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12th Nov '16 1:13:56 PM ImperialMajestyXO
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** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]],

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** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]],misunderstanding]],
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3rd Nov '16 4:32:00 PM JakesBrain
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* ''Anime/PerfectBlue'' turns this into My IdolSinger Celebrity Crush Is Not A Slut, courtesy of Me-mania's obvious MadonnaWhoreComplex. One of the major concerns of the film is addressing how the idol business in Japan -- particularly the ContractualPurity part of it -- can wind up invoking these tropes.



-->'''Richter:''' I want that fucker dead!
-->'''Helm:''' I don't blame you, man. I wouldn't want a guy like Quaid porkin' my old lady.
-->'''Richter:''' You saying she likes it?
-->'''Helm:''' No, I'm sure she hated every minute of it.

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-->'''Richter:''' I want that fucker dead!
-->'''Helm:'''
dead!\\
'''Helm:'''
I don't blame you, man. I wouldn't want a guy like Quaid porkin' my old lady.
-->'''Richter:'''
lady.\\
'''Richter:'''
You saying she likes it?
-->'''Helm:'''
it?\\
'''Helm:'''
No, I'm sure she hated every minute of it.
1st Nov '16 7:44:46 PM Eievie
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-->-- ''Old proverb''

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-->-- ''Old proverb''
-->--Old proverb



For the last few hundred or more years, sexually active men have often been admired for their virility and sexual 'conquests' (unless he is a cad, or [[UnusualEuphemism picking only low hanging fruit]])[[note]] It's not like things were always been that way for everyone. Culture in [[UsefulNotes/DynastiesFromShangToQing Ming Dynasty China]], for instance, held that a man was manly either by being a chaste warrior or an incredibly promiscuous and scholarly/cultured [[{{bishounen}} pretty-boy]]. One's life expectancy was supposed to be ''radically'' shorter if one was in the latter category, in part because medical science speculated that male ejaculation entailed transferring some of one's finite store of (male) life force to the receiver (which is why male masturbation was avoided by anyone with good sense), but largely because of all the jealous lovers and husbands.[[/note]] while a sexually active woman is more likely to be seen as being a trashy whore. For a man, the loss of his virginity is an achievement. For a woman, it is a surrender or, if outside of marriage, a filthy defilement. This probably has something to do with how a man can have hundreds of partners without any discernible consequence, whereas a woman in the same position would most likely be irreversibly changed into a mother forever.

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For the last few hundred or more years, sexually active men have often been admired for their virility and sexual 'conquests' "conquests" (unless he is a cad, or [[UnusualEuphemism picking only low hanging fruit]])[[note]] It's fruit]])[[note]]It's not like things were always been that way for everyone. Culture in [[UsefulNotes/DynastiesFromShangToQing Ming Dynasty China]], for instance, held that a man was manly either by being a chaste warrior or an incredibly promiscuous and scholarly/cultured [[{{bishounen}} pretty-boy]]. One's life expectancy was supposed to be ''radically'' shorter if one was in the latter category, in part because medical science speculated that male ejaculation entailed transferring some of one's finite store of (male) life force to the receiver (which is why male masturbation was avoided by anyone with good sense), but largely because of all the jealous lovers and husbands.[[/note]] while a sexually active woman is more likely to be seen as being a trashy whore. For a man, the loss of his virginity is an achievement. For a woman, it is a surrender or, if outside of marriage, a filthy defilement. This probably has something to do with how a man can have hundreds of partners without any discernible consequence, whereas a woman in the same position would most likely be irreversibly changed into a mother forever.



This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own - so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a - evolutionary speaking - high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing. [[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].

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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own - so own--so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a - evolutionary speaking - high a--evolutionary speaking--high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing. [[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].



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** More recently, she has sworn off SuperHero bedhopping...and then "falls off the wagon". But, she notes, if you had to fall off the wagon, you could do worse than Hercules...who is stunned when she treats it as a one-night stand and not something more.

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** More recently, she has sworn off SuperHero bedhopping... and then "falls off the wagon". But, she notes, if you had to fall off the wagon, you could do worse than Hercules... who is stunned when she treats it as a one-night stand and not something more.



