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6	[[quoteright:350:[[Creator/{{Banksy}} https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/an_elephant_in_the_room.jpeg]]]]
7	[[caption-width-right:350:{{Move along\|NothingToSeeHere}}, [[BlatantLies nothing to]] [[VisualPun see here.]]]]
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9	->'''Peter:''' The healthiest thing we can do is just ignore this and pretend it doesn't exist. Just like we do with the squid.\
10	''[zooms out to reveal a {{giant squid}} occupying most of the room, who angrily knocks the vase, cups, and cloth off the kitchen table]''\
11	'''Lois:''' Uh, earthquake?\
12	'''Peter:''' Eh, truck going by.
13	-->-- ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'', [[Recap/FamilyGuyS2E6DeathisABitch "Death is a Bitch"]]
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15	The "Elephant in the Living Room" (or "in the Corner", or "on the Sofa") is a large topic or problem which, though obvious to everyone, is deliberately or conspicuously ''not'' discussed. In most cases, this is used to create comedic tension; for example, when a character has a BigSecret he must struggle to divert conversation away from. In stark contrast, some cases of the trope create a ''tragic'' vibe, with an Elephant so awful that nobody can bring themselves to raise the topic.
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17	For cases where there is a subject within the series that simply cannot be questioned, or else the whole premise will fall apart, it's a case of why they don't JustEatGilligan. If a subject is addressed with some form of implausible explanation, that is most often a HandWave or AWizardDidIt; when the subject is simply never addressed at all, it is the Elephant in the Living Room.
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19	In politics, this trope is known as a ''Third Rail Issue'', after the third rail in a subway or light rail system which is held at high voltage to provide power to the trains that run on it (and hence would be unpleasant, if not suicidal, to touch). It refers to an issue which the electorate both feels strongly about, and is sharply divided on what to do about it; therefore, a compromise solution is unlikely to satisfy anyone and will just make everyone angry. As a result, no one attempts to do anything.
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21	In Anime, this trope is known as a ''[[MisterSeahorse Pregnant]] Manga/{{Ranma\|OneHalf}} Problem'', based on the following anecdotal discussion between the author/artist of ''Manga/RanmaOneHalf'' and a random fan at a convention:
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23	->'''Random Fanboy:''' What would happen if Ranma got pregnant as a girl, then changed back to a boy?\
24	'''Creator/RumikoTakahashi:''' I don't think about that, [[BellisariosMaxim and neither should you.]]
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26	Which just about sums up 90% of these examples. Cheers!
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28	Originated in an 1814 Ivan Krylov fable entitled "The Inquisitive Man", which tells of a man who goes to a museum and notices all sorts of tiny things, but fails to notice an elephant. Another common variant is the much more revolting "corpse at the dinner party."
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30	If this is the result of time travel, see CaughtInTheRipple.
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32	See BeastInTheBuilding if there is a literal elephant in the room or another large animal that doesn't belong indoors.
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34	See also UnusuallyUninterestingSight, TheDiseaseThatShallNotBeNamed, IgnoreTheDisability, SuspiciouslySpecificDenial, TalkAboutTheWeather.
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37	!!Example subpages:
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39	[[index]]
40	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/AnimeAndManga
41	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/ComicBooks
42	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/FanWorks
43	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/{{Literature}}
44	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/LiveActionTV
45	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/VideoGames
46	* ElephantInTheLivingRoom/WesternAnimation
47	[[/index]]
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49	!!Other examples:
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51	[[foldercontrol]]
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53	[[folder:Advertising]]
54	* One public awareness commercial has a man walking into an office accompanied by an elephant, with the nametag of "AIDS." Certainly a very effective message.
55	* An ad shows a couple's living room and points out new things, whenever the curtain is pulled back. The third time this happens a huge fluff dinosaur is standing behind them — the announcer points to a small cactus on the coffee table.
56	* A PSA about drinking and driving shows a party where the guests are drinking alcohol. One of the guests puts down his glass and grabs his car keys. The hosts ask him if he is OK to drive. He says that he is fine to drive, which triggers a large inflatable elephant to inflate in a manner similar to a car's air bag. The message is not to ignore drinking and driving like the proverbial elephant in the room.
57	* An ad for an asthma inhaler has a guy mentioning how trying to breathe when you have asthma can feel like this, then the camera pans back to show an elephant sitting on his chest. And then it shows the person going about his/her activities with the elephant following. It isn't doing anything, it isn't bothering anyone, it is just THERE. (The idea being that the inhaler isn't a cure for asthma, but it makes it possible to live with it.)
58	* A Doritos ad has an office worker with an elephant that keeps smacking his coworkers for trying to take some Doritos. At the end, one asks, "Are we gonna talk about this?" The worker simply replies "No."
59	* In 2023, Britain's TSB Bank introduced [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dVbuBEokRT0 Tiny the Elephant]], an adorable personification of this phrase. As a metaphor for people's financial worries, characters introduce her to others stating that they thought she'd be difficult to manage but once they got to know her - by sorting their money problems out with TSB - she doesn't seem so daunting after all.
