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1In some societies, a [[AlwaysFemale woman's]] sexual reputation is a very important thing. As she is [[NatureAdoresAVirgin expected to be a virgin]] on her wedding night, having sex before marriage (especially if it results in pregnancy) is just about the most scandalous thing she can do. Not only will she have to suffer the disapproval of those around her, but it will [[DefiledForever seriously lower her chance of getting an offer of marriage in the future.]] In settings where women are economically dependent on their husbands and may not be educated, this could all but condemn her to a life as a beggar or [[TheOldestProfession a prostitute]]. She might even be at risk of being [[HonorRelatedAbuse harmed or killed by her family or society]]. If she already has a fiancé who isn't the father, he would be considered [[MyGirlIsNotASlut justified in breaking off the engagement.]] The stigma is so bad that if a woman is [[MaliciousSlander even suspected]] of having had sex with a man, due to being alone with him for an extended length of time -- typically overnight (there is no such thing as innocent cohabitation in the mind of society) -- she will still have to suffer the consequences. The only thing that can avert this is for her to get married as quickly as possible.
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3Men in these societies are, of course, aware of the negative consequences as well. So a man who sees a woman at risk of getting a bad reputation may decide to help her out by offering to marry her, whether or not he was the one who initially caused her reputation to be in jeopardy. He may have other motivations for making the offer, of course -- from being in love with her to needing a wife in a hurry for reasons of his own, or [[ShotgunWedding with some persuasion from the father-in-law]] and his "little big-armed friend" [[BigFreakingGun Mr. Winchester]] -- but saving her reputation is the main impetus for the proposal.
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5Note that thanks to the good old DoubleStandard, men typically do not suffer the same stigma if suspected of having sex before marriage. Therefore, the proposer is basically AlwaysMale, while the proposed is basically AlwaysFemale.
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7This trope is a particular favorite with writers of historical {{Romance Novel}}s, especially [[RegencyEngland Regency romances]], and may lead to MarriageBeforeRomance. In Western works, it rarely appears in anything set later than TheFifties, as the social upheavals of TheSixties largely [[ForgottenTrope did away with the set of expectations that made it work.]] It may still apply in other parts of the world, however, or in fictional societies.
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9A clever couple can use this strategy to overcome a ParentalMarriageVeto by arranging to be alone together long enough to cause talk. In such a case, the parents may find that they have to [[SuddenlySuitableSuitor accept what they see as a less-than-ideal match]] in order to save their daughter's reputation. This is one of the purposes of an {{Elopement}}: even if the couple are caught before being married, the woman's reputation will be compromised if they have been alone together long enough.
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11A woman may also try the same tactic in order to force or encourage a proposal from a reluctant man. The phrase "make an honest woman of me" may come into this discussion. See TheBabyTrap.
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13See also DefiledForever, MyGirlIsNotASlut, and MamasBabyPapasMaybe. Contrast MarryForLove, although it occasionally overlaps.
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15Subtropes: ShotgunWedding (where the proposal is coerced), GiveTheBabyAFather (where the woman is pregnant or has a child by a different man than the proposer when the proposal takes place).
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23* A commercial for Duracell batteries has a quartet of cameras at the Cupid Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas taking pictures of newlywed couples, with the Duracell-powered one lasting the longest. One of the couples the cameras take pictures of has the wife-to-be already pregnant. Her husband-to-be [[HideYourPregnancy hides her pregnancy with his hat]] out of shame before their picture is taken.
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27* Parodied and (partially) gender-inverted in ''Manga/AyakashiTriangle'': Matsuri insists he and Suzu must further their relationship "in the proper order" by waiting until [[GenderBender he's changed his body from female back to male]]. Suzu counters by bringing up how Matsuri said couples shouldn't even ''kiss'' before they're married, but they've already done that twice.
28-->'''Suzu''': ''([[WallPinOfLove laying over Matsuri]])'' If you're concerned about the proper order of things, then we have to get married, right? We've already kissed.
