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8	->''Find the perfect guy\
9	Maybe I should be holding on\
10	And with you I could\
11	Til the right man comes along''
12	-->-- '''Music/TinaTurner''', "Til the Right Man Comes Along"
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14	The resulting plot when a LoveTriangle is used to illustrate the [[AnAesop Aesop]] "Be Careful Who You Give Your Heart To".
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16	Our heroine is a young woman with two suitors. Suitor #1 is [[RichSuitorPoorSuitor rich]] and handsome. He looks charming, witty, and charismatic. He seems to be everything a young woman would want. [[DerailingLoveInterests But he's not]].
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18	Suitor #2 appears to be flawed. If he's rich, he's not as rich as Suitor #1. If he's handsome, he's not as handsome. He could be many years older than our heroine. He often has the kind of personality that makes him hard to get to know.
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20	So naturally, our heroine picks Suitor #1. And she's happy, for a while. But then things go horribly wrong.
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22	Maybe Suitor #1 leaves town for a while and returns with a fiancée. Maybe [[ParentalMarriageVeto his parents]] persuade him that our heroine isn't good enough for him. Maybe our heroine has money problems, or family problems, or health problems, and Suitor #1 uses them as an excuse to break things off. Maybe he keeps coming up with excuses to put off the marriage (UnableToSupportAWife, for example). By his actions, he has shown himself to be the wrong guy.
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24	Just when our heroine despairs of any help, who arrives in her hour of need? Suitor #2! He doesn't expect our heroine to fall in love with him, but he helps her anyway. He just [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy wants his beloved to be happy]].
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26	This story often has a happy ending. All that's needed is for the heroine to recognize that [[PreviouslyOverlookedParamour Suitor #2]] is [[SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan the right guy]], and fall in love with him. He never cares that he's her [[SecondLove second choice]].
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28	Why does the young woman choose the wrong guy first? Because if she picked the right guy first, there wouldn't be a plot.
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30	In many cases, Suitor #1 may be the local bad boy, because... [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys well, you know]]. If a character can never choose between two suitors, then this is a case of BettyAndVeronica instead. Compare FirstGirlWins. This same general plot can work with the genders inverted so that it's the Wrong Girl First.
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32	This trope is often used by fanfic writers in a DieForOurShip scenario, where Suitor #1 is portrayed as abusive and cruel (regardless of him/her ''[[RonTheDeathEater really]]'' [[RonTheDeathEater being like that]] or not) in order to [[DerailingLoveInterests justify having the young woman/young man run into the arms of Suitor #2]].
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34	It often overlaps with HeartIsWhereTheHomeIs, in which the protagonist turns down an exotic, foreign LoveInterest in favor of a familiar, reliable local lover. Compare with FalseSoulmate, LastGirlWins, and RomanticFalseLead (which often overlap with this trope). The inversion is FirstGirlWins. Compare and contrast with FirstGirlAfterAll.
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36	!!Examples:
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41	* ''Manga/BoysOverFlowers'' plays this trope nearly perfectly during the series.
42	* Inverted by Haruna of ''Manga/HighSchoolDebut''. She initially falls for Fumi, a perfect example of Suitor #2, but instead ends up with Yoh, a textbook example of Suitor #1.
43	* Three events in ''Manga/PeachGirl'' are within lumping range of this trope, but in the first two, the demonstration of wrongness is false, and the third [[spoiler: isn't so much Wrong Guy First as it is ''Less Right'' Guy First]].
44	* In ''Manga/TheRoseOfVersailles'' Oscar pines for Fersen for years...before she realizes she truly loves André.
45	* In ''Anime/TheTowerOfDruaga'', Fatina falls for TheStoic [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys bad boy]] [[AloofOlderBrother Neeba]] in ''The Aegis of Uruk'', but after [[spoiler:Neeba and Kaaya's betrayal]], develops feelings for Neeba's younger half-brother [[TheHero Jil]]. But this trope is subverted in the end in that Jil never gets over Kaaya and the two eventually make up, leaving Fatina as a romantic loose end once more.
46	* In ''Manga/YonaOfTheDawn'' Yona spent years pining after [[ChildhoodFriends Soowon]] [[spoiler: until he murders her father and orders for her to be killed for witnessing it]]. She is saved in the knick of time by HopelessSuitor [[ChildhoodFriends Hak]], [[spoiler: who she eventually falls for as the series goes on]].
