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6Loving wife and wise mother,\
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9->''"I am a true Japanese woman, kind and graceful!"''
10-->-- '''[[MsFanservice Mai Shiranui]]''', ''VideoGame/CapcomVsSNK2MarkOfTheMillennium''
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12Yamato nadeshiko (やまとなでしこ or 大和撫子), a complicated UsefulNotes/{{Japan}}ese aesthetic and cultural concept. Breaking the expression down: "Yamato" is one of the older (and thus fancier) and more poetic names for Japan and the Japanese people and culture, similar to the Latin "Albion" for the island of Great Britain and Irish "Hibernia"/"Erin" for Ireland; "Nadeshiko" is the Japanese name for ''Dianthus superbus'' or the fringed pink carnation, a wildflower found in the Japanese highlands that is related to the carnation (''Dianthus caryophyllus'').
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14Broadly speaking then, a ''yamato nadeshiko'' is a "flower of Nipponese womanhood": a woman with attributes that were considered desirable in the [[Creator/{{Confucius}} neo-Confucian]] [[UsefulNotes/ImperialJapan Japan of the nineteenth century]] and beyond. The term was generally ascribed to noble women with traditional upbringings, but after the formal abolishment of the caste system it passed into wider use among the new "middle classes". Being a ''yamato nadeshiko'' revolved around the Confucian concepts of Feudal Loyalty and Filial Piety, which in the latest wave of Confucian revival meant acting for the benefit of one's family and obeying and assisting authority figures (father, husband, sometimes father-in-law or older brothers, as well as older and/or more respected females). Virtues include(d) loyalty, [[FeminineWomenCanCook domestic ability]], wisdom, maturity, and humility.
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16[[MoreThanMeetsTheEye Don't let her gentle demeanor fool you]]; the nadeshiko is a ''wildflower'' at heart. A properly done ''yamato nadeshiko'' will show a [[SilkHidingSteel subtle, but definitely present, touch of iron]] in that she is unwilling to let circumstances [[MamaBear hurt the ones she cares about]] or [[{{Determinator}} distract her from her goals or missions]]. This is often accomplished ''so'' subtly that the target isn't certain ''how'' things got redirected -- a subtle influence of PolitenessJudo if you will. Older ''yamato nadeshiko'' are better at this, while a younger one will make up for it in determination -- especially when it comes to the man she loves. Administrivia/TropesAreTools, after all.
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18A poorly done ''yamato nadeshiko'', however, ''will'' turn out like an ExtremeDoormat. They are silent and submissive without the inner strength of a true ''yamato nadeshiko''. This is a common stereotype of East Asian women in Western fiction and is often referred to derisively as the [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_East_Asians_in_the_United_States#Hypersexuality_and_submissiveness China Doll]] stereotype.
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20With some notable exceptions, ''yamato nadeshiko'' will be of medium height, willowy, modestly endowed, and [[SlidingScaleOfBeauty good-looking without being too beautiful or too cute]]; they will have [[RavenHairIvorySkin pale skin]] and {{long|HairIsFeminine}} dark hair with [[HimeCut full, straight bangs and sidelocks]]. They'll dress in feminine fashions: skirts, blouses, low-heeled shoes, lace, ribbons, and simple hair ornaments. The other option is the impeccable ladylike style for adults. A {{kimono|IsTraditional}} is likely to be worn by a ''nadeshiko'' brought up in the good old Kyoto style. Some may wear jewelry and make-up, but not too much. Their voices will often be as gentle, calm, and warm as melted butter. [[TaremeEyes Large, rounded eyes]] are always a good bet. It is not unusual for {{geisha}} to be a ''yamato nadeshiko''. Will also be likely to say ''Ara ara'' ("Oh My") as a VerbalTic to indicate calm surprise.
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22Sometimes, these ladies will also [[ActionGirl know self-defense]], even if [[MartialPacifist they would rather not fight if it can be avoided]]. This makes sense as many ''nadeshiko'' came from samurai clans and thus were trained in fighting, so they could defend their homes whenever the males were absent. If that's the case, [[LadyOfWar they'll be very graceful and effective in the battlefield]], and they're likely to be {{White Magician Girl}}s or {{Barrier Warrior}}s. If they're neither, they'll likely use polearms, lances (specifically [[NaginatasAreFeminine naginata]] which daughters of samurai families were traditionally trained in and included in their dowry) or bow/arrows, and maybe even small tantou daggers [[HiddenWeapons that may be hidden in their clothes]].
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24These characters pop up a lot in MagicalGirlfriend series (usually as the one who will [[FirstGirlWins win the male lead's heart]]) and as the "Betty" in BettyAndVeronica {{Love Triangle}}s. They tend to be passive, putting them in danger of becoming {{Satellite Character}}s for more "interesting" people, as well as a target of [[TheScrappy bashing]] from fans who prefer more active love interests such as {{Tsundere}}.
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26Expect her name to end in ''-ko'' [子] or ''-bi'', ''-mi'' [美], which mean "child" and "beauty", respectively.[[labelnote:Protip]]''-ko'' in words is analogous to the Western suffix '-a/'-ette'/'-elle'/'-ine' in making any name feminine. Most feminine names have these suffixes.[[/labelnote]] Less subtle examples might even use ''Nadeshiko'' for the MeaningfulName factor.
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28You will sometimes find [[GenderInvertedTrope males]] who fit in the ''yamato nadeshiko'' role, personality and/or looks-wise (like Japan in ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'', obviously), but this is still rare. Sometimes, there's also overlap with the {{Samurai}}, since Japanese noblewomen that held this occupation were known as ''onna-musha'' or ''onna-bugeisha''. This trope is commonly used in the portrayal of a PatientChildhoodLoveInterest character's personality.
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30More information on this concept can be found in the [[http://www.sljfaq.org/afaq/yamatonadeshiko.html sci.lang.japan FAQ.]]
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32Compare {{Moe}}, another standard of idealised Japanese beauty, but with less emphasis on maturity and more on protectiveness, youthfulness, and vulnerability. Compare and contrast {{Geisha}}, who are expected to be outspoken, social, and intellectually equal to men.
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34For Western equivalents, see also [[http://academic.brooklyn.cuny.edu/english/melani/novel_19c/thackeray/angel.html "angel in the house,"]] EnglishRose and the ProperLady. Compare SilkHidingSteel, SpiritedYoungLady, PrincessClassic, SouthernBelle (her US counterpart), TheIngenue.
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36For subversions, see StepfordSmiler and {{Yandere}} for a girl who ''seems'' to be a ''Yamato Nadeshiko'' but hides a far more unstable psyche.