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30** Due to Hachiken getting too friendly with the pigs who are going to be slaughtered for meat, they're getting too used to humans. One of the students, Yoshino, gets mad at him, and demands he make it up to her if she can't eat pork after this. Hachiken promises to "take responsibility"... which is the point when Tokiwa wanders by. The rumor that Hachiken got Yoshino pregnant spreads around the school, and of course those two only find out when they get dragged into the teacher's office, and everything is made clear.
31--->'''Hachiken:''' She was talking about a ''pig'', you moron, a pig!\
32'''Tokiwa:''' Huh? [[ComicallyMissingThePoint Hachiken, you got a pig pregnant]]?\
33'''Yoshino:''' Hachiken, I think you can hit him now!
34** When Mikage tells her parents that she wants to get into an illustrious horse college despite her poor grades, Hachiken tells her family he'll take responsibility if she fails. While [[ShipperOnDeck her mother and grandmother are ecstatic about the idea]] ([[BoyfriendBlockingDad and her father tries to throw a table at him]]), what he was trying to say is that he's planning to tutor her, so it will be his fault if she fails.
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38* {{Reconstructed}} in ''ComicBook/ThePulse''. ComicBook/LukeCage proposes to ComicBook/JessicaJones while she's resting after giving birth to their daughter. Rather than any attempt to "save her honor" or similar, he casts it as [[StopBeingStereotypical refusing to play into negative stereotypes of black men]]: he's not her baby daddy, she's not his baby mama, and why should his child with the woman he loves have to deal with being illegitimate on top of the guff she's probably going to get for being biracial ''and'' the daughter of two superheroes?
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42* Hisao offers to marry his girlfriend Lilly in ''Fanfic/TheTest'' after she gets pregnant. Lilly ends up agreeing.
43* In ''Fanfic/{{Mended}}'', Samuel offered to marry Delia after she became pregnant with Ash, but she declined because she thought he only asked because he felt obligated. The two stayed together and she finally agreed to marry him nearly 18 years afterwards.
44* ''Fanfic/BabyBoomShawnaCanon'': This gets brought up. Adrien's first thought upon realizing that Marinette is pregnant is that he should probably marry her, because that's the right thing to do in this situation, right? Except that a large part of that is to keep the woman from receiving a shameful reputation for being pregnant out of wedlock--and since very nearly ''every woman in the city'' is in this exact situation, that's not really an issue. Many adults point out that forcing marriage on tens of thousands (yes, ''really'') of traumatized teens is just going to cause more problems. On the other hand, Kagami was impregnated by a boy who had been visiting from Japan, and while Japan is of course aware of the whole "literally the entire city of Paris got pregnant" thing, they haven't internalized it in the same way. Her mother strongly encourages her to marry the boy when she's old enough and has returned to Japan. Kagami sees it as inevitable.
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48* In ''WesternAnimation/LadyAndTheTramp'', after learning that Lady has been out with [[ReallyGetsAround Tramp]], her friends Jock and Trusty try to gently persuade her to take one of them, as [[MayDecemberRomance even though they're older]], they're still in the prime of life. (No mention is made of what anyone would say when [[ChocolateBaby "their" puppies don't resemble them]], as GenderEqualsBreed is in full force for Lady's litter.) The wording is left rather ambiguous, making it sound more like they're inviting her to come and live in one of their houses, in order to keep the movie's G rating intact.
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52* In the film version of ''A Damsel in Distress'' (1937), based on the novel by Creator/PGWodehouse, Lord Marshmorton uses this idea to gain his battleaxe sister Caroline's consent to his daughter's marriage to an [[Creator/FredAstaire American Broadway star]]. After sending Jerry to Alyce's room to make up with her after a quarrel, Lord Marshmorton informs Lady Caroline that the two are alone together. Once it becomes clear that this tidbit is about to spread to the guests at their fancy party, Lady Caroline is suddenly in favor of the match because "There's never been a scandal in Totleigh Castle!"
