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| 4 | [[quoteright:330:[[VisualNovel/{{CLANNAD}} https://static.tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pub/images/chaste_couple_4365.jpg]]]] |
| 5 | [[caption-width-right:330:Aww, they're waiting till marriage.[[note]]Wait a minute! They ''are'' married? And that means they can finally… [[HoldingHands hold hands?]][[/note]]]] |
| 6 | -> ''"It's easy to sustain a relationship when sex plays no part, and impossible, I have observed, when it does.''" |
| 7 | -->-- '''Creator/GoreVidal''' on the secret to his decades-long relationship with Howard Austen |
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| 9 | NoHuggingNoKissing is a trope where there is no true romance in the series except in the [[ShippingGoggles shipper's mind]]. Its distant cousin is the Chastity Couple, sharing the lack of physical affection of the former trope. But the partners in question ''are'' in a romantic relationship -- they simply are not doing what many audiences may expect. |
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| 11 | The Chastity Couple is a pairing where it is clear the characters are romantically involved but, for any number of reasons, they are never portrayed as sexually intimate. The interaction between the duo can at times be mistaken for an affectionate [[HeterosexualLifePartners platonic]] [[PlatonicLifePartners relationship]] instead of a romantic one. However, their love for each other is confirmed by either WordOfGod, [[LoveConfession their own confession]], or other [[EveryoneCanSeeIt helpful cues]], no need to get all perverted about it. Nevertheless, many fans will resort to RuleThirtyFour to make up for the lack of sex in canon. |
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| 13 | May accidentally be confused for ButNotTooGay, where the motivations for not showing intimacy are tied to issues of representing minority sexualities. Compare TheNotLoveInterest, HeterosexualLifePartners, and PlatonicLifePartners, which are all examples of close couples who are not romantically involved, and PseudoRomanticFriendship, where a pairing is very close and may well be romantic but isn't canonically sexual. |
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| 15 | Not to be confused with SexlessMarriage. In a sexless marriage, we're meant to understand that one or both partners ''do'' want to have sex, and the fact that they don't is connected with relationship problems and results in dissatisfaction. In contrast, a Chastity Couple is content to have a relationship that doesn't involve sex. Also not to be confused with SleepingSingle. In television from the 1930s to the 50s it was common to depict a husband and wife sleeping in their own single beds separated by a nightstand, but most of the time this was understood to be merely a convention of censorship. Its purpose was simply to avoid showing the couple in a suggestive situation, and other evidence such as pregnancy and kids could still indicate that their marriage wasn't actually chaste. |
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| 17 | Please avoid family shows in examples where possible as they are likely to tone down romance in general because of the intended audience. |
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| 19 | Contrast this trope with its inversion FriendsWithBenefits, in which two people have sex but not romance, while a chastity couple has romance without sex. Both are subtropes of RomanceAndSexualitySeparation. See also LetsWaitAWhile, where they're simply putting off the next step. Compare to CantHaveSexEver, where a couple might if they could but they can't so they don't. Naturally, most cases of PuppyLove are going to fall under this trope ([[TroublingUnchildlikeBehavior hopefully]]). |
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| 22 | !!Examples: |
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| 26 | [[folder:Anime & Manga]] |
| 27 | * This trope is very commonly seen in Creator/{{CLAMP}} series. There are a few exceptions (for example, Sorata and Arashi of ''Manga/{{X1999}}'', who actually get [[TheirFirstTime to the point of making love]]), but the large majority of couples in their various manga are very much chaste, with affectionate gestures generally being limited to the said hugging, hand-holding, and kisses that are ''not'' on the lips (cheek, forehead, hand, etc). |
| 28 | ** In ''Manga/TsubasaReservoirChronicle'', for all the trouble Syaoran goes through to save Sakura, a peck on the cheek is as close to a kiss as they're ever going to get. This is because Syaoran has the chivalrous mindset of "She's the princess, it's not my place." Sakura has to remind him, regularly, to call her by her name instead of her title and certainly doesn't seem to be a bold romantic type, given that she was incredibly flustered after giving Syaoran said peck. [[spoiler:the Syaoran and Sakura clones do get married and produce Tsubasa "Syaoran" after their reincarnation]]. |
| 29 | ** In ''Manga/{{Chobits}}'', Hideki is adorkably chaste around Chii, and if it weren't for the fact that she was a persocom, he'd be all over her. Ultimately, [[spoiler:Hideki learns that while she's human enough to love and be loved, and was even designed for it, touching her sexually would delete all her data and make her forget him. The ending implies that they continue on as a couple, quite happily in love even though they can't consummate it (while the anime implies that they'll be able to skirt around the problem due to being truly in love)]]. |
| 30 | * In the earlier mangas by Creator/MichiyoAkaishi, the protagonists (like Lundi and Jeudi from ''Manga/HonooNoAlpenRose'', or Mio and Shou from ''Manga/TenYoriMoHoshiYoriMo'') rarely go beyond kissing, though at least the first couple ''does'' get some naked IntimateHealing. Then it's averted in her later stories like Manga/PrivateActress where not only Shiho and Tomoomi are sexually active, but it's later shown that [[spoiler:Shiho's first time took place ''years before'' with her first boyfriend and client, Naoya, [[TheLostLenore who later died]].]] |
| 31 | * Keiichi and Belldandy from ''Manga/AhMyGoddess''. They're in love with each other, have been together for over a year in-universe, and even live together, yet the relationship has barely moved beyond the hand-holding phase. It's AnAesop in the series: It is possible to have a romantic relationship without having sex, and the relationship may even be better without it. In addition, Belldandy is not entirely sure she's ready for physical intimacy, and Keiichi is [[NiceGuy too gallant]] to take advantage of her in the moments she seems to be willing, knowing it's not really what she wants. [[spoiler:Then in chapter 285 it is revealed that Keiichi had his libido/desire for Belldandy suppressed (without his consent or knowledge) by Heaven]], so their chastity turned out to be a ''huge'' plot point. |
| 32 | * Justified in ''Manga/CheerfulAmnesia''. Arisa was always the one that took the lead in her relationship with Mari, so her amnesia means that both of them are at a loss for how to be intimate. |
| 33 | * Pictured above: In the anime adaptation of ''VisualNovel/{{Clannad}}'', Tomoya's relationship with Nagisa is strictly hugging but no kissing. Nothing beyond hand-holding is ever shown on screen (and they're usually very awkward about it) and they don't even sleep in the same futon, but in one scene, [[spoiler:Nagisa suddenly blurts out, explicitly and ''to her parents,'' that they've been having sex (which they had to have been because they have a daughter together), and this causes her father to [[BoyfriendBlockingDad freak out]] on Tomoya ("You bastard, [[SubvertedTrope CONGRATULATIONS!]]")]] This is downplayed in the visual novel, where, while nothing is actually shown, intimacy between the two is implied on multiple occasions, and they share the same futon after marriage. |
| 34 | * ''Anime/EurekaSeven'' has the relationship between Renton and Eureka. They are quite obviously in love with each other, but between fighting a war, various arguments, and the fact that her adoptive kids don't like him at first, among other reasons, they don't even kiss until the series finale, and that requires an absurd amount of effort on Renton's part to make possible. Keep in mind that Renton is only fourteen and Eureka probably isn't any older. |
