Line #45 Main/IntimatePsychotherapy


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2	[[caption-width-right:350:''Very'' intimate, ''very'' therapeutic. Works on [[{{Satan}} devils]], too!]]
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4	->'''Erin:''' What kind of therapist sleeps with his patient?\
5	'''Dave:''' Actually, it's quite common in erotic cinema.
6	-->-- ''Series/{{Titus}}''
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8	In fiction, [[IntimateHealing sex heals physical wounds]]. But sex can also heal emotional wounds. Addiction, depression over terminal illness, PTSD... they all fade instantly the moment our protagonist is in the loving embrace of their love interest, making this the logical extreme of SexForSolace (which may or may not make problems go away). In FanFic parlance, this is often called the 'magical healing cock' and mocked, as it is often {{Narm}} (or deeply offensive) when it is all too often used as a kind of therapy for victims of sexual assault. The theory goes that if bad sex hurts you, good sex with somebody you love cancels it out.
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10	Note that Administrivia/TropesAreNotBad. Sex can be a great mood-elevator and, to some degree, help with certain hang-ups or insecurities, or even depression, due to it releasing large amounts of serotonin, a neurotransmitter, the lack of which is believed to be a significant molecular background to depression.
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12	The key issue is ''overstating'' this effect. For instance, someone with a case of Dissociative Identity Disorder (a.k.a. multiple personalities) won't suddenly "get better" after some great sex. After all, [[FridgeLogic if sex completely and instantly cured all emotional wounds]], [[ThereAreNoTherapists there would be no therapists]]. Note, however, that the depressed are less likely in the first place to be going out, to make contact or meet a partner. In fact, a person can be mentally impaired to the point they cannot consent to sex, making any sexual actions upon them sexual assault. None of this is even getting into the possibility that a patient could have an IncompatibleOrientation, meaning this method would be out of the question either way. Lastly, it's completely unethical for real therapists or psychiatrists to have sex with their patients, and could cost them their licenses.
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14	Intimate Healing is much more however than 'sex' as a mood elevator to raise molecular serotonin background. The feeling of deep intimacy with another human being can and does heal major psychological wounds, and is often expressed through the act of lovemaking. It is often shown in this way in fiction, but the 'just had sex' is not the point.
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16	See also GladToBeAliveSex, celebrating the feeling of aliveness through sex in the aftermath of life-threatening experiences. Contrast PsychosexualHorror.
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25	* Used in ''Manga/BadTeachersEquation'', when [[spoiler:Masami and Tooru have sex shortly after Masami tells Tooru about having been sexually abused in the past, then collapses crying since he feels tainted -- and Tooru tells him "You're NOT DefiledForever by your past, I love you anyway!"]]
26	* In ''Manga/{{Berserk}}'':
27	** While Guts and Casca are making love, Guts begins to have flashbacks of his [[DarkAndTroubledPast dark and horrific childhood ordeal]] of [[spoiler: being anally raped and being betrayed by his adoptive father altogether]]. When this happens, years of repressed post traumatic stress are released as Guts has an emotional breakdown in front of Casca. Afterwards, he tries to go away and deal with his issues on his own, thinking himself a freak and [[DefiledForever soiled]], but Casca gives Guts a CooldownHug and says that now they've revealed their crappy childhoods to each other, they are truly equal, as friends and as lovers.
28	** After Guts leaves the Band of the Hawk by beating Griffith in a duel, a distraught Griffith goes to sleep with Princess Charlotte. Unfortunately, a maid saw them, leading to Griffith being arrested and tortured ([[ParentalIncest turns out the king had very bad reasons to value his daughter's virginity...]]), the Band of the Hawk pursued as criminals, and once Griffith is rescued he finds out he can no longer lead them, leading to the Eclipse, him raping Casca and Guts losing his eye and arm. Don't sleep with princesses, kids.
29	* VERY strongly implied to have taken place between [[CuteBookworm Momo Hinamori]] [[MindGameShip and]] [[ManipulativeBastard Sousuke Aizen]] in ''Manga/{{Bleach}}''. At some point in the Soul Society arc, Momo goes to Aizen's quarters in the middle of the night so she can ask him for advice, and they have a nice talk... There are two catches, however: not only are both of them in their sleeping robes during the scene, but the next one shows us ''Momo sleeping in Aizen's futon while he leaves his quarters fully clothed in the morning''. The implication was so strong that the scene was {{bowdlerized}} in the anime: Momo shows up in her Shinigami outfit rather than her pajamas, and she's seen sleeping on the ''tatami'' of Aizen's room instead of his bed.
