Line #52 Main/WithOrWithoutYou


1	->''"I'm going with or without you, Jerry. What's it gonna be?"''
2	-->-- '''Samantha''', ''Film/TheMexican''
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4	[[TheHeart Bob]] is looking over Alice's plan to infiltrate the enemy base and notices that it will [[WhatMeasureIsAMook cause a lot of casualties]]. He feels uncomfortable about this and talks to her about it. She starts with how it will [[UtopiaJustifiesTheMeans be worth it in the long run]], and may let something slip about [[JumpingOffTheSlipperySlope a later plan]].
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6	As Bob gets more and more worried, and Alice gets more and more defensive, she finally reaches her tipping point and declares:
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8	"Too bad! I'm doing this [[TitleDrop With or Without You]]!"
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10	A StockPhrase cementing that Alice is done with Bob's opinion, because she believes she doesn't need him. [[TheDogBitesBack This]] [[HoistByHisOwnPetard rarely]] [[KarmicDeath ends]] well. Can also be "We're doing this with or without you," in which case some of the 'we' may walk off with Bob, or be clearly staying only out of terror. [[SlidingScaleOfSillinessVersusSeriousness It needn't be this dramatic.]]
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12	Alice can also be heroic, in which case Bob is probably just scared and [[ChangedMyMindKid may come back at an appropriate moment.]] This also makes it ''much'' more likely Bob will stay, happily or [[SourSupporter not]].
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14	Please be careful with examples. A character saying something like CantLiveWithThemCantLiveWithoutThem may sound very similar to this trope if the phrase is out of context.
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16	!!Examples:
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18	[[foldercontrol]]
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20	[[folder:Films -- Animated]]
21	* ''WesternAnimation/TheBraveLittleToaster''. After their master leaves them, a group of appliances must decide what to do.
22	-->Toaster: Well, I'm going, with or without you.
23	* ''WesternAnimation/{{Up}}'' - "Now whether you assist me or not, I am going to Paradise Falls, if it kills me!"
24	[[/folder]]
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26	[[folder:Films -- Live-Action]]
27	* ''Film/OnceUponATimeInAmerica''. Max plans to pull a BankRobbery.
28	-->'''Carol''': All he thinks about is this job: tear gas, hostages... Now he's gonna do this, and he's gonna do it with or without you!
29	* ''Film/TheInsider''. Lowell Bergman has refused to edit Wigand's interview.
30	-->Eric Kluster: We're doing this with or without you, Lowell. If you like, I can sign another producer to edit your show.
31	* ''Film/TheMexican''. Samantha wants Jerry to go to Las Vegas but he doesn't want to, leading to the page quote.
32	* ''Film/TheStepfordWives'' (2004). Joanna has realized that something is rotten in Stepford.
33	-->'''Joanna Eberhart:''' It's... It's not our world. It's not us. And I'm picking up our kids from camp right now, and we're getting out of here. With or without you.
34	* ''Film/KellysHeroes''. In the beginning after they're done at the farmhouse, Kelly gives this line to Big Joe when Big Joe tells him to not tell the others about the gold.
35	-->Kelly: Right well, you better fix up some transport papers for me, because I'm going. With ya, or without ya.
36	* In ''Film/JurassicWorld'', this is what Hoskins says to Owen re the plan to use his ''Velociraptors'' to help take down the ''Indominus''.
37	--> "This is happening, with or without you."
38	* In ''Film/TenaciousDInThePickOfDestiny'', Jables forces Kage to choose between 'tits or destiny', when the latter is tempted to stay and entertain a group of attractive women instead of continuing the search with the former for the eponymous pick. [[spoiler:Kage chooses tits.]]
39	[[/folder]]
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41	[[folder:LiveActionTV]]
42	* ''Series/PrisonBreak'' episode "Under & Out"
43	-->'''Michael Scofield:''' As soon as the lights go out, I'm gone. With or without you.
44	* ''Series/{{Angel}}'' episode "Redefinition"
45	-->'''Wesley Wyndam-Pryce:''' I thought you'd like to know that we're keeping the agency open. With or without you.
46	* ''The Outcasts'' episode "The Outcasts"
47	-->'''Jemal:''' With or without you, I'm going down there tonight.
48	* The line is never explicitly used, but is strongly implied in ''Sister Wives'' during the conversation about [[spoiler:the family relocating.]] Christine is against it, but Kody says that he has decided they have to do it and the other wives note that Christine has a choice about whether or not to join them.
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51	[[folder:{{Music}}]]
52	* Music/AvrilLavigne's 'Nobody's Fool' is all about how the person being sung to is trying to hold the singer back. It gives us this line:
53	-->''If it's with or without you, I don't need you doubtin' me.''
54	* The Music/ATeens [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin With Or Without You]]
55	-->''With or without you,\
56	I carry on... [snip]\
57	With or without you,\
58	I'm moving on''
59	* Music/{{U2}}'s [[Music/TheJoshuaTree "With or Without You"]] uses the phrase and inverts the message.
60	-->[[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zi77k4bqB-M "See the stone set in your eyes, see the thorn twist in your side...]]"
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63	[[folder:Theatre]]
64	* ''Theatre/{{Wicked}}'' has a heroic example in "Defying Gravity". Elphaba doesn't use the exact phrase, but she makes it clear to Glinda that she's going up against the Wizard, with or without her best friend.
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67	[[folder:Video Games]]
68	* In ''VideoGame/AceCombatAssaultHorizon'', when General Stagleishov objects to the operation that Warwolf squadron has formulated, William Bishop responds in kind.
69	-->'''Stagleishov''': Russian planes will not attack these ruins. This would be an international outrage!\
70	'''Bishop''': We can do it with, or without the MiGs! Your call, General.\
71	''Stagleishov storms off.''\
72	'''Gutierrez''': ...Guess that's without.
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75	[[folder:WesternAnimation]]
76	* In an episode of ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', Homer says that he is going to try to get a celebrity couple back together ''with'' or ''with'''''out''' Marge. (From memory)
77	-->'''[[CloserToEarth Marge]]''': Fine then, do it without me.\
78	'''Homer''': ''[sputters]'' [[SubvertedTrope But]] I wanted to do it ''with'' you!
79	[[/folder]]
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