| 35 | * Nasa and Tsukasa from ''Manga/FlyMeToTheMoon'' rarely do anything more than kiss, due to the fact they got [[FourthDateMarriage married after their second meeting.]] They both want to go further eventually, but neither want to rush things and they're perfectly content just keeping each other's company. |
| 36 | * ''Manga/FullmetalAlchemist'': |
| 37 | ** Ed and Winry are very obviously in love in the manga, yet they never kiss and barely even hug. Even after [[spoiler:Winry accepts Ed's WackyMarriageProposal]], the only thing we get is a hug. [[spoiler:They do have children together later, so at least we know at some point things change between them.]] |
| 38 | ** Roy Mustang and Riza Hawkeye have such a professional relationship that it's really hard to determine if they are really just work partners who care a big deal about each other or if maybe there's something more between them. After the end of the series, WordOfGod has confirmed that they are indeed in love with each other, but are unable to marry because of military regulations. |
| 39 | * ''Franchise/{{Gundam}}'': |
| 40 | ** ''Anime/MobileSuitGundamSeed'': Kira has a non-sexual romance with Lacus, but he is a weird case because he lost his virginity, onscreen, to resident {{Yandere}} Flay Allister, yet shares nothing more than chaste kisses and embraces with Lacus. Then again, the very troubled nature of Kira's relationship with Flay could be ''exactly'' why he and Lacus have a romantic-yet-not-sexual (as far as we know) relationship. Interestingly enough, the two are often portrayed in openings naked (especially when they are embraced and posed in a rather sexual manner in the final opening of ''SEED Destiny''), but given Japan's view of nudity as a sign of purity, it's more of a highlight of the quality of their relationship than anything sexual happening between them. They grow out of this by the end of [[Anime/MobileSuitGundamSEEDFreedom the movie]]. |
| 41 | * In ''Anime/HeroicAge'', the relationship between Age and Dianeila is made extremely obvious over the course of the series, though they never even kiss. |
| 42 | * ''Manga/{{Inuyasha}}'': |
| 43 | ** Sango and Miroku are romantically interested in each other from an early point after they first meet, and it becomes a relationship that is complicated by his [[ChivalrousPervert womanising]]. However, their romantic interludes don't involve sexual activity (even though he's implied to have engaged in the act, or almost so, with any number of other women) and rarely even involve physical touch. Even after they become engaged, this remains the case and, towards the end of the manga, when Miroku's life is on the line and he's unconscious, Sango requests privacy before she gives him a kiss goodbye. [[spoiler: In the epilogue, Sango is giving birth for the second time.]] |
| 44 | ** Inuyasha has this relationship with both Kikyou and Kagome. He was technically engaged to marry Kikyou before her death, but it's implied that physical intimacy wasn't involved in their relationship (due to Kikyo's duty as a priestess). After Kikyo comes back to life, Inuyasha and Kikyou kiss intimately early in the manga, and on one occasion when Kikyou is badly injured, Kagome notices that it looks like she and Inuyasha desperately want to hug each other (there are people around, so they don't). By the same token, Inuyasha and Kagome aren't physically intimate beyond occasional hand-holding or, on one occasion when Kagome thought Inuyasha had died, a tight embrace. It's led a lot of the fandom to believe Inuyasha and Kagome aren't an official couple until the end of the story, whereas in the manga, they're officially considered a couple by everyone (including themselves) shortly after Kouga's first arrival in the story.[[note]]His issue is that [[PillarsofMoralCharacter he has formal obligations to two women he genuinely loves]] and, until freed from his obligation to Kikyou, he cannot move on with Kagome even though she's his girlfriend. As he once says to Miroku, it would be easier if he could just have both women, an idea the two women themselves would never approve of.[[/note]] However, chastity is very much the name of the game for both relationships, to the point of Inuyasha and Kagome never sharing a kiss in the manga (they do in the anime). |
| 45 | * The ''Franchise/LyricalNanoha'' series is chock full with [[PseudoRomanticFriendship girls displaying varying degrees of affection towards each other]] but rarely does any character engage in explicitly romantic behavior, even the canon couples. Hayate is something of an exception; it's hard to take her [[SkinshipGrope thing for Signum's breasts]] as anything ''but'' sexual. |
| 46 | * ''Manga/MyBrideIsAMermaid'': Nagasumi and Sun are engaged very early on, but for the bulk of the series, they're no more intimate than hugging or HoldingHands. Even after Sun moves into Nagasumi's house, they sleep in different rooms. |
| 47 | * Takeo from ''Manga/MyLoveStory'' insists that he will wait until Yamato is older to kiss her or even hold hands with her. Yamato is less than pleased about this because she is [[CovertPervert as hormonal]] as is expected for her age but is afraid Takeo will stop liking her if he learns she isn't as "pure" as he thought. They eventually start holding hands [[spoiler:and have their FirstKiss]] but their relationship is mostly chaste. |
| 48 | * ''Necromance'' has a {{justified|trope}} example. The main couple, Shibuki and Safina, become engaged in the first chapter, but there's a big problem: Shibuki was killed and became an undead because of the curse of the [[MaouTheDemonKing Demon King]] and because Safina is the Grand Saint, Shibuki can't touch her without getting badly burned. Both ''really'' wish they could be physically intimate, especially Shibuki. However, when they do get a brief chance to spend the night together thanks to an anti-holy element bracelet, they don't go beyond hugging and kisses on the cheek because the church taught Safina that any sexual act before marriage is "corrupt". Shibuki decides to hold back, even though he admits he does want to make love to his fiancée very much. |
| 49 | * Haru and Tsurezure from ''Manga/{{Ojojojo}}''. It took them several weeks to reach the HoldingHands phase, and even longer to switch to a FirstNameBasis. Both of them want to go further, but their nervousness makes it incredibly difficult, [[spoiler:although they are shown to have a kid in the epilogue]]. Akane even lampshades it when reading a magazine article about getting a boyfriend: |
| 50 | -->'''Akane:''' Compared to this, those two are really slow. |
| 51 | * Patema and Age from ''Anime/PatemaInverted'' are never shown kissing or even hugging except when necessary for survival. This doesn't hinder the author at all showing just how strong and deep their love becomes. |
| 52 | * Let and Julia are the first, and for a long time only, OfficialCouple in ''Anime/RaveMaster''. This is mostly understood by the fact that Let once calls Julia his lover. Other than one kiss for IntimateHealing purposes, they act more as close friends than romantic interests for one another. |
| 53 | * In the ''AudioPlay/SaintBeast'' anime there are at least two {{Official Couple}}s whose romantic involvement is pretty well spelled out but are never portrayed as more physically intimate than hugging. The fact that they're [[FantasyKitchenSink angels]] may have something to do with the non-sexual portrayal. |
| 54 | * Simon and Nia in ''Anime/TengenToppaGurrenLagann'', despite all the other blatant fanservice. They've had just one on-screen kiss during their wedding in the final episode [[spoiler: before Nia's death]], but before that we barely see them hugging or holding hands even though they have been in a relationship for years now and get engaged at the beginning of the TimeSkip. |