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50	* ''ComicBook/SpiderMan'':
51	** In ''ComicBook/SpiderManLovesMaryJane'', MJ initially nurses a crush on the daring SuperHero Spider-Man, but after an awkward date with him eventually comes to the realization that she's ''actually'' in love with her geeky algebra tutor Peter Parker. Anyone who is familiar with the mythos will tell you the [[SecretIdentity irony]] inherent in this little [[TwoPersonLoveTriangle set-up]].
52	** MJ also goes through something similar with the charming-but-manipulative Harry Osborn, although mainly because Peter has started dating Gwen Stacy instead (hint: the romantic entanglements the teenagers in this 'Verse go through are complex indeed), and eventually breaks it off with him. In something of a reverse, Harry actually ''is'' in love with her, but MJ isn't in love with him and feels it would be unfair to string him along.
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55	[[folder:Films -- Animation]]
56	* In Disney's ''[[WesternAnimation/Frozen2013 Frozen]]'', [[spoiler: this is the signature twist of the story. Upending ''years'' of Franchise/DisneyPrincess stories that stick close to LoveAtFirstSight, this film reveals that Prince Hans is ''anything'' but good for Anna, and only in it for himself. Indeed, the very concept of LoveAtFirstSight is attacked by pointing out that it is foolish to give your heart to someone you've ''only just met''. How it all plays out must be seen to be appreciated.]] Elsa actually lampshades this: "You can't marry a man you just met."
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59	[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
60	* Happens a lot in chick-flicky [[RomanticComedy Romantic Comedies]]. Examples include:
61	** ''Film/SweetHomeAlabama'', where the main character almost ends up marrying her initial suitor, only to fall back in love with her old flame.
62	** ''Film/BridgetJonesDiary''; Bridget initially pursues her boss, professional cad Daniel Cleaver (against her better judgement), and resists pursuing right man Mark Darcy as she believes he had an affair with Daniel's fiancée [[spoiler: when, in fact, it was Daniel who had an affair with Mark's wife]].
63	** ''Film/HopeFloats''. Here the initial decision is made pre-movie, but she's unceremoniously dumped on live television after he reveals he's cheating on her. The rest of the movie is about her moving back home and rekindling an old flame (while her daughter still idolizes her now-ex...with [[TearJerker eventually tragic results]]).
64	* ''Salaam-e-Ishq'': One of the stories follows a white girl, Stephanie, falling in love with Hindu Rohit who initially appears to reciprocate. When they eventually reunite after he goes missing, he rejects her in favor of a proper Hindu girl in an arranged marriage, dismissing Stephanie as some foreign chick who doesn't even speak their language. This earns him a slap from Raju, the taxi driver whom fell in love with her over the course of the search, and their arc ends with heartbroken Stephanie getting together with him.
65	* Noni is as happy as she can be with Kid Culprit in ''Film/BeyondTheLights'' before Kaz comes along, which, as she's suffering from [[DrivenToSuicide severe depression]], isn't saying much. Her relationship with Kaz overlaps with Kid Culprit and it becomes pretty clear to her that Kaz is the better guy- leading to her swiftly ending things with the rapper. She [[TookALevelInJerkAss DEFINITELY]] made the right choice!
66	* Major part of the plot of the UsefulNotes/{{Bollywood}} film ''Film/JabWeMet''. The two main characters meet on a train and through a series of misadventures end up going on a road trip throughout India together. Although Aditya falls in love with her fairly quickly, Geet... already has a boyfriend. [[spoiler: She loses interest after said boyfriend unceremoniously dumps her after she traveled all that way to see him.]]
67	* ''[[Film/KoiMilGaya Koi... Mil Gaya]]''. The two main characters are rich girl Nisha and mentally disabled Rohit who become friends after Nisha learns about Rohit's disability and they both hide and protect the stranded alien Jadoo. However, Nisha's childhood friend Raj wants to marry her and has the approval of her parents despite being a vicious bully to Rohit. [[spoiler: Rohit is later given powers by Jadoo. This causes Nisha to fall in love with him and she terminates her friendship with Raj permanently.]]
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70	[[folder:Literature]]
71	%%* ''Literature/TwentySixSixtySix'': Liz Norton’s relationship with the other critics.
