Line #84 Main/UnderstandingBoyfriend


1	-> ''"Jeez, where do you freaks find these understanding guys, and where do I get one?!"''
2	-->-- '''Shelly''', ''Webcomic/WapsiSquare''
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4	So you are a freak of nature, a witch, a SuperHero, or a ChosenOne. You are loaded with supernatural powers, and between going to work or [[WakeUpGoToSchoolSaveTheWorld school]] you have some world-saving duties to attend to that need to be kept secret. And on top of that, you also need to balance it out with a love life!
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6	But you can't tell your boyfriend about it (yet)! He'd freak out and leave you, or worse. But then, you can't keep it a secret forever, either. At some point, one of your supernatural incidents will inevitably happen exactly when you were having a romantic dinner. Or maybe your relationship has simply reached the next level, and you feel that you need to be completely honest with him.
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8	So what now? How will he react? Well, it turns out he's [[MilhollandRelationshipMoment perfectly okay with it]] (once he's connected the dots, of course) and completely understands. That's right, as a reward for your sacrifices, the PowersThatBe will make sure that you end up with a truly noble and loving soul who loves you for ''who'' you are and doesn't care ''what'' you are. So no worries! And besides, he might have been in the same boat as you.
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10	Compare FreakinessShame, when a disguise forms part of the powers. Compare to ViolentlyProtectiveGirlfriend for the ActionGirl [[InvertedTrope variant]]. Compare and contrast NonhumanLoverReveal, for the guy/girl who is on the other end of this trope. See also TheMasqueradeWillKillYourDatingLife, which is an aversion of this trope. TotallyTrustingLoveInterest is for when they understand more specific situations such as NotWhatItLooksLike.
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12	!Examples
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17	* In ''Manga/AwkwardSilence'' Toono Satoru's boyfriend is the only one who can read his seemingly blank and expressionless face (other than an old childhood friend of his who doesn't show up until later volumes) and understand his emotions.
18	* Played for major drama with [[spoiler: Shiso and Ceres]] in ''Manga/CeresCelestialLegend''. [[spoiler: Shiso started like this, but being left helpless when he and Ceres got attacked [[IJustWantToBeSpecial made him very frustrated]], so he asked Ceres to give him a part of her powers [[DeclarationOfProtection so he wouldn't be a burden on her.]] But then, [[WithGreatPowerComesGreatInsanity said powers turned out to be too much to handle]], and it went FromBadToWorse...]]
19	* Gender swapped twice in ''Manga/FruitsBasket'':
20	** Hatori's ex-fiancee Kana was also very understanding when learning he was the Dragon of the Zodiac -- the only reason they broke up at all was that Akito completely traumatized Kana and she needed to have her memories wiped of their time together.
21	** Despite being understandably scared of Kyo's DarkSecret of [[spoiler:the Cat's true form]], Tohru still goes after him when he runs off. She loves him in all his forms- [[spoiler:human, animal, and monstrous]]- though she is a little afraid of the latter. In fact, she is more concerned about his belief that she ''wouldn't''.
22	* The central premise of ''Literature/HarukaNogizakasSecret''. The titular girl is an otaku.
23	* Austria from ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'', in regards to his VictoriousChildhoodFriend Hungary. While he's concerned for her well-being, in the end, he knows that if she wants to fight, he better let her... since she will go [[OneManArmy one-woman army]] and destroy the enemy. Considering their childhood, [[LoveAtFirstPunch he knows that from experience]]!
24	* ''Franchise/KagerouProject''. Tsukihiko is this towards Azami; despite having [[{{Medusa}} snakes for hair]], [[ReptilesAreAbhorrent scaly skin]], and [[RedEyesTakeWarning threatening red eyes]] (and a multitude of dangerous powers, to boot), he treats her like a person instead of a monster, even knowing what she is and that everyone else wants her dead.
25	* Asuka Jr.'s side of the story in ''Manga/KaitouSaintTail'' is about how he ''becomes'' this. He starts off as the SympatheticInspectorAntagonist for PhantomThief Saint Tail, acknowledging her as a WorthyOpponent with [[JustLikeRobinHood admirable motives]] but still believing her to be a thief who deserves to be arrested; after a while, he ends up catching onto the possibility that Saint Tail might actually be none other than his own classmate Meimi, whom he's been falling in love with recently. This forces him to reconsider what he knows about both Meimi and Saint Tail, getting him to realize that Saint Tail is going out of her way to help a lot of truly desperate people at the cost of [[SecretIdentityIdentity having to bury her real self underneath]]. The more he suspects Meimi and Saint Tail are the same person, the more he becomes concerned about her as an actual human being. [[spoiler:After he begins dating Meimi and confirms her identity as Saint Tail, he gets her to retire, but it's more because of [[HeroicFatigue the toll it was taking on her mental health and personal life]] than it is about her morality; he fully acknowledges her as someone who worked to protect the city and [[SecretKeeper keeps her secret]] instead of turning her in to the police.]]