| 55 | * Kirishima Haruto and Mishima Asuka of ''Manga/ATownWhereYouLive'' were in a relationship that bordered on innocent since they were neighbors, for ''two years,'' and yet they never went beyond the occasional kiss. This is not implied either; it was outright stated by the couple. |
| 56 | * As the series goes on and the characters get older this becomes more apparent in ''Manga/WanderingSon'': |
| 57 | ** The closest we get to anything between Nitori and Anna is Anna inducing an erection in Nitori while massaging her. Anna says she has dirty thoughts about Nitori and Nitori has {{Erotic Dream}}s about Anna, but nothing actually happens. One of the last chapters has a seventeen-year-old Nitori lamenting that she hasn't had sex with Anna but wants to. At that point, they had been dating pretty much constantly since Nitori was in middle school. It's not due to censorship either, as Shimura's other manga don't shy from nudity and sexual situations. (To be fair, Anna is a popular idol so [[ContractualPurity her image would take a hard blow.]]) |
| 58 | ** Maho, who is older than her sister by a year and has been dating her boyfriend even longer than Nitori's been dating Anna, makes a comment once that she hasn't had sex with Seya yet. |
| 59 | * ''Anime/YuGiOh'' has three different love triangles and one pretty blatant couple, and there's barely any ''hugging''. |
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| 62 | [[folder:Comic Books]] |
| 63 | * ''ComicBook/SpiderMan'': In the ''ComicBook/TheAmazingSpiderManJMichaelStraczynski'' storyline ''ComicBook/SinsPast'', Peter is attacked by two people claiming to be his and Gwen Stacy's children. One of the reasons this doesn't make sense is, as Peter points out, that he and Gwen never had sex. |
| 64 | * The characters in ''ComicBook/ArchieComics'' are like this. They kiss often and drool over each other but actually being sexual is never implied. At least one story actually dealt with this. An issue from the 1970s had Betty doubting her chastity abilities around Archie. It's probable no sex is involved due to the BettyAndVeronica love triangle. Both girls date Archie at different times and adding sexual aspects to it would both complicate the triangle and create even heavier fidelity issues. |
| 65 | * ''ComicBook/Robin1993'': Tim Drake has several girlfriends over the course of the books (Ariana, Stephanie Brown, Zoanne, and Tam) but it's made clear he never sleeps with any of them, nor is he really interested in doing so. He and Steph finally decided to have their first time together in her ''ComicBook/{{Convergence}}'' tie in but they both find they're too injured to do more than cuddle. Finally averted in ''ComicBook/DetectiveComicsRebirth''. |
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| 68 | [[folder:Fan Works]] |
| 69 | * Invoked in ''Fanfic/AdviceAndTrust''. Ritsuko deliberately wanted to take things slowly with Maya since she had just come out of an emotionally abusive relationship with Gendo. They do flirt a lot though ([[MundaneUtility by leaving messages in the MAGI changelog]]). |
| 70 | -->They hadn’t slept together, kissed, or even so much as held hands, but she already felt a dozen times closer and happier being with Maya than she had in years pursuing Gendo. She felt positively giddy at times. Maya wanted her just for being her. Maya wanted to hold her, say her name softly, and wake up next to her. Without either of them saying three little words, without a kiss or anything, they were… a couple. |
| 71 | * In the ''Fanfic/AvantasiaProtagAU'' series, Gabriel and Elderane are this. They hardly act any different after they confess their love than they did before it, which includes nothing further than holding hands and (completely clothed) cuddling. They don't even kiss. [[WordOfGod The author]] confirms they are romantic UsefulNotes/{{asexual}}. |
| 72 | * Downplayed in ''Fanfic/BeyondTheStorm''. [[VideoGame/LifeIsStrange Max and Chloe]] say "I love you", routinely share a bed and make out, but have not had sex (yet) as Max has some inhibitions regarding sex. [[spoiler:In Chapter 15, they explicitly discuss sex and what they would both like to do, indicating that their relationship will probably become sexual in the near future]]. |
| 73 | * ''Fanfic/FuzzyMemories'' has [[KindheartedSimpleton Gareth]] and [[EmotionlessGirl Violet]], who are in love but rarely ever show any kind of intimate moments with one another. Gareth even mentions later on that while they don't act like a "normal" couple, he does truly see her as the best thing to ever happen to him. |
| 74 | * Even after Naruto and Hinata become a couple in ''Fanfic/AGrowingAffection'', they don't have sex until after they are officially engaged, almost a year later. Tenten even razzes Hinata about this. |
| 75 | * Subverted in ''Manga/RGVeda'' fanfic ''Fanfic/HeartbeatOfTheWarGod''. Ashura and Yasha are wed by Gandharva rite. They hold hot make-out sessions and it's heavily implied that Ashura might touch Yasha, but they haven't consummated their relationship in the "proper" way as Ashura is [[NoBiologicalSex sexless]] and Yasha is afraid of hurting his lover. |
| 76 | %%* In ''Franchise/HarryPotter'' fanfic ''Fanfic/TheMarriageStone'', [[SlashFic Harry and Severus]] fall under this trope due to their gradually growing relationship under an ArrangedMarriage. |
| 77 | * ''Fanfic/TheMeaningOfOne'' has Harry and Ginny soul-bonded to each other, experiencing everything the other does; it's generally assumed (including by themselves) that they'll marry someday, and they share a bed out of necessity (one of the side effects of the bond is that they find it extremely difficult to fall asleep unless they are making skin-to-skin contact). But being only between ten and twelve years old, they don't go beyond kissing. |
| 78 | * Ryuko and Mako in ''Fanfic/NaturalSelection'' never engage in anything more risqué than cuddling and kissing. Junketsu even questions Ryuko on why she hasn't consummated the relationship, since it's rather at odds with [[VillainousIncest the Kiryuin mentality]] that she was raised with. |
| 79 | %%* Much of the "gen" fiction produced by the ''Series/StarskyAndHutch'' fandom falls under this trope. |
| 80 | * Zig-zagged in the ''VideoGame/DragonAgeInquisition'' fanfic ''Fanfic/WalkingInCircles'', Solas and Evelyn were pretty sexually active before they escaped from the Ostwick Circle but they become this trope after they leave it. During the first two years, it’s because she is [[spoiler:a Tranquil who can’t give consent]] and Solas has lines that he won’t cross so they only touch when he needs to guide or take care of her. They don’t do it for months after she recovered and got the mark either despite having no problems hugging, kissing, or even sleeping in the same bed as the act of sex reminds Evelyn of her trauma during the uprising and her being afraid to give up control to someone else. They eventually have enough confidence to gradually move away from this trope, and finally break it in chapter 32, after Evelyn has mentally recovered enough. Solas still treads very carefully when they do it, though. |
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| 83 | [[folder:Films -- Live-Action]] |
| 84 | * In ''Film/EatingRaoul'', the main couple, Paul and Mary Bland, are portrayed as this. And the introduction of the sexy thief Raoul puts their situation into turmoil. |
| 85 | * In ''Film/JEdgar'', J. Edgar Hoover and Clyde Tolson are portrayed as being in a romantic relationship but never having sex. The pair share [[BigDamnKiss one kiss]] during a [[SlapSlapKiss brutal physical fight]] which occurred after Tolson confessed his love for Edgar, who only [[AnguishedDeclarationOfLove reciprocates]] once Clyde is out of the room. Otherwise, the raciest their relationship gets is holding hands, due to Edgar's deep self-hatred. |
| 86 | * ''Franchise/MarvelCinematicUniverse'': Nat and Bruce. Nat can't have kids and Bruce can't get excited, and the couple-y dynamic between them is so thick that Laura Barton's first question when the Avengers drop in is "how long has that been going on?" |
| 87 | * ''Film/StandByMe'': Billy mentions that his Catholic girlfriend Connie lets him grope her breasts but refuses to have sex with him. |