53* Becomes a point of confusion in ''Film/DirtyDancing'', when Dr. Houseman asks who's responsible for the pregnant girl (meaning "who knocked her up?"), and Johnny Castle says "I am" (meaning "I'm taking responsibility for helping her out").
54* In ''Film/DoubleHarness'', Joan's father finds her and John in a compromising situation, so John must marry Joan in the name of honour.
55* After being discarded by Antoine Tardieu in Creator/RogerVadim's ''Film/AndGodCreatedWoman'' (1956), Juliette is poised to be sent away to a dissolute shelter. Antoine's younger brother, Michel, takes pity on Juliette and hastily marries her, believing that he can tame her wild ways. In fairness, Michel was also looking to score a hot babe to show up Antoine. Things unravel when Juliette, played by Creator/BrigitteBardot, slips into sex kitten mode.
56* Invoked (as a joke) in ''Film/FourWeddingsAndAFuneral.'' The morning after Charles and Carrie sleep together, Carrie asks Charles when he's planning on announcing their engagement: "I assumed since we slept together, we'd be getting married."
57* In ''Film/ThePhiladelphiaStory,'' Mike Connor offers to marry Tracy after their drunken antics of the previous night cause her fiance to dump her on the morning of her wedding.
58* This is a driving force in the plot of the TV movie ''Film/RevengeOfTheBridesmaids''. Abigail and Parker are all geared up to trash the wedding of their frenemy Kaitlyn for stealing their BFF’s true love for herself [[GoldDigger for his money]], until they find out that he’s only marrying her because he got her pregnant, and therefore, for the greater good, the wedding must go on. [[spoiler: As it turns out, she’s actually only [[FakePregnancy pretending to be pregnant]] [[TheBabyTrap so that the boy will have no choice but to marry her to give her "baby" a father.]] What she plans to do after the wedding, whether fake a miscarriage or steal a baby, is unknown.]]
59* In ''Film/SailorOfTheKing,'' Richard Saville offers one of these to Lucinda and is firmly turned down.
60* Humorously referenced in ''Film/ChittyChittyBangBang''; when Caractacus kisses Truly at the end of the movie, she teases him that "Now you have to marry me!" and they both laugh, implying that this is exactly what will happen.
61* In ''Film/{{Grease}}'', Rizzo has a pregnancy scare and Kenickie, upon hearing of it, tells her that "I don't run away from my mistakes." She gently tells him that it was someone else's mistake, which is a lie but she's trying to spare him. By the end of the movie, Kenickie makes the offer again, a bit more blatantly; Rizzo has since learned that she's not pregnant, but he assures her that it's "a bona fide offer" nonetheless.
62* ''Film/LookBothWays2022'': Modern version. In the reality where he gets her pregnant, Gabe proposes to Natalie to make their PlatonicCoParenting easier. Her parents interrupt, and she tells him that she would prefer him to marry someone he is in love with.
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66* Creator/GeorgetteHeyer uses the trope a few times:
67** Discussed in ''Charity Girl.'' Cherry's father says that Desford should offer to marry Cherry to save her reputation after he took her to London. Everyone who hears the idea laughs it off, as Desford went to great lengths to make sure Cherry's reputation was ''not'' damaged.
68** Happens twice in ''Devil's Cub.'' First Vidal insists he must marry Mary to make up for compromising her reputation by taking her to France with him. Then Mr. Comyn, who happens to meet them in France, presents her with a way out of that dilemma by offering to marry her himself.
