Line #46 Main/UnwantedGiftPlot


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4	Most often a stock sitcom plot inherited from theatre (predominantly farce and pantomime) in which a character receives a present. [[MyNewGiftIsLame Said present turns out to be absolutely hideous, in the wrong shape or size, impossible to maintain or clean, and/or have some other defect.]] Additionally, the recipient is forced to pretend that they just ''love'' it, so as not to hurt the presenter's feelings or otherwise disappoint them for whatever reason.
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6	To add to the character's pain, the poor receiver of the gift turns out to either be just ''so'' good an actor, that the presenter insists that they wear it all the time, put it on display, paint the house to coordinate, etc. Or, the gifter is either simply being or pretending to be in SelectiveObliviousness to the actual situation. All the while, the poor victim has to profess contentment with or love of this horrible MoneySink. Cue an increasingly miserable character, and [[HilarityEnsues thus is comedy and/or drama committed]] as they try either to get rid of it, come to terms with it or endeavour to find a magical [[TakeAThirdOption third option]] that will bypass the whole dilemma.
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8	If played more for the drama, you can find the trope tipping towards the classical White Elephant mode, wherein the present was given specifically to [[PassiveAggressiveKombat passive-aggressively troll or hurt the receiver]] in some way. If they're lucky, it's just a TricksterMentor or some [[TheGadfly Gadfly]] friend trying to [[AnAesop teach them to come clean with their feelings]] if it is done deliberately, however maliciously played. Unlucky examples, however, can involve the Villain of the piece proving themselves to be an effective pain in ways that can be anything from humiliating to psychologically scarring.
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10	Very much TruthInTelevision, as every person with a very generous but senile/half-blind/out-of-touch grandmother can attest. Further, gift cards exist primarily to avert the trope; others who want to avert this trope will simply give money outright so that the recipient can spend it on whatever they want.
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12	HomemadeSweaterFromHell is a SubTrope.
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14	SisterTrope to FakedGiftAcceptance, where someone appears to be genuinely happy to get a gift but then throws it away or destroys it when no one's watching.
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16	Compare MyNewGiftIsLame, GiftGivingGaffe, GiftForAnOutgrownInterest, CrappyHomemadeGift, and ConvenienceStoreGiftShopping. Also see KidsPreferBoxes, TheDreadedThankYouLetter, and IGotARock. Might be caused by ClothesForChristmasCringe. Often a form of UnwantedAssistance.
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23	* ''Manga/SeitokaiYakuindomo'': [[DeadpanSnarker Tsuda]] receives, in quick succession, [[OverlyLongGag three]] implied and unwanted vibrating (sex) toys during the ChristmasEpisode. The first time as a part of a present exchange roulette and he knew about the possibility of getting that one (and tried to avoid it); the second time was from [[ImpliedLoveInterest Shino]] directly and seems awkward even by the show's standard; the third time is [[SantasExistenceClause from Santa himself]] and manages to achieve RuleOfThree [[RuleOfFunny funny]]. He utters not a complaint.
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27	* In ''FanFic/InquisitorCarrowChronicles'', after Severus Snape performs a minor favor for him in exchange for a live acromantula, Alessandor Carrow goes into the Forbidden Forest, drags one into Hogwarts, and kills it straight into Snape's waiting hands. Since Snape's delighted by the chance to experiment on fresh acromantula, Carrow decides to remember it. Following his adventures, he keeps finding rare and powerful potions ingredients, which he doesn't hesitate to forward to Snape - the problem being that most of these items are fantastically dangerous and illegal.
28	* In the ''Fanfic/TriptychContinuum'' story "Trav(ap)est(r)y", Princesses Celestia and Luna repeatedly attempt to rid the palace of a hideous ancient tapestry made before Luna's banishment that depicts the weaver's idea of what happened during the final battle against Discord. Half the problem is it was made by a famous artist (who was better off sticking to sculpture) and many consider it a "historical heirloom". All of those attempts fail one way or another until Celestia gives up and secretly burns it... [[spoiler:and is subsequently presented with an exact duplicate from the Diarchy-hating paparazzi. She then gives the duplicate to the griffon ambassador, who in return gifts her with a kinetic sculpture of a griffon repeatedly disemboweling its fallen opponent]].
