Line #41 Main/FollowInMyFootsteps


1	->''"Don't worry. Both of you have the true spirits of warriors. I know you will succeed if you follow my pawsteps closely."''
2	-->-- '''Tigerstar''', ''Literature/WarriorCats''
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4	Parents often want the best for their children. It's only natural. Unfortunately, some parents take this to the conclusion that "whatever worked for me ''will'' work for my kids -- ''end of discussion''" -- so the kid will find themselves being groomed and press-ganged into stepping into their parent's shoes, whether they particularly want to or not. This is particularly the case if the steps in question lead to the FamilyBusiness, and especially if the parent is a SelfMadeMan (or woman).
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6	Thing is, the kid usually has their own ideas about what they want to do with their lives, and following exactly in their parent's footsteps isn't (always) part of the plan. This can often lead to tension; the kid wants to live their own life, but at the same time, family loyalty is an extremely strong thing to overcome and they don't want to disappoint their folks, either. So a choice has to be made; [[Catch22Dilemma will the kid let themselves be pushed into a life they don't want to lead, or will they attempt to break free and]] [[BeYourself be themselves]], [[Catch22Dilemma and risk losing their parent's love?]][[note]]In some cases, there are some who are able to TakeAThirdOption.[[/note]]
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8	For extra irony points, the kid may have a sibling who wants nothing more than to take over the FamilyBusiness, but because they're younger than the protagonist ([[HeirClubForMen or female]]) they don't have a chance. Unfulfilment all around! In the case of the older (or just male) character being expected to take over the FamilyBusiness he's the RebelPrince.
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10	The result is usually one of two standard outcomes. In the happier ending, the parent -- although disappointed -- accepts their child's decision; you have to BeYourself, after all, and it's ultimately their child's decision what to do with their life. Variably, in these endings the parent may also be astonished that their kid was so torn up about it -- they aren't {{Control Freak}}s and it's not ''that'' big a deal to them, and ultimately their child's happiness is what concerns them most. They may even have been working under the assumption that the kid had their heart set on inheriting the business, which was why they were so enthusiastically pushing it on him. Often in this kind of ending when the kid decides to agree to take over, the family comes to an honorable compromise that allows the kid to pursue his own interests to a reasonable degree.
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12	Less happily, if the parent ''is'' a ControlFreak who has to micromanage their child's lives, they aren't going to take it so well. Cue ParentalIssues. And frequently in these cases, you'll be hearing a cry of "IHaveNoSon" before too long.
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14	Owing to traditional family roles, the parent and child in these cases is usually (but not always) male.
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16	May overlap with HonorThyParent, as the parent can leverage this belief to insist that imitating them is the SincerestFormOfFlattery.
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18	See also TurnOutLikeHisFather, FantasyForbiddingFather and FollowingInTheirRescuersFootsteps. Contrast with WellDoneSonGuy, where the child ''really'' wants to follow the footsteps to earn praise and approval from their parent, and FollowingInRelativesFootsteps, where it's the character's own choice to take up a relative's career simply because they want to. Also contrast EvilParentsWantGoodKids, where parents want kids ''not'' to turn out like them, often because [[BeingEvilSucks they didn't succeed by being evil]].
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21	!!Examples:
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26	* ''Anime/DragonBallZ'': This is how Gohan ended up fighting Perfect Cell. Goku, having seen his son in action a few times, made the (flawed) assumption that Gohan must enjoy combat [[BloodKnight as much as he did]], and chose this moment to put Gohan into his old role as Earth's hero, even going so far as to heal Cell first to make the fight more interesting. Unfortunately it turned out that fighting was ''not'' something Gohan enjoyed, just something he happened to be skilled at, and it was ironically left to Gohan's [[ParentalSubstitute foster father]] Piccolo to [[WhatTheHellHero point this out]].
27	* In ''Anime/GirlsUndPanzer'', the character Hana comes from a long line of artisans in the field of flower arrangement. When her mother finds out that her hands that had been used to create beautiful works were now stained with oil and rust, she literally passed out. However, Hana only half defies her mother in this: she does indeed want to continue her family's school, but she feels that she can only improve her art by stepping out and trying something new... like operating a tank. Her mother then kicks her out, only recognizing her after she demonstrates the fruits of her choice with a piece that she deems truly worthy.
28	* Saotome Alto from ''Anime/MacrossFrontier'' was born into a Kabuki family and raised to be an actor from a young age. What he ''really'' wanted to be was a pilot; he rebels against his family before the start of the series and heads off on his own path. Whether his father eventually approves of his war hero son or not is never shown.
29	* In the second season of ''Manga/NewGame'', a new intern named Narumi is introduced whose parents run an inn. She desperately wants to be a programmer and make games together with her childhood friend, but her parents are adamant and eventually give her an ultimatum: if she fails to gain a full position at the central company she must come back and take over.
30	* ''Franchise/OnePiece'':
31	** In a grandparent version of this trope, main character [[DeterminAtor Monkey D. Luffy]] blatantly refuses throughout his life to become a Marine like his grandfather. Same goes for his big brother, Ace. This has both [[HilarityEnsues hilarious]] and serious outcomes.