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38'''Note''': This trope is for the Japanese archetype in particular and the Eastern Asian archetype in general. For the Western/European archetype, see ProperLady. For a general 'proper on the outside, powerful on the inside' woman, use SilkHidingSteel. For tropes describing homemakers and housewives in general, use {{Housewife}}. To describe 'innocence' or 'gentleness', use TheIngenue. Polite or friendliness can be covered by NiceGirl. For a person whose niceness belies danger/effectiveness, use BewareTheNiceOnes. General girliness is covered by GirlyGirl and any relevant sub-tropes.
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40!!Examples
41[[index]]
42* YamatoNadeshiko/AnimeAndManga
43* YamatoNadeshiko/VideoGames
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48[[folder:Comic Books]]
49* In the ''ComicBook/XMen'' books, Wolverine was in love with Mariko Yashida for a good portion of Claremont's run after Jean Grey's death, and even [[BackFromTheDead after she came back]], he stayed devoted to Mariko, though by then he was [[CourtlyLove loving from afar]]. Mariko herself was a perfect example of this, determined to free her family from its underworld ties at any cost... [[CartwrightCurse and ultimately, any cost was what it took.]]
50* Since ComicBook/YokoTsuno is the daughter of a very traditional Japanese family, her mother Masako is a ''yamato nadeshiko''. The trope ''might'' have been invoked in "The Devil's Organ", when Yoko [[SheCleansUpNicely shows up to a formal party]] in Germany in a [[PinkIsFeminine pink]] ''kimono'' and [[KimonoFanservice leaves everyone starstruck]]... then she shows the SilkHidingSteel part by pointing at the Moebius with a rifle [[spoiler:when her prospect love interest Vic ''barely'' averts dying from a rifle shot that almost hits him in the head.]] ''[[KickingAssInAllHerfinery While still wearing her fancy kimono]]''.
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54* Pinkie Pie explicitly uses this phrase to describe Fluttershy in ''Fanfic/BecomingPonies''. Fluttershy doesn't consider herself to be this since she's terrible with silverware.
55* ''Fanfic/{{Constellations}}'': One of the self-appointed tasks the Baachan Committee takes upon itself is to teach Taylor how to be one. She takes the lessons to heart - to the point that she can [[PolitenessJudo politely]] force Lung to behave.
56* In ''Fanfic/EvaSessionsSomeplaceVastAndDry'', one of Rei's "Mermaid" siblings, Aimi, is explicitly described as such; she speaks in a formal and refined manner, as well as often defusing minor tiffs between the other Mermaids.
57%% * Like mentioned above, Japan is this in ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11886910/1/Gankona-Unnachgiebig-Unità Gankona, Unnachgiebig, Unità]]'' in contrast to Germany, who is a male {{tsundere}}. Let's just say Italy had guys with different personalities to choose from.
58* ''Fanfic/KimiNoNaIowa'' downplays Harumi/Fusou's canonical sulkiness and TheResenter tendencies, bringing to the fore her being a kind, gentle big sister with the ideal looks of a classical Japanese lady. It helps that her human origin is a Kyoto-born priestess, while her shipgirl side also bears an ancient name of Japan, one that predates Yamato itself. She serves as a {{Foil}} to Ayaka, who has the look all the way to the point of IdenticalStranger but is too neurotic to qualify.
59%% * In ''Fanfic/KyonBigDamnHero'', Tsuruya is surprised that her father thinks of her as a wildflower while she's dressing up for the [[spoiler:ArrangedMarriage]].
60* In the ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'' fanfic ''Fanfic/WeekendAtHisaos'', Shizune's [[DeceasedParentsAreTheBest deceased mother]] is implied to have been this. Her "touch of iron" comes into play when she argues with her husband over his hiring tutors to make Shizune talk and convinces him to stop.
61* ''Fanfic/NarutoGameOfTheYearEdition'' has Hinata's game file have the ability to be one of these. Outside of glitches, it's only supposed to be active when she has a child and a long relationship with Naruto.
62* ''Fanfic/TheNightUnfurls'': Evetta may not have the Japanese appearance or hobbies, but she behaves like one with her soothing voice and deliberately graceful movements. Her manner of dress (a bonnet, a small hair ornament, and a dress with intricate patterns sewn on it) is feminine and modest. As [[KindlyHousekeeper caretaker]] of [[PocketDimension the Dream]], Evetta has the domestic ability to match. She's polite, peaceful, unruffled, and devoted to her Good Hunter as well as her duties in the Dream (or Kyril's ''office'') whenever he is away. As for the essential SilkHidingSteel trait (or rather, ''[[AnimateInanimateObject Porcelain]]'' Hiding Steel), [[spoiler:Evetta doesn't hesitate to utilise her [[LovecraftianSuperpower "ancient power"]] when threatened, either to make her belligerents behave or to [[PsychicStrangle rend]] them outright]], maintaining her poise all the while. The cherry on top? She kindly [[DidWeJustHaveTeaWithCthulhu makes tea for Cthulhu]] [[spoiler:(the very same [[HumanoidAbomination Good Hunter]])]] as many times as she wants.
63* ''Fanfic/ObitoSensei'': Mikoto Uchiha, the matriarch of the Uchiha Clan, always remains calm and poised, such as advising Sasuke on how to deal with his treacherous brother. [[spoiler:This gets PlayedForDrama when she doesn't lose her composure or display any real remorse even when Obito and Sasuke confront her about her role in the failed Uchiha Coup]].
64* ''Fanfic/SonOfTheSannin'': Hinata's mother [[NamedByTheAdaptation Hikari]]. She's a stern but caring mother towards her daughters, assumed the responsibility as the Hyuga Clan's head [[spoiler:after her husband Hiashi was killed in the Uchiha insurrection]], and even joins the Shinobi Allied Forces as an active combatant when the Fourth Ninja War rolls around.
65* Deliberately subverted in ''Fanfic/SonicXDarkChaos'' with Sonya the Hedgehog. She's brash, cocky, prideful, and hot-tempered ([[JerkWithAHeartOfGold but good underneath it all]]). She also considers women who follow this trope to be weak helpless doormats [[spoiler:although she has a FreudianExcuse to explain it]]. %% By contrast, Cosmo plays this trope completely straight as part of her AdaptationalBadass characterization.
