Line #7 Film/TheFamilyMan


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3	->''"Don't screw up the best thing in your life just because you're a little unsure about who you are."''
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5	''The Family Man'' is a 2000 fantasy comedy-drama film directed by Creator/BrettRatner and starring Creator/NicolasCage, Creator/TeaLeoni, and Creator/DonCheadle.
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7	Cage plays Jack Campbell, a wealthy, high-powered Wall Street broker who, after getting--and dismissing--a phone message from his old college girlfriend Kate (Leoni) on Christmas Eve, ponders [[WhatCouldHaveBeen what might have been]]. He then has a fateful encounter with a young stranger named Cash (Cheadle), who asks Jack if there's anything missing in his life and--being answered in the negative--magically sends him to an AlternateUniverse in which he and Kate got married, had kids, and settled down into a lower-middle-class existence in (horrors!) [[{{Joisey}} New Jersey]]. By the end, Jack learns that living a [[HappilyEverAfter quiet but happy family life]] may be preferable to achieving [[LonelyAtTheTop success and wealth at work]].
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9	Similar to ''Film/ItsAWonderfulLife'', both in its story and thematic elements and its holiday setting, the film received mixed critical reviews but was a box-office success. In 2023, a South Korean remake called ''Switch'' was released with the same premise, except the protagonist is a successful actor rather than a stockbroker.
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11	Not to be confused with the ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy''. Also, the AlternateUniverse Jack Campbell goes [[FamilyMan straight to this trope and the film title]].
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13	!!This film includes examples of:
14	* AdorablyPrecociousChild: Annie.
15	* AmbiguouslyJewish: Alan Mintz. Despite his character's name and appearance and the fact that he is played by Saul Rubinek, he complains that Jack is making him miss Christmas with his family.
16	* AmbitionIsEvil:
17	** At the outset, Kate worries that her and Jack's relationship will be irreparably hurt if he takes a one-year banking internship. He tries to convince her that this is good for both of them, and he will never stop loving her. Since they clearly broke up at some point that year, and both of them went on to be wealthy, childless singletons, Kate was in the movie's moral right all along.
18	** Kate also has this attitude in Jack's glimpse: She opposes Jack's pursuit of a finance job in New York from the very beginning and will not hear of leaving behind their comfortable, if dull, suburban life. [[IWantMyBelovedToBeHappy She does agree to try it after that, but Jack decides to let them keep the life she prefers instead.]]
19	* ArtisticLicenseGeography: Arnie indicates that he and Jack live in Union County, New Jersey. However, signs around town indicate that they live in or near Teaneck in Bergen County, which is not contiguous to Union County.
20	* AsianStoreOwner: At the convenience store where Jack and Cash first meet.
21	* BestFriend: Arnie, to Jack.
22	* BigFancyHouse: Jack shows Kate the one being offered to him as a perk of joining the New York City investment house.
23	* BigFriendlyDog: Lucy, the Campbell family's Mastiff mix.
24	* BigFun: Bill, Jack and Arnie's overweight, [[ThePianoPlayer piano-playing]] neighbor.
25	* {{Bookends}}: The film begins and ends at an airport.
26	* CannotSpitItOut: Jack almost tells Kate the truth about his glimpse. Mid-sentence, he changes his mind and tells her that he ''feels like'' he is living someone else's life.
27	* ChekhovsGun: The bicycle bell that Cash gives Jack, who knows his glimpse is coming to an end when he hears Annie ringing it.
28	* ChristmasMiracle: Jack encounters Cash on Christmas Eve, and his glimpse begins with him waking up on Christmas morning in an alternate life where he is Kate's husband and Annie and Josh's father.
29	* ColorMotif: The first time we see Kate as she is saying goodbye to Jack at the airport, she is wearing a multicolored sweater, symbolizing the conflicting emotions in the scene. Throughout Jack's glimpse, she wears a variety of soft solid colors, symbolizing her contentment with her happy family life. When he finally reconnects with her in the real-life present, she is dressed in head-to-toe black, symbolizing the aggressive, career-driven nature she has developed since she and Jack were last together.
30	* CoolCar: Jack's Ferrari and Peter's Rolls-Royce.
31	* CorruptCorporateExecutive: Jack Campbell's boss kinda comes across as such; he even jokes about the idea.
32	* CourtlyLove: The "quasi-sexual witty banter" between Jack and his neighbor is a downplayed version.
33	-->'''Jack''': So, when are you going to leave that old corpse, Mr. Peterson, and run away with me?
34	-->'''Mrs. Peterson''': You know you could never satisfy me the way he does.
35	-->'''Jack''': Ah.
36	* CueTheRain: Frozen version: Jack's glimpse [[BookEnds begins and ends]] with gently falling snow.
37	* TheDiaperChange: Complete with a TinkleInTheEye.
38	* DidNotGetTheGirl: [[spoiler: Subverted by the end of the film.]]
39	* TheDutifulSon: Son-in-law, technically. The reason Jack works at Big Ed's Tires is because his father-in-law needed his support following a heart attack.
40	* EarnYourHappyEnding
41	* EffectiveKnockoff: Kate finds a perfect off-brand copy of the Ermenegildo Zegna suit that Jack had been admiring.
