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12[[caption-width-right:209:That's not to say it's always sadness. [[https://shencomix.tumblr.com/post/728440676697636864 Sometimes, it's a little guy.]]]]
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14->''"He must be so lonely, he must be so sad\
15He goes to extremes to convince us he's bad\
16He's really a victim of fear and of pride\
17Look close and there must be a sweet man inside?"'' [[note]] [[SubvertedTrope ''Nah! Uh-uh!'']] [[/note]]
18-->-- "Scrooge", ''Film/TheMuppetChristmasCarol''
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20This character is harsh and mean. They are abrasive and cruel, but in truth they're just depressed and fearful, trying to intimidate people into [[IWorkAlone leaving them alone]]. Like a hedgehog, this character bristles with spikes in order [[TheyreCalledPersonalIssuesForAReason to protect themselves]]. Intimacy scares them, and perhaps [[NeverBeHurtAgain they've been hurt before]].
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22This is a common method of creating a JerkassWoobie. By being introduced as a jerk whom the audience hates, only for character development to reveal that in reality, they're just [[SafetyInIndifference scared of getting close]] to anyone.
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24Often overlaps with the BrokenBird who has similar feelings of depression, isolation, and fear of social interaction due to a DarkAndTroubledPast. Broken Birds, however, tend to be passive, while this character is proactive about driving people away. May cultivate and revel in their {{jerkass}} reputation. If their hidden persona is discovered it is possible they might react with DontYouDarePityMe
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26Compare with {{Tsundere}}, a character who acts harsh and abrasive to conceal a sweet or loving side; and with JerkWithAHeartOfGold, where the character is mean and insufferable (with occasional gentler moments) but doesn't necessarily act like that because of a FreudianExcuse. The StepfordSnarker is somewhat similar, hiding their sadness and insecurities under snarkiness, but is not necessarily such a {{Jerkass}} about it. Being Sour Outside, Sad Inside is a fairly common trait of the MentorInSourArmor. In anime fandoms, this character is referred to as a ''tsunshun''.
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28In RealLife, frequent swings between angry/aggressive reactions and anxious/depressive ones are a hallmark of Borderline Personality Disorder. Pushing others away is also a common coping mechanism for people with Complex Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder. Therefore, TruthInTelevision.
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30A lighter version is an EasilyEmbarrassedYoungster who hides and/or expresses their embarrassment through rudeness.
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32Compare KnightInSourArmor.
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37[[index]]
38* SourOutsideSadInside/AnimeAndManga
39* SourOutsideSadInside/FanWorks
40* SourOutsideSadInside/{{Literature}}
41* SourOutsideSadInside/LiveActionTV
42* SourOutsideSadInside/VideoGames
43* SourOutsideSadInside/WesternAnimation
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46!!Other examples:
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51* ''ComicBook/Aquaman1991'' exemplified this for ''ComicBook/{{Aquaman}}'', as after the death of his son and estrangement from Mera, he acted cold and angry on the outside but was plagued with sorrow and insecurity on the inside. Battling his EnemyWithout, Thanatos, helped him confront his inner demons head-on and admit to feeling sad.
52* [[PhysicalGod Xadhoom]] from ''ComicBook/PaperinikNewAdventures'': her role in the fall of her planet and her people (as well as the fact that she wasn't there during the event ) caused her to develop an insane amount of rage and guilt that she can only express by taking revenge on the aliens that attacked them. As such, she is very abrupt, callous, and rude toward practically everybody, only allowing herself '''very''' brief moments of friendship with Paperinik who, as herself admitted, is the only person she can count on in the whole universe.
53* Ray of ''ComicBook/{{Plutona}}'' is an abrasive jerk to everyone he meets because his father is neglectful and abusive. He's given the opportunity to open up over the course of the story.
54* It's strongly implied that part of the reason Kim Pine in ''ComicBook/ScottPilgrim'' acts so cold (especially to the protagonist) is due to the lack of closure in their relationship when Scott moved away [[spoiler:and had their mutual friend tell Kim about it as opposed to Scott himself]]. When this topic finally gets brought to the surface, it's the only time in the entire series where Kim looks genuinely hurt.
55* ''ComicBook/WonderWoman'' [[ComicBook/WonderWoman1942 Vol 1]]: Paula von Gunther seemed like a cruel and sadistic Nazi spy until Diana forced her to tell her story with the magic lasso, at which point Paula revealed that she hated the Nazis and was only working for them because they'd murdered her husband right in front of her for her refusal to work for them and then taken her daughter hostage. Her apparent sadism was a result of her feeling she had no other way to help her daughter but no hope of actually rescuing or seeing her little girl again, so she hardened her heart and felt furious with those who seemed to be living happy or meaningful lives.