32	** Capone "Gang" Bege is grooming his infant son to follow him in [[TheMafia the family business]], and thus often exposes him to the violence it comes with, such as bringing him to an enemy's execution and pointing out, after [[spoiler:[[ISurrenderSuckers pretending to surrender only to shoot the man taking his wife hostage right in the face]]]], "that's how your daddy lives".
33	* ''Anime/PokemonTheSeries'':
34	** In one episode of ''Anime/PokemonTheSeriesRubyAndSapphire'', the heroes encounter a father and son. The father runs an academy for fighting-type Pokemon and wants his son to take over so he can retire, but the son just wants to run his noodle restaurant. After having Ash and May proxy battle for them, someone finally realizes that the father's skilled female student is a more obvious choice, and the father can go off to follow his dream - opening a noodle restaurant.
35	** ''Anime/PokemonTheSeriesXY'': Serena's mother, Grace, wants her to train to become a Rhyhorn racer, which Serena has no fun in doing. She immediately seizes the opportunity to leave the house (and Rhyhorn racing) and begin her Pokémon journey upon seeing her childhood friend, Ash, but has no idea on what goal she's willing to replace Rhyhorn racing for. Once Serena realizes she had a passion in performing, she eventually stands up to Grace.
36	** In ''Anime/PokemonJourneysTheSeries'', Chloe's classmates expect she'd go into a Pokémon-related career like her father Prof. Cerise, but it took her a while to entertain the idea of even training Pokémon. Her mom is fine with her hesitation since she's still a kid, encouraging her to pursue whatever path she chooses. [[spoiler:Ultimately, she choses to be a part-time Pokémon Professor's research assistant after Goh leaves the position vacant at the end of the series.]]
37	* Mr. Fujinami in ''Manga/UruseiYatsura'' is determined to pass on his beachside cafe, [[IncompetenceInc despite largely running it into the ground]], to his son, Ryuunosuke. In return, Ryuunosuke wants nothing to do with this dream, because a) she considers it a stupid, small-minded dream that saw her condemned to a life of poverty, and b) she's a ''[[RaisedAsTheOppositeGender girl]]'' and bitterly resents her father's efforts to [[AbusiveParents literally beat her into manliness]].
38	* Inverted in ''Manga/{{Vagabond}}''. Sasaki Kojiro's foster parent Kanemaki Jisai refuses to teach him the way of the sword because his own dedication to the sword had gained him nothing and left him friendless and embittered.
39	* Inverted in ''Manga/TheWorldGodOnlyKnows'' with Sumire. Her father runs a ramen shop that has been in the family for generations, and she badly wants to follow in his footsteps. [[spoiler: He, on the other hand, is convinced that she can do much better with her life than running a tiny noodle shop, and so refuses to consider it. They reconcile in the end, and he accepts her wish.]]
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43	* [[ComicBook/{{Batgirl}} Cassandra Cain]] had to deal with this ''twice''. Her biological father David wanted her to become the ultimate assassin, and carry on his legacy. He essentially saw her as an extension of his own work. Even though her adopted father [[ComicBook/{{Batman}} Bruce Wayne]] is [[HappilyAdopted a better parent than David in every way]], he still often falls into this trope, projecting his own issues and motivations onto Cassandra, something which her [[ParentalSubstitute surrogate mother]] Barbara Gordon confronts him on several times.
44	* ''Comicbook/{{Flashpoint}}'': [[spoiler:Thomas Wayne a.k.a. Flashpoint!Batman telling Martha about the timeline where it's their son and not them who survives the mugger.]]
45	-->[[spoiler:'''Martha:''' Tell me about Bruce. What does he do, after we're dead?]]\
46	[[spoiler:'''Thomas:''' He... he follows in his father's footsteps.]]\
47	[[spoiler:'''Martha:''' He's a doctor?]]\
48	[[spoiler:'''Thomas:''' No.]]\
49	[[spoiler:'''Martha:''' Oh God...]]
50	* In the Creator/DCComics {{Elseworld}} ''ComicBook/{{The Kingdom\|DCComics}}'' (a followup to ''ComicBook/KingdomCome''), [[ComicBook/TheFlash Wally West's]] son Barry has superspeed, and absolutely no interest in using it for anything in particular, much to Wally's despair. His concern with getting Barry to live up to his potential is one of the reasons Barry's sister, Iris "[[LegacyCharacter Kid Flash]]" West, [[WellDoneSonGuy feels unappreciated]].
51	* In ''ComicBook/PS238'', superheroes Ultima and Sovereign Powers really want the best for their son Tyler and insist that he will become a superhero when he grows up. The fact that Tyler has no superpowers whatsoever and is extremely skeptical towards the whole thing does not enter into it; from where they're standing the universe is merely biding its time until it can spontaneously give him superpowers of some sort.
52	* Laurie Juspezcyk/Silk Spectre of ''Comicbook/{{Watchmen}}'', whose mother, Sally, was constantly pressuring her to succeed her as a superhero.
