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14th Feb '17 10:51:12 AM DarthNANAME
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* Averted in ''VideoGame/{{Roommates}}''. Isabella is a shameless flirt and it's implied that she ReallyGetsAround, but it's never portrayed as being a bad thing.
2nd Feb '17 9:17:02 PM Idek618
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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own--so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a--evolutionary speaking--high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing.[[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].

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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own--so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an and thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a--evolutionary speaking--high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing.[[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].
20th Jan '17 3:50:44 AM Hyoroemon
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* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'': Emi, who was quite confidently sexual with Hisao in her route, experiments with anal a few days after starting a relationship with him, implies she's done some sexual stuff before ("Most of this is new to me."), and is revealed to have had a boyfriend before. Most of the fandom didn't care, but even then it wasn't uncommon to see comments about her supposed "easiness."




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* ''VisualNovel/KatawaShoujo'': [[spoiler:Emi ]], who was quite confidently sexual with Hisao in her route, experiments with anal a few days after starting a relationship with him, implies she's [[spoiler:done some sexual stuff before ("Most of this is new to me.")]], and is revealed to [[spoiler:have had a boyfriend before]]. Most of the fandom didn't care, but even then it wasn't uncommon to see comments about her supposed "easiness."
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19th Jan '17 7:41:07 AM hullflyer
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* ''Series/TheSecretLifeOfUs''. Kelly feels like a slut for having sex with a man she is dating too quickly naturally she doesn't worry that ''he's'' a slut for having sex with her to quickly.

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* ''Series/TheSecretLifeOfUs''. Kelly feels like a slut for having sex with a man she is dating too quickly naturally she doesn't worry that ''he's'' a slut for having sex with her to too quickly.
19th Jan '17 7:33:11 AM hullflyer
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*** Parker isn't bashed for sleeping with lots of women just for the way he treats them.

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*** Parker isn't bashed for sleeping with lots of women women, just for the way he treats them.
6th Jan '17 1:26:47 AM Morgenthaler
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* OlderThanFeudalism: Odysseus of {{Homer}}'s ''Literature/TheOdyssey'' slept with both Circe and later Calypso (although it may not have been voluntary, as he is described as trying to fight her desire, but she "compelled him") without any criticism from other characters, the gods, or the narrators. Back at home, Odysseus' wife Penelope remained faithful for 20 years, which was sort of the minimum acceptable behavior for a woman -- the unfaithful women in the story, Helen and Clytemnaestra, are viewed as responsible for some pretty major tragedies. After Odysseus returns he goes as far as killing all of the '''maids''' who slept with the suitors even though they just worked for him. Plus, you have three virgin goddesses (Hestia, Athena, Artemis) but ''definitely'' no virgin gods. Calypso even complains about this double standard -- male gods take human lovers all the time, but they object when a goddess does the same.

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* OlderThanFeudalism: Odysseus of {{Homer}}'s Creator/{{Homer}}'s ''Literature/TheOdyssey'' slept with both Circe and later Calypso (although it may not have been voluntary, as he is described as trying to fight her desire, but she "compelled him") without any criticism from other characters, the gods, or the narrators. Back at home, Odysseus' wife Penelope remained faithful for 20 years, which was sort of the minimum acceptable behavior for a woman -- the unfaithful women in the story, Helen and Clytemnaestra, are viewed as responsible for some pretty major tragedies. After Odysseus returns he goes as far as killing all of the '''maids''' who slept with the suitors even though they just worked for him. Plus, you have three virgin goddesses (Hestia, Athena, Artemis) but ''definitely'' no virgin gods. Calypso even complains about this double standard -- male gods take human lovers all the time, but they object when a goddess does the same.
19th Dec '16 2:46:42 PM Discar
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-->--Old proverb

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-->--Old proverb
-->-- '''Old proverb'''



* ''Literature/MemorySorrowAndThorn'' contains a somewhat complex version. Simon, raised a kitchen scullion, harbors an UnrequitedLove for [[RebelliousPrincess Princess Miriamele]]. Believing her to be out of his reach, he [[AManIsNotAVirgin tries (unsuccessfully) to "make time" with other girls]]. On a mission as her knight protector late in the story, as Simon finally works up the nerve to kiss her, Miriamele [[MomentKiller rebuffs him brutally]] with the knowledge that she slept with a Nabbanai nobleman while she was held captive on his ship. Simon is made furious by this perceived betrayal and rejection, and behaves so recklessly as a result that he nearly gets them both killed. For her part, Miriamele does this intentionally, believing herself to have been DefiledForever even though Aspitis effectively raped her. It takes several more chapters before they reconcile these issues.