72	* Nicole Baart's trilogy beginning with ''Literature/AfterTheLeavesFall'' plays around with this a ''lot''. In "After The Leaves Fall", [[spoiler: Thomas]] is the wrong guy for Julia and [[spoiler: Parker]] would seem to be the right guy...[[spoiler: until she becomes pregnant with his child and he leaves her]]. In "Summer Snow", [[spoiler: a new right guy, Michael, comes in]]...and in the final book, "Beneath The Night Tree", [[spoiler: Michael becomes the wrong guy, and a regretful Parker returns, revealing that he was the right guy all along]].
73	* In ''Literature/AnnaKarenina'', Kitty initially turns Levin down in favor of Vronsky, who immediately forgets her when he falls for Anna. Eventually, Kitty reconsiders her initial choice and she and Levin get married and presumably live HappilyEverAfter.
74	* Creator/JaneAusten [[CreatorThumbprint loves this trope]]:
75	** ''Literature/{{Persuasion}}'' may be unique among stories for having a WrongGuyFirst scenario where Suitor #1 and Suitor #2 are the ''same person,'' with eight years' growing-up in between.
76	** In ''Literature/SenseAndSensibility'', Mr. Willoughby dumps Marianne Dashwood for a rich woman. Marianne eventually marries Colonel Brandon. Elinor, for her part, is in many ways the right ''woman'' in Edward Ferrars' Wrong ''Woman'' First scenario; the two fall in love, but are prevented from acting on their feelings by Edward's rash earlier engagement to the opportunistic Miss Steele. [[spoiler: Miss Steele eventually dumps Edward to marry his younger brother, who becomes heir to the family fortune after Edward's mother disowns Edward, ironically because he refused to break his vow to marry Miss Steele. This allows Edward and Elinor to act on their feelings and marry.]]
77	** Elizabeth Bennett of ''Literature/PrideAndPrejudice'' is initially charmed by the smooth-talking Wickham, before Mr. Darcy exposes Wickham's true nature and wins Lizzy's heart. In a slight variation from form, Mr. Darcy ''is'' a much better catch than Wickham in every way: he is far wealthier, well-connected, young, handsome, kind -- pretty much ''perfect'', as many a fangirl will tell you -- he just lacks Wickham's natural charisma and comes off as [[TheStoic stoic]] and [[TroubledButCute unfriendly]] -- which, due to ValuesDissonance, only earns him ''more'' points with [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys modern fangirls]]. As Lizzy herself puts it, "One has all the goodness, and the other all the appearance of it!"
78	* Happens quite frequently in Creator/AgathaChristie's novels, where two of the suspects fall in love... until one of them is revealed to be the murderer.
79	%%** ''Literature/{{Emma}}'' and Frank.
80	* ''Literature/FarFromTheMaddingCrowd'' by Thomas Hardy also has this, although it gets even more complicated with the addition of Suitor #3, who's not quite as graceful towards Suitor #1 as Suitor #2 is.
81	* Done ''twice'' in ''Literature/TheGardellaVampireChronicles.'' Victoria has three love interests within the books. She marries Phillip, who gets vamped and she has to stake him. Later she has a fuckbuddy-type relationship with [[HeelFaceRevolvingDoor Sebastian]] but is obviously going to end up with Max.
82	* In ''Literature/GreatExpectations'', Estella marries the abusive Bentley Drummle, Pip's rival, to spite Miss Havisham. He is later killed in a horse-riding accident, and in the RevisedEnding (in the original ending she remarries with a different man), she reunites with Pip in a MaybeEverAfter scene.
83	* In ''Literature/HarryPotter'', Harry, Ron, Hermione, and Ginny all date at least one person before getting together with their future husband/wife. At the age of seventeen/eighteen.
84	* In Creator/PGWodehouse's ''Literature/HotWater'', Packy is engaged to Beatrice at the opening -- she thinks she can make a man of culture out of him -- and Jane is engaged to Blair Eggleston, who writes very literary novels. They both get out of them.
85	* In ''Literature/TheHungerGames'', [[spoiler: Gale is the wrong guy, and Peeta is the right guy]]. However, [[spoiler: Peeta is the kinder and more charming of the two, and Katniss doesn't want any relationship at all initially and is also doubtful about Gale to begin with]].