29	* In ''Fanfic/TheWeaverOption'', there are several of these along the story.
30	** Trazyn the Infinite gives Taylor a powerful sword named "Nebula's Shard". As she later finds out, the sword is actually one of a hundred swords collectively known as the Swords of Vaul, after the ''Eldar'' god that created them. This immediately paints a target on her back, and the Eldar of Craftworld Biel-Tan attempt to kill her multiple times as part of their efforts to retake the sword.
31	** Trazyn later gives her a canister with a Space Marine progenoid gland (the stuff that is used to turn normal people into the Imperium's super-soldiers) with the promise to sell more if the circumstances are good - which they later are. The progenoid gland itself is of exceptional quality, being of the first generation of Space Marines created, with little to no mutations. [[spoiler:Pity that it is from the ''Emperor's Children'', one of the Legions that turned Traitor during the Horus Heresy, which means that, should they learn of it, the entire Third Legion would do everything in hand to take such a valuable cargo.]]
32	** Sixty years before the beginning of the story, infamous Archmagos Belisarius Cawl arrived to the Quayran shipyard and commissioned a warship of certain characteristics. In the record period of forty years, the shipyard delivered a ship that was unspeakably armored, armed, fast and powerful, beyond the stats of pretty much any other ship of its size. Cawl decided the ship was not up to scratch and sold it back to the shipyard, earning itself the nickname ''Quayran's Folly''. It takes Taylor using the vast resources she has gained by finding the [=STC=] Database (namely selling one of the STC printouts to them) to find someone that can afford not only the ship, but the maintenance costs.
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36	* ''Film/AChristmasStory'': Ralphie's ultra-embarrassing pink bunny pajama suit that he receives from Aunt Clara. Also the mannequin-leg lamp that Ralph's father won in a contest -- because he ''won'' it, he's very driven to have it around as a sign of pride, but Ralph's mother (and children) are embarrassed to no end because of it and one of the sub-plots is the struggle to try to accidentally-on-purpose misplace it, give it away or destroy it without Ralph's father starting a shouting match in defense of the damned thing. When Ralph's mother manages to smash it, the Old Man yells at her like she had murdered someone he loved ("you were ''jealous''!") and buries the lamp in the backyard (and Ralph is pretty sure he heard the Old Man playing "{{Taps}}" as he did).
37	* In ''[[Film/AlvinandtheChipmunks Alvin and the Chipmunks: Chip-Wrecked]]'' Dave is given a macaroni necklace by Theodore, who wants him to wear it everywhere he goes, including a formal dinner with the captain. Subverted since Dave does seem to genuinely cherish the necklace; when he and Ian are stranded, [[HonorBeforeReason Dave refuses to eat the necklace or let Ian do so no matter how desperate they get]]. [[ItWasAGift He even refers to it as his son's gift]].
38	* ''Film/Dune2021'': Being awarded stewardship of the titular planet is supposedly a sign of the Emperor's favor. Too bad you're now expected to supply the known galaxy with the SpiceOfLife that makes faster than light travel possible, with an entire DeadlyDecadentCourt waiting for you to screw up.
39	--> '''Baron Harkonnen:''' When is a gift not a gift?
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43	* There's a short story published in ''Magazine/TheNewYorker'' that plays with this. A man gets his wife a fur coat for Christmas but, as a practical joke, buys a little square of grubby rabbit fur at the same time and has it wrapped as if it's the real present. He drops hints in the weeks leading to Christmas about how he didn't get a bonus this year and he's afraid it's looking pretty lean. When she unwraps it, she puts on a brave face and pretends it's gorgeous and just what she wanted, going to such lengths (calling up a friend like she couldn't wait to tell her about it, and so on) that she almost convinces herself, and he gets annoyed and finally calls her attention to the huge package he's hidden in the hall. When she sees the coat, all the reaction he gets is, "It's ''nice''."