42	* FamilyMan: [[MarriedToTheJob A successful but lonely businessman]] who has a WhatIf scenario in which he has a family with his ex-girlfriend from college instead being a successful man he is now.
43	* FamilyVersusCareer:
44	** Jack is a rare male example of this dilemma.
45	** The real-life Kate has also made this choice, becoming a high-powered corporate lawyer who has yet to marry or have children.
46	** Subverted with Alan Mintz. In real life, he has both, but struggles to balance them; in Jack's glimpse, he seems to be better at integrating the two.
47	** Averted with P.K. Lassiter, who happily chooses his career every time and only seems to have affection for his horses.
48	* FancyDinner:
49	-->'''Jack''': We'll have the terrine of quail breast with shiitake mushrooms to start, then the veal medallions in raspberry truffle sauce, and the sea scallops with puréed artichoke hearts.
50	* FigureItOutYourself: Cash dumps Jack into an alternate life with no information whatsoever about his life, job, etc. So Kate thinks right away that Jack is acting horribly when he forgets their anniversary, doesn't know how to communicate with her, etc. Part of it is that Jack just wants to get back to his own life (initially), but it also stems from the fact he simply doesn't know anything about this new life.
51	* ForgottenAnniversary: Understandable under the circumstances. Jack makes up for it with a FancyDinner in TheCity.
52	* FreakOut: It wouldn't be a Creator/NicolasCage movie without a couple.
53	** When he wakes up as the husband of Kate and the father of Annie and Josh and has no idea what to make of the situation.
54	** When blaming Kate for letting him give up on his dreams of fabulous success in business.
55	--->All right, look, I'm sorry. I'm sorry I was such a ''saint'' before and I'm such a '''''[[SuddenlyShouting PRICK]]''''' now! But maybe I'm just not the ''same guy'' that I was when we got married!
56	* GirlsLoveChocolate:
57	** Annie feels better about the glimpse version of Jack after he assures her that he can learn how to make chocolate milk.
58	--->'''Jack''': Let me know if there's enough chocolate in there, sweetheart.
59	--->'''Annie''': ''(sips)'' Mmm. Not bad.
60	** Kate eats a piece of chocolate cake that Jack had been coveting.
61	* GodWasMyCopilot: It's implied that Cash is some sort of GuardianAngel, though he never says so outright. He throws Jack into an AlternateUniverse so he can get a glimpse of the life he might have had if he had made different choices. It seems like he was initially going to offer a similar glimpse to the AsianStoreOwner he was arguing with, but he blew his shot before Jack intervened.
62	* GoodOlBoy: Big Ed, who sounds and dresses like a DeepSouth denizen [[StereotypeFlip despite being from suburban New Jersey]].
63	* GrandeDame: Mrs. Peterson, Jack's [[PrettyInMink fur-coated]], [[MisterMuffykins puppy-carrying]] neighbor.
64	* HappierHomeMovie: Jack watches one in which he [[SerenadeYourLover serenades Kate]] at her birthday party in front of the entire neighborhood.
65	* HeelFaceTurn: Jack, though he wasn't a really ''evil'' guy to begin with.
66	* HollywoodToneDeaf:
67	** Jack, during performances of "La donna è mobile" (complete with AirGuitar) and "La La La Means I Love You".
68	** Kate, while singing "Beast of Burden".
69	* HomemadeSweaterFromHell: Kate regales the Christmas party guests with a story of receiving one of these.
70	* HyperventilationBag: Cash gives one to Jack.
71	* INeedAFreakingDrink: Jack goes straight for the liquor at Evelyn's Christmas party.
72	* ItsAWonderfulPlot: An [[InvertedTrope Inversion]]. Jack is shown how much fuller and happier his life would be had he stayed with his girlfriend after college rather than moving to London and starting his rich-but-lonely life and career as a high-powered stockbroker.
73	* ItsCuban: Averted; Jack's friend Nick offers American-made cigars at the Christmas party.
74	* LethalChef: Evelyn. Her [[ThroughHisStomach attempt to seduce Jack]] by shoving a homemade mushroom puff into his mouth fails as soon as he tastes it.
75	* LiterallyLovingThyNeighbor: Evelyn makes it clear to Jack that she would like the two of them to engage in this.
76	* TheLoinsSleepTonight: Jack dozes off while Kate is dressing for sex.
77	* LonelyAtTheTop: Jack's life after moving to London in 1987, although he doesn't realize it until he's shown [[ItsAWonderfulPlot what might have been]] had he not embarked on his high-powered Wall Street career.
78	* LongDistanceRelationship: Averted; Jack and Kate's youthful attempt to have one of these clearly did not succeed.
79	* MagicalNegro: Cash is the black man who sends Jack to a WhatIf universe to show him what his life might have been if he had taken different choices. It's never stated, though implied, that [[GodWasMyCopilot he's Jack's guardian angel]].
80	* MarriedToTheJob:
81	** In Jack's original life, he didn't really have anything outside of his job as a high-level Wall Street executive. He even spends Christmas night alone because he [[LonelyAtTheTop doesn't have anywhere to go]].
