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7	Virgins are presented as more cherished or desirable than unvirgins.
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9	There's just something about virgins that seems to exude desirability, like a natural aphrodisiac that works regardless of gender. Heck, even characters who are no longer virgins can get this benefit from sincerely trying to be {{Chaste\|Hero}} or {{Celibate\|Hero}} because ColdTurkeysAreEverywhere (faking it is far more hit and miss).
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11	This was a big thing in older stories, what with a "woman's virtue" and desirability being directly proportional, and part of the nobility behind a KnightInShiningArmour. The sheer number of suitors a fair and virginal princess would draw to her [[TheDulcineaEffect just from hearing her described]] would be ''[[WorldsMostBeautifulWoman staggering]]'', bordering on SoBeautifulItsACurse. There is even a supernatural element involved. {{Unicorn}}s were thought of as wild creatures that would calm only in the presence of a virgin, due to her innocence and purity.
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13	The reasons behind this vary depending on the period of the story and the characters themselves. In early stories it's because SexIsEvil, and virginity is a sign of purity, and thus desirability -- and also giving the man some hope of averting MamasBabyPapasMaybe, since it's evidence that she doesn't just sleep around. Modern stories often follow the Madonna/Whore Complex: men marry the Madonna, but sleep with the Whore. There's also the bragging rights behind bedding a virgin, which would be a BIG notch in any [[TheCasanova Casanova]]'s or rare male [[TheVamp Vamp's]] belt. The assumptions here are that [[VirginShaming men are not allowed to be virgins]], and the [[VirginityMakesYouStupid virginal are idiots]], and [[MadonnaWhoreComplex non-virginal women are whores]]. It bears repeating that this can be a gender neutral trope; when a man ''is'' a virgin, that signals to women that this guy is likely waiting for love and not just wanting a one-night stand.
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15	Sometimes this trope [[RuleThirtyFour comes]] in a more [[{{Squick}} disturbing]] form, where the thought of [[RapeAsDrama defiling]] a virgin is a turn on in and of itself. However, it could also be thought of as a [[RuleThirtyFour turn-on]] to be the first one to show someone [[SexIsGood how great sex can be]]. There is also the foolish idea held by some insecure people that a virgin won't know if the sex was bad, having no comparison. But of course, anyone can tell if they enjoyed themselves or if they were in pain. And it's much easier to satisfy an experienced woman and keep her from being in pain than it is to do the same for a virgin (same applies to a gay man on the bottom, naturally.)
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17	In a horror setting, this is a good thing because of SexSignalsDeath. Then again, there's always the chance the villain of the movie needs a VirginSacrifice...
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19	More {{Tropes}} that often go hand-in-hand with this:
20	* AlwaysLawfulGood
21	* BarrierMaiden
22	* ButIWouldReallyEnjoyIt
23	* CantHaveSexEver
24	* CatholicSchoolGirlsRule
25	* CelibateHero
26	* ChasteHero
27	* ChastityCouple
28	* ChildrenAreInnocent
29	* ContractualPurity
30	* DefiledForever
31	* TheDulcineaEffect
32	* EntitledToHaveYou
33	* HotLibrarian
34	* InnocentFanserviceGirl
35	* TheIngenue
36	* IWillWaitForYou
37	* KnightInShiningArmour
38	* MadonnaWhoreComplex
39	* MenActWomenAre
40	* {{Miko}}
41	* MoreExperiencedChasesTheInnocent
42	* MyGirlIsNotASlut
43	* NoGuyWantsToBeChased
44	* NotLikeOtherGirls (if the character's virginity or modesty or "innocence" is what sets her apart)
45	* NoSexAllowed
46	* ProperLady
47	* PuritySue
48	* SailorFuku
49	* SensibleHeroesSkimpyVillains
50	* SexIsEvil
51	* SexIsEvilAndIAmHorny
52	* SexSignalsDeath
53	* SugarAndIcePersonality
54	* TakingTheVeil (especially in works [[ChristianityIsCatholic written by and for Catholics]])
55	* TooGoodForThisSinfulEarth
56	* UnicornsPreferVirgins
57	* VirginInAWhiteDress
58	* VirginityFlag
59	* VirginPower
60	* VirginSacrifice
61	* VirginTension
62	* YamatoNadeshiko (unless the YN in question is married)
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64	PlayingWithATrope:
65	* ConsummationCounterfeit
66	* EternalSexualFreedom
67	* EthicalSlut
68	* FreeLoveFuture
69	* GoodBadGirl
70	* HeroicSeductress
71	* HookerWithAHeartOfGold
72	* MissKitty
73	* MyGirlIsASlut
74	* NaughtyNuns
75	* NunTooHoly
76	* SeeminglyWholesome50sGirl
77	* SexAsRiteOfPassage
78	* SexIsGood
79	* TechnicalVirgin
80	* TheThreeFacesOfEve
81	* VirginShaming
82	* VirginityMakesYouStupid
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84	Do not confuse this trope with NatureAbhorsAVirgin.
