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** The apology was lame to begin with; whether it's a cheap ApologyGift or a half-assed verbal apology, it was worth rejecting on Alice's part.
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** "You're ''not'' sorry, Bob. You ''never'' were. You'll just take my forgiveness and abuse it, you'll take it as a pardon to keep hurting me over, and over, and over again. And even if I do scare you into submission, eventually you're going to grow and fester your anger towards me, you'll get your sweet, ''sweet'' revenge when it's BestServedCold. What makes you think I'll just let you get away with it? What makes you think I'm going to forgive you, and trust that you won't continue your hurtful ways? ''Nothing'', Bob. ''NOTHING''. I don't just think, I don't just believe, I ''KNOW'' that my forgiveness to you is a big, bold green light for continuing this idiotic cycle of torment. You can't just cut it with begging for forgiveness; [[DeadlyEuphemism There's only one way to end the misery]]."

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* '''Defied''': Alice didn't say anything after Bob apologized, only giving him a withering look. After that, she stopped responding to his texts and calls.



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*** Alternatively, Bob simply takes his apology back since Alice is so ungrateful to him.

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*** Alternatively, Bob was hoping he could at least be on better terms with Alice. But since she rejects his apology, he simply takes his apology it back since Alice is so ungrateful to him.she would still feel bitterly the same, apology or not.
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*** Alternatively, Bob simply takes his apology back since Alice is so ungrateful to him.
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** Bob is chiefly apologizing because he knows he’ll soon need something from Alice. Alice knows this, so she rejects his apology.

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** Bob is a bully and Alice has realized that to forgive him would effectively just give him a pardon and let him continue as he pleases. So she rejects his apology on the grounds he's just asking for permission to continue bully her.



** Bob apologised but Alice refuses to forgive him out of spite, instead choosing to [[MaliciousSlander run his name through the mud]] and [[PlayingTheVictimCard keep playing the victim card]]. Eventually, Bob gives up after seeing that Alice will never forgive him and it's not worth it.

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** Bob apologised apologized but Alice refuses to forgive him out of spite, instead choosing to [[MaliciousSlander run his name through the mud]] and [[PlayingTheVictimCard keep playing the victim card]]. Eventually, Bob gives up after seeing that Alice will never forgive him and it's not worth it.

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** Alice overreacted to what Bob did, never made her boundaries clear enough before Bob upset her, and she blurred the lines of their relationship. Causing Bob to upset her without realising and over-apologise for the sins he wasn't aware of.



** Since Alice never gave an answer to Bob's apology, he keeps trying to apologise because he either; has self-esteem issues, doesn't understand what he did wrong in the first place, can't comprehend her hatred of him, or she keeps putting him through hoops for her forgiveness. Eventually, Bob finally accepts that some things can't be forgiven and some people will choose to hold grudges/play the victim even when it's not in their best interests. This makes Bob accept Alice's hatred of him and hate her too for making him feel guilty for petty reasons.

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** Since Alice never gave an answer to Bob's apology, he keeps trying to apologise because he either; has self-esteem issues, doesn't understand what he did wrong in the first place, can't comprehend her hatred of him, or she keeps putting him through hoops for her forgiveness. Eventually, Bob finally accepts that some things can't be forgiven and some people will choose to hold grudges/play grudges and play the victim even when it's not in their best interests. This makes Bob accept Alice's hatred of him and hate her too for making him feel guilty for petty reasons.



** Since Alice refuses to speak to Bob about what happened, Bob can't let it go and starts warping the argument in his head, either punishing himself too much over what happened or he starts blaming Alice for what happened. By the time Alice and Bob see each other again, Bob is overwhelmed with rage and calls her out in front of everyone for making feel bad and for rejecting his apologies.

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** Since Alice refuses to speak to Bob about what happened, Bob can't let it go and starts warping the argument in his head, either punishing himself too much over what happened or he starts blaming Alice for what happened. By the time Alice and Bob see each other again, Bob is overwhelmed with rage and calls her out in front of everyone for making him feel bad and for rejecting his apologies.
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** Alice overreacted to what Bob did, never made her boundaries clear enough, and blurred the lines of their relationship. Causing Bob to upset her without realising and over-apologise for the sins he wasn't aware of.

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** Alice overreacted to what Bob did, never made her boundaries clear enough, enough before Bob upset her, and she blurred the lines of their relationship. Causing Bob to upset her without realising and over-apologise for the sins he wasn't aware of.



** Since Alice never gave an answer to Bob's apology, he keeps trying to apologise because he either; doesn't understand what he did wrong in the first place, can't compehend her hatred to him, or she keeps putting him through hoops for her forgiveness. Eventually, Bob finally accepts that some things can't be forgiven and some people will choose to hold grudges/play the victim even when it's not in their best interests. This makes Bob accept Alice's hatred of him and hate her too for making him feel guilty for petty reasons.