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* ''Literature/MemorySorrowAndThorn'' contains a somewhat complex version. Simon, raised a kitchen scullion, harbors an UnrequitedLove for [[RebelliousPrincess Princess Miriamele]]. Believing her to be out of his reach, he [[AManIsNotAVirgin tries (unsuccessfully) to "make time" with other girls]].girls. On a mission as her knight protector late in the story, as Simon finally works up the nerve to kiss her, Miriamele [[MomentKiller rebuffs him brutally]] with the knowledge that she slept with a Nabbanai nobleman while she was held captive on his ship. Simon is made furious by this perceived betrayal and rejection, and behaves so recklessly as a result that he nearly gets them both killed. For her part, Miriamele does this intentionally, believing herself to have been DefiledForever even though Aspitis effectively raped her. It takes several more chapters before they reconcile these issues.
19th Dec '16 2:45:11 PM Discar
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This means that the leading lady will be in a monogamous "meaningful relationship", usually with the leading man, while the leading man will have a varied and adventurous sex life. Anyone knocking the chastity of the hero's girl is even more likely to get punched out than anyone calling the hero [[AManIsNotAVirgin a virgin]]. It could sometimes look like TheHero can [[YourCheatingHeart womanize]] happily to his heart's (or other organs') content, but [[IWillWaitForYou his best girl will still wait for him]]. This is why NatureAdoresAVirgin.

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This means that the leading lady will be in a monogamous "meaningful relationship", usually with the leading man, while the leading man will have a varied and adventurous sex life. Anyone knocking the chastity of the hero's girl is even more likely to get punched out than anyone calling the hero [[AManIsNotAVirgin [[VirginShaming a virgin]]. It could sometimes look like TheHero can [[YourCheatingHeart womanize]] happily to his heart's (or other organs') content, but [[IWillWaitForYou his best girl will still wait for him]]. This is why NatureAdoresAVirgin.



Compare AManIsNotAVirgin, NoGuyWantsToBeChased, BestHerToBedHer, DefiledForever, MadonnaWhoreComplex, NatureAdoresAVirgin, SlutShaming. Contrast TheUnfairSex, MyGirlIsASlut, GoodBadGirl, FreeLoveFuture.

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Compare AManIsNotAVirgin, NoGuyWantsToBeChased, BestHerToBedHer, DefiledForever, MadonnaWhoreComplex, NatureAdoresAVirgin, SlutShaming. Contrast TheUnfairSex, MyGirlIsASlut, GoodBadGirl, FreeLoveFuture.
12th Nov '16 1:13:56 PM ImperialMajestyXO
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** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]],

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** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]],misunderstanding]],
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3rd Nov '16 4:32:00 PM JakesBrain
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* ''Anime/PerfectBlue'' turns this into My IdolSinger Celebrity Crush Is Not A Slut, courtesy of Me-mania's obvious MadonnaWhoreComplex. One of the major concerns of the film is addressing how the idol business in Japan -- particularly the ContractualPurity part of it -- can wind up invoking these tropes.



-->'''Richter:''' I want that fucker dead!
-->'''Helm:''' I don't blame you, man. I wouldn't want a guy like Quaid porkin' my old lady.
-->'''Richter:''' You saying she likes it?
-->'''Helm:''' No, I'm sure she hated every minute of it.

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-->'''Richter:''' I want that fucker dead!
-->'''Helm:'''
dead!\\
'''Helm:'''
I don't blame you, man. I wouldn't want a guy like Quaid porkin' my old lady.
-->'''Richter:'''
lady.\\
'''Richter:'''
You saying she likes it?
-->'''Helm:'''
it?\\
'''Helm:'''
No, I'm sure she hated every minute of it.
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