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87	!!Examples:
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91	[[folder:Anime and Manga]]
92	* ''Manga/Club9'': Even though Haruo's generous figure and klutzy, pure-hearted charm are enough to melt the brains of her admirers, any time the men get a hint of her being a virgin...
93	* In ''Manga/FushigiYuugi'', only a virgin can be the Priestess.
94	* ''Anime/PhantomQuestCorp'': Briefly discussed, when [[FriendlyNeighborhoodVampire Bosco]] explains to [[TheProtagonist Ayaka]] that it'd become harder for vampires to find virgins in the modern age, due to how liberal society had become. The fact that [[DamselInDistress Makiko]] was [[PurityPersonified not only a virgin, but didn't drink, didn't smoke, or do drugs]], made her blood especially pure. Which causes her to stick out like a walking neon "drink me" sign and is the reason she was being relentlessly pursued by Dracula.
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97	[[folder:Comic Books]]
98	* Averted in ''ComicBook/SinCity''. Marv is the only known virgin in the series, and he tends to get into a lot of trouble. In fact, the universe itself was apparently against him getting laid for a long time. He says it himself: "Before, I wasn't even able to buy a woman, [[{{Gonk}} on account of the way I look]]." It's still worth noting that [[spoiler:the one time he does get laid [[SexSignalsDeath leads directly to his death]]]].
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101	[[folder:Fairy Tales]]
102	* In ''[[http://www.surlalunefairytales.com/authors/asbjornsenmoe/littleannie.html Little Annie the Goose Girl]]'', the prince marries Annie rather than any of three princesses because she is "a maid pure and bright", where all the princesses have given birth before.
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105	[[folder:Film]]
106	* Pick a horror film, any horror film. In fact, in lists of horror movie rules (where they present common tropes in rule form, such as "don't go into dark, empty rooms"), "[[SexSignalsDeath Virgins live, sluts die]]" is one of them.
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108	* Matt Sullivan trying to be a ChasteHero in ''Film/FortyDaysAndFortyNights'' makes him the target of both lust and sabotage attempts on the part of women presumably because, should he succeed, it would prove that men can be sexually independent of women. That he goes so far as to stop masturbating and looks like a drug addict going through withdrawal towards the end does not help matters.
109	* In ''Film/TheBestHouseInLondon'', one of the {{squick}}ier services offered by the high-class brothel is the deflowering of virgins, which the louche aristocrat who founded it provides by prowling around the poorer parts of London and ''buying'' virgin girls to work in the brothel.
110	* Inverted in ''Film/CherryFalls'', in which virgins are specifically being killed and the only way to stay alive is to do the naughty, which leads to the awkward scenario of parents encouraging their kids to go have sex.
111	* In ''Film/{{Dragnet}}'', Joe Friday falls for the Virgin Connie Swail (as she's almost always called) after rejecting a topless model and a stripper. Connie may also be using this trope, since she chooses Joe over his partner who is seen with several different women; it's implied that Joe is a virgin himself.
112	-->'''Pep Streebeck:''' Oh, Joe, you never had these feelings before, have you?\
113	'''Joe Friday:''' Almost. I had a kitten once.\
114	'''Pep Streebeck:''' Yeah, it's going to be a little different. Connie is not going to be sleeping in a box, or meowing all night, or clawing up your drapes. Or maybe she will. I mean, you're both kind of starting from scratch with this.
115	* ''Film/ForbiddenPlanet'' explicitly relates to Altaira and a docile tiger to the legendary virgin and unicorn. Sure enough, the tiger turns on Altaira after she loses her virginity, but this turns out to be justified: the apparently [[MisplacedWildlife misplaced Terran animals]] on Altair-4 are completely unnatural creatures. She doesn't lose her virginity, just her innocence. But that seems to be enough.
116	* In ''Film/{{Kids}}'', 15-year-old [[TheCasanova Casanova]] Telly pursues only virgin girls, [[spoiler:which makes it all the more horrifying when it is discovered that he is an unknowing HIV carrier]].
117	* While none of the films in the ''Franchise/KingKong'' franchise may qualify as horror movies by today's standards (even if filmgoers ran from the auditoriums in terror when [[Film/KingKong1933 the first one premiered in 1933]]), Kong not only adores his virgins, but he seems to prefer blondes (see also VirginSacrifice).