26	* Kenta Usui from ''Manga/{{Karin}}'', except for the boyfriend part. [[spoiler: Until the end, that is.]] Comes with him doubling as Karin's crush ''and'' the Marker family's SecretKeeper.
27	* This is central to the plot of ''Manga/KotouraSan''. Haruka Kotoura was [[AllOfTheOtherReindeer friendless, socially stigmatized]] and [[BrokenBird severely traumatized]] due to her {{telepath\|y}}ic powers, and by the time Manabe comes into her life, she would actually [[LeaveMeAlone drive people away]]. Manabe successfully breaks her shell and becomes protective of her, which leads her to gradually become more like what she actually is--a conventional {{moe}} heroine. The only issue is, he is a pervert and ''still'' can't really control his sexual fantasies--except those fantasies are all directed to her, rather than others.
28	* Ditto with ''Literature/{{Oreimo}}''. Except that the guy is not a boyfriend, but the big brother... [[BrotherSisterIncest yeah]].
29	* In ''Anime/PowerpuffGirlsZ'', [[spoiler: Souichirou eventually finds out in episode 45 that his girlfriend, Sakurako, transforms into Sedusa whenever she's jealous or has doubts about her relationship with Souichirou. In a rather d'aww-worthy moment, Souichirou's reaction is to shout at Sedusa that he doesn't care, he loves Sedusa and Sakurako... because Sedusa ''is'' Sakurako!]]
30	* ''Manga/PrivateActress''. Tomo'omi Hanamura is this to Shiho Kobayakawa. Half in regards to her work as a Private Actress (then again, he is one, too), and especially regarding [[spoiler:her being the [[HeroicBastard illegitimate daughter]] of two famous actors.]]
31	* Shuuji in ''Manga/{{Saikano}}''. His girlfriend is a WMD? That's OK, things will work out. [[spoiler: Actually, they don't.]]
32	* The majority of the Ashikabi in ''Manga/{{Sekirei}}'' are perfectly accepting of their HumanAlien {{Magical Girlfriend}}s. Minato in particular takes things in stride, and actively seeks any way he can help the girls out, whether it's providing emotional support, doing the laundry, or acting as the strategist.
33	* Keiko Asakura from ''Manga/ShamanKing'' had been dumped by ''every'' single boyfriend she had when they learned she was able to see spirits. Until the last {{Jerkass}} left her and a penniless musician with similar abilities comforted her. That guy was Mikihisa, and she would marry him.
34	* ''Tokyo Black Cat Girl'', a one-shot done by Mia Ikumi before ''Manga/TokyoMewMew'', has Noda, Azmumi's boyfriend. After finding out she's been chosen to fight aliens at night to save the planet, he gives her a kiss and tells her to make up for all the lunch dates she missed while they talk it over. The second-to-last page has her talking to him on the phone and keeping him updated before heading off to fight.
35	* ''Literature/TheGardenOfSinners'': Mikiya doesn't care about what makes Shiki abnormal; be it split personalities, eyes that see death, committing murder, or [[spoiler: being the incarnation of the Origin itself.]] He will [[SingleTargetSexuality love her]] and [[HappilyMarried stay with her no matter what]].
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39	* In an old ''ComicBook/SupermansPalJimmyOlsen'' WhatIf comic, [[Characters/SupermanJimmyOlsen Jimmy Olsen]] marries ''ComicBook/{{Supergirl}}'' (or rather, her SecretIdentity, Linda Lee Danvers) while the Girl of Steel is depowered and amnesiac for her Kryptonian identity. Once she recovers and lets him know, he's totally fine with being married to {{Franchise/Superman}}'s cousin.
40	* Kong is this to Kitty Pryde in ''ComicBook/UltimateSpiderMan'', even going so far as to yell "You're welcome!" at AllOfTheOtherReindeer for not thanking her when she saves their lives.
41	* Back in the Golden Age, ComicBook/SteveTrevor was this for Franchise/WonderWoman (a remarkably progressive move for the times), and not at all threatened by the idea of getting rescued by or mooning over a woman who was twenty times stronger than him. The Silver and Bronze Age characterizations of him were... [[TooDumbToLive unfortunately]] [[{{Jerkass}} less so]], which probably led to the relationship being deleted from continuity in the ComicBook/PostCrisis [[ComicBook/WonderWoman1987 reboot]].
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45	* ''Fanfic/TheBridge'' had two, in the same family by chance.