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** Since Alice never gave an answer to Bob's apology, he keeps trying to apologise because he either; has self-esteem issues, doesn't understand what he did wrong in the first place, can't compehend comprehend her hatred to of him, or she keeps putting him through hoops for her forgiveness. Eventually, Bob finally accepts that some things can't be forgiven and some people will choose to hold grudges/play the victim even when it's not in their best interests. This makes Bob accept Alice's hatred of him and hate her too for making him feel guilty for petty reasons.

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* '''Subverted''': It's found out that Alice got over her grudge and forgives Bob completely.

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** Alice overreacted to what Bob did, never made her boundaries clear enough, and blurred the lines of their relationship. Causing Bob to upset her without realising and over-apologise for the sins he wasn't aware of.
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It's found out that Alice got over her grudge and forgives Bob completely.completely.
** The argument lasted so long that Alice forgot they were fighting.



** Or, because Alice rejected his apology, [[FreudianExcuse this has caused Bob]] [[TheUnapologetic to never apologize if he]] [[ThenLetMeBeEvil makes the next mistake]], [[StartOfDarkness thus beginning his sociopathic lifestyle]].

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** Since Alice never gave an answer to Bob's apology, he keeps trying to apologise because he either; doesn't understand what he did wrong in the first place, can't compehend her hatred to him, or she keeps putting him through hoops for her forgiveness. Eventually, Bob finally accepts that some things can't be forgiven and some people will choose to hold grudges/play the victim even when it's not in their best interests. This makes Bob accept Alice's hatred of him and hate her too for making him feel guilty for petty reasons.
** Or, because Alice rejected his apology, [[FreudianExcuse this has caused Bob]] [[TheUnapologetic to never apologize if he]] [[ThenLetMeBeEvil makes the next mistake]], devoids himself of pity, and [[StartOfDarkness thus beginning his sociopathic lifestyle]].


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** Since Alice refuses to speak to Bob about what happened, Bob can't let it go and starts warping the argument in his head, either punishing himself too much over what happened or he starts blaming Alice for what happened. By the time Alice and Bob see each other again, Bob is overwhelmed with rage and calls her out in front of everyone for making feel bad and for rejecting his apologies.
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** Alice would rather play the victim card than forgive Bob so she rejects his apologies.


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** Bob apologised but Alice refuses to forgive him out of spite, instead choosing to [[MaliciousSlander run his name through the mud]] and [[PlayingTheVictimCard keep playing the victim card]]. Eventually, Bob gives up after seeing that Alice will never forgive him and it's not worth it.
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** Bob [[BeAllMySinsRemembered consistently refuses to forgive himself]], despite everyone else [[Forgiveness forgiving him.]]

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** Bob [[BeAllMySinsRemembered consistently refuses to forgive himself]], despite everyone else [[Forgiveness [[{{Forgiveness}} forgiving him.]]
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** Bob [[BeAllMySinsRemembered consistently refuses to forgive himself]] for his transgressions, even though everyone around him says they no longer resent him.

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** Bob [[BeAllMySinsRemembered consistently refuses to forgive himself]] for his transgressions, even though himself]], despite everyone around him says they no longer resent else [[Forgiveness forgiving him.]]
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** Bob [[BeAllMySinsRemembered consistently refuses to forgive himself]] for his transgressions, even though everyone around him says they no longer resent him.
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** [[MilhollandRelationshipMoment Alice doesn't believe Bob's "crime" necessitates an apology.]]
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** Because Alice is so adamant on not forgiving Bob for his mistake, and to the point of calling him selfish for wanting it despite putting in a genuine effort of atonement, the latter comes to the conclusion that trying to earn her forgiveness is a lost cause and moves on with the encouragement of other, more forgiving people that do acknowledge his efforts. By the time Alice does find it in her to forgive him, Bob simply shrugs it off and walks away.

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** Because Alice is so adamant on not forgiving Bob for his mistake, and to the point of calling him selfish for wanting it despite putting in a genuine effort of atonement, the latter comes to the conclusion that trying to earn her forgiveness is a lost cause and moves on with the encouragement of other, more forgiving people that do acknowledge his efforts. By the time Alice does find it in her to forgive him, Bob Bob, it's way too late since it's coming from someone who held a grudge against him for an unreasonable amount of time for it to mean anything to him anymore, leaving her despondent as he simply shrugs brushes it off aside and walks away.off.
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** Because Alice is so adamant on not forgiving Bob for his mistake, and to the point of calling him selfish for wanting it despite putting in a genuine effort of atonement, the latter comes to the conclusion that trying to earn her forgiveness is a lost cause and moves on with the encouragement of other, more forgiving people that do acknowledge his efforts. By the time Alice does find it in her to forgive him, Bob simply shrugs it off and walks away.
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** Bob's apology comes long after the fact; Alice considers it "too little, too late".
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** Bob needs to learn that a simple "sorry" isn't going to fix everything.

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