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59* ''WesternAnimation/SleepingBeauty'': One of the Fairy Godmothers speculates that [[WickedWitch Maleficent]] is this.
60-->'''Fauna:''' Maleficent doesn't know anything about love, or kindness, or the joy of helping others. You know, sometimes I don't think she's really very happy.
61* In ''WesternAnimation/TurningRed'', Tyler seems to like bullying Mei just because he doesn't like her, but secretly he's jealous of her close friend group [[spoiler: and just like them, he's obsessed with the boy band 4*Town and hides it throughout the film. Fortunately, Mei and her friends [[BullyTurnedBuddy immediately accept him into their friend group after learning about this.]]]]
62* Carl from ''WesternAnimation/{{Up}}'' is bitter, misanthropic, and anti-social, thanks to years of loneliness after being devastated by the death of his beloved wife Ellie. [[spoiler:He ''eventually'' gets better, though not without fighting it every step of the way, a HeelRealization, and a BigDamnHeroes moment, thanks to Russel, Dug, and Kevin.]]
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66* ''[[Literature/AnneOfGreenGables Anne of Windy Poplars]]'': Katherine Brooks, the [[DeanBitterman principal]] of Queen's Academy. She hates teaching, but as a plain, single woman who is determined to be independent, she has no other options, locking her into a career that is slowly sucking the life from her. Anne's relentless goodwill towards her eventually breaks through the sour shell, and a visit to Green Gables goes a long way towards easing the sad inside.
67%%* Jack Nicholson's character in ''Film/AsGoodAsItGets''.
68* ''Film/CriesAndWhispers'': Karin is rigid, unfriendly, and looks pissed off most of the time, but she is actually deeply unhappy with her life to the point of feeling suicidal.
69* Franchise/MarvelCinematicUniverse:
70** ''Film/GuardiansOfTheGalaxy2014'': Rocket is a perfect example. In the second movie, Yondu, [[spoiler:who knows exactly what he's talking about since he's an example of this too and he knows it]], says it best:
71--->'''Yondu:''' You can fool yourself and you can fool everyone else, but you can't fool me. I know who you are... I know you play like you're the meanest and the hardest but actually you're the most scared of all. I know you steal batteries you don't need, and you push away anyone who's willing to put up with you because just a little bit of love reminds you how big and empty that hole inside of you actually is!
72** Nebula is also implied to be one over the course of the movies because Thanos treats her as TheUnfavorite until she finally blows up at her adopted sister Gamora about the latter treating her like this as well.
73--->'''Nebula:''' ''[to Gamora]'' You were the one who wanted to win, ''and I just wanted a sister!'' [...] You were all I had. But you were the one who ''needed to win.'' Thanos pulled my eye from my head, my brain from my skull, and my arm from my body. ''Because of you.''
74* ''Franchise/StarWars'': [[TheDragon Darth Vader]]. On the outside, a cruel, deceptive, power-hungry monster who would kill his officers for [[YouHaveFailedMe the simple crime of failing him]]. On the inside? A [[BrokenAce broken]] slave to his master and [[ManipulativeBastard "friend"]] Emperor Palpatine. In a twisted way, he tried to protect his son Luke even if it meant cutting his hand off and trying to push him to the DarkSide (rather than have Palpatine kill him). Luke's cries of pain are what let him free himself from Palpatine's control.
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78* The titular character of ''Electra Heart'' album by Music/MarinaDiamandis definitely qualifies: she's a self-admitted AlphaBitch, (e.g. "Bubblegum Bitch") who's also a BrokenBird (e.g. "Living Dead")
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82* Wrestling/{{ECW}}'s PerpetualFrowner Wrestling/{{Raven}}. A man of apparent wealth and intelligence who focuses on many destructive, distracting pursuits that have little to do with winning title belts. He's the old party boy Scotty The Body with a hopeless case of depression, who really can't drive himself to do anything other than hurt people, much as he may try to or claim otherwise.
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86* ''TabletopGame/InNomine'': While Dominic, the Archangel of Judgement, is every bit the ruthless KnightTemplar that he presents himself as, a good chunk of the reason he interprets his Word so harshly is that he never quite recovered from the betrayal of his closest friend or his guilt over nearly Falling. There's a reason his black cloak shields him from all supernatural observation -- he can't risk anyone seeing his fear of weakness, nor his grief over what he must do in the name of justice.
87-->'''Eli:''' So many eyes, how can he be so blind? Such shining wings, why doesn't he fly? Such a beautiful voice, why doesn't he sing? Poor Dominic.