86	* In ''Literature/TheLastDragonChronicles'' Sophie is David's WrongGirlFirst. He ends up falling in love with Zanna instead, but they stay friendly enough.
87	* In ''Literature/{{Loveless}}'', [[spoiler:Rooney]] is revealed to have had an abusive ex-boyfriend, and she regrets giving up everything for him, [[spoiler:including her OnlyFriend Beth]]. She struggles with letting go of the pain from her previous long-term relationship [[spoiler:and wrestling with her feelings for Pip.]]
88	* Played with in the plot of ''[[Literature/{{Twilight}} New Moon]]'': perfect prince Edward leaves Bella and sincere IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy poster guy (for this book at least) Jacob happily sweeps up the ashes and befriends her. Subverted in that Wrong Guy First comes back in the end, and the rest of the series keeps them together from then on.
89	* Creator/AnthonyTrollope:
90	** In ''The Small House at Allington'', part of ''Literature/TheChroniclesOfBarsetshire'', Lily Dale picks Adolphus Crosbie over John Eames. Adolphus breaks their engagement to marry Lady Alexandrina de Courcy.
91	** In ''The Prime Minister'', one of the ''Literature/{{Palliser}}'' novels, Emily Wharton marries Ferdinand Lopez, who only wants her for her money. After his death, she marries the man who truly loves her, Arthur Fletcher.
92	** In ''Literature/CanYouForgiveHer'', two women go through this. Glencora loves the abominable Burgo but ends up marrying the solid Plantagenet. Alice initially loves her cousin George, but after he goes through a wild period breaks it off and becomes engaged to bland but respectful John Gray. Mrs. Greenow doesn't really fit this trope.
93	* This happens in the RomanceNovel ''Literature/RoseOfRapture'' when the heroine first meets and falls in love with a PrinceCharmless.
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97	* ''[[Series/BeverlyHills90210 90210]]'' features a variation of this trope: after years of being a troubled promiscuous drug-addict, Adrianna realizes Navid loved her all along and only cared for her happiness, and becomes his girlfriend even though she's pregnant with another guy's baby. Later on, she leaves Navid for a rich handsome jock, only to be left empty-handed as Teddy didn't want a relationship anyway.
98	* Scarily played straight in an episode of ''Series/BeyondBeliefFactOrFiction'' which has a young woman going to a match-making service. The elderly woman running the business has a son who she feels the woman may be interested in, but she ends up with a seemingly charming man, who one day as they're out driving and ostensibly run into some car trouble, [[MoodWhiplash decides to rape and murder her.]] After attempting to flee from him on foot, he catches up with her, only for the son to almost materialize out of nowhere, find them and fight off the attacker. They end up together after that.
99	* ''Series/TheFlash2014'': This exact situation is why Joe West refused to give Eddie Thawne his blessing when he asked for permission to ask Joe's daughter, Iris West, to marry him. Joe knew Iris was really in love with her best friend, Barry Allen, and if she married Eddie, she would eventually realize she married the wrong guy. Eddie himself contemplated this and it factored in his decision to break up with Iris. Iris herself, however, doesn't care if the one she's meant to be with is Barry, as, at the time, she only had eyes for Eddie. Ultimately, all of this is rendered moot when Eddie commits a HeroicSuicide in the Season 1 finale to stop the BigBad and his descendant, Eobard Thawne.
100	* ''Series/{{Friends}}'', in the Backstory, features Rachel choosing Chip instead of Ross (she reveals in the Pilot that she knew about his feelings so it's not an oblivious choice). The former cheats on her, the latter eventually (as in many years later) becomes the love of her life.
101	** Monica has ''two'' wrong guys first: To be fair both of them, one a CoolOldGuy and the other a SelfMadeMan, ''were'' good guys any girl would be lucky to have, they just weren't good for Monica. (Richard was unsuited at a different stage of his life, while she and Pete were TooMuchAlike.) Meanwhile, her best friend, neurotic, commitment-phobic, relationship-screw up Chandler hinted he had feelings for her a few times, which she took as a joke. They finally fell in love and were HappilyMarried for years.
