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7	->'''Robin:''' We should make a pact. If the years go by and we both turn forty and we're still single...\
8	'''Ted:''' Robin Scherbatsky--will you be my backup wife?\
9	'''Robin:''' A girl always dreams of hearing those words. Yes, yes, a million times, yes!
10	-->-- ''Series/HowIMetYourMother''
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12	Two unlucky-in-love PlatonicLifePartners or FriendsWithBenefits, not wanting to grow old alone, agree to marry each other if they're [[OldMaid still single after a certain age]]. Can be played either sincerely or for laughs, but either way it's likely to be a FriendshipMoment.
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14	If the pair have been going through a WillTheyOrWontThey plot, it's a handy way to bring it to [[BetterAsFriends an amicable close]] without irreversibly deciding that They Don't.
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16	Sometimes this trope is seen from the other side; an OldFlame (usually one who's [[NewOldFlame never been mentioned before]]) shows up to remind a character that they once made such a pact together, and they're here to collect on the deal. HilarityEnsues, especially if they've aged into an AbhorrentAdmirer and the other character [[OldFlameFizzle doesn't want them any more]]. If one party has forgotten about it entirely or never took it seriously, the other may say "ItMeantSomethingToMe".
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18	A DefiedTrope of OldMaid. See also HonorableMarriageProposal.
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20	Closely related to ChildhoodMarriagePromise, which is a similar agreement made by kids too young to really understand what marriage is. See also ArrangedMarriage.
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28	* In ''Manga/NotLoveButDeliciousFoodsMakeMeSoHappy'', Y-naga and her friend S-hara agree to get married when he turns 30 (she's 2 years older than him) if neither of them have found anyone by then (she actually asked a bunch of guys, but he was the only one who agreed). As luck would have it, they remember about this when he's 29 and both of them are single (and roommates), and after a {{beat}}, [[PlatonicLifePartners they both agree to push it to 35]]. At the end of the chapter, they're both thinking "When we hit 35, I wonder if we can push it to forty?"
29	* In the one-shot manga ''If we're both still single by the time we turn thirty, should we get married? (Age 23)'', two friends at an after-party make this pact, as the title suggests. The second panel reveals that [[spoiler:they only waited ''three hours'' after the pact before they started dating and got married two years later]].
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33	* ''Fanfic/AdviceAndTrust'' has a variation in a (possibly non-canon) omake. [[OfficialCouple Asuka and Shinji]] both make each other promise that one of them is rendered comatose/dead/otherwise incapacitated, that the other would marry [[ThreesomeSubtext Rei]] instead [[DeadGuyJunior and name a child after them]].
34	* ''[[http://www.fanfiction.net/s/3530833/1/A-boy-in-the-hand A boy in the hand]]'' by [[http://www.fanfiction.net/~dogbertcarroll Dogbertcarroll]], a lighthearted story featuring a Ranma/Hotaru pairing, reveals in chapter 4 that Minako and Makoto have one of these--if they're both single by the time they're thirty, they'll marry one another. And Minako's willing to shorten the waiting period to thirty ''days''. Makoto's not particularly eager, but has decided that if it means keeping Minako from being alone, she's willing.
35	* An interesting variant is used in the ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' fanfic "[[http://www.fimfiction.net/story/106068/1/relax/intimacy Relax]]". The protagonist and the prostitute he regularly sees make plans to marry assuming that he survives the war and she hasn't been either moved away, fallen for somebody else, or been bought as a personal SexSlave. It's quite heartwarming.
