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10th Aug '16 9:06:14 PM nombretomado
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* In ''[[{{Deryni}} The Quest for Saint Camber]]'', Kelson has a vivid dream of marrying and mating with Rothana during his ''cruaidh-dheuchainn''. Meanwhile, Dhugal observes a young female Servant named Rhidian disappear through another door near the underground chapel (the girl is gone for an hour); he later speculates that Kelson participated in some kind of sexual initiation or ritual marriage, but he doesn't share this idea with Kelson.

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* In ''[[{{Deryni}} ''[[Literature/{{Deryni}} The Quest for Saint Camber]]'', Kelson has a vivid dream of marrying and mating with Rothana during his ''cruaidh-dheuchainn''. Meanwhile, Dhugal observes a young female Servant named Rhidian disappear through another door near the underground chapel (the girl is gone for an hour); he later speculates that Kelson participated in some kind of sexual initiation or ritual marriage, but he doesn't share this idea with Kelson.
1st Aug '16 6:40:40 AM Morgenthaler
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** And even more so in ''Film/AmericanPie: The Naked Mile'', where ironically this trope was shoehorned as the secondary plot (because watching nude people was [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin the one true point of that movie]]).

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** And even more so in ''Film/AmericanPie: The Naked Mile'', ''Film/AmericanPieTheNakedMile'', where ironically this trope was shoehorned as the secondary plot (because watching nude people was [[ExactlyWhatItSaysOnTheTin the one true point of that movie]]).



* Boner (pronounced "Bonner") in ''Film/ShriekIfYouKnowWhatIDidLastFridayTheThirteenth''. He spends the entire movie trying to get some. At one point, he spontaneously declares that the protagonists should [[AmericanPie make a pact to lose their virginity before graduating]]. Everyone turns him down simultaneously (but [[TheDitz Slab O'Beef]] agrees). At lunch (oysters, natch), he laments that roofies aren't getting him laid when he takes them (Slab opines that he's not taking enough). Even when it looks like he's getting some at the climax, it's all [[InnocentInnuendo sight gags]] to illustrate [[ActionGirl Martina Martinez's]] [[Film/{{Scream 1996}} rules of a parody situation]]. A HospitalHottie jumps him for his BiggusDickus as he's being loaded into an ambulance. The WhereAreTheyNowEpilogue reveals that she's a post-op transsexual; Boner doesn't care.