46	** Salty Sentry took the reveal his then-fiance Wysteria gave him on their wedding night about being a forest nymph called Gaea Everfree and the retainer to the Elements of Harmony remarkably well. While surprised when she decided to reveal the secret, he still saw his beloved in her transformed state. They remained happily married and had Gloriosa Daisy and Timber Spruce afterwards.
47	** It's revealed his distant relative Flash Sentry [[note]]Flash being Salty's first cousin once removed, the son of Salty Sentry's cousin Stalwart Sentry[[/note]] was this once. Flash had deduced Sunset Shimmer wasn't human but could tell she was still a good person so he never cared until some years later when she became a cruel AlphaBitch. After she turned over a new leaf, it's been implied he still holds a candle for her.
48	* In ''Fanfic/ComingBackBroken'', given the situation they were in - Jim and Claire having nobody but each other and an inhospitable EldritchLocation full of enemy trolls and {{Eldritch Abomination}}s - Jim had to care for Claire when she was ill or menstruating, something Barbara compared to boyfriends seen on television.
49	* ''Fanfic/CrossAngeTheKnightOfHilda'': [[OriginalCharacter Rio]] is this towards Hilda when she goes through a phase of [[InsecureLoveInterest thinking she doesn't deserve the love of someone like him]]. Between his awareness of the hellhole Arzenal is, as well as the injustice of the Mana system, Rio doesn't judge Hilda when she tells him the story of all the things she had to do to survive in Arzenal, and instead gives her the emotional support she needs.
50	* Lero Michaelides of ''Fanfic/DividedRainbow''.
51	* ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'' fanfics ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/11989539/1/Hakkōna Hakkōna]]'' and ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/12023508/1/Kaitō-Kokoro Kaitō Kokoro]]'': Kiku is a [[spoiler:[[VoluntaryShapeShifter nekomataneko]]]]. However, Feliciano accepts him for who he is and even thinks [[CutenessOverload he is really cute]].
52	* ''Fanfic/TheManyDatesOfDannyFenton'': Blind dates or not, Danny is very open-minded to (most) of the girls he has gone out with. You'd have to be in order to be okay with dating a spy, a robot, a ghost, a mutant, an alien, etc.
53	* In ''Fanfic/OriginStory'', when Louise finds out about Alex's super-human strength, her only reaction is "Oh, you must be a mutant, like I am!"
54	* In the ''WesternAnimation/RiseOfTheGuardians'' fic ''[[https://www.fanfiction.net/s/8751000/1/Guardian-of-Light Guardian of Light]]'', the main character Helen [[spoiler: discovers that Pitch is her father]]. Jack isn't her boyfriend [[spoiler: at this point]], but he doesn't hold this against her despite everything and is willing to protect her at all costs.
55	* ''[[Fanfic/UltimateSpiderWoman Ultimate Spider-Woman: Change With The Light]]'' plays it straight to an extent. When Mary Jane Watson's boyfriend Randy Robertson finds out that she's secretly a web-slinging superheroine, he's not so much upset by the fact that she's a superhero as he is at the fact that she originally wouldn't tell him the truth about it. What ''really'' pisses him off, though, is when he learns that her ArchEnemy Jack O' Lantern knows her real identity.
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59	* ''Film/TheAssignment2016'': Johnnie takes it to extreme heights, as she's completely unperturbed by Frank's new appearance, and has no questions or comments beyond noting how different he looks when she first sees him post-sex reassignment. She stays with him afterward, completely accepting, without hesitation. It also seems she's entirely aware that he's a hitman, and doesn't mind at all.
60	* ''Film/TheConjuringUniverse'': Lorraine Warren is a powerfully gifted psychic who spent most of her life being scorned by her peers. Her husband Ed has no psychic gifts at all but steadfastly supports Lorraine no matter what she's going through and loves her unreservedly.
61	-->'''Lorraine''': It took a long time, but I finally found someone who believed me.
62	-->'''Janet''': What did you do then?
63	-->'''Lorraine''': [[HappilyMarried I married him.]] [''she smiles softly'']
64	* ''Film/{{Hancock}}'': Ray is a pretty understanding husband when he finds out Mary is not only the same kind of FlyingBrick that Hancock is, but was also his wife.
65	* ''Film/InnocentBlood'': FriendlyNeighborhoodVampire Marie has her understanding boyfriend Joe.
66	* ''Film/LastNightInSoho'': Ellie has the ability to see ghosts and starts losing her sanity when she is plagued by invasive and disturbing visions about a 1960s girl called Sandie who was forced into prostitution and abused by her pimp. Her love interest John is patient throughout her many freak-outs and once she admits to him what's happening, he is totally unperturbed and just wants to help her figure out what's going on and lend her a friendly ear.
67	* ''Film/MaggieAndAnnie'': Annie's husband Bill is surprisingly so. Upon learning that she's cheated on him with a woman, he isn't happy but even so can't bear to see her unhappy after she and Maggie break up. He therefore proposes that they engage in {{polyamory}}, something Annie and Maggie happily accept.