44	* In ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'', Westeros has [[AwesomeButImpractical Harrenhal]], and plays this trope for all the hubris-laden, classic White Elephant drama it can manage...for a full three-century period, both in the backstory and within the current series. Should the Iron Thone find itself needing to [[StandardHeroReward reward somebody]] who could ''conceivably'' turn out to be [[SocialClimber either difficult or dangerous down the line]], yet would also ''quite'' like to get cough [[PlausibleDeniability deniably]] cough rid of them (see "dangerous") at the same time, nothing beats handing them the ImpossibleTask of taking care of [[TheMillstone the place]] by giving them what seems to be a [[SchmuckBait peach of a title and access to the pick of lands in the Riverlands]]. It. Isn't. [[SurprisinglyRealisticOutcome Really, it's not.]] Harrenhal as a castle is rumored to be [[{{Curse}} cursed]], with every single house that accepts the title Lord of Harrenhal falling into such misfortune that they are inevitably destroyed within the span of a couple decades. It's almost a pity quite a few people, both in the main story and the history of the place, [[SubvertedTrope never quite realise that]] until a [[HighTurnoverRate bit too late to do them any good]] (readers, other characters and those writing the supplementary histories chronicling the various misfortunes are ''well aware'', however). Worse, those winding up in possession of the stone pile can't exactly try giving the place back after either 1) accepting the title to it or 2) taking it by force or deception and/or 3) subsequently finding out they can't handle it. Because reacting like "You know, after actually trying it, it doesn't really fit me; may I have a refund, pretty please (or I'll trash everything around here to find any funds until you do think about it)?" would be either treason to the Crown or an insult to the entire region, both of which would get you justifiably besieged within your awkward-to-fully-man walls... and squashed.
45	** The main problem of maintaining and manning Harrenhal is that it was created and populated by King Harren, who had the income and manpower of two regions (the Iron Islands and the Riverlands) to support this "ultimate stronghold". When his lineage and fortress were destroyed by Aegon the Conqueror, and the inheritors of the castle stripped of all lands except those of the surrounding countryside, no one who is dumb enough to take it has the resources to restore it, and those that do have the resources are smart enough to not [[SunkCostFallacy put in any effort]] with the damn cursed MoneySink.
46	** [[spoiler: Littlefinger has so far got around this by simply letting others take and try holding the castle via their own duties, intrigues and/or treasons: he thereby gets all the peripheral rights to the titles, with none of the maintenance or other problems actually dealing with the zombie white elephant directly would give him -- or, those being ungrateful enough to turn the [[OpportunisticBastard opportunity down flat]] in front of the Lannisters would give him, either. He is aiming to [[CuttingTheKnot cut the knot]] by quarrying the thing to the ground and replacing it with a much saner keep down the line, hopefully at a profit -- Harren used top-quality materials when he built it, after all.]]
47	* The ''Literature/VorkosiganSaga'' demonstrates a classical use of the White Elephant (echoing the actual gifts of albino elephants from a ruler to dangerously successful and popular generals) in Cetagandan society: [[ArrangedMarriage brides]] from the haut caste for exceptionally successful ghem. While this is actually something the ghem in question desire very much, it's also understood by all to be an example of this trope: the marriage is certainly not refusable without incurring mortal insult, and it's just as obviously used because the expenses of maintaining the bride's standard of living and her in-laws' new social status tends to eliminate any buildup of material or political resources which might someday down the line disturb the ghem caste's permanently subordinate role.
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51	* ''Series/AbbottElementary'': Gregory gets Amber LEGO flowers, assuming she'd appreciate them as she's allergic. She clearly doesn't (and in fact eyes Janine's new Telfar handbag), but powers through it.
52	* In ''Series/TheDickVanDykeShow'', one episode revolves around Rob giving Laura a replica of "[[Recap/TheDickVanDykeShowS1E12EmpressCarlottasNecklace Empress Carlotta's Necklace]]." Laura hates it, but CanNotSpitItOut because his ''intentions'' were so sweet.
