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7	->''"Have you ever said something that was '''so''' bad- and I mean, you knew it was bad '''as''' it was coming out of your mouth? And you're trying to stop it, but it's too late, it's already out, and you're like, ''[[BigNO Nooooo...!]]'' And it's too late!"''
8	-->-- '''Creator/GabrielIglesias'''
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10	A character [[DidIJustSayThatOutLoud says something inappropriate]] or embarrassing [[RightInFrontOfMe to the wrong person]] or [[RightBehindMe within earshot of the wrong person]]. They mention having taken a woman's virginity in front of said woman and her new boyfriend. They [[FurAndLoathing wear fur in the presence of an overzealous animal lover]]. Or they [[ArsonMurderAndJaywalking eat peas with their knife]]. And now the eyes of the world are upon them, sneering and/or laughing contemptuously at their little (or not so little) faux pas.
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12	A faux pas can be defined as "a social blunder" or "a violation [intentional or not] of accepted social rules or norms". It can be a FreudianSlip, it can put TheFunInFuneral, it can result in someone saying "HowDidThatGetInThere" It could even be something as simple as tripping and falling ("faux pas" literally means "false step"). And it is, 99% of the time, [[HilarityEnsues played for comedy]] in fiction.
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14	{{Funny Foreigner}}s and FishOutOfWater are particularly prone to this (see CrossCulturalKerfluffle). You can only hope and pray that those around you will have the good grace to refrain from [[HumiliationConga lining up and rubbing your face in it]]. Speaking of grace, this trope also comes into play when a character is saying grace before a meal, alongside another character or characters who have already begun eating food.
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16	This trope has no connection whatsoever to the webcomic ''Webcomic/FauxPas'' (which is actually pronounced "Fox Paws", unlike the French, which is more to the effect of "foe pah").
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18	'''Subtropes may include one or more of the following:'''
19	* AccidentalPublicConfession
20	* DidIJustSayThatOutLoud
21	* DiggingYourselfDeeper
22	* FakeFabricFashionFauxPas
23	* FreudianSlip
24	* FreudianSlipperySlope
25	* FumblingTheGauntlet
26	* TheFunInFuneral
27	* HowDidThatGetInThere
28	* IdioticPartnerConfession
29	* InnocentlyInsensitive
30	* IgnoreTheDisability
31	* OpenMouthInsertFoot
32	* RightBehindMe
33	* RightInFrontOfMe
34	* SayingTooMuch
35	* ThatCameOutWrong
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37	Might provoke a PassingJudgment or TheFreelanceShameSquad reaction from nearby onlookers. See also ForgotAboutTheMindReader, where the character doesn't even have to speak. IMeantToDoThat is when the character pretends the blunder was in fact done on purpose in order to mitigate the embarrassment. Compare ProtocolPeril, which is what happens when a particular faux pas is treated as a life or death matter.
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39	!!Examples:
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43	* ''Literature/ExpectingToFallIntoRuinIAimToBecomeABlacksmith'': There is a bit of a RunningGag about how people handle the fact that insulting the stuck up First Prince Arc is lese majesty, with Kururi's father openly saying he wishes Arc's younger brother Rhasa would be heir to the throne instead, and Kururi's anger building over not being able to completely tell off Arc as much as he wants to.
44	* Latvia of ''Webcomic/HetaliaAxisPowers'', despite being [[ShrinkingViolet shy]] and [[NervousWreck nervous]], lacks tact and has a tendency to just blurt out whatever's on his mind, no matter how insensitive or insulting it may be, especially in front of his former boss [[PsychopathicManchild Russia]]...and [[AndCallHimGeorge he often has to face the consequences for it]].
45	-->'''Latvia''': Ah...Mr. Russia, those traditional clothes suit you well. You're rediscovering styles from the past, right?\
46	'''Russia''': Latvia, these clothes are popular at my house right now.\
47	'''Latvia''': Those fossils are popular?
48	* ''Franchise/LyricalNanoha'':
49	** In the first season, Admiral Lindy, wishing to make Nanoha more comfortable and show her appreciation for Nanoha's culture, invites the title character to a tea ceremony. She then proceeds to prepare her green tea by dropping lumps of sugar in it and adding milk, a Japanese no-no (Lindy's doing it British-style with Japanese aesthetics) that causes Nanoha to [[http://www.katamari.com.br/ontherocks/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Nanoha_Horrifying.png be horrified.]] This later turned into a running gag. The fourth ''[[Anime/MagicalGirlLyricalNanohaStrikers StrikerS]]'' sound stage revealed that she introduced it to Mary. Ginga, who also drinks her tea this way, asks her father, who is suggested to be of Japanese descent, if he would like to try it, and he politely refuses.