68	* Antoine is this to WaifProphet Bernadette in ''Film/TheSongOfBernadette''. This is ''only'' in fiction''; in RealLife, they genuinely were JustFriends.
69	* ''WesternAnimation/TurningRed'': It's implied that Jin was one and continues to be now that he's a husband. The biggest example is after [[spoiler:Mei decides to keep her panda and runs away to the concert]]; while Ming's relatives berate her over it, Jin tries to comfort her and tell her that it's OK.
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73	* ''Literature/{{Digitesque}}'': Subverted. Both Isavel and Ada get boyfriends early on, who ''seem'' fine with all the incredible things happening, but it soon becomes apparent that the girls are developing in directions their boyfriends can't follow. Sorn sees Isavel as a glorious saint and has a lot of trouble with her trying desperately to remain normal with him, while Tanos sees Ada as a mentor and his true love when she sees him as a clever peasant and a fun distraction. Both boys get left behind (Tanos in particular is ''pissed'' that Ada unceremoniously abandoned him on an island with no way back) while the girls get closer to each other.
74	* In ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'', Carrot is completely understanding about his werewolf girlfriend Angua, even the part about her not being human for one week out of four. She's actually upset that he's ''not'' upset about this at one point.
75	--> ''"That was almost...almost one of the ''annoying'' things about him. She suspected he wouldn't mind if she shaved her head, or grew a beard. It wasn't that he wouldn't notice, he just wouldn't mind, and for some reason, that was very aggravating."''
76	** They did get off to a rough start, but that was as much her fault as his; you should probably warn your partner in advance if there's a possibility you'll [[PowerIncontinence turn into a werewolf in your sleep]].
77	* ''Literature/TheEmpiriumTrilogy'': Ever since learning that his crush might be one of the Queens of Prophecy, Audric repeatedly assures Rielle that he'll love her and defend her against naysayers, even when her reputation as the Blood Queen slowly grows stronger. The only moment when he has doubts is right after learning she killed her father (albeit accidentally) and lied about it, and he quickly regrets calling her a monster when she flees Baingarde. When he sees her again, she's visibly pregnant and briefly wonders if the child is Corien's, but Audric swiftly brushes the thought aside, vowing to love the child regardless.[[labelnote:*]](He ''is'' the actual father, but he didn't know that at the time.)[[/labelnote]]
78	* Played with in ''Literature/TheLunarChronicles'' after Kai finds out that Cinder is a cyborg and [[spoiler:the Lunar princess Selene]] at the end of ''Cinder''. While the latter reveal does drive a wedge between them, it's less out of FantasticRacism and more [[spoiler:because Kai can't be sure that Cinder didn't use her Lunar MindControl powers on him]]. Also, though it initially seems like he doesn't care about Cinder being a cyborg, he reveals that, much to his shame, he would have had a problem with it, but gets over it by the time they reunite later in the series. That said, in spite of all these complications in their relationship, [[spoiler:Kai does ultimately accept Cinder exactly as she is and they get together at the end of the series]].
79	* Brandon Sanderson's ''Franchise/{{Mistborn}}''
80	** Elend is one to Vin. Although this is a setting where having such powers is relatively common, her being a pint-sized super-powered assassin never bothers him in the least, even when she head-butts a guy so hard [[YourHeadASplode his head explodes]]. He even takes it more or less in stride when she wants to [[spoiler:get married while receiving medical attention for a stab wound]]. He also [[spoiler:get superpowers of his own in book 2 though]].
81	** Steris turns out to be one to [[CowboyCop Wax]] in ''Literature/WaxAndWayne''. She appears to be a humorless GrandeDame at first, arranging a loveless marriage of convenience, but she actually ends up being fine with him continuing his crime-fighting. As she sees it, a gentleman must have his hobbies, and when the first case he gets on after they meet involves him saving her, she's really not in any position to complain. Neither of them can realistically expect the other to change at that point in their lives, so as long as he keeps his word, they'll have a cordial working relationship.
82	* In ''[[Literature/BrasAndBroomsticks Parties and Potions]]'' by Sarah Mlynowski, Rachel is a witch and has to tell her human boyfriend Raf. It mainly escalates when she starts training for her witch "debutante ball" and ends up being gone whenever he wants to hang out with her. He is okay with it when he finds out, though.
83	* ''Literature/ShadowPolice'': Sefton takes up with Joe pretty much immediately after gaining the Sight, and Joe seems remarkably OK with being an OccultDetective's {{Muggle}} partner. Sarah Quill is a hugely important rock for James Quill, but the horrifying nature of Occult London and Quill's own despair are putting her under strain, too.