30	* Kind of seems to be the basis of Bird's Nest and Michel's relationship in ''Manga/CopernicusBreathing'', at least at the beginning. The first time it happens is after [[spoiler:Bird's Nest's FreakOut when he is reminded of his dead brother and the circus life.]]
31	** It happens before this after [[spoiler:Mina falls from the trapeze, mirroring the death of Bird's Nest's brother and his consequential FreakOut]].
32	* Happens after a SlapSlapKiss moment between Jeremy and Ian in ''Manga/ACruelGodReigns''. Jeremy had been [[spoiler:recounting to Ian all the times Greg sexually abused him]] but later hallucinated that Greg was following him. The trope is strengthened in this instance because of Jeremy's FreakOut immediately beforehand.
33	* In the {{Hentai}}, ''Discipline: the Record of a Crusade'' [[ThePornomancer the male lead becomes hypersensitive from all the action he's been getting,]] so his female roommates send him to the nurse's office where she uses a variety of techniques to cure [[SpeedSex his ailment.]]
34	* Subverted in ''Manga/HaouAiren'': [[spoiler:Kurumi]] has sex with [[spoiler:her boyfriend's [[TheDragon Dragon]] Fuuron]] after a ''really'' [[BreakTheCutie hard time]] (including a scene in which she tells him about said problems, and while [[TallDarkAndSnarky he's not outwardly sympathetic]], he still listens to her woes and allows her to vent), but she doesn't exactly feel better afterwards. And for worse, it's followed by something ''even more traumatic'' for her...
35	* ''Anime/LegendOfTheBlueWolves'' has a double example, as this "helps" [[spoiler: Jonathan]] to get over [[spoiler: being falsely accused of theft, then beaten and ''raped'' by the culprit]], while ''also'' helping [[spoiler: Leonard]] to deal with [[spoiler: the tragic death of his beloved younger brother several years ago (his feelings for Jonathan ''are'' partially driven by a BigBrotherInstinct, as the guy [[IdenticalStranger looks a LOT]] like an older version of said brother)]].
36	* In ''Literature/LordMarksmanAndVanadis'', after Elen is rescued from the hands of Greast, she confesses to Tigre how terrified she was during the ordeal, and her description of her reactions in the days points to her having symptoms of PTSD and a sense of SurvivorsGuilt over shame that she's so traumatized when she knows many other women out there have it far worse than her (since Greast never got around to actually raping her). In a moment of impulse, Tigre then proposes he make love to her. In all fairness, the two have had feelings for each other for quite some time, and she does call him out on how [[OOCIsSeriousBusiness unusual this is for him]] before accepting and having TheirFirstTime together, and the much more significant part of this for her comes from the two finally having a real chance to resolve their UST and have a long emotional talk about where their relationship will go from there.
37	--> '''Elen:''' I mean, you’re asking me that after hearing such a story, so…… What do you mean? You aren’t the kind of man to comfort a woman by sleeping with her.\
38	'''Tigre:''' ……Do I have to say it? If I had arrived even slightly later, [[VirginTension Elen might have been taken by that guy]]. When I think about it, I’m so horrified that I can’t bear it.\
39	''[{{Beat}}]''\
40	'''Tigre:''' Like I said, I──\
41	'''Elen:''' Can you do it? Can you make my everything yours? Can you get rid of all the disgusting sensations that he left on my body and replace them with yours?\
42	''[Tigre nods]''\
43	'''Elen:''' Th-then…… I want to hear your words first.\
44	'''Tigre:''' Elen. I like you. More than that, I love you. Since before, since a long time ago.\
45	'''Elen:''' Tigre. I like you. Yes, I like you, too... no, I love you.
46	* In ''Manga/RedRiver1995'', [[spoiler:Yuri and Kail]] go through this when [[spoiler:Kail has sex with Yuri to reassure her before they return to Hattusa from Egypt, and Yuri has to get ready to challenge Queen Nakia]].