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37	* Another ''WesternAnimation/MyLittlePonyFriendshipIsMagic'' fanfic, ''[[https://www.fimfiction.net/story/285463/mother-fluffer Mother Fluffer]]'', invokes the trope as a somewhat common practice, particularly [[TheBeard for gay stallions and lesbian mares]]. Twilight's parents married as part of such a pact (and forgot to mention it to Twilight's friends until after she is [[IncitingIncident seen kissing Gilda]]), and Rarity was also in one:
38	-->“... So, since Mom wasn’t able to find anypony either, she followed through with their agreement and married my Dad as soon as she turned thirty. They had Shining less than a year later, and they’ve been happily married ever since.”\
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40	“We got along really well, and neither of us were able to find anypony special, so we made an agreement to marry if both of us were single by the time we turned thirty five…” Remembering what else occurred, the mare exhaled disappointedly before including, “But… he came out of the stable and started dating Ace shortly thereafter, so the deal was sorta over.”\
41	After blinking a few times, Rarity’s eyes widened before looking back to Twilight, “Wait, that does mean the deal is off, right?”\
42	Twilight gave a small nod. “I’m pretty sure it does,” said the Princess in an attempt to settle the unicorn’s nerves. “It’s not like my Mom and Dad didn’t know about each other before they made their pact. They both knew about the other’s orientation since they were foalhood friends.”
43	* Brought up but ultimately averted in ''Fanfic/RomanceAndTheFateOfEquestria''. Twilight, still a BrokenBird from her previous relationship, isn't ready for another and wants herself and Donut Joe to be FriendsWithBenefits. As the hope of a relationship with her was the only thing keeping him in Equestria, he decides to go through with his plan to take a five-year journey with the travelling Bazaar, leading Twilight to propose this trope if they're both still single when the Bazaar returns to Equestria. Through further discussion, they realize that this trope would be too heartbreaking if only one of them was single, so Twilight instead suggests that they [[IWillWaitForYou remain faithful to one another]] and [[LongDistanceRelationship stay in touch]] for the next five years, and get together at the end no matter what.
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47	* A variation in the film ''Film/{{Gayby}}''. Jenn and her best friend Matt, who happens to be gay, made a pact in college that if Jenn didn't have a boyfriend and a baby by her thirties, Matt would be her baby daddy instead. The film is about them trying to fulfill that promise.
48	* ''Film/MyBestFriendsWedding'' subverts this trope. The main character and her best friend have one of these pacts. When he calls her as the deadline birthday is approaching, she thinks he’s calling to cash in on the deal--only to discover he’s actually calling to tell her he’s gotten engaged (to someone else) and to invite her to his wedding.
49	* ''Film/RomyAndMichelesHighSchoolReunion'' in a variation early in the movie Romy expresses that sometimes she wishes she was a lesbian, Michele her best friend suggests they try having sex to see if either of them is attracted to women - Romy turns her down saying the idea creeps her out... but to ask her again if they are both still single at 30.
50	* A variation in ''Film/WhenHarryMetSally'': Harry and Sally agree that if either of them ever don't have a date on a national holiday, they will take each other to whatever party they're going to as a date. [[spoiler:Sally eventually gets sick of this saying that she doesn't want to be Harry's "consolation prize". They get married about three months later when it becomes clear that they actually had feelings for each other.]]
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54	* Discussed and averted in ''Literature/ABrothersPrice'': The princesses are all very fond of their cousin, Cullen Moorland, and at least one of them would like have a fallback marriage pact with him. However, her sister points out he is too close a relative. As the the male GenderRarityValue could lead to inbreeding, they're much stricter about this than most real life societies.
55	* In ''Literature/{{Overenskommelser}}'' by Creator/SimonaAhrnstedt, Seth has one of these with his NewOldFlame Lily Tremaine. They're friends rather than lovers, but still decide to get engaged. But in the end, [[spoiler: they break it up when Seth is reunited with Beatrice (the story's female protagonist) and Lily finds true love with Alexandre (with whom Beatrice had a similar relationship).]]
56	* In Jonathan Tropper's ''This is Where I Leave You'', Judd and Penny made this pact during their college days. Sadly, this didn't carry over in [[Film/ThisIsWhereILeaveYou the film adaptation of the book]], making Penny (played by Creator/RoseByrne) look more like a ManicPixieDreamGirl rather than Judd's oldest and best friend, which is weird considering Tropper himself also wrote the screenplay.