84	* Seth in ''Literature/WickedLovely''. When Aislinn tells him that she can see faeries, he has exactly one moment of "Is this a joke?" before accepting it and trying to help her with her faery situation.
85	* In ''Literature/{{Worm}}'', Defiant (i.e. [[spoiler:Armsmaster]]) becomes one of these to Dragon when she reveals that she is [[spoiler:an artificial intelligence]].
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89	* Double-subverted in ''Series/{{Bewitched}}''. The original Darrin (Creator/DickYork) was less than understanding, to the point of being downright hostile to Samantha when she used her magic. TheOtherDarrin (Creator/DickSargent), on the other hand, tried his hardest to be understanding, to the point that it was more the fault of Endora and the rest of Samantha's family that TheOtherDarrin didn't get along with witches.
90	* Unless she's dating one of the undead, Buffy never gets this on ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'' (even Riley, who is, himself, a demon-fighting super-soldier, has an inferiority complex due to dating a genuine superhero). It's Willow who hits the boyfriend jackpot with Oz; upon being told the truth about the supernatural world she runs in, he replies, "[[ThisExplainsSoMuch Actually, it explains a lot]]," and just goes with the flow from there. Of course, Oz discovers he is a werewolf shortly after they begin dating, so he's more or less stuck in the supernatural world regardless, and Willow ends up having to play Understanding Girlfriend just as often.
91	* This is a recurring problem for the ladies on ''Series/{{Charmed\|1998}}'', whose human love interests either freak out at the idea of magic existing or end up six feet under very soon after learning and accepting the truth. Piper marries a [[GuardianAngel Whitelighter]], Leo ([[spoiler:but after he eventually loses his powers, he becomes this]]). Phoebe marries a Cupid. Paige's husband Henry (a 100% normal cop) plays this straight, his only reaction to her confession being mild surprise.
92	** This was also played straight by Grams' first husband [[spoiler:before he died]], but averted by every one after that. The girls' father Victor also seemed quite accepting (and is of the girls' magic in the present day), but it's implied Grams drove him away.
93	--->''"You poor man."''
94	* ''Series/DoctorWho''. Danny Pink is this to Clara Oswald. After some initial implied jealousy over the fact Clara goes on adventures with the Doctor, Danny ultimately doesn't really have much of a problem with it. He's more upset about her penchant for lying about it. That doesn't mean he ''likes'' the Doctor, however, and pretty much every encounter they have includes a TheReasonYouSuckSpeech.
95	* ''Series/FantasyIsland2021'': Ruby's husband Mel accepts how his wife is attracted to other women, agreeing that she should not only stay living on the island apart from him so her cancer won't return but also explore it with his full endorsement. He loves her just that much.
96	* ''Series/{{Forever\|2014}}''. Abigail was an Understanding Wife. In a flashback in "The Last Death of Henry Morgan," after Henry gets stabbed he dies in Abigail's arms, apologizing that she won't understand before his body vanishes with his death. In the past Henry has always moved away when his secret has been revealed, but Henry can't resist sneaking into their apartment later that night to say goodbye to baby Abraham, and he looks up on hearing a gasp to see Abigail staring at him, hand over her mouth. He starts trying to explain the situation in some manner that won't simply lead to his return to the asylum his first wife had put him in -- until Abigail embraces him, realizing and accepting his immortality and understanding how cursed he is and how isolated he must have been to hide his secret.
97	-->'''Abigail:''' You poor man…
98	%%%%* ''Series/GhostWhisperer'' features Jim the Understanding Husband.
99	* ''Series/GossipGirl2021'': Aubrey is very supportive of her boyfriend Aki initially coming out as bisexual. When at first she thinks he's gay and has used her as [[TheBeard cover]], her reaction is simply sympathy, telling him even if they're not a couple she'll still be his friend. He assures her that isn't the case, and he still loves her. She then even supports him being with Max, whom he's attracted to. [[spoiler: Aubrey sets up an implied threesome with all of them.]]
100	* ''Series/H2OJustAddWater:''
101	** Played straight with Emma's Season 2 love interest Ash, who she reveals her identity as a mermaid to in the finale. His one-word reaction is "Cool."
102	** Cleo's love interest Lewis also counts, having discovered the secret in the second episode. While understandably startled at first, he came to after Cleo asked for his help in a difficult situation and became possibly the ultimate example, becoming the girls' most stalwart ally.
103	** Rikki's love interest Zane is a more complicated example. When he and Rikki started dating, he was obsessively searching for a mermaid he had seen (Emma), thus Rikki was very reluctant to tell him. [[note]]In fact, it is implied that, though she genuinely liked him, she first agreed to go out with him to distract him from his search.[[/note]] He eventually found out after inadvertently leading them into a trap organised by an evil scientist; he promptly had a MyGodWhatHaveIDone moment and worked to free them. After initially being led to believe Rikki and the others had lost their powers, he soon discovered that she still had her powers but he assured her that he was okay with it.