60	[[/folder]]
61
62	[[folder:Comic Strips]]
63	* In ''ComicStrip/AlleyOop'', the character Oscar Boom went straight so many decades ago that many current readers weren't aware that he started out as a crook, and that he had never gone to trial or served jail time for his crimes. Recent storylines have finally addressed this.
64	* A literal one from ''ComicStrip/TheFarSide'', in which a detective accuses [[TheButlerDidIt the butler]] of goring and trampling the victim, ignoring the elephant in a trench coat next to him.
65	** Another strip has the elephant hiding behind a fairly small piece of furniture while the homeowners search for him.
66	** A similar strip features a wasp detective trying to figure out why there is a rock-shaped hole in the wasp nest that appears to have been punctured from inside the nest, somehow. Standing inside the nest is also a gigantic human child, whom everyone is ignoring (Larson apologies for the lameness of the joke in the strip's caption, saying "it was late and I was tired).
67	* [[https://www.facebook.com/maarivonline/photos/a.343062692466563.66376.340687592704073/639302126175950/?type=1 The 2015-01-25 daily illustration]] on ''Ma'ariv Online'' by Uri Fink (of ''ComicStrip/{{Zbeng}}'' fame) features one in a complex metaphor: UsefulNotes/BarackObama is speaking to Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu, the former remarking, "...When you visit there's always an elephant in the room," struggling to take up some room for himself against [[http://www.straightdope.com/columns/read/1481/why-is-the-republican-party-called-the-gop the elephant with a large R on its back]] sitting there, looking at him smugly.
68	* A ''Magazine/TheNewYorker'' panel featured an elephant lying on a [[FreudianCouch psychologist's couch]], complaining, "I'm right there in the room, and nobody notices me."
69	* Parodied by ''ComicStrip/PearlsBeforeSwine'' in one [[http://gocomics.com/pearlsbeforeswine/2009/01/13/ strip]]:
70	-->'''Rat:''' You know, every time someone discusses these issues, they always like to conveniently avoid the elephant in the room.\
71	'''Goat:''' You mean Social Security?\
72	'''Rat:''' I mean the elephant in the room.\
73	'''Tiny (the elephant):''' I like to discuss issues, too.
74	[[/folder]]
75
76	[[folder:Film — Animated]]
77	* ''WesternAnimation/IceAgeTheMeltdown'' features a literal example. Ellie is supposedly a possum. Who's 10 feet tall and weighs 7 tons. And has huge tusks. And is otherwise basically a mammoth. Her "brothers" Crash and Eddie, actual possums at that, don't seem to find this odd, except for her lacking the ability to sneak around. Ellie herself is in complete denial about possibly being a mammoth, in spite of Manny, Sid and Diego trying to convince her otherwise, and still tries to hide, even though no tree can hold her and no bush can cover her.
78	* ''WesternAnimation/Incredibles2'': Violet asks her parents if they're going to talk about "the elephant in the room," meaning the fact they were all arrested earlier in the day.
79	* ''WesternAnimation/KungFuPanda1'': The question of why a panda has a goose for a father is completely ignored by all of the characters. Creator/RogerEbert initially speculated that in this universe, it may be normal for members of one species to give birth to another -- but this was [[{{Jossed}} shot down]] when ''WesternAnimation/KungFuPanda2'' turned the reason why Po was adopted into a major plot point. Po's adopted status was already implied in the first movie, but the second movie reveals that his adopted father never wanted to bring up the subject because he was afraid Po would leave him to search for his true parents.
80	* ''WesternAnimation/TheLEGOMovie2TheSecondPart'' does the same joke as ''Zootopia'' with a visual elephant, who's a butler.
81	* A painful example in ''WesternAnimation/SpookleyTheSquarePumpkin'': Absolutely ''nobody'' mentions the fact that pumpkins are basically butchered on Halloween, which is said to be a holiday ''for'' pumpkins. It's really mostly just bad writing.
82	* ''WesternAnimation/{{Zootopia}}'': Since this is a WorldOfFunnyAnimals, it twists the trope into a LiteralMetaphor as a joke. During the morning bullpen briefing, Chief Bogo announces that the first order of business is to "acknowledge the elephant in the room," with a stern face while scanning the room. Despite the ominous introduction, [[BaitAndSwitch it turns out he's actually referring to an elephant officer in the room and wishes her a happy birthday]].
83	[[/folder]]
84
85	[[folder:Film — Live-Action]]
86	* Defied in ''Film/TwentyTwoJumpStreet'' regarding how [[spoiler:Schmidt slept with the Captain's daughter in college.]]
87	-->''"Now gentlemen, we're not gonna sit here..."'' [[ImpliedDeathThreat Puts handgun on the table, directed towards Schmidt]] ''"...and pretend there's not a big-ass elephant in the living room."''
