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7	* Used in the ''Series/ThirdRockFromTheSun'' episode "Nightmare on Dick Street" when Dick is looped out on antidepressants.
8	-->'''Sally:''' Dick, exactly what did this psychiatrist do to you?\
9	'''Dick:''' Well, we chatted a bit and he put everything in order. Oh, by the way, Sally, you're now my daughter.\
10	'''Sally:''' What? Snap out of it! ''(slaps Dick)''\
11	'''Dick:''' ''(a la ''Film/{{Chinatown}}'')'' My sister. ''(slap)'' My daughter. ''(slap)'' My sister. ''(slap)'' My daughter. ''(slap)'' My sister ''and'' my daughter.
12	* Done in a funny way in ''Series/ANTFarm'' when their fellow ANT is caught in the wave of passing by high schoolers, Fletcher said that they should save him, only for Olive to say he's gone, ''complete with a Bright Slap.''
13	* Played straight in ''Series/{{Battlestar Galactica\|2003}}: Razor'', where after the attack on the Pegasus leaves Kendra Shaw in shock and bleeding on the floor with a probable concussion, Cain whacks her mightily across the face and follows it with a stern, "Get up, soldier." She does, her clarity apparently restored.
14	* Another parody in the ''Series/{{Blackadder}}'' episode "[[Recap/BlackadderS4E2CorporalPunishment Corporal Punishment]]". [[BumblingSidekick Baldrick]] and [[TheDitz George]] are trying frantically to remember who George was supposed to write to, to stop Captain Blackadder's execution, until Baldrick grabs a cricket bat and knocks George over the head with it. George says, "No, it hasn't helped." Then Baldrick says, "No, it has, sir!" as he now remembers.
15	* Sort of inversion on ''Series/BlackBooks'', where Bernard pulls a "Get a Hold of Yourself, Man!" on the stressed-out Manny by grabbing him, shaking him back and forth and hysterically yelling "CALM DOWN! CALM DOWN! CALM DOWN!"
16	* Used periodically by Eddie in ''Series/{{Bottom}}'' whenever Richie is freaking out, although the traditional slap on the face is usually replaced by a solid minute of Eddie pummelling Richie around the head with a blunt instrument.
17	* ''Series/BuffyTheVampireSlayer''. In "[[Recap/BuffyTheVampireSlayerS5E21WeightOfTheWorld The Weight of the World]]", when Buffy falls into an AngstComa after Dawn is taken by Glory, her friends try to talk her out of her comatose state gently. Spike gets annoyed and starts shaking and then punches Buffy. When the other Scoobies object, Spike points out that the Slayer's MadeOfIron nature means he doesn't have to be delicate.
18	-->"Personally, I think [[DoubleEntendre Buffy likes it rough."]]
19	* ''Series/TheCarolBurnettShow'' has a running gag in the sketch "Went With the Wind" in which Sissy panics about everything, until Starlet slaps her. Eventually, Sissy slaps ''herself'' to calm down. [[spoiler:At the end of the sketch, ''Starlet'' starts panicking, until Sissy slaps her.]]
20	* In ''Series/{{Cheers}}'':
21	** When Frasier goes into a jealous rage over Lilith's wedding shower including a male stripper, Sam tosses a drink in his face. Frasier's stunned response: "Crème de menthe? You couldn't have found some water?"
22	** In "Rebecca Gains, Rebecca Loses", Sam mentions an old sobering technique he used during his Red Sox days to Rebecca. He then slaps her. However, Rebecca by this point is so drunk she doesn't even notice Sam's hit her in the first place.
23	* In ''Series/{{Deadwood}}'', Merrick is freaking out (somewhat understandably) over the possibility that his back pain means he has smallpox. Doc Cochran responds by slapping him in the face, which does seem to calm him down. Doc even [[InvokedTrope invokes the trope]], saying that the slap was to ensure he had Merrick's attention.