| 88 | * In ''Film/TerminatorDarkFate'', Carl and his wife Alicia have never had sex, according to him, because she was put off sex by an abusive former partner and he's asexual [[spoiler:and it means that she won't notice that he's a robot]]. |
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| 91 | [[folder:Literature]] |
| 92 | %%* Creator/MaryRenault's novels have a lot of this, as her characters, like her, tend to admire the philosophy of Plato. Notably, Laurie and Andrew in ''The Charioteer'' and Lysis and Alexias in ''The Last of the Wine'', as well as, of course, Plato and Aster in the latter book. |
| 93 | * ''Literature/{{Baccano}}'': |
| 94 | ** Nice Holystone and Jacuzzi Splot are an in-universe version. They were in a relationship for ten years before they even kissed (and that was only because [[NowOrNeverKiss Jacuzzi expected he might die]]). |
| 95 | ** ''Bullet Garden'' reveals that Firo finally managed to [[FromRoommatesToRomance work up the courage to propose to Ennis after fifty years of living together platonically]]--after which, they proceeded to spend two ''more'' decades [[SexlessMarriage without consummating their marriage]]. The rest of the Martillos find this absolutely ridiculous, ("At least tell me they ''kissed''.") and decide to get them an expensive room on a cruise liner solely because they think [[YouNeedToGetLaid both of them are in such desperate need of a lay]] that it's just getting ''sad.'' The two return from the trip as virgins. |
| 96 | * Shakuntala and Rao are this in the first part of the ''Literature/BelisariusSeries'', as pressing the matter would offend Rao's trust with her father, not to mention damaging her usefulness in an ArrangedMarriage. And of course because she is a princess and he is a minor noble. |
| 97 | * ''Literature/{{Carrie}}'''s parents intended this for their marriage, as they believed that if they were pious enough, God would give them a child without them having sex. Then Ralph got drunk one night, changed his mind about that, and forced the issue with Margaret, and nine months later, Carrie was born. |
| 98 | * Jinto and Lafiel from ''Literature/CrestOfTheStars'' are always together, flirt and poke fun at each other like a couple would, are deeply connected on an emotional level, and have even agreed to stay that way for their entire lives (or at least [[MayflyDecemberRomance for as long as possible]]), and yet the reader/viewer never sees them do more than hug each other, and even that is ridiculously rare. |
| 99 | * David and Frank in ''Literature/DavidBlaize''. Frank is attracted to David and has been sexually involved with other boys before, but when Frank nearly makes a pass, David is deeply disturbed; this shakes Frank and makes him realise the 'error' of his ways, and the two boys have a chaste romantic friendship. This book was published in 1916 and the author, the son of a priest, seems sincerely to have believed that homosexual sex was wrong. |
| 100 | * For a short moment, [[ChasteHero Sousuke]] and [[TwiceShy Kaname]] of ''Literature/FullMetalPanic'' eventually reach the hand-holding stage (after a ''long'' time). But until [[spoiler:the epilogue]] there is no other form of physical affection. It gets agonizing. |
| 101 | * Mikiya and Shiki in ''Literature/TheGardenOfSinners'' are obviously in love, but are chaste to the point of one time sleeping in the same bed with their clothes on and not doing anything. In the final light novel, [[spoiler:it's revealed that in the distant future, they have a daughter named Mana, so at some point, things change between them.]] |
| 102 | * ''Brightly Burning'', a standalone novel in the Literature/HeraldsOfValdemar series, features Lavan and his lifebonded soulmate Kalira. Their relationship is entirely chaste... though this may have something to do with the fact that Kalira is a [[BestialityIsDepraved horse]]. She's [[OurAngelsAreDifferent a kind of angel]] with a human mind and soul, yeah, but a horse. However, they do flirt with each other and Kalira tells Lavan that if he was a stallion she'd want him. |
| 103 | * Balthamos and Baruch from ''Literature/HisDarkMaterials'' have a very passionate but not really sexual relationship going on, probably relative to the fact they don't have proper physical forms. |
| 104 | * ''Literature/TheHungerGames'': In ''Literature/CatchingFire'', Katniss and Peeta are a straight example of the trope, as their love affair and subsequent engagement is very public, but initially only for show. While Peeta spends many nights in Katniss' bed, there's no mention of the two of them so much as kissing during those nights. During the course of the book, Katniss begins to fall in love with Peeta and they engage in a [[TheBigDamnKiss passionate make-out session]] [[BeachKiss on the beach]], but that's as far as it goes before they are separated. It's subverted in ''Literature/{{Mockingjay}}'', but due to how [[TheirFirstTime the first time they make love]] [[GRatedSex is merely alluded to]], there are fans who believe they didn't have sex until deciding to start a family--fifteen years into their relationship. Has been {{Jossed}} already, but there are fanfictions out there that depict TheirFirstTime as happening after a decade and a half. |
| 105 | * In ''Literature/InTheLastDays'', Valentin and Lydia are in love but decide to maintain a chaste relationship. First, since the world is ending, they feel it's no longer the time to think about sex, second, TheAntichrist's ReignOfTerror is underway and they don't want to have children in such a situation. |
| 106 | * ''Literature/TheKeptManOfThePrincessKnight'': Volume 1 reveals that, all innuendos and rumors to the contrary, the [[TheMistress "kept man"]] Matthew has never actually consummated with Arwin the Crimson Princess Knight despite having been her physically affectionate housekeeper and confidant for over a year when the series begins. In fact, Arwin is still a virgin. |
| 107 | * In the Literature/LeftBehind book ''Kingdom Come'', Buck and Chloe Williams stay together as a couple after they're resurrected in order to be parents to their son Kenny, but because in their new resurrected forms they could no longer have sex with each other, much less even have the desire to, they're fine with the arrangement as long as they know that the Lord will satisfy them eternally. |
| 108 | * Georges and Alexandre in ''Les amitiés particulières'' (''Special Friendships''), published in the 1940s but set earlier. Mind you, they are only 14 and 12 respectively. They are caught tussling in the hay and separated, but the author said that had they not been caught, they would have ended up getting up to some hanky-panky in that scene. Georges, he said, had already started to masturbate but Alexandre hadn't yet; you become like what you love; Georges remained 'pure' initially because Alexandre was, but Alexandre would eventually have become 'impure' because Georges was. |
| 109 | * Lincoln Rhyme and Amelia Sachs from the ''Literature/LincolnRhyme'' novels. Mostly because he's paralyzed from the neck down, but even beyond that they aren't very affectionate people. One book makes it clear that Lincoln is still capable of the physical part of sex (and as a result capable of fathering children), but seeing as he can't feel it they don't bother. |
| 110 | * Carleton and Allen in ''Lord Dismiss Us'' are deeply in love but decide that they "must never do anything". This is the 1960s, after all, and they are idealistic schoolboys. |
| 111 | * ''Literature/{{Maoyu}}'': The Hero and the Demon Queen are a borderline example since their arrangement of "belonging to each other" makes them husband and wife in all but name. It's a bit enforced on his side because he's a CelibateHero who, despite being genuinely attracted to the Demon Queen, wants to avoid a MayflyDecemberRomance. As for her, it's clear that she does want to be more affectionate, but she's also very innocent and as inexperienced as him. |