102	* In ''Series/{{Glee}}'', Rachel chooses [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys bad boy Jesse first]]. No one was surprised when he treated her like crap after he got what he wanted out of her [[spoiler: which was reuniting Rachel with her biological mother. Who is also Jesse's choir director, who told him to do it.]] He still egged her, though, which was definitely the asshole thing to do. Later she and [[SingleWomanSeeksGoodMan Finn]] (who has been teased all season long) get together.
103	* ''Series/GossipGirl'' has that in a way: Blair chooses Nate (the good guy) over Chuck (the bad guy) even though the former cheated on her with her best friend (whom he was actually in love with) and the latter was always there for her and showed a hitherto-unknown human side when he started to like her.
104	* Discussed in ''Series/HowIMetYourMother''. In season eight, Future Ted says that a man will always make one final, horrible mistake before meeting the woman he'll marry. This manifests in the present when younger Ted decides to start dating his StalkerWithACrush a few months before he meets the Mother at Barney and Robin's wedding.
105	* In ''Series/LoisAndClark'', Lois very nearly marries Lex Luthor, of all people.
106	* ''Series/ParksAndRecreation'':
107	** In the first season, Leslie had a crush on Mark, which stemmed from a brief fling they had some years before the pilot. Mark, however, was [[TheCasanova the local Casanova]] and held no romantic feelings towards Leslie whatsoever. Eventually, Mark was PutOnABus and replaced by Ben Wyatt, [[spoiler: whom Leslie would go on to happily marry in Season 5]].
108	** Ann goes through several wrong guys before she found happiness. She began the show dating Andy and then broke up with him to go out with Mark, who had become a LadykillerInLove with her. By the end of the second season, he was even set to propose to her before she dumped him, and Ann's reasoning for that was that while Mark was successful and mature, he [[TheGenericGuy just wasn't quite interesting enough]]. She later dates [[ThePollyanna Chris]], but when that fell through, she began [[ReallyGetsAround going out with a revolving door of paramours]], and even briefly went out with [[CasanovaWannabe Tom]] for a period of time. Eventually, [[RelationshipRevolvingDoor after several ups and downs]], Ann [[spoiler:gets back together with Chris]].
109	** Ann herself was the Wrong Girl First for Andy, who spent most of the time after she broke up with him trying to win her back before finally giving up. He would go on to find long-lasting love with [[spoiler: April]].
110	** Ron went through ''two'' disastrous marriages (the first to a cold and domineering ice queen, the second to a [[TheVamp nymphomaniac]]; both were named Tammy) before finding true love with the down-to-earth and sensible [[spoiler: Diane]].
111	* In ''Series/RepublicOfDoyle'', Rose's first husband was a con artist. She found [[SecondLove the right guy]] after he went to jail.
112	* There was a male on ''{{Series/Skins}}'', with Chris initially going after Angie, his psychology teacher. As you can expect with a TeacherStudentRomance, it didn't end well. So he ended up with his best friend, Jal, who was willing to be there for him. [[spoiler: He did consider going back to Angie for a time, but ultimately realized Jal was the best choice.]]
113	* Double subverted in an episode of ''Series/TheTwilightZone1959''. A young woman has two suitors, a rich one she doesn't care for and a poor one she does. The poor one asks her to run off with him. Her future self later chases her younger self on horseback, begging her not to marry the wrong man... [[BettyAndVeronicaSwitch the poor one]], who turned out to be a money-hungry bastard and ruined her life.
114	* In ''Series/TheVampireDiaries'', Elena loved Stefan first and thought that she would always love Stefan. She cared for Damon but didn't develop feelings for him until the end of season 2. To make it even better, her feelings for Damon become even more obvious at the beginning of season 3 when Stefan leaves with Klaus, switches his humanity off, and once again becomes the monstrous killer that he used to be. Damon then becomes her confidant and a method of comfort. Later on in the series, they date and are most likely the series's endgame.
115	* In ''Series/TheVicarOfDibley'', Geraldine falls for David's brother, the cad, Simon. She ends up marrying the accountant Harry.
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119	* Music/RebaMcEntire's "One Promise Too Late" has a milder version, where the guy the heroine married isn't so much wrong or bad as less fulfilling than the one the singer meets later. To the woman's credit, she says, basically, "I can see you're my soul mate and I'd be happier with you - but my husband's been good to me all these years, and I won't betray him now." So, DownerEnding with [[PillarsOfMoralCharacter character]].