24	* ''Series/DoctorWho'':
25	** Jamie does this to Polly in [[Recap/DoctorWhoS4E5TheUnderwaterMenace "The Underwater Menace"]] when she's freaking out about how she can't go into the rising water. Averted in the BBC's audio reconstruction of the episode, which edits it to Jamie roughly pulling her to her feet, as the director and Creator/AnnekeWills agreed it was out of character (Jamie's character suffers some EarlyInstallmentWeirdness in that story as he had been added to the cast after the script had been written, meaning he spent it speaking lines and doing things intended for other characters).
26	** Gets an amusing gender reversal when Zoe slaps Jamie to snap him out of being paralysed with fear in [[Recap/DoctorWhoS6E2TheMindRobber "The Mind Robber"]].
27	** One of the [[ValuesDissonance more uncomfortable]] Pertwee-era moments is when the Doctor slaps Jo to snap her out of a screaming fit in [[Recap/DoctorWhoS8E3TheClawsOfAxos "The Claws of Axos"]].
28	** In [[Recap/DoctorWhoS15E1HorrorOfFangRock "Horror of Fang Rock"]], Leela slaps the ScreamingWoman Adelaide to snap her out of her hysterics.
29	** [[Recap/DoctorWhoS29E8HumanNature "Human Nature"]]: In order to avoid a group of short-lived villains, the Doctor has [[HumanityEnsues temporarily turned himself human]], with his companion Martha looking after him. But when the villains track them down and the GadgetWatch that will turn the Doctor back to normal is missing, Martha tries slapping "John Smith" to jog his memory. It doesn't work.
30	** Inverted in [[Recap/DoctorWhoS31E13TheBigBang "The Big Bang"]]. The Doctor, as part of a SecretTestOfCharacter, tells Auton Rory not to bother with Amy:
31	--->'''The Doctor:''' Your girlfriend isn't as important as the universe.\
32	'''Rory:''' She is to ''me''! ''[punches the Doctor]''\
33	'''The Doctor:''' WELCOME BACK, RORY WILLIAMS!
34	* In ''Series/ElChavoDelOcho'', whenever Chavo gets scared (which is quite often), he get "the stiffs" and becomes completely nonresponsive. A splash of water to the face brings him back to normal.
35	* ''Series/FawltyTowers'':
36	** In "[[Recap/FawltyTowersS1E2TheBuilders The Builders]]", Basil Fawlty becomes hysterical with panic after hiring a cheaper builder against his wife's wishes who botches the hotel's renovations, so Polly smacks him. Apparently, he realized that's what he needed, because he told her to do it again.
37	** In "[[Recap/FawltyTowersS2E4TheKipperAndTheCorpse The Kipper and the Corpse]]", he has her do it to one of the guests, who freaks out upon seeing Basil and Polly lugging a dead guest around. Polly decks the old woman with one punch.
38	--->'''Basil:''' Oh... spiffing. [[SarcasmMode Absolutely spiffing. Well done. Two dead, twenty-five to go.]]
39	* ''Series/{{Frasier}}'':
40	** In one episode, Niles convinces himself that he is now a regular, beer-drinking, pool-shooting guy. Only a brotherly slap from Frasier restores him to his Chardonnay-sipping self.
41	** In another episode, Niles returns the favour by slapping Frasier out of his frenzy (after he had gone as far as to suggest they'd go into a restaurant they wouldn't need a reservation for).
42	* The series ''Series/FTroop'' has an incredibly amusing version of this when Captain Parmenter and Corporal Agarn are on a survival test in the wilderness. Agarn, despairing of his own incompetence, begins to become hysterical and is on the point of sobbing when Captain Parmenter slaps him:
43	-->'''Agarn:''' Captain! You slapped me in the face?\
44	'''Parmenter:''' Sorry Agarn, but it says right here on page twenty-seven that if a man becomes hysterical, a slap to the face will generally bring him to his senses.\
45	'''Agarn (now ridiculously calm):''' Thank you, Captain. I needed that.\
46	'''Parmenter:''' And I want you to know that, even though I'm your commanding officer, you're supposed to slap my face-\
47	'''Agarn:''' wallops him in the face\
48	'''Parmenter:''' ...''After'' I become hysterical.
49	* ''Series/GarthMarenghisDarkplace''. Dagless ''punches'' his female co-worker as opposed to just slapping her, in a rather unsubtle sign [[DeliberateValuesDissonance of the creator's misogyny.]] Liz always thanks him for this as [[HystericalWoman she was hysterical]] (the joke being her DullSurprise acting).