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91* Touko Fukawa from ''VisualNovel/DanganronpaTriggerHappyHavoc''. Due to her traumatic childhood at the hands of her AbusiveParents, bullying by her classmates, and the fact that she's never had any loving relationships, she's developed an acerbic attitude along with strong paranoia that causes her to worry that everyone either hates her or is out to hurt or bully her. To make matters worse, [[spoiler:the aforementioned trauma and abuse she endured growing up led her to develop a SplitPersonality, a SerialKiller named Genocider Syo; being conscious of Syo's crimes deeply distresses Fukawa, so much so that she rarely bathes so she doesn't have to see the KillTally that Syo carves into her thigh with each new victim.]] Thankfully, in ''VideoGame/DanganronpaAnotherEpisodeUltraDespairGirls'' she's befriended and treated with genuine kindness and love by Komaru, who [[TookALevelInKindness she slowly manages to warm up to and trust.]] She eventually comes to truly care for and trust Komaru in return, and she sports her first genuine smiling sprite in the whole series -- by the end, she proudly declares that she's found her "hope" in Komaru.
92* [[JerkWithAHeartOfGold Hiyoko Saionji]] from ''VisualNovel/Danganronpa2GoodbyeDespair''. It's clear behind her sunny yet extremely sour personality that Hiyoko is a deeply sad girl who just wants a friend but can't make any because of her trust issues and tendency to push others away because of her past of being abused and neglected by pretty much everyone, she finally does make a friend in [[NiceGirl Mahiru Koizumi]] [[spoiler: only for Mahiru to end up dead days later which only adds to Hiyoko's deeply routed sadness and self-hatred. While it doesn't excuse her behavior, it's utterly depressing that Hiyoko never really had a chance to show others that she had a good heart deep down because of how often others hurt her and that her one chance of happiness was cruelly taken away from her.]]
93* Miu Iruma from ''VisualNovel/DanganronpaV3KillingHarmony'' is, simply put, a hot mess. She is extremely abrasive and prickly, hurling insults at her classmates, getting angry at them for wasting her time, and generally being a nuisance, making her TheFriendNobodyLikes. Underneath all these are [[InferioritySuperiorityComplex a lot of insecurities]]. She did [[FriendlessBackground not have anyone she could call a friend]] before participating in the Killing Game, something she is embarrassed to admit, and [[IJustWantToBeLoved she tries very hard to get people to like her because of her beauty and genius]], but she falls apart very quickly whenever these attempts fail (which is more often than not). [[spoiler:She does not trust her classmates enough to work with them, and as the Killing Game progresses, she ends up attempting to kill Kokichi so that she can escape.]] Her Love Suite Event suggests that Miu has severe abandonment issues, making her loneliness worse; in the middle of an otherwise pleasant ChildhoodFriendRomance, Miu invokes a BabyTrap plan, believing it is the only sure way that her childhood friend would not abandon her. Lastly, taking her friendless background into consideration, she will [[BecauseYouWereNiceToMe quickly fall in love with anyone who shows her even a small amount of affection]].
94* Subaru of ''VisualNovel/DiabolikLovers'' has a HairTriggerTemper and a curious talent for demolition, which he uses to intimidate people into leaving him alone by [[PunchAWall smashing walls]] and breaking furniture. He threatens to hurt the heroine in the same ways that he breaks things, despite never actually striking her. A painful childhood convinced him that he is some sort of monster who will involuntarily harm anyone who tries to get close to him, and he has made it into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
95* Aoba from ''VisualNovel/FamilyProject'' due to [[spoiler:issues with her parents and later her grandfather]] tends to treat others in an extremely hostile manner. It's quite rare for her ''not'' to be either a jerkass or completely disinterested.
96* Shizune Hakamichi from ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'' turns out to be this, and it's hinted that it's in part to compensate for her deafness and because she's actually extremely lonely and frustrated over her inability to keep friends.
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100* Max from ''WebAnimation/CampCamp'' is a mouthy, cynical little JerkAss, who often gives others a hard time for little to no reason, but underneath it all, is just a child lashing out, because his uncaring parents dumped him at a run-down summer camp, [[ParentalNeglect just so they don't have to deal with him]]; as often as he tries to escape from Camp Campbell[[note]] [[CharacterDevelopment at least early on]][[/note]], he never talks about going home or mentions his family at all. In "Parents' Day", he brags that his parents don't care about showing up to stupid camp events - however, as the episode goes on, it becomes increasingly clear that Max's parents aren't showing up because they really don't care about ''him'', [[spoiler: and didn't even bother to write what activity for him participate in on his information form]].
101* Kiazuki from ''WebAnimation/HanazukiFullOfTreasures'' acts like a {{Tsundere}} to hide her misery about her failure to protect her moon from the BigBad.