82	** His boss plays this straight too (in both realities), though he proudly claims that it's because [[CardCarryingJerkass he's simply a heartless bastard]].
83	* MaybeEverAfter: Jack experiences what his life would have been like [[ItsAWonderfulPlot if he had married his college girlfriend Kate]], causing him to realize that he's LonelyAtTheTop in his job as a Wall Street executive. He tracks down Kate, who is in town for only a few days, to make a heartfelt confession about the life he saw they had together. She takes him up on his offer of a cup of coffee to talk things over, but it's left ambiguous if they will become a couple. Even if they do, their life would obviously still be very different from the "glimpse" that the angel showed Jack.
84	* MiseryBuildsCharacter: After Jack suffers the pain of losing the glimpse of a loving wife and family, he finally begins to lose his [[MarriedToTheJob single-minded career focus]].
85	* MistakenForAliens: Annie thinks Jack is an alien who has taken the place of her real father. Jack runs with it so she will help him assimilate to his new life.
86	-->'''Annie''': Welcome to Earth.
87	* MustHaveCaffeine: Kate groggily asks for "''strong'' coffee" on Christmas morning.
88	* NiceToTheWaiter: Jack is on a first-name basis with the security guards at his apartment building and his office.
89	* OpinionChangingDream: A mysterious man named Cash shows Jack an alternate life where he chose to start a family with his college girlfriend Kate rather than become a Wall Street executive who doesn't yet realize he's LonelyAtTheTop. Cash describes this as a "glimpse" and thus only temporary, but Jack does wake up in the same place and time before the glimpse began, his downtown bachelor's apartment. The experience leads him to track down Kate and reconnect with her after by giving a heartfelt description of the life he saw they had together.
90	%%* OverTheTopChristmasDecorations: At Evelyn's house.
91	* PlayfulPursuit: Jack realizes Kate is eating the slice of cake he saved for himself; she responds by running with it, and Jack's irritation quickly turns into a goofy, flirty chase trying to take the cake back until he pulls her down on the stairs. It's the first time he starts bonding to his new modest life.
92	* PleaseIWillDoAnything: Jack tells Peter that he is willing to park cars if it means working for his company.
93	* PrecisionFStrike: During Arnie's WhatTheHellHero scene.
94	** This is changed to "foul" in [[https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O8Yu7lNNPNQ&ab_channel=EssentialChurch a very slightly edited version of this scene used as a church teaching resource]].
95	%%* RaceForYourLove
96	* RetailTherapy: After losing his patience with a particularly long trip to the mall, Jack visits the men's department at Bloomingdale's for some of this. Soon after, however, he reaches his RageBreakingPoint after Kate refuses to let him buy the $2,400 suit he is trying on.
97	%% * SassySecretary: Adelle, Jack's snarky assistant.
98	%% * TheScrooge: Jack Campbell, before he got better.
99	* SharpDressedMan: Jack, at first. His standards decline considerably during his glimpse.
100	* ShowerScene: Kate is SingingInTheShower before her husband Jack interrupts her. Since from Jack's point of view he hasn't seen her in years, he is quite taken aback by seeing her nude.
101	* SmugSnake: The alternate version of Alan Mintz. He actually tries to appear intimidating to Jack, who from his perspective is just some upstart or even a fraud looking to hit it big, but since Jack already knows Alan as a timid coworker in the real world, he just laughs in his face.
102	* SoulSuckingRetailJob: Jack views his job at Big Ed's Tires this way.
103	-->I... spend eight hours a day selling tires retail. ''Retail'', Kate.
104	* {{Suburbia}}: Jack spends much of his glimpse trying to get used to life here. After Kate rejects his efforts to relocate the family to TheCity, he finally makes peace with their New Jersey home.
105	* WetBlanketWife: Kate, who resists all of Jack's attempts to improve upon their solid but dull life in middle-class suburbia.
106	* WhatIf: The entire meaning of Jack's alternate life, or ''glimpse''. What if he stayed with his girlfriend Kate in the United States rather than travel to London to jumpstart his career in finance?
107	* WhatTheHellHero: Jack gets one from his alternate-universe buddy Arnie when Jack wants to have a fling with another woman coming onto him (Jack thinks this is OK because this isn't his life, so Kate isn't really his wife). Arnie reminds him how much all of his friends are envious that Jack is happily married to someone like Kate and that he shouldn't "[[PrecisionFStrike fuck up]]" the best thing to ever happen to him.
108	* WhiteMansBurden: Jack, in his status as a powerful man from Wall Street, offers to buy Cash's invalid lottery ticket, and even tries to offer him into assistance programs. This is {{lampshade\|Hanging}}d by Cash:
109	-->'''Cash:''' Are you actually trying to save me? This is bananas! [''yells around''] This man thinks I need to be saved, yo!
110	* WholePlotReference: The Creator/KevinSorbo movie ''What If...'' follows this plotline almost exactly, except the lead male--who is engaged to another woman before he has his glimpse--gave up his faith in addition to the life he could have had with his ex.
111	* {{Workaholic}}: Jack, who often expects his co-workers to match his addiction at the expense of their personal lives.

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