50	* ''Series/TheGoodies'':
51	** Played for comedy in the episode "Daylight Robbery on the Orient Express". Tim is in hysterics. Graeme lightly slaps him. Tim is silent for about two seconds...and then slaps back much harder, sending Graeme tumbling into a nearby pile of boxes.
52	** In the South Africa episode, a slap from Graeme not only calms Tim down but kills a mosquito on his cheek.
53	* ''Series/TheGreatBritishBakeOff'': The hosts -- particularly Mel -- spend a good chunk of their time motivating despondent or calming stressed-out bakers.
54	-->'''Ruby:''' Mel? I need a talking to.\
55	'''Mel:''' ''[to Frances]'' Right, just give me one second. ''[to Ruby]'' Get a grip, just get a grip, get a ruddy grip. ''[to Frances]'' I promised her I'd do that.
56	* Subverted in the ''Series/{{Heroes}}'' flashback episode. Angela's [[spoiler: heretofore unknown sister]] starts having a SuperPowerMeltdown and [[spoiler: Dr. Chandra Suresh, Mohinder's father]] slaps her in an attempt to calm her down. [[spoiler: Her father blasts him with a psychic wave, after which the soldiers mow down everybody in the [[strike: interment camp]] [[strike: secret government experiment to study powers]] sanctuary for specials.]]
57	* In an episode of ''Series/HoneyIShrunkTheKids'', Wayne does this to Carter after the latter has been apprehended by [[{{Yandere}} F.R.A.N. the security system.]]
58	* ''Franchise/KamenRider'':
59	** Done in TheMovie of ''Series/KamenRiderDecade'' where Tsukasa[=/=]Decade is BSOD'ing [[spoiler:since he turned evil, got betrayed himself and overthrown, and suffered a HeelFaceDoorSlam when he tried to return to his friends]]. Enter Joji Yuki, A.K.A. [[Series/KamenRiderV3 Riderman]] (here played by Creator/{{Gackt}}), who smacks Tsukasa across the face and reminds him what it is to be a Kamen Rider before facing down an advancing army of monsters with nothing more than an ArmCannon.
60	** ''Series/KamenRiderGhost'':
61	*** Makoto punched his fellow riders on separate occasions to bring them to their senses when gentler attempts failed.
62	*** Also, Akari's final slap to Igor worked like this (and was intended to be so unlike [[RunningGag the previous ones]]).
63	* In ''Series/KathAndKim''...Kath, Kim and Sharon often slip into moments where two of them scream at each other, while the third breaks up the problem. Almost always it's Kim and Sharon arguing with Kath as the peacemaker, though occasionally Kim will scream on her own, calming down when Sharon slaps her.
64	* In ''Series/KillingEve'', [[SerialKiller Villanelle]] invades Eve's apartment -- not to kill her, to [[VillainousCrush have dinner with her]]. Of course, upon finding a psychopathic murderer in her home, Eve freaks out and starts trying to escape, screaming for help, and trying to attack Villanelle. Villanelle at first tries to calm her down by shouting at her, and choking her to stop the screaming, which, [[SarcasmMode shockingly]], doesn't work. What ''does'' work is Villanelle shoving Eve into the bathtub and turning on the cold water, which shocks Eve enough that she's able to calm down enough to hear Villanelle out.
65	* ''Series/LasVegas'':
66	** In "The Night the Lights Went Out in Vegas", there is a power outage in the entire city, and Mike and Ed are locked up in the surveillance room. Mike, who is claustrophobic, starts freaking out, leading Ed to hit him. Subverted in that Mike says it doesn't work – he's still freaking out, but now his face hurts.
67	** Delinda does it to Mike again in a later episode.
68	--->'''Mike:''' What is it with your family and hitting people?
69	* ''Series/{{LOST}}'':
70	** Hurley does it to Charlie, who is afraid to die due to Desmond's visions, so he can convince Charlie to help him drive a van. Hurley's exact words were:
71	--->'''Hurley:''' Snap out of it! Stop feelin' sorry for yourself 'cause someone said you're gonna die!