88	* In ''Film/AnchormanTheLegendOfRonBurgundy'', Champ declares his love for Ron whilst the news team is in the car. Extreme awkwardness ensues as Ron and Brian concentrate ''very'' hard on ignoring him.
89	* A literal and classic example appears in the play (and later film) ''Film/BillyRosesJumbo''. Jimmy Durante's character is attempting to "sneak" an elephant out of his failing circus as the creditors close in. He and the elephant are of course promptly confronted by the sheriff and the repo squad:
90	-->'''Sheriff:''' ''Hey!'' Where are you going with that elephant?\
91	'''Durante:''' (Pauses with the elephant looming directly behind him, looks left, looks right) Elephant? ''What'' elephant?
92	* The page image is a Creator/{{Banksy}} piece, featured in his documentary ''Film/ExitThroughTheGiftShop''.
93	* There's a subplot in ''Film/{{Freaks}}'' in which Roscoe the clown, who is engaged to Daisy Hilton, is introduced to the fiance of Daisy's sister, Violet, and the line "You must come over and visit us some time," is used. At no point does anyone explicitly mention the fact that Daisy and Violet are joined at the hip. The whole thing is going to be very awkward.
94	* Invoked for laughs in ''Film/ItChapterTwo'': Richie comments on Ben's [[FormerlyFat significant weight loss]] by saying he'd like to address "the elephant ''not'' in the room."
95	* Beautifully played in Creator/NicoleKidman's ''Film/TheOthers2001''. Throughout the movie there is the palpable sense that ''something'' has happened in the house and that ''everyone'' knows something that they're not talking about - but what it is remains a mystery to each character and to the audience until the conclusion.
96	* ''Film/TheParty'' uses a literal example. The guests at a Hollywood party try to ignore the elephant brought home by the host's [[GranolaGirl hippie daughter]] and her friends. This becomes harder when they give the elephant a bubble bath in the pools spread throughout the house.
97	* In ''Film/ASimplePlan'', starring Creator/BillPaxton and Creator/BillyBobThornton, hunting buddies find a crashed plane full of money. [[spoiler: By the end of the movie, two out of the three are dead and the remaining one had to burn the money so he wouldn't be found. The ending narration mentions that he and his wife never mentioned the money again and tried to live a normal life, but the fear and greed and loss prevented them from ever being happy again.]]
98	* ''Film/YogiBear''. Like Scooby-Doo, almost everyone knows Yogi and Booboo are talking bears but no one cares that much. Well, the movie ''does'' imply that in-universe there is a species of bear that talks (albeit a very rare one).
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100
101	[[folder:Music]]
102	* The {{Vaporwave}} album ''Music/NewsAt11'' by 猫シ Corp. deliberately turns the [[UsefulNotes/TheWarOnTerror 9/11 attacks]] into this trope by sampling soundbites of morning news shows and commercials from September 11, 2001 just before the announcements of the attacks, circling around the happier and more banal moments immediately before anything is announced,[[note]]The closest it gets to referencing the attacks is when it uses a clip of ''Series/{{Today}}'''s Matt Lauer interrupting his interview with writer Richard Hack, cutting away as Lauer's voice says, "We want to go live--"[[/note]] and intersperses it with easy listening music. The second half of the album then completely sidesteps the rest of that morning by focusing squarely on distorted "Local on the 8's" music and soundbites from Creator/TheWeatherChannel.
103	[[/folder]]
104
105	[[folder:Podcasts]]
106	* Literally every episode so far of ''Podcast/KakosIndustries'' has a blatantly obvious one simply due to the existence of the main character, Corin Deeth III who is the heir of the aforementioned company. Despite being the third generation of his family, there is never any mention of his father. Ever. Though Corin possibly not knowing his dad or refusing to speak of him can be explained, it becomes quite the mystery when the ''grandfather'' never brings up his own son either.
107	* ''Podcast/WelcomeToNightVale'' has the Shape in Grove Park That No-One Acknowledges or Speaks About. When the Shape was to be removed from the park by the city council, local historians protested on the grounds that it was an important historical landmark. However, since the historians refused to either acknowledge or speak about the Shape, their protest consisted entirely of a series of gestures and grimaces.
108	[[/folder]]
109
110	[[folder:Radio]]
111	* In a round of ''Radio/ImSorryIHaventAClue'' in which one team are given a performance evaluation by the other, and have to justify the complete mess they made of their job, Tim Brooke-Taylor and Susan Calman are zookeepers, trying to explain to Graeme and Barry why they released all the animals and let them roam around. Eventually Graeme says "I'm very tempted to accept your apology but there's the obvious thing you haven't mentioned: The elephant in the room!"