47	* In ''Manga/SakuraGari'', [[spoiler:Masataka and Souma's last sexual encounter]] fits in perfectly, as it takes place after [[spoiler:Masataka's HeroicBSOD where he explains his ChildByRape backstory to Souma (and shortly after having learned about Souma's own DarkAndTroubledPast), and Souma replies with both a CooldownHug and a YouAreNotAlone talk.]]
48	* Kurose from ''Manga/TenCount'' is ''attempting'' this by engaging in intimate situations with his mysophobic patient as "exposure therapy". It's more likely that it has something to do with Kurose being in love with Shirotani, however.
49	* Happens ironically enough in the hentai series ''Tokio Kidou Police'' of all things. The main character, Noriko Ibuki, finds it hard to form a romantic relationship with the team member she has a crush on due to her being partially raped during her first time having sex (she planned on having sex with the man to begin with, but he was far more aggressive than she was comfortable with and didn't listen to her pleas for him to be gentler). She manages to overcome this handicap when her female coworker has sex with her in a gentle, caring way, doing so because she had this very trope in mind.
50	* ''Manga/TokyoGhoul'': Happens in chapter 125 of re between [[spoiler: Touka and Kaneki]]. There are many reasons behind this: it's the [[spoiler: [[TheirFirstTime consummation of their love]] ]], it puts an end to [[spoiler: Kaneki]]'s virginity, they've both gone for too long without physical affection, ''and'' both are very depressed and stressed due to life's trying circumstances, which include [[spoiler: having the CCG after them]] '''and''' [[spoiler: the capture of Touka's MuggleBestFriend Yoriko, due to her association with Touka herself]].
51	* [[spoiler:Wolfwood and Milly]] try this in the ''Manga/{{Trigun}}'' anime. More exactly, [[spoiler:Wolfwood has just killed [[EnfanteTerrible Zazie]] and it turns out he's ''way'' more affected than he lets on, then [[HeroicBSOD he breaks down in tears]] when speaking to Milly, and ''then'' she manages to soothe him with a CooldownHug and gentle words.]] Some scenes later, [[spoiler:Milly is sleeping in the nearby bed (though she's fully covered by the bed clothes) and a more emotionally stable [[ShirtlessScene sans-shirt]] Wolfwood is [[SmokingHotSex having a smoke]].]] It's later confirmed when, [[spoiler:after Wolfwood's heartbreaking death, we see Milly crying her heart out -- and wearing a set of pajamas, instead of her normal clothes.]]
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55	* Dolphin did this to ComicBook/{{Aquaman}} after he became embittered after losing his hand to the terrorist Charybdis.
56	* ''Infamously'' done by Morrison in his ''ComicBook/NewXMen'' run, when ComicBook/EmmaFrost and ComicBook/{{Cyclops}} have a mental affair while A) she is treating him as his psychiatrist, and B) ''he's currently married to Jean Grey''.
57	* ''ComicBook/SecretSix'' has a non-sexual example, with Scandal cuddling in bed with Bane to help him detox from venom, because she had goaded him into relapsing in the first place and thus feels obligated to help him get clean again.
58	* In ''ComicBook/TopTen: Beyond The Farthest Precinct'', new officer Curlew sleeps with her partner Dust Devil to help him get through his depression at losing his mother.
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62	* ''Fanfic/BloodBondBloodOmenSeries'': When Kim is nearly killed, Ron does not cope well. He [[ItsAllMyFault blames himself]], cuts himself off emotionally, and refuses to accept help for himself. Meanwhile, his overprotectiveness actually interferes with Kim's recovery, and he terrifies everyone by going full KnightTemplar and coming right up to the edge of Too Far with his RoaringRampageOfRevenge. Kim is only able to break through his emotional shell by initiating TheirFirstTime. The story is very clear about the fact that this is the ''beginning'' of Ron's healing, not the end, and that it was the increased ''emotional'' intimacy that was more important than the sex itself. It does become a regular habit for the characters to engage in SexForSolace for the rest of the story.
63	* ''Fanfic/DestinyIsAHazyThing'': While it isn't sex, Kiba and Karin are noted to be practically fused together during the mass funeral after the invasion. Karin, on the other hand, finds her self at peace when living in Kiba's personal space bubble before this.
64	* A ''Franchise/{{Digimon}}'' fic has the grown up Koushirou and Jyou as a couple. Jyou is driven to a powerful HeroicBSOD at the start after [[FailureKnight failing to save the lives of a young boy and his parents]]; he discusses the incident with Koushirou (whom he thought about since he knew about his past, and that's one of the reasons why Jyou splintered so badly), who let him pour his heart out and then helps him relax and forget about it via sex.