120	* "Unanswered Prayers" by Music/GarthBrooks: His old high school flame was the one he prayed for, but if the prayer had been answered, he wouldn't have met the real love of his life.
121	* "Til the Right Man Comes Along" by Music/TinaTurner is about a woman who meets a guy at a club and immediately realizes he's not "the one" but is good enough until [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin the right man comes along]].
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125	* In ''Theatre/CyranoDeBergerac'', Roxanne falls in love with handsome, well-intentioned but vapid Christian because Cyrano (thinking he doesn't stand a chance with her and PlayingCyrano) wrote Christian's love letters for him. Really, it was Cyrano she was in love with all along.
126	* Averted in, of all places, ''Theatre/RomeoAndJuliet''. Juliet never gives the obviously richer and parentally-endorsed Paris a thought. This ends badly, and, at least according to the standards of the time, she probably should have married Paris. But then the families would still be feuding, so yeah...
127	** Of course, Romeo himself was pining for Rosaline before he became enamoured of Juliet. What makes Rosaline so wrong? Well, she's a Capulet, ''and'' she's entering a convent.
128	* ''Hedda Gabler'', by Creator/HenrikIbsen, has an inverse version in the backstory: Eilert Lovborg was a DoggedNiceGuy to Hedda before he fell in love with Thea Elvstedt. Hedda supplies a tweaked example: she got married to George Tesman, who is incredibly stupid (in an intellectual sort of way), and thus, for her, the wrong guy. She gets some severe UnresolvedSexualTension with both Eilert (the right guy) and Judge Brack (the [[ScarpiaUltimatum even wronger guy]]). [[DownerEnding In the end]], Eilert [[IJustShotMarvinInTheFace accidentally shoots himself]] and Hedda becomes [[DrivenToSuicide a hero.]]
129	* Happens after a fashion in ''Brief Encounter'' by Creator/NoelCoward (and the 1945 film adaptation). Laura and Alec's many happy hours spent together make it clear that each is the other's true soulmate. However, both are already married, Laura to the kind yet bland Fred, and after they are nearly caught on the brink of consummating the affair, they decide they must part ways. At the end of the play, [[DownerEnding Alec takes a job in South Africa and Laura returns to Fred]] (who seems to know what has been going on but accepts it).
130	* ''Same Time Next Year'' is essentially built on a twisted dual version of this.
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134	* In ''VideoGame/Sly3HonorAmongThieves'', Sly is this to Penelope before she finally settles with Bentley. [[spoiler:But in [[VideoGame/SlyCooperThievesInTime the next game]], Penelope becomes the Wrong Girl First to Bentley]].
135	* In ''VideoGame/{{Unpacking}}'' the protagonist moves in with her boyfriend in 2010, with several indications that the relationship won't work out. In 2012 she's living with her parents again, having gone through what appears to have been a bad breakup. [[spoiler: She then gets her own place in 2013 and by 2015 her girlfriend moves in with her.]]
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139	* Sam in ''WesternAnimation/DannyPhantom'' already harbored a crush on Danny throughout the entire series, but the first boy she dated and kissed ([[FakeOutMakeOut legitimately]]) was the {{Fauxreigner}} Gregor, an Ultra-Recyclo Vegetarian Goth like her. Naturally, it was love at first sight (although part of the reason is that at this point, Danny was unreachable romantically for her--his heart was still set on Valerie and/or Paulina). She finds out though that he's really just a con artist who wanted to get in her pants. She goes back to crushing on Danny and as bonus points, Danny starts realizing he likes her.
140	* ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'':
141	** In the first season, Mako is faced with choosing between [[BettyAndVeronica Korra and Asami]] and chooses Asami. This [[ShipSinking doesn't work out]] for various [[LoveEpiphany reasons]] and he becomes an official couple with Korra by season end. This turns out to be a subversion though as they're broken up during season 2.
142	** In the GrandFinale [[spoiler: Korra and Asami get a RelationshipUpgrade,]] meaning that Mako was the wrong guy all along.
143	* Used in the plot of "The Way We Was" in ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'': Marge goes with Artie Ziff to the prom, but afterwards, he reveals himself as a total self-centered sleaze who initially attempts to force himself on her. After slapping him in the face and eventually leaving him in disgust, she realizes she cares for Homer instead.
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