102* Angel Dust from ''WebAnimation/HazbinHotel'' is an unabashed prostitute/porn star/gangster who does drugs and [[ArsonMurderAndJaywalking insults people]] on the regular. However, "Addict" reveals that most of it is to escape from the [[{{Understatement}} harsh]] realities inflicted upon him by [[BadBoss Valentino]].
103* Whitley Schnee from ''WebAnimation/{{RWBY}}'' is antagonistic towards his older sister Weiss, and manipulated events to ensure Jacques saw him as the sole heir since he behaves like the perfect son. But Whitley is, in fact, just as much a victim of their father's abuse as Weiss and Winter are. When Weiss points out her strained relationship, Willow points out that it was because she left him alone with two terrible parents: an abusive father and a negligent mother. To drive the point home, when Jacques is arrested and taken away by the Atlas police, Whitley is shown sitting by himself on the stairs looking forlorn and confused, a reminder that Whitley is simply just a scared, lonely boy desperate for someone to genuinely love him.
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107* ''Webcomic/CheckPlease'' has Jack Zimmermann, in the beginning, since he was kind of mean to Bittle even after everybody on the team received him with open arms. His story is revealed early on in the comic, as a recovered addict with anxiety and [[WellDoneSonGuy a deep need for his father's approval]] (no matter the fact that his father is actually very caring and supporting). He gets better after that, especially after he and Bittle take classes together.
108* ''Webcomic/GirlGenius'': Klaus Wulfenbach is an EmperorScientist who rules large swathes of Europe with an iron fist ([[BenevolentDictator though pretty well]]), [[ToBeLawfulOrGood always chooses Lawful over Good]] and isn't afraid to PayEvilUntoEvil. Beneath is a man who had his idealism shot off in the war in a very spectacular way, who doesn't know if his best friends are alive or dead, who hasn't seen his wife in years, and who constantly worries about his son's safety, and in general just wishes people could be a little better so he didn't have to be an iron-fisted dictator and could spend more time on the scientific pursuits that are his real passion.
109* Zimmy in ''Webcomic/GunnerkriggCourt'': She's a creepy, [[CoveredInGunge grimy,]] [[JerkAss nasty]] [[TeensAreMonsters teenage]] ex-street kid RealityWarper with PowerIncontinence with only one friend, gentle PowerNullifier Gamma. It's explicitly stated that Zimmy drives people away to protect them from getting trapped in her hell-world and [[spoiler:getting their souls stolen.]]
110* ''Webcomic/{{Homestuck}}'':
111** Vriska is hiding a lot of angst under that 'Bluh Bluh Huge Bitch' attitude. She only shows this to John.
112** Similarly to Vriska is Karkat, who hides a lot of self-loathing under his angry exterior.
113* ''Webcomic/LongExposure'' has Mitch. He is a SmugSmiler [[TheBully Bully]] and is known around school for his time in a reformatory after stabbing his stepdad, what's hardly any information to many is that [[spoiler:said stepdad was abusive towards him and his mother, and the stabbing only happened after he started getting physical and Mitch tried to defend his mother. He also has deep-seated self-loathing issues and an eating disorder, all of that on top of [[LovingBully being in love with his favorite victim]] due to having NoSocialSkills, and said victim hates him. The latter gets rectified when Mitch tells Jonas why he started bullying him in the first place.]]
114* ''Webcomic/TheManorsPrize'': The Chariot acts harshly towards everyone around her, and states that she doesn't want to make friends. However, after Hanged Man disappears crying, Chariot begins tearing up herself, blaming it on alcohol.
115* ''Webcomic/MegaTokyo'' has Kimiko (aka [[http://megatokyo.com/strip/887 Kimi-Zilla]]). The artist has another character, [[http://fredrin.tumblr.com/post/40236855835/kotone-tsundepressed-girl-in-snow-for-a Kotone,]] referred to as [[http://fredrin.tumblr.com/post/40153164099/sad-bears-and-tsundepressed-girls-in-snow-work-in Tsun-Depressed.]]
116* ''Webcomic/{{Sakana}}'': Yuudai is an angry, loud-mouth jerk who claims to "hate everybody"...except he actually doesn't. WordOfGod confirms that Yuudai suffered some pretty hardcore abuse not too long ago and, in reality, is so afraid of being hurt again that he pushes everyone away. Due to this, he is very sad and lonely but maintains a sour exterior to hide his feelings-- which works remarkably.
117* Gordon in ''Webcomic/TheYoungProtectors'' acts overbearing and abrasive towards the {{Kid Hero}}es under his supervision. In a [[http://webcomics.yaoi911.com/typ/ete-tod-page-18/ candid moment]], however, he admits that he is deeply ashamed of things he once did with his superpowers, tries to protect the team from repeating his mistakes, and actually feels jealous of a member who seems to be coping with his own DarkAndTroubledPast better than he.
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