65	* ''Fanfic/AGrowingAffection'': Kakashi seeks sex from his lover as a distraction from a recent trauma. After a later event, Hinata does the same for Naruto.
66	* In ''Fanfic/{{Sleepless}}'' sequel ''Manehattan Blues'', Babs Seed overcomes her HeroicBSOD by having sex with [[spoiler: Nightcap]].
67	* James applies this to Jessie several times in Cori Falls's ''Franchise/{{Pokemon}}'' fanfiction, most notably TheirFirstTime and in "A Warm Place".
68	* In ''Fanfic/{{Shatterheart}}'' Syaoran and Kurogane's temperaments improve and both get less depressed after they start turning to each other for affection. Subverted in Nihon, Syaoran tries tempting Kurogane with affection to get him to calm down. [[RapeAsDrama It ends in tears.]]
69	* The ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'' fanfic [[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/5053133/1/Some_scars_are_easy_to_hide "Some scars are easy to hide"]] has Lithuania and Poland having sex to help Lithuania get over his depression and anxiety resulting from having been sexually abused by Russia. Notable for giving rise to the {{meme\|ticMutation}} "I'm damaged goods, Feliks!"
70	** Another Hetalia fic, "Mistakes", has China attempting to do this with a random hooker, and then later with France, in an attempt to heal himself. [[SubvertedTrope It does not work.]]
71	** Subverted in the Japan/Taiwan fic ''[[http://whitesin.livejournal.com/27382.html#cutid1 Cages]]'', where recently colonized Taiwan has sex with UsefulNotes/ImperialJapan after [[spoiler: having been forced into footbinding/introduced to opium addiction/raped by China]] in the prequel ''[[http://whitesin.livejournal.com/14434.html Dollhouse]]'' and rescued by Japan some time later-- but it doesn't fix her problems. She does start to get better under his care, but the in-fic sex scene between them is both [[spoiler: an allusion to the hardships of Taiwanese [[SexSlave "comfort women"]]]] ''and'' a sign that [[DiscreditedTrope neither of them really believes in the trope]].
72	*** It's also averted in the case of [[spoiler: Korea and Taiwan]] because they don't go further than kissing, and their relationship goes more by a mixture of FlorenceNightingaleEffect and BroodingBoyGentleGirl.
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76	* Very much subverted in ''Film/{{Antichrist}}''. The main character's husband thinks it's a good idea to treat her depression himself. She uses sex as a method of dulling the pain. It ends badly.
77	* In the movie ''Film/BabyBoy'', the main character loses his temper and slaps his girlfriend, and then she starts breaking down and crying uncontrollably. So he picks her up, carries her to the bedroom and gives her oral sex while sad music plays. She forgives him and it's never mentioned again.
78	* ''Film/BadBoysII'': "Mike, you go to therapy to get your issues worked out, not bang your therapist!"
79	* ''Film/{{Barbarella}}'': Professor Ping explains to Barbarella that the reason Pygar can't fly is low morale. Barbarella has sex with him and he regains the ability to fly.
80	* Subverted in ''Film/HorribleBosses'' -- Kurt's attempt to "fuck the crazy out of" Julia has only temporary effects.
81	* ''Film/TheLegendOfHellHouse'': Subverted. The young female psychic thinks that by offering herself to the ghost of a tormented young man, he might know peace and move on. Let's just say that this does ''not'' turn out to be a romantic and cathartic experience like that one scene in ''Film/Ghost1990''. She [[spoiler:gets violated by the vindictive apparition, which was never a young troubled man but the ghost of the house's murderous old owner]].
82	* ''Film/OnHerMajestysSecretService''. Invoked by Draco, who thinks his daughter Tracy just needs a [[WomenPreferStrongMen strong man to dominate]] and make love to her. Bond correctly points out she needs a doctor instead. In the [[Literature/OnHerMajestysSecretService original novel]] she does go and see one on Bond's recommendation; though sleeping with Bond did make her feel better, given that she did it as an act of despair rather than passion.