| 112 | * ''Literature/{{Maurice}}'' and his boyfriend Clive never go any further than hugging or kissing (and a harmless bit of caressing) each other which is partially justified by the restrictions of [[TheEdwardianEra the time they live in]], partially by Clive's firm support of Plato's philosophy about same-sex relations. Maurice appears to wish for a bit more intimacy at first, but he settles fairly comfortably with Clive's view. |
| 113 | * ''Literature/{{Mistborn}}'' |
| 114 | ** Sazed and Tindwyl deeply care for one another but never engage in sexual activity. This makes sense, seeing as Sazed has been a eunuch since birth while Tindwyl is an old woman whose entire fertile life was spent bearing as many children as possible. |
| 115 | ** Vin and Elend come across this way too, at least initially. They get past it pretty quickly after [[spoiler:they're married]]. |
| 116 | * In ''Literature/RedeemingLove'', Michael and Angel do not have sex for the first several months of their marriage. Angel offers, [[ReadyForLovemaking quite forwardly]], but Michael refuses to allow it because he knows Angel has a strong emotional disconnect with sex due to her upbringing as a prostitute. |
| 117 | * In ''Sidewinders: Bleeding Texas'', ThePeepingTom follows a pair of StarCrossedLovers (his employer's daughter, and a grandson of their neighbor and rival) hoping to spy on them having sex and finds this trope at play instead. |
| 118 | --> Samantha and the Creel boy hadn't done anything except kiss and talk. [[ExactEavesdropping Considering what they'd talked about, Holland couldn't be disappointed about that]]. |
| 119 | * In ''Literature/TheShipWho'', the relationship between [[BrainsAndBrawn shellpeople and their brawns]] is compared in the very first story to a marriage, [[MayflyDecemberFriendship one of many the shellperson will enter]], and this relationship often becomes quite close and devoted with romantic aspects. Brainships and brawns CantHaveSexEver because cracking open the shellperson's life support capsules to expose the [[ManInTheMachine stunted, paralyzed human within]] ''kills'' them. |
| 120 | ** Helva's first brawn is quite content to regard Helva as like his wife. They [[SerenadeYourLover sing together]], and don't seem to care about a physical aspect. The brawn Helva has at the end of ''The Ship Who Sang'', Niall, would ''like'' very much for Helva to have the kind of body he can have sex with. In ''The Ship Who Returned'' he was sometimes unhappy about her unwillingness to use a RemoteBody, and arguments to that effect marked the lowest points of their relationship. However, they stayed together for nearly eighty years until his death and were quite happy for most of that time. |
| 121 | ** Nancia in ''[=PartnerShip=]'' has a first brawn who's on the patronizing side. When she's temporarily assigned Forister, she realizes how much she enjoys having a brawn who is interested in what ''she'' thinks and wants and visibly cares about her, so she ditches her first brawn for him. Forister, in their short period together, commissioned a statuette of Nancia as she might have looked if she'd been able to survive birth and grow up as a healthy softperson, which is always something of a romantic gesture in this setting, but he shows no sign of wanting to crack her collumn. |
| 122 | ** In ''The City Who Fought'', after a rocky start [[SpaceStation Simeon]] and his brawn Channa settle into this. Simeon finds Channa quite attractive while not actually harboring any impossible desires for her and tries to 'woo' her, culminating in playing recordings of Helva's most romantic crooning. He's ''very'' jealous when she meets and is very attracted to Amos and [[InterruptedIntimacy interrupts them]], much to their ire. Eventually Simeon settles down and understands that he and Amos are both very important to Channa and her happiness, which is more important to him than her undivided attention. She is still, after all, devoted to him, which all adds up to a certain ThreesomeSubtext where Channa gets something different from each of her partners. |
| 123 | ** Carialle and Keff have a distinct CourtlyLove aspect to their relationship, helped by playing pseudomedieval fantasy role-playing games together. When they're docked and around other brains and brawns, Keff tends to hook up with whatever brawns are interested, which Carialle is not at all upset by. |
| 124 | * In ''Literature/SpeakerForTheDead'', Ender visits a couple that is in a Catholic monastic order that requires its members to marry but remain chaste as a SelfImposedChallenge. He is touched by the purity of the relationship, and late in the series he and his wife end up joining the same order. |
| 125 | * ''Literature/TheUnexploredSummonBloodSign'''s narration describes Kyousuke and [[spoiler:Mary]] as having been "lovers" in the past, but flashbacks show this love was expressed verbally/mentally, not physically. The trope seems to be both a realistic (as Kyousuke was only 13 at the time) and stylistic choice; it was their naivete that led to their breakup, so showing them do 'adult' things like kissing would cloud that fact. In the present day, [[spoiler:Mary]] glibly propositions Kyousuke...yet is entirely unsurprised when he refuses. |
| 126 | * In the ''Literature/VillageTales'' series, the Rector, Noel Paddick, a young widower, finds himself unexpectedly in love with another man: the [[HotTeacher Deputy Headmaster]] of the local Free School, the bisexual Sher Mirza, who is head over heels for the Rector, in turn. And nothing will happen. The Rector's a High Church C of E cleric. Sher's a devout Muslim. Even if their own consciences could be squared, they love each other too much to allow the other to do violence to ''his'' principles. (Their lips have touched, once: when Fr Paddick gave Sher Mirza rescue-breathing after a fire. And that's the limit, difficult though they find it.) |
| 127 | * Brrr and Ilianora in the later ''Literature/TheWickedYears'' books are definitely this, for several really good reasons, the most obvious one being that they're of different species: she's a human, he's a sentient Lion. There's also the problem posed by Ilianora's rather [[BodyHorror extreme strategy]] to protect herself from PrisonRape, the little matter that Brrr is well-endowed enough to cause some pretty serious damage even to another Big Cat, and the fact that the one successfully completed human/Animal sex act in the books ended with the complete mental and physical breakdown of the human involved. |
| 128 | [[/folder]] |
| 129 | |
| 130 | [[folder:Live-Action TV]] |
| 131 | * Salty and Pepper from ''Series/AmericanHorrorStoryFreakShow'' are eventually revealed to be married, with Elsa describing them as "soul mates" who "fell in love at first sight"; but since both suffer from microcephaly and have the intellects of children, their relationship is shown as physically affectionate without being sexual. |
| 132 | * ''Series/TheBigBangTheory'': Sheldon and Amy initially agreed there would be no physical relationship, but over time Amy developed into wanting one. While he has no interest in it, he has admitted to her and others that she influenced him and ''he'' considers theirs a deeply intimate relationship even if they aren't physical. After being together about 4 years, including a brief break-up, "The Opening Night Excitation" has Sheldon propose intimacy for her birthday. Even then, while Sheldon admitted he didn't mind the experience he saw it as a birthday tradition and not a regular, spontaneous thing. |
| 133 | * Parodied in one ''Series/ABitOfFryAndLaurie'' sketch, in which Hugh's character states that he and his wife have never had sex, and he finds the whole idea abhorent, which is why he cannot understand why the school is telling his son it's necessary if you want to make a baby. |
| 134 | * ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer'': Buffy and Angel had to be this upon discovering that [[spoiler:having sex would cause Angel to lose his soul and turn evil]].[[note]]Technically, it's a "moment of perfect happiness" that will cause this to happen, and it's not absolutely certain that having sex with Buffy will cause that to happen every time. But neither of them is willing to risk it again, for very good reason: Angel's soulless alter-ego Angelus is one of the most thoroughly evil vampires in history.[[/note]] |