50	** Lindy's adopted daughter Fate has a better grasp of Japanese culture (given that she actually grew up there) though she also gets some things wrong. For example, she was under the impression that you're supposed to go commando while wearing a kimono, a misconception that wouldn't get cleared up until she was in her twenties.
51	** Continuing the tradition set by Lindy and Fate, we have Vivio. Her attempt to throw a New Year's party results in Nanoha coming home to find a cactus in the hallway as a kadomatsu and [[BlackComedyBurst Rio hanging up a noose]] as a wreath.
52	* TheUnmasquedWorld in ''Manga/MonsterMusume'' can get complicated with the extra species integrating with human society. The biggest problem is food. Kimihito worries he'd have to stop using foods with bird or fish in them thanks to living with [[HarpingOnAboutHarpies Papi]] and [[OurMermaidsAreDifferent Mero]]. Turns out his fears were for naught, as Mero compares fish to mermaids the same way a human is compared to cows or pigs. Papi is "totally okay with cannibalism" as it shows her violently biting into a roast chicken. A similar scene plays out when the group goes out to an open market. Several of the food vendors frantically pack away chicken, fish, and other meats thinking they might offend the liminals.
53	* ''Literature/TheVillainousDaughtersButlerIllCrushTheDestructionFlags'': Heavily featured and discussed, usually stemming from Alicia or Prince Alforth not recognizing DoubleMeaning or subtext they are expected to converse with by court culture, justified in that they're each around twelve.
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57	* In the first issue of the New 52 ''ComicBook/{{Batgirl\|2011}}'' series, Barbara Gordon's new roommate sees the wheelchair lift on Barbara's van and makes a comment about how being "trapped in a chair" is her worst fear, since it would be "like prison". Barbara's internal narration says that she knows her roommate didn't mean anything by it, and she's not ready to correct her and that she has no way of knowing that ''Barbara herself'' used to need it, and when she was in the chair she was [[VoiceWithAnInternetConnection Oracle]].
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61	* One ''ComicStrip/CalvinAndHobbes'' story arc features Suzie getting into trouble for such things as passing notes and talking in class (all instigated by Calvin, of course).
62	* In the comic strip ''ComicStrip/{{Drabble}}'', the title character is introduced to sushi, whereupon he announces, "I'll have mine well done, please!"
63	* Magazine/{{MAD}} often makes reference to these in its humor. For example, one article lists a few things to say when you're otherwise headed into an inappropriate statement.
64	-->'''Woman''': Say, when are you expecting...\
65	'''Heavyset woman''': I'm not pregnant!\
66	'''Woman''': ...this stupid bus to arrive? It's been almost an hour!
67	* Happens quite often in the Norwegian comic ''Pondus''. The usual scenario is Pondus and his wife, Beate, chatting with a friend (mostly Beate's friends). Beate makes a Faux Pas, tries to correct it and makes matter worse. Pondus usually praises Beate for this.
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71	* ''Fanfic/KingdomHeartsPsiTheSeekerOfDarkness'': In ''[[https://archiveofourown.org/works/13872657 Kairi and Lea's Excellent Adventure]]'', Kairi asks [[VideoGame/FinalFantasyXIII Lightning]] if she can see her l'Cie brand, embarrassing them both when Fang cuts in, "Yeah, Light. Show us your cleavage!"
72	* ''Fanfic/TheMountainAndTheWolf'': The Wolf's utter and unrepentant crassness gets on ''everybody's'' nerves, compounded by the fact that he never seems to realize that he's being insulting or abrasive, like requesting that Daenerys deliberately ignore the bells if King's Landing tries to surrender so both armies can still get a good fight (of course, it's possible that he doesn't actually intend to deliberately insult everyone he meets and it's simply a side effect of him being required to always look for a fight).
73	* ''Fanfic/UsAndThem'': In a side story, [[VideoGame/FinalFantasyVII Cid and Sephiroth]] are eager to work with a new stock of adamantium they traded with a tribe of dwarves for. Seph is surprised that they were willing to trade after Cid called their chief "Little Guy", but they brush it off. Later, after hours of fruitlessly trying to so much as dent the metal, they both admit the dwarves got them back for the insult. ''Hard''.