53	* ComicBook/{{Wolverine}} is trying very hard to ''avert'' this from happening to his daughter[=/=]OppositeSexClone, ComicBook/{{X 23}}. Ever since they met he's been doing his best to [[DefusingTheTykeBomb help her overcome her conditioning]] and help her be a ''normal'' teenage girl, and objected strongly to ComicBook/{{Cyclops}} including her on ''ComicBook/XForce''. Logan knows from his own experience with Weapon X ''exactly'' what was done to her by the Facility, and wants her to find a life for herself beyond what those who created her wanted. Unfortunately, the comics being what they are, events continually conspire against him and Laura's body count keeps on rising...
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57	* In ''Fanfic/ChildOfTheStorm'', doing this or not doing it is the source of much of the dysfunction in the Carter-Danvers-[[spoiler: Rogers]] family:
58	** Alison followed in Peggy's [[spoiler: and Steve's]] footsteps as a [[LadyOfWar SHIELD Agent]] and LivingLegend and pushed her children into doing the same. Her son, [[Series/StargateSG1 Jack O'Neill]], JumpedAtTheCall, but her daughter, Marie, [[RefusedTheCall didn't]] (she wanted to "make good" rather than fight evil, something cemented by the ColdBloodedTorture her brother suffered in the Gulf). This led to a significant rift after Alison pushed too hard, but they eventually reconciled...
59	** Then ''Marie's'' daughter, Carol, turned out as a [[ActionGirl "scrappy little warrior-maiden"]], following in her uncle and grandmother's ([[spoiler:and great-grandparents']]) footsteps. Marie tried to push her daughter away from the CallToAdventure, creating another rift -- though thankfully, she [[MyGodWhatHaveIDone realised what she was doing]] sooner, and chose to accept Carol's choice and [[SoProudOfYou be proud of her]].
60	* In ''Fanfic/NecessaryToWin'', the Akiyama family averts this. Yukari's parents, both hairdressers, ended up taking on occupations that were different from their parents, and as such, are fairly [[OpenMindedParent open minded]] about whatever Yukari may choose to do.
61	* In ''Fanfic/LillyEpilogueFamilyMatters'', Boss wants his son to take over his ramen shop, but is open-minded about his desire to become an artist.
62	* ''Fanfic/{{Thecrimsongarment}}'': Ragyo's obsession with her family legacy means that Satsuki is expected to do this. The Seven also expect their children to do this to a lesser degree.
63	* In ''Fanfic/KaraOfRokyn'', Franchise/{{Superman}} is disappointed when his cousin ComicBook/{{Supergirl}} chooses to retire and move to Rokyn after he trained her to be a hero who would continue his work. He tries to get over it, though.
64	* In ''Fanfic/MoreThanYouKnow'', Bowser doesn't take it too well when Ludwig declares that he'd rather be a musician, not an evil overlord.
65	* ''Fanfic/OriginOfANonHero'': Izuku expects that Shikinori will want to follow his parents into the field of Pro Heroics. His son wants nothing to do with that after how much stress and agony their attempts to [[FamilyVersusCareer juggle their work and other responsibilities]] put all three of them through.
66	* ''Fanfic/HellsisterTrilogy'': Superman had trained his cousin to be a hero who would protect Earth in his stead. However, the demands and pressures of hero life eventually wear Supergirl down, and she wants to be a normal woman again. Superman tries to accept her decision, but he also warns her quitting isn't easy because problems tend to follow them around.
67	* ''Fanfic/CommonPeople'':
68	** It's hinted Dick would very much like to become a career superhero. Bruce disapproves, as he would rather see his eldest finishing university or finding a normal job.
69	** When Jason vocally expresses complains about poor people suffering, Bruce introduces him to the team overseeing Wayne Enterprises' charities. He later proudly announces Clark that his son is going to take over his mother Martha's work, which Jason is embarrassed to learn about.
70	* ''Fanfic/AuntieTiasMatchmakingService'':Applejack and Rainbow Dash ''both'' wanted their son, Zap Apple, to follow in their respective hoof steps and stay on the farm and join the Wonderbolts respectively. [[TakeTheThirdOption He instead moved to Appoloosa and joined the local weather team.]] Though by the time the story begins, enough time has past for them to have moved past any drama this may have caused.
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74	* In ''Film/AlmostAngels'', Tony's father assumes that Tony will grow up to drive trains just like him. He is initially resistant when Tony wants to join the Vienna Boys Choir and study music because he thinks a musical education is ADegreeInUseless.
75	* ''Film/{{Blockers}}'': Lisa is a single mother who got pregnant young and had to give up her dreams to raise her daughter Julie. When she finds out Julie is planning to have sex on prom night she is terrified Julie will end up going down the same path.
76	* Inversion: In ''Film/TheGodfather'', Don Corleone expresses his disappointment that Michael ends up ''entering'' (and eventually taking over) the family business; he had hoped that Michael would take the Corleone name legitimate (or into government, at least). Of course, here, the term 'family business' has [[TheMafia different connotations]].
77	** He states that he didn't want Michael to arrange for strings to be pulled, but to be the string-puller. Senator Corleone or something along those lines. The second movie, a flashback shows the sons discussing Vito's big plans for Michael, so it sounds like he only wanted someone he could trust high up to help the family business, rather than wanting Michael to escape crime.
78	* The driving conflict in the movie ''Film/{{Hop}}'' is that E.B. doesn't want to inherit his father's job. And that job is being the EasterBunny no less!