| 135 | * ''Series/{{Dexter}}'': This is how Dexter and Rita's relationship is at the start of the show. He's a sociopath who [[WhatIsThisThingYouCallLove can't understand or feel human emotion]], and she's [[BrokenBird traumatized due to extreme abuse by her ex-husband]]; however, they both enjoy the sense of stability from the relationship without pressure to take it outside of their respective comfort zones. Eventually averted when she recovers to the point that she's comfortable initiating sexual activity and he realizes he enjoys it. |
| 136 | * ''Series/ElChavoDelOcho'': Professor Jirafales and Doña Florinda. The whole stitch about them is that he comes to visit her bringing a bouquet of flowers, and she offers him a cup of coffee. Nothing else, save for the occassional time they go out for a walk together, and this even though Quico [[ShipperOnDeck would be more than glad to have the Professor as his new dad]]. |
| 137 | * In ''Series/{{House}}'' one clinic patient was a married couple who identified as asexual but still loved one another. After House determines the husband has a medical condition causing his lack of libido and cures it, the wife bashfully admits she's had sex before but was willing to be asexual for him. |
| 138 | * ''Series/LegendOfTheSeeker'' treats Richard and Kahlan's relationship as this in the second season, because sex might make her lose her Confessor power, which would destroy Richard. While in [[Literature/SwordOfTruth the books]], the pair swore off any kind of relationship, thinking it was an insurmountable obstacle [[spoiler:until they found a solution]], in the second season of the series, they plainly and openly act like a loving couple -- they just don't sleep together. |
| 139 | * From ''Series/ModernFamily'', you can definitely say that Cam and Mitchell are this, and arguably Gloria and Jay too. This becomes more pronounced when compared to Phil and Claire, who have had two episodes revolving around their romantic life and who share kisses in almost every episode. |
| 140 | ** Gloria gets pregnant with Jay's child and before that she is several times shown to invite him in intimacy. But it is not shown live. This was a choice of the producers not to make a young woman kiss a man old enough to be her father on a regular basis. |
| 141 | * Ned and Chuck on ''Series/PushingDaisies''. Chuck was brought back from the dead by Ned's touch, but he can't touch her again without killing her for good. They do use things like plastic wrap and beekeeper outfits and gloves for physical contact, though. Apparently Ned has also built "contraptions." |
| 142 | * Jadzia in ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'''s [[Recap/StarTrekDeepSpaceNineS05E21SoldiersOfTheEmpire "Soldiers of the Empire"]] says that she and Worf are this while voyaging aboard a Klingon warship. As they had copulated in another episode, it seems to imply that they were fasting because of the needs of Klingon military discipline rather than being a Chastity Couple regularly. |
| 143 | * ''Series/WhenCallsTheHeart'' has several couples who court throughout the series, but none of them are affectionate beyond the gentleman offering his arm to the lady or ''maybe'' a non-French kiss. |
| 144 | * In ''Series/TheWire'', a show which never shied away from showing the physical side of romance, it sticks out that Omar and Renaldo, despite their flirting, sharing a bed, and moving to Puerto Rico together, were not shown to even hold hands. What differentiates this from ButNotTooGay is that the show had no qualms about showing Omar getting affectionate with his first two boyfriends, making this portrayal seem exceptional. |
| 145 | * Mulder and Scully of ''Series/TheXFiles'' are a prime example of this trope. Part of it could be that they were originally never intended to be a romantic couple, but while they have intense feelings for one another, are rarely physically demonstrative. The extent of physical contact we see is usually holding hands, and occasionally a hug. In nine seasons, there are only four on-screen kisses between them, and one of them was likely all in Mulder's head. On the other hand, Gillian Anderson remarked that "Mulder and Scully holding hands is as intense and romantic as a kiss on another show," and their touches, while not demonstrative, were certainly ''very'' intense. |
| 146 | [[/folder]] |
| 147 | |
| 148 | [[folder:Mythology & Religion]] |
| 149 | * Many Christians believe this was the relationship between Mary and Joseph. This is a core dogma of Catholicism (i.e. denying it is considered heretical), and a standard belief of quite a few other Christian sects, but most Protestant denominations either reject the idea as unlikely or just take no official position on the subject (since the Bible doesn't say). Jesus is explicitly stated to have several siblings in the Bible, though believers in this concept explain them as being born to a prior wife of Joseph's. |
| 150 | * Although a lot of historians don't believe they were ever married, some believe Jesus was involved in a non-sexual marriage with Mary Magdalene. The justification for this theory is that in Jewish culture of the time, it would've been highly unusual for a man to not marry in his 20s, if not earlier. And virtually unthinkable for an unmarried man to be a religious leader. However, the Gospel of John mentions a "disciple Jesus loved" during the resurrection scene, as a separate person from Mary Magdalene. The Gospel of Luke has three women appearing during the resurrection scene, Mary (Jesus' mother), Mary Magdalene, and Salome. Matthew only mentions the two Marys and Mark doesn't have this scene at all. This is one of the largest discrepancies between the various gospels. The jury is still out on this one, not that it's terribly relevant to well...anything. |
| 151 | * On a related note, nuns often regard themselves as married to Jesus. In some orders, they even make wedding dresses which they wear to take their vows. This is partially a holdover from the old days when it was considered highly immoral for a woman to be unmarried: but mostly it's because every girl wants to have a wedding with a PimpedOutDress. At least according to the conventional definitions of such things, this type of marriage would be nonsexual. |
| 152 | * Ghost marriages. If a girl in China dies before she can be married, a boy is often chosen to be her "husband" (or, sometimes, a girl is chosen for a dead boy). Or a planned marriage might be conducted, despite the death of the bride. This is because lonely spirits are thought to grow restless and torment the living out of boredom. Obviously, this is a relic of a time when it was considered highly improper for women (or indeed, people) to remain unmarried: and is far less common now than it used to be since children don't die nearly as often. |
| 153 | [[/folder]] |
| 154 | |
| 155 | [[folder:Professional Wrestling]] |
| 156 | * Wrestling/DaizeeHaze was adamant in her refusal to date another wrestler and shied away from any romantic or sexual advances yet offered no protest when Wrestling/MattSydal was referred to as her "boyfriend" in Wrestling/{{N|ationalWrestlingAlliance}}WA Wildside. |
| 157 | [[/folder]] |
| 158 | |
| 159 | [[folder:Theatre]] |
| 160 | * Kim and Miko from ''Theatre/VoicesFromTheHighSchool'' are a couple whose most intimate moment is holding hands. They are portrayed as cute rather than passionate, especially when compared to [[AllMenArePerverts the other couples in the play]]. |
| 161 | [[/folder]] |
| 162 | |
| 163 | [[folder:Video Games]] |
| 164 | * In ''VideoGame/DragonAgeII'', the RomanceSidequest between Female!Hawke and Sebastian along the Friendship path takes this route. Sebastian is an exiled prince-turned-Chantry brother who took a vow of chastity and if you complete the romance, Hawke becomes a Chantry sister and the two have a chaste marriage. If the romance is pursued among the Rivalry path, then this is subverted as Hawke would have then convinced Sebastian to leave the Chantry, take back his lands as Prince, and make Hawke his Princess by marriage. |