53	* ''Series/{{Friends}}'':
54	** In "The One with the Prom Video," Joey buys Chandler a gaudy bracelet, and things escalate from there.
55	** Rachel does this with nearly every gift she gets apparently, swapping it the day after and pretending a big dog ran off with it, or something similar.
56	** There's also the episode where Rachel and Monica pretend to both want to keep a hideous work of art made by Phoebe, while they both try to get rid of it when she's away.
57	* An episode of ''Series/LeaveItToBeaver'' was about Beaver giving his mother a sweater that she ''really'' didn't like, but was too nice to tell him about it. And then he suggested that she should wear it to a parent/teacher meeting.
58	* On ''Series/TheKingOfQueens'', Doug and Carrie receive a hideous painting of themselves for their anniversary from their friends Deacon and Kelly. They pretend to love it, but secretly try to get rid of it. [[spoiler:It turns out Deacon and Kelly had intentionally given them a horrible present so they would be allowed to get rid of an unwanted gift that Doug and Carrie had previously given them.]]
59	* In an episode of ''Series/That70sShow'' Donna gave Eric a "man ring." Said ring was hideous and gaudy and was promptly given to Fez.
60	* In ''Series/HomeImprovement'' the boys gave Jill a very large bottle of very cheap perfume.
61	* Jake Donovan in ''Series/StarkRavingMad'' had this with a heavy beaded necklace his then girlfriend gave him.
62	* In one episode of ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'', Marie gives Ray and Debra a sculpture that she made in a class. The sculpture is unintentionally very suggestive, leading the family to try various means of getting rid of it without telling her why.
63	* The ''Series/{{Frasier}}'' episode "Our Father Whose Art Ain't Heaven" had Martin buying him a horrible painting after he overheard Frasier praising it to the restaranteur exhibiting it. Frasier spent the rest of the episode angsting about how to break the news.
64	* In ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'', Amy gives Penny a big, tacky painting of the two of them, where even in the painting Amy has a giant smile and Penny looks nonplussed. Bernadette points out that in the painting Penny looks like a man. Amy does not take it well when she discovers Penny taking it down, and their solution was to hang it on the FourthWall of her apartment, meaning it's always ''there'' but rarely seen. A SequelEpisode involved some apartment shifting, with Amy and Sheldon taking Penny's old apartment and deciding to gift the painting to Penny again. Again, they end up hanging it on the FourthWall.
65	* In ''Series/{{Justified}}'' we see a shelf in Ava's house that's lined with ceramic figurines. She mentions to Raylan that she'd once seen one in a friend's house and commented in passing that she liked them. Her deceased husband, Bowman, took her on her word and bought them for her every time he saw one. She told Raylan she didn't have the heart to tell Bowman that she'd only made the comment to be polite and that she really thought the figurines were hideous.
66	* Both {{Christmas Episode}}s of ''Series/TheGoldenGirls'' show that Rose tends to give rather subpar gifts to her three roommates. She gives Dorothy a maple syrup spigot in the first one, while the second has Blanche offhandedly admitting she buries hers out in the backyard.
67	* The Series 8/ Season 34 finale of ''Series/DoctorWho'' featured [[spoiler: Missy giving the Doctor a Cyberman army made from dead humans]] which he reacted to like she was giving him a HomemadeSweaterFromHell. It's the thought that counts, right?
68	* ''Series/JustShootMe'': Jack gives Dennis a vase he made as a decoration for his desk. Dennis makes a few attempts at destroying it, only to find that it's surprisingly tough - it doesn't shatter, and attempting to bash it on the edge of the desk only ends up breaking the desk.
69	* ''Series/FamilyMatters'', Harriet is getting irritable because her birthday is coming up, and she thinks she's getting fat, so Carl gets the brilliant idea to buy her a trampoline for a present. It just makes her even angrier. [[DiggingYourselfDeeper The birthday card wishing her luck on the weight loss didn't help either.]] After Harriet stormed out, Carl was grateful that he didn't think to get her a Thighmaster.