74	* In ''Fanfic/WhatTomorrowBrings'', Tom mentions that his Yeerk was forced to learn Andalite body language while he worked under Visser Three. When Tom meets some other Andalites, he tries to bow at them in a way that looks deferential, but [[SparedByTheAdaptation Elfangor]] tells him that it's three hundred years out of date.
75	* ''Fanfic/WhereWeDontBelong'': Eunie instinctively refers to Melia as "Your Majesty" instead of "Your Highness" when she first meets her, earning her a number of weird looks from everyone else in attendance since Melia is only a princess and not even the one expected to take the High Entia throne at this stage.
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79	* In Disney's ''WesternAnimation/TheLittleMermaid1989'', literal FishOutOfWater Ariel, at her first dinner with Eric, uses a dinglehopper (a fork) to comb her hair (based on faulty information provided by Scuttle the seagull). She also grabs Grimsby's pipe and blows into it believing that it is a snarfblatt, which Scuttle blows like a trumpet.
80	* In ''WesternAnimation/Shrek2'', Shrek eats dinner with Fiona's parents and mistakes a finger bowl for soup.
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84	* In TheFilmOfTheBook of the first novel in the ''Literature/EarthsChildren'' series, ''[[http://jabootu.net/?p=556 Clan of the Cave Bear]]'', lead character Ayla must, within sight of her tribe, save a child from a wolf using her advanced hunting skills, skills which it is not lawful for a woman in her society to have.
85	** The book has the same situation but with a hyena instead. ''Clan of the Cave Bear'' is practically one long sequence of these, although the results are generally not all that funny.
86	* During his medical finals in ''Film/DoctorAtLarge'', Tony manages to accidentally insult one of his examiners' age:
87	-->'''Tony''': After all, the patient ''was'' senile. Dash it, he was seventy - practically ''ga-ga''.
88	-->'''Examiner''': And I shall be seventy-six ''myself'' next birthday. Thank you for reminding me that I'm well past my job.
89	* ''Film/{{Ladyhawke}}'' - Proud at escaping an inescapable prison, Phillipe offers to buy a drink to everyone in a tavern. Some of them are out looking for him.
90	* Jason around Kelly in ''Film/MysteryTeam''. He explains to the (orphaned) girl that life isn't fair because he didn't get a bike for Christmas, tells her to have fun at her parents' wake, and says her skin feels similar to what a dolphin's must feel like.
91	** The whole [[TitleDrop Mystery Team]] is like this. For example, their most common suspect is Old Man [=McGinty=], whom they suspect for murder when he is clearly very comatose. They break into his house. Twice.
92	* ''Film/PacificRim'': When Newt is introducing himself and his work, he shows off his {{kaiju}} tattoos and goes on about how cool kaiju are. In front of Raleigh. Who ''lost his brother to one''.
93	-->'''Newt''': You know [Yamarashi] was one of the biggest Category [=3s=] ever? It's 2,500 tons of awesome. (''awkward silence from everyone else'') Or awful, you know, whatever you wanna call it.
94	* ''Ridicule'' by Patrice Leconte depicts the fearsome consequences of social blunders at the court of Louis XVI. People were DrivenToSuicide for saying the wrong thing at the wrong moment, or at the very least their hopes for advancement at court were ruined.
95	* ''Film/TheRightStuff'': The wall behind the bar of Pancho's Happy Bottom Riding Club is covered with pictures of pilots. Early in the film a young girl asks Pancho what a pilot has to do to get a picture on the wall. Pancho replies, "You have to die, sweetie." Later, when a new crop of test pilots arrive at Edwards Air Force Base and visit the bar, the cockiest of the lot, Gordo Cooper, decides to get in Pancho's face when he feels like they're not getting enough respect from her.
96	-->'''Gordo Cooper''': Rookies? Now hold on, sis. You are looking at a whole new ballgame here now. In fact, in a couple of years, I bet you're even gonna immortalize us by putting our pictures up there on your wall. ''(cue horrified stares from everyone at the bar)'' What, I say something wrong here?
97	* ''Film/{{Witness}}'': When John Book is at a hot dog joint with his new Amish companions, Rachel and Samuel, he begins eating just before they pause to say grace.