118	* ''Film/Kiss2006'': A young art student who happens to be a virgin sees a personal ad from a man specifically looking for a virgin to deflower. The young lady, who's tired of being a virgin, goes for it.
119	* In ''Film/MontyPythonAndTheHolyGrail'', this goes both ways when ChasteHero Sir Galahad finds the convent with the false grail.
120	* In ''Film/{{Mustang}}'', virginity is important for the family of the girls. After they play in the sea with boys, the three older girls must have a virginity test. During the wedding night of Selma and Osman, as there is no blood on the bedsheets, Osman and her family brings Selma to the hospital in the middle of the night for another virginity test.
121	* ''Film/ThePornographers'': Ogata the pornographer has a side business pimping. A gross old Japanese businessman asks Ogata to find him a virgin to deflower. The old man has never been the first for anybody, not even his wife, and wants to have sex with a virgin. Ogata gets a prostitute to pretend to be a virgin and even gets a fake doctor's certificate to attest to her virginal status.
122	* Played straighter than an arrow for laughs in ''Film/ReeferMadnessTheMusical''. Mary, the token adorable little miss diabetes-inducing sweetness, is the high school sweetheart the protagonist falls for. Sally, the only woman with a libido is the 'reefer den slut' who boasts about being in 'more laps than a napkin'. Sally can seduce the protagonist, but only Mary can redeem him of the vile weed. Of course, one puff of the whacky tabbacy and Mary turns into a reefer slut as well. Hilarity and [[spoiler:SexSignalsDeath]] follow.
123	* In ''Film/{{Taken}}'', the hero's daughter is pointed out early in the story to be a virgin. Being [[spoiler:female and the daughter of the hero, she has ChastityArmor and because of this the female slavery villains who kidnap her check, find out she is a virgin (although in RealLife it isn't always so easy, even for a doctor), and hold off on raping her until after they set up a special sale for luxury virgins, which naturally gives the hero time to save her before it's too late]]. Meanwhile, [[spoiler:the daughter's semi-slutty friend is found dead fairly early into the movie]].
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126	[[folder:Literature]]
127	* In ''Literature/DangerousLiaisons'', Cecile is actually an inversion; Valmont ''doesn't'' want to sleep with her, as it would damage his reputation to pick such a very easy target. He's only spurred on to seduce and ruin Cecile as revenge when her mother gets in the way of his primary seduction (Madame de Tourvel).
128	* ''Literature/TheDresdenFiles'':
129	** Averted in ''Literature/ProvenGuilty''. One of the reasons why Harry doesn't sleep with [[spoiler:Molly]] is because she's never had sex before and doesn't understand the emotional ramifications of it.
130	** In ''Literature/WhiteNight'', Lara Raith (a sex vampire/succubus) is instantly driven to feed on [[spoiler:young wizard Carlos Ramirez]] when she realizes that he is a virgin. He deflects her advances and his own supernaturally-fanned lust with some quick thinking, and Lara warns Harry (he and [[spoiler:Ramirez]] being her [[PragmaticVillainy protected guests]]) that virgins are extremely attractive to her kind and [[spoiler:Ramirez]] should stay away from her kin, as they may not be able to control themselves around him. This revelation is particularly [[VirginShaming humiliating]] for [[spoiler:Ramirez, who had made it a point to brag long and hard about his sexual conquests and prowess]], and particularly amusing for Harry.
131	* OlderThanDirt: In ''Literature/TheEpicOfGilgamesh'', animals have no fear of the WildMan Enkidu until he sleeps with a woman (after which they avoid him).
132	* The nature of royal marriages in ''Literature/KingdomOfLittleWounds''. Isabel insists that she came to Christian a virgin. Sophia was also a virgin on her wedding night. With non-noble characters, Jacob didn't penetrate Ava because while he wanted to be intimate before their wedding, he still wanted to marry a virgin.
133	* In ''Literature/{{Outlander}}'', the main love interest, Jamie, is a virgin until his wedding night -- seemingly a pleasant state of affairs for the older, previously-married heroine. This might have been an intentional gender-flip of the romance novel staple of the rakehell romantic hero and the virginal, innocent heroine, as neither of them are precisely innocent despite it. (There's also an incredibly {{squick}}y possibility that this same perceived innocence is the same reason why the main villain [[spoiler:wanted to have sex with him when he was sixteen, and was willing to [[ScarpiaUltimatum set Claire free in exchange for torture and rape]] later on]]. Nngh. Whimper.)