66* In the ''VideoGame/ToukenRanbu'' SailorEarth fic ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/14735342 You Are My Sunshine]]'', OC sword Nikkō Ichimonji is characterized as a gentle and attractive {{Miko}} who keeps the Citadel in order and has a PlayedForLaughs tendency to subtly and unknowingly manipulate others using his beautiful smile. In fact, Hasebe outright refers to him using this term ''twice''. [[spoiler: Barring his being a sword, his "inner steel" surfaces in his desire to be treated like a sword that is [[IJustWantToBeNormal as capable of fighting as any other sword]], but this isn't granted thanks to his background as an offering in a shrine and his overly kind and gentle personality. This ultimately results in a RageBreakingPoint.]]
67* Hinata was referred to as Konoha's very own ''yamato nadeshiko'' incarnate before the time-traveling incident that started off the events of ''Fanfic/IAmNOTGoingThroughPubertyAgain'', her fame a result of her marriage to Naruto and her own considerable skills. In Chapter 9, though he never directly refers to the term itself, Shino muses on how easily Hinata slipped into the leadership role, manipulating both him and Kiba with terrifying efficiency in such a warm and kind manner that neither of them can really find any fault with it.
68%%* In ''Pokemon Reset Bloodlines'', it's mentioned that Pokédexes have this as an available personality setting. %%zero-context example
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72%% * ''Anime/SummerWars'': Grandma Sakae. Not only does she fit the build, running her extended family by traditional values, but she also wields a naginata with skill.
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76* Creator/SetsukoHara played roles like this in the films of Creator/YasujiroOzu; dutiful but strong-willed loyal daughters. See ''Film/LateSpring'' in which she played a young woman who is so devoted to taking care of her widower father that she has to be cajoled into getting married.
77* ''Film/TheTwilightSamurai'' (a.k.a. ''Tasogare Seibei''): Tomoe, the female LoveInterest. Since the film is set in [[JidaiGeki nineteenth-century Japan]], the [[JustifiedTrope trope doesn't seem out of place]]. If anything, PluckyGirl Tomoe is the most "modern" major character in the film.
78%%zce* ''Film/RedCliff'': Xiao Qiao is the reason why [[GermansLoveDavidHasselhoff Japanese Love Lin Chiling]] (a Taiwanese model-and-first-time actress, known for exhibiting this behavior in RealLife).
79%%zce* In some form of distaff HilariousInHindsight karma, trailers for Lin Chiling's new movie ''Treasure Hunter'' have her wielding a spear [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l_At5enQ6q8 in her first major fight scene]].
80* ''Film/{{Sanjuro}}'': Mutsuta's wife never raises her voice and appears to have two emotions: Happiness at pretty things and serenity at everything else. Yet aside from Sanjuro, she is one of [[WomenAreWiser the most intelligent characters in the film]], and though Sanjuro has contempt for her, he willingly takes her advice.
81* ''Film/{{Ran}}'': [[LadyMacbeth Lady Kaede]] is a villainous example of this trope. She's beautiful, gentle, graceful, mature, and the perfect lady. [[spoiler:Also bloodthirsty, cunning, manipulative, and remorseless. She stops at nothing to avenge her family, up to and including destroying the dynasty into which she was forcefully married. Her meddling was so effective that even her own death does not prevent her goal from being completed]].
82* ''Film/ThroneOfBlood'': [[LadyMacbeth Lady Asaji]] is another villainous example from Creator/AkiraKurosawa. She barely moves during the entire first half of the film and always takes a polite tone with her husband, yet every word she says is honey laced with venom.
83* ''Film/{{Audition}}''. Asami Yamazaki appears to be the sort of beautiful, demure woman that every Japanese man would love to have for a wife. However [[spoiler:due to horrific abuse (among other things)]] her core of steel is made of razor wire and needles, and ''she's a psycho''.
84* In ''Film/TheWolverine'', Mariko Yashida is introduced caring for her grandfather in a family compound that values tradition (Yukio changes into a yukata when she arrives, Wolverine passes by a kendo match, etc). She demonstrates the 'core of iron' when targeted by kidnappers [[spoiler: and confronting her evil grandfather]].
85* In ''Film/TheDragonPainter'', Ume-ko is a gentle soul who marries Tatsu the artist after her father, a great artist, decides that he needs to attract a protege and heir. Then, when their love gives him a case of WritersBlock because LoveMakesYouUncreative, she commits suicide so Tatsu will be able to paint again. ''Then'', when he's lost in melancholy over her death, she emerges from hiding to reveal she was FakingTheDead in order to get him painting.
86* ''Film/SamuraiIMusashiMiyamoto'': Otsu, in contrast to Oko and Akemi, who are both schemers and kind of slutty to boot. Otsu faithfully waits for Matahachi while he's off at war. After he cheats on her, she pledges herself to Takezo, helping him down from the tree at great personal risk, accompanying him in flight, and promising to be loyal to him forever.
87* ''{{Film/Sayonara}}'', one of the first Hollywood films to feature sympathetic Japanese protagonists, has two characters filling different aspects of the trope:
88** Katsumi is introduced as Joe Kelly's bride-to-be -- a polite and sweet girl who [[ShrinkingViolet speaks quietly]] and fits the domestic requirements of the trope. There is one scene in which this is PlayedForDrama when the US army is putting pressure on its soldiers married to Japanese women, Kelly discovers that Katsumi was planning to get back-alley surgery on her eyes [[PassFail to look more Anglo]] and avoid persecution.
89** Hana-ogi is the main female love interest, though she's introduced as more aloof and dignified. As we hear her sad backstory [[spoiler: where her poor father had to sell her to the Matsobayashi troupe to make ends meet]], she speaks of her trauma as calmly as possible. She too displays SilkHidingSteel levels of loyalty both to her troupe and her love interest [[spoiler: ultimately rejecting tradition to marry an American]].
90* In ''Film/LadyNinjaKaede'', Koharu is this: devoted to her husband, who abandoned his status as a samurai to marry her, and devoted to their umbrella business. Her younger sister Kaede shows signs of being this, wanting to be like her elder sister, but abandons this path to become a ninja after Koharu commits suicide.
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94* ''Literature/AmaranthineSaga'': Tsumiko, a gentle, feminine, Japanese WhiteMagicianGirl, who manages to [[DefrostingIceQueen defrost]] her love interest and accomplish virtually all of her goals by submitting gracefully to everything she can and absolutely refusing to compromise on the few occasions when she cannot.
95* ''Literature/BakaAndTestSummonTheBeasts'':
96** Shouko Kirishima has the perfect looks with her petite build, cute-but-not-gorgeous looks, and dark hair which ''almost'' has a HimeCut, as well as her intense desire to be Yuuji's wife. She varies slightly in she uses [[HeroesPreferSwords a katana]] instead of a naginata in battle. She varies even more [[{{Yandere}} with the rest of her personality]]: this means, she's determined to be her beloved Yuuji's bride and make him happy... and to do this she'll taser him, poke his eyes, burn his porn, etc.