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101	* ''Literature/AmeliaPeabody'' pulls out a big one in ''Crocodile on the Sandbank''. An acquaintance confesses that she's been seduced, is therefore DefiledForever, and fully expects to be kicked out on the street.[[note]]In the series' timeframe, this is a rather realistic assessment of the probable outcome of this conversation.[[/note]] Amelia's word vomit response boils down to: "Is sex enjoyable? Because between what [[LieBackAndThinkOfEngland my sisters in law say]] and the looks on the village girls' faces when they've sneaked off into the meadow with their sweethearts, I'm getting mixed signals here." Not exactly acceptable conversation from a respectable Victorian lady.
102	* ''Literature/{{Discworld}}'':
103	** In ''Literature/SoulMusic'', Imp y Celyn is sitting in a waiting room with a dwarf and a troll, and they casually mention that he looks a bit "druidish" (he is). Imp worries that a troll (a stone-based creature) would take offense at people who drag innocent boulders across the country and arrange them in circles, and vehemently denies it, adding "I hate rocks!" for emphasis. The troll, Cliff, patiently explains that "rock" is a derogatory term for troll. Fortunately he's willing to forgive Imp, seeing as he's a fellow musician and clearly didn't mean to offend, and the whole incident ends up breaking the ice for all three.
104	** Mr. Nutt has NoSocialSkills at the beginning of ''Literature/UnseenAcademicals'', so he frequently says things he shouldn't, e.g. calling Glenda "fecund".
105	--->'''Mr. Nutt''': Have I made another faux pas?\
106	'''Glenda''': Is this "faux pas" that looks like it should be pronounced "forks pass"?
107	* One of the many inconveniences that come from the double lives that the characters in Literature/{{Everworld}} live is that whenever they fall asleep or lose consciousness in Everworld, all of their stored memories instantly download into their Earth brains, no matter what their Earth selves are doing at the time. At one point, Christopher gets a particularly upsetting update (one that ends with him getting knocked out by enemies) right in the middle of dinner with his new girlfriend's parents. What he thought he was doing: tripping, falling, and swearing from the shock. What he was actually doing: leaping headfirst into his girlfriend's mother's cleavage while shouting, "Motherf***er!"
108	* In Ellen Raskin's ''Figgs and Phantoms'', Mona Lisa Figg unthinkingly requests a book by its title and (racist) subtitle while speaking to a black librarian.
109	* In ''Literature/JourneyToTheCenterOfTheEarth'', the narrator, having broken an ancient explorer's code, shows his uncle how the code is written. Unfortunately, he has his love for his uncle's ward on the brain, and the phrase he codes is that he loves her...thankfully for everyone, his uncle's response amounts to, "Huh. Well, we'll talk about that later."
110	* ''Literature/ASongOfIceAndFire'': Being an arrogant and sadistic RoyalBrat, Joffrey Baratheon is incredibly prone to making disgustingly insensitive gaffes that would probably get anybody else beaten to death. This is bad enough when he's merely a spoiled prince mistreating servants and the like, but becomes downright catastrophic when [[TyrantTakesTheHelm he becomes king]] and ''keeps'' doing it to powerful nobles and knights that could very easily destroy him. Before too long, his inept rule and constant thoughtless comments (such as [[SpeakIllOfTheDead openly denigrating the recently deceased]] [[spoiler:Renly Tyrell]] ''right in front of his still-living family'') plunge Westeros into a brutal civil war.
111	* Creator/PiersAnthony's ''{{Literature/Xanth}}'' has a location called the "Faux Pass" (har de har, the entire series is essentially a HurricaneOfPuns). Anyone crossing through this pass is fated to commit a faux pas in the near future. As an accidental bonus for the trope name, it was created by an incredibly huge giant literally tripping over the mountain range.
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115	* ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'': In the episode "The Luminous Fish Effect", Mary Cooper initiates saying grace before dinner while Howard and Raj have already begun stuffing their mouths with food.
116	* On ''Series/{{Castle\|2009}}'', an actress visits Rick Castle at home, thanking him for their relationship and her part in Castle's new movie. She walks out the door:
117	-->'''Ellie:''' [[spoiler:Thanks, Frank.]]
118	* The embarrassing faux pas is the single driving narrative force in ''Series/CurbYourEnthusiasm''. Some fans even use the term "Larry David moment" to describe it.
119	* Pretty much every character in ''Series/{{Daredevil\|2015}}'' has said or done something after forgetting that Matt is blind. The real estate agent tells him that he and Foggy can fight over the office with the better view. Karen holds a newspaper to his face to show an article about how terrible Wilson Fisk is. Ben Urich shrugs instead of verbally answering. Matt isn't bothered by it, and seems to prefer the odd faux pas to people treating him like he's made of glass. The irony is that with his secret super senses, he can sense a lot of what's going on anyway.