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60	* In one episode of ''Series/{{Frasier}}'', it sounds like Roz is about to suggest one of these, and Frasier agrees to marrying her if they are both indeed single at the time. [[SubvertedTrope Turns out]] Roz was going to suggest [[SuicidePact they kill each other]] instead.
61	* ''Series/{{Friends}}'':
62	** When Chandler and Monica get engaged, the other girls start to feel insecure about their own love lives, both still being single at this point. However, Phoebe says she made a pact with Joey years ago that they would marry each other if they were both still single when they were forty. This inspires Rachel to ask Ross to make a similar pact with her. However, Ross claims he already made that deal years ago... also with Phoebe. Both men are indignant when they find out, while Phoebe claims she needs a backup for her backup. By the end of the episode, they all settle on Ross being Rachel's backup, and Joey being Phoebe's. By the end of the series, [[spoiler:it doesn't make much of a difference. Ross and Rachel finally decide they want to be together forever in the finale, and while Joey is still single, Phoebe has fallen in love with and married another man. Note that this is well before any of them have turned forty.]]
63	** A variant in another episode; Chandler suggests to Monica that if neither of them are married by the time they're forty, they could have a child together. (This was [[HilariousInHindsight before they were dating]]). It doesn't go like he expected.
64	--->'''Monica''': Why won't I be married when I'm forty?\
65	'''Chandler''': Oh, no, no. No. I just meant hypothetically.\
66	'''Monica''': Okay. ''Hypothetically,'' why won't I be married when I'm forty?\
67	'''Chandler:''' No! No, no--\
68	'''Monica:''' No, what is it? Seriously, is there something ''fundamentally un-marriable about me?''\
69	'''Chandler:''' U-Uhhh...\
70	'''Monica:''' ''Well?!''\
71	'''Chandler''': ''(fumbles at back)'' Dear God, this--this parachute is a knapsack! ''(Rolls off of chair)''
72	** In the third season finale, Monica is moping over her recent breakup and wonders if she'll ever find another boyfriend. Chandler offers to date her if she can't find anyone else. Monica laughs off the offer, so Chandler spends the rest of the episode trying to prove he's "boyfriend material". They eventually agree to drop the issue... and then a year later they sleep together in London and begin their romance.
73	* ''Series/{{Glee}}'': Towards the end of the series, twenty year old Artie and Tina decide that if they aren't married by the time they're thirty, they'll marry each other since they're best friends. In the WhereAreTheyNowEpilogue though, we see that in five years they end up dating again anyway.
74	* In ''Series/HappyEndings'', Penny is mentioned as having a marriage pact with ButtMonkey Shershow, who ends up getting married in the first season finale, prompting Penny to fake being engaged to not feel bad about her own singledom.
75	* Ted and Robin make one in ''Series/HowIMetYourMother'', which pretty much (but not entirely) marks the end of their WillTheyOrWontThey arc. Apparently the term "Ted & Robin pact" has entered the vernacular. This is discarded as of season 7, when Ted decides he wants to move on from Robin forever and can't do that while the possibility is still there.
76	-->'''Ted:''' I can't do that anymore. As long as the door's even a little bit open, I have this feeling that I'll just be waiting around to see if I win the lottery when you turn forty.
77	** However, in an ironic twist, [[spoiler:they do end up following through, if unintentionally, when Ted and Robin get back together in 2030.]]
78	* In ''Series/{{JAG}}'', Harm and Mac agree to have a child together if neither have a significant other some time in the future.
79	* ''Series/MurphyBrown'' has Murphy and Frank discuss the idea at a point when it seems like their romantic prospects are all but dead, but they let it drop and move on.
80	* In ''Series/{{The Office\|US}}'', Michael Scott suggests this to Pam (at least in terms of having a baby together) if they're still single in ten years. She shoots it down immediately... and, ever the salesman, he starts haggling. When he suggests that they do so if she's still single in ''thirty'' years, she [[OldMaid thinks about it for a very long time]] and agrees.