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86	* Creator/FritzLeiber's time-war novel ''Literature/TheBigTime'' is told from the viewpoint of an "entertainer" (the official euphemism) in an R&R station anchored outside the timestream, whose job it is to soothe and heal soldiers suffering from what would now be called PTSD.
87	* A somewhat more literal example appears in ''Literature/BrokenAngels'', the second in Creator/RichardKMorgan's [[Literature/TakeshiKovacs hard sci-fi series]]. The protagonist, [[SociopathicHero Takeshi Kovacs]], tracks down Tanya Wardani, the only archaeologist with the knowledge required for his mission - unfortunately, she's been tortured far enough that she's withdrawn from reality. It's stated that normally, she would takes months, maybe years to recover from this - however, Takeshi doesn't have that long. So, he uses some of his [[SuperSoldier Envoy]] mental conditioning techniques to bring her back. It's described this way in the novel:
88	--> Envoy co-option techniques make rather brutal use of the deep wells of psychosexual energy that drive humans at a genetic level. Properly mined, the matrix of animal strength on tap in those places will speed up psychic healing by whole orders of magnitude. You start with light hypnosis, move into quick-fix personality engagement and thence to close bodily contact that only misses definition as sexual foreplay on a technicality. A gentle, hypnotically induced orgasm usually secures the bonding process, but at the final stage with Wardani, something had made me pull back. The whole process was uncomfortably close to a sexual assault as it was.
89	* Subverted in ''Literature/ABrothersPrice''. Kij Porter, a noblewoman, is said to have gone to a "crib" (a brothel), in order to cope with the death of several of her relatives. Due to high prevalence of STD, a noblewoman wouldn't usually have sex out of wedlock, so her grief is universally considered the reason why she did something so utterly foolish. It is not mentioned whether it actually ''helped''. [[spoiler:It's later learned that she most likely did not actually use a crib, but claimed she had to cover [[BrotherSisterIncest her daughter's true paternity]].]]
90	* The relationship between Literature/CassandraKresnov and her unit shrink (in her back story) consisted of a literal version of the trope. This is noted to have been unusual, but was ignored by the brass because it worked.
91	* Subverted in ''Literature/DragonBones''. Garannon was raped and his parents were killed by the king's soldiers. The king recalls how he found the frightened boy and "made it better" while kissing Garannon's neck. However, [[spoiler: Garannon hates his guts, and was about 15 at the time, making this sexual abuse of a child. The king is well aware that Garannon hates him and enjoys the fact that Garannon sleeps with him to protect his younger brother.]]
92	* ''Literature/ForWhomTheBellTolls'' is an early and successful example. Maria wants Robert to make love to her to replace her rape memories.
93	* In the ''Literature/HeraldsOfValdemar'' 'verse, there is a profession called kestra'chern which is a combination of healer, therapist (physical ''and'' mental), masseuse, makeover artist, and high class courtesan (altogether a {{Geisha}}). They do different things for different clients, who have different needs - true kestra'chern make it clear that they give the client what they feel the client ''needs'' (subject to consent), and not necessarily what the client ''wants'' (or thinks they want). Amberdrake, one of the main characters of ''The Black Gryphon'' and a NonActionGuy, is rather irritated at how the public seems to fixate on the "courtesan" part of the job, and frequently has to deal with clients who assume that sex is a guaranteed part of the package. In one case he's very strongly attracted to one of his clients, but scrupulously refrains from making overtures until several session of EpiphanyTherapy get her past the worst of her emotional damage.
94	* Appears in the second ''Literature/KushielsLegacy'' trilogy in an unusually well-justified example, where [[TroubledButCute Imriel's]] experience at [[HighClassCallGirl Balm House]] helps him get over a lot of his hangups about sex.
95	* Marian helps Myth/RobinHood through his Post Traumatic Stress Disorder from UsefulNotes/TheCrusades by sleeping with him in the novel ''Lady of the Forest'' by Jennifer Roberson.
96	* In ''Literature/OneFlewOverTheCuckoosNest'', Randle [=McMurphy=] brings prostitutes onto the mental ward to [[SexAsRiteOfPassage make the other patients into men]]. After sleeping with one of the prostitutes, [[spoiler:Billy Bibbit]] becomes confident enough to finally stand up to [[BattleaxeNurse Nurse Ratched]]. [[spoiler:This all goes down the toilet once Nurse Ratched threatens to tell Billy's mother about what happened, which drives poor Billy to suicide.]]