72	** Locke ([[spoiler:or rather the smoke monster]]) does this to Claire in the sixth season when she freaks out over Kate raising Aaron.
73	* When Roger Sterling of ''Series/MadMen'' has a heart attack (nearly going {{out with a Bang}}), he keeps mumbling the name of the one-night stand he was with. Don arrives and hears him. Cue Don slapping Roger on the face, growling this:
74	-->'''Don Draper:''' Mona! Your wife's name is ''Mona''!
75	* Played for laughs in ''Series/{{Martin}}''. One episode has a woman who Martin previously had a heated argument with going into labour while Martin is the only one present. He starts freaking out, and she slaps him. She then moves to deliver a second slap, but he blocks it and calmly tells her that while he needed the first one, now she's starting to have way too much fun with it.
76	* Jokingly subverted in an early ''{{Series/MASH}}'' episode where Hawkeye tries to get R&R leave by [[ObfuscatingInsanity acting nuts]]. At one point Trapper slaps him, and he replies, "I don't think I needed that."
77	* ''Series/TheMightyBoosh'' has a slight running gag where Howar gets too wrapped up in his emotions, for whatever reason, and someone slaps his sober, whether or not they actually had to.
78	* ''Series/{{Monkey}}'' tries a calming slap on a hysterical, crying woman in one episode. Being a [[SuperStrength super-strong]] PhysicalGod, he flattens her.
79	* In the Series 2 finale of ''Series/MrsBrownsBoys'', a drunk Hillary goes wild when she realises her daughter is going into labour. So Agnes (in "slow motion") slaps her. Then Hillary slaps Agnes. Then Agnes ''headbutts'' Hillary!
80	* ''Series/TheMuppetShow:'' In Linda Lavin's episode, Miss Piggy starts having a nervous meltdown over throwing Kermit a birthday celebration, so Linda smacks her. For once, Piggy calms down, though she does suggest she hadn't completely recovered when she agrees to let Linda take her place in the final number.
81	* ''Series/MythBusters'':
82	** They tested this trope on their December 22nd 2010 episode. Their result? ''Confirmed'', within the bounds of the experiment. While not up to control, all three testers did better in practical tests when frazzled and then slapped than when unslapped. However, this would not apply in all situations, such as for people suffering from PTSD.
83	** Even earlier than this episode, they examined this trope in terms of a "sobering up" technique after getting drunk and deemed it plausible. [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9mmJMIwsaDQ&feature=player_detailpage#t=107s Cue Adam getting slapped by Jamie]] (Cue to 1:47).
84	* Inverted (kinda!) in the third season finale of ''Series/{{NCIS}}'' as Gibbs regains his composure -- and his memories! -- when Ziva hits ''herself'' with his hand. Gibbs being a fan of the DopeSlap, that's exactly why Ziva's amnesia cure worked -- she grabbed Gibbs' wrist and walked him through the GibbsSlap he delivers to his team members OnceAnEpisode, which helped cue his memories of them.
85	* ''Series/NewsRadio'':
86	** Parodied in an episode where Beth slaps Bill upon news that Mr. James's air balloon has gone down. Bill says, "No, see, I'm supposed to hit ''you''."
87	** In another episode this is parodied when Catherine says this to Bill and then slaps him. Bill complains because he was completely calm at the time and Catherine replies that she believes in preventive medicine. Catherine regularly slaps any of the male characters who annoy her.
88	* In an episode of ''Series/NightCourt'', Dan Fielding is freaking out about having inadvertently accepted a bribe; Harry gets him to stop by taking out a water pistol and shooting him.
89	* Played horribly in ''Series/ThePacific'' when a Marine has a nightmare in a foxhole one night and begins screaming in terror, which of course could give away their position to the enemy. In desperation, one Marine finally hits him over the head with something, and in the morning they realize that [[OneHitKill he's dead]]. Everyone is horrified, especially the one who hit him, but Eugene says [[DissonantSerenity it was better him than all of them]], and Snafu agrees that it [[IDidWhatIHadToDo had to be done]].