104	*** Averted with the love interest of Julia, Rikki's counterpart from the 1960s, who told her boyfriend only for him to [[JerkAss reject her then try to exploit her secret]]. Hearing this story is one of the reasons Rikki was so reluctant to tell Zane. Played straight however with Max, love interest of Julia's friend (and Cleo's counterpart) Gracie.
105	* Zack was the "gay best friend" equivalent of this in ''Series/{{Heroes}}'', at least until ExecutiveMeddling got in the way.
106	* Allison's husband Joe on ''Series/{{Medium}}'' believes in her powers and is understanding and accepting of them.
107	* In ''{{Series/Merlin\|2008}}'', 2x09. Merlin discovers [[spoiler: Freya turns into a bastet at night, but he isn't afraid and still takes care of her. He even pets her cat's head...]]
108	* Tyler Ford in ''Series/TheMiddleman's'' unaired season finale (released as a comic)...[[spoiler:at least, until MM pushes the ResetButton]].
109	* ''Series/PowerRangersDinoFury:'' While Izzy's girlfriend is initially LockedOutOfTheLoop, she does eventually figure out Izzy's the Green Ranger, and suddenly all the problems they'd been having (since it looked like Izzy was suddenly flaking on her athletics dreams) fizzle into nothingness. Fern is completely understanding of the whole thing, and a TimeSkip makes clear they're still going once the villains have been thwarted.
110	* ''Series/QueenCharlotteABridgertonStory'': GenderInverted since Charlotte is the understanding wife to her [[spoiler:mentally-ill]] husband, George. Despite the palace try their best to cover up George’s [[spoiler:hidden mental illness]] [[ForYourOwnGood in order to maintain the kingdom and country’s stability]], in addition George himself often shut her out and she later learns that he did it out of protecting her, Charlotte insistently convinces him --including his closest confidants; Princess Augusta, Reynolds and Dr Monro-- that she loves him so much that she’d let him be mad if necessary, as long as he’s happy and comfortable.
111	* Played straight on ''Series/{{Reaper}}'' with Andi. After she learns about Sam's masquerade, she is actually relieved to find out why he stood her up so often. [[TheMasqueradeWillKillYourDatingLife She was planning on breaking up with him before he told her]].
112	* ''Series/{{Roswell}}'' has Isobel and Jesse; she tries to send him away after he discovers she's an alien, but in the novel 'season 4', they end up together anyway.
113	* Played with in the ''Series/SabrinaTheTeenageWitch'' TV series. Harvey ''does'' leave Sabrina when he finds out she's a witch, not out of intolerance but because she'd been using magic to mess with his life for years. He eventually does come back to her, though, and says he never had a problem with her being a witch per se.
114	* In the TV version of ''Series/TheTick2001'', Captain Liberty and another female superhero discuss the difficulties of finding a boyfriend while picking up their dry-cleaning. Seriously subverted in this episode.
115	* ''Series/{{Twenties}}'': Marie is very accepting and supportive after her fiancé Chuck tells her he's bisexual (which she'd already known), even agreeing on an open relationship so he can see men too. They amicably break up in the end though.
116	* In the TV version of ''Series/WonderWoman'', played by Lynda Carter, especially in the first season (set in WWII), Steve Trevor comes across as completely comfortable with the fact that Diana is more physically powerful than he is, and in fact manages to work with her and make himself actively useful while giving every impression of appreciating her for who and what she is... and doesn't come across as unbelievable or weak, either.
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120	* In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'' a non-mage Hawke can be this if romancing Anders or Merrill. Particularly if the player character is on the friendship path.
121	** [[DarkAndTroubledPast Fenris]] and [[GoodBadGirl Isa]][[EthicalSlut bela]] count, too. In fact, if Fenris tries to apologize for breaking up with Hawke in the second act, one of Hawke's lines is "I understand. I always understood."
122	* In ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII'', Serah wanders into some ruins and is made a [[BlessedWithSuck Pulse l'Cie]]. Public opinion of Pulse l'Cie being... rather low, she tries to break up with Snow so he won't be associated with her should she be found out. He refuses to accept this, demands an explanation, and upon being told the truth says he will do anything to help her and proposes a few days later.
123	* In ''VideoGame/LollipopChainsaw'', Juliet's boyfriend Nick seems less bothered about the fact that his girlfriend is a zombie hunter armed with a magic chainsaw, and more concerned with the fact that [[ALoveToDismember she chopped his head off to save him from being turned into a zombie]].
124	* A major part of several romances in the ''Franchise/MassEffect'' series, especially with the non-humans, is Shepard being this about their various issues.