134	* In ''Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians'', Annabeth is tricked into taking up the Sky, which is slowly killing her. The Titan Atlas shows her plight to Artemis, goddess of maidens and the closest thing to a nature god around with Pan absent. Artemis immediately takes the Sky from Annabeth. Had the victim under the sky not been a maiden, Artemis would not have bothered to help.
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137	[[folder:Live-Action TV]]
138	* In ''Series/{{Coupling}}'', Jane falls for her CelibateHero co-worker (who admittedly isn't a virgin but has renounced premarital sex for religious reasons) precisely because of this.
139	* In the ''Series/DharmaAndGreg'' episode "The Second Coming of Leonard", Dharma's old boyfriend, Leonard, returns from India where he has lived his life completely celibate since the last night he and Dharma spent together. Leonard's celibacy, contrasted by his intimate knowledge of Tantric Sex, is the subject of the majority of the humor in the episode. The entire cast of the show (including Greg at the end) seems to be attracted to Leonard, who receives several sexual advances from Jane.
140	* Really awfully played with in ''Series/IClaudius'' when Sejanus and his family have been ordered executed, but the soldiers tell their commander they object to killing his young virgin daughter, as virgins are held in high regard and the murder of one would bring bad luck. The commander responds by telling them to [[RapeAsDrama make sure she's not a virgin]] before they kill her.
141	* ''Series/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit'':
142	** Averted in one episode. A high-school [[TheCasanova Casanova]] who is accused of raping a girl claims outright that he doesn't have sex with virgins, saying that since losing their virginity is such a big deal for most teenagers, he doesn't want the emotional baggage that comes along with it.
143	** Played ''very'' darkly in another episode in which the [[MonsterOfTheWeek Villain of the Week]] specifically targets virgins to rape. He "justifies" it by saying that his wife wasn't a virgin when they got married -- as if that's any kind of justification. He was already a sexual predator before they met, further showing his excuse to be a load of bull.
144	* In one episode of ''Series/SexAndTheCity'', Samantha lusts after a SexyPriest precisely because of this.
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147	[[folder:Music]]
148	* ''Music/LikeAVirgin'' by Music/{{Madonna}} caused a stir back in 1985 precisely because of this trope. Yet, when one carefully reads the lyrics, one finds out that it's actually about a woman who isn't a virgin no more and just likes her new partner because he makes her feel a virgin again.
149	* Music/AdamAnt's "S.E.X." from the album ''Music/PrinceCharming'', despite being about sex, informs us that "virginity is no crime".
150	* ''Music/UnfinishedMusicNo1TwoVirgins'' by Music/JohnLennon and Music/YokoOno alludes to this. At the time both of them weren't virgins anymore, but they were so in love after meeting each other that they ''felt'' like virgins again, thus the title.
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153	[[folder:Professional Wrestling]]
154	* In 2002, Wrestling/ChristopherNowinski took a liking to Wrestling/MollyHolly after finding out she was a virgin.
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157	[[folder:Theater]]
158	* Inverted or doubly played straight in ''Theatre/ALittleNightMusic'', depending on how to see it. Fredrik leaves his still-virginal wife for Desiree; said virginal wife, for her part, leaves ''Fredrik'' for his stepson, who is not only a virgin himself, but was planning to become a missionary before Anne got to him.
159	* In ''Theatre/TheMusicMan'', Harold Hill expresses his preference for "The Sadder but Wiser Girl", but in the end it's the nice girl he falls in love with (although, for most of the plotline, Harold thinks that Marion 'was' a "Sadder but Wiser Girl").
160	* In ''Theatre/TitusAndronicus'', Tamora's sons Chiron and Demetrius are attracted to Lavinia precisely because she's a virgin. Originally, they want to seduce her and are fighting each other to see which brother will do it, and with some revenging getting in the middle of things, they end up [[NightmareFuel raping her over her newlywed husband's corpse, cutting out her tongue, cutting off her hands (so she can neither speak nor write her attackers' names) and framing her brothers for the deed, resulting in their execution]].
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163	[[folder:Video Games]]
164	* While the ''VideoGame/GrandTheftAuto'' series is ''definitely'' not one to pay any attention to this trope normally, Niko's final and most plot-important love interest in ''VideoGame/GrandTheftAutoIV'' is a virgin, which is explicitly brought up. She's also the only one of his girlfriends who won't ever sleep with him, however successfully he romances her.
165	* ''VideoGame/KingdomOfLoathing'' downplays this: "While unicorns will lay their heads in the laps of virgins, uniclopses will settle for a girl who doesn't go past second base on the first date."
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