70	* In ''Series/TheGoodPlace'', Chidi is so effusive in his (false) appreciation of Henry's boots that Henry buys him a pair of his own.
71	* ''Series/SchittsCreek'' has notoriously bad gift-giver Johnny Rose buying {{Tomboy}} Stevie Budd a case of makeup as a thank you gift, which she interprets as a StealthInsult. Rather than pretending she likes it, Stevie takes Alexis's advice and wears the makeup to clownish excess to show the well-meaning Johnny that she is not the makeup type.
72	* ''Series/TheSopranos'': In season 2, Richie Aprile tries to get in Tony's good graces by making a gift of an expensive leather jacket. He later sees that Tony's housekeeper's husband is wearing it, and does not react well.
73	* A season one episode of ''Series/GilmoreGirls'' has Lorelai walk in on her mother having a meltdown because her mother-in-law is visiting and she must now find every gift she's ever given them to prevent the guilt trip that will ensue if Trix finds out Emily hates them all.
74	-->'''Lorelai''': Mother, Grandma is a very old woman, I highly doubt that she's going to remember everything she ever bought you.
75	-->'''Emily''': She will remember down to the very last shrimp fork and do you know why?
76	-->'''Lorelai''': No. ''(to decorative statue of two greyhounds)'' Do you guys know why?
77	-->'''Emily''': Because she doesn't just give you a present, she ''gives'' you a present and she tells you where to put it, how to use it, what it costs - for insurance purposes of course - and God forbid you should have a different opinion or you don't think it works in the space or you just get tired of waking up every morning with those horrifying animals staring at you!
78	-->'''Lorelai''': ''(to dog statue, reassuringly)'' She's just upset.
79	-->'''Emily:''' STOP TALKING TO THE DOGS!
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83	* Music/PhilHarris's [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-1tKZ3flZZY "The Thing"]], where he opens a box and finds [[NoodleImplement a mysterious thing]] (mentioned in the lyrics as a [[SoundEffectBleep (knock knock knock)]]), which turns out to be cursed, as he gets chased out by a shopkeeper who threatens to call the cops, gets kicked out of home by his wife, meets a {{hobo}} who isn't that desperate to take it off his hands, and the unfortunate man isn't even allowed into heaven.
84	* Music/AllanSherman's "The Twelve Gifts of Christmas" details each gift of dubious quality he received (Japanese transistor radio, green polka dot pajamas, etc.). On the twelfth day, he's going to exchange them all.
85	* On the cast album of the musical revue ''[[Magazine/{{Mad}} The MAD Show]]'', a character played by a young Joanne Worley dispiritedly lists the terrible gifts she has been given to the tune of ''The Twelve Days of Christmas'', ending each verse with "A pair of purple socks/with green and orange clocks;/'One Lord and Our Ways of Worshipping'... (spoken)...it's a book." She finally decides to read the book--and discovers that it is not what she expected.
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89	%%* ''Radio/OurMissBrooks'': "Exchanging Gifts" and "Christmas Gift Returns".
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93	* ''VideoGame/Splatoon2'': The December 2017 Splatfest is this in a nutshell, with the participants deciding whether [[HomemadeSweaterFromHell sweaters]] or socks is the more tolerable Christmas gift. Pearl celebrated the victory with a rap on the topic.
94	-->'''Marina''': ...OK, I deserve a raise.
95	* ''VideoGame/ChoiceOfTheVampire'': In Clotho's RomanceSidequest, the PlayerCharacter can buy her either [[DistractedByTheLuxury jewellery]], {{flowers\|OfRomance}}, or... a goat. {{Subverted\|Trope}} since the goat turns out to be a practical gift that she likes the most, whereas she has plenty of the others from previous suitors.
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99	* In ''Webcomic/CardboardCrack'', a character [[http://cardboard-crack.com/post/70457400710/white-elephant-gift-exchange gives Magic: the Gathering cards as a white elephant gift]] with the hope of getting these cards back for himself.
100	* ''Webcomic/TwistedTropes'': [[Film/ReturnOfTheJedi Jabba Claus]] gifts Leia her [[GoGoEnslavement infamous bikini]] and claims to have melted his mother's jewelery for it. He gives her PuppyDogEyes and she's not sure how to respond.