97** Similarly, Mizuki Himeji doesn't have the traditional looks due to having wavy pink hair, but her personality is closer to the tradition ''and'' [[ThroughHisStomach she likes cooking for her guy]], Akihisa. Unfortunately, she falls short due to being an ''extremely'' LethalChef, though she doesn't realize this since she refuses to taste-test her cooking out of the fear that she'll [[FormerlyFat gain back all the weight she used to have]].
98* Pi Pa from ''Literature/BewareOfChicken'' is a textbook example of this trope, proper, elegant, and a [[PowerOfTheVoid void cultivator]]. All despite being [[UpliftedAnimal an intelligent pig]].
99* The ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'' novel ''Literature/InterestingTimes'' (set in the FantasyCounterpartCulture of Japan) essentially splits the two aspects of the Yamato Nadeshiko between two characters. The respect and obedience elements go to Twoflower's younger daughter, Lotus Blossom, while her older sister Pretty Butterfly is like most Creator/TerryPratchett heroines, with less "a subtle touch of iron" and more "an extremely visible ton of iron".
100* ''Literature/{{Durarara}}'':
101** Anri Sonohara has a passive, soft-spoken, and gentle personality, although she won't let others push her around all the time. To seal the deal, she wears yukata on occasion [[spoiler:and wields a katana]].
102** Akane Awakusu's demure, obedient personality contrasts with the strength of will to defy her mafia dad and live on her own. What's more: someone like her attacking someone like Shizuo either has tremendous guts or a death wish and she definitely isn't the latter.
103* ''Literature/HarukaNogizakasSecret'': Haruka's mother takes the cake. When her husband charges into a random house armed with a sword and [[BadassCrew his own personal army]], she calmly walks in and convinces him to leave their daughter alone and give his blessing for her hobby. She has a BattleAura and GlowingEyesOfDoom but is standing there calmly.
104* ''Literature/HighSchoolDXD'':
105** When not in sadist mode, Akeno comes off as an ideal Japanese woman due to her long black hair and gentle smile. Not to mention she's a great cook like Asia and Rias. Akeno is also polite and devoted to Issei and her team. However, Akeno needs to work on her Steel: she has a fragile personality to her as she "depends" on men due to her sad past.
106** Another mention goes to Yasaka as she's a Japanese priestess, very polite toward others, and has an iron will.
107* ''Literature/TheIrregularAtMagicHighSchool'' has Miyuki Shiba, whose appearance [[spoiler:was specially genetically modified]] in order to maximally correspond to this ideal. As a result, her hair is more black than that of any of her relatives, and her skin looks so pale that on some official art looks almost like the white makeup of a geisha, not to mention her ideal features and delicate behavior. In view of this, she is so beautiful from the point of view of others that many are stunned or even scared, first met her. All this together with her devoted character makes her an ideal woman and wife, which looks somewhat disturbing in connection with the BrotherSisterIncest character of the story.
108* ''Literature/InvadersOfTheRokujyouma'' has four examples. Kiriha is a scion of an ancient house, has a HimeCut as well as a cool and collected personality, cooks, cleans, and wields a Naginata. Ruth is from a distinguished knightly family, has a modest and polite personality and is a SupremeChef. Harumi is from OldMoney, is shy and retiring, and absolutely will not abandon her friends. Finally, Sanae is a Miko, was an archer in middle school, and is also a good cook.
109* ''Literature/KinosJourney'' features [[spoiler:a genderflip]]. There are two characters named Kino, and it's the [[spoiler:male]] one who fits this trope. The [[spoiler:female]]... [[{{Bokukko}} not so much]].
110* ''Literature/MariaWatchesOverUs'': Out of the girls, Shimako Todou is the one who fits the most. She's prim, proper and gentle, and used to be super shy until Noriko pointed out that she was no burden on anyone and she shouldn't think of herself as such. As a result, she's the most admired and popular of the first-year students, loved for her beauty and her SilkHidingSteel mindset. [[AmazinglyEmbarrassingParents Just don't parade her Buddhist priest dad around for ghost hunts, okay?]]
111%% * Discussed in ''Obasan'' by Joy Kogawa, where Naomi discusses how her female relatives were like that.
112* ''Literature/RascalDoesNotDreamOfBunnyGirlSenpai'': Female protagonist Mai Sakurajima, aside from her DeadpanSnarker traits which appear around Sakuta, is a perfect fit. She's beautiful, elegant, with long black hair, and a very NiceGirl, polite and serious, with a tougher and defensive side that comes out when needed. She's also an excellent cook. She's also definitely selfless, kind-hearted, and [[UndyingLoyalty so devoted to the guy she loves]] that [[spoiler: [[HeroicSacrifice she lays down her life to save him.]]]]
113* The main character of Sawako Ariyoshi's novel ''The River Ki'', Hana, is a well-born ''yamato nadeshiko'' born in the late 19th century. The novel starts with her marriage, whereupon she devotes herself fervently to serving her husband, his family, and their interests. She's highly cultured and graceful (also beautiful and tall), and quickly earns a reputation for tact and wisdom by serving as a matchmaker. She uses behind-the-scenes influence with great skill and energy to further her husband's political career. She's definitely strong and is compared to a river that swallows up all lesser tributaries. Hana finds this to be a fulfilling life. However, her rebellious daughter Fumio and her modern granddaughter Hanako don't share her values, and a major theme in the novel is Hana puzzling over, and partially coming to terms with, their alternate way of thinking. Hanako admires her grandmother but couldn't be her even if she wanted to: the social conditions for it didn't exist in the post-war years.
114* In ''Literature/{{Shogun}}'', Mariko Buntaro is a quiet yet very plucky woman in the service of MagnificentBastard Toranaga, who refuses her husband in private and once talked back to Toranaga himself ''and'' got away with it, despite having hit her master's BerserkButton. In the end, she [[spoiler:throws herself on an explosive while proclaiming that this is her "honorable ''Seppuku''" protesting their imprisonment at Ishido's hands... [[ThanatosGambit forcing Ishido to free his hostages and pave the way for Toranaga to seize control of the country]].]] This is TruthInTelevision as Mariko is based on a RealLife ''yamato nadeshiko'': the very famous Tama "Gracia" Hosokawa.