97	* Used more than once in ''Literature/OneHundredYearsOfSolitude''. Some examples are [[spoiler: a then teenaged Colonel Aureliano losing his virginity to Pilar Ternera after an HeroicBSOD over his feelings for the much younger Remedios Moscote]] and [[spoiler: Aureliano Babilonia losing his to Nigromanta after his LoveEpiphany about Amaranta Ursula (And as a bonus, she's surprised to see how... [[GagPenis "gifted"]] Babilonia actually is]].
98	* A lighter example in ''Literature/{{Peony}}'' by Creator/PearlSBuck. Peony, a young maid in a rich house, is forcefully kissed by an obnoxious guest who lusts after her. Peony runs away in disgust, and a few minutes later she finds the family's son, who she loves. She tells him what has just happened, and offers him her lips, requesting "Take my lips and clean them." He kisses her, effectively "cleaning" her from the assault.
99	* In the A.J.Quinell's book ''Snap Shot'', The sex between on of the protagonists (a war photographer) and a psychologist (another protagonist) who showed compassion towards him, help him to finally get rid of a trauma he got in one of his missions.
100	* Subverted in the ''Series/StarTrekTheNextGeneration'' novel ''Imzadi''. Deanna Troi, shortly after meeting Riker for the first time on Betazed, suggests that they take off their clothes and spoon, saying that it's a technique she learned in her psychotherapy classes for moving past the desires of the flesh. And they do precisely that--lie there naked and talk without doing anything sexual. Later, Deanna's professor says he's never heard of any such technique (except in treating sexual dysfunctions, natch) and that it would probably lead to sex.
101	* In ''Literature/TheStolenThrone'', the first prequel book to the ''VideoGame/DragonAgeOrigins'' video game, Rowan comforts her future husband Maric shortly after he executed his former lover, Katriel, for being a spy. After hours of sobbing and holding each other, it's strongly implied that they make love for the first time. Notably, it doesn't resolve Maric's guilt over Katriel's death, which he feels even years later. It just helps him cope.
102	* John D [=MacDonald=]'s thriller hero character Literature/TravisMcGee almost always ends up providing sexual healing to [[DamselInDistress Damsels in Distress]] as well as sorting out their material problems.
103	* Possibly the most royally fucked-up example of this trope ever committed to the printed page crops up in ''The Weapon'', by Michael Z. Williamson. The DesignatedHero attempts to use it to cheer himself up after he and his unit massacre an entire village full of non-combatants in a scene that is very clearly inspired by the My Lai Massacre, only with official sanction. This isn't even the most disturbing chapter in the book.
104	* ''Literature/TheWheelOfTime'': Myrelle is known for being able to save Warders from the crushing [[DeathSeeker death wish]] that overcomes them [[PsychicGlimpseOfDeath when their bonded Aes Sedai dies]]. This involves taking up their Warder bond and, by all accounts, sleeping with them as MindlinkMates. More generally, since the topic of how to prevent men from impulsively committing suicide keeps coming up among Aes Sedai (not just in the context of Warders), a bit of "common knowledge" passed around somewhat embarrassedly in the White Tower is that making sure they're getting sex cuts down a lot on attempts.
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108	* ''Series/{{Angel}}'''s season-long descent into darkness and apathy is cured by sleeping with Darla, his sire and enemy. Angel turned evil after sleeping with Buffy, so has been avoiding sex for years. He eventually sleeps with Darla as a DespairEventHorizon but when he fails to turn evil the morning after, realises things aren't quite as bad as he thought.
109	-->'''Gunn:''' So, you had an ''epiphany'', did you? So, what [[EpiphanyTherapy you just wake up and "bang"]]?\
110	'''Angel:''' ''[smirking]'' Well, it was sort of the other way around.
111	* ''Series/{{Arrow}}''
112	** Shado does this to snap Oliver Queen out of a HeroicBSOD [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone after he beats a man to death]].
113	** After spending the night with Oliver, Helena Bertinelli thanks him for the sex which she really needed, the implication being that she's avoided having a lover since her fiancé died. However she quickly returns to her RoaringRampageOfRevenge once her relationship with Oliver gets shaken.
114	* Averted in ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''. Buffy tries to get rid of her Season 6 HeroicBSOD by having [[VampiresAreSexGods lusty rough sex with Spike]], but keeps dropping back into depression because the SecretRelationship makes her [[DatingCatwoman feel even more guilty]].