101	* In [[https://xkcd.com/1941/ this]] ''Webcomic/{{xkcd}}'' comic, a 30-foot Foucault pendulum is left as an inheritance. The AltText adds an second impractical inheritance in the form of a life-size [[PietaPlagiarism Pieta ice sculpture]] blessed by the Pope, along with the complication that the items must be removed from the decedent's estate within 24 hours.
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105	%%* The common reaction is the subject of 'Present Face' by Music/GarfunkelAndOates.
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109	* ''WesternAnimation/TheSmurfs1981'' episode "A Gift For Papa's Day" is all about Papa Smurf trying to get rid of a gift hat that he doesn't like wearing. It gets humorously mistaken for a MagicHat by Gargamel when he uses it to capture the Smurfs, and Papa Smurf even fools Gargamel into believing that it is in order to distract him long enough for the Smurfs to escape. To resolve the issue once and for all, Papa Smurf decides to have the gift hat cast in bronze so that it can be seen as a trophy of one of their escapes from Gargamel.
110	* In the ''WesternAnimation/RegularShow'' episode "Tants", Pops gets Mordecai and Rigby pairs of the titular [[{{Portmanteau}} table pants]], who find them embarassing and in his absence give them to Muscle Man. When Pops later asks them to go to a "Tants Lunch" with him, Rigby forces himself into lying he took them to be cleaned after very nearly making the former cry. Fortunately for them, Muscle Man is willing to give them back; unfortunately, they're a mess, kicking off an escalating plot that leads to them fighting the president of Tantsco for making counterfeit replacements. After overhearing their heartfelt apology for the entire conflict, Pops forgives them, and the president gives them free replacement Tants.
111	* A ''WesternAnimation/SpongeBobSquarePants'' episode "Gift of Gum" has Patrick giving [=SpongeBob=] a giant ball of chewed gum for Best Friends Day. [=SpongeBob=] is both scared and disgusted by it and attempts to get rid of it without Patrick knowing.
112	* ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'', [[Recap/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagicS7E23SecretsAndPies "Secrets and Pies"]] shows this one from the gift-giver's point of view. Pinkie Pie bakes a special pie for Rainbow Dash--then, seconds after delivering the pie, she sees an identical one in Rainbow's trash. Pinkie investigates further and realizes that she's baked dozens of pies for Rainbow over the years, but she's never actually ''seen'' Rainbow eat one of them. The truth comes out: [[DoesNotLikeSpam Rainbow can't stand pies]], any pies, and she's been pretending to eat and enjoy them just to avoid hurting Pinkie's feelings. [[DidntThinkThisThrough So Pinkie's hurt that Rainbow Dash lied to her.]]
113	* An episode of ''Literature/CharlieAndLola'' has Lola getting a new hat from her best friend, Lotta. Lola does not like the hat because it's large and silly looking, but does not tell Lotta, who insists that Lola wear it all the time.
114	* ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'' episode "Blood Feud": Mr. Burns can't decide whether to punish the Simpsons (for Homer sending him a nasty letter) or reward them (for the blood transfusion he got from Bart), so he splits the difference by giving them a valuable but unpleasant gift - a giant, scary-looking Olmec statue.
115	* ''WesternAnimation/TheWildThornberrys'' episode "Every Little Bit Alps" has Eliza giving her friend, Ben, a new scarf, which he clearly doesn't like and look uncomfortable wearing. He doesn't tell Eliza the truth until the end.
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119	* The term "white elephant" (meaning an item whose cost is way out of proportion to its usefulness) comes from a legend that when the King of Siam didn't like someone, [[InvokedTrope he would give them]] a white elephant as a present (or make it known he was to do so). In this culture white elephants were sacred, so the recipient couldn't put it to work but still had to feed it, creating a drain on his resources. Turning down the present would be a grave insult, so the only way to avoid it was to absent yourself from court--[[ExactlyAsPlanned which was the intention]].
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