115* ''Literature/SisterhoodSeries'' by Creator/FernMichaels: Despite Yoko Akia referring to herself as Chinese in ''Weekend Warriors'', ''Free Fall'' establishes her as Japanese, so she is definitely this trope. She is highly feminine and mostly polite and soft-spoken, but make no mistake, this 4 feet 8 inches tall, 90-pound woman can and will engage in WaifFu if the situation calls for it. In fact, she has lost a fight on-screen and she pinned her future husband Harry Wong to the ground in a sparring match. It is telling because Harry can flatten just about anybody in a fight, and he states afterward that that was the first time in his life that he had ever been pinned to the ground.
116* ''Literature/SisterPrincess'' has an odd example. Haruka is from ''Germany'' and yet she acts more traditionally Japanese than any of the cast: wearing kimonos, conducting tea ceremonies, practicing with a naginata, etc.
117* In ''Literature/SwordArtOnline'', Yuuko was a blushing, submissive wife with no desires other than to live quietly with her husband... until they got trapped in the game. While [[spoiler:Grimrock]] freaked out, Yuuko reinvented herself as Griselda and rose to the challenge, forming a powerful guild and becoming idolized by all. [[spoiler:And sadly, this ends in tragedy. The combined stresses of being trapped in a death game and losing control over her drove Grimrock to have Griselda murdered, and later to a MyGodWhatHaveIDone when Asuna learns what happened and [[KirkSummation tells him off for that]]]].
118* OlderThanPrint and {{Discussed|Trope}} in ''Literature/TheTaleOfGenji''. The characters come to the conclusion that a doormat is certain to snap eventually, and so it's better for a woman to tactfully but unmistakably bring up grievances with her husband and ''not'' simply take any indiscretions on his part lying down.
119%% * ''Literature/TaleOfYashima'': Several of the female characters, but Atsuda Manami in particular.
120* ''Literature/{{Toradora}}'': Sumire Kanou is a subversion. She is described as having the looks and elegance of a ''yamato nadeshiko'', and is the StudentCouncilPresident. She has black hair in the light novels but has blue hair in the anime adaptation. However, she's actually very coarse in her speech and she's also revealed to not be as mature as she seems.
121* ''Literature/TortallUniverse'': Given that the Yamani Isles is a FantasyCounterpartCulture for Japan, it is no surprise that Yamani women typically are known for politeness, stoicism, and carrying weapons that look like decorations.
122* ''Literature/TheTwelveKingdoms'':
123** A ''yamato nadeshiko'' from ImperialChina (sort of) is Rangyoku. An orphan who works [[TeamMom as the housekeeper]] [[TeamChef and cook]] for an old man named Enho and takes care of her brother Keikei, she's the most polite and sweet girl in the kingdom of Kei. [[spoiler:She meets a tragic end when some soldiers assault the house, kidnap Enho, injure Keikei, and stab her to death]].
124** An older version is Queen Chuukin, the sovereign of the kingdom of Sai. With emphasis on the subtle will of iron, as she convinces Riyo to let Suzu go with words alone. Her ''kirin'' Sairin fits in well: She is very calm, cultured, and dainty, even for someone of her kind.
125%% * In the ''Yoko'' and ''Yoko & Friends'' series by Creator/RosemaryWells. The titular protagonist's mother who is an anthropomorphic Japanese cat who pretty much follows this trope.
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129* Franchise/SuperSentai:
130** ''Dengeki Sentai Changeman'' one example I’d the first ever white senshi, Sayaka Nagisa the brains of the team who is etiquette, motherly, and kind.
131** ''Series/TokusouSentaiDekaranger'' Swan Shiratori, a mechanic, fits this description perfectly, though not being as tall or long-haired as most anime examples.
132** The following season ''Series/MahouSentaiMagiranger'' yields a better example, Ozu Miyuki, literally the mother of the core 5 Rangers. Even her superhero identity is named Magi''Mother''. [=MagiBlue=], Urara is an example-in-training, and tall, long-haired, sweet TeamDad Makito has elements of a male version.
133** ''Series/JukenSentaiGekiranger''. Masashi Miki, a single mother of one and more of a guardian and mentor to the Rangers than the actual grandmaster [=ShaFu=], [[spoiler:was a former Sukeban {{delinquent}} in her teen years.]]
134** Defied by Ran, whose mother wants her to become a ''yamato nadeshiko'' and to that end tries to arrange a marriage for her. After the Gekirangers spend the episode trying to foil [[ThePlan this plan]], Ran finally gives up and explains that she is too busy saving the world to get married.
135** Explicitly stated as the dream of Mako in ''Series/SamuraiSentaiShinkenger'' (she even has a character song about it!) but unfortunately [[LethalChef her cooking skills leave a lot to be desired.]]
136** ''Series/EngineSentaiGoOnger'' has Ren/Go-on Blue, a male example: tall, polite, the most mature and responsible of the bunch, and the one who does all the team's cooking. His teammates even call him "mother."
137** ''Series/GekisouSentaiCarranger'''s Naoki/Blue Racer is a downplayed version due to the comedic nature of the show and the JerkAss behaviour of the main characters - but he has the modest, polite, calm and domestic side down perfectly.
138* ''Series/KamenRiderDenO'': Airi Nogami, Ryotaro's older sister, who is pretty, caring, an excellent cook, and '''unflappable'''. Upon being told that Ryotaro was being held hostage by an armed robber, her immediate reaction was to go back to preparing coffee. When one of her regulars asked how she could be so calm, she muttered "That's right", then went off...to make "Ryo-chan" some special hostage snacks. Cue mass FaceFault. The wisdom part comes to play in a rather surprising form: [[spoiler:She's been in the loop the whole time. Airi was in on her fiancée's plan from the beginning, and allowed her own memories to be altered in order to protect the Junction Point, their future daughter, Hana. She's known from the start that "Ryo-chan" was Den-O, and that his friend Yuuto is the time-displaced teenage version of her fiancée.]]
139* Matsu of ''Series/ToshiieToMatsu''is proof that these types of characters don't have to be {{Extreme Doormat}}s,: a traditional Samurai lady of the house raised in the Sengoku era whose indomitable will very few people are willing to come up against. (Though her husband does some ribbing from his co-workers due to her tendency to go ''[[{{Tsundere}} tsun]]'' on him when she suspects him of infidelity.)
140* ''Series/{{Atsuhime}}''. The title character, Atsuhime (Princess Atsu; later Lady Tenshoin) grows from a {{tomboy}}ish, adventurous village princess to the consort of the ObfuscatingStupidity Shogun Iesada. She skillfully and proactively (yet subtly) navigates around the issues and problems of the late-Tokugawa period (although not always successfully), marking her a remarkable exception inside a feudal world where women prefer behind-the-scenes scheming.