69* Gender-Inverted in ''Literature/ABrothersPrice''; in the setting of the book, there's about one man for every ten women, and as such, sisters will share a husband between them. Given that STDImmunity is [[AvertedTrope averted]], there's a very real fear that a husband who's had sex before could have picked up something, which would subsequently spread to all of his wives. At one point in the book, [[spoiler:main character Jerin has been kidnapped by a group of women who made their marriage-intent extremely well-known earlier in the book, in addition to having been alone with Cira, who has been rescuing Jerin from kidnappers.]] When he mentions this trope to the latter, she reassures Jerin that she is perfectly willing to marry him to protect his reputation. He doesn't believe her, as she would never be able to pay the brother's price for him all by herself, [[spoiler:but since she's the missing Princess Halley, she's ''already'' one of his wives, though he didn't know that at the time.]]
70* In ''The Breaking of Northwall,'' Jestak's primary motivation for most of the novel was rescuing Tia from slavery. Meanwhile, while a slave, Tia was raped at least once by the guards, and faces DefiledForever as a result. After everyone escapes, the elders agree to ignore the time while Tia was enslaved but ask Jestak to marry her since the two were together (and unchaperoned) for a few nights during the escape. This misses ShotgunWedding because both Jestak and Tia are eager to wed.
71* In "Madame Baptiste" by Creator/GuyDeMaupassant: a young girl is raped by a valet named Baptiste, turning her into a pariah in her village (hence the nickname). A man marries her anyway in spite of public opinion (on occasion joking that he at least is assured of her fidelity). Then one day, some asshat with a bone to pick with the husband uses the nickname again, driving the poor woman to suicide (the story opens with the narrator seeing the sparsely-attended funeral and joining in).
72* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire''
73** Robb Stark marries Jeyne Westerling after sleeping with her. This means putting her honor ([[DefiledForever that of a girl deflowered before marriage]]) above his own ([[ArrangedMarriage he promised to marry another]]). It's clearly also HonorBeforeReason and Robb pays for it [[spoiler:by being murdered by the family whose daughter he'd promised to wed]].
74** Daemon Targaryen wished to marry Rhaenyra but knew her father would be unlikely to allow it. So he intentionally {{Invoked|Trope}} this by deflowering her, and then offering to marry her as a way out of the scandal. However, her father was enraged by what Daemon had done and {{Defied|Trope}} the trope by refusing to allow the marriage and exiling Daemon.
75--->'''Daemon:''' Give the girl to me to wife. Who else would take her now?
76* A variation in ''Literature/EvilUnderTheSun'': Kenneth Marshall, described as "one of those incurably chivalrous men", is said to have serially rescued two women from infamy by marrying them (the second ofafter the first's death). A variation in that the reason for the women's ignominy was something other than sex.
77* The relationship between protagonists Don and Denise in ''Literature/WeCantRewind'' works out something like this, although she's not so much "defiled" in his eyes as she is a BrokenBird from being molested and impregnated as a preteen, and the marriage is more for love and forging a single wholesome family from two broken ones than restoring any of the long-lost "honor" she ever had to her. What makes it this trope is that the widower Don is basically extending ''his'' code of honor to her in wanting [[LetsWaitAWhile to get properly married before getting busy with her]], so to speak.
78* In the first book of ''Literature/TheYoungAncients,'' Tor offers to marry his best friend's fiancée after she becomes pregnant with another man's child. Despite a generally sexually libertine culture (she would be expected to have several politically strategic lovers on the side in any case), her fiancé Rolph is a crown prince, so it's widely understood that the first child must be his. The offer is much appreciated and does a lot to smooth things over, but ultimately the king and queen decide to marry her off to an entirely fictitious minor noble who will suffer a tragic accident after five years, leaving the widow a small estate and the ability to remarry without shame.
79* In ''Literature/TheSummerBeforeTheWar'', Daniel proposes to Celeste after she became pregnant from a rape. Having a child out of wedlock was extremely shameful in the time period.