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* Boner (pronounced "Bonner") in ''Film/ShriekIfYouKnowWhatIDidLastFridayTheThirteenth''. He spends the entire movie trying to get some. At one point, he spontaneously declares that the protagonists should [[AmericanPie [[Film/AmericanPie make a pact to lose their virginity before graduating]]. Everyone turns him down simultaneously (but [[TheDitz Slab O'Beef]] agrees). At lunch (oysters, natch), he laments that roofies aren't getting him laid when he takes them (Slab opines that he's not taking enough). Even when it looks like he's getting some at the climax, it's all [[InnocentInnuendo sight gags]] to illustrate [[ActionGirl Martina Martinez's]] [[Film/{{Scream 1996}} rules of a parody situation]]. A HospitalHottie jumps him for his BiggusDickus as he's being loaded into an ambulance. The WhereAreTheyNowEpilogue reveals that she's a post-op transsexual; Boner doesn't care.
24th Jul '16 3:55:58 PM Ramidel
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* [[SubvertedTrope Subverted]] in Jeanne Da'ck's works (being hentai) where DeliberateValuesDissonance is PlayedForLaughs in that the sex is a gauntlet to [[RiteOfPassage become an adult and choose a lover upon completion.]] A [[AlwaysMale candidate]] is left alone in a well-stocked house (namely a PornStash) with a [[BigBeautifulWoman local woman]] for a week to tempt him to [[ADateWithRosiePalms just jerk off,]] which if he does [[DisproportionateRetribution would auto-DQ him and wait]] [[FourIsDeath four more years as a virgin before retaking the test]] with [[InnocentCohabitation sharing a bed,]] [[FetishFuel an undersized mini-skirt on Day 2, a bikini on Day 3 and]] [[FullFrontalAssault just being fully naked together on Day 4]] until midnight of the fifth day where he not only finally ''can'' have sex, but has to ''stay'' inside her for entire day ([[UrineTrouble including pee breaks]]) with Viagra-like medicine being allowed with a surprise sixth day where the candidate has to have sex with his own [[IncestIsRelative MOTHER and cum 15 times in her before midnight.]] Upon completion, [[EarnYourHappyEnding the candidate gets whatever woman of his choosing to live happily ever after with.]]
** The second time this culture is shown [[UpToEleven ups the ante with TWO local women,]] skips straight to naked time on the ''second'' day, [[BrainBleach has to watch his own mother have sex with a chief as a supposed learning aid]] for the fourth day, perpetual BJ on the fifth with the women allowed to tag out ([[DepartmentOfRedundancyDepartment yes, including pee breaks again]]) and all day sex to wrap up the sixth day.
9th Jul '16 4:46:41 PM MsChibi
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* In ''Literature/MemoirsOfAGeisha'', Sayuri's virginity is sold to the highest bidder, to reimburse the ''okiya'' for the cost of her training and outfits, and to signify Sayuri's transition from a ''maiko'' to a full-fledged geisha. [[note]] This ''was'' TruthInTelevision, though in modern times a maiko does not bid her virginity to anyone. [[/note]] Unlike most examples of this trope, Sayuri [[LieBackAndThinkOfEngland doesn't enjoy it.]]
26th Jun '16 10:28:34 AM nombretomado
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* Rare female example in ''[[BaldursGate Baldur's Gate II]]:'' if the player romances Aerie, she asks to sleep with the protagonist at the end of her romance arc to prove herself a woman rather than a girl. Accepting her offer leads to the ''bad'' ending of the romance-the good ending has the player teach Aerie the distinction between sex and love. The good ending leads to Aerie's continued romance arc in ''Throne of Bhaal'' where this trope is visited again as Aerie, very much in love, asks the protagonist to sleep with her again-not to become a woman, but because she loves the protagonist, and sleeping with her is the good path.

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* Rare female example in ''[[BaldursGate Baldur's Gate II]]:'' ''VideoGame/BaldursGateII'': if the player romances Aerie, she asks to sleep with the protagonist at the end of her romance arc to prove herself a woman rather than a girl. Accepting her offer leads to the ''bad'' ending of the romance-the good ending has the player teach Aerie the distinction between sex and love. The good ending leads to Aerie's continued romance arc in ''Throne of Bhaal'' where this trope is visited again as Aerie, very much in love, asks the protagonist to sleep with her again-not to become a woman, but because she loves the protagonist, and sleeping with her is the good path.
6th Jun '16 6:02:22 AM Morgenthaler
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** Taken to another level in TheMockbuster TheAsylum film, ''The 18-Year-Old Virgin''. The titular virgin is a female HollywoodNerd who wants to lose it to her crush at a party. The guy is open to the idea, but doesn't want to have sex with a virgin, so she has to find ''someone else'' to take her virginity before she can hook up with her dream guy. HilarityEnsues.

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** * Taken to another level in TheMockbuster TheAsylum Creator/TheAsylum film, ''The 18-Year-Old Virgin''. The titular virgin is a female HollywoodNerd who wants to lose it to her crush at a party. The guy is open to the idea, but doesn't want to have sex with a virgin, so she has to find ''someone else'' to take her virginity before she can hook up with her dream guy. HilarityEnsues.
4th Jun '16 12:28:31 PM Morgenthaler
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* Discussed in ''TheBadSeed'': during a discussion with friends, {{Motormouth}} Monica Breedlove mentions how much she despises sex being treated as a rite of passage in fiction; she feels sex is just another life experience, nothing more, nothing less, and goes into a surprisingly funny rant about how she would rather read a story about a boy casually losing his virginity to a prostitute.

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* Discussed in ''TheBadSeed'': ''Literature/TheBadSeed'': during a discussion with friends, {{Motormouth}} Monica Breedlove mentions how much she despises sex being treated as a rite of passage in fiction; she feels sex is just another life experience, nothing more, nothing less, and goes into a surprisingly funny rant about how she would rather read a story about a boy casually losing his virginity to a prostitute.