141* In the Japanese drama series ''Tumbling'', Wataru's mother is a model of refined behaivor but when the going gets tough, [[BewareTheNiceOnes we see where her son gets his fighting spirit from.]]
142* ''Series/DaeJangGeum'': Park Myeong-yi, the mother to the main character, and her husband live as lower caste commoners but she is a wonderful cook for her family as well as very calm but strict with her daughter.
143%%* Alyssa Enrile/White Tiger Ranger ''Series/PowerRangersWildForce''. Princess Shayla leans more toward SilkHidingSteel.
144* Stahma Tarr from ''Series/{{Defiance}}'' is a rare example in Western media that's done well. She is a beautiful woman who is devoted to her husband and son, as well as being quiet, humble, and polite. However, unlike many examples, she is not Japanese or even a human, but instead an [[ProudWarriorRace alien]]—specifically, a [[SpaceElves Castithan]]. She is then a ''[[TragicVillain (anti-)]]villain'', so all of the personalities associated with being this trope turned her into a LadyMacbeth and ManipulativeBitch. She despises her culture's misogynistic ways and is utterly ruthless to prove herself and gets what she wants, including using [[FemmeFatale her sexuality]]. Also unlike most examples of this trope, she doesn't love Datak despite his cruelty, but ''[[InLoveWithYourCarnage because]]'' of it: She considers his cutthroat nature to be proof of his ambition and willingness to do anything in order to succeed, something she couldn't do because of her society. So can be counted as this trope being [[PlayingWithATrope played with in many directions]], showing how a Yamato Nadeshiko might act if she is in a SciFi series.
145* The protagonist of the series ''Series/{{Oshin}}'', Shin "Oshin" Tanokura, is seen as a TropeCodifier in modern times since she's a strongwilled and plucky Japanese woman who's also kind, sweet. and duty-bound. And she always wears a [[KimonoIsTraditional kimono]], even in her older years ''after'' UsefulNotes/WorldWarII.
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149%%* ''Manhwa/PigBride'': Mu-Yoen.
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153%%zce* The Japanese singer Riyu Kosaka has a song called "Yamato Nadeshiko", which fits the trope pretty well, as you would expect.
154* Music/{{Twice}}'s Mina would fit into this trope because she is graceful, one of the more [[ShrinkingViolet timider]] and [[TheQuietOne quieter]] members, and she is Japanese.[[note]]Expect that she doesn't wear a kimono.[[/note]]Because of that, some of her nicknames are "Black Swan" and "Ballerina of Tragedy".
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158* ''Literature/TheTaleOfTheBambooCutter'': Kaguya-hime was sweet, polite, gentle, and devoted to her adoptive parents. While she ''did'' [[ImpossibleTask ask her suitors to do impossible things as the condition to marry any of them]] (which meant, [[FailureIsTheOnlyOption neither succeeded]]), it wasn't because of hate or cruelty, but because [[spoiler:she had to return to the Moon at some point, to become its Queen.]]
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162* In ''TabletopGame/BattleTech'', Omiko Kurita is practically a picture-perfect example of one, both from the flower of womanhood aspect, shown in her introduction in the Blood of Kerensky books, and the SilkHidingSteel, as she fended off an assassination attempt by her [[StarCrossedLovers lover's]] sister, and almost succeeded in fending off a second attempt.
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166%%* The IWantSong "A Quiet Girl" from ''Wonderful Town'' seems to be about this type.
167* Cio-Cio San, the main character in Puccini's opera ''Theatre/MadameButterfly'', is often believed to be this by Westerners... but she's actually more of a "China Doll" [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stereotypes_of_East_Asians_in_the_Western_world#.22China_doll.22_stereotype aka the stereotyped and racist/sexist view of East Asian women in the West]], as she lacks the SilkHidingSteel part that is needed. Therefore, she can be viewed as an example of how NOT to write a ''yamato nadeshiko''.
168* Cio-Cio San's equivalent, Kim, in ''Theatre/MissSaigon'', is a better example of this trope, having a stronger personality and being a full-on MamaBear.
169* ''Literature/FlowerDrumSong'': Mei Li is Chinese (though in the original run and film adaptation she was played by a Japanese actress) and fits the traditional values of China, down to her demureness and innocence -- though she does display moments of street-smarts and an enthusiasm for American pulp movies. She displays the SilkHidingSteel when she discovers that her fiance had spent the night at another woman's house; breaking it off with him with dignity and calmly telling him she does not love him anymore. She provides a {{Foil}} to the more Americanized GoodBadGirl Linda Low.
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173* ''Franchise/CareBears'' has Sweet Sakura Bear, a bear introduced in 2009 specifically for Japan. She was designed with this trope in mind. Sweet Sakura is a polite and soft-spoken character
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177* ''Franchise/AceAttorney'':
178** ''VisualNovel/PhoenixWrightAceAttorney'': Iris is a kind RavenHairIvorySkinBeauty, who is always polite to everyone. She is also very protective of people she cares about as shown when she gently, but firmly cuts off Phoenix arguing with [[spoiler:Edgeworth]], when they were on a way to rescue [[spoiler:her cousin]], or when she claims she'd do anything to stop [[spoiler: Dahlia from killing Phoenix, [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend including killing her]]]], had she known about her plans.
179** ''VisualNovel/TheGreatAceAttorney'': Susato Mikotoba, assistant to Asogi and Ryu. She's a formally educated teenage judicial assistant with impeccable manners to strangers and a proper and serene demeanor. Susato is also a progressive thinker who holds her ground in social and legal situations better than Ryu does and can toss him on the ground if the situation calls for it.
180* Uraha in ''VisualNovel/{{Air}}'': Though it isn't explicitly stated, she invokes and parodies this trope on purpose. Creator/KikukoInoue count: 16
181%%* ''[[VisualNovel/BlissStageLoveIsYourWeapon Bliss Stage]]'': Meredith Baker is exactly this... although she's black.
