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* ''Series/CriminalMinds'': The BAU discusses this trope when they mention the reformer type of [[MonsterFangirl killer groupie]] in "[[Recap/CriminalMindsS4E2TheAngelMaker The Angel Maker]]", those who believe they can make their object of obsession into a better person. The UnSub on the other hand has hybristophilia and is attracted to the killer for their violent nature.

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* ''Series/CriminalMinds'': The BAU discusses this trope when they mention the reformer type of [[MonsterFangirl killer groupie]] in "[[Recap/CriminalMindsS4E2TheAngelMaker The Angel Maker]]", those who believe they can make their object of obsession into a better person. The UnSub [=UnSub=] on the other hand has hybristophilia and is attracted to the killer for their violent nature.
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* ''WesternAnimation/AdventureTime'': Finn finds out to his dismay that his new love interest, Flame Princess, is evil due to coming from an AlwaysChaoticEvil race of flame people. He discusses the situation with her father, who concedes that if a really good guy (like Finn) liked her then she could possibly be changed to good (although she'd [[TabletopGame/DungeonsAndDragons suffer penalties to her EXP for acting out of alignment]]). Of course, Flame Princess doesn't really ACT evil; she's just temperamental, naive, and has traces of BlueAndOrangeMorality about when it is and isn't appropriate to burn things.

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* ''WesternAnimation/AdventureTime'': [[Characters/AdventureTimeFinn Finn the Human]] finds out to his dismay that his new love interest, Flame Princess, is evil due to coming from an AlwaysChaoticEvil race of flame people. He discusses the situation with her father, who concedes that if a really good guy (like Finn) liked her then she could possibly be changed to good (although she'd [[TabletopGame/DungeonsAndDragons suffer penalties to her EXP for acting out of alignment]]). Of course, Flame Princess doesn't really ACT evil; she's just temperamental, naive, and has traces of BlueAndOrangeMorality about when it is and isn't appropriate to burn things.



* ''WesternAnimation/SheRaAndThePrincessesOfPower'': Scorpia is trying her hardest at this with Catra. It’s not that Catra is a slob or anything, but rather that she’s destructive, temperamental, and prone to lashing out, as well as being obsessed with winning over her ex-best friend Adora. Scorpia seems to think that if she loves Catra up enough, she’ll be able to heal. As of season three, it’s not working out for her. [[spoiler:Come season four, she comes to the realization that Catra is a terrible friend, and leaves the Horde.]]

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* ''WesternAnimation/SheRaAndThePrincessesOfPower'': Scorpia is trying her hardest at this with Catra.[[Characters/SheRaAndThePrincessesOfPowerCatra Catra]]. It’s not that Catra is a slob or anything, but rather that she’s destructive, temperamental, and prone to lashing out, as well as being obsessed with winning over her ex-best friend Adora. Scorpia seems to think that if she loves Catra up enough, she’ll be able to heal. As of season three, it’s not working out for her. [[spoiler:Come season four, she comes to the realization that Catra is a terrible friend, and leaves the Horde.]]



** Marge did this with Homer and insists it worked. See Page Quote. Lisa's response is to just pretend to agree with her.

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** [[Characters/TheSimpsonsMargeSimpson Marge Simpson]] did this with [[Characters/TheSimpsonsHomerSimpson Homer Simpson]] and insists it worked. See Page Quote. Lisa's response is to just pretend to agree with her.



* {{Deconstructed|Trope}} with Duncan and Courtney from ''WesternAnimation/TotalDrama''. While they start out as a sweet OppositesAttract couple, things take a turn for the worst when Courtney's ControlFreak tendencies begin to show up. She writes him a ''32-page long letter'' outlining all his faults and how to fix them in order to make him perfect for her. He votes her off for it, but they get back together in the finale. However, when she proves she hasn't learned come the next season, Duncan ends up hooking up with Gwen, who respects him for who he is and has a lot of common interests with him, leading to the end of their relationship.

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* {{Deconstructed|Trope}} with Duncan [[Characters/TotalDramaDuncan Duncan]] and Courtney [[Characters/TotalDramaCourtney Courtney]] from ''WesternAnimation/TotalDrama''. While they start out as a sweet OppositesAttract couple, things take a turn for the worst when Courtney's ControlFreak tendencies begin to show up. She writes him a ''32-page long letter'' outlining all his faults and how to fix them in order to make him perfect for her. He votes her off for it, but they get back together in the finale. However, when she proves she hasn't learned come the next season, Duncan ends up hooking up with Gwen, who respects him for who he is and has a lot of common interests with him, leading to the end of their relationship.



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* Deconstructed in ''Film/{{Lou|2022}}'' (2022). Hannah remained in an abusive relationship for years because she was convinced of this trope, blaming herself because her love wasn't enough to change him. It took her a long time to realise that [[AffablyEvil he was simply evil and what she saw as the good in him was just a facade]].