* ''ClanOfTheCaveBear'' series, in a rare female example in Jondalar's Cro-Magnon culture a girl's first time happens shortly after her first menses and is called First Rites. They can pick whichever eligible and consenting man they want to perform the ceremony. Boys get special training so that they will ensure the girl has a good time. A man's first time isn't really as specially celebrated although men who are frequently asked to perform First Rites are considered quite the stud. This is contrasted with the Neanderthal culture that raised Ayla, where sex is something men demand whenever they want, of any woman, who will immediately assume the...position. A young man who hated Ayla raped her repeatedly this way in order to flaunt his power over her and punish her for being herself, even though there was no sexual stigma.

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* ''ClanOfTheCaveBear'' ''Literature/ClanOfTheCaveBear'' series, in a rare female example in Jondalar's Cro-Magnon culture a girl's first time happens shortly after her first menses and is called First Rites. They can pick whichever eligible and consenting man they want to perform the ceremony. Boys get special training so that they will ensure the girl has a good time. A man's first time isn't really as specially celebrated although men who are frequently asked to perform First Rites are considered quite the stud. This is contrasted with the Neanderthal culture that raised Ayla, where sex is something men demand whenever they want, of any woman, who will immediately assume the...position. A young man who hated Ayla raped her repeatedly this way in order to flaunt his power over her and punish her for being herself, even though there was no sexual stigma.



* The ''MilesVorkosigan'' series has Miles' first time described in his thoughts and fitting the FeudalFuture, it matches a traditional one of European aristocrats- on a "Grand Tour". Miles went to [[PleasurePlanet Beta]] and had his first experience with a woman who had a fetish for those deformed like himself. When he saw her with someone else, he tried to slit his wrists and was only stopped from suicide by [[BattleButler Bothari]] (the context of Miles' memory is that he knows Bothari was a psycho, but he also remembers Bothari's kindness to him).

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* The ''MilesVorkosigan'' ''Literature/MilesVorkosigan'' series has Miles' first time described in his thoughts and fitting the FeudalFuture, it matches a traditional one of European aristocrats- on a "Grand Tour". Miles went to [[PleasurePlanet Beta]] and had his first experience with a woman who had a fetish for those deformed like himself. When he saw her with someone else, he tried to slit his wrists and was only stopped from suicide by [[BattleButler Bothari]] (the context of Miles' memory is that he knows Bothari was a psycho, but he also remembers Bothari's kindness to him).
30th May '16 12:49:48 AM Freezer
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* In the ''Literature/ApprenticeAdept'' series, werewolves can only receive full adult status (conferred by a fourth syllable in their name) by going through a ritual first mating. A female chooses a male to mate with when her first heat comes. There's no chance of pregnancy, but the two are barred from mating with each other again. Because of that restriction, the girl usually chooses an [[TrueCompanion Oath Friend]] for her partner.

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* In the ''Literature/ApprenticeAdept'' series, werewolves can only receive full adult status (conferred by a fourth syllable in their name) by going through a ritual first mating. A female chooses a male to mate with when her first heat comes. There's no chance of pregnancy, but the two are barred from mating with each other again. Because of that restriction, the girl usually chooses an [[TrueCompanion [[TrueCompanions Oath Friend]] for her partner.
30th May '16 12:49:29 AM Freezer
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* In the ''Literature/ApprenticeAdept'' series, werewolves can only receive full adult status (conferred by a fourth syllable in their name) by going through a ritual first mating (A female chooses a male to mate with when her first heat comes. There's no chance of pregnancy, but the two are barred from mating with each other again)

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* In the ''Literature/ApprenticeAdept'' series, werewolves can only receive full adult status (conferred by a fourth syllable in their name) by going through a ritual first mating (A mating. A female chooses a male to mate with when her first heat comes. There's no chance of pregnancy, but the two are barred from mating with each other again)again. Because of that restriction, the girl usually chooses an [[TrueCompanion Oath Friend]] for her partner.
24th May '16 7:01:30 AM Clare
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* "Summer (The First Time)" by Bobby Goldsboro.

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* "Summer (The First Time)" by Bobby Goldsboro. The song's narrator describes how, as a seventeen-year-old, he lost his virginity to a thirty-one-year-old woman.
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