120	** It even carries into ''Series/TheDefenders2017'', as in one scene, Matt and Series/{{Jessica Jones\|2015}} are walking and Jessica makes a slip-up. She quickly apologizes, but Matt laughs it off.
121	* In ''Series/DoctorWho'', the Eleventh Doctor has done this ''twice'':
122	** [[Recap/DoctorWhoS31E4TheTimeOfAngels "The Time of Angels"]]:
123	--->'''The Doctor:''' But then [the [[MultipleHeadCase Aplans]][=]=] banned self-marrying! I mean, what's that all about? But then that's the church for you! No offence...bishop.\
124	'''Bishop Octavian:''' Quite a lot taken, if that's all right, Doctor.
125	** [[Recap/DoctorWhoS31E6TheVampiresOfVenice "The Vampires of Venice"]]: The Doctor has just [[JumpingOutOfACake jumped out of a cake]] at Rory's stag party:
126	--->'''The Doctor:''' Rory! ''(...)'' We need to have a talk about your fiancée. She tried to kiss me. Tell you what, though, you're a lucky man — she's a ''great'' kisser.\
127	''(silence falls over the room, and someone [[DramaticDrop drops a beer glass]])''\
128	'''The Doctor:''' ...Funny how you can say something in your head and it ''sounds'' fine.
129	* Matthew Crawley makes quite a few missteps early on in his tenure on ''Series/DowntonAbbey'', including commenting that being a valet "seems rather a silly profession for a grown man." ... to his ''valet''. The man flees the room in shame.
130	** Another notable one shows up when SelfMadeMan Sir Richard Carlisle runs into Lord Grantham's sister on the Abbey grounds:
131	--->'''Carlisle:''' Ah, Lady Painswick.\
132	'''Rosamund:''' ''(smiling, stamping her walking stick into the ground with a grandiosity befitting her mother)'' Lady ''Rosamund''.
133	* Trope name comes from an episode of ''Series/EverybodyLovesRaymond'' which uses a whole slew of these to drive the plot.
134	-->'''Raymond:''' ''(regarding a man Robert arrested who was "flashing gang signs")'' He wasn't breaking the law, was he?\
135	'''Robert:''' ... No.\
136	'''Raymond:''' What was he doing?\
137	'''Robert:''' ... He was being deaf.\
138	'''Raymond:''' A-''ha''! Fee Fi Faux Pas!
139	* ''Faux Pause'' was a long-forgotten Game Show Network original series that took a laughably obscure game show, paused it at certain points and has the cast give it the [=MST3K=] treatment.
140	* ''Series/{{Frasier}}:'' Diane Chambers' visit to the Frasier pad doesn't go well when Diane, who wasn't exactly on the best footing with Frasier's dad on account of leaving Frasier at the altar a decade ago, tries making small talk. Her inquiry to Martin about his health gets the response that he had to retire early due to being shot, then had to move in with Frasier because his injury meant he couldn't live by himself, and his wife (who ''really'' didn't like Diane) died. Diane awkwardly tries to say he's looking good... and pats him on the leg. Specifically, the bad one. She doesn't do much better with Frasier's brother Niles, asking about the strange woman Niles was dating last time they met, then immediately wondering if she's just said something wrong. She has, since Niles is now estranged from said strange woman.
141	* ''Series/GameOfThrones'': Pod calls Brienne "Ser" out of habit, earning glares from both Brienne and Jaime.
142	* ''Series/GentlemanJack'': While in Denmark, Anne makes a visit to the Danish court and is told to introduce herself to the queen. She approaches a well-dressed older woman and politely curtsies to "Her Majesty"... only to be informed that the queen is actually the younger woman standing next to her. Luckily, the queen takes it in stride and is quite friendly to Anne, and everyone laughs about it later.
143	* ''Series/TheNanny'''s Chastity Claire once wore a lamb wool coat in front of Lamb Chop. Fran chastises her for it, saying, "Hello! Maybe she had ''people'' there?!" in the ensuing freak out from the famous lamb.
144	* ''Series/OrangeIsTheNewBlack'' uses this to drive one of its first story arcs. On Piper's first day in prison, an inmate comes by and gives her a yogurt cup at the mess hall, as a welcome gift. Piper thanks her profusely, adding that she's happy to get the yogurt because "the food here is disgusting." It turns out that the woman who gave her the yogurt is the head cook, one of the most powerful inmates in the prison. And she takes the insult ''very'' personally.