80* toyed with and ultimately played straight in the ''Sebastian St Cyr'' mystery novels by CS Harris, set during the Regency period. In the fifth book, St Cyr and his [[BelligerentSexualTension acquaintance]] Hero Jarvis are trapped together in a crypt. With every expectation that they will die of starvation or lack of air, they have sex in an act of defiance of their fate. By a downright-miraculous chance they are discovered and released. As soon as their rescuer leaves, Sebastian [[InvokedTrope invokes this]], saying, "I am prepared to do the honorable thing." Hero, who is an ahead-of-her-time feminist and determined never to marry, is horrified at the idea and flees. In book six, Hero discovers she's pregnant: rather than take Sebastian up on his offer, she arranges to have the baby in secret and give it up for adoption. But the friend in charge of the arrangements is murdered, and Sebastian called in to solve it, which leads him to discover the pregnancy. At the end of book six, Hero and Sebastian end up marrying after all; to their mutual astonishment (though [[EveryoneCanSeeIt not the reader's]]), they're actually extremely well-matched and their marriage swiftly [[MarriageBeforeRomance becomes a real one]].
81* In ''Literature/TheOutsiders,'' Sodapop's girlfriend Sandy "[[StigmaticPregnancyEuphemism went to live with her grandmother in Florida]]." We later learn that he proposed to her despite knowing that he wasn't the father, only for her to leave and, eventually, start sending back his letters unopened.
82* At the beginning of ''Literature/{{Pachinko}}'', teenage Sunja got pregnant by an older, married man who won't marry her in Korea because his Japanese father-in-law (also his business mentor) was a powerful Yakuza. Sunja was going to have trouble finding a man to marry her anyway since her father had a cleft palate and most families didn’t want it in the bloodline, being a non-virgin pregnant with another man's baby just added to her complications. When a young minister named Isak staying at their boarding house heard Sunja's predicament from her mother, he decided to ask Sunja to marry him and be the baby’s father. Isak had tuberculosis and didn't expect to be long for the world and didn’t know if he'd ever get another chance to get married or have a kid. Being a NiceGuy, he also just saw it as the right thing to do.
83* ''Literature/CodexAlera'': Discussed in ''First Lord's Fury, when [[spoiler:Tavi]] discovers that [[spoiler:Kitai]] is pregnant. He suggests that they could [[AltarTheSpeed get married]] right now so their child won't be seen as a bastard, but they ultimately decide to wait and get properly married when the war is over.
84* ''Literature/TheKingdomAndTheCrown'': While describing the events leading up to the birth of Jesus, Mary offhandedly mentions that Joseph marrying her after she was found with child was him basically admitting he was the one who got her pregnant in the first place.
85* When Fran of ''Literature/TheStand'' is impregnated by her boyfriend, his idea of "taking responsibility" is to offer to either marry her or pay for an abortion, her choice. She [[TakeAThirdOption refuses both]] and decides to raise the baby herself, later accepting the help of new beau Stu Redman.
86* In ''Literature/AYellowRaftInBlueWater'', when Christine George tells Elgin Taylor that she's pregnant with his child after they have made love to each other in public at Tacoma State Park, Elgin decides that he's going to marry Christine so that the child wouldn't be without a father. In fact, he ''insists'' on marrying Christine when she tries to tell him that they don't need to be married for her to have his child.
87* This is referred to in ''Literature/GoneWithTheWind'', where Rhett Butler's refusal to offer this to a girl he'd been out unchaperoned with is the reason he's driven out of his hometown. He gets into a similar situation in the sequel ''Literature/{{Scarlett}}'', but having only just regained respectability, this time, he goes through with it.
88* In ''Literature/MindingFrankie'', the protagonist Noel, who has already agreed to raise the expected child of his terminally ill ex-girlfriend Stella as its putative father, offers to marry Stella to regularize the situation, and is surprised when she turns down his proposal.
89* In ''Literature/DiePilgerin'', Otfried's mooks rape a resident of Tremmlingen, and the girl's father decides that [[DeliberateValuesDissonance one of them should marry her]], then, since nobody wants her for a wife now. What makes it this trope and not ShotgunWedding is that the man who agrees to the marriage is revealed not to be one of the perpetrators or even a friend of theirs; in fact, he had no idea the girl existed before her father mistakenly confronted him and his comrades-at-arms.