125	** Aside from the inherent problems of romancing, say, a drell or a quarian, the strongest is probably Jack, who only really warms up to Shepard when she realizes he cares ''despite'', not because of, her history and nature -- that is to say, he truly loves her rather than pitying her. Of course, given the people Shepard is willing to let into the RagtagBunchOfMisfits ("Asari? Krogan? ''TURIANS!?''") it's only to be expected.
126	** Also featured with the romance between Female Shepard and Garrus Vakarian, particularly in [=ME3=]. No matter what Shepard's done, [[spoiler:such as bringing on the destruction of the quarian race or sabotaging the genophage cure,]] Garrus will still support and care for Shepherd. Heck, if you ''break up with him'' he's totally understanding and remains warm to you when most people would "get in the skycar and leave".
127	* ''VideoGame/PandorasTowerUntilIReturnToYourSide''. Aeron discovers his girlfriend Elena is cursed and will transform into a monster if not cured. Even with his girlfriend in a [[BodyHorror half demonic state]], he throws away his post-deserter life to start exploring dangerous towers and killing its monsters, giving Elena their flesh to reset the curse timer and try to cure her (and give her gifts when he can). You could say Elena is a really lucky girl.
128	* Inverted in ''VideoGame/SpiderManPS4'', where Spider-Man gradually learns to trust M.J. in her GoingForTheBigScoop, rather than trying to keep the adventuring to himself.
129	-->''Okay... I want to say don't ever do that again, but since I know you're going to anyway, here. (tosses her noise lures) Take a few of those next time.''
130	* This is how Hot Ryu from ''VideoGame/StreetFighterV'' is treated. He's still Ryu and likes fighting and training, but he's understanding, takes you into account with things, and treats you like royalty.
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134	* ''Webcomic/{{Avialae}}'': Even before Bailey becomes Gannet's boyfriend, he proves to be incredibly supportive and understanding of Gannet's [[WingedHumanoid sudden growth of wings]] and helps him keep them a secret from others -- and keeps on being just as supportive and understanding of him as a couple even when Gannet starts to fear that his inability to lead a normal life may be holding Bailey back from leading a normal life himself.
135	* [[SubvertedTrope Subverted]] (although this may be a retrospective way of seeing it) in ''Webcomic/SluggyFreelance''. Leo seems to be accepting of all the weird things Zoë tells about happening to her - but it turns out that was only because he thought she was lying. In the words of another jerk he hangs out with, "You've got to respect a girl who realizes romantic relationships are based on lies and goes to town with it!" As soon as Leo finds out it was all true, he feels betrayed, and they eventually break off.
136	* [[LampshadeHanging Lampshaded]] in [[http://wapsisquare.com/comic/understanding/ this]] ''Webcomic/WapsiSquare'' comic. Also the page quote.
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144	* In ''WesternAnimation/TheAmazingWorldOfGumball'', Gumball finds out what Penny is hiding underneath her shell; her true form, which her family refuses to reveal because they fear it is dangerous, and her father Patrick especially forbids her. Even though Penny wants to come out of her shell, she fears that Gumball wouldn't like the real her, but he adamantly insists that they will deal with it together. Penny finally goes through with it and reveals her true form... which happens to be a [[InvoluntaryShapeshifter shapeshifting fairy that can change based on her emotions]]. Before Gumball could reveal his real thoughts on her true form, she immediately runs off out of insecurity, causing Gumball to chase after her so he can tell her that her true form was [[BeautifulAllAlong extraordinary]]. Gumball would go to Heaven and Earth to protect Penny and get her to understand his true feelings for her, including her true form... [[OfficialCouple and it eventually paid off]], getting her father's approval.
145	* ''WesternAnimation/Ben10AlienForce'': GenderInverted with Ben and Julie. Ben spends a whole episode trying to hide the alien goings on around them from Julie on a date, thinking she'd think him a freak if she knew he transforms into aliens. But when she finds out, Julie thinks it's cool instead.
146	* ''{{WesternAnimation/Daria}}'': Tom Sloane is this to Daria, being incredibly patient and understanding with her even when she stands him up on dates and always gives her time to figure out what she wants to do. Even when they finally break up, Tom and Daria agree to remain AmicableExes who still keep in touch.
147	* ''{{WesternAnimation/Futurama}}''. Fry [[FreakyIsCool doesn't have a problem]] with Leela's [[{{Cyclops}} big ol' eye]]. In fact, when Leela [[IJustWantToBeNormal gets a prosthetic second eye]] in "The Cyber House Rules", Fry is the [[OnlySaneMan only one who objects]], saying that he [[FreakinessShame liked her better the way she was]]. Eventually she [[StatusQuoIsGod renounces her decision]], admitting Fry was [[TheCuckoolanderWasRight right all along]]. ([[RuleOfFunny Although, she still tells him to shut up after he cheers]])
148	** Later on, when he actually is her boyfriend, she undergoes a horrifying genetic condition that turns her into a squid. Fry promises he'll still love her when she's first diagnosed, which comforts her a little. When she fully undergoes her transformation, Fry reassures her that he will always love her. She's clearly touched and thanks him. He then kisses her to confirm his love for her, which she returns.