182* ''VisualNovel/{{Clannad}}'' has a few:
183** [[DelicateAndSickly Nagisa Furukawa]] and her mother Sanae. Sanae-san's main flaws as a ''yamato nadeshiko'' is that she tends to be a CordonBleughChef when it comes to making bread [[spoiler: and that, in the anime series, she becomes a StepfordSmiler who doesn't allow herself to grieve for the dead Nagisa in the name of raising Nagisa and Tomoya's daughter Ushio as best as possible.]] Nagisa is more of a ShrinkingViolet, but slowly evolves into one and it shows VERY well when she gives a VERY scaringly stressed Tomoya a rather fierce CooldownHug to calm him down. Creator/KikukoInoue count: 17
184** Mei Sunohara, the kid sister of Tomoya's friend Youhei, is a ''yamato nadeshiko'' crossed with CheerfulChild. Whenever she visits Youhei, the first thing she does is clean his [[TrashOfThetitans (truly filthy)]] room.
185** Kotomi Ichinose is one crossed with a TeenGenius, despite [[{{Cloudcuckoolander}} her eccentricities]]. Her traits become more obvious as she befriends the rest of the gang. In ''~After Story~'' she shows up to the New Year's party in a kimono, the only girl to do so in the scene. She also has the calm, unassuming nature and domestic abilities to qualify, and [[Creator/MamikoNoto a seiyuu to match]]. On the other hand, what she fails to do properly is music - her violin is a memetic weapon more than anything.
186* Sakura Matou from ''VisualNovel/FateStayNight'' comes off as this at first glance, but it's later revealed to be deliberately invoked on her part. When she grew interested in Shirou, she resolved to reform herself to be more appealing to him, which is why she spends so much time [[ThroughHisStomach cooking for him]] at his house. Her gentle and quiet demeanor also strikes a contrast with other love interests like [[{{Tsundere}} Rin]] and [[TheStoic Saber.]] [[spoiler: It turns out that she's ''actually'' a BrokenBird and StepfordSmiler who's been through a massive BreakTheCutie process ever since she was a kid, at the hands of her adoptive family: her YN traits were born from both her desire to be more appealing to Shirou and as a psychological defense. So when she snaps in her own route... [[BewareTheNiceOnes SNAP she does]].]]
187** In ''Literature/FateZero'', Sakura's mother Aoi wants to and ''desperately'' tries to be this for the sake of her family. However, the poor woman completely [[ExtremeDoormat lacks the "iron core"]], and she's ultimately not equipped to deal with the hardships she's dealt.
188%% * ''VisualNovel/{{Happiness}}'': Saya. Explicitly referred to as such by Hachisuke.
189%% * ''VisualNovel/KaraNoShoujo'': Yukari wears traditional Japanese clothing around the house. However, she's also a Cloudcuckoolander and has questionable taste, which puts the impression in a comical light.
190* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'':
191** Lilly Satou [[PlayingWithATrope is a spin on the trope.]] [[ButNotTooForeign She's only half Japanese]] and has blonde hair instead of black, but she's very calm and ladylike and her "touch of iron" is most evident when she has to deal with [[ManipulativeBastard Shizune]]. Also [[spoiler: her being this is why Hisao has difficulty reading her emotions. Furthermore, [[DontYouDarePityMe she annoys him with her pity.]] She [[StepfordSmiler represses her emotions]] to the point where Hisao has to get a severe heart murmur before she can confess to him. Near the end of Act IV, she can't reject her parents' wishes for her to return permanently to Scotland despite how unhappy it will make her. In the Good Ending, Hisao [[HeartTrauma has to give himself a heart attack chasing her]] before Lilly can follow her heart and choose to stay with Hisao and her friends.]]
192** In the [[WhatCouldHaveBeen beta version]] of the game, Misha outright says she wanted to be this to [[spoiler:Shizune]] during [[spoiler:her [[DrivenToSuicide suicide]] scene]]. Misha herself is anything ''but'' a YamatoNadeshiko. She's a loud, clumsy GenkiGirl [[spoiler:who is [[StepfordSmiler covering up]] heavy depression and self-esteem issues.]]
193* ''VisualNovel/MajikoiLoveMeSeriously'': Yukie "Mayucchi" Mayuzumi is kind, feminine, polite, submissive, and shy. [[BadassAdorable She's also a master swordswoman that can]] [[BewaretheNiceOnes more than hold her own in battle.]]
194* ''VisualNovel/MinotaurHotel'': Kota is a male example, being prim, proper, and polite at almost all times.
195%%* ''VisualNovel/{{Morenatsu}}'', with its nearly all-male CastFullOfGay, has Kyōji has a male version.
196* Awayuki in ''VisualNovel/{{Nekopara}}''. She has the high class, the looks, and the fashion. Seemingly also the personality, though we have only seen a little of her, and it's been purely conversation. Aside from that, the one significant thing we know about her doing so far is supporting Kashou's business from behind the scenes.
197* [[spoiler:Fumino Kotoyose]] from ''VisualNovel/{{Nukitashi}}'' has been thoroughly raised in this mindset and it shows when she joins the NLNS, with her knitting and tea brewing skills and her kind, refined and loyal personality. At the same time, she always protects her teammates with her sniper rifle. In her route she gets even more diligent doing housework and cooking for Junnosuke.
198* ''VisualNovel/{{Shuffle}}'': Kaede Fuyou is unfailingly gentle, politely insisting on taking care of Rin, and is a terrific cook and from there, her characterization changes depending on the original visual novel or the anime. In the former, [[HeroicSelfDeprecation she think too poorly of herself to start a genuine relationship with Rin]] and in the latter, [[spoiler: she goes {{yandere}} when Rin falls for their common friend, Asa.]]
199%% * Touko in ''VisualNovel/{{Suika}}'' intentionally takes on this role. Her passivity and devotion are ''disturbing'' to Yoshikazu, her boyfriend.
200* Saki Nijino from the first ''VisualNovel/TokimekiMemorial'' game is a downplayed example. While she's [[SupremeChef highly skilled at cooking]], enjoys taking care of her friends in a motherly way, and is very dedicated to upholding family tradition, she doesn't have the typical hairstyle (having short, light blue hair rather than a HimeCut) and is more upbeat and energetic than the archetype usually is.
201* In ''VisualNovel/TrueLoveJunaiMonogatari'', [[CuteBookworm Remi Himekawa]] fits in fairly well. She has the looks, the cool and polite behavior, and the cooking skills, and not to mention she is the very booksmart, well-loved, and respected StudentCouncilPresident of the PlayerCharacter's school.
202* ''VisualNovel/UminekoWhenTheyCry'' :
203** Natsuhi Ushiromiya tries her hardest to play this trope straight. It helps that she has the looks, comes from a traditional family of Shinto priests, and is very dedicated to her husband, but she ultimately has too much of a HairTriggerTemper to truly be a ''yamato nadeshiko'' due to the constant stress [[BigScrewedUpFamily the family she married into]] puts on her.