90	* Used in the ''Series/{{Seinfeld}}'' episode "The Puerto Rican Day", where a parade is obstructing the traffic, and Elaine tries to go through underneath a viewing stand, leading a group of people, but they arrive to a brick wall.
91	-->'''Elaine:''' Oh, no! I thought--\
92	'''Man:''' You thought?! We're gonna die in the dark! I knew it! I knew it! We're gonna die!\
93	'''Elaine:''' Get a hold of yourself! ''(she slaps him, [[SlapSlapKiss they start shoving each other, then kiss]])''
94	* ''Series/SonnyWithAChance'': Zora slaps Tawni to break her out of obsession over the fancy cafeteria food served only to Mackenzie Falls.
95	-->'''Tawni:''' I need it! I'm pretty enough for lobster! And I'm core enough for lobster! I [=AM=] [=LOBSTER=] [=WORTHY=]!!!!!\
96	'''Zora:''' (slaps Tawni) Snap out of it, woman!\
97	'''Tawni:''' Thankyou (puts her hand over her cheek in pain)
98	* ''Series/{{Spaced}}''. Whenever Tim flashbacks to his relationship with his ex-girlfriend and goes off on a tirade, Mike is expected to slap him in his face. If Mike's not around, Daisy does it.
99	* ''Series/StargateAtlantis'' has an episode where Bill Nye (yes, ''that'' [[Series/BillNyeTheScienceGuy Bill Nye]], playing himself) slaps a guest-star scientist who's freaking out and tells him to "man up!"
100	* ''Series/StarTrekTheOriginalSeries''
101	** In the episode "[[Recap/StarTrekS1E4TheNakedTime The Naked Time]]", Kirk does this to Spock. After several slaps, Spock finally retaliates and sends Kirk flying across the room. It does seem to work though.
102	** Kirk attempts it on [=McCoy=], who is under the influence of the LotusEaterMachine in "[[Recap/StarTrekS1E21TheReturnOfTheArchons The Return of the Archons]]". This one isn't so successful.
103	** Kirk starts shaking and beating up Commodore Decker in [[Recap/StarTrekS2E6TheDoomsdayMachine The Doomsday Machine]] to get him to talk about what he saw.
104	** A variation occurs in "[[Recap/StarTrekS2E19APrivateLittleWar A Private Little War]]" in which Spock asks Nurse Chapel to strike him to help him regain consciousness after being shot. Scotty interrupts, and Dr. M'Benga charges in and gives Spock several hard slaps until Spock catches his arm and declares that he's fully awake.
105	* ''Series/StarTrekDeepSpaceNine'': "[[Recap/StarTrekDeepSpaceNineS03E21TheDieIsCast The Die is Cast]]": Just before the ship is destroyed, Garak gets Odo to the runabout but goes back for Tain, who's trapped on the bridge in a state of shock. Garak can't talk sense into him and can't abandon him. Odo has to punch Garak unconscious to get him off the ship. Later, Garak does acknowledge that Odo's action was the only way to bring him to his senses and that it saved his life as a result.
106	* ''Franchise/SuperSentai'':
107	** ''Series/TokusouSentaiDekaranger'' - In one of the earliest episodes, Houji gets depressed over a single mistake. Later when they need to track the VillainOfTheWeek through a computer, Ban finds him just sitting there, idle. When he refuses to do anything, Ban drop-kicks him, and tells him to stop feeling sorry for himself and do something. It works like a charm.
108	** ''Series/JukenSentaiGekiranger'' - Near the end of the first training arc, Rio beats Jan, Ran and Retsu so badly that the mentor has to let himself be taken hostage to save them and give them another chance to fight him. Cue the Rangers sitting in the rain, so demoralized they can't even get up...until Miki smacks all of them, one after the other. Near the end of the series, [[spoiler: Jan does this to Rio after the latter learns that his entire life has been manipulated by Long.]]
109	** ''Series/KaizokuSentaiGokaiger'' - After Don beats himself up due to not being able to save his friends, Navi comes in and slaps him with his robotic wing. Cue Don [[spoiler: going in like a badass, complete with long coat, and saving Marvelous.]]