79	* The goal of the 'dream heist' in ''Film/{{Inception}}'' is to plant the idea in Fisher's head that his father did not actually want this for him.
80	* PlayedForLaughs (much like everything else) in ''Film/NotAnotherTeenMovie'', where Jake's father wants his son to follow ''so'' closely in his footsteps that he introduces him to a really great gal to marry - [[ParentalIncest his mother]].
81	-->'''Jake''': What is ''wrong'' with this family?!
82	* A major subplot in the ''Film/OurMissBrooks'' [[TheMovie feature film]]. [[LonelyRichKid Gary Nolan]] is expected by his father to continue in his footsteps as editor of the Madison Express. Nolan is failing in English and has no interest in running the paper. Turns out he just resents his father's lack of attention - and falls in love with reporting once convinced to write an article for the school paper.
83	* Averted in ''Franchise/{{Rocky}}''. Rocky doesn't want his son to become a boxer and refuses to train him when the boy asks him, as Rocky tells him he spent a lifetime getting his head bashed in so his son wouldn't have to. This leads to a ''lot'' of friction later on, at first when Rocky becomes a mentor to Tommy Gunn who eventually betrays him, and again when his son is an adult and resents him for everyone still idolizing his father and treating him like he's nothing other than "Rocky Jr" (ironically the same complaint Gunn had).
84	* Inverted in ''WesternAnimation/{{Sing}}''; Buster Moon's father washed cars for a living in order to raise money so Buster could buy his theater. His father also wanted Buster ''not'' to go down the same path he did so Buster could have a much better life.
85	* In ''Film/SkyHigh2005'', [[AlliterativeName Steve Stronghold]] a.k.a. the Commander was disappointed that his son Will didn't inherit his SuperStrength (or any other superpower for that matter) and therefore wouldn't be able to become a superhero like him. He even entertained the thought of dumping toxic waste on Will. Fortunately Will was just a late bloomer.
86	* This is essentially what happens with Darth Vader in ''Franchise/StarWars''. After he learns he has a son and daughter, he wants to turn them to the DarkSide so they'll join him and WeCanRuleTogether.
87	* Carl Hardy from ''Film/WeTooTogether'' is disappointed that his son Rob didn't join the military, like Carl and his father did. He derides Rob's career in martial arts as "play fighting." [[spoiler:Rob eventually caves and starts training under Carl's old captain, Paul. Gabriela is horrified that he would be willing to fight in a war when most of her family was killed in one and dumps him. Rob realizes that doing what he loves is more important than pleasing his father, goes back to martial arts, and persuades Gabriela to take him back.]]
88	* In the movie ''Film/WhileYouWereSleeping'', the male romantic lead is in this situation with his father. Luckily, his father's an understanding sort, so when he finally plucks up the nerve to confess his feelings about the subject his father's biggest annoyance is that he didn't take up a chance to sell the business the previous year because ''he'' was under the impression his son had his heart set on taking it over.
89	* ''Film/YoungFrankenstein'' is something of an example; although Frederick "Fronkensteen"'s grandfather is long dead, there's still some pressure for Frederick to take over his experiments. Frederick, not being a MadScientist, is reluctant. At first.
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93	* Most of the young competitors in ''Literature/The39Clues''.
94	* In Creator/JohnGrisham's ''The Appeal'', F. Clyde Hardin finds himself forced into this position after his father, an enthusiastic and highly skilled trial lawyer, died. The son is neither.
95	* This ends in tragedy in the novel ''Literature/{{Buddenbrooks}}'' by Thomas Mann (which was rumoured to be based partly on Mann's own family). The book is subtitled 'The Decline of a Family'.
96	* In ''Literature/TheChosen'' Rebbe Saunders wants his son, Danny to be a Rebbe. Danny wants to be a therapist. So he dumps the job on his perpetually sick little brother to save himself the trouble. He could do a little work on his BigBrotherInstinct.
97	* Kate Blackwell wants her son Tony to take over Kruger-Brent, Ltd. in Creator/SidneySheldon's ''Master of the Game'', but he wants to become a painter. [[spoiler:Her constant manipulations to get him on the path she wants him to take, or at least sire him a grandchild who will be more likely to follow it, eventually lead to his wife's DeathByChildbirth, and he goes insane and tries to kill Kate. He is subsequently institutionalized and, as he is incapable of being brought back to normal, lobotomized. Of her two granddaughters, Alexandra doesn't want to run the business, and Eve does but proves unworthy. Thus the book ends with Kate planning to groom her great-grandson to take over, probably with similar manipulation.]]
98	* In ''Literature/VampireAcademy'', Sydney Sage's father is an Alchemist who raised her to follow in his footsteps. By age eighteen she is forced into active service. She herself would rather be going to college. She is more interested in art and architecture than interactions with the supernatural, but he gave her no choice in the matter.
99	* In ''Literature/WarriorCats'', Tigerstar genuinely does want his children to become strong warriors. He also wants them to continue his goal of ruling the forest, however, and even after his death tries to groom them into following his plans.
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103	* ''Series/DoogieHowserMD'': Janine's mother is a lawyer who thinks Janine is obligated to go to law school and join her firm. She is livid at Doogie's mother for encouraging her to find her own path.