204** Virgilia is an elegant witch and Beatrice's mentor who will drop more than a few hints in order to help Battler succeed. For a bonus, [[Creator/KikukoInoue yep, she's voiced by Kikuko Inoue (count: 18)]].
205** One of the complaints that Kyrie Ushiromiya had against Asumu, Rudolf's first wife and Battler's mother, was how much she resembled the archetype and how it made her look [[NoGuyWantsAnAmazon more desirable to Rudolf than an assertive female like her]].
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209* ''Ronin Galaxy'': Ai is a direct example of this trope. She goes from being a naginata-wielding home defender one second, to a proper, tea-pouring geisha-type the next.
210* The YN of ''Webcomic/ContemplatingReiko'' is the mother of TheProtagonist, Fumiko. She's the demon world version of this trope: a doting mother and HouseWife whose hobbies include flower arranging, calligraphy, tea ceremony, katana-wielding, drinking booze, and bounty hunting.
211%% * Jade of the ''Webcomic/GhostBlade'' webcomic is very nearly one of those, acting as an incidental ReplacementGoldfish for her dead sister's [[LivingLegend husband]].
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215* ''Literature/WhateleyUniverse'' example: Generator's late mother, who was even first-generation Japanese. Generator would like to become this and is trying to learn how to cook. She's already a great babysitter and wants to become a mother someday [[spoiler:despite the fact that she was born a boy]].
216* This is the standard portrayal of the WebOriginal/OSTan version of Windows 95, being the oldest of the 32-bit Windows operating systems.
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220* ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'''
221** Princess Ursa is soft-spoken, beautiful, calm, and very proper, teaching Zuko about small things in the ways of life and wondering what's wrong with Azula when she's in full CreepyChild mode. She shows the core of iron by [[spoiler:''killing her father-in-law'' [[MamaBear to protect young Zuko]].]]
222** Mai is an AloofDarkHairedGirl and a LadyOfWar, but personality-wise she's more deadpan than the standard, and a lot of her apparent elegance is born out of apathy, as it was forced on her by her mother so she wouldn't "embarrass" the family. She [[spoiler:defies none other than '''[[DaddysLittleVillain Azula]]''', for [[ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend the sake of the man she loves]], Azula's older brother Zuko. "I love Zuko more than I fear you!"]]
223** Toph Beifong can fake it perfectly, as when she shows up in a white dress in her parents' home - except she really, ''really'' dislikes it. Before leaving home she moonlights as a pro wrestler, and once she's free of her parents' supervision and can act the way she wants to, she proves to be very crude, aggressive, and unladylike indeed.
224* In ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'' there's Yori, who crushed on Ron in Seasons 2 and 3 but is very submissive and deferential despite her [[ActionGirl impressive martial-arts skills]] as a {{ninja}}. When Kim and Ron finally hook up in season four, Yori [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy calmly accepts it]] and claims it to be [[YouCantFightFate destiny]]. (Which saves her from the DieForOurShip that a ''yamato nadeshiko'' love interest usually goes through.)
225* ''WesternAnimation/MollyOfDenali'': Kenji Ookami is a male example. His wife doesn't fit the trope since she isn't Japanese, but Kenji has all the trademarks of a typical YN; he's polite yet firm, loves his family, and takes good care of animals.
226%% * The ill-fated Tang Shen, as described in Leonardo's "Tale of Master Yoshi" in ''WesternAnimation/TeenageMutantNinjaTurtles2003''.
227%% Do not add any examples from ''My Little Pony: Friendship Is Magic''; Fluttershy has been removed twice already. She belongs in Silk Hiding Steel because none of the characters fit the "Japanese" part of the trope. %%
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231* The TropeCodifier would be the ''Chiran Nadeshiko Unit''. Created by UsefulNotes/ImperialJapan in the closing stages of UsefulNotes/WorldWarII, it was composed of middle school and high school girls, who served as surrogate [[LittleSisterHeroine 'little sisters']] providing housekeeping for the transient pilots' barracks at Chiran Airbase in Kagoshima Prefecture and taking care of the pilots for the brief periods between their arrival from training bases elsewhere and their departure on their final missions. The idea was that they would be a source of [[TheHeart comfort and companionship to the pilots]] while serving as (not-so) subtle reminders of [[DeclarationOfProtection what they were sacrificing themselves to protect]]. The unit was highly publicized in Imperial Japan for propaganda purposes, but befriending successive waves of airmen (most of them little more than teens themselves) [[HerHeartWillGoOn only to watch them sent off to die]] in so-called 'Kamikaze' attacks [[BreakTheCutie inflicted a severe psychological toll on the girls]]. The program finally ended after an air raid convinced the authorities that the airfield [[HarmfulToMinors had become too dangerous for them]], though remarkably none of the girls were killed. Some surmise that the modern iteration of the ''yamato nadeshiko'' has its basis in wartime propaganda intended to buck up the home front. The full story of the Chiran girls can be found in books like ''BLOSSOMS IN THE WIND: Human Legacies of the Kamikaze'' by M.G. Sheftall, or ''[[http://www.kamikazeimages.net/books/japanese/sato/index.htm Tokkou no Machi: Chiran]]'' by Sanae Sato.
232* [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gracia_Hosokawa Tama "Gracia" Hosokawa]], daughter of UsefulNotes/AkechiMitsuhide. Converted to Christianity by her handmaid, she chose to die (according to some sources, she [[{{Seppuku}} killed herself]]; to others, she was murdered and her killers made it look like a suicide) rather than renouncing her ideas and her family honor. In fact, the aforementioned Mariko from ''Literature/{{Shogun}}'' is an {{expy}} of Gracia.
233* Etsu Inagaki Sugimoto was a Japanese woman of noble birth, who describes in her autobiography, ''Daughter of the Samurai'', how she converted to Christianity and immigrated to America for an ArrangedMarriage and how she maintained contacts on both sides of the Pacific into her old age.
234%%zero context example* The term was the reason the Japanese female soccer team gained the nickname "Nadeshiko Japan". After winning UsefulNotes/TheWorldCup in 2011; the girls totally justified it!
235%% * Wrestling/TorrieWilson describes Kenzo Suzuki's wife Hiroko as being one in real life -- loyal and dedicated to her husband, who was happy to be part of a storyline with her in order to put Kenzo over.
236%% * Actress Yuko Takeuchi was described as "the very image of the Yamato Nadeshiko" by a news commentator, and according to [[https://variety.com/2020/film/asia/explaining-death-of-takeuchi-yuko-japan-struggles-1234785142/ this Variety article]], her reputation is the real deal.
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