the Fujiwara Gumi promotion in droves after complaining about the management team Fujiwara had hired.
* Wrestling/{{KENTA|Kobayashi}} was this to No Mercy in Wrestling/ProWrestlingNOAH, sticking by his stablemates even when he was told to go home and rehabilitate injuries, even when they were soon to leave due to not renewing their contracts and most detrimentally, [[GenreBlind even]] when one Maybach Taniguchi all but admitted his plans to replace KETNA!
* The women of WWE's division from 2001-2011 state that Fit Finlay was this to them. He was given the job as the women's trainer as a demotion, but sought to work with them and encourage them to make their matches stand out. Wrestling/TrishStratus in particular credits him with helping make her career. Behind the scenes, the women say that Fit would always fight to get them more time for matches.
* Wrestling/TheUndertaker has a sterling reputation as a locker room leader in the [=WWE=], keeping prima-donna talent in check, giving insight and taking on a mentoring role towards the younger talent, and generally looking out for the rest of the locker room. Even wrestlers who left the company under acrimonious circumstances continue to speak glowingly of the big man, long after they've left, such as Wrestling/DrewGalloway and Ken Anderson.
** 'Taker is so well respected that ''Triple H'' reportedly asked him whether it was okay to date Stephanie [=McMahon=]. And since this is 'Taker? It could very well ''be true''.
--->'''Mr Kennedy''': There's two mountains in the WWE. At the top of one mountain there's Triple H, who's throwing rocks down at you [[ItsAllAboutMe so he can keep the top to himself]]. At the top of the other mountain is the Undertaker, who's constantly reaching down to help you out so you can enjoy the view with him.

* Literature/TheBible:
** Abraham, a father to his people '''and''' at least four ethnicities (at least two of which are extant).
** David, whose band of mighty men broke through the enemy's fortification just to bring him a bucket of water from his childhood well because they ''overheard him wishing for it''. Later on, when he was older, his men refused to let him fight giants anymore because he almost got killed, and they didn't want to "quench the light of Israel." (Translation: everyone would be heartbroken if you died.)
** Let's not forget ''God''. All of his followers are his children. He guides and comforts them, and some believe He even died for them.
* In ''Literature/TheBookOfMormon'', Captain Helaman's 2000 young soldiers call him "Father", and he refers to them as his sons.
* Myth/NorseMythology has Odin, who gathers fallen warriors in Valhalla and is frequently called "Valfadr", that is: ''father of the slain''.

[[folder: Tabletop Games]]
* ''TabletopGame/IronKingdoms'': Captain Phinneus Shae, pirate captain of the Talion. As his crew are all outcasts and wanted by the Cygnaran army for mutiny, he is willing to kill himself against an undead captain, to keep his crew safe.
* Imperial Guard commanders in ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer 40000}}'' tend to be either this or [[GeneralRipper General Rippers]]. There's one guy who not only remembers all the men he's had under his command, but tattooed the faces of those who died onto his body. This being 40K, one wonders how long it'll be until he runs out of space.
** As noted by Literature/CiaphasCain ('''HERO OF THE IMPERIUM!!!'''), very, very few commissars are this out of propaganda videos. However, those who rule exclusively through [[BoomHeadshot *BLAM*]]ings (outside of Penal Legions) tend to meet [[MakeItLookLikeAnAccident heroic deaths]] [[UnfriendlyFire despite being nowhere]] [[KarmicDeath near the front line at the time.]]
** The Primarchs were literally this for the Legions under their command. Though most of the Loyalist Primarchs were definitely this trope (Mainly Sanguinius and Vulkan), the only Traitor Primarchs that seemed to have any sort of care for their Legions were [[TragicVillain Magnus]] and [[BadassPreacher Lorgar]], and of the two only Magnus has been shown to still have said care even into the 41st millenium (if only because Lorgar has more-or-less left the matters of his Legion to his highest commanders).

* ''Theatre/CyranoDeBergerac'': This trope is Deconstructed by Carbon de Castel-Jaloux' attitude (see the quote of Sun Tzu in literature above): He is the captain of the [[ProudWarriorRaceGuy Cadets of Gascony]], a nobleman who pays his own company, so he only is obliged to obey his superiors in military matters. He is troubled at the Siege of Arras, because all his men (to whom he refers as his sons!) are starving. His superior, The Marshal of Gassion, Count De Guiche, asks him to punish his men for disrespecting a superior officer (himself). Using his prerogative, Carbon de Castel-Jaloux chooses not to. After that, De Guiche informs him that his company is the bait in a gambit that can win the battle. Carbon de Castel-Jaloux is completely on board with the plan to send all his company to death because that is what a [[ProudWarriorRaceGuy Gascon soldier is supposed to do]]. Notice that if he had punished his men –- soldiers in an army are supposed to respect a superior, no matter how despicable they find him -- his company would not have been picked to fight a suicide mission.
* In ''Theatre/AllMySons'', Chris's Army nickname was "Mother [=McKeller=]." While little is said about his commanding abilities, he respected and was respected by his men, and was prouder to see them fighting selflessly and dying honorably (almost all were lost) than of going back to work with his father, where civilians hadn't changed their old money-grubbing ways.

[[folder:Visual Novels]]
* Hiroshi Kirisawa, the leader of the Special Investigations 2nd Unit in ''VisualNovel/MetroPDCloseToYou'', is frequently credited as the entire reason that the RagtagBandOfMisfits that makes up the unit is able to function at all, let alone as the well-oiled machine that it is. He's charismatic and dependable, encourages his men to run their investigations as they see fit, and is always prepared to back them up or take responsibility for their fumbles. He looks out for his guys off the job almost as much as he does on, doing things like regularly having the whole team over to his place for a home-cooked meal since most of them are bachelors who can't or don't cook for themselves.
* Shi-Long Lang from ''VisualNovel/AceAttorneyInvestigationsMilesEdgeworth'' takes this to comedic levels. He does a roll call with his men, and when they start counting off "1! 2! 3! etc." he stops them, because all of his men are #1 in his book. [[BrickJoke The next time he does a roll call later in the game]], his men count off "1! 1! 1! etc." instead. He also gives a birthday present to one of his men, who says he is grateful, but it's not his birthday. Lang then says that he knows that, and the present isn't for him, it's for his ''[[CrazyPrepared younger brother's wife's younger brother!]]'' It's played more seriously when [[spoiler:he takes a bullet for his second-in-command, who had just revealed herself as TheMole, because she was still his subordinate and he feels it's his duty to protect his subordinates at any cost. Then he arrests her]]. All of this, of course, inspires UndyingLoyalty in his men ([[spoiler:except for TheMole, obviously]]), who address him with great reverence as "Shifu" [[note]]a Chinese term of respect that means master[[/note]].

* ''WebComic/MagickChicks'': Faith [[MeaningfulName Abbot]] is Artemis Academy's [[AbsurdlyPowerfulStudentCouncil student council]] [[StudentCouncilPresident president]], which makes her responsible for safeguarding its students against perceived threats. And she takes that to heart, as [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/sharper_than_a_sanjiegun she'll go to great lengths]] [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/save_artemis to protect them.]] This is also seen on a more personal level, such as when Sandi recounts the time Faith [[spoiler: [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/she_looks_out_for_us took Sandi under her wing]], when she was younger, and taught her how to properly control her powers]].
** Her boyfriend, Ash, also exemplifies the trope, such as when [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/they_got_away he saved his fellow students]] during the breastplate raid on Artemis. Then [[http://www.magickchicks.com/strips-mc/you_should_know_better acted as a decoy]] to buy time for them to escape. And, just as Faith is the alpha at Artemis, Ash is the alpha [[SpearCounterpart at Apollo Academy.]]
* ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'': When standing between Miko and Belkar, Roy says that he learned in school that the commander does not abandon one of his people in the face of the enemy. He was at one point seriously considering not rescuing a captured [[TheLoad Elan]], but ultimately decided that this was unbecoming of him.
* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary''. Captain Kaff Tagon, the founder of Tagon's Toughs, is every bit of this for his men. And disrespecting him is a good way to get a faceful of fist (or other, rather higher energy things) from his men. Even Kaff Tagon's own father, Karl, is impressed by the loyalty that his son has produced in the troops.
* In ''Webcomic/GirlGenius'', [[SuperSoldier Jaegergeneral]] Gkika is a ''mother'' to her men. They even call her Mamma Gkika. Considering that she's one of only two female Jaegers that we've seen, and she's made it to be one of the eight Generals (out of thousands of Jaegers), it's quite an achievement.

[[folder:Web Original]]
* Despite there technically being no real cohesive [[SuperTeam team]], [[GentleGiant At]][[GeniusBruiser las]] fills this trope for the ''Literature/MetroCityChronicles'' heroes (Noted especially for [[LovecraftLite Squid Kid]]).
* When [[spoiler:Robert E. Lee]] turns out to be unfit for a combat command in ''Literature/TheSalvationWar'', General Petraeus alludes to this in assigning him to head a convalescent home for traumatized [[spoiler:"Second Life," aka undead]] [[FishOutOfTemporalWater American soldiers from past wars]].
* Captain Flowers of ''Machinima/RedVsBlue'' isn't just a FatherToHisMen; he's a [[GoodParents pathologically paternal]] NiceGuy.
* The founder of the Blog/KnightsOfFandom is a Mother to Her Followers.

[[folder: Western Animation ]]
* ''Franchise/{{Transformers}}'': Optimus Prime. Several versions, anyway.
** In ''WesternAnimation/TransformersPrime'', it is hinted that Breakdown is (or [[CharacterDeath was]]) this to the Decepticon {{Mooks}} under his command
** Believe it or not, ''Megatron'' is actually this in quite a few versions, albeit a gruff aloof one. Like in the below quote. [[note]]The Core. Transformers Generation One.[[/note]]
-->'''Megatron''' "I do this only for the welfare of my Decepticons. It grieves me that you should profit from it."
* Zachary Foxx of ''WesternAnimation/AdventuresOfTheGalaxyRangers'' lives this trope. {{Fanon}} speculates that his intense devotion to the team is what has kept him sane after his wife met a FateWorseThanDeath and his [[WeCanRebuildHim entire left side was replaced with cyberware]].
* Anyone else get the feeling General Iroh from ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'' was like that towards his soldiers?
** [[DaChief Lin Bei Fong]] from ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'' is like this to her metalbending police officers.