110	** ''Series/SamuraiSentaiShinkenger:'' - Chiaki delivers one to Takeru to snap the latter out of a HeroicBSOD after [[spoiler:it is revealed that Takeru is not actually the head of the Shiba clan and has kept this secret from his teammates the whole time they've known him]]. Amusingly, Takeru actually dodges the first blow, whereupon Chiaki demands that he hold still before swinging again.
111	* Invoked word for word on ''Series/ToddAndTheBookOfPureEvil'', when Curtis begins freaking out of their lack of marijuana. He shrieks that getting high allowed him to deal with the horrible things they see every week. Without pot, all the blood and gore they see seems so much more bloody and gory and gut-y...
112	-->'''Todd:''' ''(slap)'' Get a hold of yourself, man!
113	* Used for an ObligatoryJoke in ''Series/ATouchOfCloth''. "You're coming apart at the seams, Cloth."
114	* ''Series/TheTwilightZone1959'':
115	** In "[[Recap/TheTwilightZone1959S3E18DeadMansShoes Dead Man's Shoes]]", when Wilma loses control over not knowing what's going on, Dane (in Nathan Bledsoe's body) slaps her to calm her down.
116	** In "[[Recap/TheTwilightZone1959S4E6DeathShip Death Ship]]", when Lieutenant Ted Mason starts to freak out over their bizarre experiences, Captain Paul Ross punches him in the face and knocks him down.
117	* ''Franchise/UltraSeries'':
118	** In episode 37 of the original ''Series/{{Ultraman}}'', Hayata does this to Ide when the latter suffers a HeroicBSOD, causing him to [[spoiler:kill one of the monsters himself by blowing it up piece by piece, and then another at the end of the episode]].
119	** In episode 13 of ''Series/UltramanAce'', Yapool lure the Ultra Brothers to Planet Golgotha to trap while he summons his new Choju Baraba to attack Earth. When Ace learned that Earth is in danger, Ultraman urges him to go back to save the planet. But Ace refuses because he doesn't want to leave his brothers to die. Ultraman slaps him and tells him that he's young and if he stays with them, he'll die too.
120	* ''Series/UnsereMuetterUnsereVaeter'': Friedhelm grabs Wilhelm to tell him to pull himself together after the latter breaks down over the futility of their current mission during the Battle of Kursk (basically, keep advancing down this useless street until your whole unit is dead), because despite everything, they ''need'' a commander.
121	* In the Sketch / Skit / Comedy show ''Series/WeAreKlang!'', the Ditz of the group runs in thinking his mum's stolen (makes sense in context), and the big guy slaps him and shouts... You know what, this is easier:
122	-->'''Big guy:''' Calm down! ''(smacks him)''\
123	'''Bearded bloke:''' Yeah calm down! ''(hits him with a hammer in the groin)''\
124	'''Guy 1:''' Calm down!\
125	'''Guy 2:''' Yeah calm down!\
126	'''Guy 1:''' Calm down!\
127	'''Guy 2:''' Yeah calm down!\
128	'''Guy 1:''' Calm down!\
129	'''Guy 2:''' Yeah calm down!\
130	'''Ditz:''' I'm calm, I'm calm!\
131	'''Non sequitur person unrelated to the show:''' HE SAID, CALM DOOOOWN. ''(smacks him)''
132	* In ''Series/TheWire'' episode "[[Recap/TheWireS01E10TheCost The Cost]]", [[DaChief Rawls]] gives [[CowboyCop McNulty]] more of a ''psychological'' ego-slap when he [[HeroicBSOD BSOD]]'s over [[ItsAllMyFault a partner being shot]]. [[ItMakesSenseInContext Given the chief]]'s sheer level of {{Jerkass}}itude.
133	-->'''Rawls:''' You, [=McNulty=], are a gaping asshole. I know it, and I'll be fucked if everybody in CID doesn't know it. But, I'll also be fucked if I let you sit here and think you did a single fucking thing to get a fucking police shot. Believe it or not, ''not everything is about you''. Get it into your head, [=McNulty=] -- it's not on you... and the motherfucker telling you this, he fucking hates your guts. So you know that if it ''was'' your fault, I'd be the first son of a bitch to tell you.
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