104	* ''Series/{{Flashpoint}}'':
105	** Played with. Jules' father was a cop but wasn't pleased that Jules became one too, much less SRU.
106	** Parker's son Dean decided he wanted to be a cop with no prompting from his father. Clark (Ed's son) promptly calls him crazy. Even Parker wants Dean to do something else with his life.
107	** Both Sam and his father were in the army, Sam as a former special forces operative and his father is a general. Sam deviated from this when he left military service to join the civilian police force.
108	* Double subverted in the Hulu series ''Series/{{Harlots}}''. Lucy doesn't want to become a whore like her mother and sister did, and to be fair, her mother Margaret didn't want her daughters to become whores either. It's just cruel fate that she has no choice but to become a whore.
109	* In the first season of ''Series/{{Heroes}}'', Hiro's father wants him to take over the family business. Hiro convinces his father to give the job to his sister instead by purposefully suggesting bad ideas knowing his sister would correct him, even if they were directly in front of their imposing father, showing her courage and business skills.
110	* In ''Series/KimsConvenience'', Mr. Kim believes that his daughter and youngest child Janet should take over their titular convenience store when he retires. Janet, who is a photography student, is not keen on this idea.
111	* Chief Dodds of ''Series/LawAndOrderSpecialVictimsUnit'' wants his son Mike to not only follow in his footsteps but ultimately surpass him. It becomes a point of contention because it turns out that Mike doesn't share his father's ambition; he would just as soon stay in a place that feels right, even if it means sacrificing some upward mobility.
112	* Jack on ''Series/{{Lost}}'' tells Rose he became a doctor because it was "the family business." Season 6 implies [[spoiler:(if you accept that Jack's son in the flash-sideways is a reflection of Jack himself)]] that Jack would rather have played the piano.
113	* In ''Series/MadAboutYou'', Paul's father averts the trope entirely and gives the family sporting goods business to Ira (Paul's cousin) because Paul is busy being a documentary filmmaker. Paul's father didn't ask Paul because he knew his son had his own life. Paul is nonplussed - he didn't want to go into sporting goods, but he assumed he would be asked, and maybe even guilt-tripped into it.
114	* Parodied in a sketch on ''Series/MontyPythonsFlyingCircus''. A son with a home counties accent arrives home to see his Northern parents, and it's clear that the father isn't pleased to see him. It turns out that the son left Hampstead after refusing to become an author like his father, and moved to Barnsley to become a miner instead. Yes, that way round.
115	* Shawn and Henry's relationship in ''Series/{{Psych}}'' is something like this; Henry wanted Shawn to grow up to be a cop and follow in his footsteps. Shawn had other plans, eventually growing up to be a complete slacker. Unfortunately, Henry is a WellDoneSonGuy and didn't take this well, to the extent that their relationship is strained at best (and is implied to have been estranged at some point). Of course, Henry's ambitions weren't helped by the fact that he was a bit of a ControlFreak who subjected Shawn to a junior version of the TrainingFromHell at an early age to ensure his goals, to the point where Shawn's grandfather, also a cop, disapproved. Despite the hellish training, Shawn was perfectly happy to become a cop and make his dad proud...until his parents split up and he blamed his dad for it.
116	* ''Franchise/PowerRangers'':
117	** In ''Series/PowerRangersJungleFury'', Finn is disappointed that his son RJ didn't follow family tradition and become a Shark-style kung-fu master. He eventually grows to respect the path RJ ''did'' take - being a ''Wolf''-style kung-fu master.
118	** Inverted in ''Series/PowerRangersNinjaStorm'' as Cam, son of a ninja sensei, wants to become a ninja himself or at least contribute to the fight on the battlefield somehow instead of just from MissionControl. His father admits that Cam could be an excellent ninja, but when his mother passed away she had him promise not to train Cam as a ninja due to the danger. They reach a compromise later after Cam learns some family secrets; he discovered his mother was a samurai, and he'll follow in ''her'' footsteps.
119	** In ''Series/PowerRangersWildForce'', Alyssa's father was disappointed she didn't want to [[HeirToTheDojo take over the dojo]] until he learned she's a Ranger.
120	* In play on ''Series/SEALTeam''. Clay hates his father Ash but has become a Navy SEAL just like Ash was. When Ash calls him out on how eager Clay seems to follow in his footsteps, Clay informs him he's not following in Ash's footsteps, he's erasing them.
121	* ''Franchise/StarTrek'':
122	** The ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries'' episode "Journey to Babel" reveals that Spock and his father Sarek went through this.
123	** ''Series/StarTrekTheNextGeneration'':
124	*** Data's creator Dr. Soong is a touch disappointed his greatest creation went into Starfleet instead of cybernetics like himself.
125	*** Wesley Crusher entered Starfleet Academy, inspired by both his father and Captain Picard. Subverted in his final appearance on the show, "Journey's End"; when Wesley has a vision of his father saying "Do not follow me," he sees this as a sign that his future is not in Starfleet and announces that he is quitting the Academy.