* This comes up a fair amount for ''Fanfic/ThePrayerWarriors'', such as when Jerry watches [[Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians Annabeth]] fight in the coliseum (she isn't his girlfriend- or even Percy's- though).
-->'''Crowd''': "You Christian slut! I bet you had sex with your priest!"
-->'''Jerry's Narration''': I knew deep down that Annabeth was not a slut. Although she was a prostitute when she was under the controls of the false gods Zeus and Venus, since she had converted to Christianity she had stayed clean.

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* This comes up a fair amount for ''Fanfic/ThePrayerWarriors'', such as when Jerry watches [[Literature/PercyJacksonAndTheOlympians Annabeth]] fight in the coliseum (she isn't his girlfriend- girlfriend -- or even Percy's- Percy's -- though).
-->'''Crowd''': "You You Christian slut! I bet you had sex with your priest!"
-->'''Jerry's
priest!\\
''Jerry's
Narration''': I knew deep down that Annabeth was not a slut. Although she was a prostitute when she was under the controls of the false gods Zeus and Venus, since she had converted to Christianity she had stayed clean.






*** However, that happened when he doubted her the ''second'' time - the first time she's just like "okay, I'll leap into an open flame to prove I'm a virgin". Later, they go back to the kingdom, she gets pregnant, and then a random subject questions Sita's loyalty, causing Rama to [[WhatTheHellHero send his pregnant wife into exile]]. Ten years late, he meets his twin boys and asks Sita to jump into the fire again because he can't bear to be apart from their sweet little faces, which is when she says screw you.

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*** However, that happened when he doubted her the ''second'' time - the time--the first time she's just like "okay, I'll leap into an open flame to prove I'm a virgin". Later, they go back to the kingdom, she gets pregnant, and then a random subject questions Sita's loyalty, causing Rama to [[WhatTheHellHero send his pregnant wife into exile]]. Ten years late, he meets his twin boys and asks Sita to jump into the fire again because he can't bear to be apart from their sweet little faces, which is when she says screw you.



** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]], from him being BlindWithoutEm...), but when the truth finally comes out, he decides to stay together with her and even begs her forgiveness for the way his friends treated her.
** Played with when Diana thinks Roger slept with Margaret. It's not clear if it actually happened, but eventually Margaret finds a way to placate Diana: She apologizes to Roger for "forgetting to pay" and hands him some money. Diana instantly forgives him--after all, if you're getting paid, it's just business.
* [[http://the-qlc.com/loserz/go/23 This]] ''Webcomic/{{Loserz}}'' strip.
* This and AManIsNotAVirgin are both explored in one chapter of ''Webcomic/BittersweetCandyBowl''. Poor Paulo.
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* Averted in ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'' with Lois, who has in the past slept with Gene Simmons of KISS, and Peter (a huge KISS fan) is actually proud. In addition, she's slept with Bill Clinton in-series. [[ThePornomancer So did Peter]].
** Though played straight otherwise as Peter gets insanely jealous whenever he meets one of Lois' ex-boyfriends who aren't famous rock-stars. He even punches out anyone or anything that he perceives to be hitting on Lois, including ''his own reflection''.
* ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark''. Cartmans mother is called a slut and a dirty whore for selling sex and being promiscuous while Chef gets no negative labels for the same actions.
** Inverted when Kenny is overjoyed (to the point of dancing around and cheering) to hear that his new fifth-grade girlfriend is a "notorious whore," as Cartman puts it.
* Spoofed on ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', where Bobby asks Hank about pre-marital sex, specifically "why is it okay for a boy to do it, but not okay for a girl?" Hank responds, "It's called the [[DoubleStandard double standard]]. And don't knock it, we got the long end of the stick on that one."
* In an episode of ''WesternAnimation/TheClevelandShow'', the hypocrisy of this trope was the main plot point. While Cleveland didn't want to have his step-daughter to have sex at all, he encouraged his son to get rid of his virignitiy ''as soon as possible with anyone''. He even becomes extremely embarassed and angry when his son makes an oath of abstinence in public.
* An episode of ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' reveals that nearly all married women in Langley Falls have cheated on her husband at least once. Francine is faithful to Stan, although he is distraught to learn that she has had hundreds of sexual partners before she met him (thought he admits that he knew she was a wild girl when they met). This causes problems in their marriage, so Francine files for divorce in order to allow him to sleep with another woman before they re-marry. She later changes her mind... but he goes through with it (after marrying the other woman first and then divorcing her on the same day).
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** Averted. Roger didn't realize that his new girlfriend, Diana, was a [[HookerWithAHeartOfGold prostitute]], even after ''paying her for sex'' (it had been [[http://www.crfh.net/d/20001102.html a bit of a misunderstanding]], from him being BlindWithoutEm...), but when the truth finally comes out, he decides to stay together with her and even begs her forgiveness for the way his friends treated her.
** Played with when Diana thinks Roger slept with Margaret. It's not clear if it actually happened, but eventually Margaret finds a way to placate Diana: She apologizes to Roger for "forgetting to pay" and hands him some money. Diana instantly forgives him--after all, if you're getting paid, it's just business.
* [[http://the-qlc.com/loserz/go/23 This]] ''Webcomic/{{Loserz}}'' strip.
* This and AManIsNotAVirgin are both explored in one chapter of ''Webcomic/BittersweetCandyBowl''. Poor Paulo.
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[[folder:Western Animation]]
* Averted in ''WesternAnimation/FamilyGuy'' with Lois, who has in the past slept with Gene Simmons of KISS, and Peter (a huge KISS fan) is actually proud. In addition, she's slept with Bill Clinton in-series. [[ThePornomancer So did Peter]].
** Though played straight otherwise as Peter gets insanely jealous whenever he meets one of Lois' ex-boyfriends who aren't famous rock-stars. He even punches out anyone or anything that he perceives to be hitting on Lois, including ''his own reflection''.
* ''WesternAnimation/SouthPark''. Cartmans mother is called a slut and a dirty whore for selling sex and being promiscuous while Chef gets no negative labels for the same actions.
** Inverted when Kenny is overjoyed (to the point of dancing around and cheering) to hear that his new fifth-grade girlfriend is a "notorious whore," as Cartman puts it.
* Spoofed on ''WesternAnimation/KingOfTheHill'', where Bobby asks Hank about pre-marital sex, specifically "why is it okay for a boy to do it, but not okay for a girl?" Hank responds, "It's called the [[DoubleStandard double standard]]. And don't knock it, we got the long end of the stick on that one."
* In an episode of ''WesternAnimation/TheClevelandShow'', the hypocrisy of this trope was the main plot point. While Cleveland didn't want to have his step-daughter to have sex at all, he encouraged his son to get rid of his virignitiy ''as soon as possible with anyone''. He even becomes extremely embarassed and angry when his son makes an oath of abstinence in public.
* An episode of ''WesternAnimation/AmericanDad'' reveals that nearly all married women in Langley Falls have cheated on her husband at least once. Francine is faithful to Stan, although he is distraught to learn that she has had hundreds of sexual partners before she met him (thought he admits that he knew she was a wild girl when they met). This causes problems in their marriage, so Francine files for divorce in order to allow him to sleep with another woman before they re-marry. She later changes her mind... but he goes through with it (after marrying the other woman first and then divorcing her on the same day).
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18th Oct '16 6:56:08 PM nombretomado
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* The women of ''{{Friends}}'' use the word slut as an insult to other women and - occasionally - each other but never give Joey any flack for his promiscuity and sex obsession unless he appears to be mistreating a woman.

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* The women of ''{{Friends}}'' ''Series/{{Friends}}'' use the word slut as an insult to other women and - occasionally - each other but never give Joey any flack for his promiscuity and sex obsession unless he appears to be mistreating a woman.
10th Oct '16 2:40:59 PM Terwanuli
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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists.[[/note]] Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].