81	* A variant in ''Series/{{Psych}}'': In "A Very Juliet Episode," a flashback shows that Juliet made an agreement with a college boyfriend to meet up in 7 years, whether they are seeing other people or not, and catch up as well as see if they want to rekindle their relationship. When he doesn't show, Shawn and Gus find him, but things quickly become complicated as it's revealed that [[spoiler:he's in the witness protection program]]. Eventually, they decide to [[spoiler:part ways as friends, and meet up in one more year]].
82	* Carla Noll in ''Series/{{Reunion\|2005}}'' is Aaron's best friend and hidden secret admirer for years. She's happy to hear him say that if they're still single in a few years that they'll marry each other.
83	* On ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'', Kramer proposes to Elaine that they marry each other if they're both still single in ten years. She makes a counteroffer of fifty years (which he accepts).
84	* Hudson and Mrs. Bridges--the butler and cook--of ''Series/UpstairsDownstairs'' have this arrangement. In one episode Mrs. Bridges seems to have found true love and Hudson offers to release her from their friendly agreement. Unfortunately her beloved turns out to be a jerk.
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93	* Peejee proposes this to Davan in ''Webcomic/SomethingPositive'' as a way to guarantee neither of them grows old alone, which she is especially worried about as even their regular group of friends has largely gone their separate ways. Davan refuses, promising he'd never abandon her anyway [[spoiler:and shortly thereafter Davan meets Vanessa, whom he would eventually marry]]. It was the climax of a long bout of ShipTease the creator had [[TrollingCreator used to taunt the shippers who wanted Davan and Peejee together]], since them ''not'' getting romantically involved is one of the few iron-clad rules of the comic, promised to the real woman upon whom Peejee is based.
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97	* Parodied in [[https://twitter.com/TheAndrewNadeau/status/1432798962122035203 this]] [[Website/{{Twitter}} tweet]]: "Made a relationship pact with my best friend: If neither of us is married by the time we’re 40, we honestly tell each other what traits make us unlovable."
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101	* ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'':
102	** A variant: Stan asks his dentist to be his "back-up wife" in case he ends up outliving Francine. HilarityEnsues when Francine finds out and decides to get herself a "back-up husband" for the same eventuality, in the form of Stan's attractive younger colleague. Unfortunately, [[AxCrazy it turns out both would-be spouses are taking it a lot more seriously than either of the Smiths expected...]]
103	** An episode with a flash of the future reveals [[HoYay Steve and Snot]] made this pact with each other for if they were single by the age of 30. They both regret picking such a young age.
104	* ''WesternAnimation/BoJackHorseman'': When Todd breaks up with [[spoiler:Yolanda]], he notes how difficult it would be for them to find other asexual people to date, so he makes a pact to give the relationship another try if they're still single when they turn 100 years old.
105	* Something of a parody in ''WesternAnimation/DrawnTogether'': Captain Hero and [[PowerPerversionPotential Unusually Flexible Girl]] were FriendsWithBenefits in college and promised that if they were still single at 30, they'd get married. She [[NewOldFlame shows up]] to collect. Seems in actuality, she was deliberately holding out for him.
106	* In the Italian cartoon ''Il Figlio dei Venti'', Zefiro's love interest Sarah has a mix of this and ChildhoodMarriagePromise with her friend Etienne. They realized their parents want them together as kids, and agreed to enter a MarriageOfConvenience if they came of age and hadn't found love. [[PrivilegedRival Oswald]] intentionally gives Zefiro the wrong idea about the "engagement", and Zefiro believes for three episodes that he's lost Sarah forever before Etienne himself sets the story straight.
107	* Somewhat parodied in ''WesternAnimation/StarVsTheForcesOfEvil''. Rasticore says this to Miss Heinous [[spoiler:right before [[WomanScorned being killed by her]].]]
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