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* Deconstructed in ''Film/{{Lou|2022}}'' (2022). Hannah remained in an abusive relationship for years because she was convinced of this trope, blaming herself because her love wasn't enough to change him. It took her a long time to realise that [[AffablyEvil [[BitchInSheepsClothing he was simply evil and what she saw as the good in him was just a facade]].façade]].

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* ''Series/{{Degrassi|TheNextGeneration'': As there are many forms of featured couples on the show there are the nice main characters, who go for a few "misfit" characters so that they can make them good. Some have multiple examples, such as "cause girl" Emma, Christian girl Darcy, or rebellious high-achiever Alli. Some couples have the trope played straight, some have the partner change but moreso after the couple has broken up, and some avert it ''[[DomesticAbuse hard]]''.

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* ''Series/{{Degrassi|TheNextGeneration'': ''Series/CriminalMinds'': The BAU discusses this trope when they mention the reformer type of [[MonsterFangirl killer groupie]] in "[[Recap/CriminalMindsS4E2TheAngelMaker The Angel Maker]]", those who believe they can make their object of obsession into a better person. The UnSub on the other hand has hybristophilia and is attracted to the killer for their violent nature.
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As there are many forms of featured couples on the show there are the nice main characters, who go for a few "misfit" characters so that they can make them good. Some have multiple examples, such as "cause girl" Emma, Christian girl Darcy, or rebellious high-achiever Alli. Some couples have the trope played straight, some have the partner change but moreso after the couple has broken up, and some avert it ''[[DomesticAbuse hard]]''.

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* A common plot to most stories on Website/{{Wattpad}} follow a girl who [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys falls in love with a bad boy]]. The boy is usually manipulative, abusive, and has anger issues, but the protagonist will always be there to defend him and say that she knows that there is good in him somewhere. Results of her efforts vary from story to story.

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* A common plot to most stories on Website/{{Wattpad}} Platform/{{Wattpad}} follow a girl who [[AllGirlsWantBadBoys falls in love with a bad boy]]. The boy is usually manipulative, abusive, and has anger issues, but the protagonist will always be there to defend him and say that she knows that there is good in him somewhere. Results of her efforts vary from story to story.
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* Parodied in the "I can fix him/her" meme

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* Parodied in the [[https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/i-can-fix-him-i-can-fix-her "I can fix him/her" memememe]], implying that people smitten for psychopathic or abusive characters believe in this trope. Sometimes it gets inverted into "I can make him/her worse", for those who enjoy a BrokenBird.

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* Aredhel seems to believe this in ''Literature/TheSilmarillion''. Her {{Jerkass}} husband Eöl proves her tragically wrong [[spoiler: by attempting to kill their son Maeglin, and hitting her instead]]. Maeglin also turns out to be a {{Jerkass}}. Should have listened to her brother Turgon.



* In ''Literature/UglyLove'', Tate secretly hopes that if she's patient and persistent enough, she can get Miles to open up emotionally and treat her as more than just a booty call, despite Miles insisting that he can't and won't give her anything more. [[spoiler:In the end this pays off, as Miles finally opens up to Tate about his tragic past and tells her he wants a real relationship]].
* ''Literature/TheVillainessLivesAgain'': Though Tia blames herself constantly for Lisia's death by forcing her to marry [[TheCaligula Laurence]], Lisia actually wasn't really against it. Not only did she love him, she thought she could be a good influence on him, a thought process that carries over into the second timeline. [[spoiler:But after she gives him a last chance of running away together, she eventually ends up killing him when it becomes clear that he will never change, even if he does love her.]]



* Aredhel seems to believe this in ''Literature/TheSilmarillion''. Her {{Jerkass}} husband Eöl proves her tragically wrong [[spoiler: by attempting to kill their son Maeglin, and hitting her instead]]. Maeglin also turns out to be a {{Jerkass}}. Should have listened to her brother Turgon.
* ''Literature/TheVillainessLivesAgain'': Though Tia blames herself constantly for Lisia's death by forcing her to marry [[TheCaligula Laurence]], Lisia actually wasn't really against it. Not only did she love him, she thought she could be a good influence on him, a thought process that carries over into the second timeline. [[spoiler:But after she gives him a last chance of running away together, she eventually ends up killing him when it becomes clear that he will never change, even if he does love her.]]
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* ''Literature/TheVillainessLivesAgain'': Though Tia blames herself constantly for Lisia's death by forcing her to marry [[TheCaligula Laurence]], Lisia actually wasn't really against it. Not only did she love him, she thought she could be a good influence on him, a thought process that carries over into the second timeline. [[spoiler:But after she gives him a last chance of running away together, she eventually ends up killing him when it becomes clear that he will never change, even if he does love her.]]

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