| 165 | * ''VideoGame/DynastyWarriors'' plays this straight. Romance is an undeniable part of the story ([[VeryLooselyBasedOnATrueStory loose or not]], it was based on history), but whether it's because of artistic choice or censorship (which is hardly believable, given that the whole point of the series is for you to [[MookHorrorShow lay waste on a battlefield with hundreds of mooks]]), physical affection is kept to a minimum. This leads to cases like Sima Zhao and Wang Yuanji acting like close friends, whereas their real-life counterparts were a HappilyMarried couple. Somewhat justifiable in that the [[Literature/RomanceOfTheThreeKingdoms source material]] is basically a militaristic semi-documentary of China's Three Kingdoms period. There's barely even any women mentioned in. |
| 166 | ** Wu's ending on ''[=DW7=]'' is for the longest time the closest anyone has shown physical affection, with Sun Quan [[BridalCarry bridal carrying]] Lianshi. Keep in mind that the ending is a feast, one that follows the euphoria of a major battle of independence. You would think they show more than that. |
| 167 | ** The ninth game nearly averted this trope where the endings of some female love interests show some affection between them and their partners. Nearly in a sense that the only affectionate gestures shown are caressing the cheek, embracing, gushing, and [[LapPillow lying on one's lap]]. |
| 168 | * The title character of ''VideoGame/{{Guenevere}}'' can pursue three different romances (all of which have [[OptionalSexualEncounter Optional Sexual Encounters]]), but choose to keep any (or all) of them chaste - including her relationship [[SexlessMarriage with her husband]]. |
| 169 | * In ''VideoGame/MagiciansQuestMysteriousTimes'' you can date other characters, male or female (though the GayOption is referred to as [[HideYourLesbians "becoming best friends"]]). There's nothing obviously romantic about your relationships. You never kiss, hug, or even hold hands. All they do is talk to you more and say romantic things towards you. It could be justified as the characters [[VagueAge seem]] to be preteens or in their early teens. |
| 170 | * ''Franchise/RatchetAndClank'' seems to do this with Ratchet's relationships (and Clank's, though as a robot it's less noticeable). For a series whose subtitles are nothing but DoubleEntendre, the actual relationships are refreshingly innocent. |
| 171 | ** In ''[[VideoGame/RatchetAndClankUpYourArsenal Up Your Arsenal]]'', Sasha does kiss him all of one time (after he narrowly escaped death), which leaves him [[PostKissCatatonia a little dazed]]. He also swears to [[BumblingDad the Galactic President]] he never touched her after he said, "My daughter tells me [[InnocentInnuendo you're a man who's good with his hands]]"--referring to Ratchet's [[MrFixIt mechanical skills]], of course. |
| 172 | ** The ''Future'' arc introduces Talwyn, an ActionGirl who does get a fair amount of ShipTease with Ratchet, though both the games and [[ComicBook/RatchetAndClankComic comics]] are ambiguous enough about their relationship that Insomniac [[WordOfGod needed to clarify things]] during a [[http://www.ign.com/videos/2012/09/05/remembering-ratchet-and-clank-the-10th-anniversary-celebration-panel-pax-2012 PAX Panel in 2012]]. ''[[VideoGame/RatchetAndClankIntoTheNexus Into the Nexus]]'', released the next year, upped the amount of ShipTease, but still keeps things low-key to the point that their joking and teasing could be taken to indicate they're very close PlatonicLifePartners instead--the closest we get to an in-game confirmation of their relationship is Ratchet saying there's more for him here than if he went [[spoiler:to join the other Lombaxes in their dimension]]. Of course, given that Clank is [[HeterosexualLifePartners his best friend]], he could have just as easily have been speaking of the robot as her being the one who makes him [[IChooseToStay decide to stay]]. |
| 173 | * ''VideoGame/TheSims'': All teenage relationships are this. Young Adults can have sex and get married but Teen Sims can't in ''VideoGame/TheSims2'' and ''VideoGame/TheSims3''. |
| 174 | * ''VideoGame/StoryOfSeasons'': |
| 175 | ** In ''VideoGame/HarvestMoonTheTaleOfTwoTowns,'' one of the marriageable bachelorettes, Alisa, is a nun. Because of her status as a servant of the [[CrystalDragonJesus Harvest Goddess]], your relationship with her will, [[JustifiedTrope by necessity]], be chaste. This means that Alisa is the one marriage candidate in the series with whom [[GRatedSex you cannot have a child.]] |
| 176 | ** Kasumi from ''VideoGame/StoryOfSeasonsTrioOfTowns'' [[LetsWaitAWhile refuses]] to kiss before marriage. |
| 177 | ** Yuzuki from ''Trio of Towns'' won't kiss the protagonist on the lips until they get married. |
| 178 | %%* The ''VideoGame/TalesSeries'' has a strong tendency to it: |
| 179 | %%** ''VideoGame/TalesOfSymphonia'' has Lloyd/Colette. |
| 180 | %%** ''VideoGame/TalesOfXillia'' has Jude/Milla. |
| 181 | [[/folder]] |
| 182 | |
| 183 | [[folder:Visual Novels]] |
| 184 | * Justified and cranked up to eleven in ''VisualNovel/CodeRealize''. Thanks to [[PoisonousPerson Cardia]]'s... [[WalkingWasteland condition]], she can't kiss any of her potential love interests, let alone [[CantHaveSexEver have sex]]. [[spoiler:Lupin's ending (and to a lesser extent Victor's) have this issue being resolved. Impey's, Van Helsing's, and Saint-Germain's endings have them still stuck in this trope, but they're still searching for a way to get rid of her poison. And from what has been seen of the sequel, succeed. ]] |
| 185 | * Most of the romances in ''VisualNovel/LittleBusters'' end up like this, but bonus points to Rin/Riki for the lampshading. Riki is shy and Rin is so unaware of what it actually means to be in love or dating that it becomes a mild point of awkwardness that the story fortunately doesn't have to focus on. |
| 186 | * In ''VisualNovel/UminekoWhenTheyCry'', George and Shannon are in a SecretRelationship due to their [[UptownGirl class differences]], but they don't do anything more intimate than holding hands and hugging. In [=EP2=] they even sleep in separate hotel rooms during their trip to Okinawa (much to [[ShipperOnDeck Jessica's]] disappointment). [[spoiler:This seems to be invoked on [[CantHaveSexEver Shannon]]'s end, however, because if they were more physically intimate then she'd have to reveal how mutilated her body is.]] |
| 187 | * Arsenik and Ambrosia in ''VisualNovel/War13thDay''. He courts her like a lady as every proper gentleman should, and when she has a [[StalkerWithoutACrush supernatural stalker]] literally watching her every second, she's probably much more comfortable this way. On the other hand, Wildfire doesn't believe them for a second. |
| 188 | [[/folder]] |
| 189 | |
| 190 | [[folder:Webcomics]] |
| 191 | * Kotomi and Haru are this way in ''Webcomic/CrossHeart''. They've been girlfriends for three years and only kiss. Haru wants to go further but realizes Kotomi is troubled by past sexual abuse and doesn't want to push her. [[spoiler:They do end up having sex eventually though.]] |
| 192 | * In ''Webcomic/DominicDeegan'', Luna and Dominic spent a lot of time sleeping in the same bed without doing anything ''but'' sleeping. Things did eventually progress further, though. |
| 193 | * Nick and Ki in ''Webcomic/GeneralProtectionFault'' are this since Nick believes in chastity before marriage. It's never quite explained ''why'' he believes in that, but all the same (the meta-reason is that the author is very religious and wasn't comfortable with his protagonist living in sin, even though the protagonist himself has no strong religious convictions). |
| 194 | * Piro and Kimiko of ''Webcomic/{{Megatokyo}}'', who clearly like each other but spent several years (in WebcomicTime) working their way up to ''hugging'', a feat which has not since been repeated. [[LoveTriangle Also, Miho,]] who had a more intimate relationship with Piro...in a video game, before the comic began. Completely averted, however, with Largo and Erika, [[WhatIsThisThingYouCallLove despite Largo's bafflement.]] |