126	** ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'':
127	*** There are several hints that this is what happened with Garak's upbringing. One of the strongest occurs when Garak tells Bashir that he allowed his father to mould him into a mirror image of his father. Something went wrong, however, and the pair had a major falling out which caused Garak's exile. What that something was is never revealed,[[labelnote:*]]expanded universe notwithstanding[[/labelnote]] leaving the reader to guess where on the scale between TurnOutLikeHisFather and IAmNotMyFather he actually ended up falling.
128	*** Ben Sisko assumed Jake would want to follow him into Starfleet, creating some awkwardness between him and Jake as Jake tried to figure out how to tell him he wanted to be a writer. When he actually does tell him, though, it turns out it was more of an assumption than an expectation; Sisko isn't upset and tells Jake he can be whatever he wants to be.
129	*** Averted with Nog. His uncle Quark isn't impressed that Nog wants to enter Starfleet, but Rom, standing up to Quark for possibly the first time ''ever'', supports his son's decision to defy family (and cultural) tradition. Later inverted as well: seeing his son going to become something more than a money-loving Ferengi, Rom is inspired to leave the bar himself, taking a job as an engineer for the Bajoran Militia on the station.
130	** Tom Paris in ''Series/StarTrekVoyager'' actually ''did'' follow his father into Starfleet, only to find the pressure of living up to this was too much, until he eventually screwed up and was expelled.
131	** In ''Series/StarTrekEnterprise'', the Reed family have a strong tradition of entering the Royal Navy. Malcolm Reed's father does not approve of him joining this new space thing instead, despite the fact Malcom is a severe aquaphobe.
132	* ''Series/{{Supernatural}}''. Oh, so much Supernatural. John expects both his sons to follow in the family business, and Sam ''really'' doesn't want to. It doesn't end well. Interestingly, it turns out that their mother hated the thought of them following the family business; sucks to be dead and not have a say in it.
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136	* In ''Roleplay/DawnOfANewAgeOldportBlues'', Rhys' parents wanted and expected him to become a defense lawyer like his father. He instead discovered a passion for writing in middle school, which led to a rift with his parents and helped contribute to his general misanthropy.
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140	* ''Theatre/YoungFrankenstein'': Although Frederick's grandfather is dead, there's still some pressure for Frederick to take over his experiments. In the number "Join the Family Business", the ghosts of his grandfather and other ancestors come out of the woodwork to express their wishes directly. Frederick, not being a MadScientist, is reluctant. At first.
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144	* ''Franchise/AssassinsCreed'': William Miles was adamant about his son, Desmond, becoming an Assassin like himself. Desmond disagreed and ran away from home. The Templars eventually got their hands on him, stuff happened, and Desmond realized the importance of his father's war, thereby becoming an Assassin anyway.
145	* ''Franchise/FireEmblem'':
146	** ''VideoGame/FireEmblemTheBindingBlade''
147	*** Niime and Hugh have this dynamic, even though they're grandmother and son (both of Hugh's parents being dead). Niime is incredibly upset on learning that Hugh became a mage, referring to the "stench" of anima magic, and would like nothing more for him to become a shaman despite that being impossible. In [[VideoGame/FireEmblemTheBlazingBlade the prequel]], his father, Canas, muses that baby Hugh doesn't seem to have the talent and wonders if the family tradition of being a shaman will end with him. However, he's still clearly fond of Hugh and doesn't resent him for it.
148	** ''VideoGame/FireEmblemAwakening'':
149	*** It's specifically noted that Kjelle and Noire's mothers inverted this, as Kjelle didn't have the prowess in horse riding she'd need to be a Cavalier like Sully, and Tharja knows DarkIsEvil and doesn't want Noire to be corrupted by it like she had. Severa deliberately averts it too because she has issues with her mother Cordelia.
150	*** Gameplay-wise, many of the second generation characters (aside from the above) share the same starting class as their mother, the exceptions being Brady (Troubador is gender-exclusive), Inigo (his mother is a special class), and Owain (too HotBlooded to make an effective Priest). Oddly, Morgan, despite his/her intense desire to follow in his/her parent the Avatar's footsteps and become a Tactician, only starts as this if his father is Chrom [[spoiler: or Walhart]] or her mother is Olivia or Lucina, otherwise starting as the starting class of the other parent.
151	** ''VideoGame/FireEmblemFates'':
152	*** Averted with Ophelia. Ophelia is very eager to follow in her father Odin's steps and become a 'Chosen One' and Odin is so happy that she wants to.
153	*** Asugi plays this straight. He has little desire to become the next head of the Saizo clan, to the point that he changed his name to Asugi (he was initially named Saizo), as he felt that he and his father have nothing in common. Saizo eventually accepts that Asugi has his own sense of honor and own way of doing things and releases him from the pressure of becoming the next Saizo. However, if he achieves an A-Support with Asugi, Asugi will decide to take up the Saizo name after all. Sure enough, all his endings note that while Asugi disappears from historical record, the Saizo name continues to live on for 100 generations.
154	*** Nina inverts this: she wants to be a thief like her father Niles, and is hostile toward her father because he doesn't want her to go down that path. She's a lot more understanding when she finds out he became a thief because he ''had'' to in order to survive, and in all her endings gives up her thievery for philanthropy. Fittingly enough, Asugi and Nina can marry in the ''Revelations'' path.