149	* In ''WesternAnimation/KimPossible'', Ron has accompanied the titular character on her hero/spy missions since forever, never complaining (except when supervillains nearly shoot him). Which is good, because Kim really appreciates his honesty and approachability: he's one of the very few people in her life who make her feel like she doesn't have to live up to unrealistic expectations.
150	* ''WesternAnimation/MiloMurphysLaw,'' the SpiritualSuccessor and [[CanonWelding sort of]] SequelSeries of ''WesternAnimation/PhineasAndFerb'', has Sara's LoveInterest Neal. Basically a geekier {{Expy}} of Jeremy, he is, thankfully, not freaked out that all the men in Sara's family are TheJinx due to a HereditaryCurse.
151	* [[SubvertedTrope Subverted]] in ''WesternAnimation/MiraculousLadybug''. Marinette once briefly dated [[RomanticFalseLead Luka]] because he seemed one of the few people who emotionally supports her while she's expected to support everyone (in both her civilian and superhero forms). He once says she can tell him [[SecretIdentity as much or as little as she wants]]. But in the very next episode, on the contrary, Luka demanded "the honest truth" from Marinette. When she refused, the frustration turned him into the supervillain Truth, who could force people into [[CannotTellALie confessing secrets]]. This leads Marinette to break up with him at the end of the episode. Meanwhile, the understanding one was Cat Noir, Ladybug's suitor. When Ladybug/Marinette was hit by Truth's ray, Cat Noir reassured her, stating he would not take advantage of the situation and force her to reveal her identity -- and he didn't. This act reaffirmed Cat Noir (or rather his SecretIdentity [[LovesMyAlterEgo Adrien]]) as Marinette's OneTrueLove.
152	* ''WesternAnimation/PhineasAndFerb''. Despite Candace's fanatical attempts to put a stop to Phineas and Ferb's projects, and her general tendency to [[LawOfDisproportionateResponse blow minor problems out of proportion]], her crush Jeremy never, ever seems to lose his cool, and they eventually end up going steady.
153	* In ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverse'', the title character worries that his best friend Connie might get hurt or killed if she gets too involved in the Gem half of his life, and waffles several times over the series on how much he should involve her. Each time, however, he realizes that he needs to be fully honest with Connie and she is always very clear that she wants to be a part of Steven's human ''and'' Gem lives. This continues through the SequelSeries ''WesternAnimation/StevenUniverseFuture'', where [[spoiler: Steven and Connie eventually become an OfficialCouple]].
154	* In ''WesternAnimation/SuperRobotMonkeyTeamHyperforceGo'', Chiro lovingly sticks with his girlfriend Jinmay, even after he finds out she's a robot who was sent by Skeleton King to spy on him.
155	* ''WesternAnimation/TeenTitans'': In one episode Starfire turns into a chrysalis, her species' own version of puberty, and Robin chases after her even after seeing all her weird changes. Later, when he meets up with her again, he tells her he would have come for her even if she hadn't changed back to looking perfectly normal. D'aww...
156	** Added on to that, though Robin is far from useless in a fight, he has no actual superpowers. Starfire is capable of flying, shooting energy bolts out of her hands, and punching out villains twenty times her size.
157	* ''WesternAnimation/YoungJustice'':
158	** In the last episodes of Season 1, we learn that M'gann is secretly a monstrous-looking White Martian (she can shapeshift into any form she wants). When Psimon makes her envision her worst fears coming true in her head, one of them is being rejected by Conner, who says, "Love you? I can't even look at you!" A few episodes later, M'gann gets the guts to tell her friends the truth, though still terrified of rejection. But then it turns out that Conner had found out about her true form before they had started dating, and had been waiting patiently for her to feel ready to confess to him.
159	** Artemis comes from a family of wanted criminals, so when she joins the team, she doesn't tell anyone about her roots. Wally is mad when she messes up a mission on purpose, but he later finds out she did it because they were facing Sportsmaster, who is her biological father and one of their worst enemies. When Wally discovers her reasons, they kiss and make up.
160	* On ''[[WesternAnimation/WITCH2004 W.I.T.C.H.]]'', despite being an ordinary teenage guitarist/vocalist, Matt takes the revelation that Will is a MagicalGirlWarrior called a Guardian who travels to and protects other worlds pretty well, and soon insists on joining in on the Guardians' adventures and asks Meridian RebelLeader Caleb to TeachMeHowToFight.
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