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1st Jun '17 4:30:06 AM Anicomicgeek
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* Part of Roger's BerserkButton in ''Literature/WhoCensoredRogerRabbit'' is insinuating this about Jessica. [[spoiler:However, she's only married to him because of a genie and only for a year at that--but this version of Jessica Rabbit is a porn star.]]
30th May '17 11:37:39 AM mouschilight
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** On the other hand, fandom took this and ran away with it FAR more than canon. One of the biggest reasons of the hate against Ginny that goes on among fans ([[DieForOurShip specially if they're Hermione/Harry fans]]) is her supposed "sluttiness" and wanton ways of having... 3 boyfriends in 2 years (and actually [[spoiler:marrying the third one]])! Never mind that dating is ''[[TruthInTelevision extremely]]'' common in real life, and most girls date ''many'' guys, often times without sleeping with them, especially when they're as young as or even younger than Ginny, before they finally marry the man of their dreams. Also never mind that Hermione was the one who suggested that Ginny date other people to get over Harry.

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** On the other hand, fandom took this and ran away with it FAR more than canon. One of the biggest reasons of the hate against Ginny that goes on among fans ([[DieForOurShip specially if they're Hermione/Harry fans]]) is her supposed "sluttiness" and wanton ways of having... 3 boyfriends in 2 years (and actually [[spoiler:marrying the third one]])! Never mind that dating is ''[[TruthInTelevision extremely]]'' common in real life, and most girls date ''many'' guys, often times without ''without'' ever sleeping with them, especially when they're as young as or even younger than Ginny, before they finally marry the man of their dreams. Also never mind that Hermione was the one who suggested that Ginny date other people to get over Harry.
30th May '17 11:36:41 AM mouschilight
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** On the other hand, fandom took this and ran away with it FAR more than canon. One of the biggest reasons of the hate against Ginny that goes on among fans ([[DieForOurShip specially if they're Hermione/Harry fans]]) is her supposed "sluttiness" and wanton ways of having... 3 boyfriends in 2 years (and actually [[spoiler:marrying the third one]])!

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** On the other hand, fandom took this and ran away with it FAR more than canon. One of the biggest reasons of the hate against Ginny that goes on among fans ([[DieForOurShip specially if they're Hermione/Harry fans]]) is her supposed "sluttiness" and wanton ways of having... 3 boyfriends in 2 years (and actually [[spoiler:marrying the third one]])!one]])! Never mind that dating is ''[[TruthInTelevision extremely]]'' common in real life, and most girls date ''many'' guys, often times without sleeping with them, especially when they're as young as or even younger than Ginny, before they finally marry the man of their dreams. Also never mind that Hermione was the one who suggested that Ginny date other people to get over Harry.
7th May '17 7:09:44 PM EllaV
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** On the other hand, Phoebe gets around almost as much as Joey and never gets any flack for it. The only time it's mentioned is when ''she'' decides to settle down long-term and not have short term relationships. (She's about 34 by this stage). The guy she ends up with is unphased by her sexual history and she sleeps with him on their first date.

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** On the other hand, Phoebe gets around almost as much as Joey and never gets any flack for it. The only time it's mentioned is when ''she'' decides to settle down long-term and not have short term relationships. (She's about 34 by this stage). The guy she ends up with is unphased unfazed by her sexual history and she sleeps with him on their first date.
24th Apr '17 4:04:08 AM ChronoLegion
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* Angela Montenegro of ''Series/{{Bones}}'' averts this one: she has more sex than anyone else on the show, but doesn't get punished for it. Neither does Brennan, who isn't chaste herself. The only time Brennan's promiscuity is portrayed in a negative light is when she is dating two men simultaneously without telling them.

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* Angela Montenegro of ''Series/{{Bones}}'' averts this one: she has more sex than anyone else on the show, but doesn't get punished for it. Neither does Brennan, who isn't chaste herself. The only time Brennan's promiscuity is portrayed in a negative light is when she is dating two men simultaneously without telling them. There's also the mother of Booth's first child, who refused to marry him but has no problem with an occasional hookup with Booth despite dating someone at the time. This finally stops, when Bones intervenes and tells her that it isn't fair to the Catholic Booth.
24th Apr '17 4:00:16 AM ChronoLegion
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* In ''Literature/{{Corpies}}'', Bubble Bubble's [[CorporateSponsoredSuperhero corporate-sponsored]] public image is that of a demure, wholesome girl. She always wears sensible, conservative clothing. Then a paparazzi reveals that she slept with a movie director 2 years ago. Said director had failed to mention that he was already in a relationship with a well-known actress. When the paparazzi released the photos, the director, facing flak from both the public and his girlfriend, decided to shift the blame entirely to Bubble Bubble, claiming that, as a [[DifferentlyPoweredIndividual Super]], she might have used some kind of mind-control power on him. Despite Bubble Bubble's abilities being well documented, the non-Super public is clearly leaning towards the director's story and begins to [[SlutShaming slut-shame]] Bubble Bubble. Titan asks his agent Lenny to take Bubble Bubble on as a client. Instead of trying to rescue her "quiet girl" image, which he could do, he suggests that, instead, she owns having consensual sex with a man she thought was single. The fact that ''he'' cheated on his girlfriend says absolutely nothing about her, since she didn't know. When she goes on a talk show, the host, predictably, attacks her, only for her to turn the table on him and aggressively attack this outdated trope, pointing out that the's absolutely nothing wrong with a woman having consensual sex with someone she likes. The host doesn't know what to say, having clearly not been prepared for this.
14th Feb '17 10:51:12 AM DarthNANAME
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* Averted in ''VideoGame/{{Roommates}}''. Isabella is a shameless flirt and it's implied that she ReallyGetsAround, but it's never portrayed as being a bad thing.
2nd Feb '17 9:17:02 PM Idek618
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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own--so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a--evolutionary speaking--high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing.[[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].

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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own--so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an and thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a--evolutionary speaking--high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing.[[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].
20th Jan '17 3:50:44 AM Hyoroemon
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* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'': Emi, who was quite confidently sexual with Hisao in her route, experiments with anal a few days after starting a relationship with him, implies she's done some sexual stuff before ("Most of this is new to me."), and is revealed to have had a boyfriend before. Most of the fandom didn't care, but even then it wasn't uncommon to see comments about her supposed "easiness."




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* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'': [[spoiler:Emi ]], who was quite confidently sexual with Hisao in her route, experiments with anal a few days after starting a relationship with him, implies she's [[spoiler:done some sexual stuff before ("Most of this is new to me.")]], and is revealed to [[spoiler:have had a boyfriend before]]. Most of the fandom didn't care, but even then it wasn't uncommon to see comments about her supposed "easiness."
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19th Jan '17 7:41:07 AM hullflyer
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* ''Series/TheSecretLifeOfUs''. Kelly feels like a slut for having sex with a man she is dating too quickly naturally she doesn't worry that ''he's'' a slut for having sex with her to quickly.

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* ''Series/TheSecretLifeOfUs''. Kelly feels like a slut for having sex with a man she is dating too quickly naturally she doesn't worry that ''he's'' a slut for having sex with her to too quickly.
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