112	[[/folder]]
113
114	[[folder:Tabletop Games]]
115	* In ''TabletopGame/{{Warhammer}}'', The Empire of Man asserts that there is ''[[SuspiciouslySpecificDenial no such thing]]'' as a race of man-sized rat people called the "Skaven", living in underground tunnels running throughout the Old World. They do ''not'' have advanced weaponry, specially-bred giant warrior rats, and abundant amounts of [[GreenRocks warpstone]]. They are ''not'' [[AlwaysChaoticEvil completely malicious]], nor are they plotting to destroy all non-Skaven races. They do ''not'' outnumber humans ten to one and rely on horde tactics. They do not [[ReligionOfEvil worship a malevolent god]] known as the Great Horned Rat. And finally, they do ''not'' often resurface in the dead of night to kidnap humans and drag them to their underground caverns. Only insane people (and dwarves) make such irresponsible and absurd claims. That said, one of the Skaven books states that there are two common lies about them: that they exist, and that anyone ''believes'' they don't exist. Most people just quietly nod to the Empire's claims and then go down into the basement with a sharpened sword nonetheless.
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117
118	[[folder:Theatre]]
119	* This is part of what makes ''Theatre/DeathOfASalesman'' so tragic: it's clear that Willy is ''not'' a great salesman, and that his constant praise of and making excuses for his sons has emotionally crippled them, leaving them unable to function as adults. But none of the Lomans are willing to admit the truth, and to say it ends badly is a massive understatement.
120	* This is a key plot point of Paula Vogel's ''How I Learned to Drive'', which explores the relationship between a teenage girl named L'il Bit and her uncle, who molests her throughout her preteen and teen years. Everyone in the family knows about what's going on, and nobody ever says anything about it, instead making excuses or blaming L'il Bit for the problem.
121	* Every single character (except the housemaid) in Eugene O'Neill's ''Long Day's Journey into Night'' has his or her own personal elephant: James Tyrone has his financially-crippling combination of buying worthless land and cutting costs on everything else; Mary has her morphine addiction; James Jr. has his long-held resentment over his status as TheUnfavourite and fear that his parents blame him for killing his infant brother by infecting him with measles; and Edmund (an AuthorAvatar of O'Neill himself) has his tuberculosis. The drama of the play centers on all four of these elephants being dragged into the light, examined, and ultimately left unresolved.
122	* PlayedForLaughs many times in ''Theatre/ThePlayThatGoesWrong'' and its sequels. TheShowMustGoOn, even if the key actor is unconscious, the props are missing, the cast's personal issues are aired on the green screen for everyone to see, the set has fallen down, and/or [[ExaggeratedTrope all of those things at once.]]
123	* In Christopher Diaz's ''Welcome to Arroyo's'', main character Alejandro is clearly going through horrible depression after the death of his mother, but he absolutely refuses to discuss either his mental illness or its root causes. It's what makes when he finally snaps and screams "BECAUSE OUR MOTHER JUST DIED!" such a WhamLine--he's finally able to talk about it, which allows him to begin healing.
124	[[/folder]]
125
126	[[folder:Visual Novels]]
127	* People in ''VisualNovel/AProfile'' make damn sure not to mention track to Masayuki or even hint about [[spoiler:Kaine's sex]] to him. Everyone knows, but mentioning it just won't turn out well. The first is subverted in the second route, however.
128	* Letting this trope take over can take the player off Heidi’s romantic path in ''VisualNovel/DaughterForDessert''. Some time after the protagonist goes to Whiskeyville, Heidi asks him if he wants a date, and the two of them can go to a restaurant. Their server is Blake, a handsome young man who filled in briefly for Kathy. The protagonist is insecure about the possibility that Heidi could potentially prefer Blake over him, and Heidi knows it. He can ask her about it; if he doesn’t, then Heidi will end things with him, but if he does, Heidi reveals an embarrassing secret about Blake that means she would never date him.
129	* In ''Franchise/AceAttorney'', supernatural abilities are real, and have been conclusively demonstrated. There's a well-known village of mediums, a magazine about the occult, and Phoenix's assistant has shapeshifted in open court multiple times. No one (besides the protagonists) wants to use those powers in the pursuit of justice, besides one guy who wanted to use the mediums to clear his name, and the one case 15 years before the start of the series where the police used a medium to solve a murder. And then apparently stopped forever because of the bad publicity. This is especially bizarre considering how corrupt and shady the justice system is. You'd think 15 years would be enough for someone to try again, unless they're doing it more quietly.
130	** By contrast, in the sister series ''VideoGame/GhostTrick'', [[spoiler:the government quietly investigated the "impossible cases" starting from the first one, and they know the person (or persons) responsible is trying to sell their power to a foreign government. Said foreign government tries to murder anyone who knows about said power, just to cover their trail.]]
131	* In ''VisualNovel/DoubleHomework'', Tamara asks Johanna to come to her room to help her with something, and she asks the protagonist to come in a few minutes before that, telling him that she wants to go all the way. It has the desired effect of having Johanna see them about to have sex (and then back off her own advances toward the protagonist), but things become so awkward between the three of them that none of them brings it up for a while.
132	* In ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'', Hisao invokes this trope by name in the early part of the game and, true to its theme, deals with the "elephant" throughout the game. It takes place at a school for students with disabilities/medical conditions, and he understands that it would be rude to ask/talk to someone about their disability/condition without the other person bringing it up themselves, even in situations where it's obvious.