90* ''Literature/KonoSuba'': Darkness claims to be pregnant with Kazuma's child in order to get out of an ArrangedMarriage, and her father then treats Kazuma as his new son-in-law. Everyone ignores Kazuma when he points out that they're both still virgins, so there's no possible way she could be pregnant.
91* In ''Literature/{{Bakemonogatari}}'', the protagonist Koyomi Araragi visits his lesbian underclassman, Kanbaru Suruga, while she's lounging naked in her room. At first, she doesn't make an effort to change or cover herself, and Araragi (jokingly) offers to take responsibility for viewing her in this state by marrying her. She says that [[SarcasmMode while his offer is very attractive]], she doesn't want his {{Clingy Jealous Girl}}friend to [[MurderTheHypotenuse murder her]].
92* Played with in ''Literature/{{Temeraire}}'' after Riley realizes that he got Harcourt pregnant he does the honorable thing and proposes to her, only to discover that she isn't really interested in marriage. The [[EternalSexualFreedom culture]] of the Aerial Corp means that her virtue isn't really a big deal for her and any child that she has will still be eligible for a commission in the Aerial Corp anyway. Eventually Laurence talks her around by pointing out that if she has a son who is born in wedlock then said son would eventually inherit Riley's titles and does she really want to deny her son his potential inheritance?
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96* ''Series/{{Bones}}'': Wendell tells Angela he’ll marry her when she thinks she’s pregnant; but it’s a false positive, and she’s more moved by Hodgins’ words anyway and they’re soon back together.
97* ''Series/{{CSINY}}'': Danny asks Lindsay to marry him when she’s pregnant with Lucy, but it gets {{Zigzagged}} when she refuses and the actual wedding happens several episodes later.
98* ''Series/{{Frasier}}'': When Roz accidentally gets pregnant in the fifth season the father offers to marry her so they can be a family. Roz declines as he's much younger than she is and they're not in love. She tells him she can handle raising the child alone and that he should focus on studying and enjoying his twenties.
99* ''Series/GilmoreGirls'':
100** Christopher says to Lorelai, “I guess we should get married,” as they look at their newborn daughter. It’s made clear that her family wanted her to marry him, but she didn’t as she was 16 and felt they were too young. [[spoiler:They do end up getting married in Season 7, but Lorelai is not pregnant and the marriage is short-lived.]]
101** Christopher also [[spoiler: proposes to Sherry when she gets pregnant at the end of season 2. It happens off-screen, but there’s no mention of marriage until she gets pregnant and then he’s saying he “has to marry her”. Sherry calls him her fiancé in the delivery room. It’s hinted they got married... when Christopher mentions their divorce.]]
102* ''Series/HouseOfTheDragon'': Daemon Targaryen wants to marry future queen Rhaenyra Targaryen, both because they are ''extremely'' attracted to each other, and also probably because he wants to be her king consort when she comes to power. However, Daemon knows the royal court would not usually let them marry. (For one, he's already married to an UnwantedSpouse. For two, in their medieval setting, Rhaenyra needs an AltarDiplomacy marriage, a husband who will be her political ally. Since Daemon is her kinsman and would be her ally regardless, marrying him would be a waste.) So in as a ploy to marry Rhaenyra, Daemon {{invoke|dTrope}}s this trope. He intentionally starts rumors that she has been DefiledForever so that he can sweep in and offer to marry her. If his proposal is the only option, her father the king would be forced to allow it. However, the king realizes what's going on and--enraged at what Daemon has done--{{defie|dTrope}}s the trope by sending Daemon away.
103* ''Series/{{Leverage}}'': "The Lost Heir Job" deals with a millionaire who years before had had a relationship with a stripper who he had suddenly decided he wanted to marry one day, but his AmoralAttorney sent her away to prevent any threats to taking over his fortune. Nate correctly figures it meant she was pregnant, producing a legal heir, [[spoiler: who is actually the girl heading the charity he was going to leave his fortune to when he died]].