145	* ''Series/RedDwarf'': Rimmer claims he got passed up for a promotion because, at an important dinner with an admiral, his soup was cold. So he demanded it be heated up nice and hot. It was done so. Unfortunately, it was Gazpacho soup (which is meant to be served cold)... However, Rimmer claims he could have been an admiral by the time ''Series/RedDwarf'' had its disaster, even though he was the second lowest crewmember on the ship and the dinner was less than a year before he died.
146	** This was very nearly Truth in Television. The creators went out to dinner in a fancy restaurant and were served gazpacho soup - they were about to send it back when one of the other diners explained.
147	* Something similar to the above example happens in an episode of ''Series/RoundTheTwist''. The scenario: The Twists are trying to eat a meal while ignoring Bronson, who's playing them for all their worth by deliberately disregarding table manners. Then he pulls out a fly-swatter (specially prepared for the occasion) and licks it, causing the whole charade to go tits-up. It's later revealed that there are no actual flies on the swatter.
148	* One episode of ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'' involves Jerry tiptoeing around these while dating a Native American woman, avoiding common phrases with Native roots ("scalping" for tickets, "reservations" regarding a restaurant) to not offend her, after accidentally doing so after buying a fake statue of a stereotypical Native man. Eventually he manages to accuse her of being an "Indian giver" without actually using the word, and their relationship dissolves.
149	* ''Series/StarTrekTheNextGeneration'': In "The Best of Both Worlds: Part 1", Lt. Cmdr. Shelby reveals herself to be a little too ambitious for her own good while chatting with Cmdr. Riker.
150	-->'''Shelby:''' Tell me, Commander, is serving aboard the Enterprise as extraordinary an experience as I've heard?\
151	'''Riker:''' Every bit of it.\
152	'''Shelby:''' ''(grinning)'' Good, Because I intend to convince Captain Picard that I'm the right choice for the job.\
153	'''Riker:''' Job? Which job?\
154	'''Shelby:''' Yours, of course...\
155	''(Riker glares at her)''\
156	'''Shelby:''' I'm sorry... I heard you were leaving.\
157	'''Riker:''' [[DeadpanSnarker If I am... I'm sure you'll be the first to know, Commander.]]
158	* One episode of ''Series/{{Supernatural}}'' has Castiel (who [[spoiler:has recently become human]]) seriously asking a man in a public bathroom if he ever grows tired of urinating. [[spoiler:Castiel found it weird and didn't think he'd ever get used to it.]]
159	* On ''Series/TopGear'', while in America filming a "factual documentary" which is getting dangerously close to becoming entertaining, the presenters are [[{{Kayfabe}} stopped by a patrolman]]. Jeremy Clarkson takes it upon himself to explain the situation, with helpful hand gestures.... and in the process flips the cop off three or four times.
160	* In ''Series/TheWestWing'' episode "The Midterms", Doctor Jenna Jacobs, a conservative radio talkshow host, is publicly humiliated by the President of the United States (he draws her into clarifying that she [[MDEnvy is not an MD]], but rather has a [[NotThatKindOfDoctor PhD in English]], and then after she defends her stance that homosexuality is a sin by quoting the [[Literature/TheBible Book of Leviticus]], asks her a serious of rapid-fire questions about whether he could sell his daughter into slavery, have his chief of staff executed for working on the Sabbath Day, etc. [[AsTheGoodBookSays all while citing different verses of Leviticus]] (President Bartlett being [[BadassBookworm a very well-studied Catholic]]), before finally pointing out what drew his wrath upon her.
161	-->'''President Bartlett:''' One last thing: [[WhereDoYouThinkYouAre While you may be mistaking this for your monthly meeting of the Ignorant Tight-Ass Club]], in this building, when the President stands, ''nobody sits''.
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165	* Most of the stories and questions in ''Podcast/WereYouRaisedByWolves'' have to do with major social blunders and how they played out, followed by advice on how to handle them. In many episodes, a listener recounts one of these and asks "was this rude" to seek validation.
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169	* Eliza's trip to the races at Ascot in ''Theatre/MyFairLady'', culminating in the famous "Move your bloomin' arse!" line.
170	* In ''Theatre/{{Pygmalion}}'', Higgins takes Eliza to a dinner party to practice her society manners. As she prepares to depart after navigating the evening without ever quite making any irrecoverable errors, another guest asks if she intends to walk home (meaning to offer her his company). She replies with a perfectly-enunciated "Not bloody likely!" and goes to hail a taxi, leaving the party (and, at the play's debut, the audience) in uproar.