115	* ''Series/CallMeFitz'': After burying Babs, guess how does Fitzy comfort Ali. Earlier in the episode, Fitz gets this from Meghan.
116	* ''Series/ChrisRyansStrikeBack''. The protagonist has sex with a pretty female army sergeant, but then gets taken down a peg when the female intelligence agent says she's a professional HoneyTrap who had sex with him because the shrink said he was suffering from sexual inadequacy issues. "In short, [[YouNeedToGetLaid you needed a shag]]."
117	* ''Series/{{Dexter}}'': Dexter's relationship with Leila in season two apparently puts him on the road to recovering from his addiction to murder. Or not.
118	* Achieving this seems to be the point of Companions like Inara in ''Series/{{Firefly}}'' and one of the things that separate them from simple prostitution. Especially prevalent in the episode[[Recap/FireflyE07Jaynestown Jayestown]] where sex with Inara gives a guy confidence enough to stand up to his tyrannical father.
119	* Subverted on ''Series/InspectorLynley'', when the titular Inspector winds up sleeping with an old acquaintance he hasn't seen in years in a grief-stricken attempt to get over [[spoiler:his wife's murder]]. This not only fails spectacularly but [[spoiler:actually gets him arrested for said old friend's ''subsequent'' murder]], and his partner, Barbara Havers, does not pull her punches when she tells him what a stupid idea she thinks it was.
120	* In Season 2 of ''Series/IronFist2017'', Ward Meachum is attending Narcotics Anonymous meetings, but doesn't participate and has sex with his sponsor as a way of avoiding dealing with his issues. His girlfriend eventually hands over the role of sponsor to another member of their NA group, realising they can't go on like this. Ward eventually has a HeelRealisation after making her pregnant but she rejects his support, saying she can't deal with her own issues and his as well while raising a child.
121	* The ''Series/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit'' episode "Mother" involves a therapist accused of sleeping with her patient. The truth is considerably more complicated; the therapist was using roleplay to try and address the patient's considerable issues with his mother, but the patient sexualized that roleplay and convinced himself that their relationship was far more intimate than it actually was.
122	* ''Series/Lucifer2016'': Lucifer's supernatural evocation of lust in anyone who is attracted to men allows him to enter into an unethical relationship with Linda, where he receives therapy in exchange for sex. Eventually, Linda's professionalism overpowers this desire, and she insists on ending it, turning it into a proper paid therapy relationship instead. She postulates that Lucifer uses sex, drugs and reckless partying to curb his own loneliness. A professional investigation of Linda in a later season unearths this unethical relationship, leading to her being fired until Maze goes on the warpath to get her job back (by threatening the investigator in question).
123	* Happens in the 6th season of ''Series/MadMen'' where Stan confesses his love for Peggy and tells her that he is sad over the death of his cousin in Vietnam. She tells him he has to feel his pain and not bury it with sex and drugs, later she finds him [[Literature/BridgetJones "at it like rabbits"]] with the daughter of the recently departed Frank Gleason.
124	* On ''Series/OneLifeToLive'', after police detective Andy is nearly raped by two suspects she was pursuing, boyfriend Antonio gently undresses her and leads her into the shower. They don't have sex, but the experience is clearly intimate enough to count.
125	* Subverted in ''Series/ParksAndRecreation''. Chris temporarily feels better after having a one night stand with Bobby Newport's campaign manager, but he eventually plunges into depression.
126	* On ''Series/{{Sisters}}'', Georgie's therapist plants the suggestion that she was molested by her father. When she consequently struggles with being intimate with her husband, and well as a simultaneous attraction to her doctor, he seduces her under the guise of helping her get over her sexual fears. Pretty soon, their therapy sessions consist of nothing but her coming to his office for sex.
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131	* ''Franchise/MassEffect'':
132	** The asari known as the Consort has a reputation for this, but in practice she more often simply offers advice and conversation. Not to say that she won't have sex with her clients, but she only does this if she thinks that will actually help them.
133	** Played with in Jack's route in ''VideoGame/MassEffect2''. The sequence that makes her somewhat less psychotic is clearly "intimate," but doesn't involve sex. Earlier in the game, it's possible to have sex with her, but this confirms her belief that people only care about her sexually, and results in a bad end to the romance.
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137	* Subverted in ''VisualNovel/CrossChannel''. Misato decided that having sex with Taichi would be the best way to atone for her sin of [[spoiler:sending her father to jail]]. Of course, she's also implied to be [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-defeating_personality_disorder self-defeating]], and the sex arguably made the whole situation worse. At least it helped in [[spoiler:sending her back to the original world]].
138	* Exaggerated in ''VisualNovel/DoubleHomework'' with the “experimental” therapy that Dr. Mosely offers the protagonist. She stimulates his penis in a couple of ways, and tells him that no matter what, he mustn’t cum. In this respect, it fails.
139	* Used in some of the routes in ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'', with [[PlayingWithATrope very different results per scene]]:
140	** Hisao's first sex scene with [[spoiler:Rin Tezuka]] comes after [[spoiler: she has a breakdown in her despair to create and express herself through art, and Hisao finds her half-naked and barely lucid in her atelier. He gives her a CooldownHug and then things go the H-way... but it only offers both of them very limited relief, and their troubles aren't solved. (Heck, the player can still get the two Bad Endings.)]] [[spoiler: It's played straighter in their Good Ending, however, as it takes place after Rin gets chewed by [[StageDad Nomiya]] for not following her plans and Hisao manages to ''successfully'' comfort and calm her down]].
141	** This also happens on [[spoiler:Shizune Hakamichi]]'s route, when [[spoiler:''Misha'' (of all people)]] unexpectedly comes to Hisao's room, looking ''very'' depressed, and after a short talk she asks him to "comfort" her. Predictably, giving in to her request only makes things worse for both her and Hisao. [[spoiler:Less predictably, Misha's actually in love with ''Shizune'', and probably isn't even attracted to men. She only asked Hisao for sex out of desperation; Shizune rejected her years ago, and despite caring for Hisao quite a bit she's probably jealous of the budding Shizune-Hisao couple.]] Whoops.
142	* Tomohiro helps his friends this way in ''VisualNovel/LEAVEs'', and it works on both [[spoiler:Touka]] and [[spoiler:Matsuri]].
143	* May have been the case in the "Only You" route of ''VisualNovel/SchoolDays'' spinoff ''VisualNovel/CrossDays''. Yuuki is implied to have had sex with [[GayOption Makoto]]... after having been [[spoiler: [[RapeasDrama gang-raped by Taisuke and two other guys Makoto knew]]]]. Makes you wonder...
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147	* ''Webcomic/DanAndMabsFurryAdventures'': For the first and second acts, Alexis has mood swings that can be rated between "slightly miffed" and "HOLY SHIT I DIDN'T KNOW YOU COULD BEND SOMEONE LIKE THAT!", which leaves a 400-year old infiltrator saying "your sister is the third scariest thing I've ever met." When she finally gets laid [[spoiler:with a shapeshifting giant, if that helps]], her personality shifts entirely to "reasonable and somewhat cheery". Lampshaded by everyone, though most don't know the cause.
148	* In ''Webcomic/TheDragonDoctors'', [[http://dragondoctors.dhscomix.com/archives/comic/ch-2-page-22 one of the reasons Aki gives for sleeping with Goro]] is reassuring the latter that [[GenderBender being turned into a girl]] didn't make her less of a person.
149	* In ''Webcomic/MenageA3'', impetuous wannabe psychotherapist Kiley and perceptive promiscuous bisexual Matt meet while both undergoing therapy from the same professional (for problems that have more in common than they realise), begin comparing notes constructively, and rather rapidly end up in bed together. They both refer to this as "therapy", perhaps jokingly -- but they do both reckon to be getting a lot of help from it. Kiley also ends up helping Didi [[{{Anorgasmia}} have her first orgasm]], which leads to [[StalkerWithACrush the latter wanting to continue the]] [[https://pixietrixcomix.com/menage-a-3/if-you-want-to-get-technical "treatment"]]. And in an instigator rather than active party case, Kiley got two rivals to "work out [[BelligerentSexualTension your differences]] through sexual intercourse" - because after a very drunk Kiley split a fight between the two women mentioning they should consider [[https://pixietrixcomix.com/menage-a-3/benefits-of-sexual-therapy "the benefits of sex therapy"]], as soon as Kiley was home and passed out, the two indulged in angrypassionate lovemaking.
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