133	* ''VisualNovel/IkemenSengoku'': In Sasuke's route, the main character realizes early on that Sasuke has to be spying for the enemy side but they avoid discussing it because she doesn't want to lose him as a friend and he doesn't want to put her in danger by telling her too much.
134	* Defied pretty much all the time in ''VisualNovel/{{Melody}}''. All of the characters are surprisingly willing to bring up their interpersonal issues to each other... that is, assuming that they’re not completely forgotten.
135	* ''VisualNovel/PrincessWaltz'': The game never bothers to address that [[spoiler:Chris and Arata, who get together regardless of your actions, aren't just KissingCousins, they're ''half-siblings'']].
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137
138	[[folder:Web Animation]]
139	* ''WebAnimation/FreedomToons'': Dr. Mac shows a SpreadingDisasterMapGraphic detailing terrorist attacks committed by islamists that overlaps with muslim-majority countries and countries with increasingly large muslim minorities. He then calls the reason behind the surge of attacks a mystery for the ages.
140	* From the Volume 4 episode ''Family'' from the ''WebAnimation/{{RWBY}}'' series, we have four people, including Yang, her father and two of the teachers she had at [[AcademyOfAdventure Beacon Academy]] carefully avoid the subject of [[spoiler:Yang's [[AnArmAndALeg missing arm]] despite the fact that a cybernetic replacement has been delivered]] until her father's BrutalHonesty brings the subject in the open. One of the teachers even puts a LampshadeHanging on it.
141	-->'''Doctor Oobleck''' "Are we finally talking about the [[HoldYourHippogriffs Goliath]] in the room?"
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143
144	[[folder:Webcomics]]
145	* In ''[[Webcomic/AbeAndKroenen Abe & Kroenen]]'', almost nobody mentions the fact that Kroenen was and is a Nazi assassin. For some reason his presumed Nazi beliefs never actually make an appearance, probably because that would be a good way to lose a lot of viewers.
146	** His Nazi affiliations are addressed in small ways, like claiming that V is so cool it almost makes him want him give up Nazism, or giving Abe a speech about staying strong, or else the sub-humans will over-run the earth, and no glory will be brought to the Fatherla-- at which point he wisely shuts up.
147	* ''Webcomic/ElGoonishShive'': Despite there being a {{masquerade}}, women having [[HyperspaceMallet the ability to summon hammers out of nowhere]] is accepted as normal and [[ReedRichardsIsUseless not thoroughly investigated to exploit its mechanism.]] The existence of the ability isn't remarked on by anyone besides the main characters once [[spoiler:it's lost]]. This is because the hammers were introduced long before CerebusSyndrome set in, and were only brought back as part of a CerebusRetcon regarding their origin.
148	* [[http://jonnycrossbones.com/ Jonny Crossbones]] is either an undead creature or wears a skeleton suit all the time. No one has noticed so far.
149	* ''Webcomic/MSPaintAdventures'' has the RunningGag [[http://mspaintadventures.wikia.com/wiki/What_Pumpkin%3F "What pumpkin?"]], where the "player" mentions the pumpkin on the "game screen" and by the next scene it's gone or replaced, often with the phrase "What pumpkin?" or the narrator acting as if the player has asked for the object that just replaced the pumpkin.
150	* ''Webcomic/PennyArcade'' did this at least twice, first in one strip where nobody mentions that Tycho is inexplicably a giant radish and then one where Tycho and Gabe are sitting on a giant Xbox playing with giant controllers (a jab at the original Xbox's enormous size).
151	** The radish strip has a real-world explanation (the artist[=/=]"Gabe" was screwing with the author[=/=]"Tycho"); most fans assumed that since the strip was about the guys confronting Div over his alcoholism, it was a representation of how drunk he was.
152	* Taken as a LiteralMetaphor -- Dum from ''Webcomic/DumCat'' gets crushed by it.
153	* ''Webcomic/SchlockMercenary'': Deliberately [[https://www.schlockmercenary.com/2019-11-12 invoked]] when Chuso discusses how he's not sure he can order Commodore Tagon, the current top officer of the Toughs, around on a mission. When the Commodore is right there. When the Commodore calls him on it, Chuso the uplifted ''elephant'' admits to it, and that it was "meta-humor, and mostly for me."
154	* In ''Webcomic/SomethingPositive'' it was a ''very'' long time before the fate of Monette's baby was addressed.
155	[[/folder]]
156
157	[[folder:Web Original]]
158	* [[https://babylonbee.com/news/boy-who-pointed-out-the-emperor-has-no-clothes-banned-for-misinformation This article]] from the Website/BabylonBee is yet another take on "The Emperor Has No Clothes", with [[UsefulNotes/JoeBiden Emperor Joseph I]] showing up naked one day. When a boy tweets that he's naked, every media and tech giant hound, harass, and gaslight him, claiming that the boy is far right and there is no naked man.