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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]Of [[note]]But then again, if men don't take care of their children they may easily die before they have offsprings of their own - so the man's genes won't be passed on. And it would also be useful to pick only females with good genes to increase the chances of the survivial and reproduction of their children. Picking women with "bad" genes to have kids with might lead to falling in love with them an thus still "wasting" a lot of efffort to raise a child with her. Women, on the other hand, may have a - evolutionary speaking - high interest in not wasting too much time on the "wrong" man, so they may profit from "testing" men or having more than one man being attatched to them. The whole falling in love thing lasting only a limited time (the lovestruck part which more likely leads to sexual desire) is, evolutionary speaking, basically a compromise between staying together long enough to raise a child and not wasting top much time on a "bad" mate for both sexes. So the main point in the "My girl is not a slut" is probably a cultural thing. [[/note]] Of course, with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction, but the association persists.[[/note]] persists. Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].
8th Oct '16 5:57:03 AM avada
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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]Of course, we've evolved well beyond our base instincts by now, and with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction. Still, that kind of thing will probably takes centuries to shake off.[[/note]] Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].

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This is OlderThanFeudalism, due to the historical sexual DoubleStandard. This is partly explained by mere biology. A man can impregnate multiple women a day while a woman can only get pregnant once every nine months. Therefore, base animal reproductive instinct dictates that men should be having sex with as many women as possible while women should be very selective in choosing their mates in order to ensure that only the best genes are passed on to the next generation. [[note]]Of course, we've evolved well beyond our base instincts by now, and with all of the birth control methods available, the majority of sex people are having now is purely for recreation, not reproduction. Still, that kind of thing will probably takes centuries to shake off.reproduction, but the association persists.[[/note]] Plus, a sexually active but irresponsible woman is far more at risk than a man in a similar position. If she gets pregnant and daddy's just a GlorifiedSpermDonor, she's the one stuck with a fatherless child, while a man who ''is'' willing to care for his wife and children would feel rightfully screwed[[note]]or, considering what we're talking about, unscrewed[[/note]] if [[MamasBabyPapasMaybe he finds out he isn't really the daddy]].
30th Sep '16 1:53:17 AM Gowan
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* Averted in ''Literature/TheGoblinEmperor'': Maia is a virgin himself, and at one point in the narrative thinks that perhaps he should have asked his advisors to [[ArrangedMarriage arrange]] his marriage to a widow, so that at least one of them would know what they're doing. It also didn't help Maia's mother any to have come to her marriage bed a virgin - all that did was to ascertain that the emperor was indeed Maia's father, and having to acknowledge the half-goblin as potential heir was not something the elven emperor was happy about.
1st Aug '16 8:40:36 AM Morgenthaler
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* Openly criticised by ChristinaAguilera's song "Can't Hold Us Down"

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* Openly criticised by ChristinaAguilera's Music/ChristinaAguilera's song "Can't Hold Us Down"



* The JGeilsBand track "Centerfold" has the singer freaking out after seeing his teenage crush from years ago naked in PlayBoy and angsting about how it's ruined his fantasy memory.

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* The JGeilsBand Music/JGeilsBand track "Centerfold" has the singer freaking out after seeing his teenage crush from years ago naked in PlayBoy Magazine/PlayBoy and angsting about how it's ruined his fantasy memory.
17th Jul '16 8:46:53 AM nombretomado
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* This and AManIsNotAVirgin are both explored in one chapter of BittersweetCandyBowl. Poor Paulo.

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* This and AManIsNotAVirgin are both explored in one chapter of BittersweetCandyBowl.''Webcomic/BittersweetCandyBowl''. Poor Paulo.
28th May '16 7:15:32 PM Doug86
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* ''[[Film/{{Porkys}} Porky's 2: The Next Day]]'': In the previous film, Pee Wee was so desperate to have his {{Sex as Rite-of-Passage}} that he was happy to go with the easiest girl in the school and announce his new-found manhood with a Tarzan yell. Now he finds he likes her, and her reputation bothers him. "Before, I wanted it to be true, now I guess I don't," he says. Fear not, Pee Wee, Wendy's reputation was much exaggerated.

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* ''[[Film/{{Porkys}} Porky's 2: The Next Day]]'': In the previous film, Pee Wee was so desperate to have his {{Sex as Rite-of-Passage}} SexAsRiteOfPassage that he was happy to go with the easiest girl in the school and announce his new-found manhood with a Tarzan yell. Now he finds he likes her, and her reputation bothers him. "Before, I wanted it to be true, now I guess I don't," he says. Fear not, Pee Wee, Wendy's reputation was much exaggerated.
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