104* ''Series/MadMen'': Bob Benton offers to marry Joan Harris in part because her unmarried status means that she is getting less respect at work, and in part so that she can avoid the stigma of being a single mother. (He also wants to avoid questions about his sexuality.) She turns him down, not wanting to get stuck in another unhappy marriage.
105* A frequent topic on ''Series/{{Maury}}'' is the DaddyDNATest. Often the man under investigation says that if he is the father he'll take on fatherly responsibilities -- usually just before they announce that he is not the father.
106* ''Series/TheNanny'': Due to a MissConception Grace (who is about 7 years old) thinks she's pregnant, and her friend Willy who allegedly impregnated her makes plans to quit grade school and get a job to support them.
107* On ''Series/{{Providence}}'', Sydney discovers that her parents essentially had a ShotgunWedding, as she was born 8 months after their wedding and might not even be her father's child, as she's approached by her mother's ex, who thinks that she's his daughter. It turns out that her father quickly proposed to her mother to spare her the humiliation of having been dumped by the other man only weeks before what was to be ''their'' wedding. Sydney was conceived on their honeymoon and born prematurely.
108* ''Series/{{Riverdale}}'': In season 1, it's revealed that [[spoiler:Jason Blossom impregnated Polly Cooper. When he found out, he planned to elope with her, but was murdered before he could]].
109* In one episode of ''Series/WelcomeBackKotter'', Arnold proposes to Rosalie, who is trying to guilt-trip the macho boys in the class with a pregnancy scare (which she made up whole-cloth). It earns him a second date when she drops the charade.
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113* In Literature/TheBible, the young girl Miriam (Mary) is visited by an angel and told to rejoice, as she is now pregnant. Her fiancé Joseph accepts her anyway and marries her so that no shame falls on her. He then brings up her firstborn child as his own. (Zigzagged a bit because they were already engaged at the time, but Joseph mentally re-committed to marry her in order to save her reputation.) Joseph almost gave her an honorable divorce proposal. Under Jewish law, he had two choices when he found Mary was pregnant--publicly divorce her and have her stoned (which was the penalty for adultery), or quietly give her a certificate of divorce and send her on her way (which would still leave her an unwed mother with a bad reputation, but was the more merciful of the two options). Before he could do this, an angel came and told him not to be afraid to take Mary as his wife--that she had not been unfaithful: she had become pregnant by the Holy Spirit. To outsiders, this was probably viewed as an HonorableMarriageProposal, because the real reason was understandably difficult to understand at best and thought as bunk at worst.
114* In the Literature/{{Mabinogion}}, Math fab Mathonwy discovers that Goewin, a servant he had employed specifically for VirginPower, was raped by his nephew Gilfaethwy, who was helped by his brother, Gwydion. He marries her to save her honor and punishes his nephews by [[KarmicTransformation turning them into animals for three years]].
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118* ''Theatre/MuchAdoAboutNothing'': Shakespeare even used this. Claudio thinks that he's caused Hero to die of sadness after wrongly accusing her of betraying him with another man on the eve of their wedding. Hero's father Leonato says that he can make it right by marrying his niece. Claudio agrees, but it's actually a SecretTestOfCharacter; [[DramaticIrony as the audience knows]], Hero is still alive (and mercifully forgiving).
119* ''Theatre/WesterosAnAmericanMusical'': Robb at some point marries a woman he has just met and fell in love with instead of the woman with whom he was to have an ArrangedMarriage. It later turns out that Robb felt the need to marry his wife because he had slept with her out of wedlock.
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123* In the first ''VisualNovel/{{Paramedium}}'' game, the unnamed boy who got Mrs Clansey's daughter pregnant said that he'd be happy to come back and marry her. [[spoiler:He never did, and the daughter's ghost is distraught about it. It's possible that the disapproving Mrs Clansey got rid of him -- as she tries with Lance, whom she deliriously mistakes for him.]]