| 195 | * In ''Webcomic/Rain2010'', there's Rain and Rudy (all they do is kiss a couple of times; [[spoiler:makes sense since they're both really not interested in people of the other's gender]]), as well as Chanel and Maria (Chanel is asexual and specifically states that although some aces have or are interested in having sex, she's not one of them; Maria is fully aware and on board). The topic isn't really brought up one way or the other for any of the other couples in the main cast (not the teenagers, anyway). |
| 196 | * As a general rule, the less lustful a relationship or attempted relationship in ''Webcomic/{{Sinfest}}'' is, the better it will go. Fuchsia and Criminy, the healthiest couple, spend most of their time reading to each other, and Slick's relationship with Monique got a lot better after he gave up hope of getting in her pants. The exception to this is Fuchsia's lesbian relationship with Baby Blue, but their friendship seems entirely separate from their gay-for-pay antics. |
| 197 | ** The Angels are sort of a spoof of this: they manage to be even purer and more blissful than Fuchsia and Criminy, spending most of their time holding hands and flying around helping people. They also perform "The Wholesome Lambada of Platonic Love" for Slick and Monique. |
| 198 | * Dominic and Sarah from ''Webcomic/{{Unreality}}'' are clearly shown to be very passionately in love, they both seem to want to advance forward in their relationship, and there's nothing stopping them...except for the fact that they're respectively 13 and 16, on top of the fact that they're ''NotAllowedToGrowUp'', so they obviously aren't going to be hitting the bedsheets anytime soon. |
| 199 | [[/folder]] |
| 200 | |
| 201 | [[folder:Web Original]] |
| 202 | * This trope as it relates to [[ComicBook/XMen Cyclops and Phoenix]] is the subject of many jokes in Claire Napier's ''[[http://womenwriteaboutcomics.com/2015/09/27/ex-men-the-top-five-pre-phoenix-scott-jean-moments/ Ex-Men]]'' blog. |
| 203 | -->''Let's scour eleven years of reprints for the two on-page kisses these crazy kids shared.'' |
| 204 | [[/folder]] |
| 205 | |
| 206 | [[folder:Western Animation]] |
| 207 | * Cricket Green and Gabriella Espinosa from ''WesternAnimation/BigCityGreens'' are a family-friendly variation of this. [[PuppyLove After Cricket discovered Gabriella has feelings for him, he finds her and reveals his feelings for her as well, to which she reciprocates.]] She then asks him to be her boyfriend to which he accepts, only they just have to tell people they're dating and not do anything overly romantic at the moment, like HoldingHands, giving flowers, and smooching all the time. After she leaves for her vacation to Montreal, Cricket instantly tells Remy and Vasquez the good news. This is further exampled in "Date Night" when they just want to have a night at the movies, but Bill takes them to a romantic rich sky restaurant which they obviously don't find fun. |
| 208 | * In ''WesternAnimation/BojackHorseman'', [[spoiler:Todd]] comes out as UsefulNotes/{{Asexual}} and goes to a group meetup of similar individuals. He is surprised to discover that two of the people at the meetup are HappilyMarried to each other. Well, why not? [[spoiler:Todd]] enters a relationship as well, with mixed results. |
| 209 | -->"We had a nautical-themed wedding!" |
| 210 | * WesternAnimation/MickeyMouse and WesternAnimation/MinnieMouse, at least initially. Creator/WaltDisney himself said that Mickey and Minnie were happily married outside of their acting career, but did not have a sex life. More modern works tend to disregard this, even going so far as to [[SexyDiscretionShot imply sexual congress]] between the two in the ''WesternAnimation/MickeyMouse2013'' short "[[Recap/MickeyMouseS1E17ThirdWheel Third Wheel]]" |
| 211 | * ''WesternAnimation/TotalDrama'': |
| 212 | ** Gwen and Trent have only shared one on-screen kiss during their relationship. |
| 213 | ** [[{{Goth}} Crimson and Ennui]] from the SpinOff, ''Total Drama Presents the Ridonculous Race.'' It's eleven episodes in before Ennui casually mentions that they've been dating for three years, and the most physical affection they show is holding hands once. But then, they're both [[TheStoic so stoic]] that it fits rather well. |
| 214 | [[/folder]] |
| 215 | |
| 216 | [[folder:Real Life]] |
| 217 | * Marc-André Raffalovich and John Gray were partners for almost forty years, until Raffalovich's death, but apparently never had sex. They were both very Roman Catholic -- Gray being a priest and Raffalovich a member of the tertiary order of Dominicans -- and were both born in the mid-1860s; the combination of the two factors probably explains why. |
| 218 | * There are some recognized Catholic saints who were married but did not have sex. They are admired because they chose to sacrifice Earthly pleasures in order to better serve God. The Catholic Church and the Orthodox churches also view Mary and Joseph as such a couple. Due to this, they're often called Josephite marriages. Other terms are spiritual or continent marriages. In a subversion, however, the Catholic definition of chastity does not exclude marital relations. A married couple is considered chaste as long as they only have sex with each other and do not use pornography or contraception. e.g., Blesseds Louis Martin and Marie Azalie "Zelie" Guerin, the parents of Saint Therese of Lisieux, at first wished to live celibately but later changed their minds and had ''nine'' kids ([[OutlivingOnesOffspring though four of them died]]), with Therese as the youngest. |
| 219 | * Creator/GoreVidal had a romance with his partner Howard Austen for 53 years, from the time the two met to Austen's death from brain cancer in 2003. How did they stick together for so long? For his part, Vidal credited their success to a deliberate lack of physical intimacy, providing the page quote. |
| 220 | * Edward the Confessor was the last Saxon King of England because he was believed to have had one of these with his Queen Edith. He may have had religious motives or maybe it was because he despised Edith's father Godwin of Wessex. Whatever his reasons Edith seems to have been okay with it and they are credited with having an affectionate father/daughter-like relationship.[[note]]Some modern historians, however, believe that they didn't actually have a chaste marriage but were simply infertile; the main source for the chaste marriage claim was a biography of him commissioned by Edith after his death and later expanded by a twelfth-century prior of Westminster abbey who campaigned for Edward's canonization.[[/note]] |
| 221 | * TruthInTelevision for many people whose orientation is on the UsefulNotes/{{Asexuality}} spectrum, meaning they don't experience sexual attraction.[[note]]Sexual attraction and sexual desire are separate. It's possible for someone who is asexual to greatly enjoy sex, but not have it factor at all into why they want to be with another person.[[/note]]. Many of them have successful relationships and even marriages. |
| 222 | * People on the autism spectrum often have trouble with physical intimacy due to overstimulation. That is, any tactile sensation feels like it's several orders of magnitude more powerful than it actually is. Thus for a person on the spectrum, conventional sex may be [[SensoryOverload too much for them]]. This is different from asexuality because these people still have sexual attraction to people: it's just that their sexual urges may be satisfied by activities others wouldn't consider particularly sexual. Of course, not all autistic people experience this overstimulation since the condition manifests differently in every individual. |
| 223 | * After her abdication and relocation to Italy, Queen Christina of Sweden had a very close relationship with Cardinal Decio Azzolino, who was of course celibate. Historians disagree on just how far things likely went between them, but some of their surviving letters suggest that they were this trope. |
| 224 | * Mandated for members of the [[https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shakers Shaker]] sect of the Quaker faith. Due to this, they have nearly gone extinct. Previously Shakers expanded due to getting converts and adopting children, but social changes ended them. |
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