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174	* '' VideoGame/DragonAgeInquisition'': The DecadentCourt themed social mission ''Wicked Eyes and Wicked Hearts'' is all about avoiding this by speaking in flowery terms, measured by "Court Approval". Basically, it's really easy to be considered boorishly blunt. An example is, when greeting The Queen to tell her about an upcoming threat, the player is supposed to use a cold weather metaphor, speaking plainly will lose some approval, speaking in a panic will lose even more. One could be tempted to make a save beforehand and just be a massive {{Troll}}.
175	* In ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyX'', Tidus' stay in Spira is an extended one of these. He's accompanying Yuna on her quest to become High Summoner, in which she summons the Final Aeon to destroy the gigantic monster that's been terrorizing the world. He spends the bulk of the game talking about how they can relax and enjoy themselves and such after their quest is complete. The problem? Tidus is unaware that becoming High Summoner involves a HeroicSacrifice, because summoning the Final Aeon ''kills the person who summons it''. When he finds out, he realizes that all of his talk about what they were going to do afterwards was ''extremely'' awkward. He promptly has a massive WhatTheHellHero moment directed at the rest of the group for not telling him the truth of the situation.
176	* Vaan in ''VideoGame/FinalFantasyXII'' puts his foot in it when the party visits [[TokenNonhuman Fran]]'s [[HiddenElfVillage village]], which she left 50 years ago. Not knowing about the [[CuteMonsterGirl viera's]] [[ReallySevenHundredYearsOld longer life span]], Vaan asks how old she is, since she looks much younger; he is not only breaking the woman's age taboo, but he's doing it during an emotionally trying time for Fran.
177	* ''VideoGame/MassEffectAndromeda'': When the team meets the angara and invites one (Jaal) aboard the ship, Liam and Jaal decide to ''deliberately'' engage in this with each other, being very blunt and rude with no thought given to courtesy or boundaries. Liam says they're doing it so they can figure out what is offensive to each other and thereby avoid unintentional insults in the future. Ryder is confused by this but it seems to work between them.
178	* ''VideoGame/{{Utawarerumono}}'' has Eruruw committing a whole SERIES of these with...pretty much every word she says, to the Imperial Princess. In a subversion, the princess brushes it off, while the assistant takes it the worst way possible. It's pretty much an EstablishingCharacterMoment for the two.
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182	* ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'': Larry doesn't seem to get that the middle of a card tournament isn't the best time to be flirting. Especially when your opponent is ''not'' appreciative. [[TheCavalry Mr. Tensaided takes a second to... impress upon him the nature of his mistake.]] [[BerserkButton And, almost as importantly, that it's against the rules. And he's a stickler for the rules.]]
183	* When Nick goes to meet Ki's parents in ''Webcomic/GeneralProtectionFault'', he takes great pains to impress her father with his knowledge of Japanese culture, but forgets to take off his shoes upon entering the house. To be fair to Nick, though, Mr. Oshiro is biased against him as a result of how Ki's relationship with Sam turned out, so even Nick's attempts to impress him come off as mocking Asian culture.
184	* In ''Webcomic/GirlGenius'', [[WrenchWench Agatha]] makes quite the social blunder when she asks [[GodEmperor Queen Albia of England]] for a dance. As pointed out by Tarvek, when Albia is sitting on her balcony, people are supposed to pretend she's not in the room. Then Agatha turns a clank she built into a HumongousMecha that can match Albia's size, upon which Albia starts laughing at Agatha's [[RefugeInAudacity sheer audacity]] and [[SubvertedTrope happily accepts her invitation]]. [[TimeAbyss Having lived for thousands of years]], Albia is always pleased to meet people who can surprise her. She is especially amused to learn that Agatha did so, along with unleashing a horde of ([[{{Cosplay}} fake]]) [[SuperSoldier Jägers]] upon the ball room, just so that [[WarriorPrincess Zeetha]] and [[AlmightyJanitor Higgs]] could have a socially acceptable excuse to dance together.
185	* Andy, in ''Webcomic/StickyDillyBuns'', is accidentally misled into confusing the naïve and prudish Ruby with her sister, the ex-porn star Amber. Even so, giving Ruby a cock ring as a date gift, and then asking her in public when she discovered that she enjoyed taking her clothes off for the camera, is crass by any standard. Fortunately for him, Ruby doesn't recognise the gift and suffers a [[HeroicBSOD total freeze-up]] at the question.