159	* The diary in ''Literature/DragomirsDiary'' is constantly depicted as having a simple, smiling face, and its expression changes as much as those of the human characters. It has also demonstrated the ability to move on its own, and has done so in front of Dragomir himself several times. Despite these oddities, most of the characters view the diary as a normal book, never questioning its silent personality. Now, if they were ever to find out that it can also write in itself...
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161
162	[[folder:Web Videos]]
163	* The Irish short film ''WebVideo/{{Aaron}}'' has the two brothers making awkward small talk and dancing around the fact that something clearly happened between them in the past. Later dialogue implies that things were so tense at home that Chris the older brother pretty much just left and never returned.
164	* A small but vocal portion of the ''WebVideo/GameGrumps'' fandom believes WebVideo/JonTron became this following his departure in 2013, with some going so far as to claim that he was ''fired'' (usually throwing the blame at either Danny or Arin's wife Suzie). Everyone involved denies this, saying the split was amicable, with Arin explaining that they didn't bring Jon up so much because they were trying to respect his desire to form his own identity separate from his work on ''Game Grumps''.
165	** This whole controversy has been referenced a couple of times on the show, most often by Danny himself. During the ''VideoGame/SuperMario64'' playthrough, he says he's aware of the conspiracy theories, but they never bothered him because they're completely untrue. During the new ''VideoGame/TheLegendOfZeldaALinkToThePast'' playthrough he addresses this trope by name when he mentions that Arin and Jon started the game but never finished it.
166	* When doing the {{George Lucas Altered Version}}s of the ''WebVideo/HistoryOfPowerRangers'' episodes on ''Series/PowerRangersWildForce'' and ''Series/PowerRangersNinjaStorm'', Creator/LewisLovhaug reluctantly addressed the issues with the respective series' Red Rangers (Rick Medina killing his roommate, and Pua Magasiva's mental issues that culminated in legal issues, including domestic abuse charges, and ultimately his suicide) that cropped up since the original videos' release.
167	* The Website/YouTube 'celebrity' [[https://www.youtube.com/user/MissHannahMinx Hannah Minx]] is considerably more "blessed" than your average woman, practically to the point where her videos have become less of a personal vlog and more geared towards direct FanService. Perhaps to deliberately invoke this trope, she ''never'' talks about her body in her videos, and the interviews she's done gloss over it as well. The only people who ''do'' mention her body is the video commenters, and they do it in almost every single comment in every video she makes. Is there a trope for [[FromTheMouthsOfBabes From The Mouth Of]] FanDumb?
168	* The ineffably brilliant video [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-4EDhdAHrOg "It's Not About the Nail"]], in which a woman snaps angrily at any suggestion that the pain she's experiencing just might have something to do with a giant nail that's been driven into her forehead.
169	* ''Louder With Crowder'': There's a sketch where Stephen and Not Gay Jared are outraged at Donald Trump making a bunch of crass jokes on tv while giving a wide berth to Harvey Weinstein literally forcing himself on someone in the same room.
170	* WebVideo/TheNostalgiaCritic:
171	** His review of ''Film/TheNeverendingStoryIITheNextChapter'' is interrupted by a [[VisualPun literal elephant in the room]], who makes Doug mention that Creator/JonathanBrandis, the film's star, committed suicide and prompting him to explain that he wasn't insulting the actor, but the poorly-written character.
172	** And then he returns in the second list of the Nostalgia Critic's Fuck-Ups, who makes him mention that he made a joke about autism in the [[Recap/TheNostalgiaCriticS2E52 review]] of ''Film/ErnestSavesChristmas'' (though the joke was edited out of that review because Doug didn't really think that joke was all that funny anyway).
173	** He briefly returned in the review of ''Film/It1990'', featuring Jonathan Brandis as a main character again. But since the Critic had already explained Brandis' suicide, he told the elephant to piss off.
174	** For a while, the elephant in the room was a gag of general use in Website/ChannelAwesome. It appeared in CR's Familiar Faces: Baby Doll (a crossover with the Critic) to mention then-recently deceased Gary Coleman, who suffered from the same condition that the character did. And it appeared again in Iron Liz's review of the TabletopRPG Iron Claw to mention that she was basically talking about a game of UsefulNotes/{{Furr\|yFandom}}ies.
175	** In the Nostalgia Critic's review of ''Anime/{{Ponyo\|OnTheCliffByTheSea}}'', the elephant very briefly resurfaces again when the Critic notes that part of the movie Japan is underwater, clearly a sign of being too close to the Tohoku earthquake/tsunami/nuclear disaster of 2011.
176	** In his "Top 11 [[WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons Simpsons]] Episodes", the elephant mentions a certain [[Recap/TheNostalgiaCriticS4E33 Simpsons-related outrage]] caused by his fans.
177	** He also appears at the beginning of the Critic's ''Film/{{Pixels}}'' review to remind him that the movie is ''extremely'' similar to [[Recap/FuturamaS3E18AnthologyOfInterestII an episode of]] ''WesternAnimation/{{Futurama}}''.