155	*** Gameplay-wise, much like ''Awakening'', many of the second generation characters share the same starting class as their father (or mother, in a Male Kana's case), with the exceptions of Midori (prefers medicine), Forrest (because RealMenWearPink) and Percy (canonically given a pet dragon that he learned to ride). Shigure is a special exception as he inherits his ''mother's secondary'' class, as no matter what Azura will be his mother, but her class is a special class so can't be inherited. Shiro is an odd case. In the main story, he's a Spear Fighter instead of a Samurai like his father (presumably) was, however, in the Heirs of Fate DLC he's a Swordmaster like his father was. No explanation is given on why he was a Spear Fighter (the DLC reclass can be explained by him inheriting his father's sword Raijinto).
156	* In ''VideoGame/RootsOfPacha'', Jelrod reveals in his first hangout event that his father Croll, a proud builder whose job was passed down through generations, used to shove a hammer into his hands when he was a baby. Jelrod would cry until Croll took it away, and when he got older, he got into racing and enjoyed it. Jelrod wishes that his father would understand that he has his own dreams, and he hopes that he'll make racing his full-time job someday.
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160	* Averted in ''VisualNovel/DaughterForDessert''. When Amanda is thinking about leaving the diner and striking out on her own, the protagonist would be perfectly fine with her doing so. He doesn’t want to saddle her with running the diner if that’s not what she wants; he’s only upset that she has the wrong impression about his relationship with Lainie.
161	* Because Kanesaki Ikuko of ''VisualNovel/TheDevilOnGString'' resented her loss at the Olympics figure-skating competition, she took it upon herself to shape her daughter Azai Kanon into the figure-skater she always wanted to be.
162	* Kengo of ''VisualNovel/LittleBusters'' is the son of the owner of a kendo dojo, and as such has been practicing it ever since he was a kid, even though he doesn't particularly care for it and would much rather just be hanging out with his friends. Though in this case, it seems to be self-inflicted - when he first met Kyousuke, he was given a chance to give up on kendo but kept at it to please his father. Unfortunately, we never get to see exactly what his dad thinks about all of this.
163	* In ''VisualNovel/SpiritHunterNG'', if Kaoru's around for the Demon Tsukuyomi case, then she'll reveal that her reason for becoming an idol was because she was raised to be one by her ex-idol mother. Which is not to say that she dislikes being one, just that she regards it as an occupation instead of a passion.
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167	* The Director of Darkness from ''Webcomic/ApricotCookies'' wants his daughter to become [[DaddysLittleVillain the next leader]] of the Dark Dimension. Too bad she really wants to be a MagicalGirl.
168	* This is Quain'tana's strategy with her [[spoiler:grand]]daughter and heir Ariel in ''Webcomic/{{Drowtales}}'', with mixed results. Quain'tana was born on the street with nothing to her name and built her way up to one of the most power leaders in the world, and wants Ariel to do the same, starting her at the rank of a grunt. After a 15 {{timeskip}} this has been semi-successful, but Quain had previously gone through ''at least'' three heirs (one who hates her, one who seemed alright before got possessed, and one who was a failure all around) meaning that she's so far only been halfway successful at this strategy, and her other parenting skills or lack thereof put her far into AbusiveParents territory.
169	* In the webcomic ''Webcomic/EverydayHeroes'', Summer seems to resent being stuck with superpowers and [[http://eheroes.smackjeeves.com/comics/2111632/not-much-choice/ having no choice as to what her future will be]].
170	* One of the sources of estrangement between Roy Greenhilt and his father Eugene in ''Webcomic/TheOrderOfTheStick'' is that Eugene expected Roy to become a wizard like him, but Roy chose to become a fighter like his grandfather Horace and take up the ancestral sword. This is also why Eugene shows ParentalFavoritism for Roy's sister Julia; she's also studying magic, so Eugene (According to Roy) doesn't use the phrase "crushing depression" when talking about her.
171	* ''Webcomic/TrippingOverYou'': Liam's father Eli pushes him to follow him into law, to Liam's increasing dismay. After [[spoiler:Liam drops out of law school]], Eli admits that he had hoped for them to work together, not least because he could have bolstered Liam's career and wants Liam to be happy.
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175	* ''[[https://scratch.mit.edu/projects/34788704/ The Life of Baldwin]]'', a story on Website/{{Scratch}} which [[OfficialFanSubmittedContent encouraged the audience to suggest what will happen next]], is about a boy, Baldwin, who, against his parents' wishes of him becoming a stenographer, wants to be a button collector. One day, after a [[MixAndMatchCritter pigaphant]] broke in and stole all of his buttons except for the BigRedButton, Baldwin pressed the button and was warped into an AlternateUniverse where [[AnimateInanimateObject buttons live]]. [[spoiler:After going on a freaky adventure, meeting his dad who challenged him to follow in his footsteps, and [[ForcedTransformation even becoming a button]], he learns that he should really follow in his parents' footsteps and after entering a time vortex, everything returns to normal.]]
176	* ''Literature/WhateleyUniverse'':
177	** Up until recently, Gizmatic was insistent that his son Jobe follow in his footsteps. This included being a mad scientist and heir to the throne of Karedonia. Until this winter, dad's biggest problem with the son was that Jobe was more into mad biological sciences instead of mad engineering sciences.
178	** The Goodkinds are the richest family on the planet. CEO Bruce Goodkind groomed his oldest kid Greg for years to step into his shoes, but Greg took off. Bruce then groomed the rest of the family: son Paul (the next oldest) is stepping up, as is youngest son David. Next-to-youngest son Trevor was doing his best, but ended up being thrown out of the family and disinherited when he turned into a mutant.
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182	* ''WesternAnimation/BobsBurgers'' reveals that one of the reasons for the strained relationship between Bob and his father was that his father wanted Bob to take over his diner (he even added "And Son" to the sign as a Christmas surprise), while Bob wanted to make unique and interesting burgers which his father never approved of, his diner being focused on bland, traditional deli fare. Bob's insistence on making every new burger name a pun probably didn't help.
183	** Ironically, even though Bob doesn't particularly care if any of his kids follow in his footsteps after he gets too old to run the restaurant, it's revealed that [[DaddysGirl Louise]] already plans on doing so when she accidentally implies it.
184	* Planned inversion: Micah Wright once made a {{pilot}} for an action-adventure series for Creator/{{Nickelodeon}} titled ''WesternAnimation/ConstantPayne'', eventually shelved because of September 11th, among other things. [[http://micahwright.com/television/constant-payne.htm According to]] [[WordOfGod the man himself]], the series' premise (which doesn't feature in the pilot) would have been that the Payne father was planning to ''not'' pass down the long-running FamilyBusiness to his daughter, even though she wanted to inherit it.
185	* Inverted slightly ... sometimes crimefighters would prefer their children NOT do this. The example that comes to mind here is from ''WesternAnimation/DarkwingDuck''; his daughter even develops a costume and theme, much to her father's dismay.
186	* In the late ''WesternAnimation/{{Jem}}'' episode, "Riot's Hope", we learn the backstory of Rory Llewellyn (AKA: Riot of The Stingers): his father hated having his son learn music, and constantly pushed him to join the Army, like he did. Riot did join, but was dishonorably discharged after he went AWOL, and the tension finally exploded when the father declared that [[IHaveNoSon he had no son]], and banished him from the household. It finally took Jerrica Benton (as Jem) to convince them to make up, and for the father to at least try to understand his son. [[note]][[spoiler:Especially since their animosity was part of the reason Riot's mother ended up in the hospital... and why they both almost lost her.]][[/note]] Eventually, Riot's father shows up at one of The Stingers' concerts, pretty much accepting the path that his son decided to follow.
187	** This episode notably features a DarkReprise of "Take It Or Leave It", one of The Stingers' songs, which had been used in a previous episode to establish them as selfish and uncaring. A later (new) song, "Let Me Be" basically sums up Riot's feelings about wanting to "follow [his] own star".
188	* On ''WesternAnimation/JimmyTwoShoes'', Lucius wants Beezy to inherit the FamilyBusiness from him, but Beezy's more interested in doing... well, [[LazyBum nothing]].
189	* Averted/played with in ''WesternAnimation/JonnyQuestTheRealAdventures''. One of the main villains, Jeremiah Surd, tries to trick Jonny using this argument in "Thoughtscape." He creates an illusion where Dr. Quest (Jonny's dad) tells Jonny how disappointed he is in him, and how Jessie (one of Jonny's best friends) is much more attuned to his own interests (namely science) than him. Jonny [[HeroicBSOD breaks down accordingly]]. Fortunately for everybody (except Surd), Dr. Quest really doesn't care what his son does so long as he's happy, and will always be proud of him, so the illusion is eventually broken.
190	* Hank is like this with Bobby in ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill''. Hank sells propane and propane accessories. Bobby wants to be a comedian. This is resolved in the finale when [[spoiler:Bobby displays a talent AND fondness for spotting choice cuts of meat, giving him something over which he and his father can finally bond.]]
191	* As the sole airbending child of [[WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender Avatar Aang]], Tenzin from ''WesternAnimation/TheLegendOfKorra'' was the last airbender after his father died. Tenzin was happy to take up being an airbending master, but strain starts to show in Book Two - he's not spiritual the way Aang was and trying to ''be'' Aang just sets him up for failure.
192	* In ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', Krusty was for years estranged from his father because he became an entertainer instead of following the family tradition of being a rabbi. Which leads us to this great quote.
193	-->'''Homer:''' Boy, you don't have to follow in my footsteps if you don't want too.\
194	'''Bart:''' That's okay. I don't even like using the bathroom after you.
195	* In ''WesternAnimation/Thundercats2011'' Claudus is the stern father to Lion-O who can't understand why his youngest son so different from his older adoptive brother Tygra and himself.
196	* ''WesternAnimation/WhereOnEarthIsCarmenSandiego'' took the title of the trope for "Follow My Footprints"
197	* Inversion from ''WesternAnimation/WinxClub'': Season 2 sees an ep in which, despite being a former musician himself (who even married one to boot), Musa's father ''doesn't'' want her to become a musician, because of, shall we say, personal issues. [[note]]In the original version, there are also financial issues, but 4Kids snipped them out.[[/note]]
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