186	* ''Webcomic/TheTrenches'': Q is a big fan of [[ShowWithinAShow Lawstar]]. Isaac learns this a few minutes ''after'' calling it a "shitty cartoon from the 80's''.
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190	* Like Daredevil above, Toph from ''WesternAnimation/AvatarTheLastAirbender'' is prone to being on the receiving end of blind-insensitve comments. Of course, she also loves setting people up (Sokka mostly) to walk right into this situation. She even pulls this on herself where she makes the assumption that Katara's suggestion that she team up with Sokka to hang posters throughout the city was because Katara thought she was too weak to be left alone in the city and not that correctly hanging posters requires sight, as she immediately demonstrates by gluing one to the wall, blank-side-out.
191	-->'''Toph:''' ...it's upside-down, isn't it.
192	* In the AnimatedAdaptation of ''Literature/SoulMusic'', Imp y Celyn is prone to putting his foot in it.
193	* ''WesternAnimation/YogiBear'', in "A Bear Pair" wins a vacation to Paris, and while dining, asks for ketchup to put on his filet mignon, leading to a international scandal.
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197	* TruthInTelevision example: Creator/WilliamShatner was once berated for attending an environmentalist gathering in a ''seal skin'' jacket.
198	* Creator/JimGaffigan has joked about putting ketchup on Sushi.
199	* Creator/GabrielIglesias once had some German hecklers during a show in India which, in combination with some poorly-timed bats, threw him off in mid-performance; he recovered with a joke about "who drinks what" in America vs. India, but neglected to mention Germany in his bit before he got his groove back. The page quote comes from his self-reaction to him retorting to "What do we [Germans] drink, fat man?" with "[[ThoseWackyNazis Blood of Jews]]."
200	-->'''Gabriel:''' And it's too late! "Blood of Jews" is all over his face.
201	* [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fACMk6IvEdM New Zealand TV host]] asking ''Film/StarTrek2009'' actors Chris Pine, Zachary Quinto and John Cho to bust out their best Scottish accents in honor of Scotty. Then she turns to Creator/JohnCho and says, "I know you're Asian, but..." Holy UnfortunateImplications, Batman!
202	* It doesn't stop with individual politicians or countries, the frikkin' ''[[UsefulNotes/UnitedNations U.N.]]'' accidentally [[http://stream.aljazeera.com/story/un-misfires-tweet-one-state-solution-0022421 tweeted a support for a 1-state solution]] ahead of the General Assembly's vote on [[UsefulNotes/ArabIsraeliConflict Palestine]]. (For the record, the vote turned out to be 138 countries in favor of implicit recognition of Palestine, and the "1-state" thing was a typo.)
203	* When Australian stand up comedian Fiona O'Loughlin met the queen with a few other residents of Alice Springs, she noticed that her husband went to shake Her Majesty's hand. Without looking to whom she was talking to, she asked the person standing next to her "Did he just fuck up?" A voice replied "Not as much as you just did, dear". She turned around to find that she had just addressed the Duke of Edinburgh [[note]]as in, Prince Philip, the Queen's husband/consort[[/note]] (although, given his track record of this sort of thing, this may count as praise from Caesar).
204	* Creator/RossNoble once borrowed sunglasses from a woman in the crowd and used them to hold a piece of ham to his face. The woman was Muslim. Islam teaches that contact with pig's flesh is ''very'' sinful. Ross promptly offered to buy her new sunglasses.
205	* Half the fun of Basic Training for new military recruits is learning the entirely new (and often entirely arbitrary) rules and social standards that they must live by, including addressing some of their superiors as sir, [[DontCallMeSir but not others,]] standing at attention while speaking, learning specific required protocols (such as the correct way to report to an officer, the correct thing to do when the National Anthem plays, and what they should do differently if they are indoors versus outdoors), and countless other important rules, big and small. For those who complete their training and go into the "real" military, it's still possible for them to end up in trouble for failing to salute officers, being disrespectful to superiors, wearing their uniforms incorrectly, etc.
206	* While many companies adopt rainbow logos on their social media pages during Pride Month, this really doesn't work with ''Entertainment Weekly'' because their logo is simply the initials "EW." It came to a head in 2019 when they went with the brilliant message of "EW Pride!" that June. After being soundly mocked by the queer community and [[YourApprovalFillsMeWithShame praised by homophobes]], they've been finding other ways to acknowledge Pride since then.
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