178	--->'''Elephant:''' (''singing'') Futuuuuuurrr-AMA! Futurama! Futurama! Futurama!
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185	* Any disaster that everybody knows is going to happen but is either unable or unwilling to do anything about. For instance, a cataclysmic earthquake is eventually bound to hit Tokyo or San Francisco, but that knowledge [[ConditionedToAcceptHorror doesn't stop the people in those cities from going about their lives]].
186	* In April 1967, Ron Jones, a history teacher at Cubberley HighSchool in Palo Alto, UsefulNotes/{{California}}, found himself struggling to explain to his class how the German people could have fallen behind [[ThoseWackyNazis the Nazis]] so easily. So he decided to show them personally, creating a student movement called [[http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Third_Wave_(experiment) the Third Wave]] (after the common belief that the third in a series of waves is the last and largest). The movement emphasized conformity and the greater good, treating democracy and individualism as [[DemocracyIsBad the downfall]] [[TheEvilsOfFreeWill of civilization]]. Jones started with things like drilling his class in proper seating and posture, before moving on to discipline, salutes (which conspicuously resembled [[PuttingOnTheReich the Nazi salute]]), and the transformation of himself into an authoritative figure. By the end of day three, over two hundred students had been recruited, membership cards were being given out, banners were flying, and Third Wave members were telling Jones when others were violating the rules -- all completely unexpected developments. Realizing that he was losing control of the Third Wave, Jones decided to end it. On day four, he announced that the Third Wave was actually part of a nationwide youth movement, and that tomorrow at noon, an assembly would be held in which the movement's national leader and presidential candidate would be revealed on television. At the assembly, the students were met only with an empty channel. Jones revealed a few minutes later that the entire Third Wave was an experiment in how fascism can so easily claim the hearts and minds of the masses (even those who had sworn "it can't happen here"), and played a film about UsefulNotes/NaziGermany. It's said that after everything occurred, it was so scarring that no one at the school even talked about it for three years, as the students realized that they had willingly gone along with ideologies similar to the Nazis with very little prompting. ''Film/TheWave1981'' details everything that was going on, with only slight exaggerations made to actual student behavior.
187	* The Ryugyong Hotel was possibly the most literal example of this trope. Made in UsefulNotes/NorthKorea, it was said when it was completed it would be the largest hotel in the world. However, after spending oodles on it (2% of the nation's entire GDP), construction stopped and the government pretended it didn't exist even though it dominates the [[https://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/thumb/c/cd/North_Korea_-_Pyongyang_%285015251483%29.jpg/1280px-North_Korea_-_Pyongyang_%285015251483%29.jpg city skyline and sticks out like a sore thumb]]. As of 2019, the government seems to have at least recognized its existence, as the building is being repurposed for LED display.
188	* A "[[http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html missing stair]]" refers to an abuser who gets away with their actions when other people who live with the abuser know how to avoid the abuse, while also having to instruct new people who enter into the situation on how to prevent it from happening to them. The metaphor refers to a missing stair in a house's staircase; everyone who lives there knows how to avoid the missing stair, but they also have to instruct guests in the house on how to avoid falling when the guest comes in. The term thus suggests that long-term abuse occurs when people would rather work around the abuser than confront them.
189	** The original context of the above-cited blog post is [[http://pervocracy.blogspot.co.uk/2012/04/scene-is-not-safe.html regarding abuse in kink communities]]. No one wants to admit that sometimes, the negative stereotypes regarding UsefulNotes/{{BDSM}} as an excuse for abusive behaviour can be true in specific cases. So people become reluctant to name and shame abusers, or kick them out of the community; instead, people will simply be advised that (for instance) John once added things to a scene that the submissive hadn't agreed to, or that Mary got convicted of rape that one time. If bad things then happen relating to John and Mary, well, no one could say they weren't warned. John and Mary continue to have access to new victims (who may or may not actually know about the missing stair in advance), while everyone else allows abusers into their shared spaces. The obvious solution would be to prevent John and Mary from coming back, but that would bring up the point that everyone else let John and Mary go on doing terrible things to people, [[SunkCostFallacy and they don't want to admit that they wasted all that time]].
190	--->Tons of people, including several in the leadership, instantly knew who I meant. The reaction wasn't "there's a rapist among us!?!" but "oh hey, I bet you're talking about our local rapist."