124* In one ending of ''VisualNovel/War13thDay'', Ambrosia is found in an inadvertently compromising position with Arsenik. After she is blackmailed, Arsenik proposes to her not only to keep her reputation intact but out of true affection.
125-->'''Arsenik:''' Your honor would be preserved, and you would have a husband, willing to cater to your every desire. Please do not assume this is solely out of obligation. Truly, I would be happy to have you -- more than happy. You must know that I fancy you, Miss Ambrosia.
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129* Exploited by Mingyue and the Ling family in ''Webcomic/CheatingMenMustDie''. Mingyue plots to engineer a scandal between Ziyue and the second Ling son, wanting Ziyue out of the way so that Mingyue will be the only Su daughter presented to the emperor. Madam Ling goes along with it as the Su family is highly prestigious and the Ling family will rise in status after the marriage.
130* Memorably inverted and parodied twice in ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'':
131** When Italy hugs Japan (and in the comic, kisses him on the cheek), Japan is so shocked that he immediately demands that Italy marry him as compensation.
132** A flashback to Japan's days as a HikikoMori shows Japan's dog, Pochi, ''demanding exactly the same'' from the Netherlands' pet bunny after the other licks him on the cheek.
133* In ''Webcomic/{{Magience}}'', Rune accidentally kisses Tilly, and immediately declares that she'll marry the girl to make up for it, to the latter's confusion. Funnily enough, despite them both being straight, they have some fun with it; when Rune gets kidnapped a few minutes later, Tilly helps gather a group of adventurers to find her, with her stated goal being to rescue her wife.
134* Defied in ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'': upon being raised from the dead, Durkon immediately pops the question to the mother of his illegitimate child. [[spoiler:The mother turns him down. [[KillItWithFire Vehemently]].]]
135* There's [[{{Hentai}} an NSFW doujin]] titled ''A Suspiciously Erotic Childhood Friend'', that centers on a human man who's just been discharged from the army being surprised in his bedroom by his childhood friend, [[FunnyAnimal a female weasel]], who [[CaughtWithYourPantsDown caught him watching porn]] after she woke up in her hiding spot. After he talked her into staying, they have sex. A few weeks later, she shows him the positive pregnancy test, and at their wedding, his mom is crying tears of joy, her mom is happy that her daughter is getting married and she's becoming a grandmother, while her dad is crying tears of rage.
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139* ''WesternAnimation/BojackHorseman'':
140** In the backstory, Princess Carolyn got pregnant as a teenager by the son of her mom's employer, and the boy agreed to marry her despite his well-off parents' reservations. Unfortunately, she suffered a miscarriage and the boyfriend's parents immediately cut her off. Fortunately, however, as she's able to go to college in California rather than get married at eighteen.
141** A similar thing happened with [=BoJack's=] parents, with his heiress mother getting pregnant after a one-night stand with his drifter father. This proved to be a huge mistake which torpedoed all of their plans and left them both deeply unhappy for life, seriously screwing up their son in the process.
142* ''WesternAnimation/{{Chowder}}'': A [[GRatedSex child-friendly variant]] in "Chowder's Girlfriend." After Panini kisses Chowder, Gazpacho tells Chowder he has to "make an honest woman" out of her, prompting Chowder to propose marriage despite their young age and his disinterest in Panini. However, Panini turns him down.
143* On ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', Homer marries Marge when they find out she's pregnant with Bart. His father urged him to do so, but did not ''force'' them to get married, and neither did Marge's parents (who would, in fact, have preferred she marry literally anyone but Homer). They get married in a small wedding chapel across state lines (called "Shotgun Pete's), affiliated with a casino. Homer felt bad that he couldn't provide her with a nicer wedding, but Marge was happy to marry him.
144--> '''Marge''': I'd be lying if I said this is how I pictured my wedding day as a little girl, but you're exactly how I'd pictured my husband.
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