* Yeah it can be annoying if it happens to you, but having a princess or prince elope with another kingdom's prince or princess. Also, any alliance that is formed by this marriage.
* Sparing (or being spared by) the enemies men or offering them for ransom and the enemy takes them back with open arms.
* Having a noble general that cares about his people, raising happiness and growth rate of your city.
* Creating a [[TheGoodKingdom Good Kingdom]] ruled by a chivalrous aristocracy and characterized by low taxes.