191	** Other JustForFun/{{egregious}} examples in recent memory include the Catholic Church's massive coverup of [[PedophilePriest child molestation]] and Creator/TheBBC's neglectful attitude toward Creator/JimmySavile's horrific sexual offences. Predictably, [[http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/2016/12/25/a-famous-porn-star-claims-she-was-raped-on-set-will-she-receive-justice.html this issue also exists]] in the UsefulNotes/{{pornography}} industry. Corey Feldman of ''Film/TheGoonies'' fame has likewise [[http://articles.latimes.com/2012/jan/08/business/la-fi-ct-hollywood-molesters-20120109 spoken]] [[http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/corey-feldman-pedophilia-problem-child-actors-contributed-demise/story?id=14256781 about]] the phenomenon in Hollywood, and he in turn faced criticism from his late costar Creator/CoreyHaim, who accused Feldman himself of letting an adult molest Haim. Then in 2017, a slew of accusations against [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harvey_Weinstein Harvey Weinstein]] (co-founder of Creator/MiramaxFilms and Creator/TheWeinsteinCompany) set off a chain reaction dubbed the [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Weinstein_effect Weinstein effect]], emboldening survivors of sexual violence to come forward with similar allegations against [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Me_Too_(hashtag)#Aftermath countless prominent men]] and expose the figurative elephants.
192	** According to [[http://www.stephengoldin.com/MZB%20Website/Excerpts%20from%20MZB%27s%20Depositions.html court transcripts]] and [[https://breendoggle.fandom.com/wiki/Breendoggle_Wiki communications between staff members]], convicted child molester Walter Breen's actions were this to his wife, Creator/MarionZimmerBradley, others within their social circle, and the organizers of science fiction/fantasy conventions. Bradley's [[http://www.theguardian.com/books/2014/jun/27/sff-community-marion-zimmer-bradley-daughter-accuses-abuse own]] abuse of her children would be this to [[http://www.stephengoldin.com/MZB%20Website/Excerpts%20from%20Elizabeth%20Waters%27%20Testimony.html others]] that knew them.
193	** For nearly a decade after the death of Music/MichaelJackson in 2009, the lingering question of whether or not he molested children was largely ignored by the media and general public. Indeed, posthumous projects spearheaded by Jackson's estate include such family-friendly projects as two [[Theatre/MichaelJacksonONE Cirque du]] [[Theatre/MichaelJacksonTheImmortalWorldTour Soleil]] tribute shows and a 2017 animated HalloweenSpecial. This elephant, however, would trumpet its trunk with a vengeance in January of 2019, when the documentary ''Leaving Neverland'' publicized new accusations against Jackson that spawned a much bigger public and media backlash than even the first accusation in 1993, to the point where Jackson was {{Unperson}}ed in a few places -- his music was dropped from several Canadian and New Zealand radio stations, and his appearance on ''WesternAnimation/TheSimpsons'', "Stark Raving Dad", became the show's only MissingEpisode. However, due in part to the efforts of his estate (which has sued HBO over the documentary and pushed new projects involving his work, such as a biopic and JukeboxMusical, into development/production) and the massive CultOfPersonality surrounding Jackson, he and his work remain popular.
194	* In 1937, during the UsefulNotes/SpanishCivilWar, many of the European powers met in Nyon, Switzerland to discuss a growing problem of SubmarinePirates and what to do about it. What nobody was willing to outright say was that the Italian Navy (in support of the Nationalists) was carrying out unrestricted submarine warfare against shipping from nations supporting the Republicans. Such attacks were an [[ThisMeansWar act of war]], and nobody was yet ready to fight [[UsefulNotes/WorldWarII the war that this would light off]], since [[UsefulNotes/WorldWarI all of the horrors of what happened last time]] were still fresh in their minds.
195	* Kurt Tucholsky (1890-1935) was a German-Jewish journalist, satirist and writer who remarked about the German people, "In Germany, the one who points at the dirt is seen as more dangerous than the one who makes the dirt." [[labelnote:Original German quote]]''„In Deutschland gilt derjenige, der auf den Schmutz hinweist, für viel gefährlicher als derjenige, der den Schmutz macht.“''[[/labelnote]]
196	* {{Invoked\|Trope}} almost word-for-word by [=UConn=] basketball superstar Paige Bueckers[[note]]pronounced "beckers"[[/note]] at the Huskies' 2024 senior night ceremony,[[note]]In US academic terminology, "senior" refers to a student in the final year of a four-year college degree program, which usually coincides with the fourth year of attendance. (It's also used for the final year of high school, but that's beside the point here.) As a general rule, college athletes are eligible to play on varsity teams for four years. A team's last home game of a season will invariably feature a pregame or postgame ceremony honoring its departing seniors.[[/note]] which immediately followed their last home game of the 2023–24 season.[[note]]More accurately, this was [=UConn's=] last ''regularly scheduled'' home game. Since the Huskies earned a top-four regional seed in the NCAA Division I women's tournament, they played their first two tournament games at home, winning both.[[/note]] For background, Bueckers was in her fourth season at [=UConn=] and thus eligible for the 2024 WNBA draft, but had two years of college eligibility remaining. The UsefulNotes/{{NCAA}} had granted all players in her COVID-disrupted freshman season of 2020–21 an extra year of eligibility, and she also missed all of the 2022–23 season to a torn ACL.
197	-->'''Bueckers:''' I know everybody wants me to address the elephant in the room. Unfortunately, this will... not be my last senior